Am I missing out on alot?

Terdmuffin · 2019-11-24T08:08:56+00:00

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2019-11-24T08:17:54+00:00

You're 18, it's normal to feel like this. Most people go through a similar thing in their early life transitioning from a social environment such as school and into the real world or higher education. Things get more isolated after studies most likely because everyone (and you should be) focusing on your mission.

If a dope social life is what you're after it isn't going to come easy. It's one of the harder and more time consuming things to undertake because it requires things such as, time commitment, social value and social skills. All of which are moulded slowly and thoughtfully when one abandons a social circle and starts fresh in search of another.

Also, it's worthwhile asking yourself, would you hang out with you? Are you cool or interesting to hang out with?

Opperkech69 · 2019-11-24T09:35:36+00:00

"Why do I never get invited to places dad?"

"How much people have you invited to your place or an event you organized?"

frozieondabeat · 2019-11-24T10:10:52+00:00

If you want to not seem desperate - its going to get lonely but I could break it down. Having friends means you have social contacts and once or twice a week you can create social activities or talk maybe a few times a week. But it doesn't mean that your philosophy should change. Get your purpose together - focus on yourself and when you become higher value- people will start chasing you. The less time you have for them, he more they will want it.

So...

Get a purpose or a project to work on. Whilst working on the project- work on yourself- always improve yourself and really be aware of what you do and say to everyone.. this way you're constantly improving your social skills.

People will start to notice that you got no time for drama or bullshit and respect will rise.

48 laws of power helps to master that. Use that along with red pill and you should do well soon.

Most people will be acquaintances so dont expect much unless you can really charm.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-11-24T15:55:59+00:00

Good old FOMO or fear of missing out.

Look it up.

KingSwizzy22 · 2019-11-27T18:07:54+00:00

Probably because you try to hard to be an asshole. Nobody wants to fuck with somebody like that. Just be firm but not douchey.

KingSwizzy22 · 2019-11-27T18:18:15+00:00

Probably because you try to hard to be an asshole. Nobody wants to fuck with somebody like that. Just be firm but not douchey.

Title	Am I missing out on alot?
Author	notashittyperson69
Upvotes	3
Comments	17
Date	November 24, 2019 7:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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