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Just for context, if she was dating Drake do you think she would dare to suggest that idea? Let alone actually setting it up? The Drake/tom Cruise test is always a good way to check a chicks desire for you. Also women are not stupid, she knew what she was doing, she just wanted to see where you were willing to let her go. The water works are part of the act. I dont really like the idea of turning her to a plate cause as you said you only got another girl (scarcity), but you do you king, best of …
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:59 AM
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I would say that the best reply would be "you are free to do whatever you like, but a girlfriend of mine does not go to prom with another guy" But honestly the fact that she even sugested it in the first place is already a huge red flag and a sign she doesnt respect you. Id say hard next
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:14 AM
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Plate at best
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:22 PM
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"Thats how we'll get to know eachother" If she doesnt bite, next, odds are she's a timewaster
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:21 PM
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Id say the key is truly knowing you are giving your best shot at becoming the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:28 PM
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Just my two cents. I used to be very needy because my perception of self worth came from others, so I would constantly need other people's validation to gauge my worth. Eg with women after sex I would always try to check if they enjoyed it to know if I'm a worthy guy or not. I changed when I realised that I'm the only one who knows my worth, and don't need people to tell me. At first it was hard, cause I realized I was worthless (I had to shed my ego to realize this). But as soon as you start wo…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:29 PM
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Men are physical, competitive and like to create stuff. Go gym, enroll in cool hobbies and find a purpose
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:53 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:52 PM
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So you were about to go raw dog on some rando you are fucking for the second time? I think you should re-evaluate the way you go about sex as a whole bro. Always wrap it up.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:47 PM
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You got oneitis bro. This broad is trash. Move on
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:43 PM
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My mindset is more in the sense of, im going to give it my best, if that is not good Enough, it is what it is. The analogy id make is, im going to the gym, taking care of myself, reading, working on my own shit, grinding, if a girl rejects me, it is what it is. The last sentence you said is what my mindset is, idk i guess i explained it wrong.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 01:31 PM
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Thank you man, means a lot
/r/askTRP20/03/21 01:20 PM
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Thanks, I'm not complaining tho, just stating what im experiencing and asking for advice
/r/askTRP20/03/21 01:20 PM
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I've read it before, it has helped me a lot tbh, will read again tho. thanks
/r/askTRP20/03/21 01:19 PM
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Congrats, you are an orbiter bro Edit: She might have been interested but you fucked it up by all the texting and facetiming. In her mind, subcounsciously she goes "why the fuck does this mf have so much free time to be talking to me, doesnt he have anything going in his life? what a loser"
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:15 PM
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Yes you are in a way. It is obvious that a lot of women are fucked up by this feminised society, but you can always find high value women, but you have to be a high value man tho. Also in a relationship you are the glass and women is the water, so if your glass has defects, water will spill through. Be a high value glass of the shape that you want, and women will fill that up
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:14 PM
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Mate you dont owe women anything. If you want to cancel a date for whatever reason you can and should. No need to feel bad for it, you don't owe bitches anything
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:10 PM
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Women do that shit all the time, they want a reaction out of it. Your first problem is that you are on social media. The second is that you care. Just ignore that shit and go read or lift some weights
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:08 PM
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Good, sex for validation is never good. Now you focus on the women you actually want to fuck, not the ones that will make you feel validated
/r/askTRP04/03/21 09:03 AM
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"Thats how we get to know eachother". If she keeps with this tone just move on, she aint interested
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:52 AM
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Bro you came here looking for advice and are acting all butthurt in the comments. Your problem isnt this situation, your problem is that you are "exclusive" with a girl that doesnt give a fuck about you (your own words) and disrespects you to your face. You have no frame, your whole post reeks of "what is she gonna think/how will she react if i say/do this". You have no abundance and you are needy, fix yourself before worrying about bitches
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:26 PM
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It is bad to take advantage of a girl, dont try to force a drunk girl to fuck you. However a girl wanting to fuck you because she is drunk is not taking advantage of her, but some white knights or her fat friends may accuse you of this. And "taking advantage" of a drunk girl is considered rape
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:46 AM
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Oh damn ok ill delete this
/r/askTRP02/03/21 05:36 PM
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Thanks a lot
/r/askTRP02/03/21 05:36 PM
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Thank you, any tips?
/r/askTRP02/03/21 05:29 PM
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Thanks bro! Yes, im 6'3 180 with 11% body fat, am bulking right now.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 05:29 PM
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One red flag is a red flag too many
/r/askTRP01/03/21 09:04 AM
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My rule is, if she is visibly more drunk than you (if you Think to yourself "this bitch is drunk") it's a no go. If other people see it they may accuse you of bs like " Taking advantage" Or she might regret the next day and acuse you of rape. Be safe, no point risking your future for some pussy
/r/askTRP28/02/21 03:57 PM
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Exactly, and having a shit personality is your own fault and it will make the woman less attracted
/r/askTRP27/02/21 12:11 PM
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Dual mating Strategy. Sidebar 101
/r/askTRP27/02/21 11:32 AM
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Thats weird as fuck, a girl at 20 yo is in her prime a boy at 16 is a bonefied todler. For her to be going for you, youre either a fucking stud or she is fucked up in some kind of way (more likely)
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:58 AM
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You dont. Plates break, if you are trying to fight for a plate you have the wrong mindset
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:56 AM
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If you dont LTR sluts it's less likely theyll cheat on you
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:52 AM
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Not really, being blue pilled isnt necessarily doing things right. Those cases you mention are of weak men who dont work on themselves, and that accept to be with a women who dont see them as atractive
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:51 AM
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I believe so. This is the difference between men and women, we take accountability. Yes, it's 100% our fault, we didnt vet her well enough, we didnt mantain frame or we simply arent high value enough. Thats all our responsability. It's easy to put the blame on other people but it's freeing to know you are responsible for your life.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:49 AM
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Literal shit test
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:43 AM
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My plan would be to buy an apartment and rent a room out, this way I can use the rent money to pay the mortgage. So basically id be getting a house "for free"
/r/askTRP25/02/21 10:09 PM
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Thanks bro. I already have that emergency fund that I dont touch and for sure I was planning on helping with the bills and food money. Yeah the chicks part kinda sucks but we gotta sacrifice to reap the rewards
/r/askTRP25/02/21 10:04 PM
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Damn with 90k in my country id be set for life. But thanks for the advice mate, really appreciate it.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 10:02 PM
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I have the same issue, I often like to debate on the topic, I like the idea of learning and putting myself in other peoples shoes. The more I talk to people, the more I realise how deluded the average person is. Men are in this position because we allowed ourselves to, its completely our fault. Now we just have to live with it and adapt. ​ The difference between us and women is that we understand the unfairness and act accordingly, we are NOT victims. Life is unfair? It is what it is, learn the …
/r/askTRP21/02/21 04:45 PM
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The more you reply the more redflags are raised bro
/r/askTRP21/02/21 04:38 PM
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She´s dumb, doesnt understand sarcasm and so far up her ass that her first reaction is to cancel it. Onto the next one
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:58 PM
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Bro you are focusing on thé wrong thing. Red flag count: 1 - She is texting and liking all this shit from some dude you dont know 2- when you ask who is this She deflects with a classic cheated reply 3- She has this dude silenced and messages deleted. You dont need closure, if you were doing this shit She would freak thé fuck out, this bitch is playing you. Leave
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:20 PM
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DONT DO THIS! You are being dumb brother, she deletes the messages and has it on mute so you dont get suspicious. If you send thé message, he might not reply right away, and then when your ex girl wants to talk to this dude (which She probabily does often) She will see she sent a message saying hey, will put 2 and 2 together and all hell breaks loose. She is for thé streets, talking to a guy, saying hes "nobody" and deleting thé messages is a huge fucking red flag, 3 in fact
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:05 PM
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Yeah sure, maybe say im doing x and y, feel free to join. The "I feel like" part sounds better in my mother tongue
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:43 PM
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Dont text her until she does. She disrespected you, if she texts you again text back to set a date at your place and if she doesnt want/doesnt show up hard next. ​ Also I hope you didnt waste your time, if it was at your place and she didnt show up I hope you were doing something productive.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:42 PM
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I think you are overthinking, you seem like a beginner so just ask her out from the get go. Say like "I want to catch up, I feel like i have to take you on a date, u free next friday?" Its hard to build rapport by texting, also its very likely that you'll become an orbiter, if you are blunt about it, she will know your intentions (bitches prefer this to guys that try to get the backdoor into pussy), and if she isnt interested, you dont waste any time and move onto the next one.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:40 PM
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At the mall? At the bar? On the streets
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:34 PM
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Where is the question here? Why the fuck do you care?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:12 PM
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Id say if it doesnt bother you hit her up when you want to hang out and act like nothing happened. If it really bothers you and you want to be with only "fuck yes" women, next. If it was a date with diCaprio she wouldnt fall asleep
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:10 PM
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Nice humblebrag bro, nobody gives a fuck about your plates. If you feel they are having a negative effect in your life, drop one or two. I find it hard for you to really be focusing on your goals when you are fucking 5 women a week.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:08 PM
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You must feel like she adds something positive to your life and doesnt have any red flags (a lot of red flags you can only identify after knowing her for some months)
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:05 PM
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I speak a bit of spanish, I can be your girlfriends new pen pal bro ;) Jokes aside, he is in another country bro, i would say its nothing to worry about, but always trust your gut
/r/askTRP17/02/21 02:34 PM
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Its their nature brother, nothing we can do except accepting them for what they are
/r/askTRP16/02/21 09:13 AM
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Cheating isnt a red flag for you? Would you LTR a woman who you know has a record of cheating? Damn! Awalt means all women under the right circumstances are able of cheating, it doesnt mean they have cheated or will cheat
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:53 PM
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I read two lines of text, raising another mans child is the lowest of the lows. Dont ever accept that package bro, its the biggest of red flags. Not only it means she cant choose partners well, It also means She has a constant reminder of another man, and you will be spending time, money and energy on a human being you have ZERO saying on, and no benefits. You are creating another mans legacy. You are my age bro, focus on yourself and grind, dont waste your life on this bulshit
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:49 PM
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The ones who have a vagina i guess
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:42 PM
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For me, assuming she is probabily fucking other guys help. Fucking bitches hotter than her also helps
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:42 PM
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Say "no". More often, no justifying, just "no, i dont want to! Why? Because i dont want to"
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:41 PM
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Rule of tomassi 3, if a girl makes you wait for sex, or implies shes making you wait by her actions, thé sex never worth it
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:38 PM
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What the fuck are you doing raising another mans child?!?
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:37 PM
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Bad boys bring excitement, girls love to feel stuff and bad boys are full of that. Also they have the complex that they want to be the one who "saves" the bad boy. And if that happens, guess what, girls get bored cause theres no more excitement and move onto the next dude
/r/askTRP15/02/21 09:07 PM
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Bro we are told from a young age that we if we are all gay to women we will get sex and that's how they fall in love with us and appreciate us. Not everyone is lucky enough to find the red pill. Don't resent them or feel anger torwards them, it is what it is, they make it easier for us to shine
/r/askTRP15/02/21 09:05 PM
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Yeah but why? For example, if a girl has cheated before, its a unanimous red flag, cause she'll do it again. My question is why is slap see as a red flag or why is it seen as a shit test only.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 02:10 PM
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I meant the logic on a guy's side, like why do some guys find it a red flag and other find it a simple test
/r/askTRP15/02/21 02:00 PM
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"Don't try to guess whats on a woman's mind. They understand and they hate eachother"
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:59 PM
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Why are you worrying about buying gifts for plates? They are plates, they should be the ones worrying about getting you gifts
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:47 PM
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"found a job" Prostitution is a job, so would that be okay? The problem is not that she found a job, its a job where she has to dress like a stripper and flirt with a fuckton of men on a daily basis. It's just disrespectful. The fact that she mentions several times the "are you mad" thing shows that she knows what she is doing is disrespectful.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:14 PM
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I'd say it's a lose lose situation. If she wants to get a job like this, its a problem straight off the bat, she knows what this job implies (outfit etc), which means she is too comfortable acting like a pseudo hoe. Women ain't stupid, if you were Drake do you think your girl would be going for half naked bartender jobs? And the fact that she is asking "if you are mad" means she knows what the effects of her actions are and is willing to do them still So now you have two choices, you set your fo…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:09 PM
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Yeah, i didnt get upset as i understand it is considered "normal". I still see it as a red flag tho, as I think a human thinking its ok to hit another when "upset" is wrong. And i agree, I set a boundary, if she crosses it its a hard-next.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:56 PM
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I mean you can also jokingly slap a women without hurting her. And that is still unnacceptable and seen as a sign of abuse. Thats my point i think
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:46 PM
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Good point, yeah i understand is up to me, but sometimes asking here may make the guys give me some advice or say something that really sticks with me and makes me define and enforce those boundaries better in the future
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:44 PM
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Yeah i think it might have something to do with this. When i was bp'd i also saw this type of behaviour as some kind of reward because It meant the only affection i could get in some fucked up way
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:41 PM
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Yeah, maybe is something i need to reflect on, understand why does It bother me. But thanks for the input, really appreciate it.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:38 PM
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I gotta starting using this to be fair. But as i said in some other comments i find this behaviour outside my boundaries. Is It a legit boundary to have or am I being a bitch?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:35 PM
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I just like to hear what the guys say because it helps me seeing shit in other perspectives and some advice is pretty solid. I might be acting like a bitch and not realize sometimes. But ultkimately you are right, its up to me.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:32 PM
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Isnt that a "baby" version of the logic of a girl who sticks with a dude who hits her? Like "oh thats thé way he is, he loves me but doesnt know how to show It"? From all the comments i understand i may be exagerating, but this is what comes to mind when I think of thé topic, does this make sense? What do you think?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:30 PM
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Yeah, and i dont see a problem with her slapping mine, or slapping me during sex. It was like ah "ohh dickhead slap giggles". But i dont like to romanticize the idea that one can be slapped for teasing, specially when if the roles where reversed i would be an abuser. Am i overthinking?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:25 PM
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Thanks for the reply bro. It was the omg stooop. Maybe its because of the double standarts in these situations (like It would never be acceptable for me to jokingly hit a women) but i have thé rule that if I dont find acceptable for me to hit anyone, i dont find It acceptable when someone hits me. I think i understand what you are saying, but does my logic make sense? Or am i being too obtuse?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:21 PM
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Im here to learn. I personally dont see It as being insecure, I think its just a boundary i have, besides sex, under no circumstance is It acceptable to hit another person. How do you recommend is the right way to go about this?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:08 PM
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Im here to learn, why do you think i overreacted? I find it kinda disrespectfull, am i exagerating? Legit question, thanks man
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:05 PM
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I was trying to figure out if this was just a red flag (therefore keep plating her) or straight up disrespect (hard next). Thank you, will do this.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:02 PM
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You dont think someone whose first réaction to being teased is to physically attack someone (even if its "joking") might be a sign of a potential abusive person?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:39 PM
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I think that there are some dynamics in LTR's that you can only experience in LTR's, its not by change that married Red Pill is RP on hardmode. So id say if you never been in an LTR its easier to fall into traps and whatnot
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:21 PM
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I dont know what part of a girl who kicks you out and has rape flashback is eligible for "i had a good time"
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:18 PM
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Id recommend you browsing Marriedredpill, it will help you out. But to answer your questions: 1- You can do shit, and not tell her. Specially if when you tell it is to see if she validates you. You get a raise? No need to tell her, its normal for you. You build something at home? Dont tell her, its in your DNA, you enlisted in BJJ classes, dont need to tell her. Let her discover this type of stuff and then just act like it was nothing. 2- Don´t validate her in the sense of a covert contract. "If…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:15 PM
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"Because I didn't want to/didn´t feel like it"
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:01 PM
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If an average girl hb5 wanted to fuck a new person today, what would be the dificulty of it? None, she could probabily get a dude with higher SMV. If an average guy wanted to fuck a new person today? Highly unlikely or he had to pay for it. So basically its easy for women to get sex, while its hard for men, so which one has more value, a woman who fucks a lot, or a man? To add to this you also have the pseudo science of women are supposed to bear children from the best guy possible while men are…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:43 PM
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If you want to do combat sports (a lot of people recommend it), tune down the gym for 4x a week (its more than enough to build a strong body) and do combat sports 1 to 2 times a week. Also id recommend trying to attend classes of some shit you might like or discover some hobby you might find interesting, thats how you meet new people.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:34 PM
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I didnt see this comming
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:38 PM
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If the only thing i wanted from these guy friends was to empty my balls, why not? To be honest I dont really see this as disrespect. Just a woman trying to play power games with me (red flag, but not blatant disrespect) But i see what you mean, i will try to reflect on it, to see if I dont care or its scarcity. The other thing is that dropping a plate for something like this could be like a ego boost for me (yeah bitch i dont need you, im so redpilled and abundant) instead of me actually not wan…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:35 PM
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If I take her for what she is (nothing more than a plate) I dont see anything wrong with keep pumping and dumping. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:20 PM
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She posted this online, so they are getting ruthless on public as well
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:55 PM
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No clue brother, I got it circumcised when i was like 3 so idk. But to be honest, i dont give a fuck. It is what it is
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:09 PM
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For sure, this was a classic AWALT moment
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:05 PM
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Got points deducted for captain hook gang. But still, gotta work on my pipe game
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:03 PM
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I mean both reliable and shit cars can stop working while you're on the highway. I know which one i'd pick
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:51 PM
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I dont know if I should laugh or cry ahah. We keep moving
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:49 PM
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I think she just rated, the categories were already made (tik tok trend) Nevertheless posting this shit online is tragic
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:48 PM
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Ahah i know mate. I was joking, as I like to have the "I am the prize" mindset. But your advice is sound, i appreciate it
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:46 PM
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Always wrap it up. And dont go for the low value hoes, have some standards
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:28 PM
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I wasn´t planning on promoting her, and I'd say its more sad than anything but yeah red flag for sure
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:26 PM
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you're 100% right. It was a reality check for me
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:21 PM
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Id say that getting to have sex with me is not losing, even if im rated a 4/10 ahaha But yeah i get what you saying
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:19 PM
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To be fair i dont think she created the spreadshit, as english aint our main language and she had some caption about tiktok. Its still unexcusable. Yeah, one of my first thoughts was: "Only dumb bitches post shit like this, why would the opinion of a dumb bitch bother me" But it stong nevertheless. But you are right, i need to find better quality women. "Dick rating- minus points if crooked" Captain hook gang.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:50 PM
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Yeah i guess. But i thought i was at a stage where i genuinly didnt give a fuck about her. Well i guess not. We keep moving tho. Thanks
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:47 PM
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It was a good eye opener for hypergamy and also how my SMV is trash
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:41 PM
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I had this problem. The thing about nice guys is they want to satisfy the woman to feel validated, not because they actually want to make the woman cum, and this is a way to shift that mindset. I used to think (unconsiously) that if I made a woman cum, I was good at sex and she would be back for more (covert contract almost). This would be all about my ego and validation, i didnt want to make her cum, i wanted to "know" I was good at sex, and making her cum was the way to know it. The "focus on …
/r/askTRP31/01/21 04:59 PM
1

