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yumyumgivemesome/r/seduction08/01/15 04:36 PM
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yumyumgivemesome/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:34 PM
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yumyumgivemesome/r/askTRP10/04/15 10:23 PM
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yumyumgivemesome/r/askTRP20/08/16 02:58 PM
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My favorite long term relationships are the ones that have maintained a level of flirting throughout. So the fantasy talk isn’t constant. Normal life requires normal boring discussions. But teasing in references to the fantasy at random points is like reminding the woman of a secret that you both have and of the emotions that got her excited about you during the early days of the relationship. I think OP’s advice can be applied in long term relationships much more than people realize, but of cou…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/25 03:13 PM
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It’s totally possible to live a good life in Bangkok for 1500USD. Per month or what?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/24 01:30 PM
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I don’t have any specific advice at the moment, but I think a major impetus for someone deciding to become proactive is believing that it’s possible to make such changes. Maybe he needs to see examples of people turning their lives around through very simple diligent effort. No luck or creativity needed - examples of guys taking very clear and simple steps along with seeing the growth and increasing confidence along the way.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/24 09:49 PM
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Sounds like you were going to buy her festival pass and whatever other accommodations are associated with it. Sometimes that gives a woman NiceGuy vibes, which means that niceness could turn ugly if she doesn’t concede to the guy’s likely romantic efforts during the weekend. Inviting a woman on a date or to join you somewhere still does not count as seduction. Seduction is about connecting with her in such a way that helps her see that she would enjoy spending time with you.
/r/seduction02/08/23 03:16 AM
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Well for one thing, showering a woman with gifts is NOT seduction.
/r/seduction02/08/23 01:34 AM
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Good stuff brother. Favorite thing about this community is that I can learn (or be reminded of) very useful wisdom from people who are half my age or twice my age all the same.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/22 06:47 PM
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Some things in life are more important than butter dough.
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:16 AM
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Instructions unclear, and now I’m fuckin stuck in a ceiling fan.
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:14 AM
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I’m not a mechanical engineer, but I make up for it by having a mechanical personality.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:58 PM
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I stay fit, but now I’m really focusing on being less short.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:56 PM
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Whenever people in person ask what you do, do you sometimes feel a little shy when you say “doctor” because there’s often an initial response of “oh wow!”?
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:54 PM
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Same. I took a lower paying type of roll to focus on what I’m more interested in and for better work-life balance, but women tend to hear my job and think I’m pulling in big bucks.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:53 PM
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Oh deer… you’re not wrong doe.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:51 PM
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It’s been many years since I read or watched PUA material. Are there any sources you’d recommend that are a little more up to date with modern dynamics?
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:17 AM
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Is it not even worth a Hail Mary attempt just in case she actually has been waiting for me to circle back? What do I have to lose? EDIT: Never mind, I know the answer. Like you said, I should just ignore and move on. If she hits me up later, then I’ll decide whether I feel like dicking her down or not.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/21 12:49 AM
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Suppose a foolish bloke like myself got himself into Mr Follow Up mode by failing to use the proper persistence last week. What approach would you recommend in following up this week, or do you consider it a lost cause unless she reaches out?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/21 11:44 PM
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If you were the hottie I was chatting up in the Costco parking lot, I’m very sorry for not asking for your number. Only struck me as I exited the parking lot that I might’ve missed a golden opportunity. Or maybe you/she was just being friendly. The point is now I’ll never know 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:30 AM
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Well you quoted one portion of a principle. Are you saying you’ve followed the majority of these principles and still are not having success? Or that you’ve followed a portion of this one principle and still are not having success? I’d find the latter completely unsurprising. Feel free to share if you’d like a third person perspective.
/r/seduction23/11/21 05:32 AM
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Oh sorry, I thought you were summarizing the whole list. Yeah, I’m not surprised that doing a fraction of just one of the items on this list and nothing else didn’t lead to success for you.
/r/seduction22/11/21 11:37 PM
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That’s a lazy and inaccurate summary of the list.
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:10 PM
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I find it hard to believe that a guy could always be falling short of these 10 principles and still have genuine success with women. Perhaps if he’s dating women of a much lower status than his own. If you’re saying they all fall short of some of these principles while still having success, then yeah, it’s not like you’ve gotta be perfect at all of them to have success. Luck and so many other factors come in to play. But these principles would surely improve one’s ability for success and consist…
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:07 PM
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Just don’t be surprised if you use the quote and someone replies back “Percocet, molly percocet.”
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:01 PM
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Was it a typo where you meant to say “me too” or is this something different?
/r/seduction06/05/21 04:09 PM
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What is “me tool”?
/r/seduction06/05/21 01:59 PM
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I’ve heard the advice previously about listening and watching standup comedy. I think it’s good advice and makes a lot of sense. I’ll just add that reading just a little bit (10 minutes) on a daily basis does some really surprising things. Not only does is improve your vocabulary (including the vocab you start to use in conversation), it also gives you the confidence to construct sentences in new ways that most people aren’t comfortable with in normal conversation. It’s not like you begin to spe…
/r/askTRP01/05/21 02:41 PM
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If she’s about one week before the Aunt Flo stage of her cycle starts, then that’s sometimes an inexplicably emotional time for women. They often do and say things on a whim during these few days. Others’ advice about it being a comfort test seems like good advice, but her cycle could also be a small factor.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:39 PM
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This comment itself could go straight onto the sidebar. Well said. Cleared up a lot of stuff for me.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:35 PM
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That’s a brilliant way of seeing it.
/r/seduction23/04/21 02:26 PM
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Time for OP to bust out a few things he was previously afraid to try out in the bedroom. Make the last round extra fun for himself and then ✌🏼
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:04 PM
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If she crawls back, it doesn’t tell you anything. I once had a disrespectful gf. At one point I lost my job. Despite my stress, I was just straight up tired of her shit. Well sure enough she was begging me to get back with her. Being a girl who was always chased, I think it fucked with her head that I was in a shitty situation of unemployment yet still had the balls to kick her to the curb. The way she looked so pathetic trying to get me back simply disgusted me and fortified the breakup. Never …
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:59 PM
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Google “freetoattach” and read just the first page (it was auto-removed when I tried to link it here). Or maybe my comment was removed because I linked to the Attachment Theory subreddit. Spend 5 minutes and see if any of that resonates with you.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:30 PM
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Great post. In the future, the possessive form of society is society’s, not societies. If you’re advising people to stop being influenced by influencers, then stop talking to them like an uneducated influencer.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 09:01 PM
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I think you mean “self-deprecation,” but I suppose depreciation sort of works too.
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:31 PM
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That statement is made in response to a guy feeling bummed that a girl he wants doesn’t seem to want him back. It’s nonsensical to change the response to what you have written. It’s like telling someone who just got fired from a job he really liked, “No way bro, you didn’t get fired, you just quit!” Otherwise his response is “Holy shit, you’re right! Ok, since they’re actually lucky to have me work there, let me go tell them I was just kidding and to hire me back!” I get your point that it’s abo…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:53 PM
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I suspect this guy genuinely enjoys dancing, so much so that there were probably plenty of times over the years that he was dancing with cute girls and not making a move. After looking back on dozens of nights of success and no success (or immediately after a night of epic success), he probably noticed a pattern for how high social proof nights led to greater success, and connected that to nights where he a focused on enjoying himself from the start rather than hitting on girls... for him that w…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 01:30 PM
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I see a lot of young people going out more and more. I suspect most of them have already caught covid and probably didn’t have bad symptoms. I’m not saying it’s a good idea. But if anyone is going to go out and about, they are the best segment of the population to do so. I’m older, caught covid, and had pretty mild symptoms. I still don’t go out and about, but it’s amazing how I have suddenly found myself in a crowded place, outside or at a grocery store, and I wouldn’t have the same fears I had…
/r/seduction25/03/21 02:38 PM
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It’s really fucking simple. And 99% of us who still don’t progress toward a happy and satisfying life only have ourselves to blame. That fact alone is depressing because we feel vindicated if we can blame someone else.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 02:27 PM
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And usually the leader(s) of the group will be the one(s) doing the majority of the interaction. But of course, if you pass in their eyes, then the whole group relaxes, and the other girls will feel like it’s okay to show signs of interest.
/r/seduction12/03/21 02:20 AM
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I don’t. Do you recommend him?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/21 04:14 PM
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This is exactly why I try not to get butthurt when a girl straight up doesn’t want a short guy. Easier said than done sometimes, but I remind myself that I have any number of strong preferences that a girl couldn’t feasibly change.
/r/seduction06/03/21 04:34 PM
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So very true. We don’t have to be at our goal. Simply being on a good path causes us to emanate success and confidence. You walk with better posture, talk with more certainty, and more genuinely enjoy every little interaction with others.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:57 AM
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Eye contact is great, but I don’t see why people keep downvoting the idea of making eye contact when you and the girl are merely separated by a corner of the table. Unless you both have broken fucking necks, it takes virtually zero effort to sit on adjacent sides of the square table and turn your heads and eyes just the slightest to make eye contact. While sitting nearer to each other, this also means you likely have a similar line of vision, which means your conversation topics can also include…
/r/seduction18/02/21 11:01 PM
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I agree completely. It’s not like eye contact is more effective the longer you can keep it going. Yeah eye contact is great, but you can still fucking make eye contact while sitting at right angles from each other. The people downvoting you seem to think you always have to look directly in front of yourself at all times. WTF. The value of being able to flirt in a more physical way throughout dinner far outweighs the benefit of being able to stare into the depths of her soul for 90 minutes nonsto…
/r/seduction18/02/21 10:55 PM
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Oh you mean shins
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:10 AM
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If it wasn’t clear that going to college was going to be the end of your relationship (or her fidelity), it’s abundantly clear now. And that’s an excellent gift for you to know now rather than wondering and agonizing later. If you want to keep her as a toy, then listen to her apologies and ensure that she does some wild shit in bed for you to make up for it. Always act like the wild shit isn’t enough and that you’re constantly on the brink of dropping her completely, which you are.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:13 PM
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No kidding. The guys whining about posts asking “obvious” questions can just ignore those posts. In the meantime, while the thread will contain the obvious answers, it’ll also elaborate on specific ways to execute those obvious answers as well as provide varying analyses for why OP should take certain types of advice. Hopefully the banning is only used for the most egregious transgressions and not the innocuous ones.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 07:01 PM
