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Would you say you know that after having dealt with one?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 10:07 PM
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BPD women are notorious for being very normal to begin with. If you have no reason to know their signs, you'd never pick up the subtle cues in the beginning. Anyone can fall for one thinking their totally normal and fun. Its after they start showing themselves 6 months in that someone has the first opportunity to bail.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 09:41 PM
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There is no "alpha" amount that will prevent an unaware person from falling for their tactics. The first one is due to unawareness, if there's a second one... it is absolutely your fault though.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 09:23 PM
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Just plan multiple dates in a day, is like saying dude just be yourself and you'll get girls... or just be confident. Like yeah really ok, just do that its so easy. Says someone living in a fairytale world.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 10:09 PM
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Exactly.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:52 AM
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In my fraternity it pretty much was field tested before my eyes for 3 years. The fat girl gets know by all the guys especially the alpha dude as the nice girl. She quickly sees she out matched with the guys and girls in the situation so she defaults to her great personality and hoping to get the most alpha beta she can. All her friends just see it as more social proof, and draws people together
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:51 AM
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It was a quote from a very used post made a long time ago. I dont know the link or id link it. Shit the damn thing almost became sidebar material. The idea was you can't take non consensual sex from a woman and she equally can't take non consensual attention from a man and follow you around trying to argue with you. Taken out of context it sounds horrible, even in context of the original post it was bad, but thats the jist of what it meant in that OPs point
/r/askMRP26/01/21 12:49 AM
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I learned in my fraternity, always be nice to fat chick's because they almost always have hot friends
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:15 AM
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28 Y.O. 5'10" Diet: using 3 point skin fold test for BF 13 Oct Total weight 200 lbs, 21.4% bf Lean 157.2; Fat lbs - 42.8 27 Oct Total weight 195.8 18.1 % bf Lean 159.7lbs Fat 35.3 lbs Lifts: compound day is Thursday so no comparison yet on dead lifts and squats Bench increased 20 lbs Delt no increase Bicept 30lbs, got 2 more reps to end at 8 reps before needing assistance to finish set Triceps Up 5 lbs Deadlift: 115lbs x 3 sets of 10, will look to increase this week Squat: 3rd set pushed 185 lbs…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 06:47 PM
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So, what I understood was that I shouldn't be asking her to take care of him while I go do something mentally masturbating or low value. If I have a legitimate high value task to accomplish I should be ready to tell her im gonna go do X and I need her to watch him and ignore her if she tries to bitch and complain about it. On the other side, if I am off doing something stupid or wasting time, I should prob be OYS and taking care of the baby too. She will get very pissed if I said I was gonna sta…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 11:12 PM
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To keep things short, to answer a few of your other points before I forget. 1. If you look at my post history you will see I have essentially a form of schizophrenia with bipolar also. I went from being a normalish dude to learning to deal with this giant illness like it hit me like a Mac truck. I can't even drive right now because my mental ability to multitask and stay concentrated are shot to hell. So I miss traffic signals and normal traffic things like people merging. I was way, way worse. …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 07:47 PM
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What happened? 9 institutionalizations last up to 30 days a piece in a psych ward trying to figure out what was going on with me. The shortcuts didn't get me to somewhere bad. I have a lot of free time now so my MAP includes some unorthodox but interesting areas id like to see if they work. You did take some things out of context. The flashlight post was a guy asking how to handle having used death grip jerking off making himself not able to have sex normally. Having been through this myself way…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 05:59 PM
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My disability ads up to over 7k a month. When I was getting removed from my job I got a 1 time free move. I was going to go 3 months with no income. I had a few thousand saved. I asked if I could sell my current hous to buy my grandparents spare house they own outright. They said no because they see it as a family heirloom and wanted to make sure I couldn't sell it to someone else. So they offered if I pay for the repairs and put a new tin roof on it, I could live there for free. Knowing I was g…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 05:44 PM
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So the $2500 is only a big deal because when we're starting off our saving journey it has more of an impact now, and I also want to establish good habits and precedence with how we handle our savings, to ensure we reach $350k. It may not be financially significant but it is precedentually impactful. I will say I have the problem of compensating from one side of the pendulum to the other too far back and forth until I finally figure out what the healthy middle ground is, for instance. Your correc…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 05:38 PM
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We live rent free with no bills on my grandparents property. So all our income minus groceries electric water and internet is ours to keep. 5 years will be nearly 500k total income, were saving 350k of it for a house. I am on SSDI because of my disability. I can't work because of my memory and hallucinations and stuff. All income is tax free. For instance studying for a cscs is my hobby and will take me 3 or 4 times longer than a normal person to learn because of my disability but I still wanna …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 05:58 PM
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OYS #2. Physical: Confirmed surgery to fix rotator cuffs and SLAP tear, going to be both shoulders at once, in a sling for 3 months, 6 months until normal functioning, 1 year till I can fully weight lift again. ETA on surgery is looking to happen in about 6 months from now. Started cut until then because any mass I gain will be lost in the 1 year of recovery. Weight lifting: Created workout plan. Executing now. (I did more exercises per muscle group than listed but I'm summarizing the main test …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 06:39 AM
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I've weight lifted for 15 years. I know how to do it and what to do. And right now I started doing it. Using the example of a dog house the other guy used. I've built dog houses for 15 years. I took a break and am rusty building them... but I also know when I was building them I could have had more finesse, more efficiency, and higher quality. So as I start building dog houses again, I may as well also study how to build a better dog house while I'm at it.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 08:45 PM
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Becoming a certified physical trainer won't help me even more than following a pre-made workout?
/r/askMRP16/10/20 08:26 PM
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Well, thanks for your help. I dont know how to keep her from being insecure about the texts without DEERing. And no, I am legitimately at my cousins house working on shit. A reddit post takes 2 minutes tops. I've started working out, doing chores without any expectations, stopped playing video games, started taking my son way more often during the day and take him all night now. I quit drinking for 2 weeks. I've started studying for a physical trainer, its like 700 pages and goes all the way int…
/r/askMRP16/10/20 08:01 PM
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Going of what im reading from essentials of strength training and conditioning certified by the national strength conditioning association (the highest level of physical training you can obtain) it says a few things for older people. Ensure your other health concerns are all taken care of, diabetes, cardiovascular ect. Resistance machines are suggested to begin with because they ensure you are stabilized. After that its recommended to not use any machines and only use free weights eith full rang…
/r/askMRP16/10/20 07:51 PM
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I've read the verbal rape post I was told to read and they said if withdrawing your presence from your wife in the house and she's trying to rape your attention still to leave the house all together. Did I interprete that wrong? I get the value part. Makes sense. Would her not getting pissed im leaving not show im valuable enough she doesn't want me to leave or is it just something else?
/r/askMRP16/10/20 07:21 PM
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I'm half way through my physical trainer books and they discuss older workouts based on slower bone regulation and less cartridge durability ect so let me look it up and ill try to post it here for others to get guidance too
/r/askMRP16/10/20 05:14 AM
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Quick search on Google, first result of many. There are 2 muscles yes, but because the arm and sternum create a pivot point where the weight goes will determine which muscle fibers get activated the most to balance the fulcrum. Hence building outer, middle, and upper chest. Incline presses use the major pectoral but it requires activation primarily of the upper chest for instance. If you want the top of your pec to be bulk and balanced looking with the rest of your pec then you need to do inclin…
/r/askMRP15/10/20 11:54 PM
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Famous saying is abs are made in the kitchen not the gym. Thats what I tell the folks I've mentored in the past who do like a million crunches but they are upset they dont have a 6 pack. Im like yeah no shit your at 15% bf. (Not saying I'm not fat now but still)
/r/askMRP15/10/20 10:14 PM
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I would only say that you should add decline press to get your outer pec, it gives it that almost ) shape instead of a / Close grip presses are great for inner chest which most people never do so they end up with pyramid pecs. Just a suggestion take or leave it.
/r/askMRP15/10/20 10:12 PM
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Gotta say I haven't heard of that before but is very interesting. Im gonna look into it.
/r/askMRP15/10/20 08:04 PM
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Yeah I ended up focusing more paleo as you described. I like meat a lot as most men do... so that works. Unfortunatly my wife wants to workout too (rope is getting a little tighter) but girls are proven to desire carbs over protein, so I'll have to find a way to get a good mix for her to get what she craves but what she needs.
/r/askMRP15/10/20 07:50 PM
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Do you know what size bra I need for my man boobs? Seriously, I agree with you. Just another area I was trying to take a shortcut. I need to reality check myself.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 02:18 AM
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Yeah, no lifting, no diet no nothing. I did 15 year of great dieting and lifts and shit and threw it away in 2 years. I'm gonna get on board. Looks like I'll be making my own diet from the ground up too. Time to get a food scale and start calculating calories again.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 02:18 AM
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+yeah I figured I could do 5x5 in a deficit. especially with an injury. so good catch on me fucking up my own explination. I'll prob go with high reps low weight I'd like to see some 6:30 miles again for sure
/r/askMRP14/10/20 02:16 AM
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I see a Ph.D psychologist twice a week and a psychiatrist twice a month. I'm religious about telling them what is going on and following their advice as closely as I can. I've done DNP before and it is very dangerous if not treated with utmost respect. I'm on the DNP subreddit making sure my MG calcs are right, the titration is correct, and my supps are perfect. I'll only be going a little higher than the last dose. Next grocery trip will start back up my lean lifestyle. If I can hold that lifes…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 02:14 AM
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I have used DNP in the past and I know the rebound it can cause. I've also been on a steady 500 calory deficit diet multiple times for extended lengths of time before during cutting phases. Iobiously went into a surplus usually high protein for my bulks. being 5'10 and reaching 195 lbs of muscle at 6% body fat is no easy feat and took a long time of having a lifestyle. My fight with mental illness fucked that. So now I'm definitly working toward getting back into that lifestyle, as long as I can…
/r/askMRP14/10/20 02:04 AM
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The nagging and bitching i want to make stop. Trying to constantly tell me what to do. I wasn't trying to justify anything. I explained the hurdle that caused me to get to my point and how I am going to overcome it. I tried to use the old me, hurdle, new me, how I'm going to fix it kind of template with all of my statements. Can you give me more posts and info on STFU so I can quit being a retard with it?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 07:59 PM
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OYS +1 28 Y.O. 5'10" Work - Medically retired from the military due to disability, make 90k a year. Lifts - Was 195lbs 6% BF lifting 315BP, Started having Schizoaffective disorder, mentally hospitalized many times. Lost ability to do anything on my own. Also blew both rotator cuffs and a SLAP tear in my right shoulder. Went to Phz therapy 2x with no success. Scapular disfunction as well. Lifts are now nothing. Surgery recommended. I am going to start doing rotator cuff friendly lifts. I'm down t…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 05:05 PM
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No I would have preferred she just slept while I hung out and quit coming out every hour or half hour and listened when I said just go to bed. I mean she didn't control my frame in that I didn't just be a simp and tell everyone to go home and go to bed... or even care when she switched rooms (she switched back like I figured she would). I also watched the football game despite her taking the remote and telling my friends to leave. I told them to go no where and to stay. But it was like she litte…
/r/askMRP13/10/20 12:23 AM
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So more if the story. I went to the neighbors house which is my cousin. I said I was gonna drink till about 11 there then head back up to the house. At 11 I wanted to keep having fun but also keep my word so I brought everyone over to the fireplace on my porch. We all sat together and kept talking. My wife came out and said isn't it time for bed and I said nah I wana keep hanging out. I said she could join if she wanted but I'm not going in. She came out an hour later and asked to talk to me ins…
/r/askMRP12/10/20 11:02 PM
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Yes I did write what I did or didn't do in two seperate place.... for her nagging every 2 hours I said "I told her to just go to bed and im gonna stay outside like I want. Didn't stop her. Kept going and going until it got so awkward people wanted to leave." And for the time yesterday I used a pressure flip I said "I tried it today and she just went off and pouted but I know to stay calm and not react to her so she can't see her emotional rants effect me"
/r/askMRP12/10/20 09:44 PM
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I have no shits given about your "ego test" you retroactively say you gave me. I read this subreddit a few times a day and there's a lot of BP fuckers who think this RP shit is all about insulting people and because they aren't RP they can't give any actual advice. So they try to mimick what they see and give the "your a faggot" part of quality posts without any of the actual advice like a RP man could and always does give. Look at the other responses. They call me a cunt but actually give resou…
/r/askMRP12/10/20 01:22 AM
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Fair enough. So the advice of just saying I wanted to do something and responding to her questions whats wrong with what im doing to flip it on her was in the WISNIFG book, I just haven't really tried using it. I tried it today and she just went off and pouted but I know to stay calm and not react to her so she can't see her emotional rants effect me
/r/askMRP11/10/20 11:45 PM
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No constructive criticism. I appreciate those people who have swallowed TRP and can actually offer advice, not just people who insult without giving advice... makes me think they too are BP and just know how to insult people. Really, you just look like someone that can talk shit not actually knowledgeable about anything when you just go around throwing bullshit empty posts like this.
/r/askMRP11/10/20 11:43 PM
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I've read a lot of material and I'm obviously asking because I want to learn what to do to take the material and apply it to my specific case. And that bitch was straight up crazy. Multiple suicide attempts, pointed a gun at me just waving it around, disappeared all the time, would go from sweet and nice to straight up bat outta hell. She was on a shit load of drugs and they said she needs 10 years of therapy to undo all the shit she went through as a kid that made her so fucning crazy. 3 fuckin…
/r/askMRP11/10/20 08:19 PM
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Yeah, well sometimes I think I go overboard. I stayed up all night hanging with my friends outside until noon the next day and she kept coming outside every 2 hours yelling about she's alone and wants me to be with her cause she can't sleep alone. I told her to just go to bed and im gonna stay outside like I want. Didn't stop her. Kept going and going until it got so awkward people wanted to leave.
/r/askMRP11/10/20 08:05 PM
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So if she's been very codependent her whole life how do you slowly break this seperation anxiety to be able to go without throwing her into a pure insecure comfort testing raging fit?
/r/askMRP11/10/20 07:47 PM
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So if she's been very codependent her whole life how do you slowly break this seperation anxiety to be able to go without throwing her into a pure insecure comfort testing raging fit?
/r/askMRP11/10/20 07:47 PM
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So if she's been very codependent her whole life how do you slowly break this seperation anxiety to be able to go without throwing her into a pure insecure comfort testing raging fit?
/r/askMRP11/10/20 07:46 PM
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New show to watch, cool enough. I like movie examples really helps with visual learning folks like me
/r/askMRP11/10/20 07:32 PM
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No she questions like all the stuff I do or want to do. She's starting to slowly pull me into frame and I'm figuring out ways that fit my personality to stay in my own frame
/r/askMRP11/10/20 07:31 PM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP11/10/20 07:29 PM
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It isn't just what he owns... its about pride in himself and how to achieve it on a budget. I dont care what he wears as long as he put effort to make himself as presentable and high status as he can with it. If he's in the emo crowd, have the haircut that sticks out and fits in, wear shirts that fit who you are and ones that make you feel good wearing them. Go out feeling like you own a million dollars because you put 100% effort into your style, your body, your place when you can get girls bac…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:47 AM
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I wasn't saying wear designer jeans. I even said get shit from goodwill. The point is to dress in a way that makes you feel confident. What ever or how ever that is. I was offering cheap ways to achieve this in any design. I may have skewed it towards what i do in my style so i can see a correction on that.. my advice is what I did to gain confidence.. the principles apply... but the execution is personality based.. And I absolutely agree if you put gold on a turd you just have a shiny turd. So …
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:41 AM
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I grew up sleeping on a floor using a towel as a blanket poor. The thing I developed was this intense drive to become better. This started affecting all my life. I began a hunger to be better in all areas. This is the RP way. Once I reached making 6 figures I felt on top of the world. I could wear amazing clothes, sweet ass leather shoes, a fitted leather sports coat jacket that got tons of attention, you get the picture. These things got me attention and made me more confident. It was the confi…
/r/askTRP10/10/20 06:53 PM
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What % of your income goes to child support?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 01:44 AM
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What was the alimony and child support like? Did you get divorce raped or did it work out pretty good for you? If it was divorce rape, how long until it quit stinging so bad mentally and financially?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:18 PM
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There are flashlights made for this and great instructions how to use them for this purpose. If you dont want a flashlight just use the same concept and jerk away. Slowly start using less and less squeeze and get acclimated to less and less pressure. Go slow. MKe sure you can still get an orgasm at each new level a few times in a row before going a little looser
/r/askTRP29/09/20 07:13 PM
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I guess I should care even less but I guess but what is makiing it irritate me is kind of like the anger stage we all went through learning TRP, I am seeing how its not just my wife but her own family that sees the same things.
/r/askMRP10/09/20 12:35 AM
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She just said she thinks their stupid, so its not like something im a tally worried about. More like I baffled at how fucking right RP is in showing actual human dynamics. Litterally AWALT but not just my SO but her feminist sisters reactions too
/r/askMRP10/09/20 12:30 AM
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Done
/r/askMRP09/09/20 11:42 PM
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Did anyone else mentally cringe reading that? When was the last time he smacked her on the ass to be funny? Prob 15 years ago, when he was still getting laid.
/r/askMRP05/09/20 04:14 AM
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Your seeing hypergamy at work. She's secured you on her terms and agenda. Now she can expose herself to other guys and be vetting them for chad status thats worth fucking for her own pleasure when she's bored by you. If you've been a lurker you will see a lot about how girls nights out are a huge redflag. My wife refuses to have a girls night out and always wants me to be with her if she goes to anything. She doesn't like partying with people she doesn't know. The people she does know, she has m…
/r/askMRP21/08/20 06:45 PM
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Not true. I've met plenty of girls at the gym or athletics like track and stuff that looked great but weren't about instragram. They got their validation from owning their shit, like hitting new PRs in the gym or winning races and shit... they didnt need to hoe out on insta. Met a amazing girl once super well rounded was a women's basketball player in high-school, she had a great body to compliment her looks, she never used social media for validation really.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 04:36 AM
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I could never see myself with a girl like that. I guess I just find it a repulsive trait in a female I believe is of quality
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 12:50 PM
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If you even get around to reading this, for what its worth it sounds like you have worked on yourself enough to start having a higher SMV than your partner. Your the one getting attention and shes the one who is feeling the dread. Based on RP theory in all relationships one person is the one with the higher SMV and the other is left with the dread. MRP is about how to maintain that higher SMV. The unfortunate downside is when you have a higher SMV you have options that open up with it. Those opt…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 05:13 AM
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Not true. I've seen a false rape accusation because a girls boyfriend found out she cheated on him and she said she didn't want to have sex with him, he raped her... just so her boyfriend wouldn't leave her. One police investigation later the truth comes out she lied.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 03:23 PM
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If you read this, it is the most detestable use of the justice system I've ever seen. It litterally says for a woman to get ready for a divorce, find a reason to file a protection order which is granted 85% of the time, which makes the father immediatly removed from the home forcibly by the police, he isn't allowed to get a checkbook or belongings other than his wallet. He then has to continue paying the mortgage, is not allowed and access to see his children until the custody battle is over. Th…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 06:19 AM
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Your still asking what you can do for her to get you laid. The redpill mentality is to quit thinking in terms of how to get something from her by doing just the right amount of x y or z. Youve made having sex with her the prize you have to win and your playing what ever game you can to win it. The thing the redpill teaches is that by trying to win that game you ensure you lose it. You get your wife to fuck you by improving yourself, stop chasing her showing how desperate you are (because women c…
/r/askMRP21/06/20 03:58 AM
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Also, a woman would never tell you to go find options if your a man she knows has options better than her. Doesnt help you DEERd, and said you were "pissed off" due to her attitude. You didnt FOG. You gave her something solid to argue with and she hit you with that line to remind you shes the one with the balls in the relationship.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 11:05 PM
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Part of it is your mission. When your in STFU mode, you keep doing your mission. Butt hurt is equivalent to sulking. Imagine sulking. That looks much different than a man being to himself getting shit done. Working his hobbies, his housework, or his life.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 11:03 PM
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My go-to line is to put it on a table or floor and say the floor does such a better job holding stuff than me. Then I act like she never asked me to do it to begin with. Usually only takes doing this once with a chick and she got the message. Never holding shit. I'm not a call boy.
/r/askMRP21/11/19 04:58 PM
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What is the eat pray love part of life?
/r/askMRP20/11/19 02:37 PM
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Not sure I understand what you mean
/r/askMRP18/11/19 04:37 PM
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I was married to a woman with BPD and tried to use MRP to make things work, but it was awful, so I got a divorce. I spun plates for a while, found a girl who fit a lot of the RP standards and got engaged. We got married 2 weeks ago. My post history is bizarre because I go a long time between posts so it looks like it's all happened at once when it's actually spread over a couple of years time.
/r/askMRP18/11/19 04:22 PM
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Yup, there just waiting for you to demonstrate you've got frame stronger than theirs via passing their tests of your frame. If you pay attention the guys who are already popular and get the girls get shit tested a lot but it just comes off as funny because the guy makes it a joke and the girl laughs. When watching a dude and chick together who is being shit tested and hes passing itll look more like playful banter.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 02:04 PM
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Mask off by future- "Chase a check Never chase a bitch" Favorite line.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 01:35 PM
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Go to the main Redpill sidebar and read the link managing your bitches. Near the bottom explains levels of plates and upgrading or downgrading and when why to do it
/r/askTRP06/11/19 12:52 AM
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Follow standard plate rules. She has earned the position of plate, enjoy it, help let it build your abundance mentality. If she breaks rules downgrade her to ghost.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 11:39 PM
4

