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| – | I feel alone in my relationship. How do I talk to him about it? (x/post RedPillWomen)Please re-submit your post and remove the 'xpost...' portion in the title. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/17 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Was this too harsh?It is rude and insensitive. You need to get a laptop or watch things on your phone with headphones. You should keep the same schedule as your husband as well, meaning that you wake up when he does, and you go to bed with him. Even if you stay awake, just cuddle with him for half an hour, you can listen to a podcast, and then switch to the laptop or your phone. He is asking a very reasonable thing of you, and all you want to do is complain instead of coming up with a solution that works for every… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/17 03:39 AM |
| 1 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?Makes sense! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/17 04:51 PM |
| 1 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?Thanks for the name drop! Sorry it took me so long to get around to this. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/17 01:47 AM |
| 1 | What has been the most difficult or challenging thing for you to accept or even understand since you found rpw?Hey there /u/SylviaToday, the problem with complaining about your man is that the person you are complaining to will only have these 'snapshot' impressions of him. If you say he's done something mean, or stupid, or frustrating, they will remember that issue. People have a tendency to remember the negative and bad things they experience, while all the good things more or less blend together. So if you tell someone that your guy did something that made you angry, that will lessen your man's standi… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/17 01:46 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, does seeing a man express non alpha emotions make him unattractive?Haha! I always liken it to classically masculine movies (war is usually a good topic). The men are all tough, beyond a doubt, and when you see one with a tear in his eye, women fall apart. When a strong man shows a bit of vulnerability that is attached to indescribable loss and pain, then his struggle and quiet sadness are very compelling. It can genuinely make a woman want to fight and cut down any that would harm him, even if he's entirely capable of handling things on his own. I really don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 06:14 PM |
| 20 | Ladies, does seeing a man express non alpha emotions make him unattractive?Vulnerability and being emotionally soft is an immediate attraction killer: If the man only or frequently exhibits soft behaviors If he demonstrates those soft behaviors indiscriminately, and around total strangers Vulnerability can increase closeness between a man and a woman, and heighten her respect for him, but it's never going to turn her on. When he's masculine 98% of the time, and only lets his guard down around his woman, at key moments - then it's not repulsive. It's also not attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 05:28 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts and opinions about the current Hollywood revelations of sexual abuse?There's plenty of shit to sling at anyone in politics. I'm not familiar with the trial you're referencing. But honestly? Between a marital rape case (I don't know anything about it, again) and being a rampant rapist (Bill)....yeah, I'm happy with Trump. I always want him as the President of this country, not a bf. Take care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 04:57 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts and opinions about the current Hollywood revelations of sexual abuse?eye roll I swear to god, if this is the 'grab her by the pussy' thing... You know what Trump HAS been criticized for? Every time Ivanka was at a party with these types, Trump was always close to her. Holding her arm, or hand. The media spun it as weirdly possessive, but I have always seen it as protective. Which is what a parent should do for their child. It seems you are talking about a different case, which, if so, then every LIBERAL is also a hypocrite for loving Bill Clinton. An actual rapis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 04:22 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts and opinions about the current Hollywood revelations of sexual abuse?I completely agree. I think it's possibly going to be yet another opportunity to virtue signal special status as a 'victim' because that's who the left likes to idolize, and it's not a coincidence that male abuse and victimization is heavily scrutinized, while women are taken at their word. I made a status simply because I wanted at least one person to actively include men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 04:20 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts and opinions about the current Hollywood revelations of sexual abuse?It is more than sad, it is devastating. I only hope that actual justice is served and all these monsters are locked up. There is a #MeToo trend happening, and I fixed the words to include MEN and women that experience violence, abuse, or sexual assault. It was a small change but it made me so fucking mad that I had to do it. It's also idiotic that there are people here that don't understand why RP users are bothered and upset about this... The demonization is bad enough. But the lack of understa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 12:53 PM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts and opinions about the current Hollywood revelations of sexual abuse?How the hell is it weird? I have never supported the exploitation of children, or the normalized hedonism and cruelty of any industry. That you find this 'strange' speaks more to your lack of understanding about why women are RP, and traditional. I dislike feminism, and it's continual push 'forward' and the liberal influence that has dealt massive blows to traditional ideals like marriage, family, and shared morality rooted in Christianity. It's disgusting that you are 'surprised', as though you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 12:42 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts and opinions about the current Hollywood revelations of sexual abuse?Hahah I haven't paid for a movie in a long time. I don't have cable either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 03:59 AM |
| 13 | What are your thoughts and opinions about the current Hollywood revelations of sexual abuse?This should have been exposed and the guilty punished long ago. It's disgusting that those that speak out have always been ignored or made fun of at every point until now. It's not just women either. Many men have suffered. Children actors are fucked (literally and figuratively) the moment they enter 'the biz'. Celebrities don't have so many issues because they are rich... It's because the entertainment business is vile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/17 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Sexual Orientation - Does It Actually Exist?Thank you for sharing this! There will be so many opportunities to use the 4 definitions of ‘natural and normal.’ natural: (1) happens in nature normal: (2) frequent and often, (3) accepted by society (this changes over time), and (4) biologically normal. “Acting as designed by natural selection.” All of these parameters speak to traits, behaviors, and permutations that offer some kind of advantage, assure survival, and aid the pursuit of success except for the more subjefctive and unrestrained … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/17 06:35 AM |
| 3 | How do you flirt?Flirting should fit your personality and feel comfortable. Some people are more dramatic and forward. Others are a bit playful with teasing and innuendo. There are as many permutation and ways to flirt as there are people on the planet. I fall into the playful and 'endearing goof' category. The other day we turned a conversation about possibly trying shrooms into a 'coded' exchange wherein we referred to the supplier as a chef that makes excellent sautéed mushrooms... Flirting should be fun, reg… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?This user has been issued a temporary ban. They need to do a lot of reading and some introspection and decide if they can productively and cordially participate here. I know you have been going back and forth with this person as well, so thank you for your efforts and patience. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Why Can't Male Sacrifice Be Acknowledged?Excellent comment. This user has been issued a temporary ban. They need to do a lot of reading and some introspection and decide if they can productively and cordially participate here. Thank you for your efforts and patience. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Getting married in two weeks!!!Congratulations! And wonderful username! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/17 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Best way to respond to criticism?I was going to ask the same thing! I'm wondering if he is (or was) overweight, or has been bullied etc. Certain things stay with a person, even if they 'fixed' the issue. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/17 02:51 AM |
| 2 | How is YOUR Superiority Complex?I had a really great conversation with Camille as well, and realized how different our approaches are. She's a natural star and people always gravitate towards her for numerous reasons. I learned that I tend to have a more business approach (know who I'm meeting, and some background information). I'm changing my initial idea, I'll do less information collecting (I'm settling for knowing names and faces ahead of time, and positions with the company, and some history of the company) so that actual… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/17 05:23 PM |
| 2 | How is YOUR Superiority Complex?I LOVE that you took the time to reply to my babbling. :0) How exciting for you meet your SO's office! That can be nerve wracking too. To date I have met a few people he works with, but yes this will be a very different setting all together. I'm not too nervous, simply because I know I've never upset or irritated anyone upon meeting them. I'm confident in my overall pleasantness and good manners, so this is more about how I want to make the jump from 'pleasant addition' to 'memorable new acquain… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/17 12:23 AM |
| 2 | The purpose of higher educationYes! Life is not a race, and regardless of what you do, if you work, you'll be doing it for a long time. Better to focus on finding something you enjoy and WANT to do. Better to relish your experiences as they come. :0) Good luck! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 08:17 PM |
| 2 | The purpose of higher educationI fully support the whole college experience. You not only get to meet, but live with peers that you wouldn't otherwise become close to. Additionally, it's the easiest time you will ever have broadening your network, dating, and enjoying a lot more freedom without the same responsibilities that come with being an adult with a job. There is also an air of credibility that automatically accompanies someone that has graduated with a full degree from a college. It may be different in France however.… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 02:57 PM |
| 1 | How is YOUR Superiority Complex?Thanks for sharing this! I particularly like the humility quotes. It's easy enough for me to understand my own shortcomings and flaws, particularly when I am with Occam and around other people. Where I have to muster up the courage and actually commit to saying something (which may also involve deciding whether anything needs to be said)...he'll already be deep into conversation with someone he just met. :0) I have become more outgoing and talkative (without a doubt) over the years, and I feel v… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 02:48 PM |
| 5 | The Right Needs JoyThese are some very interesting ideas, and I will have to go back and read more than the excerpts that you highlighted here to flesh out my thoughts more. At the moment, the first thing that comes to my mind is something we often talk about here, when people try to associate RPW with an actual social movement. It's not. We are a collection of individuals that do what we need to, and enjoy the company of others that share our values. Part of me wonders if this is largely at play among many in the… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/17 09:26 PM |
| 4 | 1950's A single woman's guide to finding a husbandOh, it's a joke. Also, the woman 'hunting' and with a gun is common throughout the entire article. Especially during that time, men were supposed to do the chasing and courting. Women suddenly being in a 'male drought' of sorts, meant a change in tactics for man. A true departure from anything their elder female relatives could relate to. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/17 09:53 PM |
| 2 | 1950's A single woman's guide to finding a husbandHuh? | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/17 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: Are tomatoes fruits or vegetables?Hahah, better than a cactus or a pineapple! Imagine a pineapple wanting to be treated like an apple "EAT MY SKIN" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Are tomatoes fruits or vegetables?And it's smart to treat one like a vegetable... :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 05:38 PM |
| 3 | 1950's A single woman's guide to finding a husbandI'm glad! You can thank my mindless imgur browsing that has become a nightly ritual before I fall asleep hahah! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/17 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Deal breakers in marriageJust approved your post so people will be able to see it and provide feedback now. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/17 03:01 AM |
| 5 | Single / teenage motherhood - what is your stance?Hahaha I agree! :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/17 04:16 AM |
| 5 | Single / teenage motherhood - what is your stance?I knew this exchange was probably a mistake, but tried to give you the benefit of the doubt. Take care, be well, goodbye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/17 02:30 AM |
| 11 | Will Technology Soon Take Over The Primary Female Role?Thanks for sharing! I do think that technology, and having a more connected (and liberal) world is overall hurting women more than helping. Men can get sex anytime, anywhere. Why should any woman be upgraded to the status of 'wife' now that religion (Christianity) has been so drastically undercut and ostracized? The moral decay of the US isn't really helping anyone, and the loss of our ability to identify as communities with our neighbors (particularly in large cities) only seems to exacerbate o… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/08/17 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Single / teenage motherhood - what is your stance?That's why I said Christianity, not the weird offshoots (Mormons are crazy, but generally pretty friendly). Anything to an extreme is bad. This is also why I specifically pointed out that Christianity in the US was never like the oppressive, rape culture, patriarchy to the extreme of the middle east. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/17 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Single / teenage motherhood - what is your stance?Community is created and maintained, when people have a lot in common. Religion can be an excellent way to promote behavior, and personal conduct. When people feel ashamed for acting in immoral and shameful ways. Christianity is a bedrock of the US, and I would happily see it make a comeback. Not to an oppressive and suffocating degree, but so that saying "Under God" etc isn't seen as 'problematic.' I think the large cities most people live in are a detriment to their overall health and happines… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/17 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Single / teenage motherhood - what is your stance?It's irresponsible and puts both the child and the mother at a severe disadvantage. Single motherhood rates have probably increased due to the ever expanding welfare state, the decay of religion and community, and the popularity of feminism/sex positive/loose morals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/17 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL Are /r/theredpill users generally low-status men? If so does this help explain their overt hostility towards women?If you think they RP literally hates women then you are too biased to understand the point I was making. Feminists do not hate men, and RP does not hate women. Another equally ridiculous example would be: all blacks hate whites, and all whites hate blacks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL Are /r/theredpill users generally low-status men? If so does this help explain their overt hostility towards women?You completely missed my point. Both assumptions (the one in the OP and my comment) are unfair, extreme, and false. It's a biased summation that does not mirror reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL Are /r/theredpill users generally low-status men? If so does this help explain their overt hostility towards women?By this logic, feminists are all low status women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 04:27 PM |
| 0 | What do you think of the common RPW advice to STFU?The positive equivalent to "STFU" is "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all." Anyone can use it, but it's particularly helpful when a woman is emotional (more prone to disgruntlement, and fighting), and when she's just bored, and when she's unhappy because of a completely unrelated thing but decides to take it out on the guy. Advice that encourages restraint, is what the more masculine and aggressive women tend to have the hardest time learning. There is also a focus on perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/17 02:38 PM |
| 3 | How do I handle LDR exclusivity?Just approved your thread, so people will be able to see it now. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/17 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?Yep, of course, you're a victim in all this. This isn't a debate sub, so insincere, sincere, or comical...this is not a place for debate. As for warning the OP, many others have already done that (including myself). They're married, so if she wants to leave, that means divorce etc. She didn't have a problem with him at all until the past few months. So again, his reasons for becoming a cop were acceptable to her, otherwise she would not now be his wife. And you're being simplistic if you think d… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/17 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?Doesn't that imply an interest in violence? By this logic: surgeons are interested in in cutting people, firefighters just like to watch things burn, EMTs only want to see people close to death and in horrifying circumstances. You are being simplistic and and limited in your understanding. Soldiers and cops do far more than point a gun. Their duty is to protect and serve, they seek to stop violence, arrest criminals, and enforce the law. Violence is a tool only used as a last result and in extre… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/17 02:34 PM |
| 7 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?That's a limited and inaccurate view. Do you also think people that enlist just want to kill? | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 01:55 PM |
| 10 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?Doesn't matter. If he's this way now...it will only get worse. Physical violence, even 'pushing' is unacceptable. He sounds dangerous and I stand by what I already said: at the very least he has to get professional help. There are lots of support groups for cops etc. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 12:07 AM |
| 10 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?Even if he is stressed, he should not be taking that out on YOU in any way...but especially sexually, with anger or violence. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 12:05 AM |
| 8 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?Does he have a temper? Has he ever hit you or been physically aggressive with you during a disagreement? If he gets mad because he can't stand listening to YOUR sex preferences and concerns without getting upset and angry....you need to DIVORCE NOW. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 12:00 AM |
| 15 | Do any of you ever feel scared of your husbands?I'd never say any of this to him; I don't want to be that kind of nagging bitch. I guess I just feel really lost, and sad, and was hoping maybe someone else could relate and offer pointers. Calling bullshit on this reasoning. If you are EVER afraid instead of aroused, or uncomfortable with how you are being treated in the bedroom say something!!!!!! You should NEVER feel afraid or 'wonder' about boundaries. Safe sex 101. It's not 'nagging' to say "I don't want to involve a gun in our sex life." … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Female Nature And Magic/SpiritualityThis is really great, thank you for sharing. I do agree that women are more flexible when it comes to sexuality and religious or spiritual faith. Women overall are more in tune with their emotions, and socializing and making decisions in general tends to be a communal effort and not an individual one. Women seek out friends for so many different things, and we avoid isolation as much as possible. Going to the bathroom in school is something done together as a cluster. It's almost as though women… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Marriage Parenting - The Family Alpha by Masculine By Design MancastThere's no set timeline really, it depends on the quality of your contributions and your ability to carve out a positive reputation on the sub. I've seen this happen in under three months, and I've seen it take over a year. It depends on several different things (personality, writing style, quality of comments, frequency of participation). | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/17 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Marriage Parenting - The Family Alpha by Masculine By Design MancastIf you write comments, submit quality threads, become known within the community as a reliable source of RP ideas, theories, and advice...then yes! You absolutely have the opportunity to earn a position of status and respect on RPWives. You should familiarize yourself with the sidebar and wiki. There's a section called "A note on reputations and respect" for example. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/17 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Marriage Parenting - The Family Alpha by Masculine By Design MancastEndorsed Contributor. Someone that has consistently participated on the sub with quality content and insightful comments. The women that occasionally share their blog posts here are allowed to because they have contributed to the community in a meaningful way. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Marriage Parenting - The Family Alpha by Masculine By Design MancastHi /u/Rugby11 is this your podcast? I saw you encourage another user to donate to Patreon. We do not allow self promotion, except in very specific cases (long time EC contributors are allowed leeway). | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/17 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Congratulations Iris!!!!!!!!Paging the fantastic /u/Irisandoleander! Congratulations on the newest addition to your family. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 01:21 AM |
| 5 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.Someone reported this comment thinking it would be removed. Instead, I'm upvoting it. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/17 07:56 PM |
| 5 | When he doesn't do what he says he will, when do you just do it yourself?Has your husband always been like this? Or have things just gradually shifted to this current pattern? Tell him that you appreciate his help. When you ask for him to do something, just say "if you're not too busy, I'd like your help with x" then, go ahead and make an appointment to fix the issue two or three weeks after you ask him. If he doesn't handle it in that time, just go ahead and handle it yourself. You could also ask him what his preferred method is (a note on a shared calendar, a remin… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/17 03:31 AM |
| 22 | Being your SO's "possession"Yep, I am his. I belong to him, he owns me, I respect and listen to him. I hold him above all others, and my first duty is to him. I cater to his preferences, I follow his lead, I build him up in front of others, I never say a bad word about him to anyone. I work hard to make him happy, and actively guard our relationship. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/07/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?Partly habit and generally not recognizing the username one way or the other. I generally have a desire to be clear and understood. I also don't particularly enjoy it when some random stranger tries to claim they understand my relationship better than I do haha. Not a situation I am eager to revisit with this particular individual. Despite my saying I am done with the exchange they replied again this morning. I'm ignoring it. :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 03:13 PM |
| 1 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?Women want all the freedom and equal treatment same as men. They have it and in the process have surrendered their protective status without also adopting a sense of self preservation. Men rape. The solution is not retarded attempts to 'teach men not to rape' it's "teach women to understand their morality and vulnerability". The men that 'rape' bc idiot woman got drunk and later feels embarrassed or wronged are bs and not actual cases of rape. Rape culture is "I was walking into my home when a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 02:42 PM |
| 2 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?Hahaha I believe it at this point. Good news is that I just add the name to me "do not respond/reply to" list. I should really add it all to my res tags actually. :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 04:18 AM |
| 3 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?No idea, the entire conversation is such a waste because if other dude had simply asked questions before assuming to know everything, I have a feeling we actually would agree on several topics. PPD has taught me that angry MGTOW/RP dudes are just as impossible and insufferable as hardcore feminists. :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 04:01 AM |
| 4 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?Rape culture is the colloquial term for everything have to do with rape in society, usually inflated to a 'conspiracy of violence against women perpetuated by men'. I don't believe in rape culture or the idiotic 'rape' cases I read about on reddit. Never assign malice where stupidity is a far more likely explanation. Women drink and act like slugs then want to back-peddle because today, rape victims are special. The feminist culture we live in relegate power to the biggest victims, so victim hoo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 03:47 AM |
| 2 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?Women are wonderful happened because of how we evolved as a species. Also, there are many situations where men are preferred over women. I don't expect life to be totally fair and equal. Sexism benefits women sometimes and men other times. Your 'example' is in no way relevant. Necrophelia is a world wide taboo in every culture and throughout history. I already said I don't believe there is a rape culture and that women are more to blame for rapes occurring due to blindly trusting non-relatives t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 03:33 AM |
| 3 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?You seem to want exact equality of treatment between men and women which, didn't know you were a feminist. Men and women are different, we evolved to have different strengths and weaknesses so that when paired, we cover for the weaknesses of each other and have a wider pool of strengths. RP (reality) 101. Pretending otherwise is just guys being whiny losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 03:18 AM |
| 2 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?Dude you know fuck all about me. I don't belive in rape culture, and women are at fault for drinking with strangers or even male 'frienda' to intoxication but expecting to remain safe. I didn't decide what my life and love are worth - my bf did and he told me how things were going to be. He told me I was his greatest, and that I belonged to him. I don't decide shit, I listen and follow. His priorities are not yours and that's fine, but stop pretending everything is some evil female conspiracy to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 03:10 AM |
| 3 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?Yeah, I would just be getting in the way, and I can do more from the side. I wouldn't abandon him, but we have talked about different strategies. I carry knives and pepper spray, and have zero reservations about stabbing someone from behind, I just won't be the one fighting a dude head on alone while my brother watches lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 03:06 AM |
| 5 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?What I give my boyfriend, he values. What he gives me, I value. We are different, and would never want to be loved in identically the same way. When it comes to survival, obviously I like that he will protect me. He also wants to protect. The everyday mundane things tend to be my sphere of responsibility and expression, not that my love and expression is limited to cooking and cleaning. We invest in each other as best suits our strengths and respective genders. It's not that one is better or wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 02:56 AM |
| 6 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?It's more of a cautionary tale. A woman's affection is conditional and if the man fails repeatedly for a long enough timespan, she will leave or just berate him endlessly. It's also a good way to get men, especially ones that struggle, to expect love just because they are nice, or understanding. I think all love is conditional for both men and women. I also agree that the limits of my love are not the same as what my boyfriend is capable of. I wouldn't die for him. I would try to help knock an a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Q4 Men: do you prefer introverted or extroverted women?I'm a woman, but my boyfriend prefers introverted women. I am super introverted, but can function normally and be 'on' when I need to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 02:15 AM |
| 6 | On the feminization of martial arts and "girl power"Yeah, I'm sure with zero experience you'd beat any skilled woman....LOL. You have a serious case of bitter and this isn't going to be a productive exchange, so you can either whine or find a different facility that offers what you're looking for. Goodbye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Where do you draw the line with your SO and the opposite sex?I either know male acquaintances through my SO or they are family. I do not hang out with any non-blood relative male without my SO present. It's a personal rule that my SO supported. He has some female friends, I know all of them. I'm not worried about him cheating, because he'd just end the relationship first if he ever got to a point where he considered cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/17 07:59 PM |
| 5 | On the feminization of martial arts and "girl power"I always wanted to start training martial arts, but having women and young teens in the same class is something that I just can't take seriously. You have no experience or knowledge...but you assume you'll instantly be better than those women? If you are specifically interested in competition then you need to look for a program that focuses on that. Many people take classes for fun and exercise. On another note, it'd be entertaining to watch you spar with a veteran woman in good health. Martial … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/17 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Help Me Sort Through This New Living ArrangementAlso, if you did have the engagement, and he decided to move - you will need to figure out if you are going to move with him or try to do an LDR. Are you willing to quit your job for him? That's why I called everything you listed as 'mumbo-jumbo'. Being engaged won't erase these possibilities, it will bring you to a place where you have to deal with them. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/17 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Help Me Sort Through This New Living ArrangementWhen hamstering, slapping a woman is a great way to get her to stop. It was as much to shock you as it was to get you to halt. Does he know about the engagement thing? Everything else you mentioned is just mumbo-jumbo. Listen to what Iris said, make sure he knows that you need to be engaged prior to living together. Understand that you turning him down, regardless of how spur of the moment, assumed, and casual it may have seemed - you still rejected him, you didn't pick him. Don't make the mista… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/17 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Help Me Sort Through This New Living ArrangementWhat made you decide you 'weren't quite ready'. I think it says volumes that he came to you first, before anyone else and offered to make a step most women dream of....but you turned him down. Given your massive rejection, and putting a big 'STOP' sign on progressing the relationship, I don't think you now get to complain about who his new roommate ends up being. To put it another way, this would be like being offered a promotion, declining the position, and then bitching to the boss about the p… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/17 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Quick Update: It's about the marriage, not the wedding.Congratulations, that sounds amazing! Have you told your families yet? I'm interested to hear their reactions. Maybe you could put together some albums for everyone and give them as gifts? My preference would be to elope as well, I have a big family, he doesn't. I just always start to feel really guilty when I think of it. In a perfect world, I'd have my parents and best friend present. My dad would walk me down the aisle. Afterwords, or maybe on another day, we'd just have a huge pot-luck party… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/17 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN and RPWOMEN: What to you is the hamster? Perhaps it's the cause of the biggest difference between male and female thinking.Cool story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/17 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN and RPWOMEN: What to you is the hamster? Perhaps it's the cause of the biggest difference between male and female thinking.Mostly it's a failure on my part to double check the username before replying. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN and RPWOMEN: What to you is the hamster? Perhaps it's the cause of the biggest difference between male and female thinking.Hahaha, in this case it does. Given my network, family, friends not to mention everyone my SO knows and the people I know and have some degree of trust for when it comes to their insights. You also aren't RP and do weird things with concepts. I am returning to my normal policy of not talking to you now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN and RPWOMEN: What to you is the hamster? Perhaps it's the cause of the biggest difference between male and female thinking.That's fine. Your observations and overall impressions aren't really something I pay much attention to or seek out when considering these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4MEN and RPWOMEN: What to you is the hamster? Perhaps it's the cause of the biggest difference between male and female thinking.What? Everyone has an ego, a core they want to protect, I have no idea why you think women 'hardly have one to speak of.' Ego drives solipsism, branch swinging, AFBB, hypergamy, the hamster, vanity, selfishness etc etc etc. Even being a 'giving' and 'selfless' person is tied to ego, because being thought of well is very important to women. If anything, men can detach from their ego (thus allowing them to be cowed, apologize when they shouldn't). How often does a woman openly say "I'm sorry" or "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Q4MEN and RPWOMEN: What to you is the hamster? Perhaps it's the cause of the biggest difference between male and female thinking.Why do you think it's meant to protect the ego? I'd say it's meant to protect her feelings if anything. Feelings are tied to ego. The hamster is a way to avoid feeling: guilty, responsible, 'bad', mean. If you can turn any situation into one where you are the victim, the person wronged, and the 'good' one, then you avoid having to accept blame, apologize, feel guilty. How is it not tied to protecting the ego? the more feeling based a man is, the more he will tend to hamster As in, effeminate. Be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Q4MEN and RPWOMEN: What to you is the hamster? Perhaps it's the cause of the biggest difference between male and female thinking.Hamstering is simply the round-about-sometimes-made-up logic women will use to suit their objective. Be it getting out of trouble, side-stepping responsibility, validating bad behavior, or winning an argument. It's often an automatic process, driven by emotion, and ultimately meant to protect the ego. Men hamster as well, and in my experience, the more effeminate the man, the more he 'hamsters' like a woman. Overall, men are more willing to accept fault (desire to be responsible, belief that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Using instagram connected to Tinder^ Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 04:07 PM |
| 8 | Q4Women: Are you oppressed?The only time I have ever felt 'oppressed' was at the hands of other women. For all the bitching about how horrible men are, women are a thousand times more deceptive and malicious to each other. For the most part, men just want to be rewarded for their effort and have fun. Women are far less straightforward. I love sexism, and I have always benefited from it. Any woman that says she doesn't like sexism is a liar. If there's an emergency or a life and death situation, she will happily glom onto … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 03:19 PM |
| -1 | Q4ALL: Which is worse in a relationship: clingy behavior, or emotionally distant behavior?For women: a clingy [desperate] man is really the worst. Some amount of 'distance' can actually keep interest and attraction alive. For men: some prefer a slightly emotionally needy, and clingy woman. Men want to feel needed and women want to be desired. Too much of either can be a turn-off. Most women have an almost violent reaction to pathetic, needy, weak men that try to flirt with them. It depends on what you mean by 'distant'. The men in my life that I admire most are 'distant' even if they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 03:07 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] How important is higher education?In terms of numbers, educated people marry others with similar education. For every college grad I know (male or female) being with someone else that has a college degree is just one of those unsaid "musts." Sure, a successful guy might pick up the hot high school dropout, but that's the exception, not the rule. For men that want to settle down, looks and background matter a lot. "Pretty woman" is the hooker's fantasy, not the rich business mogul's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Is altruism/selflessness sexy?Sensitive much? It's common knowledge that being able to follow, trust and rely on a man means he has to be able to provide. If a man gives financially beyond what he can thrive on, how will he provide for a family? If he spends what little time he has on strangers for nothing in return, how can a wife feel secure with him. I said balance matters. If you are instantly turning that into gold digger philosophy then you're missing the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/17 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Is altruism/selflessness sexy?It depends. If he gives more than he can afford to (either time or money) then it's not attractive because if a man cannot balance his needs and limitations, how will he navigate my needs in addition to his own? I would not feel attracted to a man that gives too much unless he had A LOT of resources. If his time and money is limited, why would I want him to spend it on strangers and not me? On the other hand if he has a lot of resources, spends a generous amount of time with me and his 'feel goo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/17 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Which Hogwarts house would you fit into? (Is Hufflepuff the least wanted because it's too 'feminine'?)Great summary, this has always been how I felt about. This is like kung fu panda but Po the fatass doesn't end up doing anything cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/17 02:21 AM |
| 5 | Q4All: Is sex a want or a need?As you said freedom is a want, and plenty have lived without it. We are fortunate to live at a time where more people than ever before experience a higher quality of life than has ever been possible, and more people are free than ever before. Life is a want. People want to live, and they theredore need things. In nature want always falls to the stronger animals that act and succeed. Of course nature can also swoop in and conpleteky mess things up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/17 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: Is sex a want or a need?Many religious and spiritual pursuits include foregoing physical and earthly temptations, sins, indulgences, and impulses. Buddhist monks and many western religious figures etc etc. The idea (generally speaking) is that the body is temporary and all focus and energy should center around improving your spiritual self and soul. Moving beyond earthly needs and reaching towards the eternal. Discipline over hunger (sexual and literal appetite for food and drink) allows for clarity, discovery and wisd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/17 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Men can never truly understand how horrible sexual assault is for women. Here's whyQuote where I said "it's wrong." I said it serves no purpose, I said that if there are RP threads that do this (compare trauma and rank it) then it's "sick and wrong." I never said "don't make the thread/have the conversation." I did say It's not really useful to try and compare traumas, because implying one kind is 'worse' than another also suggests that the 'lesser' victim shouldn't feel as much pain But you ignored that and honed in on "Anyone that is a victim of a crime deserves compassion a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 05:05 AM |
| 11 | Men can never truly understand how horrible sexual assault is for women. Here's whyIt can turn into a slippery slope when you start to try and compare (or rank) trauma though. "Who is more traumatized by the same violent experience?" focused conversations seem really fucked up. People handle trauma in different ways, even when they go through the same thing and are the same sex/race/age. Some close down completely, others try to cope by getting into really harmful habits, some are just lewd and off-putting to others. Violence isn't an easy thing to process when you're the vict… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 04:51 AM |
| 27 | Men can never truly understand how horrible sexual assault is for women. Here's whyI think rape and sexual assault conversations often leave out the many children and boys that are traumatized and abused. It's important to understand that while rates of male rape may be less common, the reporting rate for those incidents is even lower. Men that were abused as a boy, or even later in life won't talk about it. Male abuse is also under-reported, and often written off by the man. Who has it worse: someone that had their husband murdered in a break-in or someone that had their pare… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 04:44 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Are there any women here who think RP has improved the quality of men?First, being an asshole works well enough that there is no rational incentive to develop charm. This doesn't make sense. Confidence is not the same thing as being a raging asshole douche...which is a lot of what I have seen on TRP. assholes are perceived as charming because they're attractive, not that they become attractive because they've learned to be charming. Hot people can get away with a lot more than ugly people. Many women find men to be more attractive because they are charming. I don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 03:45 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Are there any women here who think RP has improved the quality of men?I know that's what TRP sub has turned into....It wasn't like that originally. RP is also more than a sub on reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 01:56 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Are there any women here who think RP has improved the quality of men?RP is more than the TRP reddit sub. There is an entire community of blogs, podcasts, youtube channels etc that exist outside of reddit. RP did not originate on reddit, and TRP is not the end all be all of RP. At it's core, RP is simply observing and understanding the world, human sexuality, the differences between men and women - and using that to achieve your goals. The sub talks about sex yes, but self-improvement (physically and personality-wise) has to happen before sex will happen. There's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 01:33 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Are there any women here who think RP has improved the quality of men?Not really. The biggest mistake PUA and RP 'players' make is to turn into assholes without charm. They often mistake 'confidence' to mean unilateral douche behavior. The guys that complain about jackass 'chad' fail to see that those guys actually are charming and appealing in how they behave. I have no problem with a man that wants to have endless sex with plates. I have never been in danger of falling for that kind of guy. My complaints stem from idiots that either try to 'game' me or the ones … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/17 01:08 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Are there any women here who think RP has improved the quality of men?Yes. It's also made men really obnoxious. The results vary. In my personal life, the friends that my BF has helped and advised have all made really great improvements. They are happier, more confident, and they don't let their women manipulate them nearly as much. Of course RP can 'go wrong' (just look at TRP). You have idiots that have no idea what they are doing, but being worshiped anyway. Anything 'good' or 'useful' can be twisted into something damaging and bad. I think RP can really help b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Describe the people in your life who are unsuccessful in dating/relationships and why you believe that to be the caseHahaha, sounds about right! :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/17 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Describe the people in your life who are unsuccessful in dating/relationships and why you believe that to be the caseWoman #1: SUPER hardcore feminist that loves magic and the zodiac, 130% extroverted, will literally say "I feel like I'm dying" if she goes five minutes without attention. Self-obsessed and perpetually needy, short, fat, thinning hair, huge ego. "Falls in love" quickly and often, only to pick apart 2-3 minor flaws of the guy and pretends they are enormous problems. woman #2: has no sense of self, classic chameleon, it's like she tries on personalities that have nothing to do with who she is but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/17 05:24 PM |
| 16 | What RP tenet made the most difference to you and your relationship?My relationship was traditional from the start, and Occam later introduced me to reddit and RP. That said, I'd say that the whole idea of guarding your relationship and his reputation is the thing I always think of before saying a single word to anyone about Occam or our relationship. No one will ever understand your relationship in the way that you do, or have the experiences that you do. One negative anecdote will become something you forget, but the person you SHARE that story with will be st… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Summer 2017 Challenge!!I LOVE stretching that part of my body but it can be tricky. Just do a google image search for ideas if you feel stuck. My favorite is putting my knee on the seat of my computer chair, so my calf is vertical against the back of the chair. I can sort of stand up on the other leg (it's on the ground) and move around to adjust how intense the stretch is and where I'm targeting. The chair is against the wall when I do this, and I have my hand(s) on my desk for some light stability if I need it. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you Consider Dante Nero of the Beige Philip Show to be a good example of an alpha male?I haven't read the book, but your summary is what I have heard. What you call alpha and alpha 2.0 I just know of as alpha and sigma. Even though sigmas will create conflict or refuse to back down, it's not for show or points or to gain status - it's usually driven by personal belief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: wtf is a "red pilled woman"?Getting a relationship and getting (consistent) sex- compared to the latter, the former is extremely easy for men and requires no effort. Having sex and getting a relationship - compared to the latter the former is extremely easy for women and requires no effort. Looks always plays some kind of role for everyone. The exception would be golddiggers that chrish only money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you consider a "10?"The women that throw themselves at band members and tour around because they are obsessed with men are typically on the younger side, not in a relationship, open to casual sex and therefore also open to doing other things (drugs etc). This does not describe all women, especially ones that are happily married/in a relationship. Please quote exactly where I said that women do not change their behavior around men they find attractive. That's not what I said. Being attracted to a man, and being nice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you Consider Dante Nero of the Beige Philip Show to be a good example of an alpha male?Rings true to the manosphere crowd. There are a few comedians that are popular, Bill Burr is another example. Qhen you talk about subjecys a group is interested in and do it in a way that resonnates with the group, then you will be popular within that group. Crass, 'offensive' and humorous straight talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Do you Consider Dante Nero of the Beige Philip Show to be a good example of an alpha male?The Black Phillip show is very popular among the RP crowd. I've listened to a bunch of his stuff, and have seen some of his stand-up. I think he died though...and I don't like the guy that has taken over (Dante Nero, right?) as much. That said it's been 4 years since I listened to any of it? I'd say Black Phillip is a naturally funny guy that knows how to run game, and he's very entertaining to listen to. There are different kinds of dominant men, some are loud and brash, others are more detache… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Compliance, commitment, and why open communication doesn't work/u/ disposable_pants I disagree that RP is anti-open communication. The only thing I ever see on RPWives (from ECs) is just how honest and blunt men are in those relationships. The 'hide and conceal' tactics are for newbies, and men that are with women that are very reactive. One of the benefits of being with a RP woman is the fact that a man can say 'no' or tell a woman to 'stop' without starting a fight. Honesty is so important on RPWives. Be honest to yourself about your bad habits, be honest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Q4RP: wtf is a "red pilled woman"?Men can be ignorant of RP, still naturally masculine, and appreciate what a RP woman brings to the table. We have quite a few women that are with 'RP unaware' men. They (men) love being with respectful women that guard the relationship and his reputation and are willing to put him first. I don't know that any man would object to having his woman minimize her bitchy side and 'dirty fighting' tendencies. RPWives strives to 'de-bitch' women by and large, and I can't ever remember a man being unhapp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Q4RP: wtf is a "red pilled woman"?RP isn't religious. It is predicated on modern western culture, and fits more in line with christian values than anything else, but there's no talk about god or anything. We do have some religious women on the sub. There are lots of good men, the trick is being able to find and attract them. "Good" will also be a subjective term. Some women want a high dominance man, others are only really happy with low dominance men. Women have to understand what they are attracted to, what their limitations a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 05:06 PM |
| 7 | Q4RP: wtf is a "red pilled woman"?I've seen a lot of new relationships form, engagements, marriage, and the arrival of babies during my time talking to and helping RP women. I've also seen relationships fall apart, and women flounce because they couldn't hack it. The unhappy cases are infrequent. Success is highly dependent on the individual. Can she be honest with herself? Is she willing to work had to improve? Can she be consistent and patient? Does she know how to vet? RP is not a magical cure-all and there are limitations to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Q4RP: wtf is a "red pilled woman"?Okay the biggest issue here is a misunderstanding of RP as a sexual strategy. Yes, it's about recognizing the differences between men and women. Both sexes are different, and as a result have different strengths and weaknesses. For men, it is easy to get commitment (this is why beta bucks is often talked about as something to avoid). For women, it's easy to get sex. The thing is, men are generally not focused on commitment, they want to make sure they're getting sex. As a result, men focus on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Deal Breakers in Your Relationships - What, Why, and From Where?You don't seem to have great reading comprehension today. Use the 3 day ban to think it over. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/06/17 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Deal Breakers in Your Relationships - What, Why, and From Where?You don't seem to have great reading comprehension today. Use the 3 day ban to think it over. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/06/17 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you consider a "10?"I didn't know who he was at all or many of the other actors when I watched Parks and Rec. It's only in the past few years (starting with Guardians) that he was a leading man in a movie. I saw Guardians because I love superhero movies and I recognized him from Parks. Celebrity has nothing to do with it. I am attracted to CHARACTERS. The story and personality an actor brings to life on stage... Not the actor because he's famous. Honestly celebrity and the kind of super status you are talking about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Why is there 'benevolent' sexism? Who does it protect?... I don't know why you jumped to murder. How would killing get a guy laid? RP describes the differences between men and women and is a sexual strategy that has some options for men, and another for women. TRP is super cringer. Wasn't always that way. Foreigners and incels really changed the core of what that sub used to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/17 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Deal Breakers in Your Relationships - What, Why, and From Where?For exactly what I said: tone policing and concern trolling. You butted in for no reason and tried to play victim ('thanks for looking down on us') | /r/RedPillWives | 17/06/17 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Deal Breakers in Your Relationships - What, Why, and From Where?Leave if you don't like it. Concern troll or tone police again and you will be banned. You insecurities and personality disorders aren't anyone else's responsibility. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/06/17 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Wrong - lots of normal and understanding people in the thread. Just you and three or four random weirdos that are a special kind of clueless. That said, this is not a productive exchange. Bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?That's what I'm saying normal people understand that 'all' isn't exactly literally every human that fits in that category. You (and others in this thread) are the weird autistic minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Not really. It is normal to say "all" when speaking casually, and people understand. Already said this: I'm not going to alter the way I talk to appease the fringe. I won't use made up pronouns, I won't try to appease the socially inept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Enneagram Personality Test - Type Yourself!According to the original test: I am always at peace, do everything right and I am unique. I prefer to understand the world, I am typically happy and open to new things. I am sometimes affectionate and skeptical. I like to succeed and I may help others. I have little need to be strong and lead. According to the new test: I always do everything the right way and I am unique. I prefer to understand the world, and I may be inclined to help others. I am not concerned with success, I am not affection… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Deal Breakers in Your Relationships - What, Why, and From Where?Great thread! I've always had a mental list haha! There are a lot of 'deal-breakers' that prevent me from considering a man as someone I'd want to date. After that, there are fewer concrete ones. Smoking - not attractive He has to not want kids cheating (emotional or physical) means I'm out the door Marriage cannot be a priority for him These apply prior to and during a relationship. Typically, women probably discover things after the first few relationships. Worst case, they never consider it o… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?I already covered this elsewhere. Exceptions to the rule don't negate the rule. The vast majority of women do not do that, only the severe minority. AWALT and AMALT etc. I don't care about the minority exceptions, they do not represent the bulk of the population. It would be like dating as though everyone you meet is trans, and altering your behavior to fit that extremely rare likelihood while ignoring the far more likely instances where you meet straight, natural women. RP doesn't focus on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you consider a "10?"Not even a little. He had charisma, and personality. You don't think comedians can be attractive and pull attention? He has a great demeanor, doesn't take anything too seriously, enjoys life, and even on the heavier side he's pretty cute. When he slimmed down for Galaxy and Jurassic World - he only became more popular. But it all started with Andy. He seems just as fun and happy in real life too. Only you fucking weirdo TRP autists think there's 'one kind' of attractive man. For someone that cla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Just because else did something 50 yrs ago It wasn't "50 years ago" it was starting fifty years ago and working to the present. This is a sub that keeps traditional dynamics in mind. Male head of house is a much older idea than fifty years. We still follow many traditions because they are effective and useful. Are you implying that nothing 'old' can be relevant today? The surrendered wife is an excellent book (suggest that you have a read of it, may help you It's a book that works best for overb… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/17 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Ok THANK YOU for actually answering the one question I have been asking the entire time. Her work sounds interesting. She has done a lot of very high-quality research comparing genital physiological arousal with perceived sexual attraction and arousal that shows that women are just as visually excited as men. So, women's genitals are reacting as quickly as male genitals do. It makes sense that women aren't aware of what their genitals are doing then, because the only research I know about is whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Not really...unless you want all the problems that go with it. Whydoes "looks matter, personality matters more for men" automatically translate to "only looks matter" to you people? Not that I'll read anything you say if you respond. Bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Aggression and assertiveness are part of your personality, both stem from confidence which is attractive to women. Thanks for proving my point several times over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 04:03 AM |