"yeah I was but now I'm not" I guess she has a red flag now
/r/askTRP29/01/21 03:43 PM
9

Red Pill is amoral, you don't owe women anything, i'd say don't lie if they ask, or just let them know they are plates. Don't tell them straight up you are fucking other women, but imply it. Say shit like "i'm not looking for a relationship right now, but im not opposed to it with the right girl" I also like to say "commitment is something i save for a relationship, and im not ready for that yet"
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:52 PM
5

Hard next is never talking to that women ever again, and you dont justify shit. You dont need closure, she does. Block her and dont ever communicate with her. Soft next is not replying/initiating for like two weeks unless she texts you first to which you set up a date. This "text for logostics" rule exists for beginners who are still BP and that if you tell them "text them whenever you like" will easily become orbiters. Once you are spinning plates you can chat to them more often.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:39 PM
1

Besides reading no more mr nice guy id say journal your day, your thoughts and mental models, like events that happen that you feel are significant. When i started doing this, I started analysing my behaviours like, i was a nice guy in sex, cause i used it as validation, so i started writing: "Today i didnt feel like it, but went down on a girl, why was this? Why didnt i want and why did i feel the need to do it? Oh cause if i go down on a girl, it means that she will see me as good at sex, but …
/r/askTRP23/01/21 08:50 PM
1

Yep i will try that
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:04 AM
1

Second, its not my go to move ahah, but she is that type of bossy girl in "Real life" that loves to be dominated in bed.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:03 AM
1

Firstly thanks to both for the feedback, i agree with both, in a way. On one side she is playing power games which i dont really like, and for my red pill Journey It would be a milestone to Next a bitch for this behaviour even when sex is guaranteed, true abundance. But on the other side i think it would only feed my ego, this girl has nothing on me, i can get sex elsewhere. I'll try one more Time, and wont deal with any bullshit. She is changing places and jokingly implying i will help her clea…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:02 AM
1

I dont think it is about the dates bro, i personally dont mind waiting for the 4th or 5th in some cases. But having a girl grind on you and letting you rub her out with clothes on but refusing to go further and implying sex is some kind of reward doesnt really sit well with me. I think i was pretty dominant, I was chocking her and even slapping her on the face, she was loving it. She texted me right after saying "i enjoyed it", i feel it would be a hell of a power trip to tell her "If its not a …
/r/askTRP22/01/21 11:23 PM
1

Some random pic, im not chad yet. But yeah, if you have frame and DGAF you're golden
/r/askTRP22/01/21 10:23 AM
3

I once was drunk out of my mind and send a girl I had been on one date with a message saying: "I want pussy", followed by a picture of another girl i was fucking I dont remember any of it, so the next day I was like "well, there is no comming back from that", gave some bs excuse and was back at it with that girl. If they are into you, you can basically do whatever the fuck you want
/r/askTRP22/01/21 10:18 AM
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This, as soon as im on my grind is where i feel the best, because i know "im the shit", however if for some reason I fall off i imediately start seeing my confidence go down
/r/askTRP22/01/21 10:14 AM
1

For you to "clock" it, it means you are spending time checking who watches your stories, which means you have nothing else to do. You coould be in the gym, building a business or reading a book. Checking who watches your stories literally brings zero to your life
/r/askTRP21/01/21 07:41 PM
3

Based on the title, she cant be nothing but a plate, or you will be the next abusive ex
/r/askTRP21/01/21 07:15 PM
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The fact that you know she watches your stories on two accounts says a lot about you bro. Go get a life
/r/askTRP21/01/21 07:14 PM
23

Always trust your gut
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:25 PM
6

Dont take everything you see here literally, it happens because most of us here are autists and dont understand the nuances of life.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:42 PM
2

yeah, you are saying that she only has one red flag to you. To me, there cannot be red flags, but you do you bro, good luck. Asking for the n count doesnt make judgemental (depends on context obviously) Also, if you want to know about a women past sexual experiences, you have to come off as non chilant and non judgemental from the get go, and if she trust you not to judge her, she will slowly tell you all that shit. Women cant be quiet, only if they think it will make you percieve her as a slut …
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:37 PM
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Your bigger problem is that you have a plate and havent let her know she is a plate, this means you are afraid of losing her, therefore she isnt a plate, oneitis maybe?
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:29 PM
4

Have you fucked other girls? As uncle vas says, 90% of asktrp can be answered with, "you wouldnt have this problem if you were fucking other women"
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:25 PM
4