Third guy saying lack of attraction
/r/askMRP02/11/19 03:30 AM
2

Second guy to call it an attraction issue
/r/askMRP02/11/19 03:28 AM
4

Everything you wrote screams attraction problem. I'm not going to get into an internet debate, I think you can see the general consensus here. If she was attracted to you shes be throwing her pussy at you, not giving you no. A woman can easily friendzone her husband. Which if you know about the friendzone you know it's where they put emotional sexless relationships in their mind. Women dont friendzone guys they wanna fuck, they fuck them. Wouldnt you feel disgusted if you had to have sex with an…
/r/askMRP02/11/19 03:27 AM
8

You wanted to end starfish sex, so you gave an ultimatum with hidden expectations (covert contract) to a woman who isnt currently attracted to you, and are asking us if it will work?! First, golden rule, STFU. You lost your power when you told her you wanted to see if SHE will initiate. You showed your hand that you are testing her and now she knows it. Ultimatums and pressure for sex are repulsive to women. You just put the duty into duty sex. Hopefully she is attracted enough to you she doesnt…
/r/askMRP01/11/19 10:05 PM
2

That's my go-to is just being cocky funny and saying yeah I know with a half cocked smile. Works everytime.
/r/askMRP24/10/19 09:34 PM
1

I'm not really thinking to solve this problem in this instance, just is any given scenario where this kind of thing is happening, where a bitchy woman holds position of power. Maybe even your boss at times.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 10:19 PM
1

She worked at the reception desk for the doctor I visited. I just ignored her but wondered if there was a stronger response to a womans bullshit in that situation. I tried to call for directions and it went to voice mail so when I mentioned it, she took offence as if I said she wasnt doing her job and started on with an intense attitude. Then all of a sudden couldnt be bothered to help find a decent appointment time or anything and just gave me attitude. I ended up with a real shitty appointment…
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:32 AM
1

Entitlement. There in the position of power in that dynamic.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 09:11 PM
1

Respect.
/r/askMRP04/04/19 09:41 PM
2

Lmao, what ever dude.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 03:46 AM
2

Yeah, I kinda saw him not fucking the chick as a missed opportunity too. You can almost see herself lose attraction in him for not doing it too.
/r/askMRP02/04/19 10:53 PM
1

I will agree you can find some Rambo examples in hollywood... I say in this movie he gets pretty close. In breaking bad, he def decides hes going to blaze his own path whith a whole lot of IDGAF.
/r/askMRP02/04/19 10:51 PM
2

I saw it as the guy starts building his frame piece by piece and ends up doing it successfully. You can see him change in exactly the ways redpill changes a man. For all the reasons I listed earlier. You dont call it building frame to stop taking shit from your wife, start living how you want to live, and stop taking it in the ass from your job? To me this is clearly building frame. I am a full believer though the ending was meant to put an end to the demonized husband who stopped following momm…
/r/askMRP02/04/19 10:50 PM
3

Such is your opinion. I find that movies over exaggerate traits that may be subtle and unnoticed in normal interaction. It was from watching prozac nation I could clearly see what BPD looks like. My ex has it, and something about being in the relationship clouds the judgement and perspective. I admit I was rationalizing away her behaviors. The movie however, I was able to see from an outsider looking in these same traits my ex had... and as I saw the character show these traits and was appalled.…
/r/askMRP02/04/19 04:41 PM
2

And he is happy. That's what's key, is he achieved his own happiness
/r/askMRP02/04/19 04:33 PM
6

At work, your beta ass boss may start to low key target you, or your alpha as fuck boss decides he needs to flex his power and put you back in your place. Either once can have life altering consequences
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:22 PM
2

I would argue that women do self improve. They are capable, intact are deadly accurate at finding the path of least resistance to get their goal. From your perspective their goal may be "bad" i.e. hypergamy, but from their perspective it's not bad. Who's right? Well the philosophy has been argued for centuries what is truly good or bad, does it even exist. But to say that a woman is incapable of realizing her actions led to an unfavorable response, and to intentionally avoid that action again...…
/r/askMRP26/03/19 05:09 PM
5

You litterally watched hypergamy at work, and the hamster rationalization after, and a little shame/guilt trip "you missed out on getting laid" when he didnt buy it. What a clear cut example. If she did this in front of you, imagine what she would have done behind your back. Unless you were gonna plate her, then what ever... A&A, amused mastery her and make it a joke like you dont give a fuck... because she clearly showed all she cares about is getting laid, why would you care any more than that…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:08 AM
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Context really matters here. If shes coming from a position of I'm not turned on right now(because of your SMV) but I know if I dont do something he might leave me for a woman who will.... so I'll negotiate down the duty sex I have to give.... Or, I'm really horney but sex wont work cause I've got a yeast infection or something shes not telling you about... I'll give a blowjob instead to still have some fun. The test to see which she is doing is the frequency this is happening. If it's been ever…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:41 PM
2

You poor blissful soul. Let's hope you never find out from experience.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:50 AM
1

Same thing for me,
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:49 AM
1

My own policy is this... I am allowed to pleasure myself with her body. She offered it to me and asked me to use it to please myself. If I do something that's not a turn on for her, but isnt something painful, but it is a turn on for me, then I do it. If it's not a negative for her, and a positive for me, why feel guilty doing it? My SO said, its awkward when you touch my asshole, I said I'm not doing it to give you pleasure, so if your nor getting any, that's ok... I'm doing it for my pleasure.…
/r/askMRP19/02/19 03:45 PM
5

I would suggest focusing on the amused part of amused mastery. If you see shit tests as her throwing a grenade you have to now deal with, of course you will be wore out. If you see shit tests like you would any other friend giving you shit and think it's funny and play joke right back... you'll find you are having fun in the relationship now. MRP isnt about learning to pretend you dont care but secretly feel upset in some way. It's about understanding that alphas naturally are unphased by shit t…
/r/askMRP09/02/19 03:47 AM
2

Making overt sexual contracts is fine in JEST, however... for the love of God, when you "cash in"... it should also be done in a joking manner as if your just kidding but kinda not (outcome independant), and if she doesnt hold up to her end of the deal, DO NOT get butthurt. Sex is NEVER an obligation. Do not train your woman that sex with you is something she has to make herself do. Resentment and loss of attraction result. Plus a likely shitty stupid arguement. I've jokingly said "I bet a blowj…
/r/askMRP01/02/19 11:05 PM
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He is telling you to trade more investment (of yours) for more attraction ( of hers). If only it worked that way, every poem writing, text spamming nice guy would be drowning in puss. It's a covert contract. Dont fall for it. You read it right. Attraction is there or not. Girls give their number knowing they wont ever respond... easier than even a soft rejection. SO, I'd say your sticking point is when you chatted her up before the number, you didnt build enough emotion and rapport that she was …
/r/askTRP24/01/19 09:26 PM
2

If you tried to kiss her the day you met her and she turned her head away... would you try again?! No. You are the man. You are judged on your action and lack of action. Trying to kiss her, is equivalent to her not turning away when you try to kiss her. The lack of action... is as rejecting to her as her turning away her head when you try to kiss her. Your lack of action WAS an action in her eyes. It was an active rejection of her, in her feelings. She felt rejected and now has adjusted her beha…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 01:39 PM
1

While I think we all know this occurance, I've never seen a specific name for them, even on MRP. At any rate, good on you that you see it coming and know to be ready... it's as predictable as an aftershock to a earthquake.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 01:35 PM
0

She sounds bpd...
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:47 PM
10

This is what you do. You go online and look at pictures of haircuts until you find the one that fits who you want to be. That captures the vibe you wanna put out in the world. If that haircut has a name google the name and find many variations. Save the different ones that capture the nuances you like. Google haircut places in your area that does dudes hair. Look for many reviews, 4-5 star. Go in, show them what you want. Explain it. Let them do their magic and dont micromanage them once you've …
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:10 PM
1

Every woman eventually starts asking for committment. It doesnt mean he did anything wrong, it's just in their nature. Its litterally a cornerstone in the progression of plate theory as described by rollo.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:53 PM
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I say I disagree with frick. If your getting laid on the regular she has attraction for you. What shes missing is comfort. She is desiring a LTR the way she envisions it ... You get off using her pussy She gets off using your attention. Imagine she invited you over and she made you listen to her whole day, and then she let you finger her a little but then told you shes gotta go. Youd feel like shes leading you on. She got what she wanted and only gave you a taste of what you wanted. Same as you …
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:51 PM
2

Young girls are much less confident. You need to build much more rapport. They need to remember you and really look forward to seeing you more than they are worried what their friends might think or what other stupid shit competes for their ADHD ass attention spans. Spend a little more time making them really see your value and feel your energy... so when they think of seeing you again they crave that same energy.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 03:39 AM
11

BPD will show you a layer of hell these guys cant even comprehend unless they have been raped by it.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 01:55 AM
2

"Baby, the way you put that ass on me and take care of me... (or insert other behavior you like of hers) why would I wanna leave you? Remind her your love is conditional and specifically because she is doing the things you like, you clearly as a result have no choice but to be attracted to her. I tell my girl all the time, babe, when you work as hard to be in shape as you are and you use all of that ass to please me... how could I even have the energy to want other women.
/r/askMRP18/12/18 05:30 PM
2

Fleshlight**
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:52 AM
3

This is the truth. Right here.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:47 PM
1

To anything formal, the best response is not "I didnt do it" the best response is, "I plead the 5th and would like a lawyer." If the chick is messaging you to accuse you 1 on 1, do not respond, at all. Anything you say will add to the hamster. Let the legal system do its thing. The legal system rarely ends up convicting the huge #metoo targets... it's the social repercussions that the person suffers when they have a job that their reputation counts on (as stated in other replies) This is why Tru…
/r/askMRP17/12/18 03:39 PM
1