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Mindfulness is the type I practice
/r/askTRP08/02/21 06:57 PM
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Y’all really suggesting it looks like 2 different people? Get your eyes checked lol
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 03:37 PM
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The hip thing def sounds like you’re right about her social awkwardness. I’ve dated several girls from China, and there have definitely been a few that your story reminds me of. They’re locked into a certain mindset and are genuinely fearful of anything moving fast. Ultimately, it just didn’t work out since they weren’t willing to physically escalate at anywhere near a pace that I would be willing to compromise at. She likes you, so feel free to continue talking to her (while talking to other gi…
/r/askTRP07/02/21 08:50 PM
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Wonderful write up. Much appreciated. My sticking points are definitely voice and getting myself into a positive/carefree mood in certain social situations. For the latter, it’s frustrating because I’m very carefree in some social settings and then freeze up awkwardly in others. Fucking loved this tip for eye contact: A trick I like to use is to imagine each eye as its own tiny World, with its own inhabitants. And as I look into their eyes, I try to see what the weather is like in that world. Ho…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/21 08:16 AM
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In this case, your comfort zone is essentially freezing in place. So you step out of your comfort zone simply by making a sound. If words don’t come to you, then try just looking at her and giving her a discerning “hmm 🤔.” She’ll respond with something playful and embarrassed like “omg whaaaat?” And that will hopefully help you feel like you have the leverage to carry the teasing forward and into a real conversation. The point is that seizing up doesn’t mean you’re physically incapable of steppi…
/r/seduction19/01/21 03:05 PM
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So often I read these types of stories and wonder whether the guy ending things like you did was being too rash. Not here. You made the right call. Nipped it in the bud. The way she needed a break from life absolutely also meant a break from you too. She just wanted to take that break with the security of having you waiting for her like a puppy dog. No need to be emotional. It was simply the smart and wise decision. You’ll do great, brother.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:21 PM
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It’s crazy, I agree that a woman merely has to be fit and she’s automatically in the top 10% of women her age. Nonetheless, I’m very grateful that that’s not my metric for a relatively happy or successful life (i.e., marrying a high quality man). Sure, in so many ways their path to success or happiness is way more straightforward, but it’s quite limited to looks for the most part. Being a hot young girl is like winning the lottery because she gets awesome experiences handed to her left and right…
/r/askTRP02/01/21 07:39 AM
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I agree that the 2 aren’t comparable, but don’t disregard the amount of time women spend watching makeup tutorial videos and working on their own makeup for 1-2 hours every evening before going out. It is arguably an art and a science for those that are good at it. The reason why the 2 things shouldn’t be compared is because of the many other benefits that exercise provides. The better looks are a wonderful result of the improvements in strength, health, energy, confidence, etc etc.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:26 PM
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This is why I cringe when any guy says “omg women have it sooo easy.” Fuck no. Society and expectations are brutal to women. For example, imagine a woman who is smart, funny, and successful. Would you want to date her? Well, obviously you can’t answer that until you know how old she is and what she looks like. I feel very lucky to be a man. If I don’t get the quality of women or quality of life I want, I at least know that the vast majority of the blame falls on me.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:19 PM
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I agree with others in here telling you that he won’t listen, which you seem to already be well aware of. Another approach would be to sprinkle in little tidbits from her past in an extremely casual way. Like, if you and him are hanging out and watching a show that happens to portray a wild party girl, you could say “haha I wonder if girls are really having fun living that sort of life. Does LTR talk fondly about when she used to be that way?” Whatever you say has to be casual and non-judgmental…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:02 PM
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Recognize that they’re all fellow humans with major insecurities, and that’s usually the reason why anyone acts shitty. Start meditating. Seriously, it reminds you to be introspective and strengthens your ability to deal with the world’s shittiness. At which point, you become more capable of seeking out and appreciating the world’s awesomeness. Things literally start falling into place when you change your outlook.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:23 PM
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First time I’ve read something with so many misspelled words and loved it. I guess because you (OP) warned us about the dyslexia, so naturally we’d be assholes to expect perfect spelling. Some of them actually made me chuckle (not at you, just because they sounded funny). Anyway, awesome write up. I saving this to read again.
/r/seduction03/12/20 09:52 PM
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AWALT doesn’t literally mean that all women will cheat (or do whatever bad act is being discussed) the moment the right circumstances arise. It means, don’t be surprised when they do. In the span of 3 months I think most women would continue to be loyal girlfriends during that situation. But just because this woman isn’t cheating doesn’t mean she’s happy or that she wouldn’t cheat if the situation remained the same over the course of a year.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 01:47 PM
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Yeah I see your point when I reread your comments.
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:14 PM
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Not all the advice in this sub has to be about getting a woman to sleep with you (although confidence from being good at sex truly does help). This advice is about pleasing them and keeping them coming back for more. I’ll point out that it also decreases the chances that she’ll have buyer’s remorse, which comes with an assortment of risks for the guy in cases where both of you are drunk or she was cheating on her bf.
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:12 PM
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Game is what gets you laid. Being good at sex is what keeps her from feeling guilty for being your slut and keeps her coming back for more. Also, knowing that you can please her boosts your inner game and confidence. Yeah the post is written like putting women on a pedestal, but that doesn’t mean becoming better at sex means you’ve become pussy-whipped.
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:06 PM
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Did you swipe right on all or what level of discretion did you apply?
/r/seduction13/10/20 08:44 AM
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I regularly jog on a popular trail that has its share of cute women. Do you all think the same kind of sustained eye contact from the OP would be meaningful when passing by a girl jogging/walking the opposite direction? Somehow the thought seems awkward. Maybe I’m just overthinking it and need to give it a damn try.
/r/seduction08/10/20 03:15 AM
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Have you met any of her friends? I assume not, but if you have, then I’m curious what those interactions are like.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 03:11 AM
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That’s the bulk of the answer. Also better at reading social cues and women’s responses. Makes us better at striking while the iron is hot or moving on when she doesn’t seem that attracted to us. Others also mentioned that we give a lot fewer fucks. (I’m sure most of these points I added are pretty closely tied to confidence.)
/r/askTRP08/10/20 03:09 AM
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Is your wife cool with that or you do it on the DL?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:17 PM
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Having kids would be the #1 incentive (and likely only incentive) for me to get married. That feels like a bad reason to get married.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:42 AM
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Being able to fuck only one woman would be something that several guys in here would consider suboptimal.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:38 AM
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Especially loved the “be the flirt” portion. This perfectly describes my buddy who seems to effortlessly get girls of his taste.
/r/seduction24/09/20 11:02 PM
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Choose a time that’s a bit past lunch, like 2pm, and a bar-restaurant that is conducive to drinking and appetizers. That way it’s got light food if she’s hungry, but is an environment that encourages a drink or two. The later time slot means she will probably have had a small lunch to tide her over, and then food becomes less of her focus on the date.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:15 PM
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And you just now tldr’d his comment that tldr’d your tldr.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 08:52 PM
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After wearing cologne for a few minutes, our brains pretty much stop noticing the smell. OP therefore is asking for recommendations of colognes that are consistently enjoyed by women. I don’t think this question is really that subjective.
/r/seduction29/07/20 08:42 PM
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Shooting me a DM would probably work. Doubt it’ll work for the other guys in here, but you should try it with me. Good luck!
/r/seduction06/07/20 09:39 PM
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This point is a great way that we can turn a negative feeling into a positive. We feels these insecurities because we care about our future and truly want to take steps to improve it. We feel the pangs of insufficiency because we recognize ways that we may be falling short in the process. Rather than beat ourselves up over it, we can start to pay more attention to them in a sober way, and take extra time figuring out how to be better.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 04:43 PM
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Being drunk and horny apparently keeps it at bay. Also helps if you don’t give a flying fuck about anyone in your life that you might see when you get back home.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:06 AM
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I’m in my 30s, and I want to like/love myself. It sounds super lame and cliche, but I feel like that’s at the heart of my insecurities or that my insecurities are based on that problem. Not even depressed, as far as I’m aware. Just feel like I’m still so far from the man I want to be.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 04:54 PM
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Since AskTRP isn’t quarantined, I’m hopeful that at least this one remains. I guess we’ll find out soon.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 01:20 PM
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Thanks, I needed this reminder badly. I was a late bloomer in the dating world and still far from where I want to be. As a result, I find myself constantly dwelling over getting laid. It’s undoubtedly a distraction to my career, friend and family relationships, and self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 10:04 PM
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Exactly, and it’s very situationally dependent. A girl may simply feel more attraction when the guy is exhibiting alpha behavior and less attraction during beta behavior. But she won’t necessarily think to herself “omg I’m attracted bc he’s being an alpha.” Instead, she’ll be thinking “wow that’s so hot how he doesn’t seem to give any fucks.”
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:14 PM
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“Maybe. Where are you gonna take me on our first friends date?”
/r/askTRP10/06/20 07:37 PM
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She doesn’t deserve that kind of closure.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:59 PM
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I agree, but just want to point out that his last answer was a total copout non-answer. It sounded nice, but was total fluff.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 10:18 PM
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The women were trying to disagree with him at first, and then got quieter when his advice started to make sense. Near the end, he’s still talking about women he wants to fuck, but he does it with a softer voice. You notice the women looking for opportunities to agree with him, which seems like they’re looking for relief from the earlier confrontation. Man, his presence and frame guide the direction and tone of the conversation so effortlessly.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 07:25 PM
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Most young girls probably aren't that attracted to older guys, or they won't let themselves be attracted in fear of shame from their friends/families/selves. But for the ones willing to date older men, it's either a non-issue or something that they specifically desire. And even with some where it's a non-issue, it doesn't take long for them to relish in the idea of the age gap. It really doesn't make that much difference to me. Sometimes I prefer women in their 20s simply because they're less li…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:11 AM
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I think you're being too black and white. While your eyes remain fixed on the prize, the advice suggests noticing the mini progress along the way. You studied nonstop for a longer period of time today than ever before. You may or may not have achieved a greater understanding of the material than you would have with less time, but there is an achievement in the improved discipline. To the extent you can identify mini rewards for these mini battles, you will trigger dopamine kicks, which will help…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:12 AM
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Others have explained it in greater detail. Could even be additional reasons if she wanted commitment and other guy seems to be offering it. Who knows. Don't reach out to her, and it's very likely she'll contact you again (days, weeks, or months later) as if she never ghosted in the first place. Try to move on psychologically and try not to dwell on this.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:57 PM
2