| 5 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?That's a good way to put it. So sick of these snowflake men, thought they were supposed to be objective and understand reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?I understand that THEY approached you. My comment was that unless YOU never at any point said a word or showed personality - then your LOOKS caught their attention while your presence and personality sealed the deal. In which case your example proves my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?What's your point? Being attractive to those women made them interested and they reached out to you as a result. Unless you never at any point spoke to them or demonstrated your character/ personality then your comment only supports everything I have been saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Because it's a typical trait, shared by the vast majority. I don't cater my language to include the minority exceptions and atypical cases. Stereotypes exist for a reason, when someone says "blonds are dumb" I don't list the exceptions to the rule, I understand the colloquial meaning of the characterization of blonds. Same with "men don't understand women" and "women are more emotional than men." The plain statement of "men" and "women" implies that it pertains to the entirety of each gender. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you consider a "10?"They're basically a gender-swap of my own relationship hahah. Grumpy and eternally optimistic goof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 01:36 AM |
| 4 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you consider a "10?"I'd question the humanity of any woman that didn't like Andy haha. He's really cute and fun to watch with his gf/wife in the show. I wish I could execute her passive and continual essence of sarcasm and irritation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 12:53 AM |
| 11 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you consider a "10?"Exactly! All my favorite male actors are my favorite (and the most attractive in my mind) more as a result of playing roles I absolutely love than because of how they look. /u/HopefulAboutADHD consider just how many women crush on Andy from Parks and Rec. He wasn't hot, he was average Joe leaning towards fat. He was dumb as rocks, but charming and attractive as a result of his personality. Women do not look at a picture of guys and instantly get into a "I'm willing to fuck him" state the way men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Wtf are you talking about? I never brought up anything you are talking about...."autistic hot guy that gets ass" doesn't exist, it's not a thing. I hope you just accidentally replied to my comment when you actually meant to respond to someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Men can get away with a lot more when they are hot and have personality (being arrogant, shitty etc). Looks matter, yes. Never said otherwise, but they are not the deciding factor, personality/character 'social proof' etc. QUOTE exactly where I ever said "looks do not matter at all" You can't, because I NEVER said that and you are injecting your made up conclusions into my comments. Men care more about physical appearance. You think men care as much as women do about appearance? Then why do men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Unicorns don't exist, more like you try to live out your fantasies online lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?So this interaction is pointless because you insist on pretending that it's 'unreasonable' even though there are hundreds of other 'all' situations and characterizations that don't apply. Do you have the same autistic response when people talk about the traits and tendencies of dog breeds, pools, and different movie genres? Sure most horror movies share x, but there are some that don't have x --- therefore you can't talk about horror movies that way! Take care, have fun, goodbye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?You know what else those men have? Interesting experiences, talent, skills, mystery. Yeah, there are descriptions about the men - but that isn't only what's in the book. There's a story, plot, a problem - usually the guy is part of the solution, or is acting as a guardian and worried about the woman. I am concerned if you are a straight male and you've read any of these books though. I never said status does not play a part, nor did I say that physical attractiveness does not matter. I said that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Why is there 'benevolent' sexism? Who does it protect?I don't really have a problem with men doing what they want (even if that involves cheating or lying) because I place the responsibility on LTR and marriage minded women to be careful and vet men thoroughly. I also know that women don't hesitate to do what they want to get what they want - often times it's simply instinctual. I do agree that TRP has gone downhill in a tremendous way. Foreigners and autistic men twisting things so now [apparently] 'alpha' can mean 'IT guy' (god I wish I were joki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?AWALT and NAMALT (all women...all men) doesn't literally mean every single human on the planet. It means the bulk, and the exceptions are so random and infrequent that they aren't worth considering. It shouldn't really require hyper-specific explanations. No RP person [should] seriously say 'all' in any context and mean it as an absolute, infallible, no-exceptions term. Nit-picking to get that clarification, is also a waste of time. You could have just said so yourself, since your first response… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Glad you know where you stand on the issue. I disagree. Men and women are overwhelmingly predictable, and 'uniqueness' is very much exaggerated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?They do paint a picture in which women who are freed from slut shaming and are guaranteed cunnilingus will be as indiscriminately promiscuous as men. I've never heard this either. It's women "should not" be slut shamed, and "both people should be sexually giving." I'm not sure why you brought up "ulterior motives" - women don't have sex to get what they want from men. Women get what they want from men because they use the promise of possible sex as bait. Even if a woman has had sex with a man, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?RP focuses on and cares about the bulk of people. Medications are created and cleared because they can help the bulk of the population that needs them. Of course there are people that have severe negative reactions, but that doesn't mean Tylenol or Advil should no longer be made. You can always find the minority exceptions to any social situation or theory. However those exceptions are useless because they do not apply to the bulk of the population. RP is about the bulk of the population, and ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?LOL I'm RP. Men and women are different (sexually, physically, mentally, behaviorally). AWALT and AMALT describe how the bulk of the population will behave and react due to their sex. Of course you're uncertain, you aren't RP, and you [may] subscribe to the idea that every human on the planet is unique among everyone else...which is rubbish in my book. But that's fine, we can disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Why is there 'benevolent' sexism? Who does it protect?"BP" doesn't describe a belief system the way "RP" does. The only thing BP users have in common is that they don't like RP. Eh, these days, a BP user is just as likely to say something stupid that I disagree with as a RP user. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Yep, I know. It's good information for others though. The only thing that never made sense to me was when Charlotte went for the bald lawyer. I also hate Miranda with a fiery passion, and Carrie. It would be one thing if his looks were less than striking, but they also went out of their way to make him as repulsive as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Cool story, unicorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?I think that unless you can prove that women and men react the same way to visual sexual input - your comments about other similarities of brain activity across the sexes is useless. This is going nowhere, and I'm not going to waste time with someone that wants to play "but these other things can be similar" while ignoring the specific studies that have been done prove that men and women react differently to visual sexual stimuli. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?What feminists intend, and what people actually end up believing and buying into are two different things. So despite whatever 'sexual conspiracies' you or others on this thread are trying to cook up - it really hasn't happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:22 PM |
| 6 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Your still deflecting. Show me the specific and relevant studies that say women and men react the same way sexually to visual stimuli. How people reason and make choices or overall thinking patterns is irrelevant if those things cannot demonstrate that sexual reactions are the same between men and women. Overall shared thinking patterns about general topics, problems, moral dilemmas is not relevant to sexual reactions. People can have general tendencies in common, but that doesn't mean they will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:22 PM |
| 5 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Hahaha, I'm just always surprised by how much things have gone to hell around here on the male RP side of things. :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?When people watch sex and the city, it should be obvious that Samantha is the exception not the rule. That's the most popular 'lusty woman with a male's sexual appetite' I can think of at the moment...I also don't think a lot of straight men ever watched that show hahah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:16 PM |
| 8 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Show me the studies that say women react the same way sexually/in the brain as men when looking at pictures and videos and are aroused as quickly to visual input as men do. I don't care about the broader "how people think" because we are talking specifically about sexual reactions. There are a lot of men here pretending that women will drop panties (or literally want to drop panties) simply because they see a hot guy. It's just not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:14 PM |
| 10 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?I have never met anyone in my super hippie-liberal area, male or female, that thinks men and women are sexually identical and react the same way sexually to visual stimuli. This thread is really the first time I have ever encountered anyone that thinks "men and women react the same sexually" even the most insanely hardcore feminists in my life do not believe this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:11 PM |
| 13 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?There are so many clueless males in this thread...it's really sad that this is the state of what 'rp' [leaning] men think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:06 PM |
| 15 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?What the hell are you talking about? Men have such weird ideas about how female sexuality works. Women can find men attractive and be interested in getting them to know more without wanting to (or be willing to) actually fuck them. When a woman goes on a date, exchanges information that means he has interested her. Interest is not the same as hopping into bed with someone. It's been scientifically proven that women do not react visually and experience sexual arousal the same way men do. Men watc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:03 PM |
| 8 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?I honestly never could have predicted a scenario where I am vehemently agreeing with you, and getting frustrated with other (supposedly) RP users. Thank you for being sane in this specific instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:53 PM |
| 11 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?LOL wut? No. There is no feminist culture, or media ruse to convince men that women react sexually and instantly to visual input the same way that men do. This is just men placing their own personal experiences onto women and thinking it's real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?Thanks, I was starting to feel like I was going insane or speaking gibberish hahah! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:50 PM |
| 12 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?No woman seriously or genuinely wants to fuck a man purely because of his looks, no woman is seriously or genuinely willing to fuck based solely on looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Why is there 'benevolent' sexism? Who does it protect?I can understand that. I would even argue that when the relationship and the man are the first priorities, it's because of the benefits the woman experiences personally. I don't believe in true selflessness. Everyone gets something out of what they do, and it's a driving factor in why they do it. Things can also shift and move around. Sometimes I am not my boyfriend's first priority, sometimes I don't even make it into the top ten haha. He's not mean for having other things on his plate that dem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:48 PM |
| 13 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?It's the vast majority of women at any age. The number of women that operate as men (willing to have sex immediately just because of looks is extremely rare). Even whores that sleep around at the drop of a hat, seal the deal thanks to personality/moves in addition to looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:42 PM |
| 19 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?I agree with everything you said, and it's so weird that OP doesn't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:25 PM |
| 10 | Are Women's Demands for Male Beauty Reasonable?This is a very limited perspective, there is literally no man on earth that, just by seeing him, I would instantly want to have sex with him. Women do not work this way. Personality, ability, character, experience - there is so much more than looks that goes into making a woman want to sleep with a man. I think men make the mistake of thinking that women react sexually to men in the same way that men react to women because of comments like "I want to have his babies" and "my panties just dropped… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is there 'benevolent' sexism? Who does it protect?I disagree with your assessment, but I will say that I know a lot of women (even those that claim to be feminists) that really enjoy benevolent sexism in practice, even if they criticize it in theory. I fully enjoy benevolent sexism and all the perks and advantages it affords me. My life is happier and easier as a result of kind hearted men of all ages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:20 PM |
| 4 | Why is there 'benevolent' sexism? Who does it protect?I don't think it's shocking as in they don't expect these things to happen, I think it's anger about how someone can know these things are manipulative or wrong - but still go ahead and do them. It is definitely hypocritical, since RP is supposed to be amoral, with men doing whatever they need to in order to succeed. It's also basic jealousy, when it comes to sexual interest, attention, and overall 'free' advantages - women win by a landslide overall. Men that aren't naturally attractive and suc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Why is there 'benevolent' sexism? Who does it protect?RP men specifically have gotten mad at you for admitting AWALT behavior? That's so stupid, but I can't say I'm too surprised. TRP has ballooned into this weird thing where AWALT is taken to an absolute extreme now, instead of describing typical reactions and behaviors, it's offered as infallible proof that women are all whores and liars. What behavior(s) did you admit to and what specifically did RP users say to you in response? If it's easier to just link to a thread where this happened, that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Another two cases supporting /u/Irisandoleander. All of my grandparents had separate bedrooms. I have friends that do it now. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Yes! Sad meets cringe and join together in the house of despair. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?Yep, BYE! :0) 3 day ban. Take the time to calm down and remember this is a space for women. Any contributions from men should be relevant, neutral, and actionable for women. Derailing the conversation isn't helpful. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Advice: Getting your man to OYS?LOL @ a RP guy calling a woman 'angry'! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Philosophy for womenNot sure if it necessarily counts or not, but "Ishmael" was aleays one of my favorite books. It tackles a lot of ideas, and made me think about a lot of stuff that I didn't normally consider. I disagree with a lot of the points he makes during his argument, but it was really interesting nonetheless. Another good one was Siddhartha. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 06:40 AM |
| 2 | When your partner has a problemNo harm no foul! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Guilt and/or Embarrassment?That's really cute that you have way to deal with it though! I will dive into books or a movie when I need a good distraction. I'm glad everything worked out for you! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/17 11:38 PM |
| 2 | When your partner has a problemWhat just about everyone else has been saying in this thread: STFU. Journal, talk to him, get over yourself etc. Edit: Cut the snark. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/17 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do white knights deny being white knights?I see both, people calling out others for being jerks to women, and people calling out others for being jerks to men. I think it really depends on the sub you're looking at too. I don't really see any of these things in my every day life though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do white knights deny being white knights?I agree. There definitely are delusional white knights that fall over themselves over stupid things, but most of the time it's a knee-jerk label applied to anyone that points out dickery. I've had to shut down some of my BF's friends because they tried to 'white knight' on my behalf when they interpreted his behavior as 'mean' towards me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 11:20 PM |
| 2 | When your partner has a problemSo you're saying that you are both too immature and too clueless to figure out problems with your husband directly? You need a 'ref'? If you are going to continue submitting bullshit comments like this, please stick to /u/redpillwomen. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/17 11:00 PM |
| 1 | When your partner has a problemReally? This is horrible advice. I agree with /u/HappyWifeLifeX. This is just a bad idea from start to finish. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/17 11:00 PM |
| 6 | Your husband doesn't have to earn your respect - The Matt Walsh BlogThis was a great article. I love that the author focuses specifically on husbands. If you married a man, it goes without saying that you should trust him. It drives me insane when I see how certain people I know treat their men. A few years ago I posted a thread about how a group of husband's were cowed and offended when I broke their 'trance of obedience' and said that the "happy wife happy life" saying was BS. If I remember correctly a lot of kill joys (at the time) tried to explain to me what… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/17 10:56 PM |
| 2 | When your partner has a problemAs /u/Irisandoleander, and the sidebar says "you can only control yourself." Holding a grudge certainly won't help things improve. Instead of bitching about what he's doing - you should ask yourself what you did to make him start bitching. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/06/17 10:28 PM |
| 7 | Comfort and compliance testing.Occam has said 'inflammatory' things when we hang out with friends. It's funny, because they always immediately look at me to see how I respond. They have also 'gotten mad' on my 'behalf.' Occam values my sense of humor (up to my neck in gallows) and my ability to not take things personally. I still remember our first phone conversation. I was telling him some of my favorite movies, and I mentioned the original Star Wars. In a flat voice he said "I hate those movies" fully expecting me to flip o… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/17 11:22 PM |
| 3 | When your partner has a problemGee, I'm sure that disloyal, tit-for-tat bullshit has really helped you create a healthy and fulfilling marriage. I'm sure it won't dissolve into a dead bedroom, bitterness, or divorce. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/17 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Guilt and/or Embarrassment?What a great point! I hope you don't regret being honest though. It was definitely helpful to other members, additionally you have been working on things and getting better. There have always been two types of women that come here: those that can't cut it and run, and those that stick with it and get better. Glad to see that you're part of the latter group. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/17 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Guilt and/or Embarrassment?Yep that makes sense! Anxiety is definitely an underlying factor. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/17 05:01 PM |
| 3 | When your partner has a problemHi /u/vanBeethovenLudwig, as /u/HappyWifeLifeX stated - you seem to have something specific on your mind that you want feedback on. While the general conversation is fine - I strongly encourage you to be upfront and create a specific advice thread. Everyone can tell you what they do about these things, but no one can possibly know if any of it is applicable or even helpful to your specific situation. As for myself, if something is on my mind - I go to Occam. End of story. No one outside my relat… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/17 03:06 PM |
| 5 | When your partner has a problemHere's something to keep in mind: you are responsible for the public image you create for both your relationship and your SO. You may not think it's a big deal, and actually a help to confide in a friend....but they only hear those words of stress, concern, and unhappiness. You will still see him daily, laugh and have good times...your friends however will be stuck in time with only that negativity. IF you move on, or things improve, that will not apply to your friends and how they perceive him.… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/17 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: By your estimate, what percentage of marriages are happy and full of sex, and how many consist of unhappy people who "settled"?I can't guess for all married couples...I can only base this on my immediate observations. Of the married couples I know (probably 40+ including work and family). Of those, around half have been married for at least 25 years, the next largest group has been married for more than 3 years but less than 10, and the smallest group has been married for less than three years. The couples that have been married for 25 years or more are (in my opinion) the most interesting to observe. They have a lot of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/17 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Free Friday - June 09, 2017Dreamless is really great, the artist for the series also did Phoenix Requiem (fully completed). I love well done comics (great artwork, interesting story). Of the ones I listed, Dreamless is definitely on the 'lighter' end (way too many pointless panels in my opinion), but still fun overall. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/17 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Free Friday - June 09, 2017If anyone is looking for a touching Anime (romantic) movie: "Your Name" Here is an amazing anime chart to figure out something you may enjoy! Here are some amazing web comics too: Dreamless (completed) Wormworld Saga Earthsong (completed) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How did you learn to be successful with men?Classic movies and musicals, Disney, action movies and books - all taught me about dating and courting and different approaches. I have a traditional family, and have always been conservative. My dad was the head of the family, my mom took care of the kids and the house. She only went back to work when I was a Soph. in high school. I observed the way my female friends went about things - the misery they brought on themselves. I was lucky to not have much interest in boys until my last year in hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/17 06:41 PM |
| 4 | How important are shared political beliefs in a relationship?If I remember correctly, this is your first relationship. That explains why you're trying to find that 'hail mary' save. Stop deceiving yourself. What do his words matter when his actions don't say enough? RP always says "watch what a woman does and ignore what she says - well the same thing holds true for men!! He could say you are the sun in his sky, but he still can't talk to you, he hasn't made you feel secure, and you are torturing yourself with doubt. This isn't a good match, you are not h… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 06:07 PM |
| 0 | How important are shared political beliefs in a relationship?What? RPW is traditional/conservative and anti-feminist. It's not compatible with feminism or with liberal ideas etc. I know there are feminists here that just don't talk about it, and I know there are ivory tower liberal cases (like your H) - but that doesn't make RPW compatible with liberal ideals or with feminism. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 05:49 PM |
| 3 | How important are shared political beliefs in a relationship?You are a full on hamster right now. "We're not compatible, I know he isn't a good fit...but he's just so HOT" this is how women justify getting into FWB setups and making stupid decisions. AWALT. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 05:42 PM |
| 8 | How important are shared political beliefs in a relationship?The more and more I hear about your relationship, the less sure I am of why you're still with him. He's busy, and doesn't make time for you, there are a lot of communication issues, you don't really know how to talk to him/make him happy and are constantly doubting yourself, and now you share that you don't have similar political outlooks. Your relationship is too young to have this many red flags. In any event, political and social outlook compatibility are extremely important in my book. As is… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 03:13 PM |
| 4 | [Discussion] Women are both the most insecure and the most reluctant to their partner's insecurities.I agree that women are the most visibly insecure (they are faster to admit their insecurities, and talk to people about them - expecting understanding and comfort in return). I also think men are the most like to exaggerate and brag about their talents and achievements. Women are given support and sympathy when they signal weakness, men are rewarded with popularity/acceptance/laughter by signaling strength/talent/humor. If a man shows a lot of insecurity - he repulses women. If a woman is overly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/17 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Time Capsule Letters!Congratulations on your weight loss!! It's awesome that you have made so many improvements!! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/06/17 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Time Capsule Letters!Great!! Thanks for the feedback. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/06/17 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Q4men: Have any men here ever screwed over their SO's?Hypergamy and solipsism are innate female characteristics. Women do not knowingly engage in these behaviors, they just act instinctively. That said, men are also capable of over-estimating their value too. Being clueless is not a sex specific trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/17 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Q4men: Have any men here ever screwed over their SO's?I did not say it was impossible. It is however a bad strategy for any woman that specifically wants an LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/17 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Time Capsule Letters!/u/stingrayvc, /u/littleknownfacts, /u/whistling_dixie, /u/mabeol, /u/atweetingbird, /u/tryin2bebetrthanb4 , /u/goingdowntheroad, /u/bellascarletta, /u/littleeggwyf , /u/jade_cat, /u/tplg | /r/RedPillWives | 07/06/17 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Reaction to your SO talking about a turn-off to a trait you possess that they don't know about?"good men"? Who says your friends are "good women", the "women are wonderful effect"? "Good men" is the general term I use to describe an attractive, desirable man that women want for a husband. I didn't say anything about the quality of my friends. I said they were women. I also stated that it was a failure of vetting that lead my female friends to have problems in their relationships. So if anything, I'm implying that my female friends suck at vetting (an important skill). I don't think someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: Have any men here ever screwed over their SO's?If my parents weren't into music and philosophy, I probably wouldn't have gotten into it either at the age I did for example. I do believe people are a product of nature and nurture, but that there are some hard-wired pieces that will be present regardless of circumstance. I am very mistrusting and cautious, very few people actually know me. I had a wonderful upbringing, I have a very close and loving family, no one in my family has ever gotten divorced, almost all of my cousins are married. We … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Reaction to your SO talking about a turn-off to a trait you possess that they don't know about?There are women that don't get a lot of attention, but overall yes: sex is easier for women to get, commitment is easier for men to get. A normal man that wants commitment, but can't get it, is unusual. I never disagreed with what you said - I clarified what I meant (that my friends are female), and expanded some of my thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Reaction to your SO talking about a turn-off to a trait you possess that they don't know about?The friends I'm talking about are all women. Both men and women can suck at vetting. I also don't advise women to have a 'backup' when they want a relationship. First you find a good man, confirm he's actually a good man (vetting), and then you earn his commitment. As far as men go: plate spinners always have back-ups, and are skittish about any kind of commitment, losers/betas will give commitment easily, good men will give commitment when they find a woman worth committing to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Reaction to your SO talking about a turn-off to a trait you possess that they don't know about?I'm wondering what your guys reaction would be if your SO talked about getting turned off or it being a deal breaker at a trait that you yourself possess that they don't know about. If it's a deal breaker then the trait(s) should have been mentioned prior to entering into a relationship. Vetting is so important, because the vast majority of problems that seem to arise within relationships could have been avoided had both parties done a better job vetting. How would you feel? Would you feel bitte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: Have any men here ever screwed over their SO's?Your first point ends with the question of if people are responsible for their own lives or not. I agree, and I firmly believe that I would be the same person I am today regardless of my upbringing. I'm thankful for the childhood I had of course, but I do think some people are lost causes regardless of the advantages they get in life. All of it seems incredibly clear cut to me, but I have come to understand that many people do not think things through, or reflect, or even honestly assess their e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Are TRPillers too judgemental?"Too judgmental" is an opinion that really doesn't say anything about the accused so much as it does about the person flinging the insult (mainly that they are uptight). If anything, you're saying that you have lower standards than the person that you're trying to insult. I'm not sure why that's a bad thing. I'm proud that I have exacting standards, high expectations, and a low tolerance for stupidity and embarrassing flaws. It's like when people try to mock, make fun of, or insult extremely wea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: Have any men here ever screwed over their SO's?I don't necessarily blame women for not knowing better. No one taught them about courting, or gender roles, or how things used to be. They learn fom TV and movies, where the 'best' couples come together after lots of screwing, fighting, and being completely unhealthy for each other. Courting as a social process has completely broken down. The only people I know in the therapy world are complete nutjobs, and the one lawyer I know is very down to earth and happily married...but the bulk of lawyers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: Have any men here ever screwed over their SO's?Pump and dump is very common because the majority of women are stupid and don't know any better. A whole generation of girls that think relationships develop after sex. I wouldn't say that it works more on shy and sweet girls than normal slutty ones though. I think it's more accurate to say that any woman has the potential to set herself up to be pumped and dumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: Have any men here ever screwed over their SO's?Hahah, I don't think that counts as screwing them over so much as it's them being stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: Have any men here ever screwed over their SO's?Why didn't you break up with her? I never understood the 'refuse to break up thing' - if one person says the relationship is over, it's over. The other person can say you're still together of course, but what good is that if you never spend time with them and are actively hooking up with others? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayI'm a day late, but: grateful that Occam can lift heavy things so I don't have to. we went to bed at 1AM on Monday morning...but didn't really get around to the 'sleeping' part. We took turns saying "okay, time for bed", managed to be quiet for 2 minutes, only to start talking again. We were both dragging on Monday, but it was worth it. When I'm dragging and really tired - Occam tells me to go to bed and tucks me in. That Occam makes me try new foods. Although I treat new dishes with suspicion, … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/06/17 05:52 PM |
| 2 | When was your last argument with your man? What was it about?You're not hijacking the post, and I encourage you to make a separate post asking for advice. Just follow the advice guideline sheet (you can find it in the wiki). | /r/RedPillWives | 29/05/17 06:21 PM |
| 11 | When to call it quitsThis is why vetting is so important. You have to make sure ahead of time that you both have compatible values, morals, goals, and lifestyles. Fortunately you are young, so this really isn't a great loss. Review the vetting thread and psychological femininity, as well as relationship dynamics. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/05/17 03:40 AM |
| 1 | When was your last argument with your man? What was it about?That still doesn't make sense. I read through your post history and it is very concerning. What was he like befire he started acting so distant and cold towards you and the kids? Was he always like this? How were things when you were dating? Do you have an active bedroom? Something is very wrong and despite your efforts to clean and dote and be a good wife... He seems to be getting worse. It is particularly disturbing that He doesn't follow through on simple things (you planned the date out, the… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | When was your last argument with your man? What was it about?What? Can you explain it again and add some details maybe? I don't understand why puttingbon a leash (as he requested) would make him mad. This sounds retarded, but there could be something that I'm missing... | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/17 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Article: Why emotional affairs are so painfulReading through your post history, it's easy to see that your marriage has a lot of issues. I am glad if things are on the mend. There was nothing disproportionate about my comment however. This community exists to help women face hard truths. If someone says they can relate to and understand an article about affairs without providing proper context and information - then of course there will be follow up questions. It's clear that you have a lot of things to work on (both you and your husband).… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/17 06:15 PM |
| 1 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?Okay I might be on season 2 now hahah. :0) I love the brothers Erik and whatever. I'm on episode 7 right now and I want to talk about how much I love a budding relationship...but I don't want to give any spoilers away. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/17 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Article: Why emotional affairs are so painfulHi /u/TurbulentAnomalies, before I talk about the article, you said: I just found this blog/article yesterday and it really rings true for me and some similar issues I'm dealing with in my life. Stop right there. Why are you posting a masturbatory article 'explaining' emotional affairs and not asking for advice and help about the fact that you can relate!!! Based on this comment you wrote: I, too am struggling on the friend front. I have a few good friends, but none are friends I feel like I can… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/17 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?I'm on episode four, and Uthred is driving me crazy with his flip flopping. I really like both Brida and Milthred (even if they both have really tragic names). Of the men, I think young Ragnarok is my favorite (though I loved his dad too), and the Englishman that always calls Uthred 'arseling'. I feel bad for father Beocca, constantly trying to temper Alfred and Uther. I'd like Uthred more if he had some kind of allegiance to either the Danes or the English. He just flips sides depending on the … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 08:01 PM |
| 2 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?Hahaha yep I am current with both Sherlock and Ripper street. There was another early American show... Copper or Coppers? New York when it was still growing and the early days of the police force. I also really love Elementary (US sherlock holmes show with Lucy Liu as Watson). I lose steam with shows too, even if I love them. I have a bad habit of doing somethingbwhile a show is on. I will try to watch an episode today and report back! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?Thanks for the recommendation (second one from you today hahah!). I'll report back once I get around to it. I really enjoy Longmire, Frontier, Marco Polo, Medici, Midnight Diner (I know you like cooking shows, and this is a wonderful blend of stand alone stories and cooking), and Peaky Blinders (all available on Netflix). | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 12:05 AM |
| 2 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?Absolutely, if you're going to make him look like a trans chick, at least let him keep the voice!!!!!!! I think there's a reason Beauty and the Beast 2 took place before the spell was broken. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 11:46 PM |
| 3 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?Tangentially, speaking of parks and rec, I married Ron Swanson. In that case, you hit the jackpot! I realized that I have always had a soft spot for misunderstood grumps, I also have a bad habit of sympathizing and rooting for the 'bad guy' in many cases (Hannibal tv show, Hannibal movies, House, Riddick etc, Clint Eastwood in anything) there are a few exceptions of course. I swear nothing makes me tear up faster than a strong man breaking down just a bit and great 'bro-mances.' | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 11:45 PM |
| 3 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?I find it immensely comforting to know I'm not the only one hahah! They really messed up his human form, he looked like her gay twin. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 11:30 PM |
| 3 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?So glad you made this a stand alone post! I grew up on musicals, classic films, Disney, sci-fi, fantasy, and mysteries. There are very few genres that I don't find enjoyable (modern comedy - office/parks and rec style awkward humor etc) has been the hardest for me to really embrace (because I always feel embarrassed and anxious when the people on screen are being confidently stupid). I have always created stories in my head, often inspired by characters I identify with in novels and movies. This… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"Yes, this is an important aspect. The bad behavior started long before the drinking 'incident. I think the main reason people focused on it is simply because that was the most detail she gave in the original post. She described a situation, how she reacted, and shared her feelings about it. This allowed meaningful insight, advice, and observations. "I'm being a bitch" doesn't really allow for more specific advice other than "stop being a bitch" haha! I agree that everything prior to that event i… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 11:12 PM |
| 3 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"Not overweight anymore I just wanted to touch on this one part. If you are fit now, then it's possible that this is a classic "woman gets into better shape, thinks she's better than guy, wants to branch swing and find a better dude" behavior. This is supported by your intolerance of him, your overly harsh reactions to him, and also your [possible] dismissive tone [at times]. One thing that could very well just be my own opinion, and others may disagree. I know you are an admittedly difficult, co… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 07:48 PM |
| 4 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"Sting has covered the vast bulk of what I was going to say along with Temp. You really need to beat yourself up and refuse to let yourself say or do anything negative to him. Go back to basics. A full week of only saying nice things. Go to him and apologize. For everything. For how you reacted to him calling you, to how you've been acting in general. Tell him you are making a schedule to address these problems, and if he wants to see it you will show him. So: Say only good things for 2 weeks. Gr… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 06:22 PM |
| 4 | Where exactly does that "never talk with your GF/Wife" thing in TRP come from?It's not that they hate communication, it's that they (men) have been communicating all kinds of unattractive and off-putting things to women. They communicate their fears too much, without first establishing that they are strong and dependable. They communicate how much they love a woman and care about her without first displaying that he is actually a great catch. They talk to women without considering whether or not their words increase attraction, undermine trust, or hurt their reputation. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/17 05:35 PM |
| 5 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"I love it when no nonsense Sting makes an appearance. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 04:01 PM |
| 3 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"Hey glad to hear from you! A few questions: has he gotten drunk prior to the state of your relationship declining? Did he need to be with the guys and get drunk as a form of escape from you/the relationship? I understand you are an alcoholic, did he agree to never drink, get drunk? Or is it just that he can't drink around you? I know people handle this differently when it's an ongoing addiction. Normally I would say "your problems should not dictate his ability to do what he wants" and I'm still… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (21 May 2017)For some reason I immediately thought of "Music Man" and I was about to explain how Prof. Hill isn't a wannabe player, and then I realized my mistake. I don't remember much about sound of music other than it's really long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/17 01:34 AM |
| 4 | TRPers often claim that sexism in the past was not as severe as people believe because men suffered too, but this is a logical fallacy.I'm not the person that asked the question, and I understand that your post is talking specifically about the past. I'm also curious about your answer though. I agree with everything the other Purple user said about mediocre and good men getting blamed for the actions of the wealthy and violent etc too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/17 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matchesThank you and no worries! I agree that an absolute statement like "men do not need personality to get laid" would be objectionable. Yeah, maybe the absolute top men can get away with it, but there's usually aspects about them that indicate a certain personality type/point of interest (movie star or musician for example). It definitely doesn't hurt men to have a personality if they want to get laid. :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/17 04:33 PM |
| 2 | I would not vote for someone if they were RPIt's not even only hot women that are just there for validation. I actually think that the middle of the road, and less attractive women are there for male attention because they don't get it regularly in their actual lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/17 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matchesI said: "When it comes to relationships and marriage, looks and personality matter a lot more." Not "personality has no role." Yes, having great personality is useful for a player, but not necessary for hot guys. I also don't think there is any comparison between the personality used to get laid, and the personality to make a relationship or marriage work. RP and PUA guys that chase sex can cycle through lots of different personalities with different angles and quirks. It's not necessary for tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/17 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matchesI do agree that it is extremely hard to be any kind of 'middle.' One result of the extreme left, has been the emergence of a new (and different) middle to extreme right. Everything is always made into a dire extreme (both sides do this, it's just easier to agree with and consider the ones on 'my' side to be more important and legitimate). I will never understand how or why western white men are the epitome of evil while muslims that literally do everything feminists hate and think is evil are th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matchesThere is a fascinating lecture I think by Ben Shapiro, and he talks about how to debate a lot of liberal tactics. He specifically addresses things like "moral integrity" grabs, deflection, shaming etc. If you aren't familiar with him (and even if you don't agree with his politics), it's very useful to see how he handles questions and debates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 09:09 PM |
| 5 | Telling women not to drink during pregnancy 'sexist'Hahaha yes! I am always default DD because I honestly just want to sleep halfway through any kind of alcoholic drink (yes I've tried ones with less alcohol). It just makes me want to crawl into bed and pass out. I agree that drinking is a weirdly peer-pressure thing. People seem to not understand that I can appreciate their company (while they drink) without needing to be in the exact same state. I suspect it's rooted in a fear of being judged....which doesn't make sense, because usually the 'od… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 07:11 PM |
| 15 | Telling women not to drink during pregnancy 'sexist'This is horrifying, and wrong for so many reasons. How dare people care about the health of babies. Are they going to say how it's okay to drink when breastfeeding as long as it's 'limited' or smoking? Here's a sign that you have serious issues - you can't socialize like a normal human and go for 9+ months without drinking. I don't understand how this is some kind of vital socializing tool. Lots of people hang out without drinking, no one judges a preggo woman for abstaining from alcohol and oth… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matchesYes and men should have done a better job preventing it from taking hold and wresting power from them. Men became either overconfident, or complacent in their own downfall, and everyone has suffered as a result. Feminism was a massive shit test, and men failed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matchesWe do more or less agree with each other, you are the one that responded in such a way as though we do not when all I originally did was add a clarification. Yes both sexes have challenges, advantages, and weaknesses. It's not 'women are picky and created these problems' - men collectively and passively steppe aside and feminism gained momentum. It was completely gutted society, and the fall of religion, community, family values etc can all be tied to this overall trend of decay. Women were alwa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I would not vote for someone if they were RPYou weirdly threatened to 'stop taking me seriously' in your previous reply - as though I would care. I don't care, and I explained why I don't care. It's not "I don't know who you are as a specific person" - it was an observation that I don't know anything about your reddit persona/outlook etc. Lots of people on PPD and the RP subs have reputations etc and I'm familiar with many of them, even if I don't specifically talk to them in threads etc. My account goes back almost four years, and I spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday: Analysis of 'Oneitis'I love your distinction between 'should' and 'do.' Your anecdote is a perfect example that I hadn't actually considered. I think it would be fun to have a general thread about this, ask women if they have emulated behaviors they saw on TV or in a movie or read in a book. I really connect with whatever I happen to watch or read, and this is usually reflected in the stories I make up more than anything else. I think there have been a few times where I heard a certain statement and it sort of made … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matchesYes, and the same thing happens for women. Plain and ugly women that have far more attractive female friends. They notice the day and night differences in terms of attention and treatment too. Hot people are considered to be cool, good, interesting, and are more readily forgiven when they behave like shits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matchesOkay, you seem to be neck high in the bitter/anger phase TRP. Which is fine, some guys never really leave the anger phase, others only stay in that spot for a short time. I say Chad or die because women have a much higher chance to snag a hot dude in the short term. Yes. This is RP 101. It's easy for women to get sex, and harder for them to get commitment. It's easy for men to get relationships, and harder for them to get sex. In general. Women that have casual sex and shoot above their pay grad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matchesYour point doesn't have anything to do with my original comment then, as far as a 'rebuttal' or counter-argument. You said " looks are the only thing that matter" then I expanded with a clarification "yes, looks are the most important thing when it comes to casual sex. When it comes to relationships and marriage - both looks and personality matter." You replied with "chad or die" - I asked you to restate because I wasn't sure I was interpreting your comment properly, included two "chad or die" t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matchesCan you re-state your point, I don't understand your comment. Are you saying: "women consider NON-chads to be failures as men. It is very difficult to be a chad, and find success." A different way to state what (I think) your point is: "if you are not a chad, women will not accept a man's advances. Being a 'chad' sets a very high standard, and it is hard for men to become 'chads'" ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - May 19, 2017Thanks for sharing! There are definitely certain fields that have more important things to worry about than fringe circumstances like this that are not likely to be life threatening. It's more important to know what's happening chemically and physically with a patient than using the right pronoun when they look like a freakshow. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matches*The main thing that matters when people are only interested in having no-strings, casual sex, is how a person looks physically. When it comes to relationships and marriage, looks and personality matter a lot more. I'm not sure why anyone would think personality has a significant role to play when a woman just wants to bone. Men just have to not have a personality reeking of failure and weakness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 04:40 PM |
| 7 | Discussion: what's up with all the heavily upvoted posts on Reddit saying they get zero tinder matchesI will say that the 'only successful men will get laid thing' has ballooned into a ridiculous cartoonish image at this point. I understand the original observation, and the purpose it was meant to serve, but I absolutely hate the term 'chad' and it's a really stupid term. The way so many men go on and on about 'chad' makes me think they are homosexuals writing erotica about how they want to be plowed by the 'chad thundercocks' of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 04:36 PM |
