Being Realistic.

kingofpoplives · 2014-11-24T02:08:12+00:00

You aren't wasting your time at all, but you're going to need very strong and persistent game to overcome your short comings. (sorry, I had to)

I was at party last night and there was a short guy working his game. I've known this guy for years and he does well with women and had a very attractive LTR (who was significantly taller).

What I observed last night was how persistent he is. He was messing with this girl, joking, teasing, etc. She clearly wasn't attracted, but that did not to deter him at all. He just kept talking, kept performing, kept teasing. He has success with girls that are initially put off by his height by wearing them down with persistence. He just keeps at it, and after he makes them laugh enough times, they start to like him for his personality and bold attitude (this guy is not handsome either).

The thing to keep in mind is that he was not self conscious at all about this girl acting like she wanted nothing do with him. He just kept coming with it. This is one way that smaller guys actually have an advantage. Because they aren't as big, they can be more aggressive without it becoming scary.

Saturnalia93 · 2014-11-23T22:32:54+00:00

RP is never a waste of time, friend. Yes, your height theoretically could be a handicap to you, but there's tons of successful men out there (especially in Hollywood) who are short. Hell, I'm 5'9" and I get called short all the time. It's all subjective bullshit.

Glad to hear you've made the decision to embark on a journey of self improvement!

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oldredder · 2014-11-25T13:33:50+00:00

Not wasting your time but if you already dress well & are aware of women's biases you may already have learned the core of what matters.

Don't get women's mental state into your mental state: dominate the mental/social state, or if you can't/ shouldn't in a particular case, don't let them dominate your mind.

When your emotions are less but her emotions are more, and more positive to you because of how you look, how you say things, what you say (often less is more), you're doing it right.

And lifting. Lift, run, be fit. It's always worth it, always helps.

terryomys · 2014-11-23T23:57:54+00:00

I disagree with the other commenter. Your height isn't theoretically a handicap - Your height is a severe handicap right now.

Whether you like it or not, you are to women what fat women are to men the majority of the time. No, it doesn't matter if you can't help it.

But you wont be wasting your time. Yes, you should realistically expect change in your life. Change can, and will, happen. Red Pill for short men is like Weight Watchers for fat women. It wont physically put inches on you, but it will increase your SMV to a level which means you are more successful than you are now. Thankfully, while your appearance is a handicap, men are more than their appearances.

You may want to go for very short women yourself. 4'11 - 5'1/5'2 themselves, some real cuties. I know a 4'11 lass. Little chubby in the curvy sense, not fat, cute as a button. Boring fuck, but cute as a button. Find one.

Title	Being Realistic.
Author	Gonz84
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	November 23, 2014 10:30 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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