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Jealousy. Misery loves company. It's the same mindset that causes many bluepilled people to lash out at someone who has been redpilled. You often see the same anger and resentment and trying to pull you back into their bluepilled misery. Subconsciously they know they don't have the fortitude to do it themselves, but they wish they could.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:16 PM
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I think you need to do more sidebar reading. You're conflating shyness and disinterest. Even very shy girls will still show IOIs and will show they're open without being overt. Closed off body language and a lack of any action is an indicator of disinterest and not shyness. She wasn't interested. She was there and wanted a beer and hoped you would be entertaining, but she decided in the first 30 seconds she wasn't interested.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:45 AM
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I doubt there was anything you did. If she was that closed off right away, she probably just wasn't that into you. You can do everything right and a girl still won't be interested. Remember, they are so fickle that the salad they had for lunch wasn't that great, so now they won't like you. In this instance, you really have nothing to go on. She displayed ZERO IOIs. Just move on.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:18 PM
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Embrace the IDGAF. Ignoring her will make you look butt hurt. Let her know that you made other plans and you can reschedule at another time. Your frame needs to be that it's totally cool that she cancelled, and you went ahead and made other plans because you have options. She doesn't need to know that you went to see your parents. You can see her at another time that is convenient for you. You want to make her hamster spin that you're banging 3 other girls who might be hotter than her, all becau…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:51 PM
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So, you started seeing one girl, apparently only one girl, not exclusively, and now she's not exclusive... You're doing it wrong... Plates means multiple plates. You should causally be seeing a few girls at a time... Plates will break, it happens. Now you have a mild case of oneitis because you weren't looking for more plates. Oneitis is a very dangerous thing. You probably need to next her. To avoid this in the future, you need to be looking for multiple plates and start spinning them. They wil…
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:11 PM
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Holy shit, where the fuck did all these blue pilled betas come from trying to give advice about marriage and settling down? OP, you need to do some reading. Start with No More Mr Nice Guy, the Book of Pook, and Sex God Method. Then read the rest of the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:05 PM
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25 is definitely young. You barely know what you're doing. You're in an ideal time to go out and slay tons of pussy. You have plenty of time. 20 something women bang just as many 40 something men as 20 something men. I get MORE pussy in my 40s.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:02 PM
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Congrats! You're free! Seriously, you're WAY too young to be locked down. She was NOT "the one." There is no "the one." 4 billion women on this planet and you think there is ONE woman that's right for you? Get that out of your head. You also need to drop the blue pill perceptions that you need to settle down with one woman. Read the sidebar. Also read the Book of Pook. Start lifting and reading the sidebar. This is an opportunity to change your life and become a real man. Take advantage of it. A…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 03:36 PM
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If sex is already agreed upon, then why are you worrying about building comfort, rapport, escalating, etc? That's mostly to get past ASD. There was one plate that I went to meet for the first time, and my cock was in her mouth in less than 2 minutes of walking in the door. If she's there to fuck, then fuck her. I hope you've read Sex God Method.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 02:39 PM
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Virtue signaling liberal, or guy pulling lots of hoes. Pick one.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 08:46 PM
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Don't try to set anything up with her. You can say thank you. Setting anything up with her ahead of time shows a scarcity mentality. If you're going back to hang out with other college friends, there should be plenty of pussy there. Your abundance mentality should tell you that there will be plenty of other girls you can bang while you're there. If you happen to run into her and she's down, then smash. I wouldn't put any more time or effort into her than that.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 08:43 PM
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at least once a month week. FTFY
/r/askTRP09/09/20 03:06 PM
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You haven't met, then you aren't real to her. This is a pretty universal truth that isn't repeated often enough. You don't become a real person to a woman until you meet in person. Before that, you're just some non-real entity that gives her attention. Girls like this also always have 3-5 guys they're talking to at the same time. You're just one of the group. Either meet her or next her. Anything else is just giving her attention and validation.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 03:03 PM
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She wasn't nearly as great as you think she was. She's a slut, she fucked WAY more guys before you met than you think, and has fucked a TON since. If she bailed as soon as you started to act beta, she had other guys waiting in the wings. She probably even fucked other guys while you were together. In your mind, you've built her up as a unicorn, but that's not reality. AWALT. Remember that.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:52 PM
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There is no such thing as having female friends when you're a guy, especially a young guy in college. WAY before I was redpilled, I was very similar. Tried to be the nice guy, tried to have female friends. It never worked. When you're in your 20s, you aren't friends with a female, you're an orbiter. That's all. This is a pretty fundamental concept that pretty much always turns out to be true. You probably have oneitis and don't realize it. Go find some girls to fuck and you'll forget all about t…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:41 PM
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I think you've figured out that you were a chump and got played. Your lack of frame let these girls know they could do this and you would oblige. Work on your frame and some of this will go away. You might still have girls try it later. If a girl had the nerve to ask me to buy her a drink, and she hasn't already been sucking my dick, my response would probably be something like, "What's in it for me?" That will fend off most of the girls that think they can just get a free drink, and further est…
/r/askTRP06/09/20 06:04 PM
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Um, have you read ANY of the sidebar? If you're sitting back waiting for girls to approach you, you're doing it wrong and you'll only get the fat, desperate ones. You need to be a man, initiate things, and approach women. Read the sidebar. If you think you have already read it, you haven't. You seem to lack frame and you lack game. Shorter, confident alphas pull tall hot women all the time.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 08:19 PM
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It may not be the condoms, it may be psychological. Several years ago I was banging this SMOKING HOT redhead (I have a thing for redheads) The first time we had sex, we were fooling around, she gave amazing head. The second the condom went on, flop. Got it going again, another condom, flop. That time she blew me until I finished. The next time wasn't as bad and we fucked. After that, it didn't matter at all when the condom went on, I was as hard as trigonometry. It ended up being subconscious th…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 11:27 PM
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Approaching out of oneitis is a recipe for disaster. Approach other women. LOTS of other women. Then you'll be able to approach this girl like she's just another girl and won't overthink it.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:36 PM