| 6 | Do You Like Arguing on PPDI think something has definitely shifted here (maybe deflated?). There were always really passionate disagreements, but both sides seemed to have energy and even with the shit-flinging, everyone made points for the most part. I think there was also an understanding that you were talking as much to the other person as you were making your case to anyone that would read the exchange - which usually encouraged everyone to be as clear as possible. Lately it seems more like continual 'gotcha' attempt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Did the father do the right thing in this situation?Children need boundaries, society needs laws (and people to enforce those laws). He was wrong from the start (thinking you can treat children as adults without rules or limitations or responsibilities). He thought his feel-good 'cool' approach would churn out a stable and well-rounded woman (because women today with all that freedom and feminism are overwhelmingly considerate, decent, and charming? hahah). He's a hypocrite for saying "you can do anything and I'll support your choices" and then s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday: Analysis of 'Oneitis'No problem! If it helps, I almost always have to write things down to fully formulate my thoughts. Writing is an extremely useful way to get your thoughts organized and clarify certain ideas. I think an interesting idea worth exploring would be to consider how different women balance risk and reward based on either their dominance threshold or personality. I haven't thought about it at all, but maybe women with high dominance thresholds are more willing to gamble on a high dominance man, while l… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Free Friday: Analysis of 'Oneitis'One of the ideas which crops up more on TheRedPill is 'oneitis'. My interpretation is that it is generally used to warn a man against falling for a casual partner hard and considering them 'the one' romantically. Now you might say "but yetieater, that is not relevant to us, we are looking for serious LTRs and marriage". However, I think the concept has very substantial overlap with something fundamental to the feminine approach advocated here - vetting. The concept of 'oneitis' has never been on… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 01:37 PM |
| 2 | I would not vote for someone if they were RPOnline dating is often full of lies and exaggerations so I'm not surprised. I definitelt wouldn't expect tinder to unearth the highest quality men or women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 01:03 PM |
| 2 | I would not vote for someone if they were RPI don't know who you are, and I don't care about whether or not you take me seriously. I wrote this comment on a different thread hours before you replied to me. There are certain things that have made me less sympathetic to [some] men. I think a lot of the belly-aching goes too far at times, and a lot of what I used to like about TRP has been dismantled and replaced with what can only be classified as 'reddit specific weirdness.' The number of non-western foreigners have definitely had a negati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 01:02 PM |
| 2 | I would not vote for someone if they were RPYour comment does not make sense. Exitsandman was talking about how some women lie about being anti-feminist, and the portion I quoted in my comment was a response to another user that literally said "all women are feminists because they benefit from feminism" (link. In response to that user's silly logic, I presented arguments that are just as silly and illogical, and that I have seen and heard liberals/feminists/SJWs use. No one is discussing "what holds them back" whatever that's supposed to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 12:55 PM |
| 9 | [Discussion] How has PPD changed your opinion of the opposite sex?Getting laid is not the RP female strategy. The goal is to earn and keep the commitment if a good man (get married/have kids). There's always room to imprive, even after getting a man to create a happy and stable dynamic that lasts a lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 05:56 AM |
| 1 | "Little Big Lies" ?I don't blame a man for being bombarded with every 'yes' signal in the book and being strung along until the last possible moment - only to decide it's too late to turn back because really and truly - women need to realize that you cannot say 'no' after a certain point and expect everything to immediately halt with some men. Especially dominant men that are predisposed to use physical violence. She went swimming with a shark covered in bait. I have zero sympathy for her, and there's a larger dis… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 03:39 AM |
| 1 | "Little Big Lies" ?LOL. Bitch gets drunk, flirts with a stranger and goes up to a hotel room alone with him at night....that's the definition of stupid, reckless behavior. If a man has a knife standing on a street corner - do you run towards him with arms outstretched thinking he just wants to hug you? I have no sympathy, at all for women that can't monitor their alcohol intake, and put their well-being into the hands of literal strangers. The 'friend rape' stats would plummet if women stopped trusting other peopl… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/17 03:31 AM |
| 4 | [Discussion] How has PPD changed your opinion of the opposite sex?There are certain things that have made me less sympathetic to [some] men. I think a lot of the belly-aching goes too far at times, and a lot of what I used to like about TRP has been dismantled and replaced with what can only be classified as 'reddit specific weirdness.' The number of non-western foreigners have definitely had a negative affect on many ideas. The concepts and theories that were meant to simply highlight certain behaviors and traits are now often treated literally and the nuance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 03:27 AM |
| 3 | I would not vote for someone if they were RPPerhaps it's different for men then? I have never run into any woman that would willingly say 'I'm not a feminist' or 'I'm an anti-feminist' as an attempt to virtue signal, or to indicate that she's one of the 'cool kids.' If you're looking at it strictly from a dating/flirting lens - then I can more easily understand what you're driving at. Women definitely up their effort, monitor their behavior, and even stretch (or make up) the truth in order to come across as more attractive and seal the de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 03:06 AM |
| 2 | I would not vote for someone if they were RPI have no idea what you're talking about. Leaving one RP sub to have control and ownership over another RP sub isn't 'having nothing to do with anyone that's RP." I deal with RP people all the time on PPD, RPWi and other cites. Again, this isn't an actual response it's more song and dance distraction. You're clearly not interested in being honest or sincere in this exchange, so I will bring the conversation to a close. Goodbye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 02:57 AM |
| 8 | I would not vote for someone if they were RPI'm not sure why pointing out the fact that you have the same faulty logic as the feminists and SJWs you (and I) hate so much is 'insufferable.' The only mistake I made was failing to check the username before I responded. You have a long track record of making shoddy arguments, and talking to you is really a waste of time. If you'd like to try again and pose an actual argument other than 'ur dumb' feel free to take another stab at this. Your comment isn't an actual response, it's a silly attemp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 02:22 AM |
| 6 | I would not vote for someone if they were RPNot really, it's often a reflex of disgust and exasperation. In the same way a liberal would instinctively state that they are against sexism, the patriarchy and all those other 'evil' things. It's also one of the fastest ways to meet others that have the same opinions and outlooks (as well as the same problems with mainstream ideas). Everyone (liberals and RP/men's rights etc) assumes a woman is a feminist and a liberal. It's exhausting trying to decide if it's even worth it to correct the othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 02:17 AM |
| 6 | I would not vote for someone if they were RPThat's a stupid argument and no different from similarly stupid liberal arguments such as: All whites are racist and benefit from the advantages that come from being white. Even if they never personally owned slaves, they still benefit from the historical enslavement of blacks. All men benefit from the patriarchy and have privilege because they are men. They can never not benefit from the advantages their male-ness affords them. It's innate. Would you believe "all men are rapists, and even if th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!Hahah thanks for digging up that exchange. This woman has presented nearly every red flag possible. She has a serious hamster issue, and I bet that causes a lot of problems in her relationship. She hates that the content is useful, and as a result she probably has a need to lash out at the community and users in general. I don't know that Camille has had any kind of exchange with her at all, it was mostly Temp, a few others and myself that talked to her. You have to have a massive ego to assume … | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/17 11:31 PM |
| 1 | "Little Big Lies" ?Spoilers Ahead * * * Yes, I think Renata had the best relationship. I wanted to murder both Celeste and Bonnie. I really want to dissect Celeste's relationship and highlight exactly how she failed over and over again, and why he was painted as this evil villain...when really he's just a dominant man with a woman that loves the dominance, but also sucks at being a decent wife. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/17 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Could there be the equivalent of introverted/extroverted tendencies in relationship preferences?Agreed, I've never seen anyone say that extroverts only have many, superficial friendships. It doesn't make any sense, extroverts enjoy people and socializing - so of course they are going to get to know the people they really enjoy really well. Introverts also may have a few close friends by choice - but that doesn't mean they don't have additional friendships that are largely superficial. Of the two, I think introverts are more likely to have superficial bonds with people, while only focusing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/17 07:53 PM |
| 2 | "Little Big Lies" ?HAHAHA! I know that there are two differences that immediately come to mind (thanks fluff articles!). | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/17 01:50 PM |
| 7 | What PPD related dating and relationship phrases or sayings are you tired of hearing?Hahah yep, I've never seen BP have long discussions of MB. It's definitely something that originated on the RPW side of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/17 01:44 PM |
| 4 | What PPD related dating and relationship phrases or sayings are you tired of hearing?The RP side of things is definitely more into MB than BP. I don't take it as absolute science, but I think it's a useful tool, both for understanding others and yourself by looking at general overarching themes and traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/17 01:43 PM |
| 6 | Would you rather be an ugly man or an ugly woman?"Ugly" how exactly? Is the ugliness beyond the help of cosmetic surgery, working out etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/17 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!Keeping lists when I suddenly feel like something also helps. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/17 08:34 PM |
| 6 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!I'm low dominance, high dominance threshold and dating a dominant man. Occam is very straightforward, and also remarkably sensitive to how I'm feeling. He's always willing to give me the benefit of the doubt, because he has a good sense of my personality 'baseline.' I am horrible when it comes to being direct sometimes, or even just speaking up. I often don't have an opinion (this could be about food or where to hike), and he won't have a strong feeling one way or another so he'll ask me. Instea… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/17 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Women do use men these days. A lot. RP just wouldn't get it."Pump and dump" only happens when the woman had sex thinking it would lead to something more. People can have anonymous, random sex. It's only 'bad' when what the person really wants is a monogamous relationship, but all they can get is FWBs and random hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/17 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many red pillers assume that feminists having sex with them somehow validates their ideas?I'm one of those hypocritical meat-eating animal-lovers. I have so much respect for people who know everything they eat was treated humanely. I try to support local farms, but I've found that I hate the taste of grass-fed animals. I've felt very guilty about it, but I guess I'm just used to the taste of grain-fed animals. So, I've decided to go another route and use my vote and signature to support legislation that makes the lives and deaths of farm animals more humane. That's awesome, and I'm g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many red pillers assume that feminists having sex with them somehow validates their ideas?On the meat front - I agree. I have friends that grow their own food and hunt (eating everything they can from what they kill), while also supporting local farmers etc. On the sex front - I don't understand people that can screw without any care about who the other person is beyond physical appearance. It's typically a male trait, and an undesirable one (in my opinion) in both men and women. I understand people can do it, I just don't understand how they aren't bothered by it. Then again I value… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 07:20 PM |
| 8 | Why do so many red pillers assume that feminists having sex with them somehow validates their ideas?So you don't think anything needs to or should change. Men should act and behave in whatever way leads to sex, because women will say a lot of things and then act in a manner that goes against they say they care about. You're proving AWALT, the hamster, and "watch what she does, not what she says." I'm sure you have a very high opinion of yourself and you think you're very clever. Your mental gymnastics make no sense to (someone that tries very hard to make sure my personal beliefs match with my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 06:01 PM |
| 7 | Why do so many red pillers assume that feminists having sex with them somehow validates their ideas?That's not a response hahah. I never said "feminism is about policing women's choices" - I asked how you reconcile the things you claim to believe with actions that directly go against what you say you believe. I also asked you several questions (in good faith) and in an attempt to understand what feminism means to you personally. I covered several different things in my response, and your comment amounts to "I can't get into this because I have nothing of worth to say," or "I have many things t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 05:55 PM |
| 7 | Why do so many red pillers assume that feminists having sex with them somehow validates their ideas?Here's the part that I'm not really understanding. You're a feminist with ideals that you believe in and things you would like to see change (I assume). If feminism and your ideas are really important to you, and you believe in them, and you want change - why is the statement "when I (or other feminists) have casual sex, we don't care what the man thinks. It doesn't matter, we just want a hot man." valid? I'm trying to imagine other situations, where disregarding the things you (say) you fundame… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you make of this Tinder experiment where the guy set up an account using pics of a male model? And how would YOU respond in this situation?Many of the actors I mentuoned previously are 'charming jerks'. They look good, are confident bordering on cocky and have the balls to back up their confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you make of this Tinder experiment where the guy set up an account using pics of a male model? And how would YOU respond in this situation?Hyper masculine, and dominant (Twilight and 50 shades are not what I'm talking about). I'd never want to date someone with an explosive temper in real life of course, and I appreciate when a man can control himself. My SO is very dominant, no nonsense in terms of pecking order and who is in charge. He's capable of violence and exerting force under the right conditions, but would never direct that at me. In terms of movies/books/tv/games - I don't mind the explosive anger that male characters dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - May 12, 2017Congratulations on shedding your lurker skin hahah! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/05/17 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you make of this Tinder experiment where the guy set up an account using pics of a male model? And how would YOU respond in this situation?He looks older than the clean shaven guy used in the experiment. Beards and facial hair generally make men look older (unless it's patchy and ridiculous). Rugged men are capable. They can build, and fight, and do hard labor. They aren't weak and clueless. It's the whole Tarzan, Cowboy, rogue outcast, Special Armed Forces killing machine. Strength, bravery, skilled etc, does what he wants, a man of action. There's also the suave successful businessman, or secret agent (think James Bond), but I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you make of this Tinder experiment where the guy set up an account using pics of a male model? And how would YOU respond in this situation?Typo, my bad: "older, pretty woodsman." Trying to be rugged, but you know there are no callouses on his hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you make of this Tinder experiment where the guy set up an account using pics of a male model? And how would YOU respond in this situation?If this is the guy you're talking about, he just looks like an older, pretty woodsman to me. Not rugged or dangerous or hot or alluring. I think he's the top to the other model actually hahha. Clint Eastwood, Harrison Ford, RDJ. Gimmy some Cary Grant, Paul Newman, Humphrey Bogart, Rex Harrison (My Fair Lady), Robert Redford. There are even men that I think are handsome in a particular role because of their character. I never thought Andy was handsome, although I enjoyed his antics in Parks and R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you make of this Tinder experiment where the guy set up an account using pics of a male model? And how would YOU respond in this situation?Attractive people can get away with more. I remember reading that attractive criminals generally have lighter sentences. As for how I'd react if someone were to hit on me or flirt? I'd shut them down and leave. The model he picked looks like a gay bottom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 10:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV - most of a man's financial concerns re divorce can be handled with a prenuptial agreementYour assumotion that women are harpies, and that men are moral by default isn't fair or accurate, and you seem to be either impatient or unpleasant (sarcastic use of "genius"). There is some overlap however, I agree. Take care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 03:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV - most of a man's financial concerns re divorce can be handled with a prenuptial agreementBy 'recreational' do you mean voluntary, optional, 'for any reason'? If so, I know. The first part of my comment directly addresses normal/optional/no fault divorce. The second paragraph was simply my personal preference (I think fault divorce is a better system than 'free for all' divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 02:26 AM |
| 1 | [Survey] How many of your Families are Still Together and what's your Pill Type?Depends on what problems she's dealing with in her personal life. If she's in a relationship and constantly butting heads with her man - we explore their dynamic, and her thought process. If she has a hard time getting dates - we look at what some of the reasons for that may be. The hamster is like a sub-routine that's always running. It's almost always the root of issues - bet getting there means exploring all the ways a woman's hamster expresses itself (for example: emotional manipulation, or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 01:36 AM |
| 1 | [Survey] How many of your Families are Still Together and what's your Pill Type?I believe the vast majority of the population is capable of bettering themselves (physically and mentally). I have helped women for almost four years now, and I have seen a lot of wonderful success stories. It's not a particularly smooth journey, and it's notoriously hard to get newcomers to own up to their own problems and admit the role they play in creating issues. The hamster is largely a protection mechanism I think, it makes sure you're never the bad guy, excuses poor behavior, and makes o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 01:27 AM |
| 3 | [Survey] How many of your Families are Still Together and what's your Pill Type?When women twist facts and reasons to make themselves look good, and feel better. When they let emotions drive their actions. Sometimes this means lashing out because they are scared and worried, sometimes it's justifying sh-tty behavior because they want to avoid feeling guilty. The Female Social Matrix (FSM), duplicity of women, hypergamy, and solipsism are all very important things to take into account, evaluate, understand and be wary of. Not every woman 'hamsters' in exactly the same way mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 01:18 AM |
| 2 | [Survey] How many of your Families are Still Together and what's your Pill Type?Yep! I've written about how RPW (and now RPWi) was never a place for me to learn, but rather a place to talk with other women that held the same values as myself in addition to helping others. I don't get personally offended by concepts like AWALT, and I agree that it broadly describes how women think and behave. I laughed when I first heard about the 'hamster' it's absolutely perfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 01:11 AM |
| 1 | [Survey] How many of your Families are Still Together and what's your Pill Type?My parents were high school sweethearts, and they went to the same college, still married. They are traditional (you marry for life, mother stays home and looks after kids etc). I grew up understanding and appreciating many traditional ideas etc that overlap with RP ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Can your man be honest with you?Is he on the spectrum at all? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/05/17 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Can your man be honest with you?Has his mother done stupid things? Has she been unreliable or does she tend to lie? Strained family dynamics rarely happen because one person is a total jerk - especially when it's a parent and a child involved. Stop apologizing for him. If he said something he meant it, and if he later regrets it, he'll apologize. You're not his PR manager, or his nanny. Do you ever side against him in front of other people? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/05/17 12:20 AM |
| 3 | CMV - most of a man's financial concerns re divorce can be handled with a prenuptial agreementSo how are assets handled if both people contribute the same amount of money? Is that just up to the couple to detail? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/17 08:59 PM |
| 3 | CMV - most of a man's financial concerns re divorce can be handled with a prenuptial agreementHow do prenups address property and assets that are obtained during the marriage? Joint purchases etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/17 08:56 PM |
| 4 | CMV - most of a man's financial concerns re divorce can be handled with a prenuptial agreementI think women that bring as much (or more) to the table (in terms of assets) are willing to go along with prenups (or bring up the idea themselves). I have a small business, if/when my SO and I marry, we will both be getting a pre-nup (he has assets he wants to protect as well). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/17 08:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV - most of a man's financial concerns re divorce can be handled with a prenuptial agreementNot every woman initiates a divorce, and not every woman that does initiate a divorce can be classified as a 'harpie.' Not every father is a good role model, or in possession of any kind of moral compass. The true can also be said of women of course. I like (what I know) of fault divorce. There has to be a provable reason. The divorce system in general is horrible (watch Divorce Inc. if you want to feel your blood boil). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/17 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Do we think too differently to ever understand one another?He grows up resenting masculinity because his parents, Disney and feminism tells him that all men are rapists, that any kind of sexual interest is sexual harassment and that men that care about their looks are just dumb meatheads. Not sure how or why you think other [RP] users say that "Disney portrays men as evil/rapists." Disney is often disliked by feminists because "women are brainwashed to think that their life goal should be falling in love" and many also dislike Disney for "pushing unreal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/17 05:36 PM |
| 4 | "I want all the perks of maternity leave — without having any kids" [triggerwarning: entitled women]Gee, you sound like an absolute peach. Why not? I give preference to parents every time. Singles have no responsibilities, nothing to go home to, and their money pretty much goes to hedonism only. Your assumptions about how unmarried people live is pretty ridiculous. What about over 40 singles? What about someone that's childless and married? Do you know every single thing about your employees lives? I think it's pretty arrogant and wholly false to pretend that single people don't have obligatio… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/17 03:02 PM |
| 2 | What don't men understand about women?It's a miracle hahaha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 11:40 PM |
| 2 | What don't men understand about women?I know. "His own" and "their own" are fine (in my book), "her own" is obnoxious. Something else we don't agree on, hurrah! :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 11:25 PM |
| 1 | What don't men understand about women?*Their - but yes. Take care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | What don't men understand about women?And I can't imagine (or relate to): The primal fear of sexual violation women grow up with. How creepy many men can be towards women, starting at a very young age, and how this taints the sexual attention women receive. We must not be very creative people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 11:12 PM |
| 1 | It's better to be a girls fuckbuddy than her boyfriendDid you mean to reply to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 11:09 PM |
| 6 | It's better to be a girls fuckbuddy than her boyfriend"Better" and "worse" will depend entirely on a person's priorities, goals, and preferences. This is why not every relationship looks the same, and what's considered 'cheating' in one relationship is completely fine in another. A better question is: are you able to get everything you want from your desired dating strategy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 10:42 PM |
| 1 | What don't men understand about women?Nope, it's just normal. I'm always with family, a friend or my SO (he agrees with this practice). It's really not a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 10:38 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about the relationship between Emmanuel Macron and his wife, Brigitte?I have previously tried numerous times to give her the benefit of the doubt and have honest, detailed conversations with her. It's always been a test in patience while trying to ignore logical fallacies. I find PPD to be a lot more enjoyable as long as I ignore and avoid certain users. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 08:47 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about the relationship between Emmanuel Macron and his wife, Brigitte?Exchanging comments with you has never yielded productive conversations in the past, and /u/Mr_Smoogs more or less covers what I was going to mention anyway. Goodbye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Do you have secret codes in your relationship?Hahaha! We've had days where we really don't talk either and I love it. Because he's so good at reading me, there are times where I purposely don't talk just to see how long it will work for. Of course he calls me out on it while interpreting what I want. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/17 07:18 PM |
| 8 | What do you think about the relationship between Emmanuel Macron and his wife, Brigitte?This exactly. I don't mind age differences at all...but there's nothing 'okay' about a teacher dating a student under 18. Even over 18 I'd have a lot of questions...but at least at that point people can argue the 18 year old is an adult (assuming they are not mentally handicapped or insane etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Can your man be honest with you?What has he said to you? His mother? His sister? Is he being honest and simply saying things that are hard to hear? Or is he making up untrue things? Occam is very blunt, and has definitely ticked off other people as a result. I'd never dream of apologizing for him however, because he would not have said something unless he was willing to stand by it. I'm not comfortable undermining him, or giving anyone the impression I do not stand by him. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/17 06:07 PM |
| 5 | So, you want maternity leave without kids? OK. Here's how that should go. (Response to the article /u/Zombies_InTheSnow posted yesterday)This is fantastic, thank you for sharing. My favorite hands down is: You may not leave the house to see any friends for the first six months unless you take a badger (or a house) with you. If you take it to a restaurant, people will be assigned to look annoyed, because they don’t want badgers and houses in their public spaces. If you need them to move to make room for your badger or house they will be really annoyed. You will be expected to just suck it up because you chose this and you don’t de… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/17 04:20 PM |
| 6 | Is it wrong to not mention you don't want to get marriedIf a woman stops having sex with you, first make sure you haven't turned into a fat blob - look for things you can change. If nothing comes to mind - break up with her. I fail to see how promising to marry a woman that isn't having sex with is a good idea, or how promising to marry a woman that is having sex with you is fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 03:55 PM |
| 1 | What don't men understand about women?So no woman has a right to be bothered. That's not what I said. I was never bothered, my friends were never bothered by it. I also grew up in a safe area. And women who are invite harassment for existing in public space? Again, I was talking about what I was taught to do as well as what my friends were taught. I do believe women are stupid if they go to bars or parties alone and drink too much and expect complete strangers to look after them (or if they go with friends that then allow them to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | If your SO had a secret box of pictures/letters of their ex, and would not get rid of it, would you break up?I wouldn't care and Occam isn't sentimental about his past relationships. This does remind me of a thread though. A woman married a widower and he kept his first wife's ashes and some belongings in their bedroom and she was upset about it. If I remember correctly she had only died within the last five years and the second wife had not been married to him all that long. I cant remember if it was on RPW before we split or RPWi. I'll try to dig it up tomorrow if I have time. Edit: Found it. The use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 04:34 AM |
| 1 | What don't men understand about women?High crime and dangerous areas are a different animal all together. You have to worry about all kinds of violence (drug, gang, robbery etc). I don't worry about my house being broken into, I don't worry about having my car stolen, or being robbed because I live in a safe area. I agree that people have to worry more about all kinds of violence and crime when they live in sh-tty areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 03:50 AM |
| 6 | What don't men understand about women?Being observed by men, called after, and hit on has never 'frightened' or bothered me, and I was a young 'bloomer' too, though largely oblivious to dating and men until I was 17. I also wasn't out on the street after dark, or ever alone during the day. I don't know, it's nice when men are considerate and polite (holding the door open, being great with customer service, helping me in general)- even if it's driven by the fact that they find me attractive, they are never inappropriate with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 03:47 AM |
| 6 | What don't men understand about women?Agreed. Having emotions, even strong ones is not automatically a bad thing. How those emotions are expressed can be, and there are situations where it's inappropriate to express any strong emotions. I think that's mostly what men are referring to when they accuse women of putting on an act. Sobbing in a meeting, or when someone is simply trying to give constructive criticism etc. To be fair, as much as feminists say they want men to express their emotions, I doubt they would feel much sympathy f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 03:41 AM |
| 6 | What don't men understand about women?The primal fear of sexual violation women grow up with. I've never worried about this, none of my friends have this fear, and none of the women I know that are older (and much older) than me ever had this worry. I do believe kids and teens today are constantly told they have to worry and should be afraid. I blame rape culture hysteria and feminism. How creepy many men can be towards women, starting at a very young age, and how this taints the sexual attention women receive. Again, I cannot relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 03:37 AM |
| 2 | GratituesdayOccam decided we needed a better AC since it's been so hot and I love it! The new cage for my rats arrived and it's perfect. I spent some time on Sunday adding a lot of hammocks and hiding baskets (the dollar store is an amazing resource for this sort of thing). There's no question that they are spoiled rotten. I love them so much. I'm in denial at this point about how short rats generally live (2-4 years) and all the many problems they are prone to. That said, I will keep rats for the rest of m… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 09:09 PM |
| 3 | "I want all the perks of maternity leave — without having any kids" [triggerwarning: entitled women]They can run the gamut from no pay, partial, and full-pay. I'm sure it varies depending on the field, company, and what the person intends to do etc. In the case of the woman this thread is about, I believe she quit her job so she could travel and work on this book. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 08:42 PM |
| 4 | "I want all the perks of maternity leave — without having any kids" [triggerwarning: entitled women]Ohhhh I remember this b-tch. She's changed her story several times. I recall something about how she said it was all supposed to be a joke, that she wasn't trying to say women should just get time off. She took a break/sabbatical and wrote a book or something. I don't care for her at all, and I'll never read her book, but from a PR standpoint - there's been a lot of controversial buzz about her - which is basically free advertising. I think women should take maternity leave. In an ideal world, n… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Can your man be honest with you?I know there's another woman on this thread that has a similar reaction when her man criticizes her, so you're definitely not alone! You're right though, it's definitely just one aspect of being very feminine. Emotions are powerful and they can take hold in positive and negative ways. It's great that you both end up laughing though! I have definitely gotten worked up over something really silly I saw in a show or movie, and Occam will have no idea why I'm crying until I explain that the monster … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Can your man be honest with you?but there are times when he is honest and it hurts my feelings, sure. I just gotta accept that those are my feelings. He never does it intentionally. He's not out to hurt me. This is an excellent point! Intent has to be taken into consideration, because that can really help you separate your emotions from the facts. YES! We do not talk about the red pill LOL. He really really dislikes it. What he sees is toxic, and while I agree he doesn't separate TRP from RPWi. Hhahaha that makes sense! Has he… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Can your man be honest with you?"Never ask a question unless you want to hear the answer." Advice to live by. It can be very hard to receive criticism from someone you value. I think it's better to open up rarely and selectively, instead of blabbing to anyone and everyone. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Can your man be honest with you?Hahaha that's actually pretty funny. Occam doesn't rate my dishes, he just loves having meals prepared for him. I know it will make eyes roll but it feels like my life is ending. Just means you are sensitive! That's not bad (unless it gets out of control in other ways). /u/Camille11325 says some similar things in her comment, so be sure to read what she wrote. :0) I generally am more tactful on the scale of truthful/tactful to people less close, and more on the truthful end the close that person… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Can your man be honest with you?Here's how I think of things: Is it essential for him to know about this right now? Is there anything he can do to help/fix the situation right now? Will sharing this distract him while he is otherwise focused/busy with something else (that's more important)? You know you get stressed in the moment, and he was on his way out the door. I don't think there's anything wrong with handling it yourself and either sharing later, or not at all. I get stressed too, and I often just share my worries etc a… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Can your man be honest with you?First of all, you need to look up different techniques for coping with stress and anxiety. There are a lot of tips and guides on the internet that tackle this topic, so it shouldn't be too hard. Second, you have to change the way you see the critiques. He's telling you these things so as to better your chances of fitting in, making a good impression, and getting along with the family. Instead of shying away from giving his opinion(s), you should encourage him to be honest with you more frequentl… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Can your man be honest with you?It's great that you can both be so honest with each other! It can be very hard to be honest sometimes, but it's so so so important. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 01:09 AM |
| 7 | Can your man be honest with you?Excellent point! I agree that kindness isn't really 'kind' if it involves deception (even if that deception is for a good reason) when it's about you as an individual (how you look, behave etc). There are some very narrow conditions under which I know Occam will lie to me. If something very dangerous is happening that I don't know about - he will simply tell me that we have to leave or do something, filling me in only after we are safe. If he breaks the law for any reason - he won't tell me abou… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 01:09 AM |
| 3 | What does modern day love look like ?Thanks for providing some additional context. We're happy but I'm looking into a career in the Air Force now and he has already expressed his feelings about long distance relationships . So in my head I felt like he didn't love me because love doesn't just exists when your right next to that person . In my head love just doesn't have a mile limit . I don't blame him for being hesitant. LDR's are so demanding, especially if you are going to stay in the Air Force as your main career. If you stay i… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/05/17 08:01 PM |
| 14 | What does modern day love look like ?I can't relate to any of the points you mention. Without funds for lavish dates Dates don't have to be 'lavish' at all. There are tons of free, and affordable activities to do. Go to the beach, hike, bike ride, free park activities, picnic, star-gazing, play games, free concerts, go to the dollar store, take silly pictures, go to a museum/art exhibit, volunteer together etc etc. less time to spend with my boyfriend because of school work? Manage your time better. Study together, quiz each other … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/05/17 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?Great points all around. To add to the "someone like this isn't showing he is capable of making decisions" there's also something to be said for the fact that he also either doesn't know how to properly guard his existing relationship, or he's blatantly ignoring common warning signs etc. I also disagree that the man isn't cheating. Emotional cheating is almost always the precursor to physical cheating. Additionally, it highly inappropriate for anyone in a relationship (or married) to seek outsid… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/05/17 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?I agree! Great points. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/05/17 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?I think anyone is capable of cheating, but also that some people are more likely to cheat. Trying to make things work with a cheater is such an uphill battle, and it's one of those experiences I think only marriages can survive. If you are in an LTR literally the only thing that makes the relationship valid in any way is the fact that you are both faithful to each other. You don't have any legal ties to each other, you have not made any concrete vows in front of friends and family. It's just a v… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/05/17 12:18 AM |
| 6 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?I love the idea of having a separate discussion thread. In a way the kind of 'black and white standards of femininity' the other user is trying to push reminds me of the same behavioral/opinion policing feminists and liberals push. "You have to believe x, you have to display the following behaviors" - it's small-minded and overly simplistic. I think it also misses more important features. The underlying motivations that drive certain behaviors, and how genuine the woman comes across as are huge … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 11:18 PM |
| 0 | QFMEN: Would you ever relocate for your wife's job?We haven't relocated because of my job, but we are tied to our current location because of my job. We both have the same jobs that we did when we met, so it's not as though he wants to move. In my case, it's not that "he would move for me" but that "he's willing to stay here moving forward, and wouldn't look for work that would take him out of the state or increase his commute." It's not the same thing by any means, but he understands that my business is important to me, and is very supportive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/17 11:08 PM |
| 16 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?You have so many strange ideas. Do you think 'ladies' can't swear, lift, play sports, or use a hammer too? They have to be wilting flowers that blush when looked at and can't tell dirty jokes? You honestly believe that "anonymous internet conduct" is (and should be) held to the standard of behavior as someone that's interacting with their spouse, or in the office? You sound like a flavorless stale wafer. I'm sure you're the life of the party. Different situations allow for different types of beh… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 10:40 PM |
| 13 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?Do you call burglars 'unexpected guests'? Why would you call someone deliberately trying to wrong you by a neutral or even kind title? If someone robs, punches, or deceives me - I'm certainly not going to just call them 'man' or 'woman'. They are 'asshole,' 'cunt,' and 'shithead' etc etc. Also /u/LauraXVII is not describing a normal neutral woman - she is specifically talking about a bitch that's actively trying to make moves on her future husband. Someone walking down the street or driving a ca… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 10:30 PM |
| 11 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?This will vary from person to person, and my overall opinion has several sides. As a woman in a monogamous relationship and living with my SO: It's not unusual for other women (single or taken) to flirt with Occam. Personally I think it's flattering and funny when others try to flirt and play coy. There's zero chance he would cheat on me (cheating is a deal-breaker for both of us, no second chances). At the same time, I do have an urge to make heads roll when I see it happen. Logically (and the … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/17 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Women of whatever pill, how would you react if your guy expected you to buy the engagement ring and propose to him?I'd never date a man that was comfortable with such an absurd arrangement, much less wanted it. Such a distorted anti-traditional desire would most likely be a symptom of far more concerning character and personality flaws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/17 04:21 AM |
| – | x-post from asktrp: Getting over my fear of giving my man a blowjob?Hi /u/closetedideas do you have sex with him? What are you 'afraid of'...open mouth insert object, remove object, repeat. Coconut oil, ask for instructions/tips from him. If you're old enough to have sex and be in an adult relationship, you are old enough to get over whatever made-up fear this is. I'm sure there are lots of tutorials on the web if you need more detailed help. Just don't make any noises like this woman (NSFW). Edit: Are you a virgin? If you are not a virgin have you had sex with … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/05/17 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Would anyone be interested in joining an accountability buddy system via groupme?Not a problem. You should definitely read this post and take some time to review the wiki as well. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/17 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Would anyone be interested in joining an accountability buddy system via groupme?Exactly! It's absolutely possible to participate and encourage others, just be smart while doing so (please)! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/17 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Would anyone be interested in joining an accountability buddy system via groupme?There is a RPW MyFitnessPal group that already exists, but a new group/format wouldn't be bad at all. A few suggestions: whatever cite or system used - people should not have disclose their real name, location, or post pics of themselves. If there's enough interest we can have a Fitness Friday thread that coincides with Free Friday, where everyone can talk about what they did, their goals, what they're struggling with etc. If you are specifically looking for other really dedicated people that ar… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/17 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Surf Safely!A word of caution: I've lost track of the number of users that have encountered issues as a result of sharing information they thought was 'safe' and 'private' in chat. From being doxxed, to having stories/information they thought was only for the IRC spilled all over reddit. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/04/17 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Article: The Republican Lawmaker Who Secretly Created Reddit's Women-Hating 'Red Pill'I'm sorry that happened to you, and I hope you didn't face any negative consequences in your personal life as a result. Can you share how you were doxxed (without giving away revealing details of course)? Posting on a particular sub, disclosing information you thought was otherwise innocuous, sharing a picture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/17 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Surf Safely!Sometimes disclosing work won't make you stand out, particularly if you pick a broad category, when you name what your SO/spouse does at the same time - things can stand out more. There are also at least one screen name that designates a specific location. A few of the jobs listed on that thread are very specific/unusual, or the pairing between the couple stands out. It's hard to find a balance between sharing enough so you can have a personality, relate to people, and have fun - while not givin… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/04/17 01:45 PM |
| 4 | Surf Safely!Everyone has to assess their risk of exposure and weigh that against what they get from participating. I feel wary at times for sure, but I also know that it's one thing to doxx the creator of a sub, and another to chase down the various branches. There's also something to be said for how inflammatory a user is, or if they continually go 'looking for a fight' so to speak. I know some users have created new names when they start to feel iffy. If you decide to make a new nick, just message the mod… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/04/17 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Surf Safely!The logic is "horrible things can be funny when they happen to other people that 'deserve it.'" The 'punch a nazi' idea is no different. 'Man tears' and 'white tears' written on mugs. It's always okay to hate the 'right kind' of people. I think of it as rubbernecking. People sit through traffic, so when they get to the front they figure it's their turn to see what all the commotion is about. Humans have a natural interest in the macabre too. Just as people will stand by and watch as things happe… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/04/17 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Article: The Republican Lawmaker Who Secretly Created Reddit's Women-Hating 'Red Pill'There have been Mods that were doxxed and users - TBP laughed their butts off repeatedly. Doxxing is a risk, and TBP doesn't shy away from laughing, and yes in some of those threads - they also mention how it sucks - and then continue talking about the person and the whole situation. I can't link to several of the threads because they are talking about a doxxed a user and mentioning other usernames the person may or may not use. This is one example of something that happened to a great user, tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/17 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What makes a husband a 'lazy husband'?Both men and women can nag, and both can be lazy. I know plenty of men that make horrible BF's and a few that are awful as husbands too. Everyone can suck, regardless of their sex. It's easier to blame others than it is to take responsibility. I don't think men are worse than women or that women are worse than men. Everyone can be horrible, and relationships are not easy. Vetting is crucial, and few do a thorough job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 10:15 PM |
| 2 | What makes a husband a 'lazy husband'?Women and men are both capable of nagging. They can nag about chores, money problems, unfinished projects, working too much, not working enough, kids, where they live, chores, sex, food....anything really. Nagging is a symptom of bigger, unaddressed incompatibility issues. It means they aren't on the same page, and have different expectations when it comes to x. Nagging shouldn't exist, or it shouldn't be a persistent feature in any relationship if both people have vetted well and created a soli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 10:11 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women initiate divorce because they're stressed from juggling a career and household dutiesIt's 'trivial'? You did not follow the rules of a subreddit you chose to post in. If you broke the posting rules for PPD the same thing (post removal) would have happened. Your post was removed because you didn't follow the rules. All rules and possible consequences are listed on the sidebar and in the Wiki. You didn't follow the proper posting procedure that's required for posts asking for advice (we let that slide). You were snarky, you broke the rules from the start, didn't listen to the advi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What makes a husband a 'lazy husband'?Yep. The person doing the nagging thinks the thing in question is a huge deal, while the person being nagged is pretty much thinking "this isn't important [enough for me to do something about it right now]" I honestly don't understand why the nagger doesn't just STFU and fix things themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 09:06 PM |
| 2 | What makes a husband a 'lazy husband'?Lazy will depend entirely on the agreed upon and established dynamic of the couple. If they agree the woman is in charge of the house, then a man that does no housework is not 'lazy.' From what I have observed in real life and on reddit - issues happen when people have different expectations, or when criteria is the result of one person badgering the other into compliance, or when one (or both) are dishonest about what they expect and what they are willing to do, or if there's a lack of understa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women initiate divorce because they're stressed from juggling a career and household dutiesI didn't remove your post, I explained why your post was removed. Another mod took it off the sub because it breaks the "do not badmouth your SO" rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Resentment after moving in together.No idiot - your post was removed because your post broke a rule of the sub: This community does not encourage or tolerate users that insult their SO. Your disappointments, unfulfilled expectations, and anger are not welcome here. No relationship is perfect, and preserving the reputations of your SO should always be a consideration, regardless of how you feel in the moment. This is a close knit community of like-minded women, so participation on subreddits that are in opposition with this sub and… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/17 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Resentment after moving in together.LOL this is a classic case of OP plugging her ears (closing her eyes?) and ignoring everything people say in favor of throwing a fit, demeaning the community, and trying to make herself look reasonable in the process. Here's the issue I have - she goes on this huge rant, then backtracks with claims of "I don't do it very much" and continually evades questions. We should write a hamster poem. The Hamster Hamster hamster running round You make such an awful sound No simple honest logic can you hea… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/17 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Why is it always assumed that a white is "Nagging" just to be a bitch when it's quite possible she's understandably upset about having a shitty husband?On the RedPillWives sub, we focus on what the person can control. Since it's a forum for women, our advice focuses on what the woman is doing, what she could be doing, while also giving her some perspective. There was a thread today one user posted and it's full of complaints. She's not married, and living with her BF has her feeling overwhelmed and stressed. The fact is she makes the decision to nag because she cares about things that don't matter to the BF at all. You can't force other people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 07:14 PM |
| 5 | Resentment after moving in together.Yeah, your attitude is obnoxious. You are playing the martyr right now. If you annoy people on the internet, you undoubtedly annoy your SO in real life. You are an obsessive cleaner because you are running around fixing things that do not bother him. You didn't answer anything about whether or not you talked about how life would be once you moved in. This is the guy you picked! If you don't like it you should leave because you aren't married! This sub has never told unmarried women they have to … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/17 07:12 PM |
| 6 | Resentment after moving in together.I hate asking him to put the toilet seat down in the powder room next to our entrance (I don’t even care about our own bathroom). We live with a roommate and we have people over…it’s just gross and rude. Stop asking It's not 'gross' unless the toilet is constantly dirty? But you clean compulsively....so it should be fine /u/oneandforall your nagging is a choice. Also guess what? All the stuff you do (cooking, household etc) are probably some of the reasons he wanted to move in with you. There's … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/17 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Has your views of marriage changed from PPD?Awesome, thanks! :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/17 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Has your views of marriage changed from PPD?Some women just can't handle the predatory nature of men. All women that are interested in monogamy, marriage, and having a family do not like the predatory nature of men. Just as all men dislike the hypergamous nature of women. Why? Because both kinds of behavior put the person in question at risk of losing something they invest in/want. The levels of paranoia, anxiety, nervousness, worry, etc is also a staple feature anytime a woman is attracted to a man/desires/loves him. It's called dread, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/17 05:10 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop liking gossip?HAHA my SO knows I have fun with some garbage TV and online forums as a way to scratch my drama itch. He doesn't mind at all, because it's a great way to direct the hamster, and trouble-making instincts outside the relationship, your work etc and personal life in general. Also, I'm not sure why you should be scared of being judged by him. Occam 'judges' me all the time, and we recognize our different interests. He will never fawn over our pets the way I do, or understand why I have other hobbies… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/17 02:11 PM |
