AA during an arguement vs normal shit test

anythinginc · 2017-04-24T19:10:08+00:00

my dad said he can't see how much you love me in the way you look [at me]

Dads never like bad boys like me baby

Agreed, amplified.

She will be even more pissed

Great, blow that shit up, have crazy sex later. What kind of conversation are you having where you are trying to convince her how much you love her? She needs to be convincing you.

If was just an big comfort test then hold her tight, and say "I love you, and I want to show you, help me learn how." If you have been super aloof recently the vulnerability will go over great.

BrazilRedPill · 2017-04-25T00:00:32+00:00

I love your dad more than I love you!

I will ask your dad if I can fuck you tonight.

Tell your dad that I think that he doesn't love your mother.

Tell your dad he doesn't love me.

Tell your dad to watch you and me fucking, he will change his mind.

Tell your dad I hate you so much that I've married you in order to hate you every single day.

drty_pr · 2017-04-25T05:04:20+00:00

When in a very serious conversation and she says something like "my dad said he can't see how much you love me in the way you look"

That's some fucked up shit man. What kind of a serious conversation results in your wife saying that? Is he rich?

You could AA/AM/fog that shit, but I would look at it as a boundary issue. "Look babe, I can see how your dad may worry about how I look at his precious little girl, but at the end of the day I'm not in a relationship with him. I don't give a fuck if he thinks I love you or not. I will not have your dads fucking opinions play a role in my marriage. If he has an issue with it, he can come talk to me about it." Then leave.

ReddJive · 2017-04-25T12:30:38+00:00

Why AA? And where is the sex in this?

everything you do with your wife needs to be with a thin veneer of sex. She isn't your daughter so screw her white knight father. She isn't your buddy. She's your wife.

Try STFU. That really shitty test you got is a good example. You're not showing enough action.

From what I have seen lately a lot of you new guys are confusing sarcasm with AA. Yeah some of the vets here can get away with pure 100% sarcasm BUT consider that sarcasm can also be contempt. Be sure you know the difference.

And why is AA your only go to. I ONLY AA when I am in a good mood and don't want it ruined. Otherwise I STFU...even now after all this time.

my dad said he can't see how much you love me in the way you look"

Me? I would stand up. Get real close to her making sure she had to crane her neck to look me in the eye. Either I'd put my hand around her throat, grab her hair, and then pull her in for a hard, deep kiss.

Then say what's love got to do with it.

less talk. more work.

UEMcGill · 2017-04-25T12:34:39+00:00

"my dad said he can't see how much you love me in the way you look"

Congratulations. You fell for it. She got you to feel guilty about yourself.

Instead of trying to treat it like a shit test, treat it like the more obvious manipulation that it is.

When UEMcGill gives a fuck he would say, "Hmmm, I can see how he might think that."

When UEMcGill doesn't give a fuck, "What the fuck does your dad have to do with how I act and behave? I'm only responsible to myself for my actions. "

Detach the emotional hose and stop giving a fuck about the words that spew out of her mouth.

stonepimpletilists · 2017-04-25T13:12:54+00:00

Title	AA during an arguement vs normal shit test
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Date	April 24, 2017 6:46 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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