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Around a month ago this lass messages me first on Snapchat. She kept asking to meet up with me but I kept pieing her off, agreeing to meet sometimes and then cancelling last minute or just straight rejection as I was already meeting multiple other girls whom were also better looking, quality over quantity and all that. Anyhow I kept her around as a bored texting buddy until a rainy day. She asked again to meet and I thought fuck it as I didn’t have much to do. Thing is we got on really fucking well, better then I have with everyone else I was/am talking too.

Couple days later she texts again asking to meet up which I agree too, get on great again. Couple moments she started enquiring about things like how all of my best friends on Snapchat are girls. Nearing the end of the night she was talking where we’d go next time and shit. I never shagged her or even made a move as she isn’t really a stunner so I’m not too fussed about hooking up with her, only thing special was how I got on with her.

I decide to initiate a meet this time and she agrees but I could tell it was one of those ones that wasn’t going to happen. I decide to try again a week later but then calls me a couple hours prior to supposedly meeting saying she doesn’t know if she wants to watch her friend (female) play football and that she doesn’t want to go. She didn’t say anything about cancelling but I checked her Snapchat Story and she was there. She didn’t message me again so I just took that as massive disrespect and left her.

Week later she texts me saying I’m really cocky, rude and disrespectful. I enquire about it as I didn’t really have a fuck what she was talking about. Then she says about how I said her hair was greasy at the start of the 2nd time meeting. I said it as a joke and at the time she took it as a joke. I decide to just ignore her again. She also starts slagging me off about how I’m going on holiday with my ex.

Couple days later while I’m on my 1st holiday (One without my ex) she pops up to me again just asking how I am along with all the other small talk. I figure she’s moved on from it and she was just on her period or something. I also post a picture of myself on Instagram which she likes during this time.

Another few days later I go on my 2nd holiday (With my ex). I post a picture just of the beach on Snapchat and she replies to my story saying “Holiday with my babes - good caption”. I just ignore it. Here’s the bit I don’t understand she then starts fully drilling me in text messages. I initially thought she was joking because I can’t tell you how sad it looked. Then I thought it was just jealousy after a bit more drilling. All through this I’ve just been either ignoring her or agreeing and amplifying. Then she starts sending me voice messages and it literally sounds like pure hatred like fully vented. If it was jealousy I’d assume she’d want to sort of be good with me. She then calls me and again is just calling me every name under the sun saying that I’m a rat and that I think I’m something special. I get a little bit heated here and completely lose frame and start completely ripping her to shreds which just escalates so I just ended up hanging up.

Next day I figure it’s the end at this point and she’ll fuck off as clearly hates us but she calls me again but I didn’t answer so I just texted her asking what’s up and she says “You’re a fucking faggot” which I reply “Love you too xx” which she responds with “Shut the fuck up you fat cunt”. Then again starts sending voice messages completely drilling us. Bitch is completely batshit crazy.

Can anyone mind breaking down this behaviour? I just don’t understand it. Where did it go wrong? It all seems so petty and sad. Why message someone who you clearly resent so much?

P.s I know what TRP says about Social Media but that’s where I find the majority of the girls I talk to and it works well for me. I’ve also got a decent social status.