| 16 | Q4ALL: Would you commit to someone before having sex with them?I am not religious, and I have only had relationships via this approach. Commitment = exclusive, monogamous LTR in my book. I'm really not sure why it's considered so impossible. Yes dating has changed a lot, and things tend to be more casual and fast, but that doesn't mean you have to try and 'keep up' with destructive trends. I also don't understand why it takes people 3+ months to enter into a committed relationship. If you are vetting for the things that are most important to your happiness … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/17 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Q4ALL: Has your views of marriage changed from PPD?But I have become much more understanding of why RP wives want marriage so much (especially because many of them will be the ones dating the redpillers) What? No. RP women are not looking for a guy that has had to learn how to be a man, and has adopted a skewed, imbalanced, parody of masculinity that demands absolute femininity and loyalty from a woman while also believing she will be down for drugs, partying, and sharing him with other women. Women have a distinct RP sexual strategy that is at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/17 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Has your views of marriage changed from PPD?Basically only psychopathic and Machiavellian women benefit from actually studying RP material. The rest of you get ruled by your fear. This isn't accurate at all haha. RP approach for men is separate from RP approach for women. Men have multiple strategies (plate spinning, LTR, monk mode etc) that focus on casual and committed dynamics. Even when a man is committed, he may want the relationship to remain open (at least for himself). The RP men on the various subs are not the men that RP women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/17 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Call to RPWi for motivating me to start eating meals together at the tableI agree you should answer the question Iris asked - because I suspect this is less about food, and more about wanting to feel closer to your husband. That said, if dinner feels too hard, try having breakfast together first. Or eat together on the weekend. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/17 08:29 PM |
| 8 | Feeling guilty about issue, help?You value your relationship and you don't want to screw it up, which is great! Unless you got herpes from kissing these guys, you are blowing this all way out of proportion. If you had sex or fooled around in private, this would be a different situation. You were irresponsible and foolish, but not to a crippling degree. I've never kissed a guy I didn't know and wasn't dating, but I know lots of women do (and even more besides). The best thing to do is remember this lesson, and make better choice… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/17 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceOne thing I hope to include in one of the future posts will be the original stories and myths the movies are based on, and show just how much they changed. In the original Sleeping Beauty for example, she didn't wake up from a kiss. The prince raped her and she woke up as she was having birth nine months later hahah! The evil stepsister's from Cinderella cut of their toes to make the shoe fit, and later get their eyes pecked out. Can you share some of the books you have? I love looking at the il… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/17 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceRapunzel is great, and I would like to do an installment that only features computer generated women. I'm glad you enjoyed the post! Snow White isn't my favorite character, but I think it's really interesting that the animators used actual makeup during the creation of the film. They rubbed rouge on her cheeks for example. The women of the Ink and Paint department applied real make-up to cels of Snow White, to give her a more rosy, life-like complexion. Link The research that goes into creating … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/17 08:12 PM |
| 2 | [Guide] An Introduction To Kibbe - An Amazing Body Typing And Personal Style System!So glad you did a write up on this topic, it's really interesting. I think it would be so much fun to create an album of different people (fun fact: there's a system for men too!) and have everyone try to type the people in the album - then you could post the answers at the end of the week. I'm not really good at typing people, but I am picking a few things up. One thing that I think helps is to simply try and identify different shapes that appear on a face, and try to figure out the proportions… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/04/17 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceThanks! It was a lot of fun to write (and a bit of a headache haha). :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 13/04/17 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceHere is a useful image to help highlight some of the similarities. The face shame, nose, mouth, and cheeks are all very similar. Ariel's eyes are obviously bigger, but Alyssa does have a fairly large forehead. As for Pocahontas: Renowned for animating female characters such as Ariel, supervising animator Glen Keane was immediately tapped to draw the titular Indian princess. Following the demands of Jeffrey Katzenberg to make the title character "the most idealized and finest woman ever made", Ke… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/17 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceThe vibrato in both of their voices is a treat to listen to, thank you for sharing that :) So glad you know the technical term for 'wobble' hahah! What I noticed when comparing the “realistic” drawings to the animation stills is that none of the princesses have pronounced noses! Yes Disney does take "small nose" to a whole new level. There are many angles where the nose is really only made up of one or two small lines. While I was looking at images, I found this article and it was so irritating.… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/17 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceThere were animated movies in the 60's and 70's, but none that qualify as 'princess' films. Sword and the Stone (1963) 101 Dalmations (1961) The Jungle Book (1967) Mary Poppins 1964 Wizards (1977) - this is a very bizarre movie Robin Hood (1973) The Rescuers (1977) Charlotte's Web (1973) The Aristocats (1970) Watership Down (1978) The stop animation Christmas films were made during the 70s too So while there were animated films, none of them were created around any kind of 'princess.' It's inter… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/17 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceI'm glad to hear that, I really love many of the villains, and even though they wear makeup that's often inappropriate for their age, I do think several of them are quite beautiful. I've always wanted to see the Evil Queen's and Maleficent's hair, but I think it was deliberately hidden to lessen their femininity and make remove some of their humanity in a way. Lady Tremaine's hair (Cinderella) is always up or hidden by her nightcap. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/17 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceThe weird thing is that I actually think the features and the hair are there for the most part. It's really just that horrendous pose that messes everything up! I'm also not wild about her outfit, but the whole thing is simply ruined by her arm position. I know the artist was trying to mimic the way Meg pushes her face forward and down at times...but this was a huge miss. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/17 11:28 PM |
| 12 | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceFour months ago I mentioned working on a longer post about Disney movies. That post went untouched until a week and a half ago, at which point I decided to start focusing on it in my spare time. I didn't cover everything I wanted to for the Physical Appearance section, but I did run into the thread word count cap. I'm 85-90%-ish happy with the final result. The next two sections (Personality/Relationship with nature and Relationship with Family/Community) should both fit into one post. (Finger's… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/17 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - April 07, 2017My sister had her dress custom made by one of her friends. She absolutely loved the end result, and it was a very low-key process. If you're unhappy with the pieces that you have come across in the shops, maybe take a look at some vintage establishments? If you go to see a dressmaker, you will want to be sure to have a very clear idea about the details, as well as a budget in mind. Before you settle on a specific person, bring them a dress you already own that needs to be altered in some way (ma… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/17 09:34 PM |
| 9 | Free Friday - April 07, 2017I'm not sure why any girl should (or would) be discouraged from any kind of sport or physical exercise. It will teach her to control her body, the importance of stretching, and nurture her competitive drive if she decides to compete. Playing sports has nothing to do with being traditionally feminine, or having solid morals etc. If anything, training will teach her the importance of hard work, dedication, discipline, and make her stronger. There's no reason she can't enjoy martial arts, dancing, … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/17 07:38 PM |
| 6 | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerThis is an excellent point! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/17 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerThat's a great idea! Having a conversation about weird situations and circumstances that really help set expectations later on. I think that's possibly a source of a lot of anxiety - when people don't have any idea of what to expect, so when the other person reacts in a normal way - it may seem entirely disproportionate or out of the blue if those circumstances haven't occurred before. I will say that there are (reasonable) ways to semi-predict how a person is likely to react. The woman in that … | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/17 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerYes! It's all too common, which is really heart-breaking in a way because it's entirely avoidable. I just don't think people are encouraged to pin-point the things that really matter - in fact, there's a persistent message that 'love' is enough - as though it's a magical cure-all that requires no preparation, maintenance, or work. Loved your comment by the way. If being honest makes you a b-tch, then you're in good company hahah! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/17 07:11 PM |
| 14 | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerHe was never interested in monogamy, and he made that clear from the very start of your relationship - but you stuck around all the same. Others have covered every aspect of this situation in great detail and insight, so do yourself a favor and consider these responses carefully. I only want to point out that all these troubles are things you tolerated and invited into your life and relationship. Your failure to vet, set boundaries, and come to a clear understanding with the man you chose to be … | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/17 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Tips on improving communicationSorry for the delayed reply! I'm glad you are optimistic and I hope that you come back and give us an update later on! :0) All the best to you! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/17 08:35 PM |
| 3 | I feel like a provider in my relationshipThank you for sharing your story! That's wonderful you were able to strengthen your relationship and figure everything else out! I agree it can be really scary if you don't know whether or not you are on the same page as your SO/spouse. Vetting and honest communication are so important! Unfortunately it's really easy to let the symptoms speak for us without ever giving voice to the root. Being passive aggressive, harping etc - while never stating plainly "I am scared." You should consider doing … | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/17 05:01 PM |
| 2 | I feel like a provider in my relationshipI agree with what you wrote but I think there may be an element of hard working men feeling more stable, more leader like. Of course being a hard worker is an element of attraction and identifying a good man haha! No one walks down the street and starts fantasizing about a homeless bum. The thing is, this guy is responsible and hardworking. He was so responsible in fact, that he put himself in a a position to take an extended break from work. If OP loses attraction for him in under 2 months beca… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/17 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - March 31, 2017This will vary from relationship to relationship. Some people both really enjoy going out and partying together as well as with their own group of friends. For others going out is less frequent unless the SO goes along. Have you not talked to him yet about boundaries etc since you posted that thread about jealousy? You really should have done that before entering into a relationship with him, or very soon after becoming official. I think this is a combination of you being inexperienced with rela… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/17 03:55 PM |
| 5 | Free Friday - March 31, 2017I couldn't even get through the first episode, the guy was so obnoxious, and I didn't like the overall feeling of the show. Disclaimer: I love both Daredevil (first season), and Jessica Jones. There are some superhero movies/shows I don't enjoy, but by and large I'm not too picky. I think Gotham is really enjoyable, I was skeptical at first, but what I've seen so far (Netflix) has been great. I also recommend Doctor Strange. If you want something a bit different: Marco Polo, Medici, and Frontier… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/17 03:55 AM |
| 4 | Simple Questions - April 01, 2017You forgot the ever important "must be foreign, ideally Asian. Anyone over 21 need not apply, I'm not looking for expired goods." :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/04/17 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Feminism Bad for More Woman Than it Benefits/u/annainpajamas, I have removed your comment because it is both rude and uncalled for. I strongly suggest that you review the wiki before commenting here again. If you want to be respected, then you have to pay your dues and show respect. You can disagree with anyone if you want to, but if you take the time to be respectful, show sincerity, and ask for clarifications gently then your discussions will be more insightful and productive. https://www.reddit.com//r/RedPillWives/wiki/respect /u/DarkE… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/03/17 09:46 PM |
| 15 | I feel like a provider in my relationshipI guess I'd like him to find a job as soon as possible because it's the main excuse for us not getting married right now This isn't the right way to think about it, and you seem to be making a deliberate effort to downplay just how immense these differences are. I think this is both understandable, and irresponsible. His employment status is not the deciding factor on his opinion about marriage. I assume he's had the same 'some day' stance since you first started dating. Too many women stick aro… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/17 06:23 PM |
| 8 | I feel like a provider in my relationshipHe can afford not to work right now but I personally don't think this is a good idea. Should your opinion veto his ability to choose for himself? As I said in my other reply to you, there are deeper, fundamentally incompatible goals and personal views at play in this relationship. Your response only solidifies what I have said elsewhere. You both want very different things, and there seems to be an inability or unwillingness to not only pinpoint what those differences are, but also to come up wi… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/17 05:53 PM |
| 23 | I feel like a provider in my relationshipThanks for the additional info. I still think you are trying to run and control his life more than you should be, but given your answers here - it also sounds as though you aren't paying attention to the vetting process. He knows you ultimately want to stay home - but he doesn't support this goal. Furthermore, he dismisses it on non-reasons such as socializing (which is entirely possible without a job). In addition, he doesn't seem to consider the possibility that there are many ways to earn mon… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/17 05:35 PM |
| 6 | I feel like a provider in my relationshipIn a relationship it's no longer a case of the partners ability to live as freely as they want if they can They're living together, and [presumably] sharing expenses. It's one thing when a person is not working (by choice) and not contributing financially. Typically this happens when the woman stays home while the man works. In this situation, the man doesn't have to work and he's still able to meet his financial obligations. you (should) both be working towards a common goal. Only if the couple… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/17 05:24 PM |
| 14 | I feel like a provider in my relationshipSince then I'm the only provider in our relationship. and It's not a money issue as he has some savings, it's more like... I know how easy it is to find a job in IT in our country, hell, my company would love to hire him but he's very picky. Two months have passed and he went to only one job interview. Are in complete conflict with each other. He is contributing financially and holding up his end of the equation. Your issue is that he is able to live the life you want. You are resentful of his f… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/17 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Tips on improving communicationand also judgy and difficult. It's annoying because I get a lot of remarks and questions when he skips my family events. And it really gets under my skin. Sounds like if they weren't trying to give you sh-t about this, they'd be on you about something else. Possibly the behavior of your kids, or your clothes, or what color you happen to be wearing that day. You know your family will find something to pick on regardless (especially if they are still difficult even when he is around), this isn't s… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/03/17 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Tips on improving communicationHi /u/Goingdowntheroad, I don't think you'll particularly like what I have to say, but I can relate a lot to the family side of things. I am incredibly close with my family, they aren't insane, but there are some people that are less than spectacular (personality/political viewpoints that translate into really obnoxious behaviors). My family gets together quite a bit, my SO's family does not. I feel like I am being made to nag Nagging is always a choice, it's something you do when you feel stres… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/03/17 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: If you've seen Friends tell me what you think about RossHugh Laurie had a guest spot when Rachel flies to London for Ross' wedding to confess her love - and points out that Rachel is a pretty awful person. I'm not wild about Rachel, but I absolutely despise Ross. He has the face of a Hippo and the personality of a soggy diaper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: If you've seen Friends tell me what you think about RossRoss is an obnoxious loser that slowly and surely becomes increasingly bitter as the series goes on. He fails everywhere in his personal life, and becomes so angry that it affects his professional career. He has eternal oneitis for Rachel. He is a perpetual joke, and in the real world, Rachel would never in a million years hook up with him repeatedly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 07:22 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?When your only response to a long-ish comment (surrounded by other, also long comments that provide additional details etc) is: Ultimately, it's who has the final say that matters. The rest is for feeling 'involved' That doesn't exactly scream "you raise some good points...here's what I think.." (in essence, participating in and encouraging an actual conversation and exchange of ideas). Instead, it simply implies that everything that was written can be summed up as "symbolic and ultimately meani… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 06:28 PM |
| 4 | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?Strictly speaking, if one doesn't have the ability to be the final say (veto authority e.g.) than it's not power over a situation. At best, it's influence. Okay, I am going to explain the situations/outcomes according the the hypothetical system I created - which is the only thing I have been talking about this entire time (and not the real, actual situation and system as it exists today because that is an entirely different conversation). Woman wants baby, man does not. Solution: Man can opt fo… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 05:59 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?No, that's not at all what I said. Two people want a baby. They sign a paper saying we want a baby and want to keep baby during that time. OBVIOUSLY men should not be forced to father and pay for a kid that isn't even their's. The agreement is to prevent actual abortion on the part of the woman more than anything. Again you are assuming the worst, and inserting a "guy gets effed by woman again" mentality into everything you read. It's weird, and surprising, given the time I've taken to discuss o… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 05:32 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?Do you think a husband would sign a contract relinquishing his power to challenge paternity? Okay, not sure how you made the leap from a married couple expressing their desire to have a child to the man legally agreeing that he will just magically assume the kid belongs to him. There's zero reason why a paternity test would be 'banned' or 'disallowed.' Expressing intent is not the same as assuming fidelity. Both you and /u/[deleted] are making weird conclusions, and I honestly don't know what yo… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 05:02 PM |
| 3 | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?Okay... did you read this? On abortion, and the options that should be afforded fathers: I don't have a problem with anything you said. I've thought about different systems where only married couples are allowed to have children, and it makes a lot of sense. For the married couples, it would be simple enough to create a legal document that requires both parties to sign - basically agreeing that they want a child and will commence trying for one. The contract could cover a 2-3 year span of time (… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 05:00 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?One of the big practical problems with "financial abortion" is that unlike the identity of the mother, the identity of the father can't be known. You said it yourself, there are DNA tests. It's easy enough to include in the law that only the biological father can be 'tapped' for financial support - and therefore, only the biological father has the option of a financial abortion. I understand your point about paternity being the deciding factor etc, but it's a moot point as soon as you make DNA t… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 04:47 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with jealousy/insecurity in a new relationship?Hahah awww, thanks Iris! It just really bothers me when irrelevant trash tries to parade around like opulent treasure. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 01:40 AM |
| 10 | How do you deal with jealousy/insecurity in a new relationship?So....if a woman feels insecure, for any reason (legitimate, absurd, or imagined), she should leave? There's no room for humility, reflection, appraisal, logic, or even the possibility to move past childish worry? Sometimes people feel insecure for concrete reasons (they're fat, have a rotten attitude etc) - so the presence of jealousy is useful, and feeling insecure is a good response. As long as the person recognizes their faults and works to improve, it's a chance for betterment, which should… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 12:15 AM |
| 10 | How do you deal with jealousy/insecurity in a new relationship?I personally don't think jealousy is inherently bad. Obviously people can become so jealous that it results in irrational, possibly controlling behavior. The first thing is to simply figure out and establish the boundaries of the relationship. If you don't have a solid understanding of what behavior is and is not appropriate - then it will only encourage misunderstanding and enhance any feelings of jealousy and insecurity. Second, recognize that your jealousy isn't abnormal and is just a sign of… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/17 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumPart 2 of 2 But the way the law and society sees it is that I forced her to stay out of the workplace to care for my kids and therefor I am personally responsible for making her whole for her lost wages and earning potential. I think what the law is saying is that you are financially expressing and putting value to work that throughout the marriage - was free. I agree the system isn’t perfect, and there are a lot of problems. I also think people get married (and divorced) far too easily and quic… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/17 02:48 PM |
| 4 | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumPart 1 of 2 Partly I think you misunderstood my initial question and my poor phrasing probably contributed to that. Thanks for taking the time to reply and clarify! What I meant was would it be bad to make SAHM/W "illegal" (in the sense of the article) if the labors of a SAHM/W were simultaneously formalized as a job? i.e. changing SAHM/W as non-economic participant status to "self-employed as SAHM/W". I think we agree that SAHM provide unappreciated labor. Why shouldn't we formally recognize th… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/17 02:48 PM |
| 8 | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumAlimony is not child support and it's only 'untapped labor' if SAHM/W are underemployed in their SAHing. This would only apply to educated women then. Uneducated women would not be as likely to earn more, and would have their life improved by simply being able to stay at home and be provided for. I'm not sure why: You want to forcibly punish anyone that makes a personal family decision about how their life should look Specifically set out to punish women that go through the trouble of getting an… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/17 01:08 AM |
| 7 | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumWould it be such a bad thing if a SAHM were explicitly paid a salary by the husband to perform that work? This is not what the article talked about, and anyway, SAHWs and mothers are technically already paid by their husbands. The women tend home etc, the man looks after financial needs. They are paying each other in different types of currency (the husband with money, the woman with care, attention etc). Or alternatively use his salary to pay a more qualified person to perform those duties more… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/17 12:33 AM |
| 1 | [Advice] Husband pays girls for pictures of themselvesI don't want this situation to ever rise in an argument, or used as guilt. Once i'm done processed, I don't want it to come up again. This is good. My purpose was simply to be as clear as possible, and in doing so, I can now see that your approach is in line with my own thoughts. Yes, it will hurt, but I think it's important to keep something in mind: so what if he spent money or sent flowers or pictures? He's married to you, he looks after your needs (financially), if you weren't important to h… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/03/17 10:12 PM |
| 4 | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumHahaha I wouldn't be surprised! I agree, I think it's really depressing that value=salary, as though nothing else in life really matters. I love that Occam has a steady job, and I'm thankful that I can make money with my business - but work is not something either of us considers to be the thing that gives us the most value as people. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/03/17 10:02 PM |
| 2 | [Advice] Husband pays girls for pictures of themselvesHe wants to have a clean slate and move on from here. I've expressed to him that I have feelings I have to work through, and it's not as simple as just moving on, but I do forgive him. You misspoke. You cannot honestly and sincerely forgive someone while still harboring negative feelings and doubt. You can say that you want to forgive him, but then the onus is then on you to clearly and specifically present what and how you will get to a place where you can fully forgive him. To say that you for… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/03/17 09:49 PM |
| 19 | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mum“One of the areas of greatest untapped potential in the Australian labour force is inactive and/or part-time working women, especially those with children,’’ concluded the landmark study. “There are potentially large losses to the economy when women stay at home or work short part-time hours.’’ This is just another example of failing to appreciate the advantages and benefits that go hand in hand with SAHMs and wives. They are free to tend the home, invest in the community, be involved with their… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/03/17 09:34 PM |
| 4 | [Advice] Husband pays girls for pictures of themselvesYour comment has been removed - please be sure to review the rules for male participation. Please refrain from announcing your gender (e.g. "Man here!" or "Sorry I'm a guy but..."). Please add that you are a man in your user flair. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/03/17 06:54 PM |
| 1 | (Q4RP) Are you open IRL about beeing red?US. I don't mention any specific lingo, but I do give 'RP' advice to friends when they ask for my help/thoughts. My SO and I talk about RP concepts etc all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/17 01:38 PM |
| 6 | [Advice] Husband pays girls for pictures of themselvesHad you both clearly defined what counts as cheating behavior? Everyone has different boundaries. In my relationship - this would absolutely be cheating. Considering the fact that he lied to you about all this, strongly suggests that he knew his behavior was unacceptable. Do you have children together? If you do have kids, that changes things (in my opinion) because any thoughts of separation or possible divorce should only be considered after every other avenue has been pursued. Other than that… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/03/17 02:32 AM |
| 2 | How Fashion and Media Influence TrendsYou are incredibly condescending. By your logic, people should only agree with, examine, or think about things that already agree with their point of view. That's the kind of intellectually dishonest logic I really don't care about or have time for. I don't find any issue with the Betsy DeVos quote. Conservatives and Republicans want influence and majority positions so that some of the damage that has been incurred by the left's relentless march to undermine the country, incite violence and raci… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/03/17 05:41 AM |
| 2 | How Fashion and Media Influence TrendsYou seem to have selective reading comprehension. After I linked the video, the rest of the paragraph says: is a great short video that explains how politics, media, and policy are organized into an effective process that is ‘ready made’ for mass consumption (and acceptance). I’m by no means a communist, but I do think it’s worthwhile to think critically of how society is shaped, and the tools that are used to influence, define, and distract us as a population. Basically, when the bulk of the me… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/03/17 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How would you react if your SO got you a bag of your favourite candy as an anniversary gift?I think that would be really sweet and unexpected. We've never celebrated our anniversary (gifts, cards, etc), because it's not something either of us really cares about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/17 12:25 AM |
| 6 | Please join us in welcoming /u/Irisandoleander as our newest mod!!!So excited to have you join the modding team Iris! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/17 06:13 PM |
| 3 | How Fashion and Media Influence TrendsYeah the clothes are not appealing at all! The bulk of my news consumption are highlights pulled from shows and talked about on conservative/alt-right/anti-feminist YT channels and forums. I do watch a range of TV shows online, so I do still see a lot of liberal influence there. As much as possible though, I try to avoid exposing myself to a lot of additional liberal nonsense, unfortunately I live in a very liberal area, so there's a certain level that really can't be avoided. I think it's reall… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/17 02:58 PM |
| 4 | How Fashion and Media Influence TrendsI think the war on gender turns in on itself so I don't think we need to be super out spoken to try to stop it. I agree that many liberal/feminist groups are really only 'united' by very tenuous ties, and everyone is very quick to turn on each other and try to establish the victim pecking order (the more of a victim a person or group - the more influence, power they actually have). This isn't a community that focuses on being a political movement, trying to recruit people, and we don't advocate … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/17 02:53 PM |
| 3 | How Fashion and Media Influence TrendsHahah I agree the clothes are not attractive! Yes, there are certain things that are hard-wired into humans (and as a result human behavior is inevitably influenced by those things) - but facts don't really seem to interfere with certain groups trying to turn things upside down and inside out (in the case of some trans operations, that's a literal description!). Yes, I agree that celebrities can do whatever they want with their popularity and influence - but I don't think that means they also sh… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/17 02:47 PM |
| 3 | How Fashion and Media Influence TrendsThanks, it was a lot of fun! :0) What are your answers to the questions? | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/17 03:35 AM |
| 2 | GratituesdayHaha, that's awesome! Since I work from home, I keep them in the office, and I've just been letting them wander around my desk (I keep a smaller little box and supplies for them to use if they need to hide somewhere). I just got some toys and felt delivered yesterday and I spent longer than I should have fussing over the cage haha. I can pick them up without issue, but trying to get them to play tag/chase with my hand doesn't seems to be a really popular idea. Both of them love sitting on my sho… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/03/17 11:27 PM |
| 8 | Write a family mission statementWe don't have a condensed mission statement, but we do have two private sayings that we will say to each other that encapsulate certain ideas (we are dedicated to each other for example) and emphasize our unity. I wanted to comment specifically because I think this would be a great exercise for women in LTR's (on the path to marriage) and recently engaged couples. It's the perfect way to deliberately talk about priorities, financial philosophies etc and dreams. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/03/17 09:30 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayI'm grateful Occam convinced me to consider getting some pet rats, I've never had them before and they are adorable with lots of personality. I have two (both male), and I'm having a lot of fun with them already. I'm grateful that he took the time to get "The Dark Tower" series for me on audio, so I can listen while I work/do chores/drive. I just finished up book three! Bonus: In the event of a major snowstorm (or similarly big meteorological event), do you do something special (be it prepping b… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/03/17 09:24 PM |
| 4 | How Fashion and Media Influence TrendsThis is part of the post - I had to create a separate comment in order to keep all the formatting Even if you sincerely believe that there are no ties between biological sex and gender and how those things are expressed everywhere in the world (yes, in different ways from culture to culture, but there are certain universal concepts of beauty), how does it benefit your child(ren) to teach them that these things are irrelevant? You’re encouraging them to develop a sense of self, and a personal def… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/03/17 09:13 PM |
| 2 | The Reality is PatriarchyI believe you think I'm saying all information can be cited from those sources, as opposed to used as primary sources to help show a point. Academic journals and texts are of course legitimate, and raw text (particularly from the government) really has no reason to be questioned. As a history major, the bulk of my papers relied on utilizing primary sources to prove my interpretations, which were then supplemented with works from other historians and scholars. All that aside, the teacher is still… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/03/17 05:19 AM |
| 2 | The Reality is PatriarchyYou weren't allowed to use newspapers, magazines, or documentaries that were relevant to the subject you were writing about? Every day I am more and more thankful I escaped the bulk of the insanity that seems to exist today in the educational system. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/03/17 01:04 AM |
| 2 | The Reality is PatriarchyIt's standard to limit 'acceptable' resources to only "feminist" ones? That's ridiculous. Magazines, newspapers, documentaries, records, studies, relative academic journals etc are all acceptable, and they should not be disqualified based on the amorphous conditions of 'is this in line with feminism?'. Furthermore, actual data collected by the government, census, etc...I'm stunned that anyone would defend that only sources from a specific mindset are acceptable. Narrowing the field of 'approved'… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/03/17 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Update on my situationThis is a fantastic comment, and I agree with everything you said! :0) Thank you for taking the time to write this up. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/17 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Update on my situationNo, wait a few more months, as I said. Be patient for now, come up with ideas and keep trying. Good luck with everything, I'm done with this conversation. You are letting your anxiety rule you, and seem far too eager to run away. This is the man you swore to stand by, no matter what. Now you're ready to jump ship, and it's simply too early. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Update on my situationYou said he still has another chance I thought, that he can go back to the job, but it's his last chance. It hasn't been that long, and you aren't homeless. People have gotten by in worse conditions. This is your husband, and your family. Have more patience, and keep doing what you can. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Update on my situationTell him everything on the first part of the list. Don't mention the second list ('consequences') right now. Give him 4 months, then consider bringing up the second part of the list. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Update on my situationTalk to him first, don't make plans until you have more information. You don't give him any ultimatum, either way. You say that things are not sustainable, and he isn't providing for his family. That you trust him but you have no idea what his plan is. Be patient, be supportive, be prepared. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Update on my situationYou don't give an ultimatum, that's a great way to ruin your marriage faster than it's already declining. He has to see a doctor because there may be something un-diagnosed. You have to write a resume, put together a packet on financial options. Tell him you're going to get work. Reason with him, but don't threaten to walk away. You can always leave later on if needed, but that's a bell you can't 'unring' and it should not be considered lightly. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Update on my situationYou are right about the finances - I did not understand how he viewed them before we got married. This should have been part of the vetting process. And it's great that you both want your kids to be raised by a SAHM, but the kind of life (schooling or home schooling etc) and parenting styles, not to mention having a plan to grow savings all should have been part of the discussion both prior to getting married and prior to actually having kids. You can't turn back the clock however, and you can't… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Update on my situationDid you talk about how finances would be handled at all? Did you have an accurate understanding of his spending habits and overall outlook? (It sounds like this wasn't the case at all). Financial differences/tension is one of the leading causes to stress in a relationship and divorce in a marriage. You should not have read the message, even if it was open on the screen. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Update on my situationHow long did you date prior to marrying? Did you snoop through his email, or did he show you the conversation? If he lived in the same place, and you visited his home, if he mentioned people from work (or stopped mentioning them), if he couldn't go out on dates or pay for things, if he had to move/downsize where he lived etc. It's not hard to notice stress, lies, changes in demeanor, behavior etc if you did a thorough job vetting and were observational. You don't just pick up and disappear. As a… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Update on my situationWait....were you snooping through his stuff, or did he show these convos to you? | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Update on my situationHow long did you date prior to marrying him? It seems bizarre that he had a perfect history of being responsible and holding down jobs only to suddenly struggle this much. I find it very hard to believe that this level of irresponsibility, detachment, and lack of concern cropped up out of the blue. All that aside, if he hasn't fixed the issue and isn't doing better, and things are worse now - then definitely start figuring out how to get a job. See if friends/family will look after the kids so y… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Update on my situationOkay, so you married him knowing all about this behavior. Then you had multiple kids with him. Now you've tried some things, but almost a year later nothing has changed. My next question: are things the same as they were 10 months ago? Are you even closer to financial ruin? If things are sh-tty, but they are the same degree of sh-tty as 10 months ago - then nothing has really changed. Your situation is no better or worse from where you started. His being against your employment is all great and … | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Update on my situationHas he always struggled with retaining a job? Has he always been irresponsible about managing money? In your first post you mention that it had only been a problem recently...but you never talked about his behavior or your financial situation prior to all this. For example, have you always been fairly strapped for cash, or did you have a good bit of money saved and now you can barely get by and the savings have been depleted. Did you follow the suggestions I made previously? You would both benef… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 06:11 PM |
| 3 | The Reality is PatriarchyHaha I did too! She doesn't have many videos on youtube, and I watched most of them. I really hope she keep making new ones. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 02:51 PM |
| 2 | The Reality is PatriarchyHaha I love Ben Garrison! He's been doing a fantastic job. Thank you for sharing, I had not seen this one yet. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 02:49 PM |
| 3 | A Day Without WomenI agree, and this has been my experience as well. No man has ever tried to limit or control me (unless you count my dad always pushing me to do more and tackle every problem in my way head on or my SO constantly pushing me to expand my boundaries and have more confidence in myself haha). Only women have tried to hold me back, make me feel bad about myself, or doubt my opinions. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 01:20 AM |
| 6 | The Reality is PatriarchyI just found this channel, and I am loving her videos so far. I have seen the tweet at the start of the video, and I was really excited to discover that it was a response (from a teacher) to her (Josephine's) sister! On a side note, I love her hair. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/03/17 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Unless you live on a farm or have a bunch of small children. There is no role for a SAHW in the modern world.Okay good! Just wanted to make sure I was being clear/understandable. Yes, I always feel really bad when I see henpecked men driven to extreme levels of misery and stress because their spouse has an appetite they have to support. :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/17 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Unless you live on a farm or have a bunch of small children. There is no role for a SAHW in the modern world.I'm not familiar with Caitlin Flanagan at all (didn't know her name prior to you mentioning it haha) so she may or may not be a good example. I hope the overall idea I was driving at made sense. Strivers have always existed, and it's not unheard of for one spouse or the other to be pushing for the bigger, better deal. I don't think there's inherently wrong with wanting to grow and improve, though I think it's unfortunate if her husband ended up in a career he hates (at the same time I don't thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/17 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Unless you live on a farm or have a bunch of small children. There is no role for a SAHW in the modern world.I agree there is a vast difference between a woman that 'stays at home' but has an army of helpers and in the meantime she brings home buckets of money and a woman that is doing things on the side to help a bit with some extra money. I think part of the difference is time, intention, and how much the woman has to do in general (or if she has the ability to off-load the bulk of the work to the help). I don't know that a woman that works from home and brings in money due to a hobby/chore is really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/17 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Why do feminist insist that rapists are being set free instead of saying vour justice system is working wonderfully and there wasn't enough evidence to convict the accused?You may enjoy /r/TiADiscussion, and /r/sjwhate. The first one in particular will discuss issues, and there are people on both sides of many discussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/17 06:00 PM |
| 15 | What if Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton Had Swapped Genders?Swapping gender in this instance only emphasizes how unlikeable and disconnected Hillary is. Female Trump would have been our first female president. The election had nothing to do with gender. Policy, personality, and corruption made Hillary the clear loser. Meanwhile Trump has the first two in spades. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/17 02:12 PM |
| 15 | People talking badly of me because of showing affection to fiancéIf this is the culture of the office - then it should be no surprise to you that you end up on the wrong end of the drama. There's no help for it, and as long as you aren't getting in trouble with the bosses etc, just try to tone it down a bit and ignore them. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 10:35 PM |
| 11 | People talking badly of me because of showing affection to fiancéYou'll never be able to improve your image in the eyes of those bent on being unhappy. Women gossiping and being two-faced should not be a surprise to you. Work places should be professional. Especially if this a medium to large company - you need to behave in a manner appropriate to the environment. During lunch, or parties, or after work - smooch away. During hours, just talk to him and leave notes. You should not be displaying pda and physical intimacy (kissing, hand holding, hugging). You ar… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 10:34 PM |
| 5 | A Day Without WomenWomen have always worked, particularly poor women. Having a middle class emerge that allowed women to stay home with kids was a new privilege previously reserved for the very wealthy. But yes, the world has been driven by innovative men, and (in most cases) their supportive wives. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 08:38 PM |
| 3 | A Day Without WomenI agree with everything you said. It's hyped up moral masturbation perpetuated by 'know it all' feminists and liberals. I despise their tactics and their thought processes. For over twenty years, liberals/feminists have ruled the mainstream...there are no more monsters to topple in the US - but that won't stop them from trying. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 08:30 PM |
| 2 | A Day Without WomenHahah! Okay, thanks for clarifying, and I agree. Ugliest hats ever. I'm waiting an extreme feminist architect to make a vagina shaped building because all the 'phallic' sky scrapers and towers are too masculine and threatening. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | A Day Without WomenI can see two interpretations of your comment: That the women partaking in the 'A Day Without Women' protest are simply trying to virtue signal how awesome they are (I agree) (A bit fuzzier) That you are indicating that threads like this (being critical of a protest) is an attempt to 'virtue signal' within the community I fully understand and agree with the first interpretation, and while I might be able to understand the logic/point of the second interpretation - I'd also say it's a bit of a st… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 06:47 PM |
| 9 | A Day Without WomenThanks for sharing! She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. I particularly love this line. Notice there's nothing about being helpless, stupid, unhappy, or weak.... | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 06:36 PM |
| 8 | A Day Without WomenYes, I was thinking about hospitals too! I wonder if female surgeons are calling in sick too. Pediatricians...it's disturbing to see people that truly make a difference so casually abandon their posts about something so abstract, vague, and completely imaginary. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 05:50 PM |
| 6 | A Day Without WomenGreat point! Yes, I think it's horrible that people don't consider the repercussions for people that did nothing wrong, aren't related to the 'cause' and are just trying to get by. This 'protest' also doesn't care about the small business owner. Some people have to work every day, because if they don't do the work, the business suffers. If you have deadlines or take commissions - a random day off ultimately does more harm for you than it does to 'prove' anything to others. There's so much discri… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 03:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Slut-shaming is almost non-existent in younger social circles and colleges.You were very patient, and I quickly realized that I lacked the energy to deal with this particular conversation through to the end. I can understand that though, we all have off days. Great comments by the way. :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/17 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - March 03, 2017If you look at BMI charts her weight is in the normal range. She may have a smaller frame as well. There's no reason to think she'd underweight. Height makes a big difference. She's at the lower end of the 'normal' range, while you are at the upper end of 'normal' for your height. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/03/17 04:56 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Slut-shaming is almost non-existent in younger social circles and colleges.This will by my last reply to you. where did I say that simply not dating someone because of promiscuity was slut-shaming? when you disagreed with my initial comment. This entire time I've been saying that preferences aren't the same as shaming. cxj touched on this too. Your definition of shaming seems to mean that it's only slut-shaming if the woman feels shame for being a slut. You can't shame someone unless that person feels shame. Otherwise you're just insulting them. Shame is what the inten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/17 03:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Slut-shaming is almost non-existent in younger social circles and colleges.in the case of "I don't want to date sluts" the man (presumably) isn't actually giving that reason to the woman in question. He may say that to his friends, he may not. Shaming someone requires that you directly tell them why they repulse/disgust/offend you. The point is to make the other person feel embarrassed, judged, and shamed because of how they are/act and because you disapprove of them. You can avoid dating people without shaming them. A person can refuse dating someone without saying "b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/17 03:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Slut-shaming is almost non-existent in younger social circles and colleges."OMG she's a slut" - observation (accurate or not, judgement of that woman) "I don't want to date her, she seems like a slut/difficult/headache waiting to happen" - disqualifying a potential romantic/sexual interest because their values, behavior, conduct, dress, actions etc are incompatible. This person does not meet my sexual and romantic preferences. I never dated fat men, or bald men - does that mean my personal romantic/sexual preferences are somehow 'shaming' them? Also, in the case of "I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/17 02:44 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS REACHED 2000+ MEMBERS!! Lurkers And New Subscribers Introduce Yourselves :DWelcome! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/03/17 08:01 PM |
| 18 | Q4women: If you make a man wait before having sex with him, do you respect him less?You have it backwards, a woman should never sleep with a man until he has earned her respect. If a woman instantly 'respects' a man without seeing any proof that he's deserving of that trust - then it's just blind faith and a total gamble, and not genuine respect. When you respect a person, you are acknowledging that they have admirable traits, or have done things worthy of special consideration, politeness, gratitude, and appreciation. Respect is earned, over time and through effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/17 08:46 PM |
| 2 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyThat's an extremely odd reaction haha! Everyone has been patient and explained things to you. Honesty should not lead to your 'tuck tail and run' response. There's is absolutely no reason why you cannot continue to participate on the sub. Believe me, the reason we respond is to help, educate, explain and teach. If we thought you were a lost cause, troll, or hopeless - the reaction would have been to ban you - not engage in discussion. No one hates you or wants you gone (I don't know you at all, … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 05:39 PM |
| 3 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyCamille just responded to you and pointed out why your comments caught the attention of three mods. Your initial responses painted a very specific picture of a clueless newcomer incorrectly distilling ideas into unrecognizable conclusions and trying to pass off personal experience as law. There's a reason all three mods responded to you in a doubtful, 'why are you so triggered?' way. Your initial comments didn't reflect your underlying knowledge, or capture specific perspective in an intelligent… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 05:31 PM |
| 3 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyOf course you can disagree, it's silly to suggest otherwise. People disagree all the time here without issue. The reasons you are running into trouble: Disagreeing with a well established member and mod (she has earned a reputation for being thorough, reliable, and honest due to years of contributing to the community, creating theories, and explaining concepts). Your responses to her fall short in the nuance, detail, understanding departments - so obviously they will not be weighted the same upo… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 04:13 PM |
| 3 | an engagement, and the biggest thank youCongratulations! I'm so glad you've found a home (and a grain or two of sanity) with this community. You should be very proud of yourself and all the progress you have made. Good luck and all the best to you. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/02/17 06:10 PM |
| 10 | ExcludedNo, there is no FB group. There are twitter and pinterest accounts that you can follow however. We make privacy a top priority because this community does get trolled and user's have been harassed in the past. This is why we encourage everyone to have an exclusive reddit account solely for posting on this sub, and another account for participating on other subs. Taking steps to avoid getting doxxed is always a good idea. There is a chat that you are welcome to check out, and another new sub call… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 11:10 PM |
| 3 | What's your "finding RPW" story?My SO introduced me to reddit, and to the RP community specifically. It was really nice to find a place I could finally voice my opinions and get along with others that shared the same values I grew up with. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is the most unattractive thing a man can do?When I say 'skinny jeans' I mean tight, 'show every bulge' cut that turns men into little boys like this. Boot cut, relaxed fit, cowboy style. Fitted without strangling anything. Lots of normal attractive men have zero issue wearing properly fitted jeans. I'm not sure why the popular styles seem to either be "14 sizes too big" and "cut for a little girl." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/17 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is the most unattractive thing a man can do?Do...act like Apologize for no reason (or for really stupid insignificant things) Make excuses Fawn/praise SO/wife too much Indecisiveness Wear over-sized clothes sagging pants Skinny jeans Make-up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 09:20 PM |
