Gentlemen, I am a red pill believer and looking to apply the principles.

Situation is met some girl off of a dating website, hb7, we hit it off and go all the way by our 4th date. She is nice, smart, and unfortunately a tad religious. More on that later. I maintained frame through the whole dating process and hardly ever texted and took the lead.

Long story short, she is 26 and looking to make things official and doesn't want to date for fun aka Approaching the wall.

A couple dates later I ask her to be my girlfriend, she is ecstatic but I also want to know what I'm getting into. I find out after I ask her out from her that she just got out of a 3 year relationship 5 months ago, which apparently was pretty much over long before it was officially over. She mentions it was very painful for her and sometimes it randomly bothers her when she hears things through the grapevine. She maintains that she is over it though and is looking to the future only.I call Bs. Anyone have experience with a similar situation?

On the religious aspect she wants our tobe kids to be somewhat religious and I maintain that I don't want my kids to be religious as I am an atheist. If she is not on board this is a deal breaker for me, But we are still trying it out. Frame failure on my part. Not sure how religiosity affects relationships.

Options:

  1. keep her on the DL and keep dating.
  2. Cut and run.
  3. Let things play out even though she might not be over her ex/ values don't align.

Thoughts.