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$10 says she has sucked that guy's dick at least once and has probably let him finger her. Why are you in a relationship with a girl that regularly hangs out with people who get her drunk and high and puts her in questionable situations? Hard next, don't be so beta.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:20 PM
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This. u/czzcczzc OP doesn't appear high enough value to garner the interests of slutty girls who get dick all the time. The low count girls probably think they aren't very attractive, so they see OP as low enough SMV to be an option. OP probably has weak frame, scarcity mentality, and lack of sexual confidence. If he had strong frame, abundance mentality, and walked around like a sex god, the slutty girls would have his cock in their mouths in the first 20 minutes of the date.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:16 PM
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The response was a bit much. So, yeah, you fucked up. You most likely activated her ASD. You had already stopped going clubbing with her when she stopped fucking. She already KNOWS that's why you stopped going clubbing with her. She reached out again to go clubbing. The subtle implication there was that she's ready to fuck again. You should have gone clubbing and given her one more chance to fuck after. If you were also seen approaching other girls while clubbing, this would have made it even mo…
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:52 PM
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You need to go to the married red pill sub. Women are the same, but how you play the game is a little different. It's essentially hard mode. You will have more reading to do.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:43 PM
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sigh Oh grasshopper, you have much to learn. Read the sidebar, and the Book of Pook. This is almost textbook. She sees you as someone she wants to fuck. So, go fuck her. She sees all her make orbiters as friends. In a woman's mind, friends aren't men who can fuck them. Even if their friends are male, they don't distinguish between make friends and female friends. Friends don't fuck. This is an over simplified explanation and there are exceptions, but for your purposes, and your lack of reading, …
/r/askTRP20/01/20 04:10 PM
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by age 26, she's been with a dozen hundred or two guys. FTFY
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:57 PM
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If you think this backfired, or are worrying if it's recoverable, you're in her frame, not the other way around. If you don't want to go out, don't go out. As was pointed out, your comment about persistence and being hella attractive was the only real negative. She said she's surprised because she's used to betas chasing her for a hint of pussy. Don't chase pussy. Pussy comes to you. She probably wants to fuck you more now, even if she won't admit it. You do need to fix your frame, or the next s…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 07:51 PM
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CRAZY. AS. FUCK. Ghost, hard next, etc.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:21 PM
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Did you stumble into the wrong sub? This sounds like beta relationship advice material. Why do you give a fuck? She cheated, so fucking what? With this kind of attitude, it probably won't be the last time. Move on. Read the entire sidebar, twice. Internalize it. Become a man that girls don't want to cheat on.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 06:12 PM
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This does happen. I exchanged texts with this one girl and then silence. It was only a couple messages though, so no biggie. A couple months later she texts me in the morning. We fucked that day.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:04 PM
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You were fine right up until you deleted her from Facebook. That shows her you were butthurt about being stood up, even if you weren't. This isn't a relationship that necessitates a hard next. She's barely a plate since you fucked once. You need to show amused mastery and IDGAF. It's probably too late for this one, since no matter what you say or do, she will only perceive that she made you butthurt because she flaked on you. Her hamster will make this your fault and your value is lowered. There…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:01 PM
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Tons of great replies already. To add, you need to do more sidebar reading, and the book of pook. You don't fully grasp SMV as it applies to men yet. You're also too hung up on other guys supposedly being more attractive than you. That needs to go. If you see yourself as the sexiest, manliest, most badass alpha in the room; women will start to see you that way too. Your frame is CRITICAL to this, so more reading on that too. This girl is likely shit testing you because you aren't taking her shit…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 11:18 PM
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People who get worried about eating a girl out turning them into betas have weak frame. I like eating pussy, I'm fucking fantastic at it. When I eat pussy, I'm OWNING that pussy. There's nothing submissive about it, I'm controlling that girl and her pussy. It's one of the weapons in the arsenal of a sexual warlord. I've had the most aggressive, self confident women become submissive pussycats after I've eaten them out and fucked them. It's just like anything else. If you THINK it makes you submi…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:52 PM
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So... fuck her. In the good way. She broke up with him because she really wants to fuck you. What are you waiting for? Personally, I probably would have fucked her before they broke up, but definitely fuck her now. Don't get into a relationship with her though. Fuck her often and fuck other girls.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 04:25 PM
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I don't see the problem here. Other than you are developing oneitis for this girl and don't recognize you have an ideal plate situation here. Add more plates. Read more sidebar. Read the Book of Pook. You like her and think about a relationship because your brain is tricking you because you're getting pussy. Get some other pussy and read more.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 03:09 PM
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Have you actually MET any hot girls? Actually had conversations with them? Most of them are generally insufferable because they've had everything handed to them all their lives with zero effort. That type of hot girl usually gets annoying REALLY fast, especially after fucking her.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:30 PM
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Trans anything generally means mentally ill. Fuck all the PC bullshit about trans this and trans that. If they have a dick, they're a guy. If they had their dick chopped off, they're a guy who had their dick chopped off and had a permanent wound created to attempt to resemble a vagina. Why would you want to waste ANY time with that kind of crazy? If you want to fuck another guy, go fuck another guy. Don't delude yourself with PC bullshit that a "trans girl" is anything but a guy who is severely …
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:20 PM
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So, where's the problem now? You feel bad? Why? Because you banged a girl before your current LTR? Why should anyone give a single flying fuck? It sure seems like you haven't read ANYTHING related to redpill and everything you posted here is entirely based in a blue pill world view. You lack anything resembling frame or an IDGAF mindset. Hell, you should be banging these other two girls on the side and could probably get a threesome out of it. Instead, you're clinging to conventional blue pill r…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:16 PM
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So, not a guy. A girl that has a mental illness and wants to be a guy. Despite all the politically correct bullshit lately, that still doesn't make her a guy. If she wants to get fucked in her pussy, fuck her.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:15 PM
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Sidebar. Specifically about how women actually are and how they think. Understand how the hamster works. Much of her behavior you're still looking at through the lens of how a guy thinks. Two texts or ten doesn't really matter. You said they were just innocuous and congratulatory anyway. You were hung up on catching her in a lie so you pushed her into it. I'm not saying you were wrong or she was wrong. You need to read more about how women work though. There are hills to die on and hills not to …
