I'm 19 now, started lifting (bodyweightfitness though) about 2 years ago and I've gotten muscular enough for people to not believe me that I don't go to a gym. I've got pretty good genetics and a 8/10 face on bad days. I've won the lottery on that part.

About a year ago I found /r/seduction and read some stuff, NMMNG and other ebooks. A lot of the posts were pure shit and I filtered the stuff I liked.

Grew up with a dad who's bipolar and the meds turned him into an emotionless zombie for the first 10 years of my life, then he switched meds and became the most pathetic bluepill father in the history of mankind. He's such a nice guy it's revolting.

My mom has very nasty hamstering issues but I've kept frame for the past few years and I'm pretty much the boss in our house now when shit needs to be done.

Last year I started getting into game and all and noticed I got quite some attention from girls: Good looks, nice career/education and a pretty solid frame (for people my age) gotten me laid a few times with a co-student, then once with her and her roommate, and then a few hookups with an international student (friend of a friend) who I snapchatted with and managed to meet up with her in less than a week.

Shortly after my brief introduction to spinning plates and no-strings attached relationships, I hit it off with another friend of a friend and she was really into me. She lives an hour away from me (but will live minutes from my place in 4 months) and since 6 months ago we've met up at least once a week approximately. We're in an exclusive relationship since october and up until now there were no issues.

About a month ago I rediscovered TRP, because earlier when pointed towards it I wasn't ready to accept the truth yet.

Since then I've started having doubts.

This girl "loves me" and to be honest she has treated me really well for now. She was a virgin before me, is 17 and I'm slowly training her in the bedroom department, going from just some touching to rather rough sex the way I want it.

I know her parents, she knows mine, we attended eachother's christmas dinners with our families, I met her friends etc so I guess stuff's pretty serious.

She's a pretty romantic type and does a lot for me like movie nights with tons of extra's (bubble bath, wine, olives, chips, etc) all prepared especially for me, buys lingerie and wears it for me, sends me a goodnight text every evening when she goes to sleep and makes time for me.

But the last 2 weeks she started flaking, I have received her usual evening text like only 2 times in the past week and she's saying that she might be too busy (school, ski trip, hobbies etc) for us to meet up in the next THREE WEEKS.

I'm seriously starting to consider breaking up and spinning some plates, but I would really like to give this LTR a shot as well. Now my question is:

What is the best way to break up without hurting her too much (Leave em better than you found em)? Or what would be the best way to tackle this problem and try to save what we have/had?