Before fucking her, go down on her and kiss down to her feet, then say you love feet. Acta non-verba. If you say it to her, she has to pause and logically evaluate it and potentially with no experience. If you just kinda do it in the moment, she may be so turned on it becomes a non-issue before it ever began.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:02 PM
1

Also suggest she see a real therapist. Nudging her in the direction to solve her own problem. I guarantee if her claim is real, theres some underlying issues left over from it, that your sure to run into.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:59 PM
1

Dominate and aggressive are 2 different things. Albeit aggression helps assert dominance. I have a plethora of toys, I also have a fuck load of sexual knowledge. I know a girls pussy better than she usually does. I know how to pay specific attention to her reactions in everything I do to learn her. Dont ask, just tell her what you want. Tie her up, blind fold her, play with her with toys as you like. She is your play toy. Aim to learn her, and learn her well. There are 5 kinds of power taught by…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:55 PM
1

I just read the book today, I've always done most of that stuff in the book naturally... something I def need to try more of. I think I'll give it a little more time and see if it helps things. As she doesnt improve I'll withdrawal as she shows improvement I'll reward.. maybe it just needs a while longer. I haven't actually been working on this to too long... just wanted some creative ideas since I was slightly inspired by some creativity in the book.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 10:55 PM
1

Very true. It isnt boring to me. In fact I see it as a challenge. Like breaking a horse or something. To me theres sexual satisfaction in that. The question really is what techniques would someone use to break this horse instead of is the horse worth breaking. Once I've given a solid try if it doesnt happen, I'll move on naturally. But I wanna conquer this chicks sexuality in full. It starts with getting her to be able to be immersed as the Sex God Method calls it
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:58 PM
1

I've been doing stuff to her, but she refuses to let herself make a sound or even a facial expression. Until it slips out and she corrects it right away. It isnt about me expecting her to do stuff for me, I do as I please and she let's me as well except toys she's shy about... which I've considered trying her up to give her a full feeling of vulnerability to break her shell a bit.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:55 PM
3

I have the SAME effect. I can say anything. But, I learned the hard way in text it isnt the same. In person the girl can feel your energy and is wrapped up in it. Your excitement, spontinaety, plain old positivity. In text she can't feel anything at all.. just use her logic. Kind of puts a damper on thing. I think it's why witty banter works through text better, it plays to logic not emotion. Bold crazy fun energy is best for in person.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:41 PM
1

I usually straight up tell girls "I'm not looking for chatting buddies/texting buddies... if that's what you want I have enough of those already, sorry
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:55 AM
5

Being perceptive as a woman to me is highly desirable. Sure, I can't go around cheating on her and lying to her cause she will know... damn, you mean I'll have to ACTUALLY be attractive and actually have outcome independance lol in the long run she will know exactly what's wrong with her kids. Being highly intune with them, and you. The question is does she use this power for good or evil? Does she manipulate you for gain or is she highly perceptive and uses it to be supportive so long as your n…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:50 PM
1

Wow. Absolutely solid reply, thank you and ill be rereading it to be sure I picked it all up.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:18 AM
1

Youve isolated... theres hundreds of seduction books on this... kino escalate... girls just respond to kissing so just kiss her lol its not that scary and its like talking but with body language.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 10:27 PM
1

She just text ne and asked to come to my place... so i mean, what is your method of developing and screening plates?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:38 PM
0

Yes true. I guess I see her low N count as valuable and when we hang out me and her are making each other fucking laugh the whole time like not even trying. Plus shes not into clubbing or the bar scene, shes more into game nights, bowling and stuff like that...
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:36 PM
-2

Ive tried but the link is broken. Any good saved threads in asktrp?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:39 PM
1

Your right. Im reading the second rational male book now... At any rate, can you be specific in the things your saying Ive forgotten? Ive read almost all of the material and still plunging through the rest, but its turning into a so many penguins on the iceburg situation. How do I fix the situation now exactly? And is it not wishy washy but hurt looking to say im headed back to my place, your welcome to join... and if she doesnt you end up going out with friends?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:10 PM
1

I find that she is often very busy and Im working around her schedule... which before TRP wouldnt bother me... but now I see it as me making her the prize I guess. Im just expecting her to lose attraction because of it. I also dont see her calling me first and telling me when shes free and asking me to come over either. Heres an example, i asked for her sched and she said well im free thurs and sat. I asked if she was going dancing thurs with her single friends again and she said no she wanted t…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:15 AM
1

I have told her I wanna spend time with her and what not but im worried about appearing over invested... im great at game and getting laid... but terrible at knowing how to spin plates lol. I only know to expect to see their investment through what the redpill plate theory teaches which is you shoukd see them investing and cooking for you and shit... they almost make it out like if you fuck a girl after that you just dont give a shit and they will all of a sudden start cleaning and cooking for y…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 09:35 PM
2

Really pale with muscles.. never looks bad. A ripped ginger, (while we could insert jokes) could still pull like maaadddd ive seen it. A) own that shit before you let others own you with it B) get muscles for people to focus on instead of your skin color.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 07:01 PM
1

Her to see she has openings in her schedule and ask me if Im free... showing some sort of investment I guess. Or calling me first instead of saying "i was gonna call but..." Maybe what im confused on is with texts you wanna not the the first to initiate all the time... so I figure the same should be true for calling and initiating hanging out? Like if she wanted to see me, wouldnt she be trying to make that happen? Edit:she also is usually only good to go to her house
/r/askTRP01/10/18 06:09 PM
1

No, not anymore
/r/askTRP01/10/18 06:07 PM
2

This. I throw random environment openers at fucking everyone. Maybe they just comment on the thing i brought up.. maybe it leads to a 2 hr convo, maybe they ignore me... either way the comment I originally make is clearly said in a way that illicits no obligated response (no direct questions, certainly not trying to actually learn anything about them) "God that kid really killed it on that bull ride" "That girls gonna get pregnant dancing that hard on the guy hahaha"
/r/askTRP01/10/18 05:47 PM
1

"Are you buying me a present for your birthday? I always get presents for coming to someones birthday. I really kinda want a pony, thanks!"
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:25 PM
2

Um, I dont see where she rejected you? I see where you backed off and threw in the towel because instead of giving you her schedule right away she responded to you saying you wanted to see if you could stand being around her lol OF COURSE shes gonna bite on that push away before anything else. No ones gonna get that thrown their way and pretend it didnt happen and let rhe convo keep going lmao shes gonna talk shit back first. Her talking shit back (passing your shit test) and then not giving you…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:20 PM
2

I've always believed guys roasting each other is a ancient social way of men learning to pass shit tests. Like kids stick fighting for fun really are practicing their battle and adrenalin skills... guys shit talking is fun play for push pull, disqualification tactics with girls (shit talk to girls is push pull) and being able to respond to the banter is perfect practice for girls shit testing you. Girls will also watch how you respond to your friends banter... if you fail it, you may as well hav…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:09 PM
3

Push pull man. Your asking how do you PUSH when your already PUSHING. Shes pursuing you... you should be like 1/3 or 1/2 push pull. She asks to see you once or twice, then once you ask to see her. She WILL branch swing to someone who gives her both sets of feels if you dont. Get your push pull ratio set... then worry about more spiking of emotion with jealousy. You dont want to add jealousy on top of her already always chasing you... she will likely just give up and move on to someone who isnt m…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:00 PM
1

The things that would be the most embarrassing to any general adult... pay the BIGGEST reward when handled with confidence. Your tiny birthmark you have handled like it's no big deal and you pass shit tests about it... girl might give you cred for passing the shit test, but the fact it was something so small and even a target for testing means she thinks your super weak. You having a fucking leg missing but somehow owning the absolute piss out of it with crutches that have flames on them and you…
/r/seduction20/09/18 10:53 PM
1

I ALWAYS ignore a girl who's actively getting hit on back to back in a club.... and go straight for her hot friend not getting as much attention... I play the friend card with the friend... either the friend will like me OR the other girl will stop getting hit on and I'll use my new friend and pick on the main chick for getting hit on so hard. "Wow you really got all the creepy guys after you tonight lol what perfume did you wear?!" The fact her friend is on my side now puts her in a position of…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:44 PM
1

Nothing owned in PLAYFUL confidence is unattractive. "Oh, I see you've seen my dark secret... I turn into a cherry sometimes, bet you cant get me to do it more than 3 times tonight." "Dont make me get red at you again cause I'll do it, I ain't scuurreeddd" I mean any dumb thing that just delivers you own it and it's funny and not something your insecure about. I used to have braces as a 23 year old... I still pulled chicks no matter how hot they were... and the #1 thing they would shit test me o…
/r/seduction20/09/18 07:44 PM
2

The power of he who cares the least has the most power
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 05:56 PM
1

I think women see using the collective hive mind as their way of action.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 01:57 AM
6

Why does it involve actually helping? Empathy is irrespective of the resulting action on it. Women can more easily feel the exact emotions of someone... doesnt mean they actually care enough to do anything. Cats can identify when their name is called.... but they dont give a shit and dont respond. Doesnt mean they dont understand.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 05:58 PM
3

OP... rewatch that. Be very mindful to your emotions, ignore your thoughts. When the guy looked her in the face and poured that shit out, what did you feel? I felt fucking good... like stupid cunt you think your better than me? Yeah? Heres your fucking beer bitch. Capture that, and act in accordance with. Imaging how much youd think this guy was a bitch as sucker if he took her beer back and went with it... dont be that guy
/r/askTRP11/08/18 10:05 PM
2

You sir, are a God. No way you found the perfect situation to describe this.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 10:03 PM
1

I'm not saying those things to gain here worship. I'm saying them because this place hyperfocused on saying I wasnt doing anything for her, that she needs to see someone who can really help her... and how can I come back with a field report when I'm in Frankfurt airport waiting on a jet. Again, I'm on my way there, but there are a thousand thoughts in my mind and this place has helped organize those thoughts.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 09:41 PM
1

I'd like to clarify some key things, that I can tell weren't communicated clearly. I got her into therapy 2 years ago. I convinced her to open up about her trauma to her therapist. She has been seeing a psychiatrist. Me trying to "fix" her is just that... trying to get her to take that shit seriously and make progress. She has made progress, a great deal infact. I talked the police through getting to her, where I lived. I witnessed her do all this shit first hand and was kinda in shock when I po…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 07:00 PM
1

Shes been in therapy for 2 years. Thanks for the heads up on the meds, I didnt think of that. She didnt have them kick in for long when the police arrived, so hopefully they pumped her stomach before that much damage was caused. I hope.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 06:49 PM
1

She went to therapy because I helped her see it was necessary to overcome her past. She started meds for the same reason. She has been seeing help, for almost 2 years. This is her 4th attempt. She says she feels unloved and it's too painful. I cant tell if I'm like not providing like some extreme level of comfort she needs or if I'm going Rambo and this is causing it? I used to post here often and people said all the time I was being beta as fuck, doing too much. So I chilled out on it. But I me…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 06:47 PM
2

It took a few hours but I got the approval needed and I'm on my way out of here on my way over there. Again, I never asked "geez guys, should I just let her rot in the hospital?" I mean holy absolute fuck. I asked could i have caused this from being Rambo unintentionally or some shit. I've been in multiple very happy relationships... this is the first time I ever dealt with someone attempting to kill themselves citing they dont feel loved... but I also havent ever read TRP until this relationshi…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 06:38 PM
1

I'm omw back for 2 weeks. Shes stable in the ER and will be transpo to inpatient mental health facility. Still not sure what the future looks like for us.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 08:42 AM
1

I am working the immediate situation, I can only do that so fast. I was authorized emergency leave to be able to get back and stuff. I know I'm going to help her in the short term. I'm also thinking about the long term here.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 06:33 AM
1

By contract, it means I cannot legally leave unless given authorization.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 05:33 AM
1

To be sure I am clear, NO I am legally OBLIGATED to stay where I am and continue to work. If I left it would be on a government jet paid for by the red cross, and that process takes time. Jesus christ, I have logistics of how to get home down. I am doing all I fucking can to do that. It will be a multi day process regardless. I've ALREADY SOLVED the logistics of getting home, getting her care, ensuring people are there for her, notifying her family, all that shit. ITS DONE. I'm working in my hea…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 03:09 AM
1

I dont know if she was set off by me being Rambo or this in inherent to her. She says she did it because she doesnt feel loved. Has she ever felt loved? I dont remember at time she has ever said she felt loved. She attempted suicide as a teen saying she was hated by her adopted parents.... I dont know if it was them or her at this point now... I want her to feel loved. I think maybe I can show her that. I think maybe I can make a difference. And then I do this RP shit to make a difference... and…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:59 AM
1

Are you saying I'm a troll? Because I am def not nd I am looking for legit advice here. I can PM proof if needed, if it means I'll get solid advice. I guess based on what you said it almost confirms that despite this having happened like 3 times before... maybe I was just being a crazy alpha Rambo then too and have been going rambo far too long. This makes me feel this is my fault more for doing that and I should try to repair this situation since it's my doing
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:50 AM
1

This Mark's the 4th time shes done this. She said no body needs her or loves her. That I've even told her I dont need her. I told her, your right I dont "need" you, I want you. I choose you over anyone and everyone and your my #1, not because I have to make you #1, but because I love you and want you as #1. She said she wants someone who has options but needs to be with her instead. I said well, by that definition of need, then yes I do need you. Now I'm left thinking, did she do this because I …
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:59 AM
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I have contractual reasons I cant leave right now. She is seeing a provider, shes not laying in our bed dying. Shes kn the ER, she will go to a hospital, she will be admitted to inpatient treatment.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:46 AM
-1

I already know how it works. They will pump her stomach, submit her to a mental hospital for 3 day evaluation. I know the hours I can call and get ahold of her. I have the logistics worked out, no I dont need help with that, what I am trying to do is sort out why I feel fucking apathetic about a situation this fucking severe, and why the fuck I blame myself and stay in a relationship with a very clear pattern. This has happened on 3 separate occasions so far. Yes she sees a therapist, yes I drov…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:40 AM
1

Dude, the thing is, I dont think my emotions know I'm blind to it. Like when this happened... the only reason I can even post about it it because I'm so fucking exhausted from this roller coaster that I am apathetic. Then I find that I blame myself, feel guilt and try to fix the situation because if I wasnt Rambo, or supported her right she wouldnt fall to this extreme. I know this isnt right, but idk why it happens or what to do about it
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:36 AM
1

I think the problem is I'm apathetic here. I've seen her extreme emotional outbursts, almost BPD behavior so long... that its normalized. Shes done something like this before also. She sees a therapist but apparently life was too much for her and she shut down and reacted extremely. I dont know if I'm too tired of this to keep trying to help her or if I only want to help her because I blame myself, or if I just hate seeing her go through this pain. I am feeling so many mixed things atm.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:35 AM
1

Actually a little in shock. This is the second time ive been through this with her. I'm on the other side of the world, and shes in the ER. I am powerless to do anything but think right now
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:28 AM
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She is in the hospital, if you read what I wrote, youd see that. I'm on the other side of the world. I'm absolutly fucking stuck where I'm at. I am powerless to do anything but wonder if I caused this right now.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:22 AM
2

I've been looking for a book to help with this, I just got this on amazon, thanks
/r/askMRP02/08/18 02:51 PM
1

I was told this in another thread by other MRP folks actually. You can see it if you go to my username and look at the latest post I put
/r/askMRP02/08/18 02:49 PM
1

This is the exact opposite of what I was told, and this kinda thinking got me called fucking Rambo and autistic...
/r/askMRP02/08/18 01:01 PM
0

Prob because everything I've read MRP wise says when your doing shit right your wife will want to open up to you. I feel like I must be fucking something up if I'm not seeing that effect.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 12:43 PM
1

