In a 3 month long relationship. Red pill for about six months.

Girl gets a facebook message from a dude we met at a party. Dude was chatting her up at the party. She knew him from a few years back. I walked away disinterested. Walked by a few times and she would put her arm on me making clear who she was with to him.

Fast forward a week. Girl is upset says she got a weird message. Shows me. Turns out dude has been messaging her and then says something like I seem like her type since she likes emasculated weak males.

She was upset.

My reaction was to laugh and say "hes obviously butthurt." She says "you upset?" I smile knowingly and say "no because we both know who is fucking you tonight." And so it went.

Never said another word. But now am wondering more about her fb messaging w some dude she was chatting w at a party rather than his lame comments about me. Should I say its not cool to be messaging dudes? Should I ask if she still messaging him? Should I say how would you like it if I started texting the chick who was on my nuts the other night and you got jealous of? Should I say anything?

Or is this just a who cares blow off?

Any thoughts?

Thanks.