Very impressive and inspiring. Anyone know whether the Marion podcast he plugged is good? But the kid mentioned it being helpful to his faith, and I'm not interested in a podcast with religious undertones.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/20 02:15 AM
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The fact that she has a kid doesn't mean that she's married. Nonetheless, if you're not interested, then there's no reason to continue.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:16 PM
24

I love these kinds of TRP posts. Chicks slinging shit at your head? Good. Men challenging you at work? Good. LTR being a manipulative bitch? Good. Mother trying to dominate you? Good. Reminds me of the Jocko Podcast. Is that podcast still good or is it primarily focused on war stories now?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 10:42 PM
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If you're not as loud as the jester, as eloquent of a speaker as the jester, or as confident as the jester, then this approach may easily come off as looking like a butthurt temper tantrum. Personally, I know I wouldn't be able to pull it off at this point in time.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 10:25 PM
10

This is very good advice. Almost nobody can be the alpha at all times and in all situations, so you seek out situations that the alpha jester isn't good at and become a leader in those capacities.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 10:22 PM
2

Definitely male. They will usually have a few paragraphs in which they describe their own approach. Use that to help choose one that seems to resonate with your personality and goals. Some people would recommend finding someone who seems like they could be a friend, which usually implies that they seem like they can understand or relate to your difficulties. I don't know if that's necessary because sometimes it's good to have a totally different perspective to help move your mind down different …
/r/askTRP15/10/19 10:14 PM
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I don't know, man. My developing comfort with my dancing (even though I'm not anything special) correlates pretty closely with my comfort with women in most social settings. OP may have mentioned it because it is an area that currently frustrates him. In so doing, he may be attacking one of his fears head-on, which would be great for him.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:17 PM
3

Therapy can be a wonderful thing because a good professional will know how to get you talking about some of your core issues. The targeted questions and talking will point your brain into new directions. I know it's not always cheap, so of course you have us in the meantime. Stay strong. You've shown discipline and fearlessness in ways that most men will never dream of. Your negative thoughts are probably the only thing stopping you from pursuing even more goals (socializing and engaging with wo…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:14 PM
1

Your comment confuses me. OP said his rule is that neither person in the LTR can take a separate vacation. Am I missing something?
/r/askTRP11/10/19 12:05 PM
1

It really depends on how hard OP has been affirming his position about her trip to Vegas. If it was only a minor comment, then it requires much less walking back. If OP and the LTR have been having several conversations about it, then OP may need to say a little more in order to maintain any semblance of frame he has left.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:23 PM
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For real, what kind of bullshit is forbidding separate traveling. Basically means OP isn't allowed to go on any bachelor parties or trips with the boys. This just confuses me.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:19 PM
3

You just lost a job (probably out of your control) which lowered her interest in you as she probably thought you won't be a good provider. Alternative possibility: You just lost a job (probably out of your control) and the way you have probably acted in response has which lowered her interest in you as it shows you were not able to maintain your own frame in your life she probably thought you won't be a good provider.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:26 PM
1

Don't confuse ovulating with menstruating. Anyway, this guy's just being a hater. Well done, friend!
/r/seduction28/08/19 04:40 PM
3

If the more attractive girl was more attractive, then you'd be more attracted to her. You're not. She's just the alpha of the group and your girl is one of her betas. Find ways to isolate and build rapport with the girl you actually like so that eventually her connection to you becomes stronger than her subservience to the alpha.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 09:46 PM
28

This is such a cool fucking perspective that hadn't crossed my mind before. So much of it rings true.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 07:55 PM
5

I try to take the woman-hating in here with a grain of salt, knowing that there are a scary number of incels clogging up otherwise useful discussion about men, women, and improving one's life. If it seems about 50/50 in this subreddit, which side would you expect reality to be? (I mean that rhetorically for myself as well because it is truly possible that this subreddit is especially good at assessing these types of interactions between men and women. However, I tend to think this subreddit sway…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/19 01:09 PM
16

And then OP gets jumped 2 days later.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:08 PM
2

Funny, even before I read that person's comment, I perceived her statements as not caring about the money and instead wanting Bobby to show love without throwing money at her. In reality, she may care about the money and lifestyle, but that definitely wasn't her tone in this short clip.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 05:53 PM
2

Thanks for the info. Someone else posted about how she's actually been great for his career by getting him off his ass when he would otherwise devolve into a useless slob.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 01:30 PM
4

Let me translate that for you. You should probably learn English gooder before taking gigs as a translator.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 08:37 PM
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Exactly. She was literally saying she doesn't care about him making money. And if he wasn't making money, then she doesn't think he would know how to show her love in any other way. This is old, so hopefully they have broken up by now since they are definitely on completely different wavelengths. EDIT: I've been informed that they are married. So hopefully they are on closer or the same wavelengths by now.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 08:34 PM
3

I needed this reminder years ago. Oh well, it still applies going forward. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 03:24 PM
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Cut off every single source of information about her completely. Block her number, unfriend/unfollow her on all social media, etc. etc. etc. Otherwise, your brain will turn every single piece of information into a story that makes you feel shittier, whether accurate or not. I promise it will truly help you think about her less.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:51 AM
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The Game was my bible back in the day. I credit that book for getting me off my ass and learning to talk to women. TRP of course has helped me attract way more women, keep them, and maintain much stronger relationships.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 01:28 PM
9

Does it truly seem malicious or maybe they are just horrible at assessing relationships?
/r/askTRP25/06/19 01:25 PM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:07 PM
4

While you read, try to notice when the author crafts a sentence in a new way that catches your attention. You probably read very quickly for the substance. Perhaps you can slow down to pay attention to the structure and word choice. When you do, you may start to integrate similar techniques into your own speaking and writing.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 04:19 PM
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Assuming he is overall alpha, to the extent he is religious, that is a beta quality.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 04:15 PM
2

Disregarding critical thinking and, instead, believing something because of fear or emotions is weak and irrational behavior, which is anti-TRP.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 04:14 PM
11

This sounds fun in theory but feels very melodramatic. Also, it tells her exactly why the relationship is over. I like the other commenters' position that OP owes this girl absolutely nothing. Explaining why the relationship is over gives her the closure women crave so they can bounce on the CC feeling vindicated by an ex-bf who didn't trust them.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 05:00 PM
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Get somewhat of a conversation going so you can screenshot and have actual evidence in case this comes to bite you in the ass, such as mutual friends or her family members trying to make you feel shitty for ghosting her.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:57 PM
2

This is great. "I'll be wearing a red tie. Make sure your panties match."
/r/askTRP10/05/19 10:10 PM
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This is exactly why men cannot disregard learning how to build attraction. It's ridiculous to expect a girl to see all of your goodness, intelligence, awesomeness right away within a few dating app texts and a few 3-hour long dates. You have to know how to put some of those good qualities on display. And you have to do so in a way that is fun AND romantic. This also means spending tons of time and energy setting up the perfect date is potentially useless if your ability to create excitement and …
/r/seduction10/05/19 06:48 PM
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My point is a recognition that our instincts fail us sometimes. Some people go through life always shooting from the hip and "trusting their gut." I'm pointing out why I favor a balance of instincts and rational conclusions. To the extent your comment relates to trust issues, then I am 100% on board -- if there are trust issues, then it doesn't matter whether there was an actual breach of trust.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:46 PM
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OP, I think you're still in the information-gathering phase. Your hunch and everybody else's hunches are very likely correct, but maybe you're not ready to drop her outright. Find opportunities to learn more without letting her know that you are suspicious. In the meantime, you psychologically "next" or demote her. This will make it easier to literally next or demote her when your suspicions are confirmed. Also keep in mind that you may never know the truth, but that doesn't mean you need to rem…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 04:56 PM
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While I agree with most people's conclusions in here, I don't think your statement is always true. TRP has molded me to expect AWALT around every corner. However, rather than immediately make conclusions and next a girl, I've used the mindset to prepare myself for the curtain to be lifted. There have been quite a few situations in which I felt quite certain of a girl AWALTing and later concluding in retrospect that those AWALT suspicions were very likely incorrect.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 04:53 PM
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In so many ways, I think we all truly crave security -- that goes the same for men and women. Of course, we all crave security in different ways. For some it is physical safety, others it is financial comfort, others it is being welcomed by a group of friends, others being unconditionally loved by another, etc. And most of us crave a combination of several of those. In fact, I would hypothesize that we all need most of those, but we usually don't notice the ones that we have always had. Talking …
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:03 PM
1

Jocko's was definitely the first podcast that came to mind.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 10:22 PM
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...hit the gym because it boosts his testosterone, improves his looks, improves his mind, boosts his confidence, makes him healthier, etc etc... all of which can do nothing but improve his chances with women. To me it sounds like we're in agreement. The only thing I will add is that increasing physical attractiveness WILL improve one's chances with women. Maybe not all women, and certainly not in all contexts. But it's a numbers game out there, and a person is lying or delusional if they claim t…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:28 PM
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TRP begins with self-improvement. For someone who is clueless, the easiest and most direct path toward bettering himself is to hit the gym because it boosts his testosterone, improves his looks, improves his mind, boosts his confidence, makes him healthier, etc etc... all of which can do nothing but improve his chances with women. Of course, it's not fucking necessary in order to get laid. Neither is being a millionaire. But it fucking helps. Increasing fitness increases your SMV, simple as that…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 09:39 PM
2

What's rm?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:05 PM
7

Love that strategy. Always Be Climbing.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:31 PM
2

They might notice those first because they are easier to notice or more likely on display, but it astounded me when I first started seeing how many women mentioned butt as their favorite feature on a guy.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:27 PM
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The number of women who say that the butt is their #1 favorite feature on a man is astounding due to how we grew up thinking big arms and a barrel chest were the most important. I suspect that in cartoons, the big arm and chest were the easiest way for animators to emphasize virility of the hero. I wonder if that played a major role in my misconception about what women like.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:26 PM
2

