gf is a redditor so throwaway for obvious reasons. Also I'm not an English native, so sorry for awkward grammar and such.

Basically I discovered TRP about a month ago (thanks a lot 2X lol) and I've read some stuff in the sidebar and now I'm wondering if my gf's red flags are excuseable or what.. I kinda suspect she's either super feminist or I'm her bb, so what do you guys think?

Basic background: me, mid thirties, doing my phd in IT, red hair, 176 cm, 70 kg. Gym about 3 times a week. My social life really suffers bc of phd and such, hobbies are reading (psychology and philosophy) and vidya. I'm pretty introvert and don't do ons, had 4-ish LTRs before I was with current gf. Lost the v-card at age 16. My last relationship ended pretty badly since I had a bad case of oneitis while she only wanted sex, after that it took me 2 years to get over it, yeah I know, beta as hell.

gf is mid twenties, doing her phd in math, about 168 cm and 55 kg. She spent some time riding the cc, had 3 LTRs before me, 2 ons and 2 longterm fuckbuddies. So basically I'm the 8th dick in her hole but she's only no 5 for me. Honestly it doesn't really bother me since I get approached in bars and such but I just don't feel like doing ons, while she "needed the validation that she's hot from someone who doesn't have feelings for her". She's also still in contact with some of her exes and former cocks. whatevs, she was probably bullied during hs. Worst thing though is she says she would like to be a person who could have an open relationship: Aparently she tried to have one with her last bf but it failed due to mutual jealousy so they went back to a normal relationship again. She still admires people who have open relationships and wants to be "emotionally as strong as them".

So for now you'd probably say she's a slut and I should next her. However, she also has some good qualities and I'm in kinda tight spot, and this makes the decision a bit hard. So the tight spot is: I don't have time for partying or meeting new women, I'm literally working 7 days a week. I only know my gf bc we share the same office at work. Apart from that demographics are pretty screwed at our town, there are only about 30% of young people females.

Her good qualities: Since we work in the same office I can pretty much guarantee gfs loyality. She doesn't have friends in this town apart from an rpg group at work. Apart from that she's the most intelligent female I've encountered so far and we can talk about pretty much anything. Also, she cooks for us, wears feminine clothes and enjoys sucking my dick (but she doesn't want to do anal :( ). She rarely 'partys', doesn't get drunk and doesn't smoke. No tattoos or stds. She has some ethics she follows and hates hypocrites.

However, at age 25 she's obviously heading for the wall so I guess she is trying to get her bb or sth. But I'm not sure. atm, she's making more money than me and her plans for the future are to become a working mother. Her idea is to take the (future) baby with her to work. I can see where she's coming from since we both already pretty much live at work, so if she would work 80 hours without baby or 100 with, it probably wouldn't make much of a difference. She wouldn't mind the guy staying at home either since she will probably make a lot of money once she finished her phd.

Still, this all reeks of feminism.

Personally, I don't really care if she is working while being a mom or not, in the end I want to have a low-maintenance relationship with a girl who could bear me some children that would end up mostly happy and successful. And of course, I don't wanna get fucked over by the bitch.

TL;DR: Hard to find a new gf, current gf of 1 year rode the cc but is otherwise ok. Has feminist ideals but is kinda able to earn tons of money. Next her?