Ok guys so I've been doing all I can to be the man and done tons of reading and have been having some mild success with my new red pill attitude on life.

But this is a first for me and I don't exactly know what to do. I work for a car auction company as a courier and drive in hour in every direction from my place of business, I go to alot of offices that are filled with nothing but women (go figure) Any ways there is this one really good looking woman (8/9 out of 10) that I have been slightly flirting with (haven't really had interest but just practice) who's coworker pulled the whole "do you have a girlfriend question". I know who is really asking and I would definitely take her out but I have two problems.

  1. She lives about 40mins to an hour away. I don't want anything but to have some fun with this chick (you know what I mean) but does it look a bit desperate to bring her to my side of the metroplex? I have some plans saturday night that I would like her to join but I'm asking you opinion on this from the outside. Does this, in her view, come off as desperate?

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  1. MAJOR problem, I got laid off my good job back in August and am now living with a relative, I'll be back on my own around june but as of now I don't have a place to confidently take her back to.

Sorry if this doesn't make much sense I'm just trying to figure out the best way to go about this. Or if I should even do so at all.