So for muscle size (not necessarily strength), is the rule of thumb: low-weight high-rep is better than high-weight low-rep?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:23 PM
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All this is fucking terrible. Don't pay. and, for the love of god, don't marry her.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:19 PM
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If this is how she is before the wedding, oh man I feel really bad for OP. I'm guessing he was a popular frat type guy in college who is doing decently well financially right now. He and his friends have always dated these good-looking whiny girls and figured that's just how all women are. They've never learned to develop the relationship so that both people could actually become better human beings. OP is just cool with snagging a good-looking chick who is fun to hang with most of the time. The…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:18 PM
1

If a fracture in your hand causes you from being able to have a legit difficult workout, then you simply don't know how to work out. So many activities can give your body an amazing workout beyond simply lifting weights. A rigorous workout, even if it's just jogging or cycling in the gym without using your hands, can do wonders for your stress level. And if it doesn't lift some of your stress, then at least you didn't waste the evening on Netflix and pizza.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:55 PM
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I agree with this. Lay it out casually, like: OP: Everything cool with you? Girl: Why do you ask? OP: Something seemed off with you, maybe it's nothing. Girl: Oh... yeah it's nothing... OP: Ok And leave it at that. If she's having concerns about the relationship, then you have showed you care, but also that her acting differently doesn't affect your frame or happiness. Normally it is weak to avoid what could be an issue, but you also don't want to prompt this conversation every damn time she res…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:08 PM
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Do your pictures cause any emotional reaction? They have to, to get matches This has been very true for me. This girl I'm dating showed me what her Bumble page looks like. We could scroll endlessly through guys that have already swiped right on her. While we were scrolling, she would click into profiles only when someone caught her attention. She scrolled past dozens of guys that I thought she surely would've wanted to take a closer look at. First, it showed me how important the 1st profile pic …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 03:53 PM
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Unless that high value man is in the top 20% of the top 20%, then he is competing with only the bottom 20% of that 80% of women. I've had plenty of success on Tinder and other dating apps (and most likely not in the top 20% of the top 20%), but I could still see the reality of the comment above yours in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 03:47 PM
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So often we respond to questions by merely pointing OP to the sidebar. Well, there are volumes of articles on the sidebar. Where is he supposed to start? Yes, he should've been reading the sidebar all along, but that didn't happen and now he's in a difficult spot IRL. Instead of lazily pointing OP to the sidebar, how about we recommend specific resources in the sidebar that are going to be most pertinent to OP's question. Maybe when OP sees how valuable one resource can be to his current situati…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 08:32 PM
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Continue focusing on improving yourself and enjoying your own life. To the extent some of her problems are related to how she views you, these simple things will remind her why she was attracted to you in the first place.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 07:59 PM
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If you're totally in the clear then have your gf ask them for as many details as possible so that it's easy for you to show that it's bullshit.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 11:41 PM
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Excellent self-awareness. Hope you update us on how your relationship changes and evolves from this point forward.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 04:39 PM
2

I use Sam Harris's app called Waking Up. I bought it last year when it was super cheap but only recently started listening consistently. Now it is over $100/year. However, he suggests anyone who can't afford it should email his support team, and they will set that person up with a free 1 year membership. To me, that shows that he truly isn't doing this for the money. In his Making Sense podcast he refuses to include advertisements because he doesn't want his positions on topics to be in any way …
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:30 PM
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Don't play on your phone in bed. I've also started meditating more often at night. This does several things: (1) calms you down, and (2) makes you more comfortable without having your phone or other instant gratification type of entertainment constantly in your face. Sometimes, when I have trouble sleeping, I will set my meditation app for 15 minutes, and I'll often fall asleep before it ends. If not, I will continue the meditation without the app -- that way, either I fall asleep or I get some …
/r/askTRP05/03/19 10:35 PM
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It's almost like there are a thousand different ways a person could put their hand on someone's thigh with it sometimes being very intimate and sometimes being relatively innocuous. It's awesome that you don't give a fuck about someone putting their arm around your shoulders. Just be aware that it may have come across as the behavior of a boyfriend-girlfriend type of situation, especially with it being openly in public with everyone to see as opposed to while discreetly within a restaurant booth…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 11:10 PM
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That 2-day model actually sounds really clever in so many ways: You can find out early on and within minimal time investment whether there is mutual attraction. You don't seem thirsty by trying to get into her pants from the very beginning. You can apply outcome independence because you are genuinely not planning for anything more than a hug after the short date. You leave her wanting more, which may help grow her thirst/attraction for you to aid you on the next date.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:48 PM
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You start slowly if you're unsure about her feelings for you and her comfort level in public (anti-slut defense can be triggered for some girls loooong before entering the bedroom). Find opportunities for a high-five, holding her hand momentarily (like crossing the street), casually placing your hand on her knee/thigh while talking about something unrelated (if her attention suddenly switches to the hand rather than what you're saying, then it's likely -- not definitely -- a negative response)..…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:42 PM
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How was it not the latter, when OP specifically said she wasn’t receptive to any of his other kino attempts? This move is definitely not the type to try when things like hi-5s, briefly holding her waist, and discreetly touching her knee aren’t even working.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:22 PM
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This wasn’t even a shit test. OP said she wasn’t receptive to his kino, and then he goes all-in for an intimate move that would make them look like gf-bf in public. That is NOT how you escalate.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:17 PM
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Yes, OP, collect evidence and witnesses of Bob's slander and libel. Don't just get those witnesses to agree in person; get them to describe in an audio or video recording how Bob has been tarnishing your name. You may be able to find a lawyer to guide for free so that you can handle the case pro se (without a lawyer) in small claims court.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 10:03 PM
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This makes sense. The girl was acting that way because she really liked OP and that's her stupid way of trying to qualify herself for him. He basically had her in his hands if he could maintain frame. But, like you said, if it becomes unattractive enough for OP, then there's absolutely no reason he should feel compelled to prolong the interaction.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 04:38 PM
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I'm not as nihilistic as so many guys in here who suggest that women are constantly lying and status climbing. My takeaway from "AWALT" is not that all women have a certain characteristic... rather it is that we shouldn't be surprised by any seemingly different woman if/when we discover that she does too.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 06:13 PM
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This is true. I am past my mid 30s yet consistently told I look in my upper 20s. Well upper 20s is a date-able age for many girls in their low to mid 20s. I won't be joining them with their friends or at their college parties. The girls will be taking a break from those friends to hang with me in my world. OP, you don't hear about it because that's merely a night when the girl is "busy." I don't know if she tells you she's studying, sleeping early, or hanging with her girl friends. But some of t…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:30 PM
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You actually think that this wasn't her first time cheating? Just curious what makes you think that. It seems like this was a specific opportunity (traveling + alcohol) along with a very noticeable change in how she interacted with you. In retrospect, were there other times in the past that should have been red flags, yet you completely ignored them?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 08:23 PM
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And the way he was able to get under the meathead's skin in the scenes after the speech was absolutely brilliant. Watch the insecure dude's body language, how he turns to face away from Will, how he puts a hat on to cover up his forehead wrinkles. The way Will broke him down was straight up surgical.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:02 PM
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Awhile back I had a girlfriend who I spoke to openly about this stuff right from the start. I approached the conversation extremely nonjudgmental and as if it didn't matter to me (which it didn't because I knew she didn't have long term potential). She basically listed out the 18-20 guys in her n-count. But she also identified the 8 or so guys that she thinks barely count because they were either a ONS or regrettable decisions. I think those are the types of guys that most girls will immediately…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 11:44 PM
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This man might be your Gary.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 05:32 PM
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Not gonna lie, that was a fun read. Well done, man.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 10:48 PM
4

Plus he's always got drugs on hand. I kind of want to be his friend now too.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 12:38 AM
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That last example sounds pretty damn candid actually.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 07:37 PM
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Yeah, but in certain situations I will sort of hide my other plates when I'm worried about keeping a new plate during the early stages. I agree that it's not ideal, and I'm working to be more unapologetic about my lifestyle. Now, once we are fucking regularly, then I'm less worried, but by then it becomes more difficult to suddenly start allowing her to see hints of my fuckboy nature.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 07:35 PM
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In OP's case, he likely wasn't being completely truthful from the start. That is, I suspect he was not being open, and probably somewhat hiding, the fact that he was seeing other girls. I often do the same thing especially for a plate that I'm more afraid of losing early on. This probably isn't wise on our part, but it's simply part of my M.O., particularly when I don't feel like my SMV along with presenting myself as an unapologetic fuckboy would be enough to keep the girl.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:38 PM
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I'm imagining OP's scenario in which this conversation is happening in person, such as during pillowtalk. This means the girl can always press with "What exactly does that mean?" I get your point that you always keep things somewhat unclear to keep the hamster spinning, but is there any good way to maintain the deflection when she becomes more adamant about getting a straight answer?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:34 PM
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It's true. If he saw something extra interesting in this girl, then he might have been foolish for exerting absolute minimal, low-balls effort and giving up quickly. Or if he was able to discern within those 25 minutes that she had nothing special to offer, then he wasted X number of minutes from the moment that he should've realized it. I'm more of the type that every girl essentially gets merely a soft next. Who knows what tomorrow holds? How am I hurting myself by keeping her # stored in my p…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 09:44 PM
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From the TRP standpoint, you did it right. However, if your only goal was to get a date out of her, then you obviously could have done better. Better may have required more time building attraction. You always hear about how women know within 5 minutes whether they want to sleep with a guy, but that "statistic" is skewed because most guys don't have the balls or skills to maintain frame in the face of a minimal rejection and continue to build attraction. I once got a girl's number who was far ou…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 09:10 PM
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I've let a plate go for very similar reasons. We dated for almost a year, and it ended with her extremely sad about my unwillingness to commit. We started up again a year later, and her friends mentioned that she hadn't really dated anyone that whole time. Again we dated for about 8 months, and I realized we were going down the same path as before. Basically, she knew I didn't want to commit, but I knew her so well sexually that any other guy she tried to date wouldn't have had a fair chance. I …
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:22 PM
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Upvotes to you and OP for an excellent topic and discussion.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 07:53 PM
3