| 11 | How I Hacked Online Dating - Amy WebbI think this is a really great example of someone that is very smart and analytical, but struggles a bit when it comes to socializing (in this case, socializing online). It took her time, and a lot of research to figure out certain things that many women seem to know on an intuitive level (don't talk too much, be optimistic, show off flattering pictures). You can immediately tell that she's confident, has a sense of humor, and can talk about a wide range of topics - but her ability to be flirtat… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/02/17 06:47 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?I don't think government should be sticking their noses in other people's personal business, but the fact is that it is, and in an effort to help women it's managed to hurt everyone. I agree with this completely, and love the way you phrased things. I talk about the 'death of child tax' and a few other things in my own response to this thread if you're interested and want to take a look. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/17 02:29 AM |
| 5 | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?I don't have a problem with anything you said. I've thought about different systems where only married couples are allowed to have children, and it makes a lot of sense. For the married couples, it would be simple enough to create a legal document that requires both parties to sign - basically agreeing that they want a child and will commence trying for one. The contract could cover a 2-3 year span of time (because conceiving a child does not always happen instantaneously). So any pregnancies th… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/17 01:33 AM |
| 2 | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?Thanks! Yeah it really bugs me when people support death/murder in some areas but not others. I am pro-death (I love eating beef/eggs/chicken/seafood etc, believe in the death penalty, abortion, killing to protect citizens and country, pro-suicide -- if someone wants to die let them get on with it) across the board. If it's humane to put down a suffering animal, why can't we extend the same level of kindness and mercy towards people? It bothers me when people flip-flop on death (it's okay for so… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/17 01:17 AM |
| 3 | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?What about in cases of rape or incest? What if the child has a genetic disorder such as cerebral palsy or worse? What about cases of high risk pregnancy where the mom and baby may not survive? These are the main reasons why I am pro-choice. That said, the number of women that get abortions because of actual rape and incest are much smaller slice of the pool. Murder is still murder, even if it's for a 'good' reason. I think morning after pills (ella and plan B) are a great resource, and should be… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 06:33 PM |
| 5 | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?I believe that abortion is murder, and I am also pro choice - with a few contingencies. I think women should have to sign a paper that basically states they are guilty of murder prior to going through with the abortion. The paper requires the woman to complete 200 hours of community service, or they can pay a substantial fine ($10,000 or so) to avoid doing the hours. Furthermore, getting an abortion would put them in a database that prevents them from getting another abortion for 5 years. I thin… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 04:59 PM |
| – | Financial PressuresHi /u/melindamaga, I have removed this post. Please edit and answer **these questions. After you add the necessary information, respond to this comment. I will then review your post and put it back on the sub. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Feminism is basically the abusive parentEh, feminism abuses women too. Particularly ones that disagree with feminism. Also, the idea that feminism raises thriving women that go on to be loving wives and mothers made me laugh. Feminism drives the child-free, anti-marriage/nuclear family narrative, it wants to destroy gender dynamics (while still placing women firmly at the top), and shames everyone and anyone that disagrees (in addition to forcibly lumping them in as feminists --- ie "You think women are human??? FEMINIST" as though th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/17 12:12 AM |
| 2 | What are your top five deal breakers in a relationship?Wants kids Smoking (I want nothing to do with it) Cheating These are the only three deal-breakers I have ever had. If the person isn't interesting (a personality I enjoy and get along with) and attractive to me - then I wouldn't consider dating them in the first place (so there's no need to even consider 'deal-breakers'). In my mind 'deal-breakers' are the things that make someone you are interested in (or open to) dating incompatible as a potential LTR/spouse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/17 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Advice needed: Female receptivity (sex life)You could put together a going away package for him (dirty letters, pictures, and maybe a video for him?) You could record something together too, which might appeal to him. Make sure he leaves feeling desired and appreciated. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/17 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Advice needed: Female receptivity (sex life)Haha, yes, understanding and incorporating are two different animals entirely. You are not only working to eliminate destructive patterns, but also introduce new behaviors that aren't familiar/comfortable/second nature. It's a bumpy road for many, which is why small, tangible goals that can be practiced every day, in many different situations are beneficial. For example: only saying positive/nice things for a week to your spouse, waking up an hour early to make breakfast or do chores, going out … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/17 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Advice needed: Female receptivity (sex life)You are dealing with a lot of moving pieces. Kids, prior history of 'ruts' and a dead-bedroom. Unfortunately, your earlier behavior has more or less 'trained' your H that you will turn down his advances, and that you will avoid sex. It didn't take a day to create a disconnect in this area of your marriage, and it's definitely going to take time to repair it. Patience will be key, and also possibly giving him some space. Give hints, and make sure he knows you desire him. Be sure that you are plea… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/17 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Advice needed: Female receptivity (sex life)It's not at all uncommon for newcomers to have a bit of a rough time initially, there can be quite a bit of shock. Not only in terms of new concepts, but also with how everything works around here. You and I definitely didn't have a 'smooth' introduction to each other haha, and I am the Mod that banned you (and then later un-banned you). That said, I will be the first to say that I think you are making progress and coming around. After our exchange in modmail, I have not had a single bad interac… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/17 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Advice needed: Female receptivity (sex life)Do you flirt with each other? Are you playful? Flirting should is a skill, and if you don't do it regularly, you might forget how or even what it feels like to create sexual tension with your husband. Creating games, and opportunities to be chased can seem forced or even awkward if it's something you've never done, or have fallen out of practice doing. If there are certain outfits he really enjoys, be sure to wear them. Work out or stretch in front of him. If he comments, let him see that it mak… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/17 03:23 PM |
| 3 | I'm baaaack - and ENGAGED!!Wonderful update! All the best to you and your (very soon to be) husband! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/02/17 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: Are all men potential rapists?Being aware of what people are capable of, and actively teaching/lecturing them about something are two different things. We don't go around teaching kids about how important it is to not kill people. So all men can be capable of rape, without needing to beat them over the head with messages about how rape is bad and they shouldn't do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/17 07:45 PM |
| 7 | Q4RP: Are all men potential rapists?All men are potential rapists, all people are capable of murder (if put in the 'right' circumstances). That said, I don't think men need to be 'taught' not to rape, in the same way there's no need to 'teach' kids they shouldn't murder. Strangers should not be trusted, and women should be taught to be careful and wary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/17 07:42 PM |
| 4 | But like...I don't want to be offended.Great clip. I think it's idiotic when people say "you can't joke about certain things" specifically when talking about comedians. There job is to literally make jokes, and if they want to bring up a particular subject....that means they're going to find something funny (and sometimes offensive) to say. There are a lot of comics I don't listen to because I don't find them to be entertaining. There are other comedians that I really enjoy (Anthony Jeselnik for example), that some people find to be … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 05:32 PM |
| 10 | Sad advert currently showing in the UK.This is a horrible message! If he doesn't 'get' her....why the ever-loving f-ck did she agree to marry him at all? And then wait until the day of the wedding? What does chewing gum have to do with being an irresponsible flake? | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions - February 04, 2017What are your favorite tights and leggings (currently for sale)? Solid colors, sheer, patterned, full leg, cropped - I'm looking to expand my current arsenal and I'm looking for some ideas! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/02/17 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Audi Super Bowl Commercial 2017 - Feminist "Gender Pay Gap" FAILThe only thing missing from this video is a mic drop at the end. Love it from start to finish. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Situational Assessment 2017: Trump Edition – Deep CodeI need to read this again, perhaps when my brain is less fried, but my gut feeling is that he is wrong. Or at least too US-centric. Yes, this is US centric, with broader sympathies around the world. Brexit, for example, certainly wasn't 'new media' driven. It was very popular online in US communities, and it's also a stance against globalism (which is against the 'Blue Church' and the larger feminist/liberal domination - which is also pro-globalism). The claim isn't that Brexit existed or won be… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/02/17 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - February 03, 2017Oooh this is great info! Thanks! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/02/17 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - February 03, 2017Hahah yeah, people rarely need two-day it's just flippin awesome! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/02/17 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - February 03, 2017Do you mean "I'll stop subscribing to Amazon Prime"? I don't think it's necessarily the end of the world if they do that (I don't even want to think about how much they spend on shipping supplies and costs) and they've been offering the service for a reasonable subscription price (especially since the membership benefits for 2-day shipping can span several accounts). I'm actually surprised they've been able to do it for this long. I wouldn't be overly fussed with the change - just means I'd wait… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/02/17 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - February 03, 2017Yes, shipping is ridiculously expensive! I have to ship (heavy) orders quite frequently for my work. Fortunately, I almost always re-coup the price (it's included as part of the cost on the invoice), but there are exceptions. I heard that Prime will actually be changing the 2-day shipping to only cover purchases over $30 or something? It was on the radio and I was only half-listening. Sometimes I wish Amazon would take over USPS because their whole system is such a flipping headache and it's out… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/02/17 04:17 PM |
| – | Situational Assessment 2017: Trump Edition – Deep CodeI really enjoyed this post and the writer's style of writing. He covers a lot of ground that you may or may not be familiar with, depending on how much you lurk subs like /r/The_Donald, listen to the news etc and are aware of certain things (feminist/SJW culture for example). I didn't find this to be a demanding read (the concepts didn't feel over my head, or inaccessible), even though many of the terms and ideas he touched on were new to me. The post is broken down into sections, and as the pos… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/02/17 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Ann Widdecombe Calls Women's March 'Pathetic'When you have some time, read this it's absolutely fascinating. I'd love to have a broader discussion about it...but I'll have to wait for Free Friday, and for when I have enough time to try and condense everything into a somewhat reasonable TL;DR: hahah! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/17 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Ann Widdecombe Calls Women's March 'Pathetic'So UC Berk idiots lost their minds and caused so much damage and violence because Milo was going to talk there. The news here is literally saying that "Trump is unfairly targeting Berkeley" as though the students/protestors did nothing unreasonable. Furthermore, I hate how insidious they are. The news ONLY uses the term "undocumented" immigrant, as though that somehow erases their status as ILLEGALS. The news also conveniently tries to say that Trump is against immigrants as a whole (never mind … | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/17 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Advice Needed: Should I go back to work, for what reasons, and how?Not a problem, all the best to you. Please give us an update later and let us know how things turn out! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/17 07:50 PM |
| 7 | Advice Needed: Should I go back to work, for what reasons, and how?I get the sense that I should start working again, and this is because my husband told me yesterday that he 'hates being so jealous' because I am at home. Is this something he has said many times in different ways? Is he stressed out at work? Is the house messier than normal (ie you aren't pulling your weight around the home)? Should I communicate with him as to what specifically he is jealous about (since maybe I'm not living up to his expectations for being a housewife)? This made me laugh - h… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/17 06:59 PM |
| 7 | Ann Widdecombe Calls Women's March 'Pathetic'I want Ann Widdecombe to adopt me based on this interview. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/17 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Handsome is typically a NOT a compliment.Women have traditionally been described as 'handsome', but I agree it's not common today. I would never refer to a man (in a complimentary way) as 'pretty.' I do not refer to men as 'sexy' or 'hot' either...but this is a personal preference and I'm sure other women do. Handsome, rugged, attracted are my 'top' compliments for a man. Your example is odd - because no (normal) mother is going to say to her daughter's SO "You're so sexy!" A compliment can be versatile and fit many different scenarios… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Question for WOMEN ONLY PLEASE: if all age of consent laws were repealed and all female shaming silenced...Women can look sexually attractive and appealing at that age, more to the point - more and more women today try to look sexually mature at younger and younger ages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/17 01:42 AM |
| 20 | Advice for raising daughters around so many outspoken feministsMake sure she has a good relationship with her father. Don't worry about teaching her to be feminist or anti-feminist, instead instill her with an appreciation for certain values (hard work, doing thorough research, thinking critically, being accountable). Give her responsibilities, and don't let her get away with shirking them (chores, grades etc). Encourage her, but also teach her to make plans to achieve her goals (things don't 'just happen' they are the culmination of effort and skill and so… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/02/17 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Is Having Low Value Friends Even Worth It? | The Feminine WomanI'll dive into my overall thoughts, but I just have to vent for a minute about this: Unfortunately, friends are not blood. And although friends can BE like blood or family, blood is thicker than water. I rarely see this expression used correctly, and I know that today, it's widely 'accepted' to mean "family is forever." The original version however is "the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb" - which basically means the exact opposite. You may be related to someone, but t… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/02/17 06:55 PM |
| 7 | New Sub /r/FeminineNotFeminist For Women To Discuss Beauty Without Worrying About Being Politically Correct!This is a great addition! I think it allows for discussions that don't necessarily 'fit' here (sure we talk about makeup and clothing in terms of attracting our men and improving our looks - but general fashion perspectives etc don't really belong in this community). Thanks for sharing, I'm looking forward to helping the FNF grow! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/02/17 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Troubleshooting: For Single Women, and Women Trying to Earn ExclusivityAnother way to think about these things: what does he value (in his personal life, in his professional life, morally)? How do those things translate into romantic relationships? Just ask him questions about himself, think about stories he has shared with you, movies or books he loves - are there common themes? You should be able to look at different areas of his life, as well as his personality overall and find clues that will help you puzzle out certain things. After that, it's just a matter of… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/02/17 04:11 AM |
| 3 | February 2017 Challenge For Single WomenHey /u/smallpeach I am posting a thread for single women, and I'll tailor it to include women that are dating but do not yet have a relationship. Just to clarify - you mean that you are hanging out with, and going on dates with one specific man in general? | /r/RedPillWives | 31/01/17 05:38 PM |
| – | February 2017 Challenge For Single WomenHopefully this will help inspire the single ladies here to try a few new things. If these seem too simple, or you already do these things, then continue reading for a "Difficulty Upgrade" list. Spend an entire day flirting with every man you meet. Practice is the best way to hone your skills! Charm your waiters, cashiers, strangers standing next to you in line, etc. You can be subtle (glances + body language) or more overt. Upgrade: Do this consistently for a week. Look for additional opportunit… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Question for WOMEN ONLY PLEASE: if all age of consent laws were repealed and all female shaming silenced...Any woman that looks sexually enticing, 'ripe', even if she's 13/14. Younger teens also [tend] to be [more] innocent, don't know as much, and are generally happier, and more pleasant than their 20-something counterparts. In addition, younger women will be easier to seduce, impress, and romance. So the 'range' is less about age and more about whether the woman looks sexually attractive, young, and in her prime. Men would go consistently go as young as they could, for as long as possible. When/If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/17 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Inspired by a deleted postWhen my SO tasks me with a project that makes me feel hesitant or uneasy, I make sure to ask questions. This helps me understand his priorities, motivations, and also what aspects of the endeavor are most important to him. This is particularly useful when there's a budget involved - I know what he will be inclined to omit, or spend less money on if it means meeting other needs that are more important. Over the years, I've learned that I can almost always handle more than I actually think I'll be… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/17 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - January 27, 2017So women want men to have to submit to a background check, have a license, and wait a period of time before they can own a woman? Think of how easy it would be for men to have all the specs, be able to try her out and have a detailed record of her history before investing. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/17 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Overwhelmed by FT work and houseworkIf you think FlyLady's material would be something interesting and useful to share with the sub - you should definitely write up a post! Just expand on what you've shared here, along with some of FlyLady's highlights (in your opinion). You can talk about how you found her etc. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Guess who's having a baby?! IRIS!Congratulations /u/Irisandoleander, I have no doubt that you will be a wonderful and loving mother! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 07:47 PM |
| 3 | How did/would you handle the end of the honeymoon period with your SO?This will probably be a long-winded (and somewhat wandering) response, there are just a few things I want to talk about before I dive into my personal experience with the whole “honeymoon” thing. ‘Honeymoon’ phases are generally used to describe two points in (most) relationships. The first is when two people become an official couple (LTR), and the second is after a couple has married. I have also heard people use ‘honeymoon’ to describe the very early days of dating someone they would eventual… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsSo well spoken! I agree with everything /u/Camille11325 said in her comment. I'm also surprised you would suggest that women should separate personal political views when considering whether a man is good or not (in terms of dating/marriage). The point is that the woman can respect the man, and believe in his views and opinions (because this fosters trust and loyalty and allows deeper bonds to be forged). I can't respect someone that pushes/believes in things that are fundamentally in conflict w… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Equal Pay Is Not EnoughYeah, it's a one big stinking pile of sh-t all all right. Disgusting from start to finish, not to mention embarrassing. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Equal Pay Is Not EnoughThis is a commercial (for shoes), about how women should no longer aspire for "equal pay for equal work" (and also that this concept exists NOWHERE IN THE WORLD) - but also that they should be paid more. Why you ask? Not because women work smarter, or harder....because the optional products they buy are more expensive. That is literally the batsh-t logic being pushed in this advertisement. Even worse is the explicit violence against men, entitlement, and the presumption that fashion/shoes are ex… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?I am/was all for Emily growing after she loses Richard. They largely existed and operated as a cohesive unit, for the soul purpose of achieving respect, influence, and giving their family and friends every advantage they could in life....I just wish they had displayed that transition in a way that rang true to Emily's actual character. That's the thing that has always bugged me about Lorelie's 'hatred' of her parents by the way. "Oh no! Mom and Dad expect me to know how to socialize, be graceful… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?Glad you brought up Rory's complete lack of EXISTING for the past decade hahaha. I kept thinking "HOW have you been floundering for this long, and WHY did you have a one night stand without a condom....when supposedly you've always been responsible UP TO this point." Rory has had it DRILLED into her head that she is NOT to repeat her mom's mistake. Seeing the tension between her mom and her grandparents, not to mention her mom and her dad - would have made her paranoid to end up as a single mom.… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 07:35 PM |
| 2 | "Pleaser Women" Always Lose Out - The Difference Between Pleasing and GivingI can understand the need to be specific, I've never told (or felt) the need to say to Occam that I need 'time' to myself. I think this is true for several reasons: I work from home (so I get a lot of 'me' time that way, being around Occam has never 'drained' my batteries (I am actually constantly 'recharged' when we go out together and have more social 'stamina' hahah), we have a very adaptive home routine (we consider being in the same room doing other things to be 'bonding' just as much as bo… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 07:01 PM |
| 13 | Random RP ThoughtsThere's an odd dichotomy that seems to exist where "either a woman is perfect/prim/feminine/boring or she's rude/masculine/attention seeking/whorish" and it's bothersome. It's not "either prude or fun person to be around." Personality/ability to be fun and femininity are not mutually exclusive in any way shape or form. Feminine women can be boring, or fun. Just as unfeminine women can be boring, or fun. Your proximity to femininity has little to do with how popular, interesting, and fun to be ar… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 06:36 PM |
| 3 | "Pleaser Women" Always Lose Out - The Difference Between Pleasing and GivingInteresting article, thanks for sharing. There are a few things I disagree with. 2) Giving could be telling your man that you need time to yourself, to re-charge so that you can come back to the relationship with more to give, instead of seeing him every time he says he misses you. (Click here to take the quiz on “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) I don't really understand the idea of telling your man that you "need time to yourself"...or even really ever phrasing it that way at all. Even… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 06:31 PM |
| 7 | Random RP ThoughtsI think she stuck by him mostly because she didn't want a divorce to hurt her political capital. Sure, people make the argument that people would have loved for her to divorce as a modern 'strong' woman - but their marriage was always a political one. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Birth orders and relationshipsYes, I think the dichotomy between "eldest" and "youngest" is more pronounced when there are three or more kids total. I also think that if any of the kids are twins that can really affect things too. Some twins are wildly competitive with each other, and some are total opposites. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/01/17 04:55 PM |
| 5 | Birth orders and relationshipsYep, I agree! It's definitely a fun share! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 24/01/17 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Birth orders and relationshipsYes, I agree there are a lot of other important factors that weren't addressed, which could have really helped bring some additional depth and nuance to these descriptions! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/01/17 03:59 PM |
| 12 | Birth orders and relationshipsI think this is an interesting idea, but far too simplistic to really apply in any kind of constructive way. The dynamic of children also changes depending on social status, if the parents stay married or get divorced, if the siblings are actually step-sisters/brothers. I thought it was good to point out that gaps between siblings can affect things a lot. I was more like an eldest, although I get a mixed bag of youngest sibling treatment. These things can also go entirely out the window if there… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/01/17 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Overwhelmed by FT work and houseworkI wake up with my SO, and I have always enjoyed the extra hours in the morning as a result...lately I've just been using them to work more though (oops!). I agree though, waking up early really changes your perception of just how long a day is and how much you can get done! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Overwhelmed by FT work and houseworkThe house seems to cycle between "my ideal" and "organized chaos" depending on the time of year/my busy seasons. Right now, I'm just coming off of a busy season that ran overly long, and as we speak, I am taking a break from putting things back together. It's easy for me to handle all the housework when I'm in my off-season for the most part, and it really helps that I work from home. We also came up with a new solution to help me the next time things get crazy. We're going to have a cleaning se… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 09:51 PM |
| 4 | "Are You Sure You Aren’t Unhappy?" - Ladies Do You Experience This?One thing I've noticed, is that TV shows really hate depicting calm, steady, reliable relationships as a 'front and center' feature for main characters. Sure, they're allowed to be happy for a few episodes - but inevitably it's required that something really stupid (usually) comes around to rock the boat. Also, there are lots of times where someone that appears to have a solid marriage - is really either unaware of bigger problems (like infidelity) or is secretly having fights behind the scenes/… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 09:33 PM |
| 7 | "Are You Sure You Aren’t Unhappy?" - Ladies Do You Experience This?I am always very proud to say "Life is great, and boring, as always." Routine, repetition, knowing what to expect, and having a comfortable pattern have been things I have worked hard implement into my life. I was never able to introduce a steady calm to the degree I know experience, prior to Occam. The designation of 'boring' also means "my life lacks anything resembling juicy drama" which does fill me with happiness. When I need a dose - I have trashy tv, books, and reddit hahah! When I need s… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 09:23 PM |
| 3 | What is the Ideal Relationship?No worries, glad I could help! :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:39 PM |
| 2 | What is the Ideal Relationship?Hi /u/ArthurMacArthur I believe this is the thread. Myers-Briggs types: ENTP, INTP, ESTP, ISTP Do you think I’m totally competent? Are you impressed with my performance? Do you trust that I’m not lying to you or B.S.’ing you in any way? Does it make sense that you love me? That you stay with me? How “Accuracy” answers, “Yes! I love you!” I will be rigorously honest with you. If I have a ‘wandering eye’ I will tell you, and provide a solution. I will gift you with my precision. I will learn you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Not being TOO politeYep, a simple "things are hectic for me lately, so arrange everything according to everyone else's availability and let me know where things land." After that, you are free to have the "I'm sorry I won't be able to attend, I hope everyone has fun though!" message. It's not the end of the world by any means. I just find it's always beneficial to leave people with a positive (or at least neutral) impression of you. While you may not socialize with those people - you never know if they'll cross pat… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/01/17 04:07 PM |
| 5 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismI think it's disgusting to allow any child to undergo procedures/take medicine, or in any way promote/influence/convince kids that 'trans' is a normal, natural, and common state. The truth is, the number of actual trans people is microscopic, furthermore, it's a mental illness. If the kid still feels the same way when they're twenty - they can start crossdressing, and saving up money for hormones and procedures. Getting things tucked, turned inside out or extended are all cosmetic and voluntary … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/01/17 12:37 AM |
| 12 | Not being TOO politeAn easy fix, so you don't have to say something uncomfortable like ("I don't get on with the others...") - just say "Thanks for the invite, unfortunately I won't be able to attend." You don't owe anyone a reason, you just have to state that you won't be going. You can definitely stand up for yourself without potentially alienating people and being rude (even if you don't care for them). The truth is that as soon as you gave the reason, you ceased being polite....so your thesis for the FR doesn't… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 09:37 PM |
| 2 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?Have you seen anyone on this sub suggest that a woman should blindly and fully just hand over total and complete control to an unvetted, untrustworthy, uninterested, and commitment adverse man? | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 11:16 PM |
| 2 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?You can earn a man's trust and respect...without submitting to him and having him make decisions for your life. I've never said that women should "let a man make decisions" for her life. When married (or living together in an LTR, generally on the way to marriage) yes, there are decisions that should be heavily dependent on the man's perspective and desires. At that point (a serious LTR/marriage) it's not solely about the woman's life - it's about her life with the man. Similarly, there are sele… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 10:58 PM |
| 3 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?Based on what you've said, can you explain how a woman will earn trust and respect from her man prior to marriage if not through the means/approaches that are discussed on this sub? You stated in another comment that you agree with the FSM post, and I'm confused. How do you simultaneously say: So no, I don't believe you should submit to a man prior to him showing that he deserves it. Being yielding is fine. Deferring because he's proven competence is fine. Encouraged even. Life have taught me th… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 09:47 PM |
| 3 | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?The vetting process continues until you are married. Marriages can survive much more (in terms of difficulty, strain, conflict) than LTRs because marriage is a legal and binding contract. Even if you are living with your SO, both people are free to just walk away one day and there's nothing you can really do. Marriages have to go through the divorce process. The more diligent you are about vetting, improving your appeal, and making good decisions, the better your chances are for attracting and k… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 04:30 PM |
| 3 | The Modern Marriage Trap and What to Do About ItOr marry a woman with good character, compatible priorities, and no attitude. Women chasing a career (actively trying to climb the professional ladder and compete at work) are creating an impossible situation. If a woman just has a job to bring in extra money, then the approach is entirely different. She can put her family first and the job is second. Women today actively brag about not knowing how to cook and being to busy to put themselves together fully in the morning. It's sad and embarrassi… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/01/17 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Attachment Style Test!!!Relaxed (52.8%) and Engaging (2.8%). I think it makes sense that my Engaging score is almost right on the border between Engaging and Avoidant, because the Avoidant description definitely applies to me as well (particularly my introverted tendencies. As some other user's have mentioned, I think it's really unfortunate that many of the questions lump "friends and spouse/SO" together...there's also no distinction between professional connections, close friends, family, acquaintances, and spouse - … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/17 03:09 PM |
| 4 | The Modern Marriage Trap and What to Do About ItYep, I agree. The feminist machine is relentless and rots everything it touches. Women have become their own worst enemy, and they have no awareness of it either. It's really sad, but also really easy to see as soon as you escape the cult. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 07:36 PM |
| 4 | The Modern Marriage Trap and What to Do About ItI agree with everything you said. When I was reading it, I took it more as "here are things that have been noticed" in terms of results, problems, and outlooks. I agree that no time was dedicated to exploring possible solutions, contributing factors, or differing mentalities and priorities. I also wasn't expecting Time to do any of those things on a topic like this haha! It could have been really informative and profound had the author considered all the variables you mention, and that would hav… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 07:24 PM |
| 9 | The Modern Marriage Trap and What to Do About ItRight, the article is simply describing patterns and results, not trying to solve the conflicts that have been revealed. I haven't read it. If you are interested about vetting, read this. When things are more serious with a man (considering marriage or moving in) it's important to have a solid idea that you both share the same outlook for the future (financially, geographically, family life etc). My advice to all women concerned about this would be simple: go into every serious relationship (and… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill: Say something positive about Women /your Wife.You have to approve of an entire group in order to appreciate one piece of that group? So if I don't like art, or certain style of music, but I find one painting or a particular song that I enjoy - suddenly I'm 'internally' inconsistent? In any event I said an actual challenge would be for BP users to say something nice about RP and/or RP users. Not that they should or need to. It's also retarded to assume/conclude that RP hates women, all women, that there are no exceptions to that broiling hat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill: Say something positive about Women /your Wife.It's not hard for [male] RP users to say nice, accurate things about the women they have decided to be with in a relationship or marry. I think the bigger challenge would be to have BP users say nice things about RP ideas/concepts, and RP users. The Red Pill Wives sub is all about loving, appreciating, and praising the men in our lives....so doing what this thread asks can just be summed up as "normal." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/17 02:24 AM |
| 1 | A subreddit for the rights of both gendersUhhh no..... Not at all. I'm a nurse, I see this shit firsthand all the time. 2 people disagree on treatment, and guess what we do? Go with whatever the patient decides 100% of the time. My point is that a conversation takes place between the people involved. It's not "susie finds out she has cancer, never tells anyone, and starts chemo without ever telling a loved one." I'm also not saying that a man should be able to force a woman into an abortion or into carrying to term. But there should be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/17 07:33 PM |
| 2 | A subreddit for the rights of both gendersA medical abortion has nothing to do with gender. It is like donating blood or an organ. Neither gender gets a say in their partners health care decisions. Medical procedures that affect more than one person (deciding treatment for cancer for example, fighting a disease, having a risky procedure) are generally made between the couple/spouse with consideration to children etc. If a single person decides to have a boob job, and they're paying for it - there is no obligation put on the BF to subseq… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | A subreddit for the rights of both gendersWhat is 1 genders rights that impedes on the other gender? Abortion. "Her body, her choice" meaning that even if the man wants the kid - the woman can have an abortion without ever even telling him she's pregnant. Alternatively, if the man does not want the kid - she has final and complete say in carrying it to term. He doesn't have the option of a financial abortion (ie he is not responsible for childcare, because he didn't want the kid, but she went through with it anyway). Rape/abuse. In the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/17 04:06 PM |
| 3 | CMV: When a man really likes a woman, he commits straight away.In my personal experience, when a man really likes a woman and wants a relationship with her, he makes it obvious from very, very early on. He will be on his best behaviour with her, he will be the one asking to see her more often, and he will be the one asking for commitment. This has always been my experience as well. This description also mirrors what my married friends and relatives went through with their men. I don't know anyone in an LTR (that's lasted for more than two years) that had to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whySecond photo - he looks like an actual man. He's rugged (facial hair, looks masculine, mature), and fit - but his muscles don't look like the product of countless vanity hours at a gym. His physique looks 'earned' through actual work in the real world. The first photo looks like a 12 year old's face photoshopped onto some freak. He looks like a chump that would cry over a splinter. The fake 'cry-baby' face/brow is very typical in a lot of male models. I prefer the casual/effortless brooding of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 06:10 AM |
| 1 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!You can't 'RPW' an abusive/unhealthy/unbalanced relationship into a state of bliss. This community is not a magic bullet, there are clear limitations - which are addressed in the wiki and the description of the sub. This is a community to help normal women create healthy relationships. It sounds like your marriage falls outside the boundaries of 'healthy' and you need to get help. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 11:14 PM |
| 1 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!/u/rubyred1010 it's ridiculous to be with someone that forbids you from interacting with people because they knew a guy you dated once. Yes, it's insane, and it's necessary to say so because you seem to think it's normal. You don't have friends, you don't have contact with your family because your husband forbids it and that doesn't raise a million red-flags in your head? Especially when the reason for that rule is "they knew the guy you used to date"?? How do you rationalize this extreme isolat… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 11:03 PM |
| 3 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!WTF is wrong with you and your H? You sound insane. You aren't allowed to talk to family? You have no friends? This is a sub for normal humans with functioning relationships and healthy marriages. Therapy is a great idea. When I asked him after my ectopic if I could go he said NO. If I could talk to my mom or sister, he said NO. Forget about girlfriends, I have none. I'm not allowed to talk to anyone that even met my ex. This is sick and abnormal, and extremely unhealthy if true. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 09:04 PM |
| 7 | Please help me learn how to forgive my husbandYou're comparing apples to arsenic here. Lying about an affair to avoid conflict/being exposed as a cheater vs. Lying about taking charity so his family can have some good food, and spare himself the embarrassment of having to admit/express his continued failure to be a competent bread-earner. He did not do this to hurt, humiliate, or maliciously deceive you. If things have been going well, and you have forgiven him, and everything is great aside from money - then you're being too harsh. Here's … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 06:49 PM |
| 3 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!Bullet points simply because I don't have the time or the energy to fully write out my thoughts. Your husband is a widower. Presumably you knew this prior to marrying him. This woman is dead. This fact will forever enshrine her in his mind and his heart as a woman of perfection. He will always worship and mourn her passing. You will never replace his first wife, nor should you even try to. Bringing her up in an argument, or as a tool to shame him is entirely unacceptable and is not an option. Yo… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 23, 2016I have a cardigan by her, and it's great! I like a lot of the dresses, I've seen by her. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/16 08:56 PM |
| 3 | x-post from r/wholesomememes- 2017 Mood! Ladies, what are your New Years Resolutions?Interesting. The only 'mood' I've really noticed [cared about] since the 80's is "happy" - because that's my default setting and over time, I really only remember/focus on positive things. According to some sections of the population, 'current year' is worse than all previous wars and plagues combined - especially in the US. (eyeroll) | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 12:10 AM |
| 6 | Show respect... even if you know the answer.This is a nice update, and fits very well with a "measure twice, cut once" mentality. Even if you know (or think you know) what the answer will be, it's always beneficial to err on the side of caution. As you point out, that extra step shows a tremendous amount of consideration, respect, and awareness - all things that are particularly hard to 'go overboard' on. The best part is that this mindset can (and should) be applied to many areas of your life. Simple, versatile, and always relevant. I'm … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 09:33 PM |
| 5 | x-post from r/wholesomememes- 2017 Mood! Ladies, what are your New Years Resolutions?Hi /u/chairman_mau5, thanks for sharing this xpost! I think it's worthwhile to focus the discussion on saying 'thank you' vs 'sorry.' /u/tintedlipbalm wrote a post on this exact subject a while back, and it's definitely worth [re-]reading. :0) We are having a dedicated New Year's Eve Megathread coming up later in the month that will cover several topics, including resolutions. For that reason, the discussion here should emphasize the idea of saying 'Thank you' vs 'sorry' and similar ideas. Also,… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Weight concernsPlease be sure to listen to what /u/CoochQuarantine and /u/StingrayVC are saying when they state that you are trying to change him, just as I pointed out in my initial comment to you. The change you desire is a physical one, and it also requires behavioral shifts as well. Focus on yourself, there is so much you have to start doing not only for your own well-being, but also for the well-being of your family. I cannot emphasize enough how important your eating habits will affect your child. Not th… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 03:31 PM |
| 2 | "Wearing a veil and hiding the body is a form of protection"Nope, there is no 'free speech' here - which is clearly outlined in the rules and the wiki. This is a community with a specific purpose, world-view, and focus. Participation within the community is determined (in large part) by whether or not someone understands and follows those rules. Go bother someone else with your whining. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/16 10:26 PM |
| 2 | "Wearing a veil and hiding the body is a form of protection"This is an anti-feminist community, not a debate forum. Your personal definition of feminism is irrelevant. Do not promote feminist ideology or ask others to defend the fundamental ideas this subreddit is based on. Rudeness and disrespect, especially towards Endorsed Contributors and moderators will not be tolerated. Trolling, concern trolling and tone policing are not allowed. Due to the fact that you have steam-rolled over three community rules, I am issuing you a warning. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/16 08:53 PM |
| 2 | "Wearing a veil and hiding the body is a form of protection"Rape culture panic is not the answer No, 1 in 5 women have not been raped on college campuses Sex-seeking, men, women and dominance hierarchies Debunking the '1 in 5'.. If rape is so out of control insane on campuses, how is anyone functioning, and why are parents sending kids to these institutional prostitute factories? Maybe because no one really believes that rape is so prevalent or that there's a serious danger to their kid's safety. You have feminism to thank for making things up, and bomba… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/16 08:33 PM |
| 14 | Weight concernsI don't want to change my husband. Unfortunately, this is a lie. True, you do not want to change his personality, or his efforts to be an engaging father and reliable provider. But you do want him to re-allocate his time and focus considerably into an area that he currently does not have any interest in. From your post, it sounds like this has never been something he's made time to do? Up until now it's more or less been his youth and good genes that have helped. I'd also like to point out that … | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/16 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Female dread gameI really love that you outlined all these concepts, at the same time, I think it doesn't specifically relate to the idea of 'increased stakes' and higher tension. In my mind, a level 6 issue for a married woman (possibly a sudden development of irresponsible financial behavior from the man) has nothing to do (and won't be remedied) by cooking more home meals. It's not at all that I dislike anything that you wrote, I think it's a great list of common things, and different aspects of RPW game. :0)… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Female dread gameThe impression you got ("I thought he was asking about women applying the male form of dread game and if it was applicable.") is exactly what I addressed and clarified in my own comment, and my response to you. It's not that RPW will implement an exact clone of 'male dread' just as RP says "men and women are different, and place different emphasis on certain goals" so too will male dread and female desire [dread] emphasize different things and target different goals. Males want sex Women want co… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Female dread gameBy 'staged approaches' I believe yeti is referring to the two conditions posited: A single woman seeking commitment A married/LTR woman seeking change He's also asking for new ideas about what 'female desire' [dread] would look like. is intended to be fuel for a discussion where you can discuss Dread game, and propose your ideas on stages of dread in a similar way to the structure used by TRP. Similar structure (having increasing 'stages') and not 'exact replica.' We should dig beyond the surfac… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Female dread gameMale Dread is more proactive and is constructed in a way that both influences and directs a woman’s intentions, interest, and cooperation (hopefully her sexual interest will increase and her willingness to be a more engaging participant in the dynamic sexually). Keeping the Leader/Follower system in mind, it makes sense that ‘male dread’ involves more overt ‘possible consequences’ (actions) for a woman’s continued disinterest (sexual inaction). On the other side of the coin, ‘Female Dread’ (whic… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexual StrategyThank you for writing up this translation! I really hope it gets through, because I sure as sh-t didn't. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyConversations like this are why I'm glad I'm not a man. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexual StrategyNo one, anywhere, is talking about 'morality.' You just created some weird 'moral' angle out of the blue. You are being hyper technical. "You are responsible for how you present yourself to the world and how you behave" ie "you are responsible for the perception you promote" ie "how people will perceive you is entirely within your control" --- does NOT mean "mind control" "morally obligated to make sure people don't assume incorrect things about you" or that "you are maliciously concocting a dec… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:06 PM |
| 1 | "Wearing a veil and hiding the body is a form of protection"Drives me insane. "A car was stolen! Our society glorifies stealing cars! There's no justice for people that have had their cars stolen!" Right, we have no laws against that, no gps tracking, or locks on doors, no insurance, or DMV and paperwork, or license plates, or personal 'housing' facilities for cars (garages)...nope. We do absolutely nothing to stop cars from being stolen, and we actively celebrate and encourage the process of stealing cars. Being upset over having your car stolen is neve… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 04:25 PM |
| 2 | "Wearing a veil and hiding the body is a form of protection"Women do not walk around in broad daylight on a regular, every day basis, in fear that they will be violently raped. Men have their lives ruined over false accusations, even when their name is cleared, the parameters for rape are broad, and vague. We have standards for appropriate interaction in places of business, at schools, and in public. We have laws, and punish perpetrators, we have hot lines, support services, shelters, foundations, continually expanding and mandatory 'sensitivity' trainin… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexual StrategyEdit2: words are hard :p It's morning, I've mulled this over, and yes, I maintain that I am not responsible for someone's false perception of me. It would be difficult to live my life if I'm constantly assessing whether people are thinking of me the right way; I've made that mistake before, still do, and what happens is that I would get too self-conscious and prevent myself from being honest & authentic... and normal, lol. You are misunderstanding what I am driving at, furthermore you are taking… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyYou ignored the rest of my comment and cherry-picked that sentence concluding statement? Everything prior to that explains how single women are responsible for the perception men have of them when they are single, and that RPW is not an amoral application of RP ideas/concepts, and that your line of logic is detrimental and risky (at best). You zeroed in on a concluding statement so as to ignore the rest of the comment? Read Camille's reply. She says everything in a more detailed (and patient) ma… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyEvery word of your comment (except the portions you quoted from the OP) are precisely the opposite in thought, spirit, and execution of what this community promotes. You have successfully hamstered RP(W) ideas into a BP narrative of manipulation steeped in a highly corrosive dose of 'anything goes' type thinking that destroys women. Your 'logic' encourages women to 'just do whatever' which in the process lowers their SMV and RMV in a truly staggering manner. Delete every word you just wrote from… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyHey there, I'm going to read your comment but I think you accidentally wrote a reply to yourself when you meant to reply to me. :0) I told her point blank I didn't agree with that analogy, but I do understand what she means on a larger scale about how both genders clearly have issues and it currently is an 'us' vs 'them'. In the more generalized large scale sense, yes I agree with and understand the opposing views/friction between MRAs and Feminists...but really most disagreements (and wars for … | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyI agree with the part about it being the highest form of commitment (obviously), but - and this isn't opposing what's written at all, just elaborating - I feel like the other positive attributes are really more true of marriages in the past as opposed to today. They are still present...just (regrettably) less so. Marriage doesn't seem to be held in the proper respect anymore. Thoughts? Regardless of historical and current ‘treatments’ of marriage - it’s still the highest form of commitment. but … | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:13 AM |
| 6 | A Military RantLove this rant, and what this man has to say. When dealing with life and death: you need to be surrounded by people you can trust (ie: they can/will pull their own weight), and be as prepared (for situations that cannot be prepared for) as much as possible. I believe in streamlined processing. For example if you are between 18-22 (male or female) there's a standardized set of tests (physical) and appropriate 'pass' ranges. The standard should be based solely on the original male qualifying range… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 07:12 PM |
| 5 | "Wearing a veil and hiding the body is a form of protection"It is terrifying all around. The left perpetuating false panic (and creating a 'boy who cried wolf response' by desensitizing the public to the idea of what 'rape culture' actually looks like) and then the actual people that believe it's okay to physically assault and rape women for not wearing veils or covering up properly.....but as someone else (I think in the IRC?) pointed out - women still get raped even when they are covered head to toe and punished for it! (being raped). They blame women.… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 07:03 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill Movie - A ReviewI've never met a transperson in real life. If I have, they 'pass' as the gender they picked, and that's really the only criteria/scrutiny I have. "If you look like the gender you are trying to pass as, I won't notice you as 'different' in any way, and you'll just be another woman or man I interact with - unless you go out of your way to bring it up." If the person can't pass, but is clearly trying to, I'd still be polite/nice, but YES it will stand out and be something I notice. I don't meet hun… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 04:02 PM |