I think some of the flawed logic is "im the man therefore i pay" and is also a power thing, like a covert contract, you paid so now she "has" to fuck you. I like to think that if you invite, you can pay (but if she insists to split, no worries), and its also an excuse to tell her "yeah you'll pay the next one dont worry".
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:24 PM
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Its up to you mate, however: 1- "It makes me a bit sick when I think of her past sexual experiences" - you are basically saying for you this is a red flag, and in my opinion, one redflag is a redflag too many. 2- You can ask her about her n count, but it wont change that you will never know the truth. To her, the one time chad fucked her behind the school might not count, so to her, she isnt even lying to you. If you arent comfortable with this situation, and in a way you sound insecure, i dont …
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:20 PM
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Even tho some guys here say you should always fuck on the first date and shit like that, in the real world thats not always the case. Women tend to need to feel comfortable around you to be able to have sex, sometimes one date isnt enough (of course it depends on the type of women and also culture etc). So no worries bro, secound date is actually pretty good, even though it goes against trp "rules" my average is like 3th/4th
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:14 PM
9

Meditation. Its powerful as fuck
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:11 PM
11

Do you mean that girls don't do anything while you are going for the condom or sex in general? I find the former really common, it doesnt really bother me cause usually im just eager to fuck at that point, but i may tell them to come suck my dick as I get the condom open, once i told a girl i wanted her to touch herself while i put my condom on. She later told me she loved that. I guess it has to do with girls experience, and for me personally, half of them dont know what they are doing, almost …
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:11 PM
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I'd say you have to vet that women for qualities you want in a partner. It should be someone that can add to your life, but you will be easily happy without them. As long I see them as bringing something of value and no red flags im good, because i wouldnt be afraid of losing them
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:22 PM
14

Desire is not negotiable. Go lift, get better clothes, game more women
/r/askTRP16/01/21 05:15 PM
2

Well if things aren´t going anywhere (and they shouldnt, as this power dynamic thing is kind of a red flag) why do you care about what she thinks? Let her delete your number. Abundance is key
/r/askTRP16/01/21 12:00 PM
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I think thats perfect, if you add to that by having a cool life yourself (friends/hobbies/girls/business) he will be asking you for advice in no time.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 10:50 AM
1

With this type of question the usual advice is: 1- Lead by example 2- Slowly plant the seed of the redpill. From time to time point out something in female nature and leave him wondering "Oh that girl cheated on her boyfriend with the footbal team captain, I wonder why", shit like that. 3- Hopefully he will eventualy ask you "how do you do/get girls/a nice body/talk to people" and you can give him books or podcasts to listen to.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 10:02 PM
1

Never thought of this, great idea thanks
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:14 PM
2

Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. I read somewhere that if you were brad pitt she would crawl through broken glass just to get to swallow your cum. If you aint brad pitt to her, you are wasting your time
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:01 PM
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If you aren´t willing to put in the work and are expecting people to do it for you, maybe this subreddit isnt the one for you
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:50 PM
1

I like this advice a lot, thank you
/r/askTRP14/01/21 08:45 AM
2

I'd say i have currently a lot of shit going on and hanging out with plates is the least of my concerns, but i still want to fuck. This might be my hamster tho, i really liked the point you brought up, I will reflect on that, might mean a deeper issue. Yeah its an easy read, but i want to focus on each aspect of DEVI individually, as i for example, its not easy to me to "start slapping her and chocking", I like to understand why i didnt use to do it, change my mental models and to slowly get com…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 05:38 PM
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Yeah i'm currently reading it and taking time to absorb it. It helped me a lot in terms of sexuality already, as it took me a long time realizing i had issues (Dunning–Kruger effect). I don't really want to do stuff with this plate thats why im not doing it, i think I'm improving in doing stuff just because I want to. But that point you raised about the action date-sex might be a good idea. Will look into it. So basically i understand her concerns, but i dont want to change how things are, i was…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 04:09 PM
2

Pretty interesting how you posted this on a fuckton of different subreddits and the replies are wildly different
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:06 PM
2

Fair, thanks brother
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:02 PM
3

Actually I have to work on my pipe game but thanks man
/r/askTRP13/01/21 12:45 PM
2

Yeah man, You are totally right! At first i thought she had seen my tinder so i was gonna ask if she super liked it, but yeah for sure i will have this in mind for the next time! Thanks mate
/r/askTRP12/12/20 09:30 PM
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Thanks for the reply brother, really appreciate it. I think we are about the same SMV, maybe I'm slightly higher but she never said anything like this. And to your point about her wanting to open a conversation, we have some private jokes and send each other stuff about it, so comming from her its a bit weird that this is the way she thought of opening. I'm definetly looking too much into this, but i just find it curious. I feel like this might be the baby steps of the type of girl that sends he…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 09:28 PM
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The point i think you are missing with the "constant texter" is that by doing that, you are conveying yourself as a low value guy who hasn't got shit to do and that unnatractive as fuck. And for begginers i think this is a concept that takes some time to REALLY internalise
/r/askTRP20/11/20 11:06 AM
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Yeah i agree with what you say, they always also have "no ONS" or "just looking for friends" and shit like that on tinder, all BS. They want that from a guy they are already attracted to. My experience with these type of girls is that you don't need it whatsoever, if you are attractive to her, she will want your dick. The fact that you are different from every other dude she knows might even be a good thing.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 11:04 AM
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I get what you are saying, the post was more aiming at the initial stages, before making them a plate, where is very easy to lose yourself in the text game in hopes of getting that pussy (specially for begginners, the biggest demographic of this sub). Once you plate them, yeah sure you do you, i still believe minimal texting is what works best, but to each its own
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:59 AM
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Agree 100% specially in the first stages
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:57 AM
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Don´t hate the player, hate the game. The same way they know that, they also know that you are texting them just to get in their pants, what do you think a women will want more? A dude that knows what he wants or a dude that's trying to use the backdoor to pussy? Also im saying this more for the begginers, as its easy to fall in the orbiter trap. >Imagine how you would feel if somebody only texted you when they wanted something, how does that feel? If it was for sex, cool. If it was for somethin…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:15 PM
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I wouldn't call it defeat, its taking advantage of "the system". I'm a little bitch who is still working on himself, Instagram allows me to get pussy. Is that a weak move? Sure, but its better than nothing. Even if you are high value and as long as you dont fall in social media traps, its a easy way to meet women.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 05:29 PM
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Mate you sound like all those 40 y/o single cat ladies asking "where have all the good men gone"? If you were high value you would have plenety of good pussy, why do you care about these 80% of trash? It shouldnt even compute on your mind
/r/askTRP12/11/20 05:26 PM
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Start doing cool shit, be busy and don't text her for long periods of time, talk openly to women when you are with her
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:59 PM
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How is she catching feeling for someone she never met in person? Are you fucking joking? You do you mate, but she has more red flags than a communist parade
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:18 PM
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A girl that you never met, blocked you twice, had fights with, said was in love with you? Don't stick your dick in crazy
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:55 AM
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So you want to LTR a girl that freaks out when you dont text back. Do you think it will get better or worse in the long run? Do you think it will just be about texts or overflow to the friends you see and what you do? Also, she thisnks she wants you to text her more often, but as soon as you do she will think "why is this guy texting me so much, maybe he isnt as high value as i thought, perhaps i can get a better dude than him". Don't do shit that you don't want to do just because you are afraid…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:26 PM
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Iron rule of tomassi #2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. You can AA, and say "i lost count at 300", "im a virgin" (if its clear that you're not) or say shit like "i don't kiss and tell" with a smirk.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:07 PM
1

Because they love the feelz. Why are women bitches to eachother? Feelz
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:47 PM
1

You can't force people to improve, they gotta want it. Just lead by example and if he comes to you for advice slowly introduce him to RP concepts.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:20 PM
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I'm in a similar position than you, not so extreme, but my father fucked me up mentaly and emotinally wise, and im just now at 24 trying to rewire my brain. I believe its normal to have the anger fase you have right now, but following RP path you will eventually understand that it wasnt really his fault, he probabily wasn't really aware of the shit he was doing to you, and might have had some trauma from his own childhood. I understand that because I was a toxic person as well because i didnt kn…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:15 PM
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Iron rule of tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:11 PM
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This is a basic shit test. She wants to see if you are bothered by her having other dudes while she is showing you she is a "catch" (if you are a high value guy you won't give a fuck, because you know she wont get anyone better than you, and if she does, thats out of your control) Either totally ignore or agree and amplify. "Oh he sounds like a cool dude, you should consider going out with him". This is basic shit, go read the sidebar mate
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:07 PM
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You must realize that are also people your age or even older or younger sleeping on the streets, with missing limbs, who have been raped, watched their parents die, etc There will always be people better and worse than you, you should also realize that the image we make of people who are more famous/ richer than us are a bit biased. A lot of them have mental issues and are not happy. So just focus on what you can control, be the best version of yourself, try to improvfe day by day
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:37 AM
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It's all about power, she wants to know she's got you on strings and basically that you are into her more than she is into you. ​ She is toying with you, best thing you should do is just move on (this is a sign of a trash person), however you are young and getting some experience will be good for you. Just start ignoring her and making moves on her hot friends and see how this will stop real quick
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:21 PM
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I can´t believe nobody has said this yet, but you are comming from the completely wrong mindset. You have fucked one girl in your 23 years of life, thats not great. It means you have a lot to work on (either it being mentally, physically or social skills), however you should do it for you, because YOU want to get better, not for girls. "This is literally all I care about for 2021" - Thjs is wrong on so many levels: 1- You are putting bitches on a pedestal, you have done your whole life. This wil…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:13 AM
14

Women complaining about abusive exes is a MAJOR RED FLAG. Dont do It mate
/r/askTRP26/10/20 10:47 PM
2

First mistake was to ask her for a date the next day (this shows your life is boring, beccause if you were a cool guy, you'd have the whole week scheduled) Second you were just autistic. Should have said "sure let me know" to her not being sure, and "no worries" to her last text. Third you are overthinking her not replying, if you feel like seeing her text her in a couple of dates asking if she wants to go out
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:41 AM
1

You are so desperate to get pussy that you are thinking about going for a single mom. Work on yourself first and build an abundance mindset. If you were fucking hot women would you be going for a single mom?
/r/askTRP23/10/20 01:02 PM
2

That answer is you still somehow hoping that by saying that she will value you more and maybe go out with you. Been there done that. You don't owe her anything. Just either dont reply or say I can't. Forget this girl and move on.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 01:00 PM
1

Well we can't change it. So either we learn how to deal with it, or we get mad at them for being themselves. Do you get mad at the fact that children make messes and destroy shit? Or you accept that they will do it and try to correct them accordingly?
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:51 AM
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I don´t really like this mindset man, i think something the lines of: "Oh she flaked? Cool now I have more time to work out/study/read/work on my business/do a hobby" is a better way of framing the situation. Bitches will flake, its not your fault
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:47 AM
1

If you worry about developing feelings don't do it bro, it will only fuck you up more and might even be a reason to stop working out when she eventually tells you "no". Go lift for YOU. Also, try to improve other areas of your life so you can be the guy fucking these hot women
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:37 AM
6

Looks like a shit humblebrag. If you want to plate her, plate her, if you don't, don't.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:32 PM
3

Best way in these types of situations is to lead by example. Have a cool life and hopefully he will see it and may come to you for advice.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:30 PM
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Mate I think you are allover the place. First of all, you dont soft next an LTR, you either hard next (depends on the type of boundary she stepped over) or you demote her to plate. Also that was not a comfort test, you told her you are not sure about the relationship and stopped replying. Just think of what you want to do, if what she did was a deal breaker, hard next, if no, plate (but its very hard to go this route as you likely will go back to her and she will do that shit again)
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:29 PM
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There is a difference between the asshole that the women like and being a straight up Dickhead. Focus on improving yourself first mate. ​ Also I dont think you are as alfa as you think. Being a cunt to women and trying to figure out emotions based on emojis screams beta
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:03 PM
1