Had I not gotten the advice I was given a few days ago, I'd prob tell her that this all will be ok and she needs to focus on the future, then if she didnt perk up, I'd distance myself from her... But I thought that fell into the autist Rambo category, so I went with the try to provide comfort side of things. I am not like begging her to talk to me, I've said basically what you said. I told her I'm not gonna try to push her to open up, that I love her and I'm on her side, if she needs to talk I'l…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 12:41 PM
1

Yeah, the problem is, she isnt really venting at all, but is clearly and noticeably upset. I'm not sure how to get her to vent without being a Rambo or girlfriend... Like my approach at the moment is just to tell her I love her, I'll give her space if she needs it, and she can call it she needs to talk... Every now and then she sends something like she cant handle her thoughts. She cant handle people, she doesnt wanna go to work and shes going to go to bed. I'm like ok, well shes venting finally…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 12:34 PM
1

4 days ago, I didnt respond to her nudes she sent me because I was focused on getting to work, taking care of my mission, which btw, can get folks killed if not done, and then when I had time I skyped her. She was pissed I didnt respond to her pics right away. I was told I failed a comfort test, I'm a Rambo, and should spend more time making her feel like a priority and validating her feelings than blowing her off and getting shit done. It was with this advice I tried a different approach and tr…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 12:30 PM
1

I appreciate the solid response, this is the kinda shit that helps me learn and makes this place worth it. Idk who jack10 is though?
/r/askMRP02/08/18 12:13 PM
1

She used to be WAY worse. But yeah, shes like this when it's really bad shit, like the 8/10 stuff or higher. She used to just go no contact if she was really upset. Infact, at this point... I dont even really know what a normal response is suppose to look like from a woman who is going through bad shit. I've felt with this so long I've somewhat forgotten lol the girls before her never really had super bad shit happen to them. But if she opens up some, I'm not sure what to do here... say it's not…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 11:59 AM
1

I'm not talking. All I really said is I know she isnt ok, and I'm here for her if she needs me. Really neither of us talk. I tell her I'm here for her, I love her and if she needs me I'll be here to help the I STFU. We sit for a while and she says I got to go. Then she texts me she is super upset, doesnt wanna be around people, fuck the world ect. I'm stuck between responding what my gut says to say, which is "rambo"... shes being a little dramatic and that we will get through this like we get t…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 11:54 AM
1

Married 3 years, no kids. I'm not venting to her about this. I know that lesson, which is why I'm asking here. I also had a pretty intense chest day today hitting the gym to vent instead of bringing it up to her. I'm 5'10, 193, 10%bf.... sex isnt a problem, so tere isnt the whole low sex marriage shit to worry about. She just shuts down is all... like cries to herself, doesnt wanna be a burden, just becomes an emotional zombie or crying mess that wont talk about it. This is only for the more ser…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 11:20 AM
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Ok, this is fucking annoying. I say one day that I didnt respond to my wife's nudie texts when I woke up, I went to work then skyped her when I was done with my work. She was upset I didnt respond right away. I get told I'm an autist Rambo who only puts myself first and failed a comfort test and my wife will go fuck other dudes. That I need to make an effort to call her and showing you love your SO isnt against MRP rules. Today shes having a 8/10 family crisis and shuts down. Shes crying and shi…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 11:16 AM
1

Well, today she is upset about a serious family issue and refuses to open up about it so I tell her I'm here for her and love her. I told her to call me back if she needed to talk to me, I'd make sure I was avail --I post this here in MRP and get told I'm trying to be her girlfriend or therapist and it will ruin my marriage. This seems really contradictory to this whole fucking thread.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 11:07 AM
1

Well, today she is upset about a serious family issue and refuses to open up about it so I tell her I'm here for her and love her. I told her to call if she needed to talk to me. --I post this and get told I'm trying to be her girlfriend or therapist and it will ruin my marriage. This seems really contradictory to this whole fucking thread.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 11:06 AM
1

Well, today she is upset about a serious family issue and refuses to open up about it so I tell her I'm here for her and love her. I told her to call if she needed to talk to me. --I post this and get told I'm trying to be her girlfriend or therapist and it will ruin my marriage. This seems really contradictory to this whole fucking thread.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 11:05 AM
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Lol, the other day I dont respond to her pics she sends me until I get done with my job at work and I get called rambo who only puts myself first... today shes having a serious family crisis and I try to be there for her and now I'm trying to be her girlfriend...? Can you clarify please. It even says in BPP's book to let her vent. In the way of the superior man it tells about whe a woman is having a hard time to push through that with your love... so can you explain the nuances I'm missing?
/r/askMRP02/08/18 11:02 AM
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I'm not covering shit up. It's completely standard for me to say nothing to pics she sends me until we talk on Skype. I can see how she could feel some type of way hoping I liked them or what not. I thought the whole point of TRP is your mission comes first? Considering I decided to go take care of work and talk to her once I got there and got shit under control... I wasnt ignoring anything. I send her pics all the time, i dont give 2 fucks if she responds or not. She asks for pics all the time,…
/r/askMRP29/07/18 02:48 PM
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You never send your wife pics to fuck with her? Mine asks me to send her pics all the time...
/r/askMRP29/07/18 02:42 PM
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Lol, no, the order of priorities is get to work, ensure the mission doesnt fail... then call wife, then go to gym... which is exactly what I did. And if you read my message, there isnt "sexy time" I'm gone for another 3 months before I get back. Ahh downvoted... I guess I'm suppose to make my wife my mission right guys?! Right?
/r/askMRP29/07/18 11:55 AM
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Edit: your last sentence was text for logistics, and Call her. To which I respond, when I woke up, I planned to call (which I did) and planned to tell her she looked damn good (which she flipped out for before hand) The point of this post is she like every fucking day bitches and complains I dont call her or talk to her or send her messages every single time I'm going to bed. To which I've stated over and over, I am incredibly busy (working 14-16 hrs a day typically) and I dont always have time,…
/r/askMRP29/07/18 10:39 AM
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Well, the question is, is she earning your respect? If a chick is doing all the right things and your going overboard, your being a Rambo. She has to feel she can win you over... but you decide what does win you over. Babe your a dork if you think be being busy and not being able to respond mean I dont care about you. As far as respect, I give respect to those who earn it, right now I'd say you've been earning it by ______, so of course I respect you. Then say nothing else on the matter. You've …
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:14 PM
1

Have you read saving a low sex marriage? If not... read it, it answers your question about 1/3rd of the way in... in extreme depth.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 06:20 AM
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Reread saving a low sex marriage. He tells you exactly what to do here. You did great, but you could have done a little extra to show your not butt hurt leaving... your leaving because your timenisnt going to be wasted listening to her bitch. Better situation would to have started getting ready for the gym, told her you love her, and left. Would look a lot less butt hurt and more focused on your mission. The book says not to withdrawal affection unless its related to her refusing to fuck you. If…
/r/askMRP14/07/18 08:59 PM
1

"Why dont you come over and cook dinner with me and we can chat then" Action from her or NO emotional support from you. Unless you wanna be friend zoned.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:58 AM
2

The behaviors you described are how any girl acts when they are talking with a guy they see as higher value. They are going to be on their cutest, most submissive, best behavior. If you want to have reactions like this from girls higher value then her... then you need to raise your own SMV more. Stop evaluating your SMV by a self assessment... START evaluating your SMV by the quality of girls you get these behaviors from. If you are getting this type of reaction from the majority of girls you in…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:56 AM
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Yeah, I've experimented seeing the world through that lense to see how true it is. It actually has been showing itself to be really accurate, I find I have this same problem as the OP... but some situations more than others. I could only make the comment I did because I knew the difference in how I would respond going way too in depth
/r/askMRP29/06/18 02:43 PM
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No baby, that's a cat. Making a statement is different than explaining. No baby, there are different types of animals, see we have an animal kingdom, and they are sub divided into categories... these categories are blah blah blah blah
/r/askMRP28/06/18 03:35 PM
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Seems I do a lot of STFU and nuking. Def something for me to work on I am extremely curious about what you said with people who disagree with me. I actually do find it very threatening and I've always wondered why. Even now I have learned not to respond but I still fight the urge to get really aggressive.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 02:51 PM
1

Your saying AM is a way to put her in her place without getting mad. I guess I associate putting someone in their place as a naturally aggressive thing.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 02:32 PM
2

Document every time you do extra for her. Get a lawyer, inform your lawyer. This can be used to gain leverage to get better custody
/r/askMRP26/06/18 02:23 PM
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I had a great time having sex with you... now all she has to do is say she never agreed to it and she has proof you did fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 04:23 PM
1

Very valid points. Also, Afghanistan blows ass... but it def will teach you more about yourself than anything else ever could.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 04:14 PM
1

True. All very true. I guess I still take it personally and get fucking angry that men get no God damn reprieve. I think if I had God damn cancer it would get turned into why dont I show her enough affection. Normally I can pass shit tests alright, some get by me I'm still learning I'll admit. The thing that gets under my skin, is even when I'm throwing up sick... she still cant help but to shit test?! And I wonder... is it just my wife who shot tests even in these conditions... do most wives at…
/r/askMRP24/06/18 05:55 PM
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Have you read my post or are you just shooting off the cuff? I dont know where you get I'm pinning my short comings on her? I didnt ask for her comfort. I told her I was getting off the phone because I was sick and couldn't talk. I got off the phone. She starts throwing shit tests at me as a response. And I get pissed off. Yeah, I think in my head, jesus fucking christ do women go so fucking shallow as to be self centered even when the other person is sick? Can they not even take a minute and gi…
/r/askMRP24/06/18 07:50 AM
1

She is giving me shit for being sick and not giving her attention. I'm simply wondering if women are truly this shallow or is this just her
/r/askMRP24/06/18 06:59 AM
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Yeah, the tell a buddy thing doesnt work. My friends are BP as fuck so I get the, well why didnt you talk to her question, I'm like why the fuck do I need to justify why I prioritize my own wellbeing response in my head and get pissed. Like I see exactly what shes doing, and it just makes me incredibly fucking mad. Its angry mastery not amused mastery. Shes probably prissy because I quit engaging with her. Like she will start getting shitty on Skype (were apart 4 more mos) and I am like ok I'm g…
/r/askMRP24/06/18 06:14 AM
1

Yeah, your right. I dont expect her to caudle me and hold me or tell me it's all going to be ok... I have learned that expecting that from women just doesnt work. I guess I did find it offensive that she would try to shit test me when I simply just want space to take care of this problem on my own. Then to come back and say she didnt even believe I was sick because I never get sick sounds like a psychotic BPD thing to say which is repulsive to me. Like I guess I am choking on the pill here to ac…
/r/askMRP24/06/18 05:44 AM
1

What I'm missing here is the amused mastery. I am trying to understand just how far the rabbit hole goes of a woman only caring about themselves. Like do all wives or women really only give a shit that you weren't talking to them while your sick? Like an I to believe it's that deep that the basic human compassion for someone else who is feeling very Ill isnt even possible by women. Like when your sick, your wife doesnt give you space to feel better at all?
/r/askMRP24/06/18 05:13 AM
1

So, you are sick to the point of throwing up over and over. Your wife says to you. I'm upset that you dont wanna spend time with me right now. You response it to what? Ignore her or what? I mean, really I just avoided the situation all together I'm fucking sick and bed ridden atm. What bothers me is are all women this shallow or just my wife specifically
/r/askMRP24/06/18 01:06 AM
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I was litterally throwing up compulsively sick... I'm not sure how that makes me narcissistic to want someone to give a shit about me when I'm that fucking sick. That's my question here. When the man is sick to the point hes puking over and over... are women even then incapable of giving a shit? Like I dont think I'm asking her to be my fucking mother by hoping she would atleast respect the fact I'm sick and not try to bitch at me for being sick like what the absolute fuck kind of madness is tha…
/r/askMRP24/06/18 01:03 AM
1

Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power." - Abraham Lincoln
/r/askTRP23/06/18 09:45 PM
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You asked the question, is there ever a RP reason not to get a tattoo. And my response stays the same. I can see how me saying "you're getting tattoos for xyz reason." I wasnt meaning explicitly YOU the OP is doing this. I was meaning, anyone who gets them for those 2 reasons are non-RP reasons. It's not the WHAT that you get tattood, is the WHY. If you are so desperate for approval from chicks or one particular chick you get a tattoo for her... you litterally just made a permanent display of be…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:40 AM
1

Hasn't a man always been the one to capitalize and profit off of making giving someone what they want and need easier? Men think logically, it's no suprise we work to streamline and shorten the logistics of any person's given dopamine fix, and do it for a profit
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:33 AM
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Dont be so forward about sex, girls need plausible deniability. Dont be too coy either.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:55 PM
3

This is epic.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:53 PM
2

Yeah, your getting it to impress a chick or make a chick happy. That's beta as fuck. Edit: I'm not saying that's what OP is doing, he asked which situations would be non RP, so I'm listing 2 reasons
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:52 PM
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Ok, let's say it all together, what is it women get from men?! What is it they offer? Sex for attention. Social media is a huge fuck fest of people getting the attention they need (while real men go actually do shit with their lives and have interesting shit about them) A woman needs facebook/insta/snapchat for the same reasons and as much as you need porn. And yes, just because you look at a shit ton of porn doesnt mean you get laid. Just because you can pose and get a lot of likes doesnt mean …
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:48 PM
1

You see OP, the guy before this post got defensive about being a manlet. I dont know how tall he is, but his defensiveness gives me the emotional conclusion he has something to hide (despite having no logical proof) Now the guy who responds to him, calls him out on his insecurity by saying "found the manlet" and 18 people so far upvoted thinking it's funny as shit. Be the dude making jokes, not the dude being defensive giving people shit to make jokes about. That isnt fogging.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:45 PM
1

Sounds like she insults everyone in order to compensate for her own insecurities.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:42 PM
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Your mad because she feels entitled to call you a beta bitch in public. Your not insecure about your glasses, so she doesnt fuck with you about them... or maybe she did then noticed you arent insecure and decided to keep looking for a weakness. Then maybe she tried to use your size and see if you were over compensating. Then bam. She realized she can make fun of you about your size, you get butt hurt and if you defend yourself publicly she wont just have proven your a beta bitch, she will have a…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:35 PM
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What's funny... is this chain of fuckery and humor to the whole size conversation is exactly how OP should be responding to this bitch. You guys obviously are not insecure and can laugh about your own traits society seems as unimpressive proving you have enough worth and confidence it doesnt fucking matter. I hope OP can learn to joke like this and stop getting butt hurt
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:21 PM
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She won. Shes a 5, yet she is important enough to you that her comment bothers you, which means your a 5 or less. Let me ask you something, why does it bother you so bad? She is intentionally poking where her low IQ brain has deduced is your weakest point. Anyone with half a fucking brain knows short men are insecure about it. So of course shes going to push you where your insecure. TO SEE IF YOUR AN INSECURE BITCH. If say you are a power lifter and she said, I hate weak men. You would not give …
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:18 PM
3

I started reading this with dread, to end with laughter
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:03 PM
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Right, so recognize you are in an irrational state of mind and make the decision you will follow the advice of someone who is seeing things clearly. This dude didnt gi e you bullshit, call you a faggot or autist or just berate you. He gave you quality advice that if followed to the letter will give you the best probable outcome. This is the same advice I've heard family lawyers give. Doing what's right doesnt mean you dont feel sad, scared, lonely, angry... it means you feel those things and do …
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:31 PM
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Either listen to this guys advice or admit you dont want anything to do with the kid and accept you potentially will be paying child support. He gave you probably the best advice I've seen on this damn site, your response of I just wanna know if its mine is an emotional one and not one using sound judgement of the legal situation you just found yourself in.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:19 PM
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Also, key thing here... no expected outcome, so you didnt project that you were expecting something. Nobody likes a salesman trying to make contact with them when were just walking around a store... because they want something we have (our time and money) and we know it. You weren't coming off as a salesman. Outcome independent.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 06:54 PM
1

