I think it’s fair to say that there is always going to be someone that is more alpha than you. There is always going to be someone better looking and more jacked, richer, higher status, better game etc. That’s just a fact of life.

We know it’s female nature that girls are naturally hypergamous as well. Then factor in any girl with above average looks is going to have sexual options beyond your wildest imagination.

So how do you ever really win in this situation? You walk into any club and the above applies. You enter into a LTR and the above applies. You attempt to spin plates and the above applies. You attempt to game girls and the above applies. Unless you’re 10/10 guy you’re going to be in a losing position virtually all the time.

It just seems like someone out there is always either going to ‘take’ from you, or what I think happens most of the time, out alpha you, so you never get off the ground to begin with.

Realistically what’s the best version of life given all of this?