I completely agree. This particular post just saved me from screwing up a date tonight that I was already starting to verbally over-analyze with the girl. Now I know I need to do the mental legwork myself and then simply tell her the time and place.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 05:39 PM
3

Reading these helpful posts on TRP is a good start. You and I have both seen the advantages to shutting the fuck up and leading, and we've seen the consequences to over-verbalizing our thoughts and decisions. This particular post is timely for me because now I realize my texts with a girl last night were very clearly over-analyzing the date we have set up for tonight. I almost totally fucked things up. Even though I would very much like to ask her questions about how much time she needs to get r…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 05:35 PM
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Her insecurities/uncertainties are a powerful drug. We really do not want to bang all of them all of the time. When my options are wide open, there are several instances that I've declined easy sex. In one case, it made the plate crazy, even though she already knew I didn't want anything serious with her. She was basically begging for sex or even just to come over and blow me. It actually turned me off even more.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 05:27 PM
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fuck chad When we are in periods of our life truly focusing on improving, we don't give chad a moment's thought. He simply doesn't cross our mind anymore.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:11 PM
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The other downside is now I really do not want to settle down. We've seen the dark side of the female sex, and we've also seen the light for how much further we can improve in lifestyle and quality of plates.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:04 PM
1

Lost the V at age 22. Only had 5 at the age of 28, about 10 at the age of 32, about 20 at the age of 34, and over 50 now that I'm 38. I know the numbers are about right because I've maintained an encrypted list because I'm curious how my # has changed over the years. I'm definitely no Chad, but I certainly no longer wonder when the next time I'll get laid will be. I also note that it feels like over 100 different girls, but my # is certainly under 60. I point that out because when most guys give…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 10:54 PM
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I truly appreciate these consistent reminders to quash my blue pill mushy turd mentality when it crops up from time to time.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/18 06:22 PM
12

I used to subscribe to the depression subreddit, and I too found it very victim oriented. Anybody who even suggested that at least some improvement could be self-realized was immediately downvoted into oblivion. I think that is ridiculous. We can heal ourselves in so many ways, and surely we can improve our mental states as well. I believe that purpose is one of the main ingredients to a meaningful life. I suspect that poorer countries have lower rates of depression mostly because mere survival …
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:58 PM
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Well done, now get off reddit and go back to your date!
/r/seduction29/11/18 11:32 PM
15

Yep, be careful stooping to the level of this type of person. They've got way more experience being petty vindictive assholes.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:53 PM
3

I suspect that you're a young guy who is, like most young guys, living in something of a state of deprivation of sex, even if you're getting laid. Maybe it's not enough, or not with the girls that you want. What you will discover is that sex is like oxygen: it's only important if you aren't getting any - and then it's REALLY FUCKING IMPORTANT! I remember those days. Anytime a relationship ended, my biggest fear was that I'd never be able to get another girl to fuck me ever again. It was highly i…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:36 PM
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And maintaining frame anytime you get a negative response. You lose when you react to the negative response in any way whatsoever. Acting like your kino attempt plus her response never happened is the easiest way to bypass the negative response. Basically, as you said, "just roll with the punches."
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 06:21 PM
3

Okay, you wrote that in a response to someone else, not the comment I was replying to. Nonetheless, it sounds like OP can't suddenly bang a bunch of girls before starting an LTR with the current girl. He'll likely start an LTR with her knowing that the relationship is probably doomed unless he eventually somehow shakes the Grass is Always Greener syndrome.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 07:22 PM
3

I don't think that factors in the Grass is Always Greener effect. You can tell a guy this, but he doesn't truly know it until he's put his dick in a bunch of chicks.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:00 PM
2

This OP was designed exactly for you, buddy. Have you looked in the mirror lately?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:59 PM
8

Ironically, because I am still somewhat in the beta bux stage, many of my plates develop a strong attraction to me because they still see me as a guy who might settle down rather than an alpha fux who hooks up with women left and right. For this reason, I actually prefer that my plates are not exclusive to me so that I can simply see each of them once every couple of weeks with much less worry that they will catch feelings. Of course, I don't like actually hearing about them dating other guys be…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:09 PM
39

Idea for this sub: Every Monday have a Law of the Week for open discussion.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 01:46 PM
1

As others have hinted, she is showing undertones of a girl who frequently feels ashamed and regretful about sex the next day. Be very careful in how you proceed. Don't delete any text messages, and I even sometimes try to make sex videos (but most girls will not agree to this) or at least try to get a half-naked-cuddling picture together afterwards (they're far more likely to agree to this) as further evidence of consensuality.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 02:51 PM
1

It's like saying "I am not surprised that you are _______" or "I should have guessed that you are ______." It makes the other person think that maybe there is something very obvious about themself that fits into a stereotype of _______.
/r/seduction13/11/18 12:28 AM
4

I think it would have to be a neg at best, but I agree it's probably best to stay away if OP isn't conveying sufficient SMV. "Hope you know just putting booty in your username isn't going to make it grow bigger"
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:19 PM
5

Or both. Your point is key. There is no reason OP has to first become Adonis before achieving a high enough SMV. Sometimes a high SMV can be portrayed in the right context even if we are a much lower SMV 80% of the time.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:14 PM
2

Thanks, that's an awesome map. I recommend that others tinker with the age ranges to see that virtually every city favors women in dating within our preferred age range, but of course NY >> LA. For example, between the map's default range of ages 18-64, LA has 17 unmatched men per 1000 people and NY has 24 unmatched women per 1000 people. However at the age range of 18-44, LA has 61 unmatched men and NY has only 27 unmatched men.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 03:27 PM
4

I've been torn between moving to LA and moving to NY for a year just for the hell of it. I was already leaning in one direction, and you gentlemen have confirmed it.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:52 PM
12

I'd actually say that I'm too busy today. She wants to come over to officially break up because that would give her closure and make her not feel so bad inside. Well she already disrespected you by deleting all the photos. You both are done, and you don't owe her a thing. If she demands to set up a time to see you, tell her maybe tomorrow. The reasoning: Right now she wants an official end so that she can LTR someone else. She doesn't get that official end if you don't meet her. The extra time c…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:27 PM
33

Hit the gym. Meditate everyday. These are two of the easiest ways to improve your mental well-being. I promise that the pain won't last forever, so I encourage you to enjoy it now. Art and music take on fantastic new meanings while in these deeply emotional states. You are alive, and tomorrow will be better.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:44 PM
13

The law of compounding interest is absolutely ubiquitous, and it can lead just as easily in positive and negative directions.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:21 PM
26

To add, it is human nature to feel psychologically and physiologically uncomfortable when shown evidence why we are wrong. If someone presented robust evidence to me that 2+2 did NOT equal 4, then I would literally have somewhat of a mental breakdown as one of my most fundamental pieces of knowledge no longer made sense. Likewise, incels have so many damaging social concepts hammered into them from an early age. The same is true for someone who was born indoctrinated into a religion. The process…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:08 PM
1

These aren't really red flags. If she really has the money and a carefree lifestyle, and if you live in a place that is worth visiting anyway, then this just makes for the perfect excuse for her to visit you. It would be a way bigger red flag if she wanted to do X with you next year without meeting you first.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:08 PM
12

Checking emails. Every time you stop what you are doing to open up your emails, you receive a dopamine hit based purely on "I wonder what I'll find this time!" Same goes for Reddit. You can peruse through the same front pages after spending hours on there already, yet your brain is still thinking "I wonder if there's anything new!" You don't even have to receive an interesting email or find anything interesting on Reddit. Merely the hope of something interesting gives you the kick. Apportion you…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:37 PM
1

My concern is more about whether other people in my social circle think I'm being cucked because I'll bring the girl to social events yet those people in the social circle might know via gossip that the girl is fucking Jimmy on the down low. Even if I don't care that she's fucking Jimmy, I feel like I lose SMV if the people in the social circle think she's fucking Jimmy behind my back.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:47 PM
1

Thanks, I'll re-read and keep reading. It's easy to get complacent sometimes. Some of these social events are professional events, so the norm is to bring a date. When I want to mingle with the president of a company, then it helps tremendously to have a woman with me who can chat with his wife. If I don't, then it is much more difficult to talk business with the guy, and he may be worrying about keeping his wife entertained while he and I chat. It's hard to explain, but it really doesn't make s…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:45 PM
1

What type of girl should I be inviting to formal social events instead? Sure, call her a FWB. Not trying to get hung up on the label. I'll even admit I've got some kind of oneitis that is impeding me from applying TRP teachings, which is why I've come to you guys for specific advice to help me see how and why I'm fucking up.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:32 PM
1

Word. I appreciate the advice, bud.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:06 PM
1

Yeah I didn't mean to imply I don't have a type of oneitis for her. I don't want a serious relationship, but I also currently don't want some of my friends fucking her, and maybe because I feel socially competitive with certain guys in the friends circle. My concern is that I invite this girl out to various social events because she is hot as hell, and it's a bonus to fuck her afterward. If some of these friends are fucking her unbeknownst to me and I keep inviting her to new social events, do I…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:42 PM
2

This was all a very interesting approach and mentality to read about. What about the situation where I take this girl as my +1 for various events because she is excellent arm candy. Even if it doesn't bother me whether she's fucking my friends also, do I look like a cuck among my friends if they know that I'm inviting the girl to these fun events while several guys in my friend circle are fucking her on the down low without me knowing? Maybe the real question is, should I do/say anything to let …
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:30 PM
1

You had lost when the team was laughing at his jokes even when he was on the brink of getting pounded. At that point is when you respect the humor and even try to enjoy it yourself. Maybe a kiss would be too much in this #metoo movement, but picking him up and spinning him around and setting him gently back onto the ground would've been a better response. At that point you take the L and respect him for showing wit and calmness while knowing that you could pound him into oblivion if you wanted. …
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:11 PM
1

Reminds of when Zach Morris tricked the school into thinking that Slater beat the shit out of Screech, and it resulted in Screech winning the beauty pageant. I actually believe OP's story for the most part, but you're so right that about that Disney after-school sitcom feel.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:04 PM
3

"It ain't fun if the homies can't have none." --Snoop
/r/askTRP23/10/18 02:56 PM
14

I still struggle to maintain frame when I've had drinks and I feel like the girl I'm with is being a little too friendly with other guys. I'm usually quite good with abundance mentality, but that mentality falls to the wayside when I happen to be with a girl I really like.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 10:44 PM
1

