Almost gf to plate

bruiser18 · 2020-09-01T10:19:32+00:00

6 weeks

Lol

In the first month of seeing each other I was genuinely interested in an LTR

Lol

Read the fucking sidebar mate, and stop writing walls of text on the internet about a girl you’ve known a month.

Leone_brt · 2020-09-01T09:28:48+00:00

Just start treating her like you would treat a random plate. Actually you don't need to tell her anything. Also depends why your changed your mind about ltr-ing her. Did she do something wrong, showed some red flags or you just don't want to be in relationship with her? I recommend you to read the bitch management on side bar.

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-09-01T09:20:11+00:00

Just plate her. If she doesn’t like it, let her go

MattyAnon · 2020-09-01T10:13:36+00:00

So I’ve (21) been seeing this girl (19)

STOP READING REDDIT ADVICE SUBS. They have infected your brain. They will tell you age and gender doesn't make a difference while training you to declare both in your title.

This is poor English. There is nothing wrong with "I'm 21 and have been seeing my 19 year old girlfriend for about 6 weeks". Putting age and gender in brackets is just lazy.

however as time went on my desire for this type of exclusive relationship has vanished. Now instead I am only interested in plating this girl but how do I go about this since we have both expressed signs of LTR interest early on.

Very tricky, girls generally don't like this. In her eyes you are boyfriend material and are not a player. Moving to non-exclusive removes a huge chunk of the security you have been providing for her, and she'll hate it.

Basically you have to tell her straight up what you want, you have to stick to it, and you have to accept that she will fuck other people (easier and faster than you can) and may leave you.

FirstName_LastName4 · 2020-09-01T11:38:09+00:00

In the first month of seeing each other I was genuinely interested on an LTR

Its Impossible to know if she is LTR material with just one month. You plate her and if she shows all the right attributes (which can only happen with time) then You think of LTR.

Id say just be honest with her, tell her you arent looking for anything serious atm. If she is fine with it, good, if she isnt, also good.

IXseed · 2020-09-01T13:19:02+00:00

You 2 aren't together. Keep it casual. Done.

Groundbreaking-Owl94 · 2020-09-01T09:17:45+00:00

Mario explains why you never date damaged women - https://youtu.be/FL9gLHfJJt0

Title	Almost gf to plate
Author	silker1
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	September 1, 2020 8:36 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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