/r/askTRP01/11/19 03:07 PM
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You already fucked up by letting her manipulate you into taking her back last time because pussy. That is a HUGE failure. I can't emphasize that enough. You started out holding to what you said, but then caved and gave her a pass. You essentially told her, she can do what she wants, and ignore what you say, because you'll give in because she has a vagina. There's no recovering from that. You HAVE TO hard next her as soon as you get your car back. There's no going back. Even fucking her one last …
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:29 PM
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Hard next. Anything else smells of oneitis or scarcity mentality. LTRs can only sometimes be successfully demoted to plate, let alone LTRs with this many red flags that shouldn't have been an LTR in the first place. You fucked up. Fix the problem and move on. Literally billions more women in the world.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:11 PM
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OUTCOME. INDEPENDENCE. Read more of the sidebar on outcome independence. Do what you do without expecting one outcome or another. You do it because you're you and you want to. At least, that's the mindset. We do the things we do because they work. They won't work 100%, some women just won't be interested. That's why outcome independence is important. You keep doing what works best. If you start second guessing yourself, you will lose frame and confidence, and nothing will work. Work on frame and…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:08 PM
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False premise. The goal is not to get a girlfriend. LTRs should only happen eventually after many MANY months of vetting and qualifying a potential candidate. A relationship should be considered a potential outcome if the right girl comes along and she meets your standards. The standard mindset should be to fuck girls, and MAYBE if a unicorn comes along, consider a relationship eventually. Betas get girlfriends because women want to lock them down and use them for resources and attention. You do…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:40 PM
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Fucking WELL DONE! If after all the previous ghosting and leaving her hanging and she STILL tried to keep you as a backup plan, then she never was sufficiently interested. She just wanted to keep you on the hook for attention and an orbiter. She's done. I wouldn't bother to reply to her anymore. I wouldn't block her because I'm sure her texts seeking attention will be entertaining, but she's not worth investing any time or energy into.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:34 PM
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This is oneitis. You want to keep THIS girl around to LTR later. There are always more women. There is no ONE woman that is perfect, better than the 4ish billion other women in the world, etc. While you probably could keep her as a plate with the right frame, for your own sake, you really shouldn't. The oneitis you have for her will make you give up your own goals in pursuit of the BP fantasy.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 06:40 PM
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Do some serious reading on the married red pill sub. Start prepping for divorce. There's a guide there for what to do, but in essence, start stashing money away and getting everything in order, but most importantly, keep a poker face with her. Don't let her get any hint that you might be doing anything to actually plan for it. Make her think you're trying to work things out, etc. You should probably step down some of the fighting. STFU is going to be your friend.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:19 PM
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You tried to white knight a girl that had been blowing you off all night? Have you read ANY of the sidebar?
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:29 PM
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No you didn't. It sounds like it took her blowing you off many many times before you got the hint. When she wasn't talking to you and was walking away from you, that should have been your clue to eject. You kept chasing after her like a thirsty beta. You essentially had to be beaten over the head with the fact that she played you.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:28 PM
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I completely agree. The only guys that are responding positively to a pic of a girl with a guy, are the betas that think they can get in there if they act like they aren't threatened by another guy, or want to be their friends, or some beta feminist logic like that. In the end, they're all just orbiters.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:34 PM
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Some say it would have been ok to go over and fuck her. That's probably true. I also think you did nothing wrong by not going. Here's why. You asked her to your place, she said no. She then wanted you to go over to her place. She was trying to control the situation, or her ASD kicked in and she didn't want to be seen going to your place to fuck. I think you're still ok to smash. You just need to hold frame and be the man in charge. Tell her something you are going to do where she can join you...…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 06:21 PM
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Are you seriously worrying about a couple DAYS? I've had a girl text me after a couple MONTHS and we fucked later that day. Abundance mentality means you don't give a fuck if a girl ghosts you for a couple days or a couple months. There's always more. Keep going after more and if a girl comes back after a couple days, then cool. If not, fuck another girl.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:23 PM
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I don't know why you care. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Tomorrow will be Chad's turn. Thursday might be your turn again. This kind of jealousy is often borne out of insecurity. You haven't internalized your frame. I don't care if a plate is getting fucked by another guy on occasion. I'm better and I probably have a bigger dick. If she's also fucking another guy, then she won't be texting me wanting to fuck EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. I can get some other shit done, or bang one of my other plate…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:18 PM
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Have a threesome with the LTR and her newly single friend. Then eject and move on.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:40 PM
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You seriously need to find another job. No good will come of staying. If they've been complaining about you, and they talk about toxic masculinity, and anti-Trump rhetoric, it's only a matter of time before they make a sexual harassment accusation about you because you accidentally brushed past one of them and touched an arm. You need to get out while it's on your terms and you can likely still get a good reference from the VP. You don't want to wait until you get fired and prospective employers…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:17 PM
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You need to remember to separate out logical reasoning when looking at behaviors of women. It's not that she consciously liked or disliked the wishy washy, but her subconscious made her see you as weak and beta when you didn't make a decision and hold to it. It also let her see an opportunity to control something as a form of shit test. Remember, women are impulsive and emotional. That's what drives their decisions. Yo can't always find a logical explanation for her behavior, but when you unders…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:02 PM
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It looks to me like you let her start controlling your plans. You were wishy washy about Saturday and then gave her the option for Friday. That opened the door for her to think she can then decide which day would be better for HER. You gave up control. Now she ghosted you because you gave her the control to do so. When you make plans, YOU. MAKE. PLANS. No one else gets to change them for you. You're the alpha and you decide what you do, when you do it, and who you do it with. When you make plans…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 10:13 PM
