I (22m) have been talking to this girl (20f) at my college since October. I met her on tinder and we started hooking up. I was still talking to a few girls here and there but have been lowkey because corona virus and have been focusing on school. We have been hooking up about once a week, and although I like her and think about her a lot, I have given her barely any validation and text her sparringly. Shes crazy about me and almost said she loves me. However there are some red flags: she told me she wasnt seeing anyone else but one time i picked her up and she said she just came from a date. Another time she posted her tinder messages on her close friends story on instagram (I suspect just to get me jealous), this was after we told each other that we deleted tinder. Although I was looking for a steady relationship, these factors made me very cold to her and treat her like just a hookup. Therefore I feel like shes been playing games to try to get my attention.

Recently we have been very good. I have been seeing her twice a week, and she comes over and sleeps over to hookup and watch a movie. Shes absolutely crazy about me but She doesn’t really think I like her because I have a hard time expressing it and have seen many red flags from her. I had a whole expensive date planned for this Sunday Valentines day at a hot tub spa, and was about to ask her to be more serious like in a relationship because things have been really good. But, she posted a close friends story with another guy alone in a room last night and they were drinking beer and real close playing video games. This got me upset because although I am messaging other girls, I wouldnt put it on my story for her to see, and since theres a huge corona virus outbreak at my school, I have been very lowkey. This got me really upset and i dont know how to progress. Should I tell her I dont want to talk anymore and cancel our date on sunday, im not sure what I should do because honestly I have developed feelings for her. Lastly, I am very mindful of corona and dont want her giving me that from other guys.. I dont know who that guy was could have been a friend but probably not to be honest. Im not sure if im over reacting or not, she also has been more distant lately. I typed out a “breakup” text but im not sure if i should send it because im not thinking straight