The fact your worried about the social blowback of your circle shows your not the alpha of that circle. Nonetheless, again, do as you please. You wanna make a move do it. Own it. If it doesnt work out, then everyone might fuck with you a little but what ever.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 06:57 AM
1

Lots of guys join and their parents have no idea. Your an adult, your parents dont get to tell you what to do any longer. However, you suffer your own consequences. Your parents want 1 thing, for you to make your grades. Do that, and they wont give a shit about anything else. Tell them it's a fucking book club if you want. Your life. Your own man. You start fucking around and failing classes, your own consequences. Hence joining one that has a high average GPA. That shows the fraternity takes gr…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 06:54 AM
1

All I needed to read was your a senior going to college in the fall. You've got nothing to lose, escalate. Dont kid yourself, once you get to college, your social circle will 100% change to a whole new crowd. Especially if your actually practicing TRP in real life not just reading about it. Join a fraternity, trust me. Find one that has a good party reputation but also a high Average GPA. Ask when was the last time they were on social probation and what for, if it was hazing... then steer clear.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 03:56 PM
4

Never would I suggest turning a 7 year relationship into a plate. Ever. Dont go through your trash, plates aren't suppose to have that much drama.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:39 PM
9

This. I got pissed just reading her hamstering. Go NC dude... shes trying to use guilt on you. One of women's strongest emotions they use as a weapon successfully against men is guilt. They know very well how to make us feel guilty. Hence WISNIFG being one of the top must read sidebar books.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:37 PM
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Atleast your not married to a single mother who puts that time and attention into her kid with someone else. Your woman is focused on taking care of your offsprings immediate emotional and physical needs. Your job is to provide the environment that she can do that. Your the captain. My wife denied having sex with me once. I still was horny so I said ok no problem, got out some porn and started jerking off. She flipped out. I'm not allowed to look at porn she says. I tell her, look, if you want m…
/r/askMRP16/06/18 11:36 AM
6

Warning: you just might have everyfucking body you know start asking you to do heavy shit for them. Can you pick this up. I cant lift it. Can you open this, I cant. Like I've told people look, I dont weight lift so I can lift heavy shit for other people lmao go get your own muscles.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:51 PM
2

You know you mention the guys being great whites. I've yet to meet a swole dude in BJJ gyms that aren't usually very friendly. Actually they are usually the friendliest, because they have no reason to be an asshole because they aren't threatened by anything. I'm glad I read this tonight because I was driving back from BJJ and thought, we tell guys to lift way too much, it's a solidarity type sport... it's great for getting in shape for the fatties, but you can get SO MUCH MORE from a BJJ gym. Ye…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:49 PM
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Your post didnt link
/r/askMRP11/06/18 10:20 AM
1

Youd think with 38k followers... what you have to say is liked bu enough people that a company couldn't say you have an unpopular opinion that's offensive... I mean, who's job is it to say what is offensive? The majority? Well in that case feminism shouldn't be allowed to have an opinion then... or is it the minorities? In which case, 38k people is a minority of the whole population of Twitter but is large enough to have coherent unified beliefs and should be respected as a minority. If this was…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 10:03 AM
0

If you read another post of mine to a comment on here, my background is in it and it doesn't exactly make me a trust fund kid. I will say not all 300 are direct reports nor would I I them to be. I have maybe 20 direct hits that work for me and each has 15ish folks under them. Within a few years I'll be looking at 600-1000 total people. It's a fun job, mostly control huge logistical processes. I was awe struck the first time I requested to contracted a747 for quick movement of some stuff and it s…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 09:56 AM
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Lmao, dude thinks he knows something... troll somewhere else man.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 06:58 PM
1

What I found that helps me in these situations is this. Have her get on top of you making out you rubbing your dick all on her hole. Start jerking off with her on top of you. Make out. Focus on the kissing. For the love of God kiss like your life depends on it. Keep jerking off till your simihard or hard and go for it. I find that kissing really takes my mind off of it and relaxes me. Me being in bottom makes blood flow easier to get my dick hard. Plus I can rub on her pussy with my head and fee…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 06:02 PM
0

Wow your insecure my man. I've got no reason to lie, but if you need to keep trying to impress me go right ahead.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 02:09 PM
0

Lol, so because it's something you cant fathom or could have done yourself... it must be a lie? How egocentric of a worldview you have
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:54 PM
1

Lol, I still have no fucking idea what your talking about. Why is it so important to you anyways what I make my money doing?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:24 PM
1

Yeah actually. I have a few very close friends that go back to when I was like 13. I watched your video, it was very interesting for sure. I saw a lot of things I can agree with and some small things I dont think apply to me. I wasnt ever given participation trophies, my mom was poor and abusive. I had to work at age 13 to provide for my family and pay bills, so getting handed stuff or instant gratification isnt quite relevant for those reasons. I self admit to people pleasing and have been work…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:07 PM
2

Theres an episode of house where his therapist takes him to a party and tells him to pretend to be a drugged out pimp. He does. Still makes conversation with people and is still able to have a good time. The therapist asks him, if you saw people were still receptive to you as a druggie pimp... then why do you think they would reject who you truly are and put up walls to keep them away?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 12:19 PM
1

Nope, dont even know what an AP/AR manager is.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 04:37 AM
5

It just hit me. A way of explaining it is I lived my whole life expecting and even looking forward for the opportunity to please and help others. Litterally sacrifice myself in some capacity to help and take care of people. What I learned is at the end of the day if I am making all of her dreams my own, I am sacrificing my own dreams. If I spend all my money trying to help people or be liked I am ending up with nothing, not just broke but also with bad friends or no one at all. I used to think I…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 07:38 PM
8

That's just it. The realization I had is I need to own the shit I can control. Stop allowing myself to worry about stupid arguements over stupid shit. Maintain frame, keep enjoying the life I have. Dont spend time entertaining negativity. All RP teachings. And also, be willing to accept the things I cannot change. AWALT was part of that. I used to need damn xanax to function because of anxiety. No longer do I have such problems because I really dont give 2 shits about things I cant control. I fi…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 07:32 PM
5

A quality friend adds to my life. Has hobbies of their own I can go and enjoy, and enjoys hobbies of mine. Loyal, when your going to get into a fight you know you got your boys with you. When really tough shot in life happens they try to pick you up a little. It's your job to get up, but there waiting for you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 07:25 PM
7

She isnt always unpleasant, and I've let her get away with acting how she has and me just lapping it up and saying her frame. I suspect if I quit being a bitch, maybe she will stop acting like the man shes following...
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 02:16 PM
9

So I tall about work more, but I absolutely agree with social too. Taking building a social life full of energy and fun with friends that matter and add to my life. But that starts by not allowing myself to waste my time resource on people who aren't that in my life. Its throwing away time I wont get back
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 02:14 PM
1

Lead by example. Start by deciding what you want to do, make sure it's a higher percent than everyone else, say theres 4 people, do 30% of the work yourself. Tell everyone what's left over and ask who will do what. ALL COMMUNICATION VIA EMAIL. When people respond, set a time to meet up and talk about how far everyone's come on their section. Arrange a time and date that works for everyone. Again, all through email. When you show up, ensure your 30% is done and with high quality. If someone is sl…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:08 PM
1

6980 in and outs, performed in increments of 134
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:53 AM
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I'm not understanding this. This advice is lose lose. You either confront her on the topic to which your called mateguarding OR you say have fun, I trust you showing lack of mate guarding and your reinforcing bad behavior?
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:10 PM
1

You provide attention and validation to her. Anything that takes your attention she will be jealous of. Just like if she quit fucking you, and only fucked her dildo. You not paying attention to her and only paying attention to your instrument makes her upset
/r/askMRP05/06/18 06:54 PM
1

This dude asked for help, then deleted the thread when honest advice was too much for him to handle. Fucking chode.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 02:13 PM
21

All the good fathers are having a hard time finding good mothers.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 06:12 AM
1

The fact she wants to live with you doesn't show interest. Girls show interest with sex. If she was interested, she would be fucking you. Guys show interest with commitment. If you were interested in her, youd give commitment. Girls DONT show interest with commitment... that's the WHOLE point of TRP, and MRP. Girls who are truly attracted, give sex with no conditions. If they are demanding conditions, they are treating you like a fucking bonobo monkey and negotiating what they want for what they…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:20 AM
0

Dude, you aren't bad looking... but your facial expression is that of a kicked fucking puppy. Look at your own picture. Now think to yourself, does this guy seem like a fun guy to hang with on a Friday night... NO. Do you think, man he looks like I'd cancel plans to hang with other people because he would def have a better life going on?! FUCK NO. You look like man if I hang with this guy, hes going to be depressing and clingy and sick my energy fucking dry. Try taking pictures of you having fun…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:15 AM
1

This is a shit test. They are attempting to use shame and the "your going to die alone" fear to their advantage. If you meet a girl who truly looks up to you, she will look past how many you slept with in a second... and she will rationalize it( hamster it) by saying, I dont care as long as I'm your last... Your ex and all women are using how they get judged to determine how you get judged. If they were easy they become worthless... so they think the same applies to you. NOT TRUE. Infact for men…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 04:38 AM
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It's not what you say from here, it's your attitude that matters. Dont apologize or appear apologetic. Own it and make it a joke.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 04:22 AM
1

So, when shes living with you and brings home Chad, what you gonna do? Moan and bitch about respect? Cause you have nothing else you can do, she is entitled to fuck 6 guys at once in YOUR bed. And not a cop in the planet would do anything about it. You have no way to enforce your boundaries.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 01:53 PM
3

I am super hot and I can convince this chump to let me stay in his house, and his bed, and get cuddles, and have someone to watch movies with and I dont have to really pay rent... or if I do, I mean, itll be ok if I am late or maybe just dont pay... I mean he already let me move in and everything and probably thinks he will get laid, so fuck, why not. DUDE the fact you already have indicated in one of your comments that you plan to fuck her once she moves in means youve already lost. If she was …
/r/askTRP04/06/18 01:45 PM
2

You aren't a suspect just yet. Because you haven't talked to them and accidentally said 1 small detail they needed to consider you a suspect. I'm not a lawyer, I'm just telling you what happened to me. If they call you, dont answer, they leave a voicemail and your attorney friend gives them a call back. He will know what to do/say to find out what's really up. My lawyer told me this, if they had enough evidence, they wouldnt ask to speak to you, they would just put a warrant out for you. If they…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:40 PM
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Investigators will call you a witness when they dont have enough data to file a charge on you yet as a suspect... and they dont want to spook you from coming in so they can ask some "questions" i.e. get more info to file/press charges. If they said you were a suspect they run the risk of having you call a lawyer... better to call you a witness at first so your more likely to come in. Call the department, ask plainly, what am I a witness to" speak nothing else... or better yet, ask a lawyer to do…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:46 AM
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Mating is natural. Why cant we fuck in public? Ohhh, my favorite.... abortion is a womans right to do what she wants with her body, BUT God help her if she tries to sleep with people for money, she shouldn't be allowed to do that with her body... making babies is not ok, killing babies is. ( ignoring the debate is it a baby yet or not blah blah, the point is the contradiction.)
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 09:44 AM
1

I am angry, I was angry too. There is satisfaction that comes from knowing you can pull the strings now. I was abused as a kid, beaten a lot. I think it may be a great idea for me to start doing juizitsu or boxing... reclaim my confidence in physical boundaries. I'll tell you, as far as mental boundaries go... you stop being angry that you've been blind, and start being angry that your letting yourself currently be manipulated. Next comes using that masculine anger to motivate yourself to freedo…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:40 AM
1

I've left this up for a few days and re-read it and started implementing even more stuff, it has made a noticeable difference very quickly
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 07:45 AM
1

My only regret, is I have but 1 upvote to give.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 06:07 AM
1

Great analogy
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:54 PM
1

thedonald This is being done. Let's sit and watch how it works out.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 07:33 PM
4

I made X mistake, I regret it and I learned from it, I dont intend to ever let it happen again, if it makes you want to leave I understand and would hope youd choose otherwise. Owning failure is the mark of a good leader and man. Accepting the consequences of your actions outright are also the mark of a good leader and man. Begging for lower consequences, negotiating forgiveness are not. What I wrote above admits you made a mistake YOU are the judge that it was truly a mistake, YOU are willing t…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:44 AM
2

Join a fraternity, dont advertise how much you make, always ensure you bring beer to parties, and sponsor a few parties... you'll be legend and live the college we all dreamed of, I did it, you can too. Oh, and that will not cost you 50k$ a year, so invest the rest and you'll be a millionaire by 30
/r/askTRP24/05/18 05:23 PM
1

26 80k$ a year 5'10 14% bf 193 lbs A lot of acquantencies, 3 really close friends I've fucked atleast 45 women, I quit counting after 37 and that was maybe 2 years ago
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:26 PM
1

You dont put people on the path for ltr... she controls sex. NOT you. You were creating a contract, I give you my LTR, if you give me your single source of sex. That's NOT RP. RP is she is coming to you proving herself exclusive sexually to you asking you for your exclusive attention... i.e. LTR. Right now your a orbiter she has fucked before that she uses to get her rocks off and emotional tampon to. If she wanted exclusivity she would be NATURALLY inclined to not do anything with others and be…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 07:37 PM
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You plated your ex, bad idea considering you left her or she left you for a reason. Rule 1 played out because you've delusionally told yourself you see her as a plate. Plates are plates... you dont go telling them you expect them to be exclusive. Infact you dont tell any woman how you expect them to behave. You control you. If you dont want a plate that makes out with girls (why the fuck you wouldnt idk... I'd imagine inviting yourself into the fun would be a better option) then you simple drop …
/r/askTRP19/05/18 03:53 PM
1

If a girl asks me to hold her insert item here I always laugh and take it then set it on a table or something and say yeah that table will do a way better job than I will. I say it in a stupid discarding but sarcastic way that shows I am not their fucking butler. But makes a joke at the same time. When a girl says I should hold open the door for them, I tend to hit the automatic door button for cripples and say something sarcastic too... it's not a flat rejection of then but sort of a way to sho…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 05:10 PM
2

Please remember advice I was given from a lawyer. If your contacted by the police for questioning, that proves they dont have enough evidence to put a warrant out for you or arrest you for the crime. There is nothing you can do to make them have less info, and can only give them more. You may say the exact thing they need to have enough probable cause to arrest you, and then your in for hell. Never answer questions without a lawyer present. The police will even say if you dont come in for questi…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 06:16 AM
1

Go to r/personalfinance and get advice from people who do that shit for a living.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:33 AM
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Girls knew I wouldn't tell anyone anything... so they made me "their guy". Judgement free and no risk of me having them slut shamed by their friends = some of the wildest times ever. "I haven't had sex with a guy in years, I've been a lesbian for a really long time, but I wanna try it again and I feel like I can trust you not to tell anyone..." I've been at the beach with 5/6 Girls I've slept with at some point, but none say it because none talk about their hookups and I act like it never happen…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 09:30 AM
1

Right... makes sense. Length of post correlates to bitch amount. Wish they put that on the sidebar.
/r/askMRP27/03/18 08:26 PM
1

That's really great, I'm proud of you, I hope things work out for you here.
/r/askMRP27/03/18 02:59 PM
1

