Another guy giving LTR a ride.

anotherswingingdick · 2016-06-07T09:20:41+00:00

But, my standards would dictate that if you are my bitch, the only blokes you should be accepting lifts from are me, or a male relative.

Concur. A slightly delicate situation at the moment, keep your spidey senses at 100% alert.

YOu have the right to tell her she stepped off the path that leads to stronger committment. Choose the timing carefully, make it an acerbic observation, not an accusation.

quicklogaccount · 2016-06-07T12:09:46+00:00

LTR got a ride home from a 'colleague' (her words). As she usually refers to her workmates by name, im assuming this is a bit of a shit test- use gender neutral (its probably Chad who drove her) term, see if i overreact.

It seems that, a long time ago, in a galaxy far away, you could only call "shit tests" hooks the woman consciously gave you for you to lower your own value. These days it seems mainstream to call any opportunity the woman gives you for you to lower your value, a shit test.
I don't think the nerds would call that a shit test. Given the fact she used some generic and gender neutral nomination, I'd say it's the opposite of one, she didn't want to alarm you. But as far as shit tests go on the current lingo, it is one, if you had reacted to it you could have lowered your value AND you handled it in a decent fashion.
If you have reasons to believe it, you could assess the possibility of that being her HIDING stuff from you. As you thought about it, it could be that Chad drove her home and she doesn't want you to know. That's not a shit test, that's a lie.

But, my standards would dictate that if you are my bitch, the only blokes you should be accepting lifts from are me, or a male relative.

I understand why you think like that, but it smells of weakness / insecurity. Just bear in mind your girl can never know about it and you're good.

banica24 · 2016-06-08T08:44:32+00:00

In what context did she say that and how long is this LTR?

You're right - probably a shit test. I imagine the RP response is to be completely unaffected by this, so you did well. Clinging and signs of jealousy dry up any vagina and that's a common mistake most men make after getting in an LTR. They forget alpha traits and do no show themselves as the best the girl can get. The minute you show weakness, your LTR will branch / your plate will stop texting you back.

Equilibriun · 2016-06-07T16:32:02+00:00

Was it extraneous circumstances? If so, ignore. If not, next

iamirishpat · 2016-06-07T21:01:38+00:00

I agree with the sentiment here. But you can't punish her for this.

Gotta lay down the law though. Tell her if she wants a ride, she can call you. And that's it.

Troaway2222 · 2016-06-07T13:41:18+00:00

Got a ride from a beta, tested you to see if you are beta too. You are, but you passed. Work on the mate guarding bro

SoRedSuchAlpha · 2016-06-07T08:55:07+00:00

my standards would dictate that if you are my bitch, the only blokes you should be accepting lifts from are me, or a male relative.

Y tho?

Title	Another guy giving LTR a ride.
Author	Butcherboy86
Upvotes	10
Comments	13
Date	June 7, 2016 8:35 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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