Afraid to approach

vandaalen · 2017-12-31T01:41:52+00:00

No. Nobody ever had to overcome this. You are the first person. Sorry. I cannot help you by maybe telling you that there is just no way around saying "hi".

LordThunderbolt · 2017-12-31T04:35:27+00:00

Get a nice haircut
Upgrade your wardrobe
Go to a part of your city where nobody will ever recognise you.
Approach chicks u find attractive, in DIFFERENT SETTINGS.
Just say hi at first. Don't even worry about failing or even straight up telling them that you're really fucking nervous.
You have nothing to worry about since they will most likely reject you or ignore you anyway due to your inexperience. However, you will become accustomed to girls and approaches.
Continue and practice. You'll have nothing to worry about since you will never see them again.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-12-31T04:49:55+00:00

Approach Anxiety: Faint Heart Never Fucked Fair Lady

machimus · 2017-12-31T01:47:25+00:00

Your problem is lack of outcome independence. Search the sub for it.

LarsAvatar · 2017-12-31T04:46:07+00:00

I'd recommend the book Day Bang by Roosh. It gives you some ideas on how to lead the conversation when approaching.

Title	Afraid to approach
Author	Greenmarbles
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	December 31, 2017 1:26 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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