Haha nice rationalization that 18% is body dysmorphia, probably means your sitting in the 20's. That's ok friend, if you need advice on getting to an actual attractive bf% I'm here to help. It's pretty common place on MRP and TRP both that anything over 15% is starting to push it.
/r/askMRP27/03/18 02:43 PM
1

Yeah sex is on demand which is great... That sounds good... I'm glad to see the distinction either way, it helps me understand things. I'll admit I'm a bit autistically logical at times.
/r/askMRP27/03/18 02:11 PM
0

Getting fat is relative, and you bet your ass I test my BF. I do a quarterly bod pod, and weekly 3 point calipers. For me going from 12% to 18% is getting fat, what is your standard, asshole?
/r/askMRP27/03/18 02:09 PM
1

You misunderstood the situation. I had on glasses, she can't see my eyes... which was convenient to watch the whole thing play out. She didnt catch me and then I act like I wasnt.... she saw this girl and felt insecure and asked me to tell her she's Pretty/am I prettier than her. Also, I don't tell her I can pull more attractive girls, she just saw this girl giving me IOIs.
/r/askMRP27/03/18 12:23 AM
1

I see, so me thinking protecting her from the truth isn't really protecting her from shit since she already knows the truth and is really just seeing if she's able to get me to comfort her in her state which lets her know where she's at compared to my smv as proven by my response. Real encouragement comes from guiding her diet and exercise and pushing her in the gym but also being honest in how I feel and over time she will see less and less girls that she thinks are hotter than her which will b…
/r/askMRP26/03/18 09:58 PM
1

What response does this usually get You?
/r/askMRP26/03/18 09:41 PM
1

I see, that makes sense. I'm thankful for your response... I'm starting to see that using one of those two would be better and still be honest in my approach. Would that cause her to be less motivated to lose weight though is the lingering question in my mind. Do you think it would motivate her more? I can't see why but maybe you can help me see that point of view
/r/askMRP26/03/18 09:28 PM
1

The part you mention hotter girls wanting me is this situation, so how do you act in those situations?
/r/askMRP26/03/18 09:25 PM
1

I am leading by example. The part of encouragement is what I'm asking. If she is feeling insecure because she hasn't made the amount of progress yet, but will, is it appropriate for the sake of encouragement to tell her other girls look better than her, or to let her stay in a simi state of bliss so long as she is working hard to make progress
/r/askMRP26/03/18 09:22 PM
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This really hits home, I think I see what you mean here. Taking advantage of the situation to light heartedly show what you approve and disapprove of with her, not try to protect how she feels
/r/askMRP26/03/18 09:19 PM
1

Quality post, thanks.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 09:15 PM
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So the pivot really would be if she was actually making progress and working on it, give her some comfort but not too much... but if she has been slacking and just wants false encouragement comfort to call her on that shit and respond with yeah she seems to take good care of herself
/r/askMRP26/03/18 09:14 PM
1

I was in Sun glasses, she can't see my eyes... she saw the girl give me IOIs and saw this girl obviously looked better... And felt insecure, that part was pretty clear. But your saying I should have just said yup, she looks better and left it alone?
/r/askMRP26/03/18 09:11 PM
2

So you see this as a shit test, and one you'd use to point out how she let herself fall apart a little?
/r/askMRP26/03/18 08:55 PM
1

Haha see, this is exactly the behavior I'm getting... so the result says I did something right.. if just like to know what that is and why to replicate it.. instead of just getting lucky lol. I also understand I'm suppose to not give a shit about her response because I'm in my frame... but at the same time I think if I am learning to pass shit tests and comfort tests, seeing how she reacts and if it lines up with how other people say their wife reacts after they pass these tests will let me know…
/r/askMRP26/03/18 08:54 PM
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Great comment, thanks for the value added. If your gonna call me a bitch, at least be worthwhile and explain what exactly your referencing. This is AskMRP it's designed to educate, not just fucking insult. Take your redpill rambo bullshit to another thread if you have nothing to add. I don't mind being called a bitch, I've had people with red beret beside their name do it all the time, but they educate, explain what they mean... You add nothing, anyone can respond to everyone calling them a bitc…
/r/askMRP26/03/18 08:50 PM
2

Did you read my post at all? Yes she's been making great progress, she's down 7%, she is very submissive and follows what I ask as far as tracking her food, weigh days, weight lifting program and diet. I do know anyone who is doing everything right and seeing the correct amount of progress can be easily demoralized and pushed to quit by asking from them unrealistic rate of progress. Oh, you only lost 10 lbs, well your still a fat ads because you should have lost 20 by now... She's gonna say well…
/r/askMRP26/03/18 08:47 PM
1

5'10 188, 12% bf, bench 225 x7, squat 315 x 7. Fat for me was 18% after a dirty bulk, I hated how I looked. I have a goal of sub 10%, which I've been working on for 2 months now, expect to hit it probably this month, then ill bulk but on a much cleaner diet.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 08:37 PM
1

Hmm. See this is where I get confused. I know my frame, I also know this isn't TRP, it's MRP. I know this is where an oak is needed of comfort and attraction. I may be misplaced here and if I am I'd love to understand better but is it not my role to guide and develop those following me with encouragement as well as honesty as needed to motivate? Or are you suggesting I continually tell her how I think she's overweight? Do you think that would demoralize her when she's already in a state of doing…
/r/askMRP26/03/18 08:35 PM
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It's pretty well known and taught that the man is the leader, he will be followed. Search fat wife on MRP and they will preach over and over if you want your wife to lose weight you first have to stop being a slob and lose weight. You both used to be in shape? Then you get BP comfortable and let yourself go? Your wife will surely follow. This is exactly what happened. My wife eats when I eat... she eats like I eat. As a leader it's pretty fucking retarded to blame your followers for following yo…
/r/askMRP26/03/18 07:35 PM
3

Blew up weight wise. That part is back story. I let my weight go, so she followed lol
/r/askMRP26/03/18 07:27 PM
2

It seemed you are avoiding the topic unless brought up by someone else. Almost hiding it, but not completely... I am more of the approach of showing yourself upfront with no apologies.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:42 PM
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Dude, no. If your fucking amazing at it... don't be scared to show it. Have pictures of the fucking amazing shit you've built... a girl would absolutely love the fact you have this interesting unique hobby and fucking mastered it and make really cool shit. "Yeah I build with legos, I never grew up... check this shit out" Shows picture of giant bad ads battleship " Yeah that took like 2 years, but I just love being able to bring to life things like thia, and since I can't paint I found this was a…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:32 PM
1

The redpill is about learning what you love and doing it... shamelessly and with no regrets. Asking people if your passion is ok, is simply asking us to be your frame. Find your own frame. Be the best what ever the fuck you wanna be. If your a starwars nerd, be a damn epic stairways nerd with unwavering love and shameless self beliefs. Look at Sheldon on big bang... people love that nerdy asshole, cause he is who he is with no regrets. As far as finding people to do your hobby with you if you wa…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:26 PM
1

You got physically hit... that causes huge reactions in the body. If you've lived a kush ads life, it may be the first time ever you've been hit. Your brains like wtf. Wht matters is you were man enough to go to begin with. The question is, are you man enough to go again? I once knew a kid who would cry while he literally whopped your ass... The adrenalin was over whelming for him... once he started crying it triggered a shame spiral he could only solve by unleashing his rage by beating the fuck…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:50 AM
1

Sex boosts testosterone, masturbation drops it. Testosterone is the foundation of pheromones. When you jerk off you release way less sperm in your cum than when you have actual sex. Your body knows, and projects. Subconsciencly of course, and people will argue to what effect as well.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:43 AM
1

The brains release of dopamine at orgasm is correlated with the perceived value of a partner in relation to yourself. This shows a clear relationship between the brains reward mechanisms and rather you find a person more attractive than you. Attention disorders are usually related to dopamine as well. People with add or adhd are much more likely to end up in divorce and usually because they lost interest or the spark in the relationship as they do with everything else. This is all said to demons…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:41 AM
1

You schedule sex? I literally try to have sex anytime I'm horney... it starts with a stupid sexual joke for no reason "you know what else is huge" to random smacks on her ass, to just making out with her as I like and pulling away to full fledged just going for it.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 04:24 PM
2

Is this girl someone your trying to be with or just fuck? Is she worth the trouble? This isn't easy lol, it requires a wierd beta alpha mix of behavior. If she's truly worth the trouble you've already lost a lot of credibility with her, and fixing it will only serve to lose more credibility but that can be built back up over time if you do shit right. I think part of being alpha, not necessarily dark triad (which is more manipulation) is admitting fault quickly and on your own terms and genuinel…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:17 PM
1

This is how I've come to understand this situation for myself. You are a man with standards, you express those standards. They make people uncomfortable who aren't up to them. They can do something about it, which is hard... or they can blame you for their bad feelings which is easy. If she is willing to take the hard route, great. The next thing is simple, but hard. If you aren't attracted to how she looks then why are you having sex with her, and often? Why is she getting your sexual attention…
/r/askMRP13/03/18 03:57 PM
1

"I'm not paying for your food, I don't want you to fall in love or something like that, fuck you might even try to marry me or something" said as a total joke, but I don't actually pay. I order first and walk and sit down while I wait clearly showing I'm not paying.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:44 PM
7

You ridiculed someone for mistakingly wetting your jacket SHE WAS HOLDING FOR YOU? Why don't you hold your own fucking jacket? Dude, you don't scorn someone over a mistake, you wouldn't smack your dog for accidently spilling your cup of water on the floor... You certainly wouldn't get butt hurt and go days ignoring your dog. Why the fuck would you not be a little less up tight. Women need space to be clumsy, airheaded, etc. You can't just go around punishing her for mistakes. She made a mistake,…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:15 PM
98

Best I've ever heard was" how's that working out for you" with a smirk
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 12:37 PM
1

My absolute favorite is to say "oh wow, that's not like you at all, no problem blah blah and move on like nothing happened. It's a great pressure flip
/r/askMRP03/03/18 01:39 AM
2

Being vulnerable in these terms would mean being in your frame. Knowing what you feel and want, and being willing to express it and being ok with the fact if it's a need, it may not get met due to their inability or just not caring. Not getting butt hurt about what the response is, and owning the fact rather they like, don't like, can, can't, agree, disagree with what it is you communicated about your frame, it's yours and you own it and aren't ashamed of it. Women test to see if you are ashamed…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:30 PM
0

I hate conclusions that automatically jump to her fucking a new guy... it seems a bit over zealous. There could be a bit more going on. First, if your in a long term committed relationship, married redpill, not redpill is a better place for you, committed relationships take being an oak, not an alpha. An oak is someone who has mastered alpha traits to retain SMV value and desire from their partner but also the beta traits necessary to provide enough comfort for sustainment of a commitment. If yo…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 05:37 AM
2

What's worse, is the complete hypocrisy and ironic that she slapped him for not allowing her to do her parenting style.... that's exactly what the child should see, physical violence between parents... A+ parenting for her. I would have not only removed myself but also the child, and explained if she ever did it again it would be divorce with evidence she was physically abusive. 0 tolerance for that shit, but hey, she knows no consequences and knows he doesn't have the balls to actually leave if…
/r/askMRP16/02/18 09:05 AM
1

Ok, so the fact you recognize she is bullshitting you clearly defines you have a concept of distinguishing frame. You can see, this is her interpretation of the world and our history, and this is mine... I'm assuming she said you should invite her in a accusatory bitch tone. First things first, quit reading into tone and pretend to be 100% unable to decipher it. Focus on words alone. She said she wanted to be invited, you are clearly ok with inviting her... so just say yeah, I will have to for s…
/r/askMRP15/02/18 03:28 AM
0

If you get something signed showing you agree to have sex, it doesn't stop you from changing your mind mid way through, or at any moment after and deciding you don't want to and still could be raped. There is no way to stop people from changing their mind... and thus changing their consent... other than a post sex declaration of consent... I mean I think it's fucking ridiculous, but just being logical.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 04:50 AM
1

it is redpill to know your boundaries and stick to them for your own sake. It is bluepill to define your boundaries off of what someone else determines is acceptable or not. Women use shame as their weapon against men. They attempt to define reality for us and we aren't a "man" if we don't follow their reality. The truth is, you aren't a "man" if you don't follow YOUR reality. She is trying to redefine things for you and attaching shame as the burden for not believing her new rules for your life…
/r/askTRP16/12/17 09:42 AM
2

BPD. don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 01:01 AM
2

She hasn't read them, do not resend for the love of god. She will respond, or not... You will get your answer. While you wait, start using the same tactics you used to get her on others and occupy your time... cast 30 fishing lines and attend the ones showing they might have a fish... don't be a chode who keeps 1 rod reeling in and throwing it out never giving the chance for a bite and only has 1 chance for a bite. Be like your sperm, spray and pray... don't be like an ovary, 1 egg, 1 shot.
/r/seduction26/10/17 06:05 PM
1

One of two situations here, you feel positive or negative around her. If you still feel positive by her, If you feel like you wanna be with her, SHOW her this by inviting her out to lunch and then SHOW her by Kino/joking laughing with her... DON'T explicitly tell her, that's akward. If you see her and feel negative emotions, being with her is NOT the fix... she illicits negative feelings, SHOW yourself you respect yourself by avoiding things that make you feel anything negative and don't speak t…
/r/seduction26/10/17 05:47 PM
3

Is it as bad as another night with your wife?
/r/askMRP25/08/17 11:18 PM
4

Call a jag, or the VA and ensure the clause you refer to really keeps you locked in. Typically there is a mandatory 1 year must live in period for a home bought using a VA but having your dependents living there while you're somewhere else is almost guaranteed to count as you still residing there. The intent of the VA was to prevent people from buying investment homes... which you aren't doing. You may have an option, do the research.
/r/askMRP25/08/17 10:08 PM
1

This is great advice. I can def. See how this makes a big difference
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:13 PM
1

The shift you spoke of is exactly what I'm trying to gather more perspectives on. The philosophy behind why it works... As for the apologies, it's incorrectly engrained to apologize for needing the assistance of someone else, like asking permission to leave work early because something in your life broke down and needs tending to. I'd say sorry to my boss for the inconvenience
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:13 PM
2

How long have you been activly working TRP in your Life? First, you shut her laptop, which shows your authority as a decision maker, your tired you go to bed. She got upset, her problem... but you responded with the silent treatment yourself... which sets precedence... your the leader, that's how you show you handle conflict, expect it in return as how she addresses her perceived justified or not conflict. She started coming around because you kept it cool, so that's great, but then when she sai…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 02:28 PM
5

An insecure man can't see his success, no matter how much, only his 1 failure or rejection.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 04:05 AM
4

They arent friends if hes already asking how to do this and get away with it, he's already shown his intentions and values here, right wrong or indifferent.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 04:03 AM
1

Make sure and use her name upfront. It demonstrates value and also builds comfort. "Hey xXxX, I was heading to blah, i can swing by and pick you up if you wanna join"
/r/askTRP30/07/17 04:01 AM
2

This!
/r/askMRP22/07/17 08:11 PM
1

The fact he is preselected, rich, confident, can sing, has his own life and talents... means the blue pill shit he sings is part of a balance so he's not a caveman... he appears as the perfect alpha, one that isn't so alpha they are never going to commit... but not so beta they don't generate feelz. If you had as much going for you as he does... You can act in anyway and still balance. But, normal people dont... so we wouldn't ever get away with it.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 08:10 PM
1

I have read it, it changed my perception completely
/r/askTRP26/06/17 09:00 PM
1

Have you ever been tested for ADHD?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:41 PM
3