If you think either of them were being anything close to genuine when displaying their emotions, you are a fucking idiot or so blinded by your political ideology that you are incapable of making a rational assessment. This goes for the Left and for the Right. It's fucking pathetic seeing you both get your panties twisted over this shit. Man the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 08:11 PM
1

Props for not letting the recovery be your excuse to slack. I appreciate the tips, and good luck to you as well.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:17 PM
1

...is it acceptable for a guy to grind into a girls crotch if the back position is taken by a guy? Absolutely. As a short guy who doesn't naturally get much attention in a crowded club, I often have to be slightly less direct. I'll use this move when I'm passing through a group of girls and then linger on one girl. Chicks love men's asses as much as we love theirs. And a guy grinding his ass into her crotch almost feels innocuous to them because it's obviously not a normal sex position. The girl…
/r/seduction28/09/18 03:22 PM
3

Interesting. And I bet learning either of those will tremendously improve one's skills for hip hop dancing/grinding and plenty of other styles.
/r/seduction28/09/18 03:16 PM
15

Directions clear. Penis stuck in a thot.
/r/seduction28/09/18 03:14 PM
21

I just didn't expect it to feel so eerie like this.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 07:40 PM
3

k big boy
/r/askTRP23/09/18 10:50 PM
11

...be the most entertaining guy at the party and make her chase you I struggle with this type of advice every time. Be funny, charismatic, and good-looking. In short, be awesome. But make sure you are the #1 awesomest person in every city you step foot in. That's all it takes!
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:23 PM
11

OP, all those guys saying "hey, you do you, man" ARE the guys who get up in there on a one night stand but are feeling a little cunnilingus-shamed right now. As for me, I've done it on a few first dates where we met on a dating app. Not usually though. Not big into it for most girls unless she has almost no taste.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:55 AM
1

Spot on, homie.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:33 PM
2

Nobody is denying that. It's the question of, assuming looks are generally similar, why we want the hoe over the nice girl.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:17 PM
1

That's because Brad Pitt isn't Brad Pitt because of his looks alone. The looks met the threshold level and got his foot in the door. He's easily never been in the top 10 of the handsomest actors because there are swarms of B and C and D level actors who blast him out of the water, but they simply don't have the acting skills, the luck, the spark, the diligence, or the connections to be where Brad Pitt is.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:27 PM
9

Yeah but OP isn't specifically talking about hotties, he's talking about hoes.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:22 PM
1

True for me. I really wish I wanted to settle down with a nice girl, but dem hoes....
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:21 PM
17

Oh cool, you listened to what she said and disregarded from the start anything she might have done. Like others have said, you utterly failed the shit test. Who do girls give shit tests to? Guys that they are thinking about fucking. Good job helping her make the decision not to fuck you.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:11 PM
7

Easier said than done. Here's one of many ways it might be done: A person's social circle is usually not the same exact people every time. There are constantly new faces and some faces missing at every event because many people have multiple circles of friends. Look for opportunities to learn more about the new faces when they make an appearance, and maybe a friendship will click. If so, make contacts with them, communicate with them one-on-one and outside of your social circle, and seek out opp…
/r/seduction29/08/18 01:53 PM
5

Another possibility is that OP's big chest reminds the women about their own chest and, for whatever insecure reasons, they subconsciously cover theirs or maybe place a hand near it to sort of ensure it's still there, covered, in place, or whatever. Sort of like seeing someone else's hair looking either awesome or terrible and then immediately patting your own hair to make sure everything is in the right place.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:59 PM
12

I'm short (5-8) and do relatively well, but I'd be fucking lying if I said height didn't matter. Notice how everyone who says height doesn't matter will say "I know a short guy who gets tons of girls." A short guy. The outlier doesn't prove your point. They never say "Among the 20 single guys in my social circle, the short guys do just as well as the tall guys." Because it's fucking bullshit. The vast majority of women prefer a taller/bigger guy for countless psychological/evolutionary/etc reaso…
/r/seduction28/08/18 03:45 PM
8

Great points.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 03:57 PM
26

Interesting that /u/rexpillerson used "exhibits" instead of "exhibited." Basically, he's implying that this isn't an isolated incident, which is why I agree he was right to dump her. But suppose it was an isolated incident, then does "My gf exhibited inappropriate behavior" still 100% always mean it's time to dump her? At some point, isn't it on us to help them correct the inappropriate behaviors, or do we expect them to know exactly how to act 100% of the time?
/r/askTRP27/08/18 03:32 PM
2

Hypothetically speaking, if OP's gf was merely being dumb and naive around the new experience of being around gay guys, how should OP have acted early on in order to nip this type of behavior in the bud? People are human and make mistakes. No woman is going to act in line with exactly what her man expects from her 100% of the time. The moment the girl starts being extra flirty or permissive with the gay guys, what should OP have done in order to give her a chance to correct her behavior?
/r/askTRP27/08/18 03:28 PM
1

Fair enough. Nonetheless, I appreciate the stories and learning lessons.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 05:12 PM
-1

My first response to Mike was, “he’s a 200lb muscle-bound fighter and she’s only a 120lb bartender with perfect tits.” It's dialogue like this that makes it feel like the entire story is wrought with hyperbole. I'm not saying it's a lie or that it can't be used to teach a valuable lesson. But jesus christ dude, try giving reality a fairer chance at entertaining us.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 04:45 PM
2

Have you been night gaming at bars? If so, which types of bars have been most useful for not looking like "the old guy at the bar"?
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:54 PM
1

Think of something sexually you've wanted to do for awhile but have never even mentioned it to this gf. Now plan to try that out next time you have sex with her, but don't give her any warning. Think in your head about when you want to do it. Imagine what it would be like doing that to a girl from your past or a girl you've seen in a video. That will help you mentally plan it out and get excited by the idea. Basically, when it's time to try it out, tell her "Move like ________, and do _________ …
/r/seduction22/08/18 12:52 PM
3

I, by no means, have mine under control, but I have certainly started to recognize the benefits when I do. First, you replace those dopamine cravings for instant gratification with discipline (discipline being the mentality that keeps you on task even when the motivation is at a low). I will have a daunting and seemingly impossible task ahead of me, which will cause my every being to want to do something/anything else. But time and time again, after I simply force myself to start working on that…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:39 PM
3

US chicks absolutely love that accent. Keep slayin bro.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:39 PM
39

That said, "The Game" and some of those tips really helped get me out of my shell. They gave me the confidence to practice communicating with fellow humans despite feeling scared and intimidated by them. That confidence bled into other areas of my life to help inspire me to be well-rounded in many more ways. The dude's point is valid when someone focuses on tricks to manipulate women. But that's why the book repeatedly espoused the slogan "Leave them better than how you found them."
/r/seduction10/08/18 09:57 PM
7

As a guy who is 5'8" only when I wear the right shoes, loud crowded nightclubs are easily the most difficult gaming spots for me. If they have lounging areas, then maybe I have a fighting chance. Otherwise, daygame and dating apps have been my main source of new girls.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 09:27 PM
2

You did well. Nothing you could do about the bad timing of the facetime call. If that hadn't happened, you might've had a threesome or something close to it in which Diana only partially participates.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:11 PM
0

Relevant username because you went full Rick Sanchez during that spiel. My man!
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:37 PM
8

Yeah I was reading this post and like damn I usually ask my bros about their fun and usually am not shy about sharing my own successes and failures. We all have different levels of comfort. But it is definitely a fun topic as long as both parties have interesting stories to contribute. It also helps me learn more about another guy's gaming style so I can improve mine.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:29 PM
2

It's not like a guy is either a BB or an AF at all times. An AF can be temporarily demoted and get cheated on, and a BB can temporarily become a hero and bang a hottie. This is why hypergamy is so detrimental to men who are strong AF even 99% of the time; it only takes that 1% to give her an opening.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 11:03 PM
3

Avoid criticism. Look for opportunities to get him outside of the house to chat about life and his passions. Tactfully ask him about concrete plans, but don't make it sound judgmental. Something like "Man I know nothing about what it takes to become a DJ, what do you think is the hardest part?" or "It seems like such a popular career, where do you think most other DJs get stuck and never really develop into quality producers?" or "Which artists are your main inspiration? Do you want to make the …
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:19 PM
11

Age is another factor. We don't know if you're 15 or 25. If the former, then that might explain why you're moving so slow. If the latter, then giddy up, hombre.
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:57 PM
35

This pretty much undermines your entire post about not ghosting...
/r/seduction06/08/18 03:01 PM
0

Aren't club dance moves different than rave dance moves?
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:37 PM
1

How do you and your boys dress for the raves? Tons of kandi or just shorts and t-shirt?
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:44 PM
2

Suggestions of videos or simply search keywords that show a popular style that is relatively easy for beginners to pick up?
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:42 PM
10

What was your hookup experience like at Tomorrowland? How does it differ from other big EDM festivals?
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:40 PM
2

Which is which? Before my regular STI checkups, my doc recommended not testing for it if I didn't have symptoms. He said basically the test could come back positive even if it is the kind that most people already have. He said it's complicated, and if you get the positive test result then you sort of have the obligation to take meds and tell people, even though it may be the one that everyone has or you may never have an outbreak in your life. I haven't had much luck understanding it any better …
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:33 PM
2

Watch them all night from across the bar, but don't do anything. Definitely don't talk to them. Just watch them and see which ones go home with guys and which ones get drinks. I repeat: do not interact with them in any way.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 01:38 AM
1

This is true. When I've pulled a physical move like that during sex, foreplay, or just flirting with a thiccer girl, she has usually reacted much more strongly and even talked about it longer after the fact.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 06:48 PM
1

If you are seriously concerned about her MCATs then simply use this as an opportunity to enjoy the last bit of relationship you have. She doesn't like sucking but will do it if you ask? That's fine, you don't like the relationship but are maintaining it (for now) because she flips out and threatens self harm. It's a fair trade. This is the time to try out crazy sexual stuff you've always wanted to try. You've got nothing to lose by asking because if it makes you lose her, then that's exactly wha…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 12:54 PM
1

But she enthusiastically did for the FWB?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:37 AM
1

