Body dysmorphia

SkorchZang · 2018-03-31T01:26:37+00:00

Don't take yourself too seriously. Body dysmorphia/?? Don't make the kids laugh man, that's a feminist chick thing.

Years ago I used to have fucked up teeth. Full on "dental dysmorphia" was a regular part of my life, soon as I opened my mouth the hotties ran for it. Got it corrected. And it's true, there's some kind of mental residue that makes you obsess about it a little, even though you corrected the issue (or it wasn't as important and deadly as you imagine to begin with). So I get the braces off, teeth are fine now, but you're still "unsure" about it - I know how that feels. But this isn't a mental illness, it isn't a tooth-fucking-morphia.

Here's the deal. It's actually an open vulnerability in your ego. In the sense of computer vulnerability - it's wide open for people to exploit you with, currently. Most people have some variation of it, it's pretty normal. They hide it as best they can and pretend it's not there, but poke under the surface a bit and you can usually find that one thing that any given man is insecure about. Women are masters at sniffing this out and pressing down on it, to test you.

They are helping you. This vulnerability needs to be dealt with and closed up forever. Don't look for relief or escape, look to overpower the underlying ego vulnerability that you're currently nursing and pampering by giving it pet names and shit. You're looking to kill the inner need itself, that fearful need to be normal or acceptable or good or good-looking, or whatever it is, it's all the same thing in different disguises. Being terrified that you won't be accepted. This is girly to the max, and is the result of not being brought up like a man should be (blue pill indoctrination). The incel-o-sphere is drowning in this shit, so it's no wonder you caught some. No harm done, see it for what it is, and it's only going to be helpful. It's helping you polish your ego's weaknesses down and become a man.

The truth for a man is that it's fine for you to not be accepted. It's fine, isn't even something you get angry about. You're strong and autonomous enough by design to be able to afford it with ease. If someone or some group does not accept you, that's fine. You walk away without hard feelings, without a frown - you never expected to be pampered or catered to, or praised and loved for doing nothing. If somebody treats you with respect and understanding, welcomes you - you thank them from your heart, because it's more the opposite that's the rule for you in most interactions, with a face like that... did I get you? Ha, just kidding! It's fine if women dislike your facial shit, you aren't a shiny dolla to be loved by everybody without exception. When a woman decides she wants to hang on to you, trust me it won't matter for SHIT what you look like, she'll be the pretty one for the both of you, if you're man enough to do your job right and not unravel into various unworthy insecurities. As easy as that, with us. For women it's different, women can't afford it at all. They must find the right disguises and lies to be accepted everywhere, they need this to survive. This creates a tremendous buried psychological anxiety in them, and because of the blue pill growing up, you're loaded up on this vaginal anxiety as well. It's in your hands, you just got to want to stop being a pussy and look for your birthright as a man instead.

GlennBeckAmerica · 2018-03-31T01:01:24+00:00

Try no fap idk. Its kinda helping me .

africasLOSTking · 2018-03-31T01:34:53+00:00

Grow a beard

[deleted] · 2018-03-31T02:51:40+00:00

Body dysmorphia is a fake liberal diagnosis.

You just still have lingering low self esteem from when you were a fat kid. Happens to everyone who makes a change.

Give it time. Time heals wounds mental and physical.

SuperCrazy07 · 2018-03-31T04:50:21+00:00

How can I break this negative pattern of thinking?

Go to a Walmart in the suburbs and look at all the loser men who have a woman. I mean, it just isn't that hard. There are fat, ugly, dumbasses who got a girl and three kids in tow. (Not saying this is a good idea, just that it isn't hard to get a woman.)

Incel is this weird, self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead of seeing all the shit guys who still get girls, you zero in on the two studs you know and think, "well, that's never gonna be me, I'll be a virgin forever."

It's only true if your beliefs make it true.

yunhaila · 2018-03-31T01:15:29+00:00

I had bad acne scars. I started working in cosmetics and found the best way to get rid of red marks was prp done by a qualified nurse practitioner. I got 3 sessions at the cost of $700. My skin is now baby soft and the marks have 90% gone. Confidence is through the roof. People saying my skin looks great left and right. The best part of it was there was barely any downtime. The bad is it hurt like a bitch (i teared every time). Women go FAR to get nice skin. Try subscribing to the skincare subs here.

If you just ugly then try to prove to yourself that looks don’t matter as much as you make it to be.

bouncebby · 2018-03-31T05:04:03+00:00

First, understand your problem. Your low ego is based on your perception of yourself. You imagine that you should look better than you do. But the reality is that you have no valid frame of reference for how attractive you are.

You need to base your attractiveness on real world reactions from other people.

I always assume an average attractiveness. I understand that some people will find me attractive and some wont. The only way I can find that out is by talking to them.

Werewolf35b · 2018-03-31T02:21:46+00:00

So you have a made up illness, all in your head, designed for women? Does your uterus hurt too?

Oh and there's three comments and one is from a guy whose had plastic surgery on his face and "works in cosmetics".

But when I post that you should beat the fuck out of a guy, regardless of who he is or what he is, or go down trying, when he fingers your chick in front of you at the bar or whatever, people act like I should be banned.

This is what this place has devovled to?

I think I'll show myself the door, uh, ladies.

Title	Body dysmorphia
Author	Dingdangdoodle21
Upvotes	7
Comments	11
Date	March 30, 2018 9:59 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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