I’ve heard some people say to never look too available, but then others will say that you have to take any opportunity that comes. What’s the balance between this? Seems like we’re damned if we do and damned if we don’t when they have like 10 guys lined up.

One of my plates has been on a 10 day vacation and just got back tonight. I think she just assumed I would come see her, but she had her two friends with her and I didn’t wanna deal with that, I just want to bang her so I told her maybe later this week. She kept asking me anyways and it almost felt like she was testing my word so I just doubled down and said nah maybe another time. Did I do the right thing here?