Everybody is capable of killing under the right circumstances, should we enjail everyone?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 05:56 PM
3

So You have been texting a girl for two weeks and want to make her a LTR? Best advice is go read the sidebar
/r/askTRP02/09/20 05:29 PM
7

What are you talking about? We are humans we are supposed to be social, of course You have to be calibrated, say Hi in a friendly way, if she doesnt reply or seem weirded out say you didnt mean to scare her and have a nice day. You prefer fantisising in your head and find bs excuses rather than just talking.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 02:51 PM
8

Thats called soft nexting her
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:53 PM
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Thats not a hard next tho, hard next is block and go no contact with a bitch that disrespects you. Being down to fuck a girl that disrespected you just shows your scarcity and low value.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:00 PM
8

Why so much overthinking and mental masturbation? You lock eyes with a girl you think is cute, go say hi
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:58 AM
7

The first time She did it should have been enough, a girl disrespecting You to your face is not acceptable. You gave her another chance, set a boundary and she crossed it. End of story, hard next.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:56 AM
1

In the first month of seeing each other I was genuinely interested on an LTR Its Impossible to know if she is LTR material with just one month. You plate her and if she shows all the right attributes (which can only happen with time) then You think of LTR. Id say just be honest with her, tell her you arent looking for anything serious atm. If she is fine with it, good, if she isnt, also good.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:38 AM
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But over text Text is only a tool for setting up dates. She is a plate treat her as a plate, she is already realizing You have no life (you text her all the time) and shit testing the fuck out of you. Cut the texting, you have better shit to do.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:35 AM
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My guess is since you were expecting sex from the start, you didnt act like yourself cause you were only thinking of sex. And women smell that shit. Next time focus more on having a good time. Also dont touch womens boobs if you havent kissed yet, that looks autistic
/r/askTRP30/08/20 08:24 PM
1

So You touched a girls boobs without kissing her first? Basically You had your chance and fucked it, your game is probabily weak and you are not interesting. Soft next this girl and move on
/r/askTRP30/08/20 08:18 PM
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You are operating in her frame man. Start doing shit for yourself, not to "respike" her interest. I got to comfortable and talked too much, You have the answer right here, never get comfortable, go to the gym, read Book and find cool hobbies. Also STFU and let your actions speak louder. If You start becoming a higher value man, she will see that and get interested again, or she wont, thats not the point, the point is you becoming better for you.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:58 PM
1

I dont want to shit on you, but if You had actually read the material you wouldnt need to be asking us.. She is obviously no LTR material, let alone wife
/r/askTRP12/08/20 09:04 AM
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Because you are not happy enough about yourself, you dont put in the work You know you should so when somebody tells You something nice it "feels good". Why dont women care when orbiters call them cute, because they know they are cute. If you knew already you were the shit, people complimentimg you would be Nice to hear, but wouldnt make you feel validated
/r/askTRP12/08/20 12:47 AM
3

This is the classic case of what a girl thinks She wants vs what She really wants. She "wanted" you to see her, and after you compromised her subconscious goes "wait, so this dude had shit to do, and then after i insisted he accepted to see me? Must be desperate for pussy and not getting it elsewhere, low value, meh, i wont even reply" Dont compromise with plates
/r/askTRP11/08/20 04:54 PM
1

So You are catching oneitis for a tinder girl?
/r/askTRP11/08/20 04:48 PM
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This is what i call the communist parade girl I met a girl through a dating app This is orange flag. Dont LTR girls from tinder. She has been talking about this since about 5 months Huge red flag. 5 months you cant know a person enough to want to marry. Her moods can flip on a dime Red flag. BPD. Leave yesterday mate. "you can afford this" Red flag. No Financial literacy, imagine what will happen if You marry and the money becames "yours" Her ambition is limited Red flag again. One red flag is a…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 04:42 PM
6

Start texting her good morning and asking how shes doing all the time. Act like a low value dude and see how quickly she falls out of love. Or just ghost her, you dont owe her anything, if she's crazy thats her problem
/r/askTRP10/08/20 10:28 PM
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The truth is she thinks she wants you to pay more attention to her, but as soon as you do it, you will go back to her orbiter like all the guys in the DMs
/r/askTRP10/08/20 10:25 PM
1

1- stop being a bitch, life isnt fair. 2 - Take accountability. She didnt get with you because you are Ugly/fat/short/no Game. It doesnt matter, It was your fault. 3 - Work on the things You can control 4 - work on the other parts of your life, you shouldnt be having a mental breakdown because some girl rejected you 5- Stop being a bitch
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:05 PM
1

I used to use fake profiles This is just sad. Why do you care? Be the best man You can be, stop thinking about others
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:59 PM
1

Wear some boots.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:57 PM
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I Hope this is a troll Obvious hard next
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:57 PM
1

You should BE reading on a regular, it helps the mind
/r/askTRP25/07/20 02:19 PM
2

Communicate through actions, not words.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 02:17 PM
3

I think saying stuff like they are free to sleep with who they want, but that it may affect them in the long term. Explain that their intimacy has value but not in a preaching way. But i dont know, teenage girls are probabily the weirdest creatures from a mental standpoint
/r/askTRP25/07/20 02:16 PM
2

Id go if You feel like you'll have a good Time. Free booze sounds pretty cool to me. If you plan to go "just to make her happy", dont go
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:28 AM
1

Depends on the reasons why you are staying quiet, if You are scared of what people will think of you say something, thats not good
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:33 PM
4

Never argue with a women, specially if shes being emotional. You Gave him money because you wanted, no need to explain anything else
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:31 PM
3

Try to meditate/yoga, i think it can probabily help
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:27 PM
1

After discovering TRP, I decided to make chasing girls my focus This is an oxymoron if ive ever seen one. Just go with baby steps. Try to lift read and do stuff like meditate and slowly decrease your time on the phone
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:26 PM
3

Not necesarily, but it seems like you are using it as an excuse not to approach. Just go out there and do it
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:24 PM
2

This type of shit (red pill, no fap, etc) is a set of tools that You then use for whats best for you. Some guys just want to fuck, others want a LTR, You can use the red pill principles for whatever you prefer. No fap is the same, if It hurts you, jerk off from time to time, just dont let it influence You negatively, the same way you can have a LTR but not catch oneitis
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:23 PM
4

Came here to comment this
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:08 AM
5

Dont argue with women, its not worth it.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 08:00 AM
6

You seem to be doing things well. Most girls on dating apps are there for attention and validation. You probabily could also work on your SMV.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 07:56 AM
8

Maybe you have a boring life? If a plate sees your cool life with a lot of shit going on Im sure she will be begging for a LTR
/r/askTRP24/07/20 07:54 AM
2

Tell her in a way that makes it sound like You overcome it. If It is a sensitive topic still where you are "weak" dont tell her, it will only make her lose atraction. Women think they want to know that shit, but when they do, they dont
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:50 PM
5

Your response was good. Bitches be trippin
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:17 PM
7

As the guys are saying, she wants attention, your validation and to be sure you are still "hooked" on her. Dont entretain this bs
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:58 PM
4

Dont press him, just be a cool dude with a cool life and maybe he will reach out
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:43 PM
5

Exactly, you cant get guys on the red pill that dont want to swallow it. Try to do cool shit with him, maybe some kind of father figure, but thats about it
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:39 PM
9

Its normal to have emotions man, you just have to aknowledge that you have them and act according to what you know is right. Contrary to popular belief, a lot of us still have moments of weakness for women, either it be getting oneitis, or validating women, you name it. But we are aware of it and correct it
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:37 PM
6

He doesnt want to be saved..
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:34 PM
16

I hope this helps you swallow the red pill. You should have cut contact as soon as she left "to digest your bankrupcy", It couldnt be more clear that she doesnt give a fuck about you and doesnt see you past a wallet When you get back on your feet just make sure to not take this bitch back
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:30 PM
3

Well yeah, starting by not "backtracking"
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:25 PM
2

I backtracked and said I’m willing to explore our path without expectations You completely fucked it here mate. She could have been telling the truth, or she could be shit testing your frame, which You completely fucked it. I know this wasnt your question but just something for you to be aware in the future.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:04 PM
2

Being hot basically
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:59 PM
6

Good, work on yourself and start a business and go do cool shit travel and meet people. Way more to life than woman.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:37 PM
6

Sure if you share like "i was thinking about killing myself but got my shit together and Im happy now" but there are situations where even if you have worked through your traumas, women might still see you differently. If You were raped, women cant avoid seeing you in worse eyes (there have been some posts about it) so its always better to not share traumas and stuff like that. Also cause women wont hesitate to use it against you in a fight. "Ohh you didnt do what i wanted, You are such a bitch,…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:36 PM
1

read all the content on here Go read again. I will reiterate. You are spending time talking to women everyday that you have never seen? What does that say about you? You are shit with women (probabily no Game and Ugly) because you cant get girls in Real Life, your life is shit and you dont respect yourself because you spend your time (most valuable asset) flirting and talking to girls you havent Seen. This is beyond ridiculous. Seriously, work on yourself first
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:49 AM
6

What the fuck is going on here? I gave up reading halfway. Improve yourself and go meet women in real Life. You are getting oneitis for women you havent even seen? Jesus fucking Christ Go lift, read the side bar and stop this fantasy
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:42 AM
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Once she disrespects you its over. She already does not respect you, if you get back with her, she'll respect you even less
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:26 AM
5

At 18 people can vote/Drive/go to war/jail. Its absolutely fine.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:24 AM
5

If You have to ask you are probabily not. High value guys know they are high value
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:22 AM
15

Boundaries are things you dont accept out of your LTR, mate guarding is You feeling insecure about something and pretending to be "alfa" to compensate. Its about frame
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:21 AM
2

Get busy improving your life (gym, style, hobbies, finding your purpose) and you wont have time to think about women
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:32 PM
3

Get busy improving your life (gym, style, hobbies, finding your purpose) and you wont have time to think about women
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:32 PM
4

Idk if what You mean isnt rock. Men are supposed to be the rock, to be unfased by Life and always safe and secure, women look for that in a man. Also a good analogy is that the man is the rock and women the sea around him, as soon as the men gets weak (the rock/Cliff falls) women (the ocean) will swollow it up and find another rock to be around
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:27 PM
1

This wasnt really the point of the post, but to answer you, ive told them when im planning on doing and i message to ask questions that i have about french and how to say certain things
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:20 PM
3

Frame, build yourself up, and then be that person everywhere with everybody, your reality is THE reality
/r/askTRP18/07/20 12:54 PM
12

Have a busy life then you wont need to overthink this type of shit
/r/askTRP18/07/20 12:53 PM
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You can say "oh that actress is really Hot" Im joking women arent self aware and will call You a pig. Just ignore it or agree and amplify "yeah if he was here id leave You to go out with him" or some shit
/r/askTRP18/07/20 12:30 PM
3

Well then its gonna be harder for you, but Im sure you've seen some pretty ugly/fat/old rich dudes with some hot women. Luckily for us women are also atracted to money and status which are things you can control
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:28 AM
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I think we underestimate ourselves and overestimate everyone else. Unless you are really short, like under 5'5, which You cant really control You can control: Body: if You have a nice physique/style/haircut You are at least better than 50% of the men out there Add your finances and carreer right, focus on your purpose and you better than 70% of people. Add cool hobbies and a good group of friends and you top 75% of men Add approaching women and doing other shit most man are afraid of doing and y…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:16 AM
0

You can't soft next an LTR, either demote her to plate or hard next her. And dont tell her, actions speak louder than words
/r/askTRP17/07/20 04:58 PM
7

Dont shit where you eat
/r/askTRP17/07/20 04:56 PM
3

Not at all, you would be chasing if You were like "ohh dont worry we can do It another time" You convey you are high value, You have shit going on so you want to see her on that specific date, if she cant/doesnt want, its her loss
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:50 AM
2

