Hello,

I am a long time lurker, and what many of you would call a "beta". I have read books on pick up artistry and I have to say that I have successfully used some of the material. Here is my big question:

I was with a girl for about six months. We got really involved, and she moved in right away. We had sex endlessly. It was great. Then she started saying I love you. It was bad because I didn't love her, just the sex. But maybe I could love her, I thought. So i reciprocated. Then. The blow jobs stopped. This was extremely frustrating, and I voiced this to her. She said she didn't like it. Even though she later told me how she liked to do it for her old boyfriend. WTF. Anyways, we tried this sex-declining relationship until just now when she left me and told me I was basically a loser. I am looking into the red pill, but I don't want to have to hate women to do this. Is this possible?

Thanks for the help