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This is going to sound easier said than done. When you remove emotion from it, you can make it work. For anyone who has ever been a school teacher, this is largely second nature. You set clear expectations for what is acceptable and unacceptable and you do not waver when she fucks up. When you have to talk to her about it, you focus on the behavior that was unacceptable. Don't make it about her being inconsiderate, or selfish, or that kind of stuff. It's about her behavior was unacceptable and s…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 10:01 PM
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The fundamental human truths that we are trying to understand (and utilize) here aren't affected by changing social dynamics, because they are innate to humanity. They haven't changed in millennia, nor will they in millennia to come. This is what I saw as the fundamental flaw in OPs premise. He bought into the bullshit feminist ideas that everything always changes, evolving social norms, female empowerment, etc. At its core, TRP reveals that basic human nature doesn't change and what attracted f…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 09:45 PM
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It seems like you can't rely on democracy to fix the situation in this world that has turned upside down Democracy is two wolves and a sheep voting on what to have for dinner.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:55 PM
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No, don't do that. Treat her like a child. Amused mastery. You really need to hold frame when she starts shit. Trying to have a rational discussion will only bring you down to her level and into her frame. You need to keep yourself above her bullshit. Just employ the usual shit test strategies, especially ignoring her. She will get more pissed and act out more, and everyone, including her bf, will likely see how much of a bitch she is. If you react to her bullshit, you will just look like a bitc…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:33 PM
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Nearly every HR department in the county is run by women. HR is AWALT with corporate backing. HR is for women to make sexual harassment complaints about ugly betas who had the nerve to say hi to them, and to gossip about everyone else. It's all the feminist bullshit women do hidden in corporate policy. No good can ever come of it. Find another job. You screwed the pooch on this one. You're a man, don't complain to HR. The only thing you could have done about the dude that wouldn't let up is to i…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:49 AM
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Sounds like she gave you a top tier shit test. She may or may not be a lesbian. Just like any girl who says she has a boyfriend may or may not actually have one. Either way, she fucked up your frame. Get your shit together. Who gives a shit if she wants to call herself a lesbian? That doesn't mean she won't let you fuck her. Rules are for betas, exceptions are for alphas.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:41 AM
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Alphas fuck. If you pussy out on closing the deal after getting head, you're a beta. If you want women to keep coming back for more, you have to ACTUALLY BE alpha, not just try a few techniques. She's more likely to want to see you again if you take charge and fuck her brains out on the first date. The entire concept of "moving too fast" is blue pill bullshit and encourages ASD. Holding back only makes you look like a beta and dries her vagina up like the Sahara. Girls don't want a second date w…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:36 AM
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Married red pill sub has divorce prep guides in the sidebar. Read them. Read them again. Find a divorce lawyer. Start stashing money and assets. If you have joint bank accounts, get a separate one and start moving your regular pay there. You'll likely have to declare income, assets, etc. so the separate bank account is so she can't take your money at the worst possible time. Money for divorce lawyers, other "off the books" stuff should be stashed cash. Now the hard part. It's in your best intere…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 11:50 PM
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but we took it slow. Only betas say this. There is no taking it slow for an alpha. If she was there, she was ready to fuck. You didn't escalate to fucking, so now she sees you as chicken shit.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 08:06 PM
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People change the way they are all the time. It's called growing and maturing. If you want to justify your beta behaviors by hiding behind the bullshit excuse that people can't change, go right ahead. Just don't ask for advice you don't want to take, or think you're not being a beta bitch with oneitis.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:52 PM
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every woman I encounter does not want to "just have sex" Women lie. Many do want just sex, but their ASD won't let them admit it. It's still one of the most common shit tests.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 02:20 PM
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You need to work on you. Get your own shit together and people will want to be around you. Being social in college means fuck all in the grand scheme of things. Fix your shit, lift, read, read, read the sidebar again. Most often the biggest reason conversations fizzle out is you overthink it. You're too worried about what other people think if you talk about X or Y. Be an alpha, initiate and lead conversations to what YOU want to talk about. It's less about the exact topic and more about being c…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:27 PM
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Who cares what you found online? Women lie in person, why do you think they don't lie online? Plus, have you read ANYTHING about shit tests? They're not just verbal and in person, and one of the most common ones is the boyfriend. She may or may not ACTUALLY have a boyfriend, and why do you care either way? If she wants to fuck, then fuck her.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:15 PM
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What's the point of this? Who gives a fuck if a guy wants to waste money at a club on girls or guys? If you're throwing money around, then the girls that will give you attention are the girls just partying on your dime who probably won't actually fuck you. A real alpha doesn't need to throw money around like that to get women. Also, don't pay for guys OR GIRLS at a club.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:08 PM
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He's probably more alpha than you. There's more to alpha and SMV than looks.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:04 PM
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Dude, you have a gift. This should be easy mode for you. If you aren't already lifting, start, like, yesterday. Read the SHIT out of the sidebar. Once you improve your confidence and frame, and some lifting, girls will be throwing themselves at you. Then it's just a matter of constantly applying the principles to keep getting in their pants. By your senior year, you should be swimming in pussy.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 06:18 PM
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Crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentations of the women.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 06:10 PM
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So, let me get this straight... a girl you've never actually met moved away and might come back in a month or two... (Note that September starts next week, so Sept or Oct timeframe is suspiciously vague for how soon that is) You want to bang this girl when she gets back. But wait, there more... you claimed to have read the sidebar? I think you need to read it again. The ONLY thing you should say to this girl, if you haven't already is, "let me know when you're back in town." That's IT. Then, go …
/r/askTRP28/08/19 06:04 PM
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You should be concerned with approaching any or all girls you want to approach. Focusing on one is a recipe for disaster and oneitis. In general, you need to be approaching girls regularly. In the case of a pseudo famous girl who gets LOTS of attention, that's hard mode and you need to have strong AF frame, be a master at beating shit tests, and have your IDGAF down pat. You need to neg HARD on that type of girl and essentially treat her like she's not all that. If you aren't totally on point, y…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 05:48 PM
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I’m just taking it slow Total beta statement. Betas take it slow. Alphas fuck. If you're an alpha and you want to fuck a girl, you make it happen. Get her interest, then either get an insta date or her number. Read more sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 05:35 PM
4