| 22 | "Wearing a veil and hiding the body is a form of protection"This isn't in the US (obviously) - but I think it's really important for people to see and understand exactly how much of a literal rape culture this 'religion of peace' promotes, justifies, and defends. Even when they are refugees/immigrants. Women are to blame for being attacked, because any indication that they have a body is seen as a green-light to touch, or worse. This is why I can't take the left/feminists seriously when they say the US promotes/has a 'rape culture' while at the same time… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 03:19 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill Movie - A ReviewThanks for linking this, I haven't read it yet! :0) Yes, the left is a powder keg in many ways, because their base depends on having (and identifying) victims and 'people that need to be protected.' This leads to problems though, because if your entire group is just a hierarchy of 'victims' at some point you have to start ranking those victims and prioritize some over others due to how 'oppressed/disenfranchised etc' they are. The feminists don't want to lose the running narration that they are … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 02:57 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?Hi there /u/darla10 this sub deals specifically with the female side of RP ideas. This means that boundaries, & cheating are absolutely important & essential. Male RP approaches do not apply here. User's aren't trying to date plate spinners, or men that do not value exclusive LTRs & marriage. The women here are either already with good men that want exclusivity, or they are searching for a good man that is interested in exclusivity/marriage/family. RP for men is not identical for RP for women. M… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 03:52 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill Movie - A ReviewGlad to hear the movie is worth seeing! There aren't any nearby shows here, but hopefully it will be available online at some point in the future. As for the anti-feminist gay man angle, Milo Yiannopoulos is a good place to start. It makes a lot of sense that gay men are against modern feminism. Consider the following: modern feminism has made men The ultimate evil, any men that behave as men are 'toxic,' and feminism focuses so much on the priorities of women while largely ignoring/discarding m… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 03:10 AM |
| 10 | [AskRPW] First time poster - Two years single, how do I start dating again?Hi there, /u/HardRockB and welcome! It sounds like you have a lot of different things you need to figure out before you start dating. Improving your personality, self-esteem, awareness, and physical appearance should absolutely be your top priorities for now. Dedicate your energy towards improving your personality, behavior, and physical appearance for the next 4-6 months. At the end of that time, re-evaluate yourself. You have a history of picking men for the wrong reasons, so learning to recog… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 03:04 PM |
| 1 | For women who dislike prostitution, where does your aversion come from?Also weird, and I wouldn't understand the point. If she's bi/lesbian I guess that makes a bit more sense - but still unusual and I'm not sure why she would go. I would flat out think any female friend that did this (and talked about it) to be odd/unusual (in a negative way). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 05:26 AM |
| 1 | For women who dislike prostitution, where does your aversion come from?A man could be a 10/10 billionaire Chad ubermensch, but if I catch wind that he hits up prostitutes he's instantly delegated to omega status. Robert Downey Jr. has a long history of drug use, and hiring prostitutes. Do you put him in the same category out of curiosity? I ask because I've noticed a lot of women really like him. Not only because of his reformed bad-boy comeback, but also because he's still cheeky, clever, and attractive. The thought of a woman working as a prostitute grosses me ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Lessons From My MotherThis is a good point and I can actually say (along with, I would wager, many people here) that for me it's the opposite. All day long I run on high-intensity/stress mode and then when I get home I just collapse into a ball of relaxedness with R on the couch. I might be on the verge of screaming at someone in public, but it basically melts away when I get home. YES! Exactly. Home is a stronghold that protects me from the cacophony of the world. Occam acts as a travel friendly energy charger, and … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Lessons From My MotherI would be interested in seeing anyone's assessment on why people can divide themselves so distinctly into one authentically good person in so many areas of life, and then into something authentically awful in the context of a romantic relationship. I think [part of it] has to do with public vs private perception, obligation, rewards. When it comes to career, most people find their day to life is easier and they can get more if they are thought well of, and considered dependable in their job. Ob… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherAlthough imperfect, I think it's really great that you can have honest conversations about your mom's relationship and your own (to an extent). I love the qualifications you made as well (she's a fantastic mother/friend/neighbor, just not the best wife) and that you recognize your step-dad's flaws as well. My parents are fantastic. Loving, supportive, and they value family a lot. They've been married forever, and they have their 'patterns' worked out. They clearly love each other, even if they a… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 07:13 PM |
| 6 | Female Sexual StrategyThis is such a useful descriptive blueprint that creates a uniform foundation to build off of. Understanding different concepts, and how the moving parts influence each other, allows this community to formulate specific and effective processes that not only increase the chance of success but also execute goals in a way that leads to the best outcome in terms of quality and fulfillment. There may not be a 'RP' way to brush you hair, but understanding the physical appeal and allure that goes along… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 09:29 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?I've never encountered a non-religious woman that feels so strongly about porn being a deal-breaker before, it's both interesting and unusual. Your own comments, along with Camille's observation that you were using a more biblical definition, and the fact that you quoted the bible - are all the reasons why I thought you (and your husband) are religious. Are you saying that you are not religious? Yes, non-religious women can have the same opinion as you do. It's still an opinion, and a moralistic… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 09:18 PM |
| 4 | How Do You Define Cheating?Hi there /u/rpw111528, I think there are several different things going on here. There is your personal opinion about cheating, that is informed (and shaped by) your religious beliefs. You believe that watching porn counts as cheating. There's the 'don't control men' angle that both you and /u/tempesttcup are addressing in different ways. You are saying that men are confined to a box if they are categorized as wholesale 'porn viewers' (and by extension that it's somehow unmasculine for a man to … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Don't be Daisy DuckYes they are sisters, specifically triplets. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Don't be Daisy DuckThank you, there's still a lot I'm fleshing out. The exchanges on this thread have been really helpful because I'm using my knowledge of the films to focus on different aspects that I hadn't planned on talking about. I also reorganized my outline a bit, I think I'll have one dedicated section to talk about relationships with parents. Previously, I just mentioned the relationship as I covered each princess, but I think it will be easier to notice similarities and differences if all the informatio… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 06:05 PM |
| 1 | [ADVICE] I feel like I have to be in charge of everything in our marriage and it's stressing me outSeems very likely. She generally seems to make some small adjustments after conversations like this. The community has pushed her along, and despite her protests and 'indignation' she inevitably comes around after cooling off a bit. Hopefully these comments and the IRC convo will stay with her moving forward. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 01:54 AM |
| 8 | [ADVICE] I feel like I have to be in charge of everything in our marriage and it's stressing me outI suspect that his insistence about a climax has more to do with her overall lack of enthusiasm and interest, or maybe she used to make a big show of it early on. Whenever I hear someone saying that the man 'insists' that the woman has a grand-finale, he's generally saying in a round-about way that she doesn't seem to enjoy herself, or give him positive/interactive feedback during the process. No one wants to deal with a starfish. She can't be bothered to hide a bad mood, so I doubt she's trying… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 01:49 AM |
| 8 | [ADVICE] I feel like I have to be in charge of everything in our marriage and it's stressing me outEmotional and behavioral issues (BPD, depression etc) are red flags, and flaws that always color every aspect of a person's life. Furthermore it's often used as an excuse for laziness, and sh-tty behavior. I have seen you use your depression, tiredness, and low energy as a way to try and paint your H as mean and insensitive. User history is always relevant, because it fills in the blank spaces, and gives people a better sense of your priorities, behavior, and thought processes. Given your specif… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 12:09 AM |
| 10 | [ADVICE] I feel like I have to be in charge of everything in our marriage and it's stressing me outBackground: This woman is lazy, messy, and complains continually when her H wants her to be up/awake and do things with him at 10AM or something on the weekends. She has a history of depression, is resentful, and selfish. A bunch of people have talked to her repeatedly in IRC, sometimes having to tell her the most basic things (ie "instead of chatting right now, go clean something!"). She's made small improvements, but inevitably it boils back down to this. OP and her H are both 'bruised pears' … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016That would be so great, but I completely understand that you have time limitations! I actually have a doc now where I just go and write down ideas or thoughts in the hopes I'll be able to get back to them at some point. I'm so glad you shared this article though, cause I hadn't seen it and I've been very interesting in following this situation. He articulates things so well, and I know that when he was younger, he was politically active on the left, and that's what made him to begin to realize t… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016I just finished reading this article, it's so well done! I think this absolutely deserves it's own thread, but I know that summarizing the points that he makes is no small thing. There's a Rebel Media interview, where he and a grad student explain how SJWs and the left are actually two distinct groups, and it's based on a mother-child bond in many ways. Here's the video and I think you'll enjoy it. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016I've watched a few of his lectures, and I've been following his story throughout this process. He is also setting up a website that has some great research articles. I want to have a discussion about some of his material/interviews here at some point. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPYeah, I can see VR changing a lot of things. I did the "Kitchen" trial (for a horror game, Resident Evil I think) and it's extremely unnerving and stressful. You just aren't prepared to have NPC characters interact with you like that, reach out, or threaten you with a knife. It's really powerful to be put in first person perspectives that you aren't used to (driving a car and seeing the road come at you, or being able to play as Batman for example). I can easily see devices being created specifi… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 06:38 PM |
| 2 | 1,500 People Give All the Relationship Advice You'll Ever Need - Mark Manson looks at why the relationships that last, lastYes - I loved the emphasis on love as a choice, and a persistent way of treating, talking about, and thinking of someone. It's not something that just 'happens.' | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 06:31 PM |
| 1 | 1,500 People Give All the Relationship Advice You'll Ever Need - Mark Manson looks at why the relationships that last, lastRespect for your partner and respect for yourself are intertwined. As a reader named Olov put it, “Respect yourself and your wife. Never talk badly to or about her. If you don’t respect your wife, you don’t respect yourself. You chose her – live up to that choice.” So what does respect look like? Common examples given by many readers: NEVER talk shit about your partner or complain about them to your friends. If you have a problem with your partner, you should be having that conversation with the… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 06:28 PM |
| 3 | I'm Going to See The RedPill Movie TonightI wonder why they didn't try to set it up as an online purchase, or for rent on a few different sites? That would seem like the easier (and more profitable) way to show the movie. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Don't be Daisy DuckI'm glad I'm not the only one! Snow White was made in 1937, and that singing style does remind me of some other popular singers from that time. For example this has a similar 'wobble' in the singer's voice (but lower) to what you hear with Snow White. Snow White's hair and voice reminds me a lot of certain things from the 20's and 30's. Snow white has one of the 'heavier' makeup looks and that, along with her shorter hair - is reminiscent of the the 1920's you can read more about it here. Cinder… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Don't be Daisy DuckThanks, my comments are fairly muddled, but these exchanges are so much fun because I'm thinking of things that I have noticed but not focused on all that much. Whenever I have some down time, I usually pull up the doc and start making notes. Occam even got copies of all the movies I'm looking at. I've been putting off Snow White, because it's my least favorite movie and I find her really annoying (high pitched voice). | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Don't be Daisy DuckIt's interesting because not only does everyone in the town like Gaston - even Belle's father mentions him as a possible suitor. Similarly, Chief Powhatan wants Pocahontas to marry Kocoum. Jane (Tarzan) is unusual, because she ultimately only stays after her father tells her to, because she's clearly in love with Tarzan. Triton only approves of Eric and sees him as a suitable match because of the lengths Ariel has gone to to be with him (making a deal with a witch, risking her life) and he says,… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 05:34 PM |
| 7 | Don't be Daisy DuckI never understood why the entire castle and all the servants were cursed along with the prince either. I really like the movie, and I can understand the themes they were driving at (don't judge a book by its cover, beauty is only skin deep). Belle grew to care for and love the beast despite his exterior - the message being that she cared more about his personality. At the start of the movie, she is scared of him, and finds him physically unnerving, and she dislikes his personality. As he starts… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Don't be Daisy DuckThe Emperor from Mulan makes a similar statement "you don't find a woman like that every DYNASTY" - he can't see into the future, and he's old but not ancient. I agree it is interesting and I do enjoy theories like this, even if I often don't agree with them, I do think they are a lot of fun. There was an article I read about how Belle isn't vain, or she is the least self-obsessed princess... Something along those lines...and I disgree with that evaluation quite a bit. Thank you for sharing the … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Don't be Daisy DuckIt's interesting, but I disagree with the core idea that the genie 'can see into the future.' The quote used to back up this fact is succinctly explained by another user: ALADDIN: But Genie, what about your freedom? GENIE: Hey, it's only an eternity of servitude. This is love. (He leans down next to Jasmine.) Al, you're not gonna find another girl like her in a million years. Believe me, I know. I've looked. That sounds more like Genie has been looking for love for a million years and hasn't fou… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:47 PM |
| 7 | Don't be Daisy DuckAriel was younger 16 or so I think? Her rebellion is typical "kid wants to push boundaries and go after the 'bad' boy" which really just means "guy parent(s) disapprove of". She actually does have proper respect of her father (displayed both by expressions of fear and regret). For example she begs him not to destroy her treasures, she doesn't angrily yell at him or try to throw her weight around (she grabs his arm and yells 'Please no!' but Triton continues on because he believes in discipline a… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Don't be Daisy DuckAladdin wasn't born with into royalty, but he was kind, loyal, and protective. He is clever and has a pure heart. He may be a bit ragged around the edges (in the rough) but he is still a 'diamond'. Aladdin is one of my favorite movies, and i love the friendship between Aladdin, Genie, Abu, and the magic carpet. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 02:50 PM |
| 1 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"Here is the Elvis Presley "Christmas Duets" album. I still want to say there's another posthumous collection of duets that featured a variety of artists. If I find it, I'll let you know. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 01:31 AM |
| 1 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"I know Bing Crosby did a version with Jimmy Sterwart link but as far as I can tell you have to buy it. I know there are other cd compilations, where a modern day singer does does a song with a previously recorded (now deceased) famous artist. Elvis Presley and Michael Buble sing "Fever". There's a whole album that I can't find now....but it's different (modern) artists singing with (now deceased) singers. It was a mix of men and women...and I can't remember if it was an entire album of duets wit… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 01:23 AM |
| 1 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"This is correct, they never recorded the song together, the version I'm thinking of (and it's one of the most widely known recordings) was actually sung by Margaret Whiting and Johnny Mercer. Explains why I couldn't find that version too haha! The Dean Martin version is the other really well known version, and I linked it in the original post. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 12:48 AM |
| 5 | Don't be Daisy DuckI never particularly liked Jasmine as a 'person' - even when I was younger. Part of the reason why I'm looking at the different movies is because I'm tired of claims like "they all look the same" and/or that they have no distinct motivations or personality. I disagree (strongly) with all those notions, and the 'self-esteem crippling' and 'personal growth' limitations feminists claim these characters have on young girls is so ludicrous I finally decided to sit down and explain exactly how and why… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Men and ROMCOMSI have no dog in this fight either way - I just wanted to say that "Rom Com" isn't one single genre - it's a blending of two genres (romance and comedy). When describing movies, I'll generally use the 2-3 most relevant descriptions. For example: Princess Bride would be "Rom com action." There are equal parts of romance, comedy, and action throughout the movie. At the same time, I can understand why someone else would describe it as an action fantasy. I would describe Deadpool in the same way - w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/16 11:15 PM |
| 6 | Don't be Daisy DuckI'm working on a longer post about some of the Disney Princesses, but Jasmine is a poor example when it comes to kindness, femininity, and respect. She ignores argues with, and berates her own father for starters. She manipulates people, and has no qualms about deception or lying (she pretends to be a peasant with Aladdin at the start, pretends to be attracted to Jafar). She is self-absorbed and doesn't bother to understand people (she feels only disgust when Aladdin shows her the view of the pa… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Female Nature and Advice for Young LadiesThanks for sharing this Tempy! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 06:43 PM |
| 4 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"One of my biggest pet peeves happens to be when people apply 'current values and morals' to historical events, documents, songs, movies etc - and in the process deem them 'inferior' or 'flawed.' The purpose is to observe and understand those things through the 'eyes' of that time, because that's the only way you can really even begin to understand the effects and context of different things. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPVR systems are now finally starting to enter the market, and the technology is really impressive. Some computer systems require a designated amount of floor space, others have the ability to register and map over obstacles, and the PS VR is more affordable, and is mostly meant to allow the person to play sitting down or standing still. On top of having real life sex dolls, or something more advanced like what you linked in the thread - I think there will also be an immersive VR line of equipment… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 05:56 PM |
| 4 | Present Ideas, Holiday cards and LettersI know some families that just donate money to a charity of choice instead of exchanging presents. I think it's a really nice alternative. My family is fairly practical. We have a 'secret santa' (it's the same person every year), and a budget. Normally everyone just sends a link to the thing they want. It's very convenient. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 05:23 PM |
| 6 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"Yeah, when most relationships 'start' because of ideas like 'netflix and chill' (this existed prior to Netflix of course), but it's really unfortunate how many people just don't know what to do on a date...or even how to have one. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 05:08 PM |
| 4 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"Yes, it's incredible how much people do not understand the concept of flirting. Women seem to just go straight to the ball-busting (in a non friendly, coy manner) today. Teasing men used to be entirely fine, because women didn't actually believe what they were saying. It was just a way to open up a dialogue that encouraged the man to 'prove' the woman wrong. In the musical "Oklahoma!" the song "I'm just a girl that can't say 'no'" the character proclaims: other girls are coy and hard to catch bu… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 05:03 PM |
| 1 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"Yep Occam showed that to me. There's another song I'm trying to remember by someone else (I just asked him and he knew right away what I was talking about) "Do The Evolution" by Pearl Jam. He also told me that the reason this video reminded me of the other one is because it's the same artist! Same artist for both videos, Todd McFarlane. He made the Spawn, Lady Death, and associated comic franchises. "The studio has produced acclaimed music videos for Pearl Jam's "Do the Evolution" (1998), KoЯn's… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:52 PM |
| 2 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"Exactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:45 PM |
| 1 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"It's really funny how everyone that has either never like (or ever listened to Disturbed is really excited about this song (it's very different from what they normally do). I agree, his voice is so powerful, I think it's a shame Beyonce has that POS nominated in the same category. The music video (and the entire "Lemonade" album) looks like a spirit cooking, satan worshipping creep show. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:31 PM |
| 2 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"OOo I haven't watched "Blurred Lines" yet, will go find! I know that was another song that got a retarded 'feminist friendly' sprucing. eyeroll | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:28 PM |
| 3 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"One of the comments said "the only believable part is when the guy gets off the bed" hahah! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:17 PM |
| 3 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"I really like the Bing Crosby/Doris Day version, but I couldn't find a good video of it on youtube. I love parody songs (I can listen to the Weird Al "Hardware Store" song over and over again) and remakes (I have yet to hear a version of "Hallelujah" that I dislike) - so that's not at all what I take issue with. I laughed at some of the youtube comments remarking that there are some rap songs that are more deserving of a 'consent friendly' re-write. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:04 PM |
| 1 | So my boss refered to me as his work wife...Glad to hear it! The more you practice enforcing personal boundaries (both personally and professionally) the easier it will become. It sounds like you handled things well, and it's great that you have a plan of action if he doesn't follow through. Please give us an update in a month or so. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:33 AM |
| 3 | So my boss refered to me as his work wife...Glad you commented because it made me realize I didn't copy over my statement about her failing to enforce boundaries. I went back and fixed it. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/16 03:27 AM |
| 2 | So my boss refered to me as his work wife...Other user's covered her failure to define and enforce boundaries, so I stated that aspect in one sentence. I did this in my original comment (literally stated: "you failed to establish boundaries"), said that there was a prior comment I wanted to find/link. After I found it, I then posted my (current) first comment as a new one entirely so OP would see. I didn't copy the first sentence over, so that's why you don't see it. I'll go back to add it in again - because it is important. I quoted the … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/16 03:15 AM |
| 2 | So my boss refered to me as his work wife...(Adding this in from my original comment that I deleted when I wrote this as a new comment. Thanks to /u/sunhappy_dc. Her reply to another comment I wrote made me realize that I omitted this the second time around). This was a failure on your part in that you did not put a stop to inappropriate behavior and define boundaries. Either you or someone else posted this exact situation previously. Edit: found the comment /u/tryanotherjuan is a fantastic member of the community with a highly demanding/… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions - December 03, 2016You're not missing anything. Some people struggle to create (and stick to) a budget. If everything is planned for and under control - then there's nothing to worry about! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 07:37 PM |
| 3 | [FR] It pays off to be a lady!This is a wonderful FR! It's great that you are noticing all these positive changes, not only in how you view yourself, but also how others are responding to you. Not all women are fighting controlling attitudes and combative personality traits. You acknowledge that femininity extends beyond the physical, and that the mentality you cultivate is extremely important. There's absolutely nothing wrong with exploring different ways to present yourself to the world, and observing how that influences p… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Sharing the load when it comes to making and running a homeMy responsibilities are: paying bills scheduling for maintenance/deliveries cleaning cooking keeping important records up to date (house/car/big ticket items) researching new possible projects (either something that I come up with or Occam expresses an interest in) What needs to be purchased (groceries) is my responsibility, but we always go together. helping Occam if he's building or installing something Occam does all the heavy lifting, will makes plans for something and then fill me in, or te… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Feeling unmotivated after husband's comments"I am old, but my hand can drive this needle into your neck before you can escape me." :0) Awesome username. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/16 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Feeling unmotivated after husband's commentsIgnore, that's a troll. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/16 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Simple Questions - December 03, 2016There are a lot of great shops on etsy that will customize pieces to your measurements without any additional cost. As long as you read the reviews and go with a store that has a decent selection and positive feedback, you can find some really great designs. Modcloth is also very popular, the user reviews generally include personal measurements as well as the size of the garment purchased. Style of a London Tall Girl is a blog that has some interesting shop resources as well. You can also check … | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 09:26 PM |
| 3 | "Trolling 'Safe Space' Social Justice WarriorsSo the rich white males are the reason why rich, white, and males (all three for the tri-fecta) are quickly becoming the new 'great evil'? Crony capitalism exists in every political party. Neocons and 'progressives' like Hillary perpetuate exactly what you're talking about. Look at Zoe Q. and Anita going to the U.N., look at Canada and legislation being passed to control personal pronoun use. College campuses are redefining what constitutes 'proof' when it comes to rape and harassment. Kangaroo … | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 03:14 AM |
| 4 | "Trolling 'Safe Space' Social Justice WarriorsHard to consider the insanity of feminism and SJW's as a sub-culture when so many of their values and beliefs are defended/lauded in society. 'Rape culture' hysteria has given women the power to get men fired, and ruin their lives because of 'inappropriate language.' 'Safe space' demands are forcing people to watch everything they say, and campuses are becoming victim training facilities. I don't consider it a 'fringe' presence, and I don't think ignoring the very real efforts being made to cont… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How to respectfully disagree?No. You can't. Fuck off. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 04:27 PM |
| 2 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!Even a broken clock is right twice a day. "Praise, support, and give your spouse a confidence boost" isn't exactly earth-shattering advice haha. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 04:05 PM |
| 5 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!This advice is not applicable here. Advice given needs to be actionable and relevant to the OP - in this case a wife. All advice given must be in line with RPW concepts and theories. The moderation team has the sole and final responsibility in determining if advice is beneficial for the OP. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 04:02 PM |
| 1 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!I don't know what in the world you are trying to say, but this is all horrible. I have removed your comment. You can try editing it to include actual advice that is relevant to this sub, and useful to a wife, or you can move on. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 04:01 PM |
| 2 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!Ignore whatever that word vomit was. It's useless, vague, and sh-t advice. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How to respectfully disagree?You sound like a massive cunt. Again, it's possible this is a reasonable response. It's also possible you are a psychotic bitch. No one knows, because you're playing 'look at me' without actually saying anything. I hope your H sees this so he can understand how little you value him. Or maybe this is a reasonable thing to say because he beats your children daily and pimps them out to pedophiles, because that's the kind of thing that warrants a statement like "guess I should have vetted better" wh… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 03:44 PM |
| 2 | How to respectfully disagree?/u/rkelley728 this is all a massive load of bullshit for the record. "I'm highly stressed and drawing a line in the sand over a situation, I disagree with my H and all this is unacceptable and is there a point where it's just too far? I want advice...BUT NO DETAILS FOR YOU!" You can fuck right off with this vague nonsense. Without knowing what this situation is or why you are upset there is literally nothing anyone can tell you. We are not going to support or justify your anger blindly. We are n… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 03:38 PM |
| 3 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!And my family, while wonderful, also is very very critical. If this is true then it's extremely unfair of you to put your husband in a position where there's a chance he will look like a failure!! Your uncle is alive, this is not an extreme and unavoidable trip that you have to make right this moment. You feel a sense of urgency, and that makes you difficult to deal with. Talk to your family, and get a hold of your emotions. You are hurting your marriage with these thoughts, don't make your H th… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 03:29 PM |
| 9 | Monthly Caption ChallengeWhen your self-esteem is so low even the women you fantasize about are 3 minutes from a heart attack. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 03:25 PM |
| 6 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!Hi /u/Goingdowntheroad, I'm glad to hear that your uncle is on the mend, and that you are motivated to go see him. I think your anger is misplaced for the most part. Your uncle is like a father to you, you thought he was suddenly going to die. That's a stressful thing to learn. Now you are thinking back on all the times you spent together, and you are also realizing that you have neglected this part of your family. You didn't intend to, it just happened because life gets busy and you have kids. … | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 03:12 PM |
| 2 | From r/sex "My wife and I made up a 24/7 [sex game] that keeps things spontaneous."OOo I like that idea too! I haven't read the comments, a mistake I will rectify when I have some more time. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsSame here. Occam's mood is not dictated by my own. If I'm sad, he'll help (assuming I have an actual reason). I will say that when I'm happy, that does add to his baseline happiness - but it's not the defining reason for it. Furthermore, it only works one way - my good mood may brighten his good mood, but my sour mood will have no affect. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 12:44 AM |
| 2 | What's the common denominator of involuntarily alone women, in your experience?Unreasonable b-tches (usually this means their standards are too high compared to their physical appearance and general personality), mental/emotional issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/16 09:36 PM |
| 5 | From r/sex "My wife and I made up a 24/7 [sex game] that keeps things spontaneous."Thank you for sharing this link. It's a really great idea. Another interesting spin on this would be to make appointments on each other's phones or on email calendars. You could give a mundane label for the appointment, and then write the details in the description. Set a reminder alarm to go off on the day in question and voila! The downside to this of course is that you would know ahead of time when the other person would get the alarm. For anyone that's still a bit too nervous about scatterin… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsThis is such a great idea for a thread! We (Camille and I) have talked about most of these already, but I'd like to write about: The fishing analogy is actually a more useful way to describe dating for women. Knowing what type of fish you want to catch, means understanding where they will be, what kind of lures they will want to bite (what men will find attractive), knowing how to be observant, patient, and make the most of opportunities. There are also different ways to fish (using a broad net,… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 09:14 PM |
| 2 | My name is Alex, pleased to meet you all!If you decide to try writing another post, I strongly recommend that you send a draft to the modmail first. It's still not clear if all the advice and direction people have been giving you over the past two days has actually sunk in or not. Sending a draft to the modmail means that (if necessary) the entire process of pointing out changes that need to be made happens behind the scenes. This also improves your chances of submitting a thread that is content rich. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 02:54 PM |
| 1 | First time poster here, I think I'm actually really RPW!What are your questions? I would say include them here foor now. If they warrant a separate thread I eill legt you know. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 07:04 AM |
| 4 | First time poster here, I think I'm actually really RPW!Yep, it looks good! The only change I'd suggest is actually asking the questions you want answers to, instead of saying "am I allowed to though?" hahah! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 02:36 AM |
| 3 | First time poster here, I think I'm actually really RPW!You can always ask questions. They should just be thought out and developed. There is a 'simple q's' thread that we post here every so often. You can also ask questions directly on threads (like this one). I told you not to post another thread because you just posted this one - and it's very simple. You should edit your current existing post to incorporate all the things Camille and I have mentioned. In addition you can include some questions that you have. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 02:14 AM |
| 3 | First time poster here, I think I'm actually really RPW!You don't need to write another thread - go ahead and edit this one to include more information. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 02:01 AM |
| 3 | First time poster here, I think I'm actually really RPW!Hi there - just start reading and participating on threads. Share your thoughts, follow the rules. It's great to have you aboard. There is a weekly thread where user's update what's happening, what they are proud of, and what they are struggling with - this is such a short post, and it would be more appropriate to drop in and say hello on the weekly thread as well as the December Events thread (linked on the sidebar). If you decide to do an introductory thread or field report - make sure that it… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 01:51 AM |
| 4 | "Trolling 'Safe Space' Social Justice WarriorsYeah, they are disturbing to look at, and it's baffling why they think people want to see their exposed mountains of flesh. Wait wait wait....can we hijack the 'trigger warning' nonsense and say that their hideous bodies are oppressive? That we need safe spaces from their obesity? Are they culturally appropriating the rich history of walruses and whales and other animals that depend on their ability to store fat for survival purposes? | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 09:07 PM |
| 3 | My name is Alex, pleased to meet you all!Hey there, I'm a little late to the party (today is fairly busy). I did encourage you to share information about yourself and suggest an intro thread. What you wrote however is not personalized or insightful. I don't really know anything about your values. You say you agree with RPW - but you don't specifically touch on that. What concepts are the hardest for you to accept? What's an example of a situation that made you understand something? There are oodles of Field Reports here where women tak… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 08:55 PM |
| 4 | "Trolling 'Safe Space' Social Justice WarriorsHe's mocking them, being sarcastic, laughing at their stupidity and being sarcastic. He's not sincerely trying to understand or engage, he sees them as entertainment fodder. His questions are a tool to highlight their insane ideas. How do you define trolling if not by the above description? | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Housewives! Any tips for younger, aspiring housewives?I'm really not sure quite where to start. I remember reading that a few days ago But you thought you didn't count as a RPW because you aren't married. I read all the links mentioned in the sidebar You didn't know how to set up your flair You didn't know about the rules (ie self promotion) Posts (outside of sub explanations, ground rules, and the outline for the month)...unless you are referring to the flairs at the bottom? You can click on any flair and then all threads with that flair are broug… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Housewives! Any tips for younger, aspiring housewives?[Sidebar] Welcome To Red Pill Wives! Red Pill Wives (RPW) is a subreddit where like-minded women discuss sexual strategy from an anti-feminist, traditionalist, and/or evolutionary psychology perspective. We also explore related subjects such as culture, current events, science, history, and philosophy! This community is for women of all ages, who are married or interested in marriage. It is most applicable to those in the West, specifically Americans, as the issues that Red Pill ideas deal with … | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Housewives! Any tips for younger, aspiring housewives?I joined this group even though I'm not a RPW because I share the same values. Can you expand on this? I'm not sure how you can agree with the concepts and ideas while simultaneously saying you are not 'RP.' Whether I'm married or not, these are values I grew up with, and I think women with these values should be sticking together, in an increasingly liberal world. Yes, this is a community driven to help, support, and engage with other like-minded women. :0) As for the steps from single to house… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Housewives! Any tips for younger, aspiring housewives?Thanks for the quick response. A few things to keep in mind: Please review the wiki in its entirety, but pay close attention to this page about self promotion. Mentioning your goals in other threads and comments is a good start. That said, you have to restate those things when and where it's appropriate. Don't assume that everyone is familiar with you, your perspective, values, or posting history. This is particularly important because you are a new user. It never hurts to be thorough. Developin… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 06:38 AM |
| – | Housewives! Any tips for younger, aspiring housewives?Hi /u/ThatStepfordGal, you may get more feedback and discussion if your thread(s) stem from genuinely wanting to converse with the members here. Right now your thread reads as insincere. You're less interested in engaging with the community, and really just trying to do some content mining for your blog. The citation comment ("don't worry, I'll credit your thoughts") also seems out of place. Attributing the ideas/thoughts from the user's here shouldn't need to be stated, and it definitely should… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 06:13 AM |
| 3 | "Trolling 'Safe Space' Social Justice WarriorsThe 'corn fed' Idaho guy was a much needed dose of sanity. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 04:59 AM |
| 6 | Why Millennials Should Embrace TraditionIt's about having a pattern of bad behavior, making poor choices. Having personality, mental, or 'self-esteem' issues can help explain why a person does certain things like sleep around (or drink heavily, or use drugs). Some people may develop behavioral/personality issues as a result of sleeping around. For others, sleeping around is a warning sign that the person is likely to have other issues. This is a sub dedicated to helping women develop and improve their romantic relationships. It's impo… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Why Millennials Should Embrace TraditionNot a fail at all, and thank you for making the effort. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Why Millennials Should Embrace TraditionI saw a clip of her interviewing some scantily clad women walking around to protest 'catcalling' and street harassment. "What's my solution to catcalling? Certainly not walking around in my underwear." here is the video if you want to watch it. 6:44 is when the interaction that I quoted above takes place. As they are crossing the street - they are honked at - and the protesters cheer and clap. It seems unlikely that the people in the cars read their signs, and were simply reacting to the women d… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Survived Thanksgiving by Accepting HelpI'm glad the holiday went so well for you! I think it's a lovely dream, and it's wonderful that you've been able to make it a reality. Creating a home full of warmth and love will be such a beautiful backdrop for your baby too. It sounds like this is only just the beginning of many happy years of laughter, good food, and great company. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 09:19 PM |
| 8 | Why Millennials Should Embrace TraditionGreat video. The portion talking about 'sluts' is particularly important for people to hone in on and pay attention to. There are reasons why we encourage women to minimize their 'N' count. I will never understand the argument that a woman is somehow happier if she sleeps around and engages in numerous 'no string' encounters. I do wish there were links to the studies etc that were mentioned in the video. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 07:55 PM |
| 4 | The rise of romance gaming: is the perfect boyfriend inside your phone?There's another interesting phenomena where women can arrange for a 'handsome weeping boy.' A man comes and watches sad videos with women so that they can cry. The man cries as well, and he will gently wipe the tears off the women (or woman) with a handkerchief. Here's a video about it. An odd, but interesting aspect of Japanese culture. It seems both men and women are opting out of normal dating, and looking for alternatives. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?I think you are confusing Dean and Logan? Rori dates logan (rich preppy blond boy) at Yale, Dean is her first BF, first guy she sleeps with. Dean got married, they had an affair. Logan went to mexico and was a party boy, but I think he was good for Rori overall. Jesse is my fave, then Logan, then Dean. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?Ooo new movie to add to my list. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?Luke is proof positive why so many perfectly decent, laid back men get pushed and pushed by ungrateful and entitled women. How many times have both of these women inconvenienced their friend's and family at the last minute because they don't know how to prioritize their obligations? The worst is that they despise everyone not just wealthier world the [grand]parents come from, but also all the people from their own town. They don't think twice about mocking, someone, only to then need them at a l… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?I know, he was fantastic. He has narrated a lot of history and nature documentaries too and his voice is so majestic. I love the grandparents in the show, and on more than one occasion sided with their point of view completely. Even though they're witty and the stars of the show - Lori and Rori are both really shitty people on the edge of suffocating because their head's are planted so firmly up their own asses. Also Rori's perpetual innocent act really went out the window when she became an adu… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?Awesome! Hope renewed. I wonder if Melissa McCarthy will be appearing? I liked her a lot on in that role. Oh, and now I have to see another movie she starred in with Reynolds called 'The Nines.' | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?Yes, I really hope they do a good job with it! I have mixed feelings about the preview...but I'm reserving judgment. Do you know if they are streamlining the current story with the original cast/plots? (example: Lori and Luke are [finally] married, and Rori has been working as a journalist or whatever) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?Have you seen "The Last Witch Hunter"? It's really charming and Vin Diesel does a great job. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?"Longmire" is a fantastic show! Have you seen 'Justified' or 'The Glades'? The second one doesn't really have a cowboy theme at all, but it's a fun show. 'Marco Polo' is also worth checking out if you have some time. Oh, 'Deadwood' is really good too from what I remember. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?Archer is so good! You may also enjoy BoJack Horseman, "'F' is for Family," and "The Venture Bros." | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?"Spartacus blood and sand" had so many fantastic male characters. I was really bummed when I heard that Whitfield first got cancer, beat it, only to die a year or so later. He was a really talented actor and seemed like a great guy all around. I can't say enough about Doctore, or Crixus. Such a great show all around. If you enjoyed that by the way, check out the HBO series "Rome." | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?Robert Taylor and Lou Diamond Philips are both great in the show "Longmire." Sean Connery is great in just about everything. I really like him in "Hunt For Red October" and "Rising Sun." Harrison Ford and Tommy Lee Jones from "The Fugitive" and Robert De Niro with Al Pacino are two other great examples of dynamic male leads. There are too many to list really, but I'd never forgive myself if I left out Deadpool (Ryan Reynolds). | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 07:32 PM |
| 6 | New here, advice?That line of thinking - 'trying to catch H's eye by looking good to other men' - is the kind of manipulative behavior women need to avoid. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Struggling, ladies.His being upset is a symptom of a larger issue. As /u/tintedlipbalm pointed out - he is right when he says you only do things with him that interest you. Furthermore, you got mad at him for pointing this issue out. You are making excuses for your behavior, and ignoring everything he is telling you. "I don't think he's right....I know autism isn't an excuse....I do ALLL these things..." You have a victim mentality and right now it seems like you are more interested in being pitied, justified, and… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 04:04 PM |
| 3 | New here, advice?Hi there /u/rkelley728, welcome to the sub. how do you increase your SMV? I clean up pretty well if I do say so myself, but we are hardly ever in a setting where there's anyone else to take notice of it. How do you keep him interested? This portion of your write-up highlights a fundamental difference between your current mentality, and one that I try to live by. When you feel good about yourself physically, that will translate into your demeanor and behavior. Even if the only people that see you… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Clothing questionI'm so glad it's been working for you! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Struggling, ladies.If you and your husband both work - and your daughter goes to school - then you already spend the majority of your time away from each other. An easy way to get some extra 'me' time is to wake up earlier, go to bed a bit later. On another note, watching a movie does not involve being 'on.' You don't have to focus on being social, conversing, or doing anything other than cuddling up and being close to the people you love. It's a passive activity that doesn't drain energy stores and literally only… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/11/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?I think another user mentioned a similar preference for the very short/stubble look. Her reasoning was that it indicates that he's normally clean shaven and well groomed, but he's been so busy (or maybe he was out partying so hard) that he just didn't have time to shave it all off. What's interesting is that is almost always a deliberate look, but it does have that sort of 'something interesting/dangerous recently happened' or 'I've been so focused and busy I couldn't get to it.' Beards don't gr… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016Do you know her cell phone number? or email? Submit their name, telephone and email to 15-20 minority support groups, addiction groups, super aggressive religions and/or pyramid schemes. Mormons, Scientologists, Jehova's witnesses, seven step programs, nine step programs, LGBT interests, AA, recovery clinics, Christian Scientists, new age groups, etc. Might take you an hour, and they will be fielding aggressive calls for a month. Link Similarly, you could donate some money online to her name, to… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?In the interest of fairness, I should go back and log the various claims and explanations before passing final judgement. I could be remembering things incorrectly. But right now I agree, seems a bit fishy. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 08:40 PM |
| 6 | Free Friday - What's on your holiday wishlist??I already have my holiday presents haha. I purchased a custom made winter coat that I've been thinking about for years. And a centipede necklace. I've been looking for a centipede brooch, but couldn't find one I liked. This will be my everyday MAGA wear that I can sport with any outfit (and avoid triggering the precious libs). :0) On top of that, we're spending Thanksgiving this year together, alone. Nov and Dec are so full of family and obligations for us. I see my family a lot, so it'll be rea… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?Yeah. His not knowing (would seem) to be a result of his wife (Japanese I think he said?) not talking about [how to talk about] those things [to a spouse] because of how she was raised. In turn his son not knowing about things (he mentions a 16 year old - but in another comment I thought he had two sons?) not knowing (again, because of how the son or sons have been raised by him and his wife). Also not really sure how the other women have been surveyed from around the world, or what an app has t… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?It would have made sense, turns out this isn't the case after all - and it is exactly what you first thought. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 08:24 PM |
| – | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?Oookay, never mind. This entire thing has been very confusing and unclear every step of the way, and my opinion has done a complete 180. OP is not specifically seeking to help men and women from Japan (that was a misunderstanding). The OP is male, American, and wants to help men understand women better and educate them on biological processes. I don't think this is a useful endeavor, or that there's a "lack of understanding" on the part of American men when it comes to the reality of life for wo… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?Can you do me a favor and edit your post to explain the background and target audience (working with Japanese women and trying to figure out how to educate Japanese men)? There's some confusion because everyone thinks you are an American and your target audience is American men. This makes it seem slightly pushy/condescending because most American men already know quite a bit about this topic, so the idea of 'educating' them reads as an overbearing feminist agenda. As opposed to a more necessary… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 06:08 PM |
| 7 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?This reminds me of similar signals of accomplishment, masculinity, and suitability of males as a mate in the animal world. I remember a documentary about lion manes and while I couldn't find it, I did spot this article. It states that when tested, females preferred males with longer, darker manes. At the same time, male lions were more willing to approach the dummy lion's vicinity when it had a shorter, lighter mane. Males prefer to avoid conflict whenever possible. Lighter, shorter manes are li… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016hahah I saw that. Hilarious. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?Can you expand on that? | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?Not a problem! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 04:17 PM |
| 3 | How to choose a signature scentI'm extremely fussy when it comes to scents. I have a small rotation of shampoos/conditioners, and 'body mists' that I use. One of the best feelings in the world - when we're cuddling and Occam comments on how much he enjoys the smell of my hair. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?Haha, I actually meant to post your questions on the "Free Friday" thread specifically, but this works too. :0) We've had some discussion on this sub before about how to balance the desire to share and 'be close' to our respective men while also retaining an air of mystery. I'm going to link some of the other discussions that have happened here. How do you ladies manage to stay cheerful with you men through PMS? Is PMS Just Another Excuse to be a Bitch? Does/did the pill influence your behavior?… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Moral Command in men VS Moral Intuition in womenThank you, much appreciated! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/16 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Moral Command in men VS Moral Intuition in womenIt's worth checking out when you have some time. I want to write a post about him and the overall situation, there's just so much to cover (and I'm a bit lazy) haha. :0) I agree there's a lot of double standards and hypocrisy. I'm also reminded of similarly ludicrous statements like "black people cannot be racist." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/16 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Moral Command in men VS Moral Intuition in womenAre you familiar with Jordan B. Peterson by chance? He's a Canadian Psychology professor and he's dealing with an 'interesting' situation relating to free speech. The liberal/trans/feminist crowd wants to institute punitive penalties for people that do not use a person's preferred personal pronouns. The claim is that this somehow helps people acquire jobs and housing (I'm not exactly sure how or why). Peterson argues that the government has no business policing the words people have to use, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/16 03:03 PM |
