Girl I've been on a total of 2 dates with. I k-closed on the first one but it was short. Asked her to hang out a couple days after, but she had legitimate vacation plans for 2 weeks. I get busy, do my own shit and she comes back. I notice on social media that she came back but didn't bother re-initiating. On a random day, couple days after she had come back, she hits me up at 1am saying we should go on a date. I agree and we plan it. Date goes pretty well, flirting, touching, making out, etc.

We get to my car, ready to drive back. I made sure my house was clear, and dropped a line about some show I mentioned earlier and asked her if she wanted to come over and chill with me before work. I made sure no one was going to be in the house today and was expecting to get laid. She was like "uhhh" and thought about it for a solid 3-5 minutes before saying "No, I probably shouldn't" and laughing. I break frame a bit here (my one and only time) asking her if she was sure she didn't want to come over and if she wanted to grab food on the way back. She reaffirms her decision and I remained relatively non-butthurt. I initiated a kiss before she gets out of the car and we made out for a couple minutes. As she was walking into her garage she turns around and smiles at me, I'd rate it like a 7-8/10 date.

We're both in high school, I'm somewhat experienced and I'm pretty sure her n count is below 2 or 3. The thing is all of our interactions, online and irl, have just been a bit weird. She plays these games that just confuse me.

  1. We have a streak on SC, and she usually replies to my streaks but stopped talking to me after our first date for a while and now stopped responding again.

  2. Always tries to subtly talk about how people always ask her to buy alcohol (trying to impress me idk? her friends are kinda lame)

  3. Admitted to spacing out our interactions (makes herself seem more unavailible than ik she really is) because I "tease her too much"

On top of this, I only have a month till I leave for college so I want to use this as a learning experience. She's not the only girl I talk to, but should I keep pursuing her or leave her be. My game plan was to just chill and not engage her till she initiates again but I'm having doubts.