She'll flake. She was trying to eject because you dragged it on too long. Your time is valuable. Since you stuck around and talked to her for half an hour, you made her more important than your own shit. That's beta. You may have started out giving her the tingles, but you ended up drying her vagina out like the Sahara.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 05:31 PM
2

Dude, basic stuff. Amused mastery, strong frame, IDGAF. It sounds like you don't have frame or confidence yet. You need that. You also REALLY need to read up on shit tests. Frat guys WILL shit test you and you need to be prepared to recognize them and respond. You might fail miserably if you can't hold frame.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 05:26 PM
3

It just seems like now a days more than ever, we have to put out extra miles for women, with little to no pay off in return. Betas do, alphas, not as much. With frame, a little game, being prepared for shit tests, and internalizing alpha, pussy becomes much easier. The anger phase is fairly common. I don't have specific advice for working through it, because I had already seen the cognitive dissonance, hypocrisy, and double standards in society and gone through the anger before fully embracing T…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 05:18 PM
6

she rejected me for being a player. No, she shit tested you, and you failed.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 04:34 PM
1

"im not that easy". Whatever, next... You nexted after the first, and most common, shit test? What she really said was, "I'll fuck you, but you need to lower my ASD first." If you had read more on shit tests, and held frame, you would have fucked her at the first event.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 04:32 PM
1

Me - my phone is glitchy as fuck, I can’t see your number First mistake. You asked for her number, STFU. Asking again appeared desperate. Her - you’ll get it tomorrow chill (shit test?) Basic shit test you failed miserably. She wanted to make you work for it. This could go a couple different ways. "Maybe I won't want it tomorrow" Not totally sure about this one, but it might keep the conversation going in a different direction. "Cool, later." And move on would put her on the hunt to chase you an…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:17 PM
3

Not oneitis! Goes on to describe all the symptoms of oneitis. Hamsters how to justify oneitis but refuses to admit it's oneitis. You think she's LTR material but I'm sure you don't know her NEARLY well enough to come close to making that determination. A 1 hour plane flight? Even here you're trying to justify it. That's like a 6 hour drive as a rough estimate. You're trying to imply you fell in love and using that to justify it too. It also doesn't sound like you really internalized abundance me…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:53 PM
1

I know she's out of my league and her bf is a stud,compared to me... If you think she's out of your league, then you put her out of your league. You lack confidence. Dollars to donuts her bf is just riding the genetic lottery and has no game. Game can overpower simple looks.
/r/seduction16/08/19 04:48 PM
2

break her self esteem before breaking up This won't happen. You said she's a narcissist, do you really understand narcissism? Because if you did, you would know that your letter wouldn't phase her in the slightest. It would do the opposite of what you intend. It will make her happy and she will enjoy that she made you into a whiny bitch and she will be glad to be rid of your lame ass. (Her hamster will make you become a pathetic loser in her mind) You will not be able to make her feel bad about …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:33 PM
8

So she can remember which one of the 12 guys she's talking to right now you are.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:19 PM
9

For now, nothing. There's nothing for you to stick your nose in yet. If her dad is going through her phone, that's between them. If her dad confronts you, then you handle it accordingly. Don't escalate, but don't cower or back down either. You aren't doing anything wrong. If he doesn't like it, that's his problem. If he beats your ass, then he goes to jail. You also want to be VERY careful about not getting in the middle of their relationship. You aren't a white knight. Don't believe everything …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:38 PM
1

Agreeing to overtime isn't in and of itself nice guy behavior. Do you actually get paid overtime? If so, more money is always good. Red pill is also about taking care of your shit. A man takes ownership of his shit and gets things done. Having said that, you also need to watch out for people trying to set you up to take the blame for something failing. Office politics are quintessentially blue pill and feminist bullshit. You need to watch that you don't step in it.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:27 PM
2

That assumes, 1. she's actually pregnant and not lying. 2. Someone else wasn't fucking her raw dog on the regular and actually got her pregnant before your friend shot his load into her.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:58 PM
1

A couple things here. First, why an LTR? Did you thoroughly qualify her before promoting her from plate, then to FWB, and THEN to LTR? If you got in to an LTR because she let you fuck her, that's not the best basis to jump into a relationship. I ask because it sounds like you got into a relationship because "that's what you do" without making sure this particular girl is up to the standards necessary to be an LTR. Next, it's most likely a shit test, but beyond that, remember that girls are bored…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 03:21 PM
6

Everything. I was essentially a beta nerd when I was 18. In hindsight I recognize some of the alpha behaviors I did and the hot women that were giving me some strong signals that I was too oblivious to recognize. SO much pussy being thrown at me but I was too oblivious to close the deal. With just some of the knowledge I have now, my younger self would have been a pussy SLAYER.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:41 PM
1

You need some sidebar reading. I suspect you're doing things that are sometimes alpha, sometimes beta. That's probably what's causing this back and forth. It seems to happen when guys have read a few things, but haven't really gotten it yet and slide back into blue pill behaviors at times. Read the sidebar. As I said, you're probably doing stuff to cause disinterest and then going back to doing things that attract them. You need to take a very close look into what you're doing with every interac…
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:40 PM
2

A couple things to navigate here. First, she sent you a big bullshit commitment text. That probably requires acting like it never happened. If you suddenly ghost her after the text, that could make it look like it bothered you. Granted, if you're ready to just next her now, that might be ok. The other thing to resolve is this whole spending the night after sex thing. You need to find a way to curb that. She's controlling your frame and controlling your most valuable resource, your time, for her …
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:20 PM
2

That suggests some oneitis for this girl. With her other issues, you may need to just next her sooner rather than later. Oneitis can make you do really stupid things.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:10 PM
1

It's a lengthy application and interview process. I'm still holding interviews.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:07 PM
9

Some of your issues stem from being young and not fully realizing that there are literally billions of women out there. You're ok with bad sex because she's hot. You're ok with infrequent sex because she's hot. Bruh, there are VERY hot women out there that are incredible in the sack and will fuck you all day every day if given the opportunity. Don't settle. As for this girl, if she's not fucking you when you're together, than she's more than a plate. Sounds more like a FW (occasional) B. Time to…
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:04 PM
2

By "equality" they usually mean "special treatment" Women don't truly want to be equal. They just want the rewards of hard work without doing the work themselves. They want equal rewards, not equal opportunity.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 04:01 PM
2

She only said this when she was pissed off and accidentally blurted it out. This makes ALL the difference. Remember the hamster. You could have been Don Fucking Juan when you plowed her, but when she's pissed at you, her hamster will rationalize that you must have been bad. Reality has absolutely ZERO relation to how women remember things later. You were probably fine. Don't put any stock into what women say, ESPECIALLY when they're mad.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:24 PM
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Fast food builds character. You're being insecure. You're 17, it doesn't matter what job you have. As far as getting a different job, it really depends. IME, fast food is generally guaranteed to have all the hours you want. That's not often true in retail. Depending on where you live, lifeguard jobs will be gone in about a month. Retail will slow down also until Christmas shopping, so limited hours in retail if you're not a manager. Fast food never changes. There's always hours and they always n…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 08:35 PM
1

