“Are you single?”

vandaalen · 2018-06-04T20:14:00+00:00

You don't need to show your intentions. A woman knows right from the beginning that you want to stick you willy into her moomoo. In fact she assumes it every time a stranger approaches her until he proves her otherwise.

Stop asking that retarded question. It's sufficient to tell her that you want to get to know her.

TopTRP · 2018-06-04T20:21:00+00:00

Asking her flat out if she's single doesn't allow her to maintain plausible deniability, which is shooting yourself in the foot.

You're forcing her to acknowledge she has a BF, and going any further with you means she's knowingly cheating.

Keep the whole boyfriend thing out of it, and on a side note, if a girl ever mentions that to me I just ignore and keep going, or depending on the circumstances will say something like "that's cool I'm not trying to be your boyfriend" smirk.

When you approach try this instead:

Pick out something about her to comment on.

Shoes, hair, her thumb fucking her phone, something she's looking at, whatever.

One of my recent approaches, I saw a girl with matching light blue eyeliner and a light tube top. So I approach her and say "hey your eyeliner matches your top, I bet you did that on purpose didn't you?"

Her looking surprised: uhhhhhh..nuh uh

Me: yeah you definitely did, busted.

annnnnnd you're in

Approach her and open with something like that.

swimminginblue · 2018-06-04T20:21:19+00:00

Dude, never open with that, I know a lot of PUA tell us to use that direct opener but it doesn’t matter

1) she could have a boyfriend and wants to branch swing

2) already told her she was cute, why give that validation right away, make her earn it

3) a simple “ hey how’s it going” always works for me

4) let her be the one to say “ no” you’re closing the doors partially with that question already

Hopecel · 2018-06-04T20:38:43+00:00

Go read up on PUA.

chazthundergut · 2018-06-04T21:02:37+00:00

"Define single"

dulkemaru51 · 2018-06-04T23:21:00+00:00

"Hi, I had to tell you that you look really intelligent..."

"oh, thanks"

"Actually, no, I'm lying. I thought you looked good. Who are you? Are you smart?"

SAPPHIREAURA · 2018-06-04T23:57:28+00:00

That’s a statement not a question and would be a little awkward to open up with that...

Borsao66 · 2018-06-04T20:58:39+00:00

A&A

Technically I'm made up of million of single cells.

Title	“Are you single?”
Author	SAPPHIREAURA
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	June 4, 2018 8:06 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8okfqy/are_you_single/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/are-you-single.99179 https://theredarchive.com/post/99179

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