A simp is nice in the hopes of getting sex. A gentleman is nice because he wants to be nice.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:13 AM
2

I think the common idea is once a week, and you having 4/5 plates to meet your sexual needs. If You see her too much she'll start wondering "why are you free all the time. Havent you got interesting shit in your life?"
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:12 AM
3

Id say the unfased one. Say pick you up at 7, if she comes with some BS excuse and doesnt reschedule soft next her
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:10 AM
1

Thanks man
/r/askTRP17/07/20 09:04 AM
1

For sure, i think it all boils down to scarcity mindset and lack of experience
/r/askTRP17/07/20 09:04 AM
1

Appreciate it man
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:49 AM
1

Fair enough, i'll just keep grinding, hopefully i can slap the Beta out of me. Thanks man
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:43 AM
1

I sound beta af but i know this, and i tell myself this. I know this bitch aint shit, shes probabily fucking other guys (met off tinder) but i cant Snap out of it, at least for now. And i know if i go on the date i'll be acting like a bitch, even if im screaming at myself not to act like a bitch..
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:41 AM
1

Nope, but Im trying to, ive been one dates with 5 women since lockdown ended but havent smashed. Im still getting the grips of the red pill in the real world
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:37 AM
1

Fair enough. So since im not there yet its best to just move onto the next one? What do you think?
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:35 AM
1

I fully understand this, but i dont get this with the other women Im seeing (which are the same category as this one). Thats why its a bit confusing to me.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:31 AM
5

Post high quality pics of you doing cool shit (sky diving, riding a bike), hobbies (surf, hiking, playing sports), places you've travelled to, One or two with some friends (social validation) and if you have some cool style as well. Also if You have a good body post some shirtless pics at the beach/pool. So basically get a cool life and sometimes post about it
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:27 AM
1

Ive used the "if i only wanted sex id spend my money on prostitutes and it would probabily be cheaper". But a LTR using sex as a pseudo weapon is never a good sign, i take it as an orange flag
/r/askTRP16/07/20 11:31 PM
2

Holocaust joke
/r/askTRP16/07/20 11:10 PM
1

Hopefully not jewish soap
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:46 PM
5

Its a two edge sword, you can also waste your time and get invested in girls that only want you for your attention. I did this recently with a girl, i was willing to go to the 5th date, which we set up at her place, when she hit me with the flake followed by "I think we want different things out of this so we shouldnt go on dates anymore" Absolute shithousery
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:45 PM
6

So maybe you should go fuck some landwhales, you also "get to fuck"
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:41 PM
4

Isnt that the way women try to manipulate men? She is making it like you are validating her so she can try to get the upper hand. "Oh i see you like me so much, so You cant lose me, so i got you all to myself"
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:40 PM
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Call and set a date for tomorrow. She knows you will be there for just a couple days so its game on. If she doesnt want to go out, at least you finally cold approached somebody mate
/r/askTRP16/07/20 02:27 PM
1

Its fine to plate her. For more than that, one red flag is a red flag too many
/r/askTRP16/07/20 12:39 PM
3

I dont think thats true but lets agree to disagree
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:58 AM
6

Its a mix of both my man, of course there are women wanting to be plowed by chad, but for them the Infinite source of likes and guys hitting them up is the validation dream. Even the chadest of chads wont get every women on tinder, as some dont see past the confort of virtual validation. Thats why my advice, most of us aint chad
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:54 AM
1

Women take zero acountability for their actions and are zero self aware. Hamstering is her way as racionalizing behaviour so whatever they do becomes "ok" or "not their fault". "Ohh i just went to his apartment for a glass of wine, i dont know what happened i guess It was the alcohol, he seduced me, i didnt even want It, it doesnt count" There are also instances where their hamster goes on overdrive and explodes, when you point some illogical or hypocritical argument they have in a simple way yo…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:24 AM
1

Women take zero acountability for their actions and are zero self aware. Hamstering is her way as racionalizing behaviour so whatever they do becomes "ok" or "not their fault". "Ohh i just went to his apartment for a glass of wine, i dont know what happened i guess It was the alcohol, he seduced me, i didnt even want It, it doesnt count" There are also instances where their hamster goes on overdrive and explodes, when you point some illogical or hypocritical argument they have in a simple way yo…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:24 AM
9

Bitches on tinder just want validation, focus on yourself not on women and they'll eventually come
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:06 AM
2

Iron rule of tomassi 4: NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:04 AM
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Get busy with your purpose. Also always thinking "she's probabily fucking other guys" always helps
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:03 AM
13

Move onto the next one
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:01 AM
5

Younger = hotter and more capable of bearing children, simple biology. Also older single women usually come with baggage and guys dont need that shit when they can have a hotter, sweeter version of it
/r/askTRP15/07/20 09:15 PM
2

You can still do shit with him if You enjoy his company but dont stress about him, drop him to plate status ahah
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:54 PM
3

Well you cant change his mind mate, when someone is under bluepill effect he wont hear you. When she breaks his heart slowly present him to the red pill
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:52 PM
1

Thats because you shouldnt use texting for game. Text should strictly be to set up dates
/r/askTRP15/07/20 04:30 PM
3

Under the right circumstances AWALT, you can be in a relationship as long as you are aware of this. If a higher value dude comes along and you show weakness be sure your unicorn will start branch swinging
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:34 AM
1

Im not sure if this is what you are looking for but you can find red pill examples in a lot of movies. Ive been watching series/movies to learn a new language and have found myself realizing TRP concepts everywhere. Example 1: A series called dix pour cent. A low SMV guy (dad bod, shit hairstyle, no style) gets with the hot receptionist of his work company and "falls deeply in love". He works as an agent and She becomes an actress (she becomes higher SMV, when she was a receptionist, he had the …
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:32 AM
3

AWALT brother
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:14 AM
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Look it up on YouTube. He is the black Jesus of TRP. I will be forever gratefull to my boy who presented me to his videos
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:57 PM
7

Go cold aproach mate
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:56 PM
26

AMS is bald. You might take a drop in SMV but own that shit, you cant control it dont stress about it
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:54 PM
8

You can work on yourself and still go on dates. Real life experience is more important than Reading all the books
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:51 PM
12

Fuck i didnt see the pregnant part. Bro she is gone, she is gonna fuck other dudes either you say yes or no. She doesnt respect you, comming to you with this bullshit. Id say bite the bullet and pay child support and leave her
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:47 PM
24

Hard fucking next
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:45 PM
14

Id say is a bit the way you percieve yourself. If You do cool shit, have goals and smash them, look good and feel good you will naturally be more confident, and be less intimidated by high value guys because You are one yourself. Thats what happened to me, i used to put a persona around my high value friends because i felt little compared to them, as ive been improving i feel like i can be myself because im not afraid of what they Will think anymore
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:23 PM
2

I think we should take job interviews a bit like women, in the sense that if they show behaviours that You dont agree, leave. If for a company sees having a kid as something negative, it probabily isnt a place You want to be at
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:02 PM
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Id say by being with her twice in a weekend You show you dont have a busy life and other cool shit going on. Women dont do this consciously, but She is probabily wondering "how is this guy so free that he can be with me twice in the same weekend? Maybe he isnt as high value as i thought" thats why she is pulling back. Id say soft next her, and from now on try to meet girls only once a week
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:59 PM
6

Overracting, She was shit testing you. If you want to move on, move on and dont contact her again
/r/askTRP13/07/20 07:22 PM
1

Alpha widow hás more of an emotional connection behind. Ons is not enough for that
/r/askTRP13/07/20 07:21 PM
3

It is harsh as fuck but dating someone who has been raped is a red flag. Unless you realize the amount of work it will give you, id say move on Btw leaving her doesnt make you a bad person.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 07:11 PM
1

Hard Next. No communication. You dont owe her shit.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 07:07 PM
2

You sound immature/needy as fuck. Telling single moms they made a mistake but you are too pussy to talk to girls on your level. Drop the ego and go work on yourself
/r/askTRP13/07/20 07:06 PM
4

I threatened Never "threat". Actions speak louder than words other part dosent give a shit and wants to make money and fuck other chicks. Then tell her you are done and move on. You dont owe her anything
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:59 PM
2

Why are you worrying so much about a plate? She's "just a friend" and wants to look for new guys? No worries. If you want to see her text her, if she comes good, if she doesnt also good. Move on
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:49 PM
6

This is the definition of scarcity mindset. You are not respecting yourself just because you want pussy
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:35 PM
3

Why do you care about her opinion of you? And I'd say dont shit where you eat, so try to avoid these types of situations even if its with "a friend" of a coworker
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:11 AM
2

Girls always trying to move you off center. As you said your SMV if Higher than hers, and climbing. What will She do? Tell you to stop doing those things so she can be on your level and control You. If You are happy the way you are dont change for a girl
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:33 PM
1

Talk to him, you are both man (and i assume adults)
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:30 PM
1

For me krakow. Beautiful city and polish women are gorgeous. Best girl ive ever gotten was a polish from tinder
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:27 PM
7

One red flag is a red flag too many. Dont do it
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:57 AM
1

Thanks, i agree with everything you said. The kissing thing is more of a mindset for me that works better. If i go on a date with the mindset of having to Kiss her, i wont be present and i fuck things up. If i go with the mindset of just having fun its easier for me to flirt and build attraction even if It doesnt end with the kiss. Obviously It didnt work on this case but its what works better for me
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:32 PM
1

Perfect. Send 2 texts. 1- hey hows your week going 2- lets meet x day at z time at y place
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:29 PM
4

Dates on weekends, text them in the middle of the week (tuesday/wednesday) to set up a date for that weekend
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:20 PM
1

All fair points. Thanks man
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:01 PM
5

This is the shit i need to hear. Thanks, ive read the sidebar but once you start applying the shit in the real world some of the old behaviours come back. Gonna read It again. Thanks
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:00 PM
2

She means what she says, ive had the "i dont fuck on the first date" type shit test plenety of times and i usually pass those but this one i think is for real. I'll Next her, thanks man
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:59 PM
1

I tried to escalate and it didnt work, so just move on?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:50 PM
14

You soft next her, move on, if she contacts You, good, if not, also good
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:03 PM
5

Ive had my profile for a while, just never slid into dms. I have pics of my 6 pack, cool hobbies (bodyboard, basketball) and a lot of places i've travelled to. Its a low effort Numbers game, you follow girls, then some will follow back, you reply to their stories and invite them for a drink As long as you arent on it 2hours a day checking peoples Lives and feeling sorry about yourself i think It can be a good tool.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:47 PM
3

If You have self control and a cool life Instagram can be a better version of tinder. Get hot girl without much effort. I started Instagram gaming last week and have a date set with a HB8 in a couple days.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:40 PM
1

Just dont text them, or text them like once a week asking how the weeks going
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:37 PM
4

More red flags than a communist parade, hard next. This has the potential of You ending up behind bars or with a destroyed reputation
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:36 PM
2

You are focusing way too much on this girl. Why does it matter if You are validating her power, ypu want to forget her and not talk to her again. Dont worry about what she will think, worry about yourself
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:27 PM
3

Why are you worried about her contacting you? It doesnt matter bro. If You are thinking of the drama then move on, and dont worry what She will think of you, if you want to move on, move on, you dont owe anything to anyone
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:00 PM
10

It sounds like a legit excuse, If she is legit sick and really enjoyed your company, she will contact You to meet again. The same thing happened to me, girl tells me 3 hours before the date she cant go because She has famíly over, so i said "sure ok". Didnt text more. 4 days later She texts me asking for another date
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:58 PM
5

If You dont want to get this girl, stop thinking about her and checking if he saw your stories. Move on. If You want to plate her, tell her, doesnt matter how She will react or think, you do stuff because you want to
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:55 PM
2

I would advice you to forget her, go no contact with her. If she is in your friends group let her know that you want to get over her so You Will go no contact. Forget this woman
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:52 PM
11

