Been with a girl about 6 months. All green flags, excellent girlfriend, does everything I want and more. I’m much higher smv than her - been lifting 7 years, sub 10% bf year round, have my own apartment, high paying job, Ton of hobbies etc.

Anyway everything is going well, to me. Sex is often and very good- usually see her 3-4x a week and fuck at least once or twice every time.

Today we hung out and she seemed put off, I didn’t play into it as I hate those games so I acted normal. By the end of the night she started crying so I gave her some Comfort.

She said that I am too scheduled, lack anything spontaneous, that I’m a shit texter, and she wants to see me more.

For the most part... all of that is true. The spontaneous part and scheduled are the only ones I cared about. I work 45-50 hours a week, I have a side business, lift/bike 5 days a week, and have large social circle of friends I hangout with.

So I am obviously busy but I make time for her when it permits.

My question is, how can I spice of the relationship and be less routined with her?

She does everything I want and I enjoy her company. But to me, she is saying tingles are fading.