Seriously? After dinner you are just hanging out at her place until midnight? Unless you had dinner at like 10 pm, that's a long time to not be fucking her. She was obviously waiting for you to fuck her and you didn't close the deal soon enough. She probably got tired of waiting and wanted to use her vibrator before going to sleep if you weren't going to fuck her. Of course she talked to you the next day, she wants to keep you as an orbiter.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:55 PM
1

5 minutes late indicates low interest? Shit, it can take 5 minutes to find parking sometimes. I don't think you quite understand how any of this actually works. You're literally sitting back waiting for the women to do all the initiating and escalating. While a few women will do that, the vast majority are only waiting for you to escalate before they drop their panties. This alleged Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader was probably very DTF but you didn't attempt to escalate. You haven't closed the deal y…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:49 PM
2

What the actual fuck? You'd better be in high school or some shit. None of this drama matters in the real world.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:43 PM
1

Did you fuck her after that recent dinner? You said you were all over each other, but that part wasn't clear. If you didn't close the deal, that could turn her off. Having said that, she flakes on you because your SMV isn't high enough in her opinion. You're an orbiter she can use for validation when her ex is too busy fucking other girls to fuck her. Hit the gym. Hard. Raise your SMV and either this girl will take more interest or other girls will suddenly be all over you. Either way, it's a wi…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:01 PM
1

I disagree in that I think just the pick up tools are setting guys up for failure. An insecure beta trying to get laid isn't going to do well before internalizing frame and confidence. That comes more from RP theory. To really break down the BP conditioning so guys can be successful, they need to understand the basics first. Throwing out some strategies like eye contact, smiling, how to talk, and then just saying, "Go forth and pick up" isn't going to work out so well.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:30 PM
1

It sounds like you let a beta orbiter that pines for your gf to break your frame. Stoicism and amused mastery. Let him get all butthurt, you can be amused that you're fucking the girl he wishes he could. You don't need his permission or his approval. You do you.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:19 PM
1

Then aim to fuck her.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:15 PM
1

The Seddit sidebar covers game mostly. It talks about many of the specific tools to pick up. It talks about WHAT to do, but completely ignores the WHY it works. Because of that, Seddit and Ask Seddit are full of posts that make asktrp look like a bastion of intellectual discourse. They don't understand what they're doing wrong because they don't know WHY these strategies work in the first place. They just try to follow a script. Eventually, you need to improvise and to do that, you need to under…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:11 PM
7

Nothing good ever comes from talking to an ex again. Regardless of who did the breaking up, you broke up for a reason. Even considering an ex again belies a scarcity mentality. There's always new, more exciting women out there.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:35 PM
1

She tells me things are intense for her but would love to in a couple weeks. Wait 2 weeks and re-engage flirty fun texts. This was the shit test you already failed. You showed you'll wait for her and do things on her schedule, in her frame. Nothing you have done sets you apart as an alpha, but only reinforces you as a beta orbiter. Women branch swing. If you want to catch a woman coming out of a relationship, you do it before the relationship is over. Or, who cares if a girl has a boyfriend. Rul…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 02:13 PM
0

Dude... Sidebar. Your entire mindset is still in BP world. You don't need a plate's permission to fuck her friend. Just fuck her friend. Plates spin, eventually plates break. There's always more pussy out there. Next time you see hot friend, ask her for her number. You should be able to gauge if she's DTF or not. Women would rather share an alpha than solely have a beta. Be an alpha. If Chad wants to fuck both girls, he tries to fuck both girls. Who cares if they talk and it works out or not. Ou…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:32 PM
7

I don't want a threesome necessarily Said no real man EVER.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 09:29 PM
3

Get friend's number. Bang. There is no 3. Why would you "switch" to the new one? Why not keep both around? That's literally the entire point of plates. If the new one is down, she will obviously know that you've been fucking her friend, so no surprise there. The first one may or may not find out, but who cares? Bang both.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 09:29 PM
10

Just like everything else women do, validation seeking.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 09:26 PM
2

sigh Bro... You have two options. Validate her BS and be chasing her as a beta, or be an alpha, DGAF, and soft next her and let her come crawling back for the Vitamin D. I also don't think hitting her up again will work. After a week it may just come across as thirsty and kinda looks like a scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 06:28 PM
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Don't put your dick in crazy. This girl sounds like a special kind of crazy.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:31 PM
4

You should be planning on, and working toward, plating multiple girls. That's what plates are. You spin multiples. This girl seems like she was more of an FWB. Personally, I don't do the just friends thing with girls I've ever fucked. It's too much like being an orbiter and it's never worked for me. Your proposed response sounds like you're giving too many fucks. If you really think you need to respond, it needs to have more IDGAF. You said you want to be friends, but she said acquaintances. Say…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:25 PM
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I assume you're not planning on responding. Soft next, find more pussy. This one might be back for more dick. it might also be a shit test. Just remember to hold frame, no response is necessary.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:04 PM
1

Can you switch to one of the other teams? Asking for that may shed light on your current team's lack of performance. Being the snitch rarely works out. Leaving enough breadcrumbs so other people realize what is going on can work much better.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:40 PM
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Dude, you need to read the sidebar. Read it again. Why would you want a relationship? Especially with the first girl you've seen in ages? You need to get a few plates, spin them, maybe promote one or two to fwb, spin more plates, etc. Maybe, MAYBE, eventually, after qualifying the hell out of one, consider a promotion to gf. That's way down the road though. You shouldn't be looking for a relationship. You should be looking to get laid. You need to kill your oneitis tendencies. As for this one, i…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:32 PM
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If she doesn't have your back, why is she your girlfriend? She won't help you as much as possible when she has information that would help you? You need to dump her. Start spinning plates, maybe a couple FWBs, and don't promote any of them to girlfriend until/unless they earn it.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:01 AM
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You cannot fix her or even really help her. You cannot fix her relationship with her mother. I cannot emphasize this enough. The relationship with her mother will not change nor will it end. You do NOT want to get involved in that. You need to end it. She will only make your life miserable. There are MANY more stable women out there. Go find them.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:42 PM
2

