Hi Everyone,

I've come a long way in the past year and I've come across a situation that doesn't make much sense especially when I view her actions.

I'd say I'm on the purple pill of things and not fully red pill, but I'm looking for a red pill opinion.

I'm 34 and the girl is 33. We hooked up on the third date (I probably could have on the 2nd. She texts me constantly immediately after I respond. She will will an effort to see me too.

Only issue is the sex. Well, it wasn't the wild sex I'm used to especially in the past year. Generally, girls pick up on the cue when I lay back for the BJ. She doesn't initiate anything unless I tell her what to do.

Sure this is fine, but I don't sense much desire sexually. She seems to be quite passive. Sexually she's definitely not a prude, but either I don't bring it out of her or we aren't gelling well in this area.

Aside from sex, everything is great. She's super submissive, no BS so far either.

She's definitely into rougher sex. Choking, biting, spanking, etc, but for some reason she doesn't initiate the BJ. When discussing preferences etc, she has told me to do whatever I want and just tell her what to do.

Naturally, I can't help to think that with Chad, she'd initiate.

Thoughts? I've never come across a situation where someone is into me in every way, but despite with what she says ... Sexually something is missing action wise.

Ideally, I'd want BJs all the time, but I hate having to vocalize it. Just never been my style especially when it comes to initiation.

Thoughts?

Thank you