Active rp follower here. It's been 4 years since I've swallowed the pill(I'm 20) and i would say i pretty much ingrained all the philosophy into my soul.

So basically i met a girl at school and she was all up on me. I'm talking quick replies, telling me awesome and always near me(love bombing, right?) On the first day she also tells me she was raped and how terrible her life is(more symptoms, but i did not realize at the time) After a few days of knowing each other we make out, but she claims that she doesn't go further unless we get closer. I lie and say that it would be a shame to come this far and do nothing(not hinting towards a relationship)

After 2 months of doing nothing cause i had to focus on exams. I find out she has a bf(a year or sum) and she keeps hiding it from me. From looking at him and listening to her stories he's pretty beta and insecure. Being the gentleman i am, I kindly fuck his girl and send her on her way. This is where i fucked up. My condoms were too small and the first thing she asked was "can you pull out" It was the heat of the moment and i said fuck it. Luckily i got std and she is babyless. But what kind of girl cheats and goes raw with a guy she only knows for a few months(I'm glad i didn't catch anything)

The next day she texts me and says that we shouldn't do it anymore and tells me she doesn't regret it. I agree and delete the conversation. Few days later she hits me up and asks if she can come over(tf?) I tell her yes and she flaked(with good reason)

My question to yall is: is it wise to plate this bpd chick? She has admitted to me that she has bpd and even said that she doesn't consider herself a good person The only reason I'm considering it is cause of the corona stuff and lack of options.

Any tips for being the side guy? And how to get her over here without flaking? Should i call instead of texting?