Probably looking for a sanity check as to whether I am right to ask her to pay her share. Another person mentioned that I might pay and not mention it to her. I work, so the money isn't a big deal to me. I just don't want to be perceived as a beta bux, which is why it would make sense to make it a non-issue altogether.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:34 AM
8

Real rap, bagging a fellow traveler on purpose is scarcity mentality though. Many of these traveling groups are designed so that you actually get very little exposure to the locals. They spend half the day visiting museums/castles/etc. and then go to the tourist-friendly overpriced pubs at night, especially because those pubs are the only ones willing to sell out and hook the tourists up with drinks specials. As such, the travelers get minimal exposure and opportunities to have extended interact…
/r/seduction12/07/18 12:00 AM
0

100% agreed. Looks like OP followed someone else's advice, which may have caused this plate to crash. Any kind of response opens the door for her to talk more about the flowers, which is exactly what she wants -- to rub OP's nose in the flowers. Even if OP doesn't care, she thinks she's winning and therefore potentially losing interest in OP.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:08 PM
1

Take up a hobby, especially one that would be interesting to others or could help lead you into a circle of friends with that same hobby. Seek out interesting experiences or experiences that make you more interesting to talk to -- travel, practice talking to random strangers, use the comfort of talking to strangers to go to a concert or festival alone and make friends with whoever you happen to bump into, skydive, read a new book every month.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:03 PM
1

They call it Social Market Value because life is a marketplace. People want to buy (read: hang out with) people who are fun/interesting/etc. depending on their current mood. If you aren't interesting, then starting picking up a hobby or knowledge or experiences that will make you more interesting. If you already are interesting, then you need to learn how to present that. For example, if people are talking about traveling to Europe and you actually went backpacking a few years ago, be sure to sp…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:59 PM
3

One of my plates says that type of stuff all the time. I just laugh to myself.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 08:51 PM
13

I think OP's question is more about whether it is beta to have an LTR when a friend (probably in the same social circle) potentially made her an alpha widow.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:11 PM
20

In fact, when a guy on here brags about consistently dating HB9s and HB10s, I immediately know he's full of shit.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 09:15 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction29/06/18 08:02 PM
21

"Cool story bro. Now be a doll and grab that document off the printer for me."
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:43 PM
2

Remember the times in your life when you have had fun and felt happy-go-lucky, energized, and optimistic? Were you thinking about being that type of person during those times? Did you make a conscientious effort to be fun? No, if anyone asked you why you were in such a fun mood, you would respond that you were just being yourself and not paying attention to anything in particular. That's exactly what your friends are doing and what you should focus on. They are not trying to be fun; they are sim…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 02:30 PM
3

They are just added tools if used properly. Certainly helpful if you are meeting or trying to meet girls in their 20s. But certainly those tools aren't necessary for finding great girls of any age.
/r/seduction28/06/18 03:03 PM
3

Link?
/r/seduction28/06/18 03:01 PM
4

I'm glad that some guys will include that stuff in their comments so that I know to disregard just about everything they say. Real men use arguments supported by logic and evidence. Weaker men will resort to name calling in order to feel better about themselves. That said, tough love is a theme in this subreddit and not a bad one every now and then.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:37 PM
7

It wasn't a question.
/r/seduction23/06/18 12:13 AM
1

Also, there's a large population of people with Japanese ancestry in places like Peru (including the president).
/r/seduction23/06/18 12:12 AM
1

Adding it to my drive home material.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 06:59 PM
1

Totally agree. I'm just saying, if I'm interested enough in banging her, then it would take some totally tangential consideration to stop me, and it's usually not hard to get around those. Didn't think I would ever say no until one girl actually did go a little crazy and start calling me incessantly. Absolute boner killer when a girl goes nuts like that.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:36 PM
1

When the girl is a lower SMV yet I'm horny enough that I'd still hit it, then the only final consideration that could stop me is the potential fallout. Will others find out in such a way that it harms my SMV? Will she get attached? Will I hate myself the next day? Etc. etc.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 07:55 PM
2

You went so far in the other direction. I'd say it's more like practicing on a keyboard -- all the pieces are generally in the same place, so you can still work on the movements and get a good sense of whether you're hitting it correctly based on the sounds that it makes.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 07:52 PM
1

Don't do it if you don't want to. At the same time, I recommend maintaining relatively consistent practice. Banging those girls that I wasn't as interested in allowed me to try out new bedroom maneuvers because I didn't give a fuck whether they got turned off by them. The practice has definitely helped me while banging the girls that I truly like so that they are more likely to come back for more.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 07:50 PM
16

Also keep in mind that you are only entitled to the action and not the fruits of your action. The Stoics always used a reserve clause, Deo valente, i.e. if fate shall have it. The struggle is guaranteed but the results aren’t. Having a reserve clause in place instills a frame of calmness and levelness because you are not overly attached to the outcome. Fucking beautiful and tied perfectly into the TRP instruction that we so often don't understand the basis behind. Thanks for the post.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 01:22 PM
2

'Tis your duty, my man. Report back afterward.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:39 AM
1

That's totally fine. I'm patient. Just wanted to make sure I wasn't missing something obvious.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:03 PM
5

I can only wonder if divorces are just massive shit tests from wives. This is an incredible TRP ShowerThought if I've ever read one.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 08:43 PM
3

When I read that I got nervous that OP would then blurt out a joke about the girl coming all the way to this grocery store for some nuts.
/r/seduction19/06/18 04:46 PM
2

Loving this. Keep up the great work!
/r/seduction19/06/18 04:45 PM
1

Of course I can, but accessing through Reddit without having to click to Old Reddit seems like a reasonable expectation, don't you? I don't expect Old Reddit to be available forever. Eventually I'd like to access the sidebar through the normal Reddit. I mean, it's not a big deal, but don't you think the sidebar material should actually be on the sidebar? I don't know whether I need to change my settings, whether I'm somehow overlooking a dropdown that opens it up, or whether nobody can access it…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 03:59 PM
1

Yes, but I want to see the sidebar again because there is so much more great material. I don't even see how to access it on my laptop without going to Old Reddit.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 02:08 PM
2

Is there any way to find it without going to Old Reddit?
/r/askTRP19/06/18 01:33 AM
46

Age 0-10 was the #1 absolute most crucial decade of your and every human's life. The 2nd most crucial decade is the one that starts right now.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 12:18 AM
180

"Don't blame your parents." Fuck, I need this reminder. My laziness is on me and only me.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 10:38 PM
2

If society collapses due to a minority trend of plate-spinning (even if it became a substantial minority), then that collapse won't happen in our life times. And it won't be a collapse of humanity; at worst it would be a noticeable degradation in the quality of the society. Again, that possibility relies on so many factors that it seems silly to base one's personal pursuit of happiness on it.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 10:04 PM
1

It's true for me too. The 2nd girl I ever banged became an LTR and I still got extremely bored with her even though she was willing to do anything I wanted and to this day gave the best head of any girl I've been with. I was predestined for plate spinning.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 10:01 PM
1

Very well done. You said just enough, and ultimately it was her own decision. This minimizes any resentment the girl may feel about the decision to back out of those plans.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 09:15 PM
5

With reddit's new design, I don't see anything but the rules and moderators list on the sidebar anymore. Am I just blind and/or stupid?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 09:08 PM
14

Utter disregard for this man's phone. Fuck that bird.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:40 PM
1

I get what you're saying. It really may not be worthwhile even staying friends with her on snap if it serves me zero benefit and merely gives her more attention when she sends out her generic snaps.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 01:36 PM
1

If you see other people's advice once I included that extra info, then that caveat actually might change things. They suggest it means treat her like another bro and nothing more. You don't defriend and ghost a fellow bro if he changes his plans and gives you plenty of notice. Don't act like any response to someone's advice in here is a guy trying to be a little bitch about rationalizing his beta tendencies.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 01:20 PM
-2

She's actually still a friend, so I think it would be weird/rude for me to defriend her.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:03 AM
-3

She's still a friend actually so I think it looks petty if I defriend her.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:02 AM
1

If you're not trying to spin her, then for your intents and purposes she is not your plate.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 11:43 PM
3

It'll subtly but distinctly change the way you speak and write. There are so many words that you know that you never use in everyday communication because you forgot you know them. Reading helps remind you of those words, along with new ways to form thoughts and sentences. Just a little bit of reading of quality writing will remind you of an interesting word that you can try to use IRL. It makes you more interesting and helps you communicate how damn interesting you are.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 11:41 PM
1

Completely right. I've learned my lesson.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:37 PM
2

Probably right, except she has work early tomorrow morning. But yeah, the best mentality is to assume she's got a better dick to ride tonight, so I can just next her and not look back.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:36 PM
4

Don't even think she deserves a response. She checks my instagram story, so if I have an interesting night, I'll be sure to post it to my story.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:34 PM
1

I'll be staying with my parents so I don't have the luxury of a home base. She lives with her mom also, so I would basically have to set up the date at a bar and then bang in the car. I've got my sure thing with another girl scheduled for Saturday. I know for a fact that I could meet her up today also (she's heavily into me and rarely parties), but I seek variety this weekend. There is a date with another girl scheduled for Sunday right before I leave town -- If I try to reschedule her for tonig…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:31 PM
-11

I agree. I'm basically just looking for that one last shot before nexting her. The general advice from the group is that she should be nexted immediate with zero response whatsoever.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 05:16 PM
-4

Thanks, you are spot on. I still think I can get her with 1-on-1 time. Texting is an entirely different skill set than dating, and vice versa. If I fucked up and were in your shoes, I would keep it short and dry. Now that I've fucked up a few times, I'm planning to respond something similar to what someone else advised: "no. you down, yes or no?" Otherwise, what would you recommend?
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:51 PM
-2

We've partied a few times in a group of friends. Danced with each other, that's it. I got her number but didn't make any moves. Since then we've texted here and there. I'm not in her city that often.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:38 PM
16

Fucking clearly. How would you respond, if at all?
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:36 PM
20

Their ultimate goal is usually to get that engagement ring and live a comfortable life. So in their heads they are trying to love all of their guys because they never know which one will finally suck it up and commit.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 05:01 PM
-1

