Anger phase

Helpcalculus · 2018-05-31T10:29:01+00:00

MMA will help with the fear of other men.

As for the anger, you just have to ride it. You can't go without it. Could take several months. But I promise you that at one moment you will internalize why you are angry at someone's actions and you'll realize it's because you used to be that way and you just resent the action, not the person. That's when you are free from anger.

Took me about 5-6 months to reach that moment of realization.

kendallb183 · 2018-05-31T09:40:28+00:00

I am angry, I was angry too. There is satisfaction that comes from knowing you can pull the strings now. I was abused as a kid, beaten a lot. I think it may be a great idea for me to start doing juizitsu or boxing... reclaim my confidence in physical boundaries. I'll tell you, as far as mental boundaries go... you stop being angry that you've been blind, and start being angry that your letting yourself currently be manipulated. Next comes using that masculine anger to motivate yourself to freedom. I think that's what makes men different. They say anger is the only emotion men can feel as strongly as women. I believe it. When a man is angry, it envelopes his entire being. Imagine being a woman who feels this with everything. Nevertheless, as a woman, I think anger causes rage and they are flooded and unable to think clearly. I think with a man, and alpha man, his anger is channeled into extreme focus. He uses it as energy to achieve those things he otherwise couldn't. Let it motivate you to make yourself the man who you want to be, free of manipulation. Now I'm pissed. Now I'm so pissed I refuse to be a slave to my own debt any longer. I refuse to stay at the body fat% I am, I WILL, hell or high water, make it to the gym, give my fucking all, stop impulsive spending, and own my shit. Then i will be my own keeper. I will be a man who no longer is financially owned, physically owned, or mentally owned. I can say with confidence, no, I disagree, and need no explanation nor fear reprisal. Use your anger to build yourself to a place where no one can control you, no one can manipulate you, and you are free to do as you please.

Killing__Time_ · 2018-05-31T09:58:09+00:00

BJJ.

MisterDSTP · 2018-05-31T17:26:22+00:00

Hate is your own little ego hamster spinning furiously to try protect you from the fact that it's all your fault.

Dealt a bad hand? Too bad. Deal with it.

Daddy was a bad guy? Too bad. Deal with it.

Mommy gave you gentle handjobs so you'd sleep more than 4 hours? Too bad. Deal with it.

It's what you do with your life that matters. We all have shit that's happened to us.

But it's how you deal with it and move on that makes the man.

You're wasting time.

Title	Anger phase
Author	asadi1
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	May 31, 2018 9:23 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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