Matched HB8, had short sexually-charged conversation on Tinder, told her to give me her number. She did, I told her to come over for drinks and good sex.

She replied:

Yeah honey, no, it’s gonna take more work than that

To which I replied:

I don't "work" for girls. Good luck with your other matches

She didn't reply and unmatched me on Tinder.

I decided to go the "you're not worth it" route, but it has never worked before.

I could have said something along the lines of "let's go grab a drink tomorrow then", but I felt like that would be entering her frame since I started on a sexual note and she was playing "hard to get".

Then again it's unreasonable to expect her to come over to a stranger's place.

  • Does being direct like this ever work on dating apps?

  • What could I have done to still go on a date without entering her frame?