How do I get rid of my oneitis? I have already tried and got another girl had a fling and stopped talking. I had one girl going after me and telling me that she liked me before I liked her which creeped me out. I decided not to talk anymore to her because she wanted to tie me down. It was probably like that for my oneitis when I first confessed to her except she didn't leave. I'm still talking to other girls but I don't feel love. I don't seem to get over her. I think I would be able to if I didn't have to see her all of time. She is my coworker. I don't know if I should next her by not trying to talk to her all the time. I tried soft nexting her which meant I was just gonna talk to her when I needed to and nothing more. Didn't try to give her any of my time. She gave me a call after a week of not talking and I stopped the soft next. Should I try to leave quietly like that again but without answering her calls? Or should I just be upfront and say that I can't be her friend anymore?