hey, I'm wondering if I'm in a "bad spot" with a plate I have right now. We met up after matching on tinder a couple weeks ago, had sex + she gave me a bj the first date, after that she texted saying she had a good time and suggested a second meet up, we had had sex a few days later. She went out of town and we didn't really see each other the last week. I did see her last week with another guy as I was leaving another plate's place, and I know she's on the CC because she's kinda slutty (gave me a BJ and initiated the sex on the first date..). This past weekend we saw ecah other at a party and made out, she said we should hang though I had to initiate it. Yesterday we only made out because she was on her period, no "had a good time" text or anything and I just saw that she either unmatched me or deleted her tinder. I'm also kinda worried she took it the wrong way because when we were saying bye yesterday we kissed and i awkwardly groped her tits...

I know this sounds beta but I don't care, I'm young & she was the first person I had sex with and I really enjoy cuddling with her because i suffer from anxiety and don't have many other close people in my life atm (don't worry, not telling her sob stories about my life... just genuinely enjoy talking to her about our college lives).

do you think I'm overthinking and that I just need to initiate or are these genuine signs of disinterest? if so, how do I reel back in a plate? thanks.