Id say something along the lines of: "I dropped her, so shes acting mad but yeah i like to have fun" (i think you should let your plates know that they are plates)
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:00 PM
5

Well if You value that and women dont give you that, Next them
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:52 AM
4

Thats why you plate them, not worth to get into a relationship with fucked up women just for the sake of It, will always bite You in the ass
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:48 AM
1

Everybody said it already, but perfect!
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:39 AM
1

Standard advice. 1- Block her on everything, seeing pics of her on insta or Snapchat Will make it harder to forget. 2- focus on developing yourself (lift, read the sidebar meditate etc) 3- start trying to plate other girls
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:38 AM
2

They blow You after you finish? Whats the point?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:35 AM
6

there are only 2 red flags 1 red flag is 1 red flag too much. If you want to plate her, go ahead, but dont go any further with girls who have red flags
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:33 AM
5

she kept being disrespectful from that point on so I just got up and left Perfect mate. Being disrespectful is not a shit test, its being disrespectful. You did well
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:32 AM
4

Biology trumps everything. There has been the trend that women love "dad bodas" but is absolute bs as any guy who started working out and getting more muscular will tell you they started getting more female attention.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:30 AM
2

And thats okay man, women shouldnt be the goal
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:48 PM
1

I get the feeling you are comparing yourself too much to other people, perhaps in social medial like Instagram where people often portray a cool life that just isnt true. Its true that there will always be someone with a cooler life, but you have to stop comparing your life to others, maybe for inspiration but not to feel like you are worse than them
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:31 PM
2

You dont owe anything to this girl, you were together, she did something you didnt approve (you should tell your boundaries, but not obligatory) so You move on
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:16 PM
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No self awareness, they have this image of themselves that has zero to do with reality but they arent aware of it. Its also why women also say stuff but act the opposite. Its not on purpuse, just the way they are
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:13 PM
2

Yeah we live and we learn, still got a long way to go
/r/askTRP04/07/20 09:57 PM
-2

Strike while the iron’s hot I get what you are saying, but my thought process is, since i came across as a beta, if i text her soon and also "kinda" apologize Im portraying myself as even more of a beta, whereas if i wait a longer time she will "realize" that i have other shit going on and dont mind "losing" her. What do you think?
/r/askTRP04/07/20 09:32 PM
2

Yeah he was like 6’2 and huge...” or “He was so tall he almost hit his head on a door, he was like 6’4”. Red flags. Some people see this as shit test, i see this as disrespectful. You arent talking about how bigger you exes tits were. She knows what shes doing, i think you should check her on it. I’m thinking it will be worth it. I think you should rethink this mate. Id say plate her, but good luck
/r/askTRP04/07/20 09:20 PM
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Id say always have some kind of receipts and not put yourself in tricky situations. (fuck other famous people and avoid intimacy with fans). Chris Delia hás recently been metoo'd for trying to fuck young fans while on the road doing shows and he didnt even do nothing wrong. 1- Everything was consentual and the girls he fucked were over 18, he was always explicit about his intentions (pump and dump) and never lead them on. 2- Some of the girls he contacted were under age and as soon as they told …
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:07 PM
7

Come up with some ridiculous shit thats obviously made up, kinda like agree and amplify. I dont have tattoos but i have a big scar in my collarbone and when girls ask i say shit like "yeah i was surfing and a shark came and tried to eat, i got this but you should have seen his state" Use it as an "excuse" to tease and have some fun.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 04:57 PM
3

Crash into her, then You get her number for the hospital Bill. Perfect plan
/r/askTRP01/07/20 03:08 PM
2

The line is very blurry and not easily identified. You got to know which opinions will get you ostracized by people in general. I for example think BLM is a movement based on a good cause, but that focus on all the wrong things and goes way too far left, and is doing more worse than good in general. Will i express this view? Fuck no or else Im a racist. I might say that because of the movement, the far right will get more votes as a response, but never say bad things about whats established as "…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 11:06 AM
11

Mate this girl has more red flag than a communist party parade. 1- talk to her and say you dont want to be in a relationship anymore (dont justify, just say It) and then go no contact on her. 2- just block her on everything and ghost her
/r/askTRP01/07/20 10:55 AM
1

I get what you are doing mate, i agree thats good to have a discussion. The common rebuttal to this is some woman love having sex, some more so than others. Sure, but having loads of sex doesnt necessarily mean having sex with a lot of different dudes.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 08:20 PM
2

If she has a high body count it means she hás a hard time connecting with people (red flag) Women dont need to spin plates to get an abundance mindset
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:43 PM
27

Yeah Im just trying not to go to jail
/r/askTRP30/06/20 03:12 PM
2

Rap is FULL of RP meaning. One of my favourites is about spinning plates "Communicating with a little pretty one from Prestwich She knows I've got a couple but I tell her she's my best bitch"
/r/askTRP30/06/20 02:27 PM
10

Im personally against cheating, i think its for weak men, if you want different pussy either break up or dont get into a LTR in the first place. If from a moral standpoint it isnt an issue for you then go ahead mate.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 02:23 PM
1

I think you should go read the sidebar mate
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:57 PM
14

Dont take her back if You dont have other options, work on yourself first
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:20 PM
110

What i do, is when there is the slightest clue of possible discomfort, i stop or say "do you want me to stop" The best example i had was this girl i knew off of tinder, took me to her place, we were making out and i started going to finger her and She says "what are you doing" so i just stopped and Said "do you want me to stop?" And She told me to keep going. Tried to fuck but she resistes, so we didnt (maybe if i had insisted i could have, but its too risky). Ended up getting the best BJ of my …
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:16 PM
2

Do they follow you tho? Or you just shoot your shot?
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:01 AM
1

Listen to her actions not her words. Dont stress about it, you didnt fuck, who Cares? Try to set something up or go to that party, if nothing happens again you move on
/r/askTRP30/06/20 09:58 AM
1

Ive had the same thought and came up with a few ideas. If a lot of men did the plate thing, it would mean that there would be a lot more high value man, and as a consequence, a lot less free validation going around, and as a consequence, women would get more of a scarecity mindset, leading to them hoeing a lot less. Also, guys Who plate women dont like to waste time on a lot of dates before sex, so i think in a way it filters a good part of the high value women who dont want to be in the cock ca…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 09:15 AM
3

"You never hate on people that are doing worse than you"
/r/askTRP30/06/20 08:15 AM
12

The classic case of "oh you are firing me? Then I QUIT!!"
/r/askTRP30/06/20 08:13 AM
2

I think the perfect area is when you get them to try to validate themselves to you.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 08:12 AM
59

She thinks She wants it to BE fair. But as soon as you do it, you are done out here
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:29 AM
39

Best blue: the feeling you get when you finally kiss that one girl you think you were going to marry Worst red: when you realized that same girl doesnt mind being the side hoe of a dude 15 years older than her
/r/askTRP30/06/20 02:08 AM
21

Hard-next. She doesnt respect you at all
/r/askTRP29/06/20 10:49 PM
1

Id say wait like a week, if You made a good impression she wont forget you
/r/askTRP29/06/20 09:15 PM
1

Demonstrate you've changed through actions Thanks man You guys always put some sense into me
/r/askTRP29/06/20 09:06 PM
2

Next her
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:34 PM
1

EQ? You don't have to be perfect. The thing is that i was a proper bad person
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:29 PM
5

It doesnt necessarily make you stronger man, sometimes we have to let go or express our emotions
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:26 PM
20

Of course, and if You have a trusted friend (guy) talk to him. We all have emotions brother
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:18 PM
2

I agree 100% otherwise i wouldnt be here, but i think people from the outside have a different prespective of us, thats why i asked
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:41 PM
6

Arent we known for "hating women" and "mysogony"? Even the other day there was a post asking if we all were in the far-right
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:38 PM
1

Well i went on about my life, the only thing i wanted to know was if my response sounded butthurt and if yes, what could i have done differently. I feel like that its acceptable for someone who is still learning to ask for advice in specific situation
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:29 PM
3

Well yeah but this might be true tho
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:16 PM
6

shes giving me a chance to fuck her Completely wrong mindset, You should be giving her a chance to fuck you
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:16 PM
9

If she isnt batshit crazy, plate her, and dont worry about other dudes, not your problem. Ignorance is bliss.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:15 PM
1

Whats your mindset when you are going for a date? Are you like focusing on kissing her at the end of the date? Like studying her reactions? For me what helps me the most on dates is going with the mindset of having a good time regardless of what happens. If im just having fun its easier for me to flirt and escalate because i dont really care if i kiss her or not or if she rejects me, cause im there just to have a good time
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:03 PM
5

Id say not even aknowledge the compliment and start leading the conversation (from my experience in bumble half the girls dont really know how to start a conversation)
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:00 PM
3

She's probabily sending nudes and saying she wants to fuck to other dudes
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:57 PM
4

she was looking for 'experience in the bedroom'. Relationship red flag 1 in her 30s, and was a virgin Red flag 2 I really want to date this lady as she checks off almost every box on my list. What is your list? Having a vagina and two functioning legs? How have you decided that you want to date a woman that has a couple red flags and that you met just a week ago for the first time?
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:59 PM
3

Say It with me "never stick your dick in crazy, and if You do, never date crazy"
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:21 AM
1

Yeah maybe i should have done that, maybe i can still kinda say It if i reach out for the next date
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:38 PM
45

Mate if she is taking the load for you, the least you can do is Kiss her. You wont die
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:52 PM
9

If You are able to realize this it means you spend WAY TOO MUCH TIME on tinder. Go do other shit, focus on yourself
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:38 PM
1

You arent fucking her either ways. Just work on yourself man, women aint everything
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:37 PM
1

Exactly, a girl disrespecting me hurts my ego. I know i still have a long road ahead of me. Anyways thanks for the input
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:56 PM
1

Id say like under 10% all my Life. Thats why i dont really tolerate it
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:41 PM
0

It shows that she doesn’t respect other people’s time This is the reason Im butthurt, because she didnt respect my time
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:40 PM
2

I think this is the comment i relate to the most
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:39 PM
1

I get what you are saying, but famíly events are planned, so when i go to plan a date, i will say "i will have famíly over but i think i can make It" and if then i cant ill explain. She doesnt respect my time. Thats why i feel its disrespectful
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:38 PM
2

Yeah thats why i Said it may be cultural. I dont have a lot of experience, but ive been flaked like 3 times all my life
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:35 PM
1

Its not about dropping everything, but if i know ill have my famíly over i Will say "ill have my famíly over but i think we can meet", and then if i cant i will say that i cant. The only times i flaked were with Girls i didnt give a fuck about, so why should i pursue a girl that doesnt give a fuck about me? Onto the next one
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:34 PM
1

Seems like a good way to go about it if i schedule another date
/r/askTRP28/06/20 04:08 PM
4

Thanks man
/r/askTRP28/06/20 02:29 PM
-1

To me is disrespectful af to flake, so i think i will soft next her.. If she wants to see me she has my number, and if she contacts me i will make sure to play it cool. Thanks for the advice tho.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 02:29 PM
5

If she is LTR, hard Next. If she is a plate, this is fine
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:58 AM
3

This might sound a bit random and cringe, but try to start freestyling (like in the shower) This will make you think faster (you have to think of words to rhyme pretty fast) and that will help in those quick responses. Also watch stand Up comedy
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:56 AM
1

Your reply seems fine mate
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:53 AM
3

Showing that you are hurt and not over your ex. You want to act like an insecure little bitch. Get over your ex and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:51 AM
8

When i get to my blue pill mindset i always think: "I can be Happy alone" "A women wont make me happy" That usually reminds me to take women off the pedestal and it "frees" my mind
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:49 AM
2

Arent you overthinking? If You see a cute girl go talk to her, try to have a fun interaction and if she looks receptive ask for the number, not much more to it really
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:46 AM
1

