Hi all,

I want to ask out a girl in my class at uni. She's a year below me and fairly shy. She goes red whenever she speaks. It seems that she's a virgin and doesn't have a very "slutty" attitude which is good.

How should I go about asking her out? Facebook? Get her number and message/call her? Ask her out in class? I don't want to do it in front of my mates and the rest of the class.

I was thinking of doing a short coffee date (as per posts of seen advising this), and then if all goes well, do something at night another day (examples of this?).

I've never been with a girl before so this is all new to me. I have my license plus a pretty sweet car, good job, eat healthy, good clothes and diet. The only thing lacking is my social skills/confidence.

All advice is much appreciated.