I am new to theredpill and found it this summer after this sorority girl became my first girlfriend and broke up with me after a month. I started acting beta, sending long messages and chasing her which made her lose attraction. It ended on pretty ok terms but I blocked her on everything just to move on.

I’m trying to become more social and become a better person so I’ve been looking into joining a frat. I got invited to a frat by someone I met. Thing is she has some friends in it. I’ve since read the sidebar and realized I don’t want anything to do with a ltr.

I’m probably going to go regardless just to check it out but if I see her is it best to just say hi, act friendly but kind of ignore her? I just don’t want to come off as cold because she definitely has some leverage on me. I guess I don’t really care what they or she thinks so I’ll just try to maintain frame and if things go sour I’ll dip.