Go with the mindset of "having a good time". Its what works better for me, no expectations, just want to have fun
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:44 AM
6

Hard-next man, that shit is not good for you, also you hopefully learnt a lesson not to overshare
/r/askTRP27/06/20 11:15 PM
1

Far-right is often coincident with nationalistic issues such as race or ethnecity and to some extent religion. Do you see anyone here talking about their race or religion? If You check for yourself and you will see this never happens. The only thing thats more to the right wing here is the mindset of individuality, of you taking responsibility for you life and not Blame it on others. No victim mentality.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 09:35 PM
1

Well try to set a date and you will see
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:50 PM
0

Humble brag much? You got the number and She seems interested mate, what do you think people here will add?
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:43 PM
3

For me personally, the first time you hear it is like "wow yeah there are prespectives we can be oblivious to and dont even realize" its like an interesting concept (and It can be a Seed to Critical thinking) but you dont make much of it. Every time you come back to it years later you start to maybe understand it a bit deeper, starting connecting with stuff you observe around you and even in yourself.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 06:32 PM
6

I think you were a cunt for doing that to your LTR. Clearly you dont respect her, you shouldnt be LTR with someone you dont respect. Either demote her to plate (let her know you wont be exclusive) or Next her. Being RP isnt necessarily an excuse for hurting people and be a dickhead
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:48 PM
4

I think simping is what i described before. If You write that essay because you want the girl to like you back or sleep with you, you are simping, if you write it because you want to write it, its a dumb thing to do because you dont value your time that much and you have your priorities mixed, but i dont necessarily think its simping (i also dont find it romantic, but that my personal opinion)
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:43 PM
10

Your intentions. You do romantic stuff because you want to do romantic stuff. You simp because you are looking for a backway into a womens panties.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:19 PM
1

You are living the dream mate, no unecessary texting and when you want to see her you tell her
/r/askTRP27/06/20 11:15 AM
4

She is platting you
/r/askTRP27/06/20 11:14 AM
16

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:09 AM
5

In the first date i will gladly pay for a coffee/drink since i was the One to invite. I Will even give the benefit of the doubt paying for dinner. After that if she doesnt even offer to Split, hard-next the bitch
/r/askTRP27/06/20 09:59 AM
9

"When in doubt, there is no doubt"
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:20 AM
1

This guy knows
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:08 AM
42

This is literally the allegory of the cave. They prefer to live their illusion of how life works and are willing to "kill" whoever questions their reality (you, the RP guy who gets the girls)
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:06 AM
12

Law 38 of power: "Think as you like but behave like others" The people that support the Destruction of statues of important figures in history (because of their racist views) are the same people marching with pictures of an ex con who pointed a gun at a pregnant Lady while robbing her house (George Floyd). Did i post something about it? Ofc not. People are dumb sheep there is nothing to gain, the same with arguing with women, its not worth it.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:53 AM
2

Oxymoron
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:47 AM
53

Dont stick your dick in crazy
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:34 PM
9

"dont shit where you eat"
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:41 PM
2

I say "Im here to meet people"
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:34 PM
4

Why do you care? Move on
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:32 PM
2

If you play your cards right you will smash both. Women prefer to Share a high value man than to have a Billy beta for themselves
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:59 PM
1

1- True Im ignorant about guns 2- ive seen plenety of videos of fat people with guns, so guns dont equate to discipline 3- Nice cars also get women, do you see people here talking about buying nice cars? The point is not to have external stuff to get women, is to improve yourself.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:52 PM
4

Ive heard people talking about hunting as a hobby. I think a lot of people here might not be american so its something rather specific. Also having a gun doesnt really fall into the category of improving yourself neither on getting women
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:22 PM
8

Dont reach out! 1- If You were high value you wouldnt be stuck on this girl 2- Dont ever reach out for a women who tells you She "Will tell you when she's free". 3- Go for other women, try to get an abundance mindset and really focus on yourself
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:43 PM
9

I think those women are the result of this new society wave. They are taught to be strong and independent and so they are masculine af, and they see being rude as being strong. A lot of those are also carreer women, and cause they think men want succesfull bitches (and because they are women they only date "up") they get pissed when they see the high value guys that they want going for Younger more attractive women. Its a shit show
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:40 PM
2

Call him if You want to know how he is doing because he is your brother. This almost sounds like a covert contract, you call him and expect him to ask about your life. You can't make people interested in you. Do it because you want to and dont expect anything in return. An analogy can be taking your girl to dinner just cause you expect sex out of it. You should take her to dinner because you want to take her to dinner.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:03 PM
7

I dont mean give him a two hour lesson. But saying stuff like: "Women arent a source of hapiness, that comes from within" "Men should just take responsibility for their life" "Dont have a victim mentality" "Own your shit" "Lift" All this while showing your awesome life by following RP principles
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:15 AM
172

Blackmail mom into buying you shit. Im joking, tell your dad asap
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:11 AM
2

By your discription looks a bit extreme but if It felt like the right thing then It was a good decision
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:10 AM
7

Try to lead by example more than just talking to him. Drop some red pill knowledge here and there
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:08 AM
3

You live and you learn mate! Im going through the same think except my date went pretty well ahah. Keep going
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:24 PM
1

Ohh shit nice prespective, although some stuff i dont really agree with (movie dates), you have a lot of interesting points here. Will definately look into them Thanks a lot!
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:02 PM
1

Fair enough thanks mate
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:59 PM
2

Maybe circumstances in her life changed. Also i tend to post pics/stories of me doing cool shit on my insta which may subconsciously make her see me as higher value. Also if she flakes again she flakes, no biggie. I feel like realistically there isnt much to lose.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:10 PM
4

We dont care about your ex and neither should you. Keep going strong on the gym, but you should try to sharpen your mindset. Good luck man
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:07 PM
1

Yeah when i do those i dont have expectations, sometimes i even forget that i sent girls a message. Thanks for the reply to drop some shit on their story This is also my go-to yeah
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:06 PM
1

Well i do lack abundance, but the thing is that this has worked, thats why im a bit on the fence about it. For me the pros are potential sex and a new plate, and cons are none (staying in the same position as before) Ive also seen somewhere that girls may be in different stages of their Life, like when i soft nexted her she was with a prospect of ltr and now She isnt anymore.. Any thoughts?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:04 PM
3

Well thats what a shit test is
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:52 PM
16

Now I've entered true alpha mindset Your whole post is talking about your ex. You are not even close to "alpha" mindset. Forget her and her friends, go lift and read the sidebar
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:45 PM
1

Exactly. Wtf is this post? If You are done with your ex be DONE. Let other people live their life you aint anyones dad
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:42 PM
3

She asked why i was on tinder and i say mainly to practice new languages (i live in a touristy city, and the girl was foreign) She later went a bit deeper and conveyed the idea i couldnt get girls from my own nationality, so i said "ohh no, i already got with all of them in my city, thats why i moved onto foreigners" Women you meet on tinder sometimes like to test You on that
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:32 PM
9

Childish behaviour not only to get validation from others, but then to gauge your reaction. She knew what she did was wrong in the first place, she was just trying to feel better and fuck with you at the same time. Very disrespectful
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:25 PM
33

Married red pill and askmrp might be a better subreddit for you man. Good luck
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:50 PM
15

Its not necessarily hamstering, but of female logic. I was on a date with this girl and the conversation got to one night stands. She Said She never done it (i met this girl on tinder) and didnt understand the logic behind it. I said yeah I did it before, i like to have a connection with the women I fuck but sometimes there is instances where just fucking feels good, and i understand people who do it. She then hits me with the classic "oh yeah you guys all the same blah blah blah". And I just Sa…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:48 PM
8

Dont do it. Hard next her, move on and focus on improving yourself. Its Impossible to plate her if You have strong feelings for her
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:40 PM
8

Never tell a women your N count, it will always backfire. Its usually a shit test, agree and amplify. Say stuff like "i Lost count at 300". If she knows You are a virgin go for it still, nothing to lose
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:44 PM
3

Yes, because it means you are a low value man since no other girl has ever fucked you. Woman want the alpha male, the guy all girls want, the guy who fucks, so id say is better not to tell them you are a virgin
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:10 PM
2

If she is in love with you i will assume you know eachother for some time, so: "If a woman makes you wait for sex, its never worth it"
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:38 PM
13

It has happened to me before as well. I think girls understand that disconnect you feel when she is a 6. Thats her expertise, covert language, they communicate through feelings not words, so while a man may think he is acting the same, these women can understand You dont like them. Thats my theory anyway
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:27 PM
1

how do you get over the fear of other people watching? I feel like that's my worst fear, not the actual approach itself. Do you have certain ways you rationalize that fear away? Im just having fun and this is totally normal behaviour for human beings. High value people would give you props for trying. What do you think about approaching from a certain side? It smells like mental masturbation to me but I've read in some forums that you should always approach from the side, some say you should alw…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:01 PM
2

Wait three to four days unless She texts first, then text her to schedule a new date in 3/4 days, and then text her in the day/day before of the date with something like "meet at x at y time " So You should be going on dates once a week, texting just for logistics in the middle of the week, and then text her the day of the date. Hope this can help
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:56 PM
0

Depends on the woman and you are fine mate. The attatchment the girl has to you is more inportant than One or two inches i would say
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:49 PM
5

Hard-Next the LTR just by bringing this up. Plate? Who cares
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:43 PM
1

girl why should we text when we could just meet up In the first set of texts I would have left her on read and not send this neither following texts, you are entering her frame, dont explain yourself to females. Second set of texts was good. Id say soft next her, and maybe if you really want try texting her for logistics in like a month. Women will be women. Good luck
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:39 PM
1

Congrats man, You have oneitis. It usually happens due to your mindset. You gotta understand that you can be Happy alone, take the woman out of the pedestal. You probabily think this girl will bring you true hapiness eh? Well you have to understand that hapiness will come from you. Go lifting, find a hobby that you like, Start a business get busy! Also if You think "my crush is probabily getting fuck by other dudes" It usually helps, in this case you have Proof. If nothing helps just completely …
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:29 PM
12

Money is important, find something you love and work on that after work/weekends. There is nothing better after a shitty day at the office than working on something You really like
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:20 PM
6

or maybe it is Id say It is. People want to make man feel bad about it, you brought this girl to your apartment to have sex, you dont owe her anything and she doesnt owe you. You dont even know her. If she doesnt wanna fuck, goodbye. An analogy. Imagine a girl takes you home because She expects you to be her boyfriend right away, but you just want sex, you tell her this and She says okay then leave. You see a problem? No? Me neither. So kicking some rando out when She doesnt wanna fuck is also o…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:19 PM
41

Yes
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:42 AM
2

"my phone died" Also a mindset that might help is just trying to have fun with it.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:56 PM
2

STD's?
/r/askTRP24/06/20 06:34 PM
2

I know we are supposed to be kinda heartless but wtf is this man
/r/askTRP24/06/20 06:33 PM
1

Limit yourself to 30 min of reading a day, for example before bed. Drinking water is good, if You drink 5 liters of water straight, you die.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 06:32 PM
71

They want men to be vulnerable.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:50 PM
1

So you "Nexted" a girl because she couldnt go out late in the same day You got her number? Mate...
/r/askTRP24/06/20 04:33 PM
2

Id say text her just "today at x at my place" If she refuses sex again, soft next her and when she reaches out to you, meet at your place for sex. By your story it seems like she had some somewhat plausible excuse, and since sex was promised, go for it. If she refuses again, she will be trying to gain power in your "relationship" by using sex as a weapon, so just soft next her.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 02:02 PM
2

"You dont talk to me like that, once you calm down come back and we can talk like adults"
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:54 PM
15

Superior women? You shouldnt feel inferior to anyone, specially not to your wife
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:53 PM
5

Law 38 of power: think as you like but behave like others
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:24 AM
1

