For so many years I've been blue pill who somewhat pedestalised pussy.

After a lot of self improvement, I'm a jacked up well dressed jock type, with a lot of success.

I notice that a lot of people are somewhat intimidated by me. I do let away a bit of an unapproachable vibe. Once I get in my zone and let someone into "my bubble", I'm extremely likeable and girls won't have enough of me. My manager at my work did tell me once that I am difficult to approach.

A couple of girls told me that they ruled me out because they thought they wouldn't stand a chance, but I just went the extra mile and carried the burden of the interaction until closing. I'm like what the fuck when they said this? then it clicked because a lot of the girls that seemed so standofish and unfriendly they seemed to totally settle for the ultimate beta blob.

So I think what I have to work out is to give a bit more of a welcome smiley vibe and don't get people to be so scared of talking to me.

Anyone gone through this sort of transition? thoughts, ideas?