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[–]JimFury8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's looking for a commitment, if you're not chances are it'll go tits up soon. You can maintain your frame and she might come back but it sounds like it won't last much longer if you're not looking for an LTR.
[–]stillnoturday5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
the wobble before the break
[–]schnappdragon 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is she LTR potential? If you like this girl start doing meaningful stuff with her, like take a weekend trip with her somewhere or some random meaningful gesture.
Make sure you're staying red though, I'm not prescribing beta shit like flowers/chocolates.
[–]JamesSkepp0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]wehadtosaydickety1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a comfort test she'll break if he does this. Maybe that's the desired outcome but frankly he doesn't need any advice to break her, she's falling off all on her own and it'll happen within a week without him doing anything.
She hasn't done anything wrong in how she approached this, she's just starting to wobble. So I disagree you next her because of it or give her silence unless the goal is to get rid of her, which again is already happening.
[–]bigmfkr0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
"I'm not looking for a committed relationship right now. Sorry baby, it's not you, it's me."
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That sounds feminine as fuck
[–]bigmfkr-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes, because it's what women say when friendzoning a guy. Meant to be delivered with a shit-eating grin.
[–]itsxeno 1 points1 points1 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
OP is texting though. There's going to be no tonality, body language, etc.
Reading that black and white is estrogen based
And saying 'sorry' is unneeded
[–]bigmfkr-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree, if text only, it's shit. But he shouldn't be using texts for such conversations in the first place.
Text wise, the logical reply seems to be "let's meet then", returning it to normal logistics discussion.
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