Nooooo.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 04:04 AM
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Is AA the right move in this situation with a less crazy bitch?
/r/askTRP14/05/17 03:52 AM
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Man to read what? I need you to be a bit more elaborative so I can understand wtf your saying
/r/askTRP14/05/17 02:44 AM
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Why? I made a joke that was relevant to the conversation my table was having, and in taste and funny to my friends and this bitch went full ape shit over a conversation she didn't belong in... and kept on and on and on with insults, threats, and shit. I wasn't going to say oh I'm sorry I hurt your feelings after her insulting all of us, I tried to ignore her and keep playing dice, then she kept on so I tried to make a joke of it and move on. Can you tell me what exactly would have been the bette…
/r/askTRP14/05/17 02:40 AM
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So, more of what happened was I made a joke about how I can't do drugs and I've always been curious about roofies and how I probably am not attractive enough to be roofied by someone... the table laughed of my friends and shit but this girl who overheard went full blown feminist on me... told me I was pathetic to which I laughed and said yeah I can't believe I am even allowed in public, started talking to me like I was a student and she was a teacher trying to educate me with a couple of "your g…
/r/askTRP14/05/17 02:17 AM
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Well, it wasn't around anyone at first lol, but it carried on long enough for that to change
/r/askTRP13/05/17 11:08 PM
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How do you stop the white knight fro rushing in to save the girl your giving shit to or is giving you shit and your AA? Almost got jumped because 3 guys didn't like how I was talking to this girl... she was coming around but when they jumped in defending her it was fuel to her fire and she exploded more instead of moving into my frame
/r/askTRP13/05/17 11:01 PM
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What you said is so key, an alpha or stoic accepts reality as it is... Yup I have X condition... A) I am not ashamed of it B) I have it handled on my own (shows ability to confidently tackle difficult obstacles) C) I am not going to need to plug an emotional hose into you and drain your livelihood and happiness to help me cope with it. The hallmark of shame is to hide something. Part of the foundation of a beta is shame and guilt.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 06:58 PM
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Something I've been learning is the difference in informing and explaining To me, informing is updating the first mate on significant changes in the ships direction or conditions so they can understand, prepare, and adapt efficiently. The key is I have chosen it's information to divulge not out of guilt but out of desire to set a vision/expectation/goal Explaining is when I've had a manipulation tactic used on me that says I'm not the judge of my actions or I innately believe I owe an explinatio…
/r/askMRP11/05/17 06:50 PM
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If your looks max you out at being able to pull 6s... and you don't do RP shit, your gonna be pulling 3s... RP doesn't fix genes, disorders, and such... it enables you to reach your capability and potential. If your going to complain about your looks, you better be damned sure you've eliminated all the other short falls, because if you havent, another trait may be the actual weakest link you have and is what is really holding you back. Worst case, RP teaches you how to accept the reality of your…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 01:46 PM
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I've lurked for over a year. Tried application on my own and requested feedback that I've deleted from my history more than a few times with months in between. I've read the books, attempted to apply them and internalize them and made little progress or continue to make "autistic" application of these principles. I learn in my own way, and you in yours. The past 3 posts have been unbelievably enlightening compared to almost a year and a half of lurking and spot posting. This is a very chaotic ti…
/r/askMRP30/04/17 01:38 AM
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Part of me wants to say, since I have to buy everything for the house and do all the chores, I have only a little money and I choose to spend it on myself. Maybe you should be contributing half of the expense of the cleaning supplies and stuff instead of asking me for money?
/r/askMRP29/04/17 06:32 AM
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This is exactly what I'm asking. I'm making sure I'm not executing the STFU method like a total retard making things worse... When a negative reaction could mean flawless execution, or execution like a dipshit... it's hard to know if your doing it right.
/r/askMRP29/04/17 06:30 AM
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So if were on the phone and I stfu, she will just sit in silence... then say are you not going to answer me... And I say no, and she says Why? Like I'm not sure how to just get it to be over with and her not drag it on and on or avoid her digging and digging into why I won't answer ect then digging into the why behind that answer and the why behind the next one
/r/askMRP29/04/17 06:28 AM
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It's not that I can't handle her being mad, it's that I can't resist telling her how dare she fucking come at me expecting me to explain my finances to her, that's none of her damn business. When she asked about why I don't answer at work... it's painful for me to grin and blow it off when my brain yells, that's none of your fucking business and who are you to fucking nag at me to know?!
/r/askMRP29/04/17 04:10 AM
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I'm really internalizing the not feeling guilty part... I'm working on fogging too. It's just hard to know what to reply when someone is literally demanding you give them an explanation why you don't give them money... Honestly my instinct isn't to tell them all the reasons, it's damn hard to straight up say who the fuck are you to ask me why I can't give you money? But that isn't very STFU or avoiding the argument haha
/r/askMRP29/04/17 04:08 AM
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I've read those books all more than once. Theory is getting me no where, I need to see practical application
/r/askMRP26/04/17 09:49 PM
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Hit 180 lbs maintaining my bf%, finish the concrete project on my back porch, make an A in my class, get back into boxing, get my savings to $5k, live within my financial means as if I was single not married, buy and rent a second house, become more social, Many more. All in work and making great progress. My question is how I reacted to her being angry, not answering the phone, not engaging, telling her I didn't want to talk to her and that's why I didn't answer were those things that were appr…
/r/askMRP26/04/17 08:26 PM
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How do I apply this to more than chores, but to being more reliable and responsible in skiing things she says she will
/r/askMRP26/04/17 08:15 PM
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This past weekend she said she would go to watch soccer with me sat morning at the bar, we woke up and I got ready and she just never got up... laid in the bed and put on netflix. I was thinking wtf, you said you'd go with me. After the game, I went to the mall. She text asking what I was up to and i told her. She went nuts texting asking why would I do something she wanted to do without her... then called me 6 times back to back trying to"talk" about it... meaning confront/argue about it. I did…
/r/askMRP26/04/17 08:02 PM
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I'm using each stage of this as a learning opportunity, hence me asking about the next piece of the puzzle, her reaching out. I really like how you broke this down, I am wondering if you can clarify a few pieces, how do I do me without her presence without seeming butthurt? how do I handle her beginning to insist she join me, say I'm going to the mall or something? How do I answer her if she starts asking why I'm doing shit without her that I know she would enjoy
/r/askMRP26/04/17 07:10 PM
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That's the part that I want to understand, this is her basically saying, you aren't acting like your BP self? The question is now, how to talk, how to communicate effectively that's isn't BP in regards to not sounding butthurt or like I'm punishing her with some silent treatment or some shit. How to clearly explain I expect things to be done when she says she will do them... and it not just be words, but actions she will follow?
/r/askMRP26/04/17 07:04 PM
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It's a bit hard not to be "autistic" when there's a plethora of information and it's all conflicting. I was told do my life, ignore her and treat her like a roommate, to next her, to tell her I fucked up, all kinds of shit. So, yes, I may seem autistic, but that's because the advice can be convoluted at times, and I want to make sure I understand the why, not just a set of instructions. So if me doing me, taking care of shit myself and continuing on with my own hobbies ect and now she text what …
/r/askMRP26/04/17 06:39 PM
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Honestly, the first level. I haven't been ignoring her, I've been doing my own mission, doing my own thing... I haven't been around the house, I have been at the gym or school... limiting time around her etc.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 06:32 PM
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Did you read the previous post? It seems your out of context a bit, but I may be wrong. If I am, can you explain why this would work in this situation?
/r/askMRP26/04/17 06:19 PM
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I've been in my own world the past 2 days... haven't text or talked other than telling her last night that I was over controlling with the whiteboards, and I have been over pressuring and over controlling and she doesn't need to worry about that any longer, because I won't be behaving that way ever again. And I walked away. She didn't say anything, hasn't spoken to me since until now, So she text me saying "she keeps waiting and expecting me to text her, but I haven't and the tension is getting …
/r/askMRP26/04/17 05:57 PM
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Great advice, something I've considered for sure, thanks for the direction
/r/askMRP26/04/17 12:54 PM
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One follow on, for things that effect her and in turn effect me ( her health for example, she forgets her medicine then passes out at work and goes to the ER) what do I do about that stuff? I can't make her take her medicine, I can't not go toy he ER to be with her? I mean.. it's these things that frustrate me the most
/r/askMRP25/04/17 07:04 PM
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This clicks. I appreciate the advice and perspective. I won't be throwing away the whiteboard though, it's what I use to make sure I get everything done I need to get done.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 07:02 PM
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I'm literally asking you for examples and understanding of your point... not sure how that conveys I think I'm perfect? I really want to get a good grasp of the essence of what your talking about, not just some steps to take and follow.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:54 PM
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Ok, so in the meantime, quit relying on her all together or what? Keep thinking she will do as she says she will and if she doesn't then what, and if she does then what?
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:50 PM
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I lift, I am in shape, good body composition, I love what I'm doing and who I'm becoming, I hate relying on someone who doesn't follow through though. It would help me if you could give more examples of things you'd do to remedy this situation
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:39 PM
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Which actions would be appropriate here?
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:37 PM
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I've tried doing it myself, cleaning, fixing shit, getting groceries, shopping, all that shit and When she doesn't do it... She doesn't give a fuck, she has her excuse, and that's all that seems to matter to her. She says she will do something and plain and simple doesnt... because she's tired, or something.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:27 PM
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I've read the book twice. I've tried reward, and it's not effective either. I told her last night I was happy she was using skills to know what she has to do and planning it out so she can get it all done, I used to take her out to eat out if the blue for accomplishments, used to buy her stuff to say thanks for help. I try to coordinate spending more time with her when things are good, but usually it's not long before I go to get a shirt and there isn't one, or she forgot about our picnic and di…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:24 PM
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Sometimes, I think AWALT...? Not sure if that is part of the answer. I wonder if she is any different than anyone else would be
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:18 PM
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I've been getting chores dine for 2 weeks, deep cleaning shit, over a month repairing furniture and such, not much in the way of progress
/r/askMRP25/04/17 04:57 PM
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Right now I'm 178, 16%bf, and lift 5x a week. She's gaining weight and I've tried to get her in the gym or diet... and it's been dismal. But I continue anyways.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 04:56 PM
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So, I used to ask that the first one home be the one that cooks, and if always come home and dinner wasnt even started.... or she said she would grocery shop and wouldn't and I would have work every day, and kept believing her When she told me every day she would do it... then I got pissed, bought my own food, told her not to touch it or cook it, and she is insulted! She keeps saying she wants to change and now I'm not even giving her a chance. I keep falling for her telling me she will get more…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 04:23 PM
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So her saying "I have them washed, it's bullshit that I said I'd do them today and your trying to make me pay" is still disrespect? I always end up seeing her side and believing it...
/r/askMRP25/04/17 04:19 PM
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And again, the difference is AI that can do more than convince you the sex is real... It's also the ability to show companionship in an authentic way AND have sex. Prostitutes don't sit around and talk about your day and work everyday... You don't have day in and out companionship... You get a nut and that's it. So of course, it's not the same thing as what I'm describing. If you've ever been to a strip club you've paid for that mix... companionship (albeit shitty) usually in the US with no sex.…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 01:56 PM
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I've been to countries where it's legal, and the dynamic is certainly different. Australia takes sex vacations to the places I'm talking about. Thialand the Philippines, etc. The men don't deal with three wife's shit, they just leave and fuck a prostitute. In Japan they have all but lost the idea of monogamy to the point they view it as cheating only if emotions are involved as with most Asian countries. I lived there for a few years, so I've gotten my fair share of their culture.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 01:54 PM
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We got done having sex like 10 minutes earlier
/r/askMRP25/04/17 01:50 PM
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This.is.boss. It's most of his stuff subliminal RP, or was this a one-off?
/r/askMRP25/04/17 01:49 PM
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They talked about essentially all the BP people would give up on the idea of the hard work to get that release... while there would be some that would mate still, it would be a different dynamic because the power the female holds of withholding sex would greatly diminish, as in countries with legal prostitution, doesn't eliminate it, but the dynamic is certainly very different.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 12:06 PM
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The first time the idea was mentioned to me was in my "social factors of human sexuality" course in college, and when I watched ex machina the concept struck a cord. I was watching a documentary on Netflix that actually went mentioned it. It was actually an article here on Reddit that I read that went way into depth, but I'll have to try and find it and of course the sources it cites would be great reading.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 12:01 PM
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Meaning one that can not just make sex real, but looks and moves like a real person, and the most threatening part, can show genuine interest and desire, including having conversations showing they care to listen to you
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 11:31 AM
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Nothing scares Evolutionary psychologists more than an AI sex robot that is believable to a man. They fear it may very well end the entire way the human race mates for obvious RP reasons.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 06:34 AM
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I agree with this in hindsight. What led you to this conclusion?
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:26 AM
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So really AA and just being a smart ass are one in the same in a serious context... So overall don't argue just be a smart ass to show how dumb what she said is?
/r/askMRP25/04/17 02:27 AM
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It's weird because it's a question if I love her... not because she is doing something to earn my love, like saying yes you make me very happy.... but more like I don't believe you love me, prove you do in a comfort shit test kind of way
/r/askMRP24/04/17 10:04 PM
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She does these odd shitty comfort tests a lot. And it's really confusing. A go-to is when she says she does everything wrong and she wants to fix things but she can't take always being told when she messes up and if she fixes this will there be more stuff
/r/askMRP24/04/17 10:02 PM
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I wasn't having a conversation where I was convincing her I love her. Her dad told her that and it made her feel insecure about it, so to me it seemed a comfort test. She said what I tell her and the way I look at her is two different ways, and she doesn't know if I actually love her or if there's always something she needs to change about herself (been working on her being more reliable/organized)
/r/askMRP24/04/17 07:26 PM
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Let me recap, Wife hasn't met girl, knows a mystery girl is into you, wife has to use imagination on what she looks like which always leads to over exaggeration and dread. She doesn't have any way to truly assess the situation and there for is fully in dread because of her imagination and emotions She meets this woman, realizes she is into you, assesses this woman's true SMV in relation to her own, and her tactics change significantly. One of two things make sense to me: She is confirmed in her …
/r/askMRP18/04/17 01:17 AM
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The idea is you don't shit on them or their ideas. You realize your entitled to your opinion and it may differ. A position of true power is simply "I respectfully disagree" or "I can't stop you but I won't be able to join you in doing that plan". Again, if you are actually the less skilled person, then this is a dumb move. Pride for the sake of winning some pissing match isn't leadership. Real leaders know when to follow. But if you clearly know your right, being true to that knowledge and belie…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 03:55 AM
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You did good suming up one of the concepts in here, you seemed to miss a bunch of others though... If that's all you got out of this, maybe you should reread it? Maybe you can put a better TLDR that covers the other concepts too, up to you, it's your RP education. Glad you got something out of it though
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 07:12 PM
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First, I meant, can't control others. Second, there's a quick read that pays a lot of dividends, called the six pillars of self esteem by Dr Branden. It really lays out the idea of congruence in yourself and the effect on self esteem, and thus confidence.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:16 PM
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Exactly! This posts main intention was to point out one thing. Most people have no idea the BP thoughts and thinking habits they have because they don't know anything different. They may even think they don't have them. But I ofer a thermometer of sorts to allow someone to know where on the spectrum they are likely to be sitting despite their rationalizing mind trying to convince them they arent.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 06:28 PM
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Not concerned that it's agressive. Just trying to rethink my BP conditioning. So In the book of look it says don't hide your sexuality. In my mind, I wanna give this girl a shit eating grin and a "what's up?" Or "hey gorgeous" with a sexual smile as I pass by and continue on my workout. But, I don't know if being modest is appropriate here and I can't behave like that or that's just BP bullshit we've been conditioned
/r/askTRP15/04/17 03:33 AM
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It's like WISNIFG talks about not trying to argue... just agree with a truth inside of what the person is saying i.e. fogging, and then stick to what you really believe. I realize I fucked things up... but I also realize I deserved much better treatment than I even let myself be treated. Let me try to explain this. I let myself be treated like a 4 when I deserve a 8. When I was treated like a 3, I spent all this effort trying to convince people to treat me better, to treat me like a 4. First, I …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 03:30 AM
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How else can I take these grade A dick pics?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 03:20 AM