| 8 | Moral Command in men VS Moral Intuition in womenThank you for taking the time to write all of this up! I wrote a xpost thread for the /r/RedPillWives sub and tagged your username. Fantastic job all around! :0) I haven't watched the documentary yet - but I think this goes a long way towards explaining certain concepts like the hamster, or why women will make convenient exceptions for the 'hot jerk' while at the same time despising 'sexist' men as a whole. The feminist agenda to protect those that they see as 'victims' while simultaneously adop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/16 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4All - Do you like yourself?Yes. I love and respect myself. Furthermore, I do my best to keep improving and evolving. Where I am right now is great - where I'm trying to go will be even better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/16 03:17 PM |
| 4 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOYOUR N-COUNT EFFING MATTERS. It does. Shut up anyone who says it doesn't, just shut up. A million times yes. Here's the problem, some women mistake 'moralizing' for actual standards, choices, and consequences. RP has always weighed in on a woman's personal sexual choices and behaviors - and her dating history is the most accurate way to predict future patterns. No, there isn't a 'rpw shade of lipstick' - but you bet your buttons we talk about the bell curve. The popular trends and tendencies tha… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Technology And The SMPI can relate to the feeling of inspiration. It's always really fun to see where other people can excel. I agree that playing to personal strengths is heavily encouraged...and there's a fear of failure in general. Whether it's having a certain job, living somewhere specific, taking the right kind of trips, or photographing the 'correct' food items etc. The desire to improve is healthy and should be coupled with enthusiasm and joy...but if you're making yourself miserable trying to keep up with so… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Technology And The SMPI think social media is providing a platform for all women (whether plain, ugly, or gorgeous). On the one hand you can find droves of people preaching the 'fat, loud, and proud' agenda, but you can also find women that specialize in fitness or beauty. At the same time, women can find others that strongly resemble their base features (hair type, height, eye shape, skin tone etc). It's also easier to seem higher value in one specific area, which allows you to offset your overall impression online.… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 11:35 PM |
| 3 | User Shoutouts (:This is a great idea for a thread! I really enjoyed /u/mabeol's post about "How To Get Stuff Done" - if you haven't taken the quiz yet, I strongly encourage you to do so. /u/madscientistlove submitted a very popular thread several months ago about "Unpopular Opinions" and I think we should have a second round because it generated some fantastic conversations. /u/cxj also wrote a great post about "Transactional Thinking". It's an important topic, and I hope we can create more discussions about th… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 03:13 PM |
| 2 | The Power of 'Yes' Challenge"When asking a question, be sure you want to hear the answer." I always do my best to keep this in mind when talking to people. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/16 06:19 AM |
| 3 | Shit Post Saturday!Feminism today | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/16 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Question for Women: Do you feel part of a "sisterhood" among all women?Female groups are viper nests, rife with rules and hierarchy. Breaking the rules and ignoring the hierarchy (of which there are numerous levels, and endless factions) is generally a mistake only the newly arrived and perpetually obtuse make. There's a great article about the Female Social Matrix that's worth taking the time to read about. This applies to any female group, whether it's formed around religious, political, or any other shared interest(s). That doesn't mean there's a lot of public d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/16 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Ivanka Trump: Loving Wife, Mother, and DaughterReply attempt #4 haha. For some reason, every time I have tried to actually submit a reply to you...my browser has decided not to cooperate. I didn't mind the wage references in this case because she was very specific. Single women make almost the identical amount as single men, and the emphasis was on "equal pay for equal work." I do think parents face particular challenges, and I don't have a problem helping mothers succeed and earn a fair wage that also doesn't turn them into slaves. Unfortun… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 12:46 AM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!Have you tried making homemade (sweet)potato chips by chance? Seaweed also hits the spot when I have a craving for salt. Trail mix, or a particular kind of nut maybe? Would he eat something like oopsie bread? Occam likes pork rinds (chicharron). I love rice cakes, but don't eat them anymore. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 09:24 PM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!What makeup trends do you hate the most? "Heroin Chic" comes to mind and Angelina Jolie is generally the first person I think of for this style. Possibly because her features can be so severe, and her skin can be quite pale compared to how dark her hair is. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 09:18 PM |
| 17 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?I've been looking around and reading a lot of stuff for a while now. I've been a fan of Trump since the day he announced. The people that are 'shocked' and 'baffled' are so disconnected from the pulse of the country and what people are genuinely craving. The liberals and feminists have been yelling about how women are marginalized, under-appreciated, and how the entire system is rigged against them. That story gets really old really fast, when such a large portion of the country is struggling to… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 01:01 AM |
| 4 | The Power of 'Yes' ChallengeBest part of this challenge? Saying "Yes" to Trump for President. The entire country could benefit from following this challenge it seems. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 06:08 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!It was hilarious and charming. I want to find more episodes of this show. If you or anyone else knows how to find some - please let me know! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | RPW & Social MediaYou specifically asked for accounts to follow that display 'RPW' values. That's why I spoke at length on the topic of mentors. You also asked about seeking attention and validation - which is why I explained that as a woman, that's not seeking to date or vet women, evaluating women in that way is both useless and counter-productive. and I'm wondering if you ladies could link me to some examples of Instagram accounts which show values of a RPW (i.e. how to use social media & post pictures of your… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 11:48 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!The pipes on that guy! Very impressive. I was up ridiculously late one night and I watched a really funny video. Morning Musume English Lesson - I cannot describe how much I laughed throughout the entire video. It's fantastic, made even better by the teacher that cracks up while the girls try to tell their stories. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 11:26 PM |
| 2 | RPW & Social MediaOnce again this sounds like an excellent jumping off point for a stand alone post! Thank you for sharing the article, I'll try to come back and add more after I read it fully. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 09:39 PM |
| 3 | RPW & Social MediaI do think there's a difference between people that talk primarily about themselves/their life and people that use personal examples/anecdotes to highlight ideas that they are exploring. A personal story that's referenced to show a concept or idea in action can be very useful. At the same time, some people are limited by what they can show depending on their area of focus. Makeup artists for example, or fashion enthusiasts - will have to show a lot of bodies and faces. Tutorials that show how to… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 08:12 PM |
| 3 | SMV and the Aging ProcessRudeness and disrespect, especially towards Endorsed Contributors and moderators will not be tolerated. Trolling, debating core principles, and tone policing are not allowed. This comment is out of line and adds absolutely nothing to the conversation. Rollo has been writing about RP topics and ideas for a long time. He is knowledgeable and insightful and he absolutely deserves more respect than you showed in your comment. If you have particular issues with the points he has made, then your comme… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 09:15 PM |
| 2 | 3RD installment of the Monthly Caption Game"How to end 'Rape Culture'" | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 02:52 AM |
| 1 | GratituesdayI'm grateful that Occam always passes along interesting articles and videos to me during the day, and that he will indulge my sweet tooth from time to time. I'm thankful that the weather has cooled down and we've been getting quite a bit of rain. I love that I get to bust out my winter coat. I appreciate having friends that indulge my love for snail-mail, and exchange letters with me -- even though email would be faster. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!The private message was to you as you well know and I did not delete it. I wasn't going to go searching through your comments to find you mentioning whether the community is for you. As far as I know - it's not possible to delete PMs. I had entirely forgotten that you directly messaged me until you pasted it here. I deal with a lot of users, and reddit isn't the entirety of my life. I only recalled your message after you pasted it here. I know you went to the IRC, and also reaching out to modmai… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!You've said in comments previously that you 'aren't sure' if the community is one you are comfortable with. I know others have encouraged you to participate. You've cited everything from being confused about reddit, how chat works, to also just feeling too old/out of sync. You've come and gone before, and no, I'm not going to dig through your history for the comments that specifically reference that. 1. I value my time more than that, and 2. you could have edited or deleted them. Here's the poin… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!I think this is the third or fourth time you have declared that you need to 'leave'....so I guess we'll see you again in about a month? | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | "Muhammad Was A Feminist"I feel like the comments have been off-point and people are using the F-word in this title to blindly bash a culture they don't (want to) understand and justify their personal projections, which don't even really apply to the text of the article. Lady, whatever you're on...I want some, because that has got to be some powerful sh-t. :0) Self-confessed social justice warrior, pro-family and traditional values but very much NOT conservative. Well this explains a lot. Why are you here? If there are … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!I caught part of an interview where the anchor was making the argument that there "was no header" and because the classified status was only stated in the body of the text - the mistake was reasonable. And something else about how she thought 'C' indicated that it was alphabetized? video A bit painful to watch, the anchor drives home the same point about 'no header' and just talks over the Mayor. Hilarious (and scary) all around. To think that anyone could get to that level of power and not unde… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 06:11 PM |
| 1 | "Muhammad Was A Feminist"Did some brief research and here's the thing, the 'hadith' or whatever where aisha claims her age etc - that stuff is used as literall/influential law and guidance to muslims. So if they KNOW those things are at least partially or potentially inaccurate why are they adhered to? Some comments I found that I agree with: I get the argument that it was not uncommon for girls to be married off at young ages in times past, the difference however being that we do not worship those people as prophets an… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 03:17 PM |
| 3 | "Muhammad Was A Feminist"Yeah, Muhammed was such a pioneer for women and his message so genuinely affected the culture that the middle east is a haven of peace, stability and justice. It's a true beacon of progressive rights, equality, and freedom for women, children, and gays. The rest of the world should definitely aspire to mirror their practices, faith, and social structure. /s All I know is that despite older men marrying young women in the bible - you don't see the western world pushing for the age of marriage to … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 02:55 PM |
| 3 | The "Listen More, Talk Less" ChallengeJulian Treasure: 5 ways to listen better. (run time 7:45) Five Exercises: "The first one is silence. Just three minutes a day of silence is a wonderful exercise to reset your ears and to recalibrate so that you can hear the quiet again. If you can't get absolute silence, go for quiet, that's absolutely fine." "Second, I call this the mixer. (Noise) So even if you're in a noisy environment like this -- and we all spend a lot of time in places like this -- listen in the coffee bar to how many chan… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 02:16 PM |
| 2 | "Muhammad Was A Feminist"I'm not sure what having Muslim friends has to do with anything? I have feminist and crazy liberal friends that have the most idiotic beliefs. I get along with them because we don't talk about those things and share other interests. Do you think the article actually poses a good argument and that Muhammed was a feminist? A true champion of women's rights? I also don't understand what or how you are connecting 'archetypes' outlined by RP to what's being said in this article. What archetypes are y… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 04:59 AM |
| – | "Muhammad Was A Feminist"I was torn between the 'Culture' and 'Humor' flair for this post. The author is serious, and actually trying to make the case that Muhammad was a feminist. I find this both disturbing and hilarious. Just another crazy example of how libs/feminists have no limit when it comes to spinning a narrative that makes them feel good. I'd also like to note that RP in general has repeatedly been accused of sharing Muslim ideas (wanting to oppress and control women) as a way to try and highlight 'injustice.… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionThat's a very 'score keeper' mentality. I think it's illogical to state that: negative affect/unhappy feelings are only the result of failure or wrong-doing on the part of the other person. You are responsible for your emotions. If he does something, you have a choice about how to respond. That said, BSC knows her relationship better than anyone else, so for you to say "I could not respect such a man" is an empty statement. On top of that, your feedback doesn't actually accomplish anything. Othe… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionI don't want them to break up - I want him to improve. That's such a wonderful distinction, and a great perspective. :0) Occam has a similar mindset - he will (rarely) apologize for a situation arising that is sub-optimal. And truly, he is very hard on himself at times because he strives to always prevent problems from happening in the first place. It's something he's very good at. He holds himself responsible for so much, it's really impressive and makes me feel so thankful. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Funny story - listen to your captain!Haha great FR! Hopefully moving forward you'll be able to figure out a system that doesn't involve you hogging the stove. :0) It's great that you can both find the humor and laugh about misunderstandings. Thanks for sharing! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Let’s Take A Quiz! How to Get Stuff Done.I'm so glad you decided to take the time to write all of this up! There are a lot of great pieces of advice in this post, and it fits in so well with the overall Self-Improvement theme for November on the sub. I'm an "Upholder" and words like: routine, habit, schedule, and pattern are all things I find a great deal of comfort in. I've become a lot more flexible and ready to adjust on the fly over time as well - but it's been a bit more of a struggle. Almost my entire life has consisted of numero… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 08:35 PM |
| 7 | The Virulent Hatred of FemininityThis is such a great article. It’s far easier to praise people for their failings than it is to congratulate people for their tremendous success. It's easy to fail, and failing is a natural and ordinary occurrence. There's nothing wrong with failing - but only so long as it's just a pit stop and not your final destination. Effort, dedication, hard work, determination, consistency, striving to improve, making goals and chasing after them. Don't sell yourself short, or believe other's when they te… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Sushi disaster (a bit melodramatic, but whatever)I assume your step sister is single? It's pretty clear that she's boy hungry and 'hanging out with a female friend' is just an opportunity to go fishing for male attention. I don't think she was trying to sabotage you or your relationship - so much as she just really wanted to flirt, have fun, and talk to men with another woman around. You were a convenient way for her to grab and hold the attention of men. They see her being flirty, they see you, her friend, and assume you'll be open to engagin… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 05:33 PM |
| 1 | November 2016 Events: Challenge Edition!You can tailor the challenge for you. Instead of speaking less - make it a goal to pipe up more. Concentrate on saying positive, encouraging, and thoughtful things to your SO. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayDid you hear about Trump's Hollywood star being vandalized? Well it was promptly replaced and a homeless woman started guarding it and writing signs. I saw some of the photos earlier this week. Well, I just saw a video of some libs harrassing her, taking the signs/ripping them up, yelling, and filming the whole thing. I love it when the left claims to be morally superior, loving, and peaceful. link. Listening to the nonsense on the radio, and seeing all these accusations of Repubs etc being viol… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayHaven't heard of that, I'll have to check it out! Found this video/article and the song reminds me of Bang Bang by Nancy Sinatra (made popular by the movie Kill Bill. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayI really liked it and I was sad that they never made a sequel. I'm not sure why it isn't more popular. DO you play any of the TellTale games? Check out Ori and The Blind Forest if you're looking for something else to play. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayThere are some funny #DieForHer posts too. Also, have you seen this article yet? | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayHave you heard that there's another GOW game being made? It's one of my favorite series. You may also enjoy Dante's Inferno. I tried Heavenly Sword, but couldn't get into it, although I loved the design. Haha I remember when tamagotchi's first came out, it looks like they have improved quite a bit since then, and the 'pet game' genre has definitely expanded. There are so many apps along those lines, and a lot of games even have their own version of it available. I've been playing the Pokemon X a… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayOoo I hadn't even thought about physical rehab application. Another medical application can be surgery practice in VR. Yes allowing people to practice on both sides of the equation. I've heard that the Wii has been a popular option in both areas already. I used to play sports, and one of the gyms I trained at had a big directional mat (much larger than what's used for Dance Dance Rev. for example). You start in the middle and watch the screen, which will highlight an area, but it's mirrored so y… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayHahaha aww that poor guy. Yeah, I'll probably be the same way. I've heard that these things will be huge in terms of physical rehabilitation (war vets and the elderly for example). Definitely going to wait a while before investing, but Occam and I are really excited to get a VR system. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayThe Travel Quadcopter looks really neat, what's the range on it? I thought I heard that zoning rules were put in place, and there are only certain places you can actually fly those types of things? I could definitely be wrong about that though. Have you seen the VR gaming videos? There have been some really impressive demos and for the first time, I'm cautiously excited about trying some of the options out. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Free FridayPins, needles, and razor blades being hidden in candy during Halloween is a common source of fear. While there is a spotted history of these malicious 'tricks' being carried out - poisoned candy really only has one well known (and fatal) incident. Pins and Needles... Poisoned Candy Poisoned Candy Myths In a 1974 case, Timothy O'Bryan, an 8-year-old boy from Deer Park, Texas, died after eating a cyanide-laced package of Pixy Stix. A subsequent police investigation eventually determined that the p… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Had the ultrasound!Congratulations! I'm really happy for you, and so thrilled to hear about all your wonderful updates. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Talked to my friend about relationship issues and now she won't stop pestering meGood luck with everything moving forward. I think the most important thing is that you and your H are on the same page. It can be really difficult to remember that all the time he spends away from you is actually his full expression of just how much he loves and cherishes his family. Maybe you could help him study, leave notes in his books, pack an extra surprise for him when he has to travel. Find ways to feel connected and make the most of every moment that you do spend together. My SO gets ho… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/16 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Biggest FearsSome of my coping is basically to let my body continue a mindless thing while my lizard brain works its way through the knots (cooking, cleaning, running, splatter painting) Yes haha! Such a great way to process stress (which is closely tied to fear). | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 08:26 PM |
| 11 | Talked to my friend about relationship issues and now she won't stop pestering meI can't believe your friend told you to threaten your H with an affair. That's so far outside the realm of acceptable....I'm not sure how I would react if I ever met someone that saw infidelity as a viable piece of advice. Unfortunately this is the problem with confiding, and while the miscommunication or rough patch may only be a small bump on the road you and your husband are travelling together - the only things your friends and family have to go by are your words or their direct interactions… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Biggest FearsSimilar to the eyes being poked after tripping - I have had this irrational fear that I will somehow get a paper-cut right across my eye. When I was in second grade we would hand papers around to the classmate either on our right or left (this was the system for both turning in and distributing paperwork and happened daily). It just so happened that one time my neighbor was handing me there paper while I was beginning to lean over towards them to retrieve a pencil that had fallen. Somehow everyt… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 02:25 PM |
| 2 | RPWi My Fitness Pal??I'm not a mod there but... paging /u/organicsprout and /u/mintdrive can one of you help out /u/ragnarockette please? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!I love that sub! Especially when I find women close to my height. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Weekly RPWi reflections: 10/24/16Good: (1) Occam and I are giving WOW a try (I haven't played since 2007 or so, and I have missed it). The game has changed quite a bit (only natural) and I love that the trial is no longer a limited window of time (1-2 weeks). Now it's free up to level 20, which is great and means you don't have to do a sustained cram-session. (2) I'm getting back into a (formal) pilates setting with equipment etc (instead of just doing exercises on my own). I'm really excited and a bit nervous. (2a) I hit a new… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!As /u/Irisandoleander stated, this is a good idea if you want to make sure you don't gain weight, and it makes for some memorable photos! I only wanted to add that if you fill your wardrobe with form fitting clothes (skirts or dresses that don't provide much 'give') and wear them regularly - then that's another convenient way to watch your weight without ever having to step on a scale (some people prefer to avoid them). Of course this works best if you are already near (or at) your ideal weight.… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Self-Compassion: Here's Why Science Says We Need More of ItThanks for sharing this! I really liked the explanation of self-compassion (self-kindness, understanding common humanity, mindfulness) and things that are commonly confused with it (self-pity, self-indulgence, making excuses for bad behavior). I think this article and info-graph go hand in the hand with the sub! Taking stock, being aware (of both the good and bad), working to improve and while maintaining awareness of limitations. This is a great info-graph that touches on a lot of common sense,… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Seeking advice about how to change my reactions/mentality to better benefit my marriage (as is).Glad it's sorted. The 'mean girls' snark made me laugh (typical perspective to the new/unfamiliar). It's surprising that such a small misunderstanding turned you off, given all the fabulous comments and advice you have received. Best of luck and feel free to come back. Take care. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 06:40 PM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!I'm really excited about this article. I may start abusing the 'creative license' of the interrobang haha! Also I just discovered the joy of 'turtle nose' that came up in this thread haha! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Seeking advice about how to change my reactions/mentality to better benefit my marriage (as is).As /u/Littleknownfacts stated, /u/whitebunny87 was responding to a comment that /u/Goingdowntheroad wrote. /u/MountainsAndMeadows, you should know that Littleknownfacts made a good suggestion. Please be sure to read the wiki and review the community rules. Whitebunny did not insult you or attack. You inserted yourself into a comment chain for the purpose of 'defending' yourself and taking offense. This is counter-productive and a waste of your time. Focus on what you can change, and the other ad… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Cocooning's Web of Mental DysfunctionSo glad you shared this article! Everything in the article really rings true not only to what I have observed, but also how I have behaved in different settings. Some of the descriptions really made me laugh. In fact, that point generalizes: lacking the feedback that comes from lots of social interaction, they don't know how they measure up on all sorts of dimensions, not just nervousness. Are they funny? Are they charming? How can they know without interacting and judging the results of how oth… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 05:58 PM |
| 3 | How not to be welcoming!It sounds like you are very aware of your actions and moods - that's a fantastic sign. You don't make excuses and you're honest about your conduct. You seem to have a good head and I'm sure you'll take this lesson and move forward with renewed determination and energy. Keep up the good work. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 04:08 PM |
| 5 | How not to be welcoming!Mini-venting windows are acceptable in my relationship so long as two things happen: Venting is meant to release irritation etc. As long as the venting is brief and doesn't escalate my moodiness then it's fine. As long as I'm happy/productive after venting a bit - then it's a useful and beneficial activity. Occam recognizes that venting can alleviate stress (as long as the woman doesn't spiral out of control or continue moping for a prolonged period of time afterwards). It actually expedites my … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 03:30 PM |
| 3 | RPWi My Fitness Pal??Good reminder! I'd love to see a bit more activity over there too! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 03:06 PM |
| 3 | RPWi My Fitness Pal??You've been doing a great job, along with some other users! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 03:05 PM |
| 5 | How not to be welcoming!I think it's great that you realized your mistake and you're determined to do better in the future. When things go sideways it can be difficult to not get into a cloudy mindset. Don't pass up opportunities to welcome happiness. Being content and keeping a clear, peaceful mindset takes practice and effort. The more you do it, the easier it becomes, and I absolutely believe that happiness is a skill that we either nurture or undercut. You still managed to get the rabbit hutch taken care of, one le… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Motivation, Discipline, and AccountabilityOf course! You can send your draft to the modmail if you like or PM me directly. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Motivation, Discipline, and AccountabilityVery interesting! I am unfamiliar with Gretchen Rubin but I took the test and "Upholder" rings very true to me. This looks like a great starting point for a really interesting stand-alone post! I strongly encourage you to think about writing a post about all of this (it sounds like you know quite a bit about Gretchen, motivations, cost/benefit etc. At the very least, I think a lot of people would really enjoy taking the quiz. Thank you for sharing! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Motivation, Discipline, and AccountabilityWhen it comes to my physical fitness/health goals, I find I have to work on both a micro and macro level. I create long-term goals that take time to achieve, and I make sure that my routine never gets stale by pursuing mini-challenges that last anywhere from a week to several months. I think it's a lot of fun to do challenges with friends, and check in regularly, although I've found that groups tend to have more success (and consistency) when the group is small. It's really important to consider… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Glad to have you as part of the team! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Relationship adviceOkay looking at your history, you post in schizophrenia, depression and your other comment on this sub details a very disturbing dynamic. My relationship also started in a very unhealthy place, and the power struggle was real. He was naturally very alpha and I was not allowed to have contact with any of the outside world except through him. We've been 'together' for 12 years, with about a 3 or 4 year year split after 6. We split because I couldn't take it plus I'd unfortunately discovered the do… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Relationship adviceLook at her history. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Relationship adviceHi there /u/christiangirl4eva I have removed your post (for now). Although you have technically provided responses to every question - you have barely given any information that would allow users to give you productive feedback. What do you mean when you say that you have low self esteem? What does your SO mean exactly when he says he wants you to be 'more dominant'? How long have you had an inactive bedroom? Does he try to initiate and you turn him down? Does he want you to initiate? Do you try… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/17/2016 The Movie EditionHaha, Occam is the same way when it comes to our living space. He likes to optimize sound/tv/computer systems, and have functional systems that make it easy for him to switch from work to working on hobby crafts, to working out. He doesn't think about how they space looks at all. Fortunately, he's happy to give me free reign with just about everything as long as it doesn't skew in an overtly feminine direction. I recently picked out some chocolate curtains for the kitchen (we have a sliding glas… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/16 10:28 PM |
| 4 | What kinda fruit are you?I'm not a fruit, I'm a porterhouse steak. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Last NamesI did read your comment. I never said anything about you specifically on the matter. You injected yourself into the position because you are a married woman that didn't take her husband's last name. At least that's what I assume based on what you've said - because otherwise I have no idea why you're so 'offended' or why you interjected yourself into this conversation when I was originally talking to another user. I stated: I think it's insulting (in the US) for women to reject the man's last nam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/16 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Last NamesOpinions are personally defined conclusions, they cannot be 'right' or 'wrong.' You are insane if you think you can tell people what they should or should not believe. I will think whatever I want about anyone and everyone in the world. I will judge them by whatever criteria I believe is significant and relevant- just as you and every other person on this planet is free to do. There is a big difference between having an opinion and forcing it down soneone's throat. I dont bombard people in my pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/16 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Last NamesI'm not sure what field you are in, or what types of papers you have had published. I found some other discussions about this very topic that may or may not be relevant to your situation. https://www.researchgate.net/post/Author_name_change_after_marrying2 https://www.reddit.com/r/AskAcademia/comments/2dfqho/married_women_in_academia_did_you_change_your/cjp8ncy https://www.reddit.com/r/AskAcademia/comments/2dfqho/married_women_in_academia_did_you_change_your/cjprj8s http://academia.stackexchange… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/16 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Last NamesThat's your opinion, and the opinion of other people - but it's not one I agree with, which is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/16 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Last NamesI understand, but that's still not a good enough reason to 'opt out' of taking the man's last name in my book. Having a different name doesn't mean you're suddenly not the author of those works. Many people write under different names, just as people have different handles on the internet, or even emails. I'm sure it would be possible to include your old surname on important documents, profiles, and even your business card if necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Last NamesIf/When I marry Occam, I will take his name. I think it's insulting (in the US) for women to reject the man's last name, or hyphenate (regardless of her professional reputation). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 08:48 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!Well that's silly! Occam prefers me to wear flats as well, and I have no desire to be taller. I understand exactly how you feel. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 08:34 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!I'm 5'11 and Occam is 6'2." I prefer to wear flats (easier to lift inventory, make deliveries, and walk around for work), though I do have a 2" dress wedge that I'll wear sometimes. Right now I'm trying to find a pair of lace up shoes (maybe with a small heel) that I can wear with socks when it's raining. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 08:23 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!That's too bad! The bars haven't affected my progress at all (thankfully) and I love mio! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 07:15 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!That role was perfect for her - it's the only thing she's done where I didn't immediately want to punch her (she has an irritating voice and bug eyes). Do you know where you're going to get your dress/corset? | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 06:58 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!Most women need to increase their carbs during certain times of the month (ahem) and I know that many people do carb cycling as part of a bulking/cutting system. Keeping the house free of temptation is a big thing for us. We don't bring anything through the door that isn't compatible with our eating habits. I'm sure you've heard people rave about them already, but quest bars are a life saver for me. I'm also a big fan of muscle milk. I'm sure you'll do great, the first step is always the hardest… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 06:46 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!Have you tried a fat fast yet? I had a lot of success with it and did a bit of research...I can dig up the articles I looked at again if you are interested. :0) The gist is: you'll see a lot of people warn that you shouldn't do a fat fast for more than 3 days - the truth is you can do it for much longer (up to 10 if I remember correctly, but that is pushing it). I did a fat fast for 6 or 7 days. Obviously one of the most important things is to hit the ratios and also pay attention to your body. … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 05:16 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!I don't have a fitbit, but I have done push-up, squat, and ab challenges in the past. If you find something you like along those lines, and you want a partner - just let me know. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:57 PM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!I have been updating my wardrobe, and I found a few sites and blogs (for tall women specifically). :0) Next Coast Blogs: TallNatural Style of a London Tall Girl | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:56 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!I think it depends both on the situation and your man's personality. I can generally tell when Occam will appreciate bright energy, and when he would prefer calming warmth. Sometimes, the best thing a woman can do is simply give her man a bit of peace, quiet, and space. Use your best judgement, and observe how he reacts to each approach. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:43 PM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!Occam dressed up as Captain Hammer a few years ago, which was great. I think it would be fun to dress up as Krieger and the virtual gf or Shridan and Delenn from Babylon 5 (except I would want to dress as Delenn from season one, I love the bone crown and her wardrobe). I've also seen some really fun crossover couples. One of my favorites happens to be Deadpool and Harley (although I also love the Joker/Harley pairing). | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:40 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!I forgot about it (although I was still following through on my health goals in real life - just not documenting them haha). There are two or three other ladies that seem to consistently update. I'm trying to be more consistent about checking in. I'm sorry you gained a bit of weight, but I'm sure you'll lose it in no time. Do you want to do a fitness challenge together? | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Would You Rather...So many advantages! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Would You Rather...oooo I just realized that on top of saving money, time, and eliminating dish-duty --- you'd also eliminate certain bathroom functions too! I'd choose to be paralyzed, and figure out how to live as a (gay) man as well. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Would You Rather...Haha! There's another question that asked if you would choose to never eat again (or eat but gain one pound every month). I wanted to go without eating...and I had to assume (and hope) that meant I would never experience hunger pains. If I could go without needing to sleep - that would also be great. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Would You Rather...Never eat again (I'd be able to make good use of all that extra time...not to mention the added bonus of saving money from never having to by food and never having to wash another dish ever again). Instrument -Love and lost. Would you rather... Always feel like you need to pee, or be paralyzed from the waist down? Live as a man, or forever look as a six year old girl? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Would You Rather...Good questions! I would prefer to: Have no cell phone (this would actually be a blessing! I long for the days when we only had land-lines and it was so easy to be unreachable) Never eat cheese again (and I LOVE the latter, but I NEED the former). I don't want to know anything about it...but if I'm forced to pick one, how I meet my end. Bring on the adorable army of Bryer horses | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 11:09 PM |
| 7 | Would You Rather...I would prefer to...: have no one attend my wedding. be in a coma for 20 years lose my hearing never have cramps or headaches ever again go completely bald | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday!!The Poison Squad Esquire article On Prussic acid we break our fast; we lunch on a morphine stew; We dine with a matchhead consomme, drink carbolic acid brew; Corrosive sublimate tones us up like laudanum ketchup rare, While tyro-toxicon condiments are wholesome as mountain air. Thus all the "deadlies" we double-dare to put us beneath the sod; We're death-immunes and we're proud as proud-- Hooray for the Pizen Squad! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/10/16 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsOccam has full access to everything (phone, email, social media etc), I don't know his passwords. It's never bothered me, and I don't see it as an 'unfair' arrangement. Having access to his stuff would only spur my instinct to intrude, be nosy, and encourage suspicion. On the other hand, knowing he can see my activity at any time - reminds me to always be on my best behavior. I always go to him if/when anything happens that makes me feel uneasy. I know a few other users that have a similar set-u… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 10:11 PM |
| 6 | "20 years later, it turns out Dan Quayle was right about Murphy Brown and unmarried moms"I remember watching "Murphy Brown" when I was younger, though I can't really recall any specifics about the show now except there was a painter (I think) and he was also in the movie "Mrs. Doubtfire" and the lead actress. This is a very interesting article, and I agree with the author's points. It's really unfortunate that the number of children born out of wedlock continue to rise, and that the middle class overall accepts this arrangement as more or less 'normal' as opposed to distasteful and … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Women Talk About How the Pill Has Completely Fucked Them Over - VICEThis is what happened to me! I was in an LTR and really thought that I did not ever want kids. I ultimately realized that I did, but that the reason I had never wanted them previously was because I did not think any of those men would be strong father figures. I'm glad you were able to figure this out! I think this is possibly the case for many women...and most probably don't realize it until much later (if at all). I also think that some women (after realizing that it's highly unlikely that the… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Women Talk About How the Pill Has Completely Fucked Them Over - VICEThanks for the info! I've never researched IUDs (everything I 'know' came from casually browsing articles years ago), so this is very helpful. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Women Talk About How the Pill Has Completely Fucked Them Over - VICEIUDs are less of a fuss over the long term - I think there are other things going on. link | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Women Talk About How the Pill Has Completely Fucked Them Over - VICEThe US in particular has been very slow to accept IUD's as a viable choice for young/unmarried women that haven't had kids. Other countries don't make women jump through nearly as many hoops to get IUDs. Many women in the US travel to Canada specifically because it's far easier to get an IUD. I haven't read anything that indicates that IUDs are harmful to women in terms of fertility - but I think one argument is that the technology is new and there haven't been any long term studies on the affec… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Women Talk About How the Pill Has Completely Fucked Them Over - VICEThis is such a wonderful change in perspective! I encourage you to write about your experiences (before and after this realization) and turn it into a field report. I think it would not only inspire women here to try developing a similar approach for themselves, but it will also remind everyone to take a personal inventory of their lives. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 06:55 PM |
| -3 | It's so much better being a nice wife...Congratulations on your progress. It's great that you were able to recognize a negative impulse and curtail it so quickly. Continue working on your awareness and it will become very easy to improve how you talk not only to your husband, but other people as well. You'll also start to notice your body language/physical cues, verbal tone, but other more passive quirks (examples: sighing, tsking or clicking, biting your lip, clenching your fingers, or otherwise fidgeting out of impatience or irritat… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Inspirational Quotes About Love and RelationshipsThese quotes are insightful because they all stress the importance of time and choice. Love isn't one perfect moment, it's the culmination of hundreds upon thousands of smaller moments (often mundane), and how we choose to act in those moments. Love is understanding that the bonds of your relationship can either be strengthened or undermined with every decision, reaction, and interaction with your man on a daily basis. Thank you for sharing these. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 07:46 PM |
| 9 | ..."he is a creature of the feminists’ own self-righteous making."The author is unapologetic about her femininity, and the fact that she enjoys being noticed by others because she's attractive. She also makes some great observations concerning feminists (they want to dictate not only how other people speak, but also what they say). For more about Kathy Gyngell: http://www.conservativewoman.co.uk/about-conservative-woman/ | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/16 12:40 AM |
| 3 | 1 Week Challenge SuggestionsI'm so excited for all these great suggestions! I think it would be fun to have a volunteering/donation themed challenge. Basically find a charity, or start a project that gets you directly involved with your immediate community. It could be as simple as picking up trash around your local park, helping a neighbor paint their fence or baking a bunch of cookies and taking them around to people...the idea being to connect with your neighbors and invest some time in your immediate community. Anythin… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Back To School Megathread!If you play sports it's really important to turn your assignments in on time (or early). Be proactive about getting to know your professors and meet with them early about assignment/test and travel conflicts. They have heard every excuse in the book, but if you give them your travel itinerary, and then remind them ahead of time that you will be absent, confirm the date to make up tests, or when you will need to turn in assignments etc - that will go a long way. Be proactive about going to your p… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions!Of course! I don't really have any advice but maybe /u/StingrayVC, /u/rebeccabrixton, /u/memoirsofawife (expecting her first child in Jan), /u/katiescarlett5, /u/cadense or anyone else with relevant experience will have a few suggestions or resources for you to look into. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/09/16 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: RPW Only Works When You Have a Good Man AND You Water Your Own Grass"Red flags just look like flags when you're looking at someone with rose-colored glasses." -approximate quote from BoJack Horseman It's easy to dismiss, excuse (or ignore) problems when you're contending with the rush of emotions that go along with first meeting someone and falling into lust with them. We have this craving for intimacy and connection, and we often hamster away good advice (like slow down and vet this dude), because we get caught up in the feelings. Absolutely. This is also one o… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 09:38 PM |
| 2 | September 2016 Events!If you (or anyone else) ever has a moment of inspiration - please message your suggestions to modmail! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsI said we could learn from their patterns of behavior Learning from and observing patterns of behaviors is always important. This is definitely an important skill (whether vetting for a potential romantic interest, or simply trying to determine how much you can realistically rely on a friend). but in the matter of personal journey, a conflict resonates more, This is why I used visually compelling scenarios to explain my point (a bruised man is easier to accept as a boxer vs. the unscathed man th… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsIf someone hasn't encountered a problem, I wouldn't value their advice as much as someone who has encountered the problem and solved it. I disagree with this because the idea is that "you can't fix a problem unless you are facing that problem" which is a different mindset from the one that I'm expressing which is "you were never at risk of dealing with this problem because the choices/preparation/etc you made along the way drastically reduced the likelihood that you'd ever encounter it." Having … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsThank you, yes. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Random RP ThoughtsI believe you are thinking of /u/_wingnut_'s thread I feel it needs to be said, RPW is not a panacea for every possible relationship problem. RPW works to correct certain structural attraction problems with normal to high dominance men. it cant overcome drug addiction, alcoholism, mental illness, perennial low dominance weirdo-ness, or a host of other relationship issues (though it CAN help you deal with those things if you are married and make the conscious decision to stick your marriage out.)… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsOkay, my username may have changed but I'm completely pulling a Space Cadet maneuver here haha - can you explain the relation between the thread and your comment? Haha, not a problem, and I was a bit vague about the connection. Your entire thread talks about being a more active, present, mindful, and enthusiastic contributor (sexually) within a relationship. It's not just about doing the bare minimum or 'getting by.' Women shouldn't just wait to react, they should look for opportunities to initi… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 08:14 PM |
| 9 | Random RP ThoughtsWarning: this is a lot of rambling.... Lack of bad experiences (dating mishaps/relationships etc) is not the same as "lack of knowledge" or insight. There's often this idea...it's not generally expressed in an overt way...just a general assumption that "if a person has been through the ringer [had lots of bad dating experiences etc] then they have insights and perceptions that are going to be valuable and useful." At the same time, someone that has only ever really had positive, trouble-free, re… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 07:49 PM |
| 4 | How to provide a soft place to land after work, if he gets home first?Daily Things: Make sure the place is clean/tidy before you leave in the morning Prep a snack he can quickly heat up or eat cold before you get home If he tends to change his clothes after work then lay them out on the bed for him before you leave in the morning Other Ideas: Throw together a mini 'relax' kit (beard oil/comb if he has facial hair for example). Leave a note asking him to take a hot shower and unwind until you arrive home. State that you'll be looking after him and list an itinerary… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Happy Women's Equality Day!Thanks for the 6th grade history lesson. We'd all be lost without your profound observational skills about Rosie... Hint: Learn to take a joke. Bonus hint: If you don't like the joke - just move on. Do you understand what sub you're on? | /r/RedPillWives | 27/08/16 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Some Problems I can not seem to shakeSadly some of these things faded during the last weeks. He suffered a horrible accident at work. He pulled through with such grace and strength. Your wording painted an entirely different picture. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/16 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Some Problems I can not seem to shakeHe had a horrible accident at work according to OP. Husband stumbles, and has a hard time - she doesn't seem to care about that at all, and can only see her own 'misery.' | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/16 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Some Problems I can not seem to shakeMore 'woe is me' victim puke. Cut it out already - no one here buys it. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/16 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Some Problems I can not seem to shakeThe 'flaws' you listed aren't sincere. If everything you said were true - you actually wouldn't be getting into all these conflicts, nor would be so readily blaming literally everyone around you for problems. It's your MIL, your SIL, your husband...everyone is to blame, and you can't help it because you're just too driven/sincere/big hearted. Your husband had a horrible accident and weeks later you resent him this much? You view him as a failure, talk about him like he's a disengaged jerk....you… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/16 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Stupid poemsHi there /u/katnip86, I think the lack of responses to your thread (as it exists right now) is due more to a lack of context and framing than anything else - so hopefully this will help get things rolling a bit! You may want to consider editing your thread a bit. Ask people to share some of their own personal, quirky, and whimsical stories - this allows people to expand and take the conversation somewhere new. Right now people see an odd poem, that references things they have no direct experienc… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/16 03:12 AM |
| 6 | RPW THEORY AT WORKThere are many ladies here that have highly demanding jobs, are business owners, and navigate competitive fields of work. Efficient is good - but not if you're a cold fish in the process. You don't have to be a wilting flower, or a spineless dolt. Feminine does not mean incapable, unproductive etc. Knowing how to handle people requires lots of different skills. How do you go about getting things done? Are you assigning tasks and projects to women that are your peers? Telling someone to do someth… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/16 02:37 AM |
| 5 | Games Girls Play | Notes From a Red Pill GirlYou can follow the rules or have your comments removed. Your choice. Your opinion(s) about the rules are irrelevant regardless) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/16 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Some Problems I can not seem to shakeHere are a few questions I have for you: What are your flaws? Do you have anything nice, positive, or loving to say about your husband? How does he show he cares? To clarify: this community is not religious. There are many athiests, there are some religious folks (different faiths), and everything in between. If this was a Christian sub...we'd all be quoting the bible everywhere - and there would be a million other communities for us to participate in. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/16 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Some Problems I can not seem to shakeThanks for re-posting all of this /u/Littleknownfacts! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/16 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Some Problems I can not seem to shakeIt's not. We have no religious affiliations at all. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | I believe that my Time and Efforts are not being valued neither by my Husband nor his FamilyOh! You re-wrote the thread entirely. I will look at the new one. In the future you can click 'edit' on comments and threads. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | I believe that my Time and Efforts are not being valued neither by my Husband nor his FamilyThis thread has been removed (at least for now). You need to follow the formatting guide: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/wiki/advice Reply to this message when you have edited your post accordingly and I will look it over. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/16 04:36 PM |