It really sounds like You are catching oneitis, but i will take your Word for it, just keep checking yourself to see if you are catching it or not. If You see everything through pink glasses you wont be able to see the red flags. Good luck
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:38 PM
1

Just need to read the title, soft-next
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:28 PM
7

If you care about plates breaking, specially in the beginning, you are already at a loss. However, if you see potential in Lisa, hard next Tina for following Lisa, keep doing what u doing with Lisa and if she starts pushing away soft next her. Plates break, Lisa may see You as a fuckboi and leave, or she could see a HVM and like you even more. Hope this helps Edit. Do the girls know about your non exclusivity?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 10:37 PM
17

I try to be careful and if she says stop or no. I wont try to advance until she does something of the same level. I also like to say, i wont make you do anything you dont want Also never fuck a girl who is visibly more drunk than you, i feel like here is where the biggest danger comes from
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:52 PM
30

Id jokingly say something along the lines of "what are you planning on doing to cut the line?"
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:46 PM
8

Only fans
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:42 PM
14

This
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:41 PM
3

So You are trying to validate yourself to an internet stranger, i wonder what you do to this girl.. He is right, You are focusing too much on women.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:48 PM
1

Its more problematic if they flake and dont suggest another date idea. Also if You dont soft next a girl after she flakes and the next date must be at your place, its more likely that She will do it more times.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:44 PM
3

Its not worth it specially if You are catching feelings. Also there is also inheretedly wrong with you because you "like" this toxic situation. Try to fix yourself up first mate
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:03 PM
19

Never stick your dick in crazy, but if You do, NEVER date crazy
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:46 PM
29

"thats how i'll get to know you"
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:45 PM
32

1 - Realize this is a long road that never ends, it wont happen overnight and you Will have good days and bad days. Everyday is a new day. 2 - Some mindsets that have helped me a lot when i see my brain trying to return to blue pill are 2.1 - You can be happy by yourself! This helps me take women of the pedestal and realize they are not that important 2.2- Women wont make you happy. You are the sole responsible for your hapiness. They are like a protein shake, if You dont lift and eat right, pro…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:43 PM
3

Women have no self awareness
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:21 PM
1

I dont really understand much about the topic, but i think if you had worked through them they wouldnt be comming back in such a devastating way. But i dont know. Best of luck man i hope you get better soon
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:09 PM
1

Mental health is no joke and certainly Reddit isnt gonna fix him
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:07 PM
1

I would say if You are in such a fucked up position, it wouldnt hurt to try. Maybe theyd be able to help you "unlock" whatever is fucking you up or the main problem that maybe you cant spot and actually help you deal with it instead of repressing it.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:01 PM
0

Visit a therapist/phsychiatrist
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:51 PM
3

You got Lucky she was dumb to say it so overtly. If she kept quiet You would probabily be paying for her "love" right now
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:43 PM
2

If You are hanging out with people who get really ofended at your views, or either you are a neo-nazi and should do some introspection or they are a bunch of pussies and you should think about finding new people. Open mindedness is a sign of high value
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:40 PM
2

Id be worried about STD's as well. If You are spinning plates and hitting it raw you are playing russian roulette with a full clip
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:38 PM
9

Those arent shit tests, thats her calling You beta Bucks to your face. Red flag means demotion to plate (at best! Edited). A gold digger has no place with a high value man.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:33 PM
4

Id recommend the 38 law of power. Think as you like but behave like the others. You can try and find a couple people who are more open minded about these opinions and try to express your views with them.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:31 PM
8

Validation, the same reason why so many women post half naked pics on Instagram. They value themselves through likes and the amount of male attention they get
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:12 PM
2

Game never ends, even if You get in a LTR, the moment you get comfortable is the moment you are fucked, with women and in life
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:59 PM
19

Law 38: think as you like, but behave like others
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:57 PM
5

This belongs in niceguys subreddit. You are doing all that shit just to get to her, she knows and told you straight its not gonna happen (Lucky, most women would string you along) Realize this fantasy is not gonna happen, you are putting your hapiness on this women, it must come from you. Block her, never talk to her again and start lifting and reading the sidebar, and in one year come back here and thank me
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:05 PM
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If a woman makes you wait for sex, its never worth it
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:58 PM
8

Realize that the more you talk and deer the more you enter her frame
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:50 AM
11

Im no veteran but id say just soft next her. Go find other women and if she contacts you again, re-plate her
/r/askTRP23/06/20 10:31 AM
1

Oh sorry where i live we are allowed to go out. Well with quarentine is tricky but definately dont text everyday and take some time to reply (i have a one hour wait rule unless is some kind of topic that holds any importance) Idk what are your texting skills, but dont double text (like if she stops answering, do text until She does) and dont be afraid to leave her on read if the conversation is over or her answer is shitty
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:54 AM
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Women are backwards as hell. She thinks She wants to talk to you everyday, but soon she will start subconciously thinking "this motherfucker talks to me everyday, his life must be boring as fuck, as he has so much free time to talk to me and he probabily doesnt have any other options" Try not to reply right away and go some days without replying sometimes, specially weekends (She assumes you will be doing other shit) The preferable way is to use texting as just a tool to set up dates, you are ju…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:46 AM
1

Im sorry bro. Keep working on yourself. You may look into seeing a therapist if You feel that bad. I think you still have a blue pill mindset and value women (your ex specifically) way too much. You are the only person responsible for your hapiness, as much as Disney movies tell you otherwise. You must come to grips with this. You gotta be Happy alone first, and you should be doing the self improvement for YOU! Not in hopes to get back with an ex or get girls. Good luck and hold tight brother
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:42 AM
1

reveals shock when I bring it to her attention that I have a penis Wtf? And to answer your question. Dont initiate any kind of conversation. If she texts you be quick to try and set a date.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:38 AM
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Three to four days after the date and before the next one. Example: You fuck on saturday, you text her tuesday/wednesday to set another date to saturday. And then on the day of the date or the day before you text her again to confirm the time (dont ask, tell her: for example "see you at x, wear something sexy") Edit: To answer your last question, a quote i like to use is "texting is only a tool to set up dates". No free validation by texting her. You should have such a cool and busy life that yo…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:23 AM
3

Some strategy that you can use is when you come from behind is to go around and stand like an arms length in front of her and dont move. Your opening frame should be strong enough for her to stop. Check this guy on YouTube "James tusk". He only approaches from behind and hás a lot of good vídeos of him doing it as well as some good tips. Hope this can help you
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:08 AM
1

I think this has potential to cause more harm than good
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:14 AM
3

Then why are you posting this?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:08 AM
15

Boring, needy and too emotional.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:05 AM
2

1- Where is the question? 2- Dont argue with women. They have zero self awareness. They work based on feelings not logic.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:12 AM
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Id say you are doing a decent job. Probabily You just need to increase you SMV. Good luck, and if a girl declines you, onto the next one
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:06 AM
1

Hobbies
/r/askTRP22/06/20 10:45 PM
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You get comfortable. The reason most relationships end. Check married red pill for a bunch of stories like that. This is unsolicited advice but i think you need to work on your mindset, for you to be feeling that way is because you saw getting a girl as an objective/prize. You got it now you relax. Self improvement should be about YOU.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 10:35 PM
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Fair enough i might delete my comment then. But my reasoning behind it is that these dont seem like shit tests, in the sense that She doesnt seem to get pissy about it (eg: you are always on your Office and dont help around the house) And being working on his book isnt already a type of dread, isnt this more of like a comfort test? Would like to know your opinion
/r/askTRP22/06/20 10:23 PM
3

I understand what you mean, but i would say if you go straight for the number it can be too straight forward, whereas if you do some kind of remark about her (not a compliment) you can gauge her response build some comfort (a couple texts) and then be straight forward asking for a date. I would use the analogy of cold approaching, You can go to a girl and ask straight for the number or build some rapport before you do. What do you think?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:55 PM
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If the ltr is often rocky thats a bad signal. You can still grow a lot as a person in a LTR. Id say check married red pill for some ideas
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:48 PM
7

Women will often try to take your attention from your purpose. Purpose always comes first. Id say just explain to her that your writing is really important to you and what she is doing is upsetting you
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:46 PM
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I think your problem is more mental, you seem negative af. Also you seem to focus too much on women, focus on yourself, you can have no women and still be happy. Take women off the pedestal Also also a woman wont make you happy, focus on yourself because thats where true hapiness lies and only you are responsible for it. You say you have improved yourself but i think it was for the wrong reasons. Women are like protein shakes. If You dont lift and dont eat right, taking protein shakes wont do sh…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:40 PM
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Id say reply to one of her insta stories, or if she posts a new Pic, send her a dm with a witty remark about that pic. If you are feeling balsy if she posts a pic where she looks hot reply in the dms asking if She is single
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:07 PM
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There is no way to lose "local fat" my body doesn’t have much fat If you dont have a lot of fat and want to lose weight, you will lose your muscle mass. Id say keep bulking and once you have a bit of fat overall, cut. You can't lose fat in specific areas only
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:45 PM
5

For men they say 30-35 is the peak SMV
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:42 PM
3

Don't compliment her (specially physically) and don't do things to "impress" her.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:59 PM
11

This: thought about turning into a plate Contradicts this: I’m not gonna start anything with her if I’d just get dropped for this guy. You are scared of losing a potential plate, plates break, move on. Have fun with her but dont get attatched.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:57 PM
6

Set the next date at your/her place and dont accept any other option
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:53 PM
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To answer your questions One: A lot Two: in contexts where its acceptable to be shirtless and dont look forced. For example beach or pool. Bonus: the last one i took was of me at the beach with a surfsuit covering my lower body and with my bodyboard. This not only is an "excuse" for a shirtless pic as also show that one has cool hobbies.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:43 PM
1

Lift and read the sidebar
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:07 PM
2

Working on yourself and becoming a better man is a process a long road that never ends. There is no deadline
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:58 PM
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This post is wrong on too many levels, you really need to work on yourself. To answer you question. You can't. If You take a woman back after She cheats, she will N-E-V-E-R respect you. Next her and go read the side bar
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:49 PM
2

I think you answered yourself. she’s just a waste of time Time is our more valuable asset. Next her
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:30 PM
1

The only way is by increasing your SMV or going for lower quality women
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:23 PM
1

Tldr but based on the title id say you have to realize didnt have the resources/luck to find the red pill. Its probabily not his fault as a lot of us would be blue pilled for Life if it wasnt for internet
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:22 PM
2

I have the rule of "no duble text". If i send a message and she doesnt reply, i wont initiate again until She does. Also if the reply she gives is not worth replying i wont.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:15 PM
5

Be fun, mysterious and dont validate women.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:11 PM
1

Hiking or a park
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:05 PM
2

Women tend to work on covert communication, so i would say showing that your time if valuable instead of threats or telling them is preferable
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:01 PM
2

she (hopefully) finally submits If she is a plate, You dont "hope" for anything. If she wants it, good, if she doesnt, good. Women react differently to these strategies. Dont overanalyze.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 04:43 PM
4

This is women nature and their hamster spinning, she doesnt realize the ridiculousness of the situation and is shit testing you. You cant avoid shit tests, only pass or fail them. If you cuddle when she asks, you fail, she gets your validation and you are no longer a challenge. If you pass the shit test, she will see You as a high value man who wont validate some random bitch when she demands it because you probabily got other options.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 04:33 PM
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When women say they only like 6ft and above its because it "sounds" better. Most of them dont even know how to judge height in person. As long as you arent shorter you'll be fine. If You are really concearned wear boots, it makes you taller. If they comment on your height or imply that you are short, use the classic "oh yeah i work as a midget at the Circus, You should come to One of my shows"
/r/askTRP22/06/20 04:20 PM
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If your sense of value comes from the outside, i think you should work on yourself first. Unless you are confident in yourself all the comments and looks you will get from the outside by dating a taller woman will probabily afect you
/r/askTRP22/06/20 04:10 PM
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