Here it goes...and bear with me.

I'm a 40 year old married male who has had an affair for 6 years with a married woman. I have had other women on the side here and there as well - some single some married - all plates.

I have relatively high SMV. I lift, do triathlons and run marathons at a well above average effort. My body is about 10% body fat and I have been told I have a very ripped body (Brad Pitt in Fight Club'ish). I am a physician from an ivy league pedigree and I make a good amount of money. My specialty is in a pretty bad ass area doing amazing lifesaving things everyday. My affair partner is a nurse I met at my prior job.

There's another nurse from my prior job who is also married but I know she isn't happy with her marriage (never talks about husband and her Instagram just has pictures of her without her husband). We use to flirt at work but never did anything serious. I haven't talked to her in 6 years until a month or so ago. I start flirting and trying to show interest and she takes it fine (not totally flirting back but not rejecting me either). She has told me that she stalks my IG at times.

Today out of the blue she asks if I want to go out dancing with her. This is not having talked to her in weeks but seeing she "liked" many of my recent IG post.

  1. Is she interested in taking this further or am I just her friend?

  2. I'm on call this weekend so I couldn't meet up with her. Because I declined she said "OK next time then..." And then I said I'd love to catch up and she replied "I'll let you know in advance next time". How should I make a move? Wait a week and ask her to drinks? Touch base again in a week to see how she is?

I have a feeling there's a chance and shes about a solid 7-8.