| 5 | What to consider when dating a divorcee with a young childHi /u/CherokeeStarbright, I'm glad you took the time to provide some more details. So, I'm going to tell you a little bit about myself so you might understand where I'm coming from a little better Additional information/background generally tends to help paint a more complete picture. :0) It's not my intention to come off argumentative, I just want to discuss some points further, and if you think I'm rationalizing, please slap some sense into me!! Your responses were not argumentative at all. Yo… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/16 01:51 PM |
| 2 | What to consider when dating a divorcee with a young childOn an unrelated note: what happened with the guy you were seeing for about a month and a friend called you his gf during a game night? | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/16 03:27 AM |
| 9 | What to consider when dating a divorcee with a young childI am on my phone at the moment, and will try to add more details later but here are some things to consider: Any future with this man will require you to be on neutral (if not positive) terms with the mother. Even if she is a witch, you cannot be a liability to this man and cause problems with her he is likely to be busy, dedicated, and have a chaotic schedule. Trying to be a dad, manage a parenting bond with his ex, be a good father etc. This means he may be reluctant to progress with you at a … | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/16 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: How to Have a Long Distance Relationship. Step 1: Just say ‘No’Please explain how this adds to the conversation, helps users, or qualifies as anything other than "NAMALT-ING." Thread presents idea, examines idea, explains why idea is relevant to this RP community. User comes along and declares "this does not apply to me, I am the exception!" ---> comment is a useless distraction. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/16 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Littleknownfacts Presents: How to Have a Long Distance Relationship. Step 1: Just say ‘No’This is a fantastic post. This community has always been diligent about alerting women to the consequences of making certain decisions (examples: pick a lousy guy - don't be surprised when you get a lousy relationship...also known as 'RPW is not a magical cure for every problem,' husband perks should not be extended to BFs, don't make covert contracts and then complain when your fantasy fails to match up with reality...there are lots of examples). I think LDR's appeal to a lot of people because … | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/16 11:32 PM |
| 2 | [DISCUSSION] Let's share our housekeeping routines!Cordless vacuum for the win! The one I have is also fairly tall, and light weight which I continually appreciate every time I use it haha! If you want to do heavier detail work (and avoid the cost of renting a different vacuum) - shop vacs are fabulous. Just pick a nozzle and away you go. The only down side is that this takes quite a bit longer, and you end up having to hunch over a lot more. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/16 05:44 PM |
| 2 | [DISCUSSION] Let's share our housekeeping routines!Thanks for sharing this resource QueenBee126! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | [DISCUSSION] Let's share our housekeeping routines!Hey Sting! Did you see this thread that /u/madscientistlove posted a while back? It's a wonderful site with some really practical suggestions that you may find useful. /u/Anoulie you may enjoy it as well! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/16 05:38 PM |
| 2 | [DISCUSSION] Let's share our housekeeping routines!Hi /u/timeforstretchpants this is a really creative idea and I'm glad you decided to share! I could definitely see this as an adaptive tool for parents as well to help motivate kids to be proactive about completing chores and possibly earning some stars/points etc that can be 'cashed in' for some kind of treat or reward at the end of the week. /u/kittenkajira this might work nicely into another overall 'themed' parenting discussion about tips and tricks to keeping kids focused, motivated, and ac… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | RPWi weekly reflectionsThis is an improvement over what you initially wrote. There is a very popular "1 Week Challenge" that members often utilize. The idea is that for seven days - you only say positive, supportive, and complimentary things to your SO/H, and about them. If you keep a daily log you can track where, when, and how you struggle with this idea. There are some fantastic Field Reports about this challenge, as well as some general discussions. What are you personally trying to improve on right now? What are … | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/16 05:23 PM |
| 1 | RPWi weekly reflectionsThis community does not encourage or tolerate users that insult their SO. Your disappointments, unfulfilled expectations, and anger are not welcome here. No relationship is perfect, and preserving the reputations of your SO should always be a consideration, regardless of how you feel in the moment. You have broken this one rule at least twice now. Please be sure to read the wiki, and familiarize yourself with this community in general. Right now you have created a very unflattering perception of… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/08/16 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Guide to First Dates And Setting Yourself Up For SuccessDate Logistics I agree with everything you said here. It's always better to meet at the location of the date, and to have your own form of transportation. If things go well, knowing you have to get in your own car will help with any compulsive decisions to move too quickly. If things don't go that well - you avoid having to rely on someone else to get home. I think there's another very important reason why women should avoid being picked up at home. I don't think it's necessarily wise for women … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/08/16 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Shit Post...Sunday!This is fantastic. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 22/08/16 03:42 PM |
| 5 | TV, Books, and Film DiscussionI just finished season 3 of BoJack Horseman (Netflix) and love the entire series. It's very well written, hilarious, has something to 'offend' everyone along with a great cast. Stranger Things (Netflix). I was so impressed with the kids in this show, and they really make the experience something special. Their stories treat them more like 'miniature adults' in terms of the problems they face (and subsequently try to resolve), and there's also some humor sprinkled in. The most obnoxious part of t… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/08/16 02:15 PM |
| 2 | 17 Gestures That Make Men Feel Loved. What ones should you work to improve on?https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/wiki/males Announcing your gender (e.g. "Man here!" or "Sorry I'm a guy but..."). Please add that you are a man in your user flair. Your opinion does not matter - if you wish to participate in this community, you are expected to follow the rules. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/08/16 04:48 AM |
| 2 | 17 Gestures That Make Men Feel Loved. What ones should you work to improve on?Do not type 'man here' or any variation. Your gender is irrelevant. Please edit your comment and I will approve it. Respond to this after you have done so. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/08/16 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Feedback from your ExIt does strike me as a red flag that people would choose partners with whom they couldn't be friends should the relationship end. It's not that you can't be friends with the exes - it's that you choose not to be, and that's a really important distinction. It's a matter of choice, not a lack of ability. The conclusion you are creating ("What's so wrong with you that you've chosen people too crappy to even be friends with?") is a fairly negative assumption to immediately jump to. I think that it's… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/08/16 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Turgenev girls: romantic, subtle heroines of today's cruel world“I never saw a being more mobile. She did not sit still for one moment, was constantly getting up, running to the house and back, humming in a low voice, laughing often and in a strange way: she seemed to be laughing not at what had been said, but at other thoughts that had entered her head. Her large eyes looked straight ahead, bright and bold, yet sometimes the eyelids squinted, whereupon her gaze suddenly became profound and gentle.” I loved this quote. The description reminded me a lot of th… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/16 06:51 PM |
| 7 | Shit Post...Sunday!Male writer for Jezebel definitely has his priorities straight For anyone interested in the (archived) version of the article: here you go. Although, as my friend pointed out "You'd think feminists would be excited because the title literally says that the sky belongs to no man. Wouldn't it be more offensive to specifically exclude women in the title?" Loved this! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/16 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Feedback from your ExYou can find lots of writings that focus on being wary of women that have a good deal of beta orbiters/male friends - and that if a lot of them are men that she used to date or hook-up with, it's not a very positive sign. Some men will care more than others, but I think it's generally worth noting that having ex bf's, close male friends, and guys that you just dated for a short while as normal components of your social life - it can cause potential problems later on down the road. It's not alway… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/16 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Feedback from your ExIf you were dating someone (either in a relationship, or simply going on dates to get to know each other) and that process/bond ends (either because of a break-up in the case of a relationship, or you decide to not go on any more dates with the person) - then all contact with that person should cease. There's no reason to keep someone around that you 'kind of' saw (went on dates with) for a short while. Again, consider how awkward it might be to introduce an actual SO to your 'friend' that you w… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/08/16 11:04 PM |
| 10 | Where you do even find Alpha RedPill'd Men?/u/CoochQuarantine is also an endorsed, long standing member of this community. Please review the wiki, particularly "Reputations, Interactions, and Respect" If you post a thread on this sub, be prepared for honest feedback. You may not hear things that you like, or want to admit. Members here are going to tell you what you need to know, but that doesn't mean it will be easy to digest. You have to consistently provide good feedback before other users are going to start considering you to be a de… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 02:22 PM |
| 1 | dealing with your history...Have you considered humiliating X and one-upping your man with respect to him. This is inappropriate advice given that they are mingling at semi-professional events and they have to conduct themselves a certain way (particularly the OP since she's already battling an 'indiscreet sexual past' image in regards to how her SO views/thinks of her. Saying overtly sexual things in response to this man's inappropriate comments may or may not get the other guy to shut up - but the words will definitely r… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 02:05 PM |
| 3 | How to support a Captain when he has a set back?Luckily, I have a few great women who are helping me out a ton. It has been hard at times, but looking back my mental fortitude is lightyears ahead of what it once was. I'm so glad to hear this! I absolutely believe that everyone needs a strong support group when they are dealing with a relationship like this. Fortunately, close-knit communities are pretty much a standard in these areas, and it will always help to know that there are others that truly understand the stress and anxiety you have t… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 07:19 PM |
| 3 | RPW Pregnancy and Motherhood Survey/u/katiescarlett5, /u/memoirsofawife - I think you will both be interested in this thread. :0) Thank you for putting this together /u/Kittenkajira! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 06:59 PM |
| 4 | How to support a Captain when he has a set back?After reading some of the IRC chat - it makes so much more sense that you are feeling stressed out due to his occupation, and the danger he faces all the time. I agree with /u/susandeath that you are probably focusing on a smaller threat that you think you can control/influence as a way of alleviating all the stress you have surrounding everything else about his situation and job. I think you mentioned that this is your first time dealing with a deployment? You need to decide (and quickly) if th… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Tips on dealing with severe jealousyThere are limitations to how much any online forum can help people. Your problems are extensive (you seem very unbalanced both mentally and emotionally). Go ahead and review the wiki and read posts under the various categories. You will be able to fix some things by reviewing threads here. That said, you have to address your obsessiveness, depression, and emotional imbalances - and all of those issues are outside the scope of this community. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 12:11 AM |
| 12 | RP Guy Needs AdviceDo you have financial obligations to those other 4 children? Your wife is 42 with a 2 year old, you are not where you want to be financially. You also have a retirement to think about, not to mention providing everything your 2 year old needs and supporting your wife. It's nice that she wants kids, but it's also not really practical. Be honest and direct with her. If you hem and haw, or state that you might consider having another child - then that will only get her hopes up. You tell her your r… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 12:05 AM |
| 4 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateI remember that comment as well, it was written by /u/irisandoleander (here is a link to the original comment and thread). For the most part I draw the line of people who do not bring value. The value can be large or small. For example I have a girlfriend who I can confide in. She's always there to listen and (as far as I know has never spilled my secret fears) When I'm feeling low we can hang out and I can say I'm feeling insecure about X, and she helps me talk it through. I have another friend… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/16 03:58 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you disagree about employment and living situation?Thanks for the thorough response! I'm really glad that you took the time to expand on a lot of the points that were brought up in various comments. I agree that 'reddit brevity' and an overall gap in information with which to work can really affect the feedback that we are capable of giving. There's a base assumption that OP's will inevitably leave details out of their posts (either because they don't think it will be relevant, or because they are deliberately trying to downplay something that c… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/16 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsTime alone with your SO/spouse is the important thing. You don't have to be talking, you could be hiking together, reading a book in the same room, watching a movie, playing a game together etc. It simply means "time spent with each other." :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/16 03:42 AM |
| 5 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateI think its great to share good news and happy stories with friends who are interested in hearing that sort of thing. Yes this is a very important distinction, and applies to all conversation topics I think. "Know your audience." :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Promiscuity and InfidelityI just can't think of a 'neutral' way to ask "did you knowingly and deliberately break your word" haha :0) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Promiscuity and InfidelityWhy does a 'neutral' word have to be used to describe a negative act like 'cheating'? "slut" could be 'neutralized' simply by saying "has sex frequently" or "high partner count outside of committed relationships/marriage" I suppose...but it still means the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsI think it's really important to realize that acts of love, and giving gifts in general should be done without the expectation for a certain reaction. Now, you may be asking yourself "why not? I'm doing something really nice here, I'm showing him I care - it's not wrong to expect a little gratitude." Well, that mindset right there is the entire problem. Gifts are supposed to be selfless acts, voluntarily pursued and executed not with an end goal (example: an enthusiastic reaction etc) in mind. T… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Simple QuestionsYour comment does not help /u/linn333 figure out what to do in her relationship. It's fine to comment that something would or would not work for you specifically - but you should also try to add to the conversation by giving others some actionable advice that they can consider utilizing. Right now your comment is just an awkward statement that doesn't really allow the exchange to grow or evolve...instead it really just brings things to an abrupt halt. Getting to know users and connecting with co… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsJust about everyone can relate to and appreciate all of the love languages - the key is simply figuring out which one you gravitate towards more than the others. Think back to when you have been really upset, or really struggled during a stressful time - what tends to make you feel better the most? | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 06:18 PM |
| 4 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateYes! It's no longer 'enough' to just be a talented athlete that worked really hard and has some fantastic natural instincts. You need to have a sob story, some emotional hook that draws the audience in and gets them on your side. I don't watch sports, but does the NFL/NBA etc do the same thing? I can't imagine men wanting to listen every week about the personal soap-operas...but I could be wrong. I think the funniest part is probably that the coaches and the athletes themselves don't think of th… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 06:13 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you disagree about employment and living situation?If she was happy with her city job, she would have never taken the rural job. Yes, that stuck out to me as well. That she loved her job but (seemed) very casual about leaving it. She did mention doing so because she knew it would please her husband - but again, if the house was supposed to only ever be a vacation home why would it please him to have her turn her life upside down like that. I think he saw her leaving that job to move out to the house as her committing to the same future he wanted… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 06:07 PM |
| 3 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateNot at all, especially when it comes to this community haha! We love to hear from members that are excited and feeling either the first blush of romance or have been madly head over heels in love with their man for decades! I agree that there's something to be said for waiting a bit when sharing news like this among immediate friends that you meet up with or see frequently - but this is a forum dedicated to relationships (both forming and improving them). :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 05:51 PM |
| 5 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateI was answering a request made by another user for clarification about a comment that WingN made at the top of the thread. Sex, economic class, culture, education, social class, religion, family background etc all play into our personal development as individuals. The place(s) we occupy within society determine the people that we meet, mingle with, work for, and employ. Everything is connected and influenced, and we all (either knowingly or unknowingly) partake in the dance. I've grown to find t… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsI think the fact that you spent the time considering the exchange overall for the sake of understanding and improving your bond with your husband speaks highly of your sincerity and motivations. I had another thought, a lot of men can feel helpless and at a complete loss when they hear a loved one complain about a problem/situation that really doesn't have any kind of solution. By and large, women are driven to vent/complain as a way to 'let out pent up steam' and negative energy. Most men are d… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 04:26 AM |
| 4 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateI gave no personal opinions about 'should' or 'should not' in terms of emulating, striving for, accepting, or rejecting one social class in favor of another. I described some common points of confusion (example: many people believe social class is determined by the presence or absence of money), and explained that people do not magically 'become' a certain class when they come into wealth. Similarly, a long standing UC family will not 'become' or adopt lower class values if/when they lose their … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 04:13 AM |
| 7 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateHere is one that Camille shared with me a while back: http://classic.marshall.usc.edu/assets/125/21653.pdf You can also find a lot of fantastic posts on this is a wonderful blog with tons of different topics to explore (another treasure that Camille shared with me). | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsI'm glad you can be that humorous in your workplace, and it was a useful advantage in that scenario. :0) He feels territorial about you, that's not a bad thing. Just leave gender out of the equation if you need to vent a bit about work. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 03:02 AM |
| 5 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep Private/u/Camille11325 shared a blog with me, and I remember a few articles talked about social media etc. Here's one to get you started. It's really great stuff. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 01:52 AM |
| 6 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateWell, the only way to prove you're the biggest victim around is to expose every last dirty detail of your life. It's really fascinating, because I don't believe for a second that life is so traumatically harder/more oppressive/sexist/racist etc today for people than 20, 30, or 50+ years ago. The way people handle their issues, talk about problems, and demand recognition/sympathy/to be heard (without any judgement ever) has spiraled out of control. Life has always been a mix of good, bad, and ugl… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 01:41 AM |
| 8 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateOther than the title of her blog haha, I agree with everything on the list...and I'm a bit surprised that anyone would think to share some of these things. Thanks for sharing! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 01:10 AM |
| 7 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateProle, lower class, poor, trashy, ghetto... "Classy" is the word lower classes/prole/ghetto etc people use in an effort to sound more refined. "Classy" is not the same as saying 'elegant' or 'gracious' and if that's what you're going for, then it's better to actually use those words. It's becoming increasingly popularized, even among the middle class, and there are financially well-off popular culture figures that utilize the word. Which is why it's important to understand the distinction betwee… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Simple QuestionsI can't change his insecurities, but I want to know how to handle him when he gets these ideas in his head. How can I shake him out of his bad mood or avoid an argument? If you know that mentioning men is likely to set off an alarm in his head - then don't bring up random men (even to complain about them). Regardless of the context, all he sees is you interacting with a man at work, and in the end laughing with him over a joke you made. I've never been a waitress, so I'm not sure what the protoc… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsThank you for looking that up! I was out buying groceries when I replied to you and I really appreciate you taking the time to research that for me. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 12:45 AM |
| 7 | Housewife skillsKnow how to swing a hammer and use normal tools, look for common appliance/house problems and fix simple things if you need to in a pinch. Have a house binder, and a family file with all important information, I would also include vehicle information (when oil changes need to happen, buying new tires etc). If you have pets, their information should also be accounted for in one easy to find location. The idea being that if you were to go on vacation, or be unavailable for a while - all you'd have… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsThanks for the information, I didn't know that. Do you know how/why that expression started? | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsThe situation makes even less sense now, what did the guy say to you? How did your husband explain that it was flirting? Edit: Obviously there are more restrictions (on you as an employee) when it comes to interacting with customers - I didn't realize this happened at your job. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsI agree with what /u/thehighzombie said: It's a lot easier to destroy someone's self-confidence than it is to build it up. It might take a hundred times of showing him you trust him for it to really stick. If you're ready to work for it and try, I wish you the best of luck. It sounds a little like you're already feeling like the situation is hopeless, though. It takes a lot of active and consistent support/encouragement to create a sense of "I trust you" while 1 or 2 negative (even mistakenly ne… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsI don't understand what you mean when you say that you 'give out baskets,' or how that relates to this topic. Do you mean gift baskets, sympathy baskets...something else? | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsI don't understand what you mean. The post was one I quoted, originally written by a woman that has not been active for quite some time. That said, I can tell you that tryanotherjuan addressed the 'people will talk' angle by specifically stating: I think it’s important to establish clear boundaries from the beginning. Many boundaries my boss and I have established are unspoken, but still important. I don’t ever close the door if we are in the office alone. We almost never work late together, my … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsWhat happened? I think it's very important to actively enforce boundaries as a woman that's unquestionably 'spoken for.' You don't have to initiate or encourage other man, yet you can still fail to guard the boundaries of your relationship. If you don't end an exchange or conversation that creeps into 'grey' zones of acceptability - that's on you. It's hard to provide more feedback without knowing a bit more about what happened in your case specifically. I can tell you some of the things that I … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsI think how you deliver the comment (and when) is really important. Does your SO have aspergers (I wasn't clear if it's your SO or your son or someone else). If you were to share several stories of your own mistakes, and instances where things spiraled out of control quickly and unexpectedly through no fault of your own (in a joking and illustrative manner) - then you are commiserating and bonding with your SO over the mishap. Also, why say the comment at all? I'm sure he was feeling like a fail… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Feedback from your ExIf you are ending the relationship, to openly criticize/judge their conduct really serves no purpose and (in my mind) would be unnecessarily cruel. "Not only am I breaking up with you, on my way out the door I'm going to tell you exactly why you're such a sh-t." There's really no reason to rub salt in the wound, and it's not as though they will thank you for your honesty. If you are washing your hands of a relationship, and by extension, the other person entirely - then just make a clean (and co… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 04:24 PM |
| 11 | Simple Questions/u/tryanotherjuan is a fantastic member of the community with a highly demanding/successful career. She hasn't been active in quite some time (she reconnected with a dear friend from college, they had an LDR for a short-while before getting engaged. I remember all the conversations the IRC had with her starting from when she was single, to reconnecting with this man and trying to figure out if she should or shouldn't try to pursue the opportunity to connect with him, and her updates over the sub… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 04:11 PM |
| 4 | What to do when you disagree about employment and living situation?Tempy yes, wonderful observations all around! Everything /u/forestrygirl has shared has seemed so bizarre and disconnected to me. I knew that he struck me as rural with a very clear desire for that life, and that she struck my as a city type because she has been doing everything possible to get back... but your observations about boredom and not really giving the rural life a try make sense. She never gave a reason why she couldn't start getting to know his parents better before getting pregnant… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 02:36 PM |
| 5 | What to do when you disagree about employment and living situation?Thank you for taking the time to respond to my questions, I apologize for repeating a few of them. He found a job posting and sent it to me saying "wouldn't hurt to apply, at least get your name in their ear" which I agreed was a good idea so I applied. Lo and behold I got the job thinking I wouldn't. I understand that you got the job, but between applying (at his encouragement - BIG indication that he didn't want the house for just a vacation home. You don't go looking for employment somewhere … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 12:10 AM |
| 3 | RPW Survey Results!there are so many great women here but your interests aren't going to be represented if you aren't contributing! Yes, please, everyone take this to heart. If you are interested in a topic and want to see more about a particular subject - don't sit on your hands hoping it will turn up. Create content, jump in and start conversations. Be active and engaged, and forge bonds with other users. Come to chat (we get new ladies all the time and it's a lot of fun hearing everyone's stories). I know that … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/08/16 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: What do you think RPW demographics are like?/u/camille11325 posted the results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 08:38 PM |
| 6 | What to do when you disagree about employment and living situation?Can you please clarify a few points? I randomly got a job near the house, so I left my city job with a heavy heart You had a full-time job in the city that you loved, why/how did you 'randomly' get a job near the house? You mention that you didn't realize how much of a difference it would be to move away from the city - how much time did you spend at the house before deciding to move there and take the new job? My job pays half of what I used to make You can't list this as a 'surprise' or even p… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/08/16 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Housekeeping for Those of Us Who Hate to CleanWonderful, please let me know how things go! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/08/16 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Why housewifery isn't enough for so many womenExactly. Thank you for being a voice of sanity in this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Housekeeping for Those of Us Who Hate to CleanYour relationship with your mom will definitely help you figure out the best way to approach things. I have an idea, but it may or may not be a great approach for you specifically. First, have you read this entry yet? It's all about cutting through the nonsense rationalization of "I don't care that I have a messy house...and I'm scrambling to clean simply because other people will care." The very fact that people attempt to 'scramble clean' means that they do care. You’re speed-cleaning because … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/08/16 02:29 PM |
| 4 | Housekeeping for Those of Us Who Hate to CleanA fantastic, easy to digest resource all around. Great find, thanks for sharing. Excuses are boring This applies to...literally everything in life haha. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/08/16 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Single Ladies General ChatHow is your relationship with your father now in comparison to before being committed to your SO? Is your SO more or less dominant than your father, and how does that affect their dynamic? My father is the standard by which I judge other men. Occam is the first man to not only meet, but exceed that standard. They both care about me and genuinely want me to be happy. They are also the two people that understand me the best. Those reasons alone mean they would be behave amicably even if there were… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/08/16 08:27 PM |
| – | President Obama on Feminism - Role Models TodayThis is an anti-feminist community, not a debate forum. Your personal definition of feminism is irrelevant. Do not promote feminist ideology or ask others to defend the fundamental ideas this subreddit is based on. Obama is a liberal, it's a surprise to no one that he would both embrace and promote a liberal idea like feminism. Your question: Who are the generally accepted role models for women today? (I'm honestly not sure besides probably Michelle Obama and Kate Middleton) What critique do you… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/08/16 01:44 PM |
| 20 | Feedback from your ExThere is nothing to be gained by re-opening doors with an ex. Upon ending a romantic relationship (or having the door closed for you), that person (moving forward) should have no standing, position, or influence in your life. There's nothing to be gained by keeping an ex around, inviting them to continue being in your life, or (even worse) trying to 're-connect' with each other months/years afterwards. Even in the case of amicable, mutually agreed on break-ups - I see no advantage to having the … | /r/RedPillWives | 10/08/16 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Trust Issueshttps://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/wiki/promotion | /r/RedPillWives | 07/08/16 09:23 PM |
| 1 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)He has been playing for years. So this isn't a new hobby he picked up out of the blue. Have you fought about it from the start? Has this been a point of tension the entire relationship? It's incomprehensible to me that he wants to be inside in front of screens all day every day Oh well. I mean this quite literally, "why do you need to comprehend/approve/understand his desire to play? Why can't you instead, make peace and accept that it's his choice and you don't get to control his schedule?" it'… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/16 01:18 AM |
| 5 | How to Behave With Your Husband by Laura DoyleA small shift might make a big difference. Instead of "how are you feeling?" try asking "Is there anything you need me to do?" Or "Can I get you anything?" The added bonus with those questions is that if there's something on his mind - he will realize that you're ready (and willing) to help out (if he needs it). He may ask for something related to what's occupying his thoughts, or he may use you as a reason to focus on something else. You make yourself available as an ally, without demanding thi… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/16 09:19 PM |
| 2 | How to Behave With Your Husband by Laura DoyleYes! Intention, and motivation are key. You and /u/CoochQuarantine touched on the same concept, and it's the identical issue I have with the article overall as well. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/16 09:11 PM |
| 7 | How to Behave With Your Husband by Laura DoyleThere's a lot about this article that I disagree with (and that's fine). It doesn't mean that Doyle's advice is wrong - only that it's just as important to consider the dynamic that exists between the couple (as well as the issues they may have). For example: Myth #1: Doing His Laundry Shows You Care Same goes with making his doctor appointments, packing his lunch and buying his underwear. Those things seem like something he’d appreciate and feel happy you did, but they actually make him feel sm… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/16 09:08 PM |
| 1 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)You don't have to understand his hobby, nor are you personally required to enjoy it. All you have to do is step back and realize that this is something that's very important to him, he finds it rewarding. His effort and investment is appreciated and noticed by others that also partake in the hobby. Right now you have a very entitled mentality when it comes to your husband's time. You think he owes it to you to spend time on you ('doing whatever' - which, probably sounds like a potential trap for… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/16 04:42 PM |
| 4 | How to Respect Your HusbandYou sound very focused on assigning 'blame' - it would be more productive to figure out why fights are happening at all. Are you undermining, or challenging him? What are the fights about? I recently had a discussion about arguments. I have never fought with my SO (as an example), but I know that fights are common in many relationships, for many reasons. It requires opposition to something (someone's irritation, disappointment, anger, frustration) and a full rejection of those emotions while als… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/16 03:32 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to friends and their influence where do you draw the line?I think it's always a good idea to consider whether or not the people you socialize with are a positive, neutral, or negative presence in your life. They don't have to be perfect all around, and I do think there's an important distinction between acquaintances and friends. I also think that when it comes to personal improvement, dating, and creating a better life in general - it's absolutely relevant to consider our social and familial ties. If you are trying to minimize certain flaws or bad hab… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/16 08:50 PM |
| 4 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)I hereby appoint you official head of research, inquiry, and implementation for pregnancy and motherhood threads. Go forth, ask questions, seek conversation, and stir up interest! You may wonder where in the heck to even start - well, I have a thought or two about that. I'll PM you on IRC in just a minute (don't want to spoil the [potential] fun for everyone just yet). :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 11:24 PM |
| 3 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Hey Step, I know you commented on the book discussion thread of "Fascinating Womanhood" that was posted a while back, but I'm not sure if you ever saw this thread that /u/hieronymusboschclone posted. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 07:30 PM |
| 3 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Welcome to the fray! Sounds like you have several different areas of interest. You may or may not be aware, but if you click on any of the flair tags listed below the sidebar - you will be able to see all the posts relating to that topic. I'm glad you kept coming back! If you feel like sharing, I fully encourage you to write up a field report about your journey so far. Users really enjoy seeing people grow, struggle, improve, and learn and I think it strengthens the community overall to share th… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 07:27 PM |
| 4 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Hi there and welcome! There are some wonderful "Girl Game" threads that you can check out. There will also be an upcoming Single's Discussion thread: Single Ladies General Chat - Are you single and a subscriber? This is your place to chat! Talk about your sexual strategy, ask questions from women who are committed, and share your experiences in general with women who can relate :) You can check out other topics that will be happening here. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 07:19 PM |
| 7 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Welcome and thanks for introducing yourself. How old are your kiddos? I know another newcomer, /u/MemoirsofaWife is currently expecting her first child in January, /u/LifterofThings recently had her first child, and /u/kittenkajira is also pregnant. I'm sure there are plenty of others as well that I'm forgetting to mention too. I think we'll have to have some pregnancy/being a mother related threads. If there's enough interest, everyone that his kiddos (or is still expecting) could plan on havin… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 07:15 PM |
| 4 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Hi there, and thanks for taking the time to introduce yourself! Do you mind talking about some of the more common issues that seem to recur time and again in your marriage that you would like to resolve? You can also do a separate post and ask for ideas or advice if you feel so inclined. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 07:09 PM |
| 4 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Congratulations on your expanding family! Glad you decided to create an alt account so you can start commenting. If you feel up to it - you can also drop by the IRC chat (someone will link you to all the info you need). We love getting to know new girls. I know there are a few users that either recently had a baby or are currently pregnant (paging /u/kittenkajira --she's a regular in chat) :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 07:06 PM |
| 3 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Welcome! If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask. We talk about a wide range of topics, so hopefully you'll be able to find a few things that pique your interest. Good luck finishing up grad school, and all your other exciting plans! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Defining SluthoodMore important (and damaging) than any prior reputation would be the presence of behavioral and psychological red flags associated with a woman that has opened herself up to a revolving door of men. Women can move to new places and switch jobs, but without concerted effort, awareness, and patience- they can't begin to work on fixing the things that literally drive good men away and act as warning beacons to marriage and relationship minded males. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Defining SluthoodYes, and that's a great way of putting things haha! Everyone has flaws (if it's not the AC, maybe it's the washer, or the heater, or the toaster - something big, or maybe some smaller things....the point being, no one has a fully stocked, perfectly running, pristine set of house appliances that never require maintenance or upgrades, or the occasional repair). You can't fix anything that really needs to be fixed until you admit that it's on the fritz. Admitting there's a problem to be addressed i… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 05:07 AM |
| 7 | Defining SluthoodThis is my point. it's assumed that women with many sexual partners will automatically have a hard time finding a partner. this assumes that men will know her ncount. this assumes that men will always ask. this assumes that men naturally care. They will have a harder time assessing, vetting, judging good men for relationships vs. men that are too high value for them and are only willing to have that woman as a fling. You are pretending that sluts/former sluts don't have any behavioral or psychol… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Defining SluthoodThis is a fantastic comment, and you address so many important aspects of the overall equation (perception of personality vs actually vetting the woman's behavior, her age and the number of men she has slept with as well as under what circumstances). I agree with everything you said here. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Defining Sluthoodi'm saying it doesn't factor into her abilities or potential as a wife or mother at all. You used RP material/manosphere, or RPWives posts or similar blogs to come to this conclusion? Or this is your personal opinion as an individual? I'm trying to understand how anyone can say they are RP...and then deny/ignore one of the most fundamental RP concepts ("it's in a woman's best interest to limit the number of men she has sex with because sleeping around creates many problems for women") | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Defining SluthoodExcept that now she may have a reputation Yes, that's why I said in my initial comment that both 'pretending' to be a slut and actually being a slut are both negative things. The attention whore has to 're-brand' herself and work on changing her reputation, but she doesn't have to carry around the psychological or emotional trauma that having piles of men creates. To put it another way, the attention whore/fake slut - just has to redirect her focus, change the way she dresses, and exert some dis… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Defining SluthoodI think that's a fair point, and personally, I'd be repulsed by the same kind of man you are talking about, just as I would be repulsed by a non-masculine man with overly effeminate behaviors and mannerisms. In the same way that being a virgin is really only a positive when coupled with a young woman. When a woman is 40 - if she's a virgin, that's no longer a 'draw' to men, that's an active warning sign to beware. Women want to be with men that are desired, successful, attractive, charming etc. … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Defining SluthoodAKA attention whoring. The ncount matters less. The N count is symptomatic of other issues that the woman will have in her personality. Whether those issues existed prior to her sleeping around, developed as a result of sleeping around, or if the two developed in lock step with each each other is a different discussion (and one definitely worth having). You can't have a feminine, healthy, 'ideal' happy woman that has also slept with truckloads of men. Former sluts with high N counts will have be… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 12:34 AM |
| 8 | Defining SluthoodI think the concept of a 'male slut' is stupid, and makes no sense. The ability to acquire sex and attention from men is one of the markers by which you identify that a man is desirable, attractive. Calling a man a 'slut' is meaningless because the word 'slut' has a decidedly negative connotation that does not, and (in my opinion) really can't be applied to men. We've talked a bit about this before: men can get relationships easily - the challenge for them is all about whether or not they can ge… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/16 11:18 PM |
| 1 | "I'm 50 today. This is what I know." Dr. Jen GunterOne conclusion could be that the type of woman who doesn't want to feel any pressure to look good for her man is less attracted to her man. Yes! I think this is a really important aspect. When women are attracted to a man so intensely that they almost seem insane - they will go to just about any lengths to please that man. I think a lot of plates (or FWB dynamics) actually end up in that 'desperately attracted but forever left wanting' category in many cases because they don't have enough value … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/16 01:22 AM |
| 1 | "I'm 50 today. This is what I know." Dr. Jen GunterHowever, if, for instance, a curly haired woman straightens her hair before getting with a partner, there is no reason for her to feel upset if he expects her to continue straightening her hair for him if he has a preference for straight hair. Do not advertise yourself as someone to a man unless you are willing to maintain the woman you are advertising. I agree with this. And I'm glad that you represented yourself in a way that authentically reflects who you are as a person. I don't wear makeup … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/16 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?Awesome, please let me know how things go after you've tried it for a while - I'd love an update! Occam and I use Google keep for a lot of things as well (longer and shorter term projects) too. The nice thing is that we can both add and edit things as needed. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?You didn't 'let' him down, or 'do' this to him. Unless you deliberately tried to poison yourself, harm your health, and try to die while pregnant...this was never in your control to begin with. This was tragedy and pain - not deliberately planned, nor carefully orchestrated. You can't blame yourself, or your husband's past, or anything else. It sounds like you have quite a long road to go in terms of healing (both physically and emotionally). The first step is admitting that you had no hand in t… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?I'm so sorry for the pain you have experienced personally and the loss your husband has struggled with as well. You're right in that this is by no means a small issue. There are a lot of things happening here, and I honestly wouldn't even know where to suggest that you start. I hope you leave this up though, at the very least I will think on it and try to come up with something more substantial when I have a bit more time. All the best to you and your husband. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?They can both have salient points - but it's more important for your H to feel your loyalty and support. You validate his feelings, you ask him what he needs/wants, and you tell him that you will do whatever he thinks best in this situation. After he knows you are firmly on his side, and genuinely want to look out for his needs first and foremost, then you can offer more objective insights. Right now he's coming to you with frustrations, and instead of being his wife, and on his team - he sees y… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?He's married to you, that should be all the proof you need that he wants to be with you. What problems are you dealing with personally? What are your flaws? What are you doing specifically to improve yourself right now? It's hard to give more specific advice without some additional information. If you can describe the nature of the issue(s) without spilling all the details ("we struggle to save money" for example) - then that would at least create a starting point from which a productive convers… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?Focus on your posture - it's weird but standing up straight, and engaging your core/being aware of your alignment makes you feel more confident. Don't slouch when you're sitting down, and keep your head from 'bopping forward' like a vulture when you are at a computer. Practice standing up and sitting down in a controlled manner (as opposed to simply 'plopping'). Not only will you engage your muscles a bit more - you will also start to notice other movements you make all the time, maybe they are … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?Compliment him, be playful, laugh together, shake your bum for him a bit and entice him to chase you. You know his sense of humor as well as your own, it may take some time - but be consistent and focus on reviving casual touch, laughter, intimacy, and doing things that make him want to chase you into the bedroom. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?Instead of making a massive (and endless) checklist - make a short and to the point list that only consists of 3 things. Don't go to bed until the list is complete. Then you can cross them off the longer list, and pick 2-3 more things for the next day. You don't have to get through everything in one try, you just have to make progress every day. Do this for 7 days straight and you'll be amazed at the results. :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 12:23 AM |
| 4 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?I have chores that I force myself to tackle every day. I've been doing this for a few months now and it's made everything easier. Dishes are done daily I do laundry as soon as I have 1 full load My desk is clear every evening before I go to bed If any of these things doesn't get done at night before I go to bed - they are the first things I do when I wake up. I am also now in the habit of putting things away (pens, mail, work material etc) as soon as I notice it. My approach is to 'fight' lots o… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 12:19 AM |
| 7 | Returning to Red: Hello again, update, and thanksCongratulations on making a plan and sticking to it. Hopefully you feel more at peace with yourself overall and you're ready to continue moving forward for the better! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/16 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Surf Safely!I think something like that would be useful for users that comment on a lot of different subs, but we generally recommend that people have a RPW specific account, and we try to let people know if they are disclosing too much information (potentially). It would be much harder for someone to establish ties to this community and gain the reputation of being a trusted voice that consistently gives good advice if they used a service like the one you mentioned - but it's definitely an option to keep i… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/16 01:58 PM |
| 5 | Beware 'Journalists' and 'ReportersYep I remember that. The woman that volunteered to speak ended up looking both foolish and poorly informed all around. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/16 12:11 AM |
| 6 | DONALD TRUMP AMA THIS WED @ 7 PM ON THE_DONALD!Really looking forward to this! Thanks for the head's up! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 06:29 PM |
| 1 | The Most Feminine Women Make the Least SenseYes exactly! :0) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 06:23 PM |
| 1 | The Most Feminine Women Make the Least SenseI agree with everything /u/Camille11325 touched on in her comments. Furthermore, I fluctuate between 'very serious' and 'very playful' all day long, depending on the situation. It boils down to awareness, and context. My SO doesn't hesitate to trust me with important projects, because I'm organized and get things done. When I'm in my 'relaxed' mode though, I can be silly and forgetful and entirely random. He enjoys both sides of my personality, because I'm not trying to be useless and drag thing… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 06:03 PM |
| 3 | The Most Feminine Women Make the Least SenseThat is completely untrue. The behaviors the author is describing are not 'bad' or 'manipulative' or 'unacceptable' - they are feminine, exuberant, youthful, joyous. She talks about how most women tend to think, react, and operate when they are comfortable, happy, and unguarded. Can the behaviors go to extremes and drive men crazy? Absolutely, which again, is why the author provides things to keep in mind. When balanced, and presented within a healthy/happy relationship, most men enjoy a certain… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 03:50 PM |
| 3 | The Most Feminine Women Make the Least SenseHow so? Your comment makes it look like you either (A) did not actually read the article, or (B) failed to understand the message(s) the author was dutifully seeking to explain. You seem to be taking the sentiment that is so thoughtfully explored and articulated to an extreme that has no purpose...for the sake of trying to be humorous (I think). | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you be sure to go back to Day 1?Oh yes, definitely! No man wants to be with a grouchy woman. Being sour when things are hard doesn't make a situation better. Nor should you be overly light if things are really serious/bad. But adding levity, being useful, and pleasant when there are hiccups along with way? GOLD. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 03:27 PM |
| 3 | How do you be sure to go back to Day 1?If you don't already have one - pack an easy 'go kit' that has basic outdoor supplies (water, sunscreen, kleenex or paper towels some extra plastic silverware, band aids, charger for electronics) or anything that you might randomly need during an impromptu excursion. Having snacks that are easy to pack and take along, or making a list of things that you may need after he makes it known that you'll be doing X activity. I'm also a big fan of small, random gifts. I gave him a cheesy knick-knack on … | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 03:16 PM |
| 5 | How do you be sure to go back to Day 1?Waiting between relationships (until I knew I was fully 'over' and had moved on from the previous one) is something that always helped me avoid treating a new relationship as more of an 'expansion release' of my previous one. I haven't had many relationships, and they were all different from each other in several important ways (both good and bad). I actually think of my current relationship as my first 'real one' for several reasons (not only in overall structure and dynamic, but also with how … | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 02:51 PM |
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