ANGER

laere · 2015-09-05T13:05:06+00:00

First, and foremost, understand it's okay to be angry.

Secondly, continue the lifting, getting male friends, new hobbies, meditation etc. Fill your time up with things to do. Also taking anger out on deadlifting is an amazing feeling, or doing HIIT sprints (personal experience).

Thirdly, don't frame it as "hating yourself." All of us here, or most of us, have been brainwashed into betadom from the start. Learn to self-reflect, and love yourself. It's ok you made mistakes, no one is perfect, every one does it. Learn and move on.

I am glad you found this place, and we are here to help. Understand that you are in control of yourself and your life. Remember that.

PS: I suggest reading the sidebar, look up the "core red pill books" on the main sub and read those. Really just read and internalize, and think about what you're reading.

Apanthropos · 2015-09-05T14:50:12+00:00

Your anger means that you have fully grasped the reality. That is good news. People who reject the red pill are not angry.

Time heals. Keep working on yourself. In time, you will start getting attention from lots of women that you will forget about your anger.

cheeky_throwaway101 · 2015-09-05T14:26:44+00:00

HA HA, holy fuck. Are you me?

IllimitableMan · 2015-09-05T14:31:38+00:00

Hoping you find this useful OP:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/35k0uf/on_anger/

CuntyMcFagNuts69 · 2015-09-05T16:26:08+00:00

If you want a funny way of learning some Trp truths, listen to the late comedian Patrice O Neal, he makes you laugh and learn at the same time.

Metalaggeddon · 2015-09-06T20:05:16+00:00

Impotent rage, translation (I'm angry at something, but don't realize that something is me.)

You are always angry at yourself. Maybe your lack of power, your lack of status, your lack of motivation, your lack of perseverance, your bad decision making, your lack of experience, your incorrect expectations, your inability to see signs, but it is always a measurement on YOU. You have the ability to redirect your energy. If you are ever angry, it is simply proof of your failure in some way. That's why anger hurts, and is also cathartic. Any externally focused anger is an illusion, YOU'RE ALLOWING YOURSELF TO BE PLACED IN SOMEONE OR SOMETHING ELSE'S WORLD, YOU ARE LETTING YOURSELF BE CONTROLLED BY IT. Simply put, you can't stop anger, but you can take responsibility and focus that anger towards addressing the root of the cause. Yourself, your preparations, your failure, your effort.

Title	ANGER
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	4
Comments	19
Date	September 5, 2015 12:22 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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