Congrats! You're single! Universal advice after becoming single: LIFT and READ THE SIDEBAR. Work on you, go out, find some pussy, smash, repeat.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 09:29 PM
3

Martial arts isn't about being able to fight. It's about knowing you can so you don't have to fight. Having said that, you need to lift if you want to be attractive to women. If you REALLY can't do both, you should keep lifting 3x a week. If possible, find time to work in a martial arts class a week. That progress can be slower until you can free up more time. As long as it's not a money grabbing belt factory, like most TKD, it is a long journey anyway.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:48 PM
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I'm a PC guy and have had tons of problems with my PC and shit. HA HA HA! Kids like you crack me up. So, just because you managed to replace your video card doesn't mean you know shit. I don't really mean to shit on you, but you think you know what you're doing because you screwed around on a PC in a home environment. You need to recognize that you don't really know anything and be fully prepared to learn a lot. Be a sponge and learn all you can. Watch the movie Office Space and the British TV s…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:53 PM
3

First, the problem isn't buying her a gift, it's thinking you're obligated to go to her birthday party. Do you think Chad feels obligated to go to girl's birthday parties? No. Girls will keep on fucking him if he blows off their birthday parties. It seems like you THINK you have to go or you'll lose her. I'm guessing that's based on something she SAID. Ignore what she says and look at her actions. She's trying to nail you down into some kind of relationship. If you play into her games, that's wh…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:55 PM
1

Have you read ANYTHING on the sidebar? Of course the new girl would lose interest when you told her you were getting a divorce. That would be ridiculously obvious if you had done any reading. You were exciting, forbidden fruit. Now you're a clingy beta orbiter. Of course she found someone else. (That she already had, branch swinger) You REALLY need to lose the oneitis for that girl and stop crying over getting a divorce. If you didn't want a divorce, you wouldn't have told her about the affair. …
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:36 PM
6

Something isn't adding up here. Most people don't actually want a confrontation and it takes more than an unfriendly vibe to push someone to want to get physical (in the bad way) There must be something more to what you do and how you come across to push people to the point of wanting to fight. You might become a complete asshole when you drink and not realize it. Try going out and not drinking any alcohol and see if things go differently.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:59 PM
1

Buy Apple stock... When I was 21, Apple was barely staying afloat. Then the first ipod was released.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:24 PM
0

Female manager at my job is EXTREMELY fucking anal.. Phrasing... So, you're saying she likes it in the ass..
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:22 PM
2

You're probably screwed because you set up a meeting. Now you have to justify the reason for the meeting, and essentially telling on her just isn't going to get you anywhere. I've seen it in many places in different industries. When you have a site manager like that, the higher ups know that person sucks, but they don't care. Most of the time it's the higher up that's worse and they're just covering their own ass to collect a paycheck without doing any real work. As long as that manager isn't ca…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:17 PM
6

It's about power. The people easily manipulated by emotion are easily controlled. The media is all about emotional manipulation. Add to that, strong, masculine men represent power. Strong men can change the course of history and upset power structures. By demonizing and trying to eliminate masculine men altogether, there's less of a chance that strong men will remain to challenge those currently in power.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:17 PM
6

This girl likes to take things slow Rules are for betas, exceptions are for alphas.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:12 PM
1

If you think it matters, you have no frame. You're living in the girl's frame if her smoking makes you think you should smoke. Read the sidebar, work on your frame. If you have frame, it doesn't matter if everyone you know smokes like a chimney. You don't need to smoke unless YOU want to.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:01 PM
1

You can be the life of the party and not dance at all. You're the most interesting person in the room and anywhere is a great time when you're there. I think you need to read up more on frame and work on it. It's less about your actions and more about your confidence you project. An alpha with a rock solid frame can just stand in the middle of the dance floor and hold everyone's attention. Amused mastery and IDGAF are going to be the cornerstones of your mindset going in. It's easy to try and em…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:28 PM
2

You need to be the life of the party in your group. Be the social butterfly. Talk to everyone, especially outside the group you go with. You need to come across as the fun guy everyone wants to hang out with. Your IDGAF attitude needs to be especially present. You're there to have fun. Anything you think is fun you will do, with zero fucks given as to what anyone else thinks. Your mindset is that you are not going to the club to pick up women, you are going to have a good time. Women will flock …
/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:46 PM
1

It doesn't matter. What I mean by that is a relatively new relationship doesn't matter to becoming redpilled. Improve yourself, become the man you want to be. If the girl is on board, great. If not, plenty of others that will be. Your mission is becoming the best man you can be. Some women will recognize the change and adapt to it, others will only ever see the original beta.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 02:50 PM
1

If you want your own marketing business, you need marketing experience. You need to find a job that at least has SOME association with marketing. It may be something like a "jack of all trades" job for a smaller, local company. The job might start out as something like customer support and making Facebook posts. That would allow you to work with whoever is primarily in charge of marketing and learn and maybe move into a more marketing centered role. From there you should be able to get a total m…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 06:41 PM
7

The IDGAF attitude suggests that you did nothing wrong, there's nothing to apologize for. I have no idea why you would feel the slightest bit bad about ghosting a girl, they do it all the time. Amused mastery would be a good tool to use here. If she's not staring you down or making a big deal about it, then you don't need to. Be courteous if you end up in the same group. Essentially, act like nothing ever happened.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 06:17 PM
14

Start reading the sidebar. Start lifting.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 08:59 PM
5

Kissed another plate (still didn't fuck because I don't want yet) WTF. If you haven't fucked her, SHE'S NOT A PLATE. Dude, you just need to stop and start reading the sidebar like crazy. Then you need to read everything again. At this point, it looks like you're half assing everything because you don't quite get it.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 08:49 PM
2

She's not a plate. She's at least a FWB. You need to read the sidebar. You're probably confusing her because you do some alpha stuff and then go completely beta, back and forth. You're rationalizing believing her claims and accepting the story she told you about what she was doing. Here's a hint: If she puts that much effort into telling you a story to explain where she was, it's a lie. AWALT. She was seeing another guy because you went beta on her again. You should probably completely cut off a…
/r/askTRP14/07/19 08:41 PM
1

