Article arguing men should stop sleeping with sluts. Thoughts?

Questionablechoice · 2017-05-03T21:02:19+00:00

The problem is clearly men committing to sluts. However this is too simple an analysis.

For the sake of argument lets say the marriage 1.0 system was correct. This arrangement was to provide men with lineage and women with security. Both sides benefited.

Now due to multiple factors some often not discussed here we have a situation in which women don't gain security and men don't secure lineage.

It's not hard to understand why successful men aren't committing and why women aren't being faithful to those which commit.

What really has changed is women no longer require men to provide food security and housing as they can earn for themselves. The lynch pin of the marriage arrangement was work being too difficult to due while child rearing or too dangerous to do while not.

This lynch pin is no longer in place and it's not going to be put back barring some major cultural revolution.

The "captain save a ho" issue is a problem for men which couldn't compete in the open market. Men which can compete are in a position of regular access to multiple partners if they choose. In some cases traditional relationships are still an option for them as well.

Men committing to sluts is a problem for the less desired which gradually has become the majority in the past few decades.

In response to the collapse of the marriage 2.0 situation which is currently on going we are seeing the drop in birth rate and the increase in MGTOW or herbivore men. This is largely because men are starting to recognise there is no benefits to marriage for them either.

If you want society as a whole to return to the past then yes men should stop sleeping with sluts. Women should be faithful to committed partners.

However there are no economic or social pressures to do so. With the rise of the welfare state and the soon to be adapted basic income pushes globally we will see the collapse of the nuclear family.

This is what people mean when they say enjoy the decline.It's the collapse of the current family system. You either take advantage of the situation, minimise the risks of being taken advantage by the system or your a sap which gets taken advantage of. There are no winners in this current social climate. It's going to require a shift (which is currently going on) to reestablish a mutual beneficial dynamic. What form that will take I do not know. However the current system is in collapse and the system of your grand parents is already gone.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-05-03T21:16:22+00:00

To what end? Sluts will continue being sluts. They're not going to stop being grabby of attention, insecure, and self-destructive. Women enjoy getting laid as much as men. They'll just go elsewhere.

Might as well accept them for what they are and use them for your own entertainment.

SpinPlates · 2017-05-04T00:43:25+00:00

Men should stop sleeping with FAT sluts.

The bored, loney average dude that hits a dry spell and goes hoggin' is the guy that keeps fat girls fat.

Nothing wrong with fucking attractive sluts.

salezman12 · 2017-05-03T20:23:36+00:00

The problem is commitment itself.

mrpoopistan · 2017-05-04T04:19:58+00:00

Unilateral disarmament. Should go well, right?

Title	Article arguing men should stop sleeping with sluts. Thoughts?
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Date	May 3, 2017 8:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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