This is going to be semi long, I’ll try to make it short.

Basically, I’d say I’m a pretty serious guy overall, but sometimes my goofiness comes out. It’s not really an approval seeking type of goofiness, it’s generally careless and just self amusement, too high energy, but I feel like it can get annoying to some people. Which I don’t really care about what people think, but I’m willing to adjust my behavior to maintain high respect and status. I’ll give you a few examples

Today for instance, we were playing a pickup football game with some friends and their friends in PE class. When we were playing I felt like screaming HUT real loud. It made people laugh and they were screaming it too a bit later on, and I would scream it back and own it. Overall I’d say it’s not a bad thing but I felt like a few times they were trying to mock me by making it intentionally high pitched (my voice is very deep so idk where that came from), not in a malicious way and I wasn’t hurt, but I don’t want to be the butt of the jokes. I’m going to scream hut at the guys when I see them in the halls, what do you think about that idea?

At the same game, another example. Basically someone caught me when I was running with the ball but I just ignored it and “scored” a touchdown. I celebrated with a very loud yeaaaa and kicked the ball in a funny way. Everyone laughed, and the chick that seems to be into me too. Do you think it’s an attractive thing overall to make a chick laugh like that, or nah?

Again at the same game, I basically just ran around and did some funny shit like a little kid. Made ppl laugh and I laughed too.

I’m not stressed about it but I want to analyze it and improve. So what do you guys think? Am I a confident careless guy or an overly goofy idiot in this specific situation? Again, I’m pretty serious most of the time but during games like this I laugh my ass off and do stupid shit. During games this is not uncommon for me. Cheers

Tl;dr just read one example paragraph if you’re too lazy for the whole thing