I feel sorry for the guy. I suspect he has some very alpha natural tendencies, but doesn't understand all of it. If you're going to do something, be damn good at it. If this dude would get really good at foreplay and fucking, he'd rule all the girls in those social circles. So close, yet so far away. Always be improving.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 07:41 PM
2

If one girl isn't attracted to you, move on. There are plenty more that will be. You're heading toward oneitis which can lead to scarcity mentality. Don't go down that road. There is ALWAYS more pussy to be had.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:34 PM
1

Get out of her frame. Why is she coming to see you? Are you sure she is going to fuck you? If she is going to fuck you, then what's the problem? If she's going to fuck Chad and not you, then she's wasting your time at minimum.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 03:54 AM
3

As someone with over 20 years in martial arts and carries a gun every day, WALK THE FUCK AWAY. As a red pilled man, you don't need to prove shit to anyone. Bar fights are for betas who can't deal with their beta nature and are foolishly trying to impress women. Alpha men don't need to prove they're alpha by fighting someone, they just ARE alpha. The moment the dude stepped in front of you to provoke you and it was obvious the gang was waiting for you to react, the ONLY response is to get the fuc…
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:06 PM
2

I won't try to rehash what others have said. In some ways, yes, your wife is shitty to you because you've let her get away with it in the past. Having said that, it is NEVER EVER okay to badmouth your kid's other parent to them. As far as the course of action, it really depends on the entire situation. Is she constantly berating you? Does she regularly badmouth you to your kid? Was this a one time thing because she was so pissed at you about something? All these factors will influence what the b…
/r/askTRP13/07/19 08:56 PM
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Yes. My first wife was a total narcissist. I was total blue pill then, so I didn't see ignored all the red flags and thought everything would be fine and it would all eventually work out, because isn't that what's supposed to happen? Much of what you described is just like her. Didn't work, wouldn't keep easy jobs, didn't get fired, just quit on a whim. The sabotage and slander also fits. You need to play it very cool and don't tip your hand. I would arrange to move while she's gone. Depending o…
/r/askTRP12/07/19 09:57 PM
11

It exposes the big lie that has been pushed on modern society. Disney, romantic movies, commercials, etc all support this false reality. The whole nice guy living happily ever after with the girl of his dreams. That false reality enables women to have all the power, ride the CC until the wall, then hook a BB provider to watch the kids while she goes and fucks Chad at the yoga studio. It exposes how women actually work and how men can use that knowledge to get what we want. It's really about pull…
/r/askTRP12/07/19 09:33 PM
-1

She was fucking another guy over the weekend. Now she wants to rope you in as an orbiter. She wants validation, but she's not going to fuck you.
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:55 PM
4

Rules are for betas. Exceptions are for alphas.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 03:49 PM
1

They know they're beta losers and they're trying to overcompensate by being aggressive. They don't know how to act truly alpha so they act aggressively. They're faced with their beta nature when confronted with an alpha and this can cause them to turn up the aggression. Case in point... This one beta loser was driving in a tiny, boring chevy car, it was so lame I don't even remember the model. He was going like 10MPH under the speed limit in the left lane. I tore around him and continued on to W…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:13 PM
3

You're already doing what you should be doing. Don't change it. Girls say shit. Remember, actions, not words. It's likely some of them want to pull you into a LtR or they want validation. If you are really giving them amazing dick, you don't need to pay them a second thought. You can fuck them, throw the condom on their faces, walk out and not say a word to them until you want to fuck them again, and they'll be back for more EVERY time.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 07:56 PM
2

Red flags that she's trying to trap you. Wanted to fuck raw first time. Supposedly got a birth control shot to coax you into raw. Even without the other weird shit, and btw sex in public is pretty fucking awesome, I'd be running away. You DO NOT want to let your guard down and suddenly oops, she's pregnant with some excuses that blah blah it didn't work, or blah blah she forgot to get a follow up shot, or any of a myriad of other hand waving to explain away how she managed to get pregnant.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 11:12 PM
29

Did you talk about fight club? Because you do not talk about fight club.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:16 PM
2

Dude. Abundance mentality. Move on. You'll find another girl to bang next time you're in that town. Don't settle for the first tinder smash you find there. There are other women. You may find one that is worthy of being a regular fuck buddy when you're in town, but don't try to make the first one into that. It's a form of oneitis. Next this one.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:43 PM
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Read the sidebar. AWALT. You're looking for a rational explanation to explain an emotional creature. They don't work like that. It's all about feelings. You really should next her. You've made PLENTY of attempts and she isn't interested. Any additional attempts at contact will look like desperation. If sh wanted your cock, she'd have responded instantly, or called you the moment she was off work. This behavior indicates she's at most seeking validation. She has no desire to fuck you.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:40 PM
1

It's more about what you tell her. Tell her you'll be in town anyway for [exciting sounding activity] and you'll probably stop by after. The important part is to make it clear to her that you're not driving up there just for another chance at her pussy, and you have other fun stuff planned. Since the soft nexting seems to have finally broken down her ASD, you don't want to be too committal in seeing her and staying overnight. When you finally show up after being non-committal, she'll probably be…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:09 PM
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Find something you want to do in that city near her hotel. Make it sound like you had been thinking about going to (city) to do [activity] for awhile and you were thinking of going while she happens to be there. The more exciting sounding the activity, the better. You aren't committing to drive for an hour just for a chance at her pussy again. You're going to do something else and if it's convenient for you, you'll stop by and fuck her brains out. I wouldn't commit to staying a night or two with…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 03:59 PM
1

I try to stay around 20g carbs per day and have lost almost 50 lbs in 6 months of keto.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 02:33 PM
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Your responsibility is to yourself and only yourself. He is responsible for himself. Right now, you're enabling his bad behavior by letting him get away with it. If you want him to eventually learn to be a productive adult, you'll need to kick him in the ass figuratively. You probably need to kick his ass out and cut him off. Offer him a train or plane ticket to your parents town. As long as he continues to stay with you, he will think he can get away with sitting around all day and mooching off…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 07:26 PM
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