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I would do that, but I don't want to give her pink eye with my brown eye, so I gave her a golden shower instead.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 01:40 AM
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Screening tool to see your SMV. easy to fake on tinder, hard to fakeFB posts and pics that go years back. Keep your FB fun, tons of DHVs and you'll seal the deal
/r/seduction03/04/17 07:45 PM
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This is exactly what I was looking for, thanks for sharing. The selfishness required to break free is one thing that is hard for me to grasp... I realized my whole childhood was spent being told my needs weren't important and I was here to fill a void in my mom and that meant even being hurt for her from her. Victim puke is a really interesting concept. It's just wierd that I identify so strongly but my defences tell me that doesn't matter, there's no way this stuff can be true... but I know it …
/r/askTRP25/03/17 04:36 AM
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It's wierd, because every time you read it you pick up on things you missed the last time you read it, I'm hoping taking notes will help retain more
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 02:07 AM
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Were married, but something I'm also working on. Yes she had a child with another man, is she done having kids? No, she wants a child or multiple children with me, but it's been my decision not to have kids for a while from now. Not ready for the commitment. She doesn't spend a dollar of my money on her kid, she splits all utilities even and pays what is hers. Simply put the only burden the child has on me or my life is if I choose to watch her. Otherwise she watches her, pays for all food, util…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 10:42 PM
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It gives opportunity for conventional wisdom to be divulged. Also, because I just want to.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 10:38 PM
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I've read both. That's what has began challenging several parts of my mental model. And the total confusion and need for understanding better follow suit
/r/askMRP13/12/16 01:47 PM
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Thank you for your insight
/r/askMRP11/12/16 12:05 AM
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By that I mean some of the tidbits I've read here, like when someone is being sarcastic and your actually taking offense to it... or someone looks you in the eyes and you quickly look away, those type of things... MAP talks about knowing when to lead or to follow, this is what generated my curiosity
/r/askMRP10/12/16 07:24 PM
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I don't know why but I believe a person wouldn't text or call either.. a shitty stalemate
/r/askMRP10/12/16 07:22 PM
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Such a sexy troll you are, and you didn't even try for me. I'm impressed.
/r/askMRP10/12/16 04:03 AM
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You surround yourself with interesting people... meaning you intend to become interesting
/r/askMRP10/12/16 04:02 AM
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I've seen a lot of girls keep orbiters for situations exactly like this. Or have hookups they keep in their phones to use when needed with the ever illusive prospect of getting lucky again.... guys they flirt with or what not to get them oit of a bind... and plenty of men who jump through hoops to help but you know she was just using them the whole time because she never intends to have any real friendship with them, just what they can offer. I don't want to be that guy... It's sickening to thin…
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:25 PM
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I guess I'm wondering about interest too... like how do you show interest but not too much... I've heard the 2/3 rule, but what else is there. I seem to make either like codependent full force relationships or none at all... not sure how to slowly build interest. And for comfort when your with a new person... how do you go about doing it? I guess your right, I won't lay in a girls arms and say hold me or something but I also don't tell a person good job, show approval, or try to be physically af…
/r/askMRP09/12/16 06:51 PM
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Absolutely wish I was a troll. But im just awful with relationships. I used to be very open and talkative but it caused me to be ostracized since I was super hyperactive. At home i wasnt allowed to have friends or interact with peolle. Then in high school focused on trying to gain attention of women, which failed. Then I was not very confident. In college I quit talking and opening up to anyone. I have decent looks which worked in my favor... I picked up PUA books and was able to spill routines …
/r/askMRP09/12/16 06:17 PM
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The thing is I guess it may be obvious, but to me I wouldn't change her tire because I'd feel like she was using me... like yet again I'd be acting like a beta or orbiter or some shit.
/r/seduction09/12/16 02:20 PM
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I get several numbers a weekend, people always hit me up, but I don't pursue anything or text back or invite themanywhere because I don't want to show to much interest or be the "nice guy" or orbiter
/r/askMRP09/12/16 02:17 PM
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You are incredibly insightful on this one. I basically act like an aspie from all of my defence mechanisms... and I act that way to everyone now for some reason, men women family. It's ridiculous but I've done it so long I'm trying to relearn how not to. I don't make small talk because I don't want to seem eager to get to know a person, I avoid any and all signs of interest to anyone. It's dumb. The problem is there have been girls that I've gotten with that night or that were interested when I …
/r/askMRP09/12/16 02:13 PM
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I may be confusing those two. Can you elaborate on the difference? I've read more books than I can count but having the interactive feedback really helps make sure I grasp these concepts. How do you escalate comfort vs escalate interest?
/r/seduction09/12/16 01:47 PM
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In short, you said be interested... I don't know how to show that interest without too much interest shown.. I don't know how to get to know them without being the nice guy or orbiter, and these are cases I k own for sure they want to fuck or have fucked them btw. They usually show interest after fucking or after showing clear desire too, but I still don't show any interest back period, don't try to get to know them period. It's a weakness and over correction to the problem I'm trying to fix
/r/askMRP09/12/16 03:09 AM
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Really it's about having a woman who is interested in you. I pretty much never call or text anyone, if things happen they did but I don't pursue anything... but people try to hit me up and I don't really respond or care. Really I don't respond because I don't want to show any interest or talk sweet or get to know them because I feel like it will just cause them to lose interest, since when I was younger I was a pretty big nice guy and threw myself at every girl... I guess I just wrote them all o…
/r/askMRP09/12/16 03:05 AM
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It's the agree and amplify technique that is so key to many things and I just am not so quick... or at least I don't think so, I haven't had the chance to brush up on how to think faster funnier in the moment. I think the comebacks I think of are pretty dull lol
/r/askTRP06/12/16 01:35 PM
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How did you find out?
/r/askTRP06/12/16 05:39 AM
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DEER?
/r/askMRP18/07/16 10:19 PM
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Is it ok to neg your wife?
/r/askMRP12/07/16 05:50 PM
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So building sexual tension through competition isnt a thing?
/r/askMRP12/07/16 05:46 PM
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I've read on MRP several places if your SO tells you to do something you correct them and remind them they ask not tell you what to do. Am I misunderstanding this? What would have been a better way to handle that?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 01:06 PM
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Please explain
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 09:02 PM
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So I read quit thinking "she's upset make her feel better" instead "I feel great, come in and have a little bit of my great mood"
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:41 PM
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So what was the covert contract here, so I can learn to identify those.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:38 PM
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So how do I calm her down without placatong, what would have been a better responce? How do I take care of her need to be relaxed without me seeking validation on it
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:36 PM
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Yes, we have sat down and clearly plain as day talked about that I work to pay the bills, I owned the house before she moved in, I earn the money. This takes so much of my time when I get home I get 3-4 hours of down time before I go to sleep to repeat. I don't want to be working all day to come home and do all the chores while she sits and does nothing. I expect if she isn't going to work that she contribute to the team by taking care of the house. We agreed it's the same as a job for her, I on…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:33 PM
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Ok, what's a good responce to that shit testing? I guess this morning her getting me a good coffee cup was part of her agreement, why ask please... she doesn't ask me please go to work... But if she doesnt, say I asked her to stop something off in the mail and she doesnt... because she's busy with drama about this rando chick from high school she doesn't even know... What's a responce from me that's right?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:29 PM
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It's a very open agreement between us. We're both aware and have discussed. As long as she hold up her end of the deal I don't get irritated. As soon as I feel she's not... i.e. no lunch made or dinner or the clothes are stacking up.. or a combination of all, I start getting pissed and tell her she doesn't have to do these things if she doesn't want to but I'd expect her to get a job so she's contributing half of the work... either by work or by chores.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:13 PM
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I'm missing a connection here and I am realizing that real time. I don't know how the fact I asked for another cup of coffee makes me placating.. I'd appreciate an explanation so I can understand myself better
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:57 PM
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Right, and rereading his post I can clearly understand and insult wouldn't be insulting if it didn't hit close to home. The part I don't know that your understanding is him calling me placating isn't upsetting me personally. I just don't like how I ask a question for someone to give half advice. Instead of leaving it to my interpretation what his insult should mean, a clear cut explained answer would be better.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:53 PM
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If I handled the dream well why did she walk away all pouty when I responded to her?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:46 PM
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So if I handled the dream correctly, why did she walk away all pouty when I wouldn't really give more to her about her dream?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:46 PM
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Ok, giving a perspective from the outside world harsh or not but nothing else... in a ADVICE column... does little. Giving a perspective, explaining why, and tips to improve in an ADVICE column makes sense to me. The posts that are most beneficial to me are the ones where people are explaining WHY, not just pointing out a flaw and calling it a day.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:40 PM
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What bothers me isn't the insult, but the lack of value spitting insults to a question I'm asking does when I'm genuinely looking for answers, not insults that waste time
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:38 PM
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Just to be clear, the conversation went like this:: "This coffee cup is leaking" Her: "oh let me get the seal for it" grabs seal from kitchen puts it in cup... "Thanks" Drinks coffee Spills on me "Your gonna have to get another cup this one still leaks" walks into closet grabbing boots and putting them on, her standing there "Your gonna have to get another cup PLEASE" I look at her "It's like yesterday when you made me say please instead of just telling you: I THINK IN MY HEAD if she doesn't wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:36 PM
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She didn't have anything else to do, I was getting dressed for work. I didn't say I'll just do it myaelf... it went like this "This coffee cup is leaking" Her: "oh let me get the seal for it" grabs seal from kitchen puts it in cup... "Thanks" Drinks coffee Spills on me "Your gonna have to get another cup this one still leaks" walks into closet grabbing boots and putting them on, her standing there "Your gonna have to get another cup PLEASE" I look at her "It's like yesterday when you made me say…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:35 PM
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I didn't say that. I asked her and when she tried to make me say please, I thought in my head I'd rather do it myself than say please. Of course reading above about disrespect I've learned to understand why this is wrong
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:31 PM
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I've read the first one, working on the second. Notice how you struck through 80% of what he said... to get to the point. Where he offered advice instead of general insult. I'm not quite sure how insulting someone is a form of advice... Edit: honestly I don't care what he wants to call me if he would explain why he thinks I'm placating, why he thinks I'm codependent or any of the other things he said. To just throw out accusations, not explaining why, and not giving advice on how to be better...…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:27 PM
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So, just checking does the daily coffee thing make a difference if we have agreed making coffee and breakfast along with lunch and dinner and keeping up the house is her responsibility as is mine to work and make sure all finances are squared away as they always are? Or is it better to still treat this like something she does for me out of good faith alone... I guess I'm wondering if that sort of thing makes any difference. I do really appreciate the detailed feedback that's constructive and not…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:07 PM
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Also, of note, since I work and pay the bills I expect her to make breakfast, coffee, lunch and dinner and keep the house clean... if she isn't doing those things I instincutally get pissed and confront her about it. So I guess that's where I came from with the coffee thing... I wasn't giving an order or anything btw, it was more like a mentioning it in passing sort of way. So while I get ready for work she could get a different cup... she's gonna go back to sleep while I work 12 hours. So I don…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:03 PM
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Can you elaborate on the dream thing why she might have done that and why my responce was right, also I am guessing I was wrong about the coffee because of the whole lead by example idea... so I should have said please, but feel confident to correct her when she tries to tell me what to do too right? As long as I'm leading by example on it
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 06:59 PM
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Thanks for the new lessened learned, leading by example. What went well with the comfort test and why? So I can learn the method behind what I did by accident
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 06:56 PM
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Looks like you have advice to give... but instead just threw insults. I'd be open to something constructive using maybe examples of what I could of done and why versus just insulting me...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 06:54 PM
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Her ur the child lol almost 25 years old and still out trying to party and getting drunk all the time lmao you need to grow up and quite talking to girls who are a lot younger than you its really gross, and don't message me back or im calling the cops, this is the exact reason I didn't give you my number in the first place Her that's one thing you should know, you fuck with me you fuck with a whole lot of guys who would do anything for me, so ya go ahead fuck with me I dare you(; Me Stop wasting…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 09:26 PM
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Ok, so let me know if this is a better world view of the situation. The fact she is disrespecting me like this isn't her fault, it's mine for not being alpha... i.e. something I'm doing wrong. Instead of trying to stonewall her and call her out on it... which let's her know her action pissed me off... I should have instead of trying to correct one symptom of her reaction to me being BB, fixed the fact I'm BB and let the pieces fall in place. So, better would have been to focus on when she called…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 03:05 PM
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Ok, soft dread I get. I've been going back to the gym and she knows about it... talking to friends that are girls more and she hates it... she fears losing me to them. As soon as I start going hiking and not giving her as much attention the need for validation has moved in strong. So I guess how do I play comfort game like a AF instead of BB. Will read recommended material as well btw. Lastly, there have been a few times she is getting sweet and nice and I kind of switch that to sex talk which s…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:52 PM
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So do you follow suit with the belief of punish the bad, reward the good? Would a simple threat to leave if she ever did it again be what you concidering the punishment for being rude and obnoxious? And the reward for calming down is giving her space to vent? Just trying to understand how the tell her you won't take it anymore then act like nothing happened approach would change the behavior?
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:16 PM
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Ok, so I can see what your saying. I do however, need to understand the why so I can replicate this. Can you link some good reading material? I've read the side bar but maybe I am forgetting a detail already learned? Also, with her reactions to me doing this as shown above... how would you say is the right way to handle these? I appreciate your time and effort here.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 06:00 AM
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So, she saying she isn't going to give a shit about me anymore... means she gives more shits about me than I do her?
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:47 AM
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So, what would have been a more appropriate response? I feel like this is a bit of a catch 22... She knows that it bugged me enough to say something about it... how can you correct someones behavior for it bothering you and also not show them their actions have an effect on you at the same time. Aren't you inherently bringing up their behavior bothers you by trying to change it? What would have been better? Just not said anything for a day, when I finally call just tell her I needed space after …
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:40 AM
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Can you elaborate on why thats good she said that? That reads that its bad to my BB mind lol
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:35 AM
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she said that, not me...
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:31 AM
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sorry, what specifically did I sounda bit beta saying & why?
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:25 AM
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What I meant by hold my frame wasn't like, what is frame... but moreover, the frame I am currently holding, how do I hold it longer, what actions will maintain this frame? Also, after her saying "feels like this is some kind of test." She said "its amusing, very amusing." Then she said " I for one will not allow myself to get worked up over YOU any longer. If you don't wanna talk then that's just fine and dandy with me" I should maintain the stonewall thing for a while as well? Or should I engag…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 04:40 AM
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I am like, way brand new. So can you please elaborate on "borderline" and how I can hold my frame? Lastly, the rewarding good behavior and correct bad. She is texting me all this shit about us falling apart because I want space since she was an ass. I am maintaining not talking to her... but I was considering texting her tomorrow night and being like, when your ready to give a real apology and mean it I am willing to listen. Keep in mind, I am turning this Alpha thing up and the Beta down I feel…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 04:24 AM
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So what do you do? How do you get the ball back in your court?
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 03:16 PM
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If I was gonna talk to a girl in the gym, it would be for legitimate conversation... Shared interest is obviously there... Wouldn't hurt to capitalize on it. For example, just like you would with a guy in the gym, talk about routines, muscle groups, fitness goals... Ect.. But not being a douche about it. "Hey I saw you've been working back, and I've never seen that X workout before.... What muscles does it target?" of course, I wouldn't do this unless I thought they knew what they were doing and…
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