I have been with quite a few asian fobs, and some of them genuinely give me the impression that I'm the only guy they're fucking while others clearly have other guys or quite possibly do. To the extent that ALL women have multiple plates, then how do I detect this from even those girls that undoubtedly appear to be fucking me and only me?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:59 PM
11

I call it the Leo DiCaprio Effect. Dude was skinny and twiggy from head to toe for the first 2/3 of his career. Then suddenly his face started widening. Don't think it suits him, but yeah the jaw definitely looks way different than before, and it's clearly not from lifting weights -- most likely age.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:51 PM
2

The word we use for any girl that we're dating. Most of us are dating or seeking to date an abundance of girls. The skill is analogous to the old circus trick of spinning a bunch of plates in the air on sticks. As we get better, we are able to spin more plates, but naturally we're going to drop a few plates in the process. You can try to spin as many plates as you're comfortable with.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:58 PM
1

Hey buddy, you're putting way too much pressure on yourself. I used to do that incessantly, and it caused me to throw myself pity parties all the time. Focus on doing what you know you need to do for self-improvement. Stop focusing on what you think everyone else thinks you should be doing. Good luck, man, we're here for you. But there's no coddling. I recommend listening to some Jordan Peterson snippets on youtube to sort of see how my mental weaknesses are crippling and to be reminded of how s…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:02 AM
1

If her expectations for something serious keep increasing, then it would be more painful for her when reality strikes. We have a few mutual friends, so I'm not trying to make enemies here. Not trying to make enemies regardless.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:10 PM
4

Believe it or not, both sides are capable of being hypersensitive snowflakes. But reddit is mostly liberal so their snowflakery is typically less noticed or more strongly upvoted. So any non-political subreddit that starts to get popular will mostly comprise liberals who will upvote liberal comments and downvote conservative ones. The important thing is to try to make TRP as apolitical or non-political as possible. Sure, there can be posts that specifically discuss politics, but hopefully they r…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:29 PM
7

"I'll be putting up a pillow wall between us so I can watch the movie in peace, just in case you get any naughty ideas." And depending on whether she's the type of role-playing girl who writes longer texts, you can add "Just make sure you're ready for the pillow fight at intermission."
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:44 PM
1

That obviously could've changed. The guy may not have known we were dating initially or didn't have an opportunity to talk to her or any number of reasons found a more opportune time to talk trash later. Look I'm not trying to say it's likely. I stand by the reality that it's like a 5% chance or maybe that he did talk shit but it was effective because she didn't have tingles with me anyway. I'm just pointing out that it's absolutely plausible, and now I wonder whether this guy could be a serious…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 11:56 PM
2

Just to be clear, nobody has told me she has another guy. That's merely the TRP presumption when a girl goes cold pretty suddenly. So I'm 95% confident that's the reason, but I still have that 5% curiosity. The talking shit story is in regard to a mutual friend, but this guy isn't a close friend of mine and is super close with her. He wields a lot of influence over her. When we first started dating, she even said "I'm surprised Mark hasn't said anything bad about you, he normally talks shit abou…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:23 PM
5

You really gonna come to a TRP subreddit and be an emotional little snowflake?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:32 AM
4

That said, I am an actual Nazi, so take it with a grain of salt. Are you being serious? If so, what are beliefs that you hold that make you a nazi? It is such a loaded term in today's society that I wonder what the real definition is -- or at least the definition coming from a person who claims to be one.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 02:17 AM
17

As a militant-atheist, the religious contexts of JP's teachings and his personal beliefs do not bother me at all. There is so much wonderful information behind everything he says. And he never tries to push those religious beliefs on anyone. He even refers to the biblical stories as mythologies that have a type of "truth" that he fully acknowledges is very different from the reality that we typically think of as truth. Those biblical stories are useful for telling us about the humans who created…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 02:14 AM
2

If a certain person is talking shit about me, does that not matter?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:57 AM
1

While that's probably it, that's not quite what I'm asking. I'd like to know for sure because if a certain person is talking shit about me, then I need to handle it.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:46 AM
1

Jordan Peterson isn't a philosopher, but he references philosophers and other famous psychologists a lot in his lectures. He's got some fantastic get-off-your-ass and go-make-your-life-better types of rants that he supports with his understandings of psychology, philosophy, and evolution. Getting the meaning behind why I should get off my ass somehow adds to the punch of it.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:24 AM
3

Just when I was seriously starting to feel like I should look for a great girl to finally marry... TRP has reminded me that AWALT. I love this community for how much it has made me strive to be a better man and for how many disasters it has undoubtedly prevented me from falling into.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 08:20 PM
5

We often like girls better without makeup IF the girl's still look hot without makeup. Basically, the ideal is a girl who doesn't need much or any makeup to be attractive. But if a light touch of makeup gives her a boost every now and then, you won't see us complaining on those occasions.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 08:09 PM
2

Promise us right now that you will follow-up with a comprehensive FR.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:33 AM
1

"Since when is 2 inches considered small??"
/r/askTRP01/05/18 12:50 AM
1

So she's responding like "okay send me a text, and I'll see what my schedule is like to pencil you in." Sounds lukewarm at best. I want to get a more definitive response so that I can make other plans if this girl isn't interested. Suggestions on how to reply?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:14 PM
1

I don’t really care(one of my strengths in TRP is IDGAF attitude lol) The fact that you seem to apply this to just about every aspect of your life most certainly is NOT a strength. If nothing else, TRP should be helping you to re-evaluate your focus on the things that truly matter in life or that will make you a better person and stronger man. Gone are the days of "Bro I didn't even study for that test yet I still passed!" Congratulate that person on being a mediocre and forgettable human being.…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 10:50 PM
3

That makes for the perfect juxtaposition against your story. Well done and thanks for the FR.
/r/seduction23/04/18 06:43 PM
1

How did your friend do with the extroverted chick?
/r/seduction23/04/18 06:37 PM
1

Congratulations on your new experience and life lesson. You shudder today, you'll cringe tomorrow, and in a year you'll crack up laughing to yourself about it. I've had plenty of sexual experiences that I wanted to completely erase from my memory soon after... now I look back on them indifferently but completely okay with the fact that they happened because I know they partially shaped me into who I am. Likewise, these awkward and uncomfortable experiences are some of the best at shaping you int…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:06 AM
14

Meditation benefits everyone in different ways -- and I've never heard anyone say their time/effort dedicated to meditation was a waste. It's not directly related to SMV, but the strength it provides to your frame and EQ certainly will be reflected in your SMV.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:02 AM
5

If you are at all like me, then I recommend following the seduction and pua subreddits/forums. Find strategies in there that don't make you cringe, that feel natural for you to pull off. And then commit. Those forums get terrible reputations, but what they do is give you a game plan to execute when opportunities arise. That means there is one less thing you have to think about and, consequently, one less opportunity to talk yourself out of doing it. They truly helped me get out of my shell. I'm …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 08:46 PM
1

I fucking love this community. Thanks, OP.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 07:21 PM
1

Ironically, most men are raised by single dads BECAUSE women prefer to sleep with douchebags. Are you missing a word because I don't see how these two things are connected?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 06:47 PM
7

AMOGs come from every direction, including here. Just more practice to maintain frame despite all their posturing.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 03:25 PM
1

My mistake. As for the enjoyment of music, I agree the same could be same for the enjoyment of living one's life around christianity. What I assert is blue pill is unyielding belief in christianity or another dogmatic religion despite just about all other evidence and logic suggesting that they are false mythologies.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:21 PM
1

It's stupid, but works to help you feel better. Yeah, maybe it works for some, but that approach is anti-TRP and perhaps overall creates a man who is a little less capable of handling reality.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:39 PM
1

Yes, which is why my point is closer to your 2nd paragraph. A man can follow a religion for the lifestyle and its nuggets of truth about the world and people. But to believe in bullshit is very much the anti-thesis of red pill philosophy.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:37 PM
1

Why should you be good if there isn't a hell or heaven. This is why i don't follow Christianity. Through evolution, we are literally wired to be empathetic creatures - that's why. Also, that innate empathy for our own kind has been an important aspect of mammalian evolutionary success, and there is no reason to think it will not continue to be. I'm not too familiar with yogic teachings except for how they may relate to buddhism/jainism. To the extent a person follows them as a way of life, then …
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:49 PM
1

Very, very deep blue, but that's not limited to Christianity. It sounds like you believe in christianity and the bible. Do you consider that belief to be very deeply blue pill? That said, there is a certain comfort in the ritual, whether it's a religious service or Christmas carols. Sue me. Comfort sounds like an emotional attachment rather than logical. However, to the extent the lifestyle appeals to someone, I think there is no problem reconciling that with TRP. It's whether somebody actually …
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:43 PM
0

My point is that believing in what is very likely bullshit is a very blue pill thing to do. Christianity may very well have RP teachings, but believing that the bible is an accurate description of events that have and will occur in the world is childish, akin to Santa, the Easter Bunny, or perhaps ancient mythologies. Yes, maybe christianity is an accurate description of reality. However, there is no rational basis to believe that. It could be 100% correct (despite the numerous contradictions in…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:04 PM
0

Christianity is derived and diluted and more diluted with the years. But if you look into science alot, it seems beyond logical and the only plausible explanation is that there has to be a supreme intelligence. An even more logical explanation is that it's mostly utter bullshit, at least as far as it describes miracles. Why wouldn't you include that as the most likely possibility?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:02 PM
0

In all honestly, I highly doubt the religion is keeping them from rape and murder. Their religious clearly books tell them to stone gays and non-virgin brides, and very few of them do that anymore. The fact that they don't shows that they already consider themselves to have a stronger sense of morality than their antiquated old book. TRP should be a stepping stone for many to start rejecting those horrific beliefs.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:27 PM
2

Keep in mind that, while she was certainly especially sad on that day, she was still (perhaps unwittingly) using something that she knew you would understand to get her foot into the door. You are a kind person, but don't let her manipulate you with this. Through TRP, we have learned that the manipulation that women do is a survival instinct that is so ingrained in them that it's hardly conscious. Be wary, my friend.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:07 PM
2

Those thousands of women would be lined up for his dimes, not his fat gut and womanly cellulite thighs. So yeah, be a billionaire or improve yourself.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:49 PM
20

So she was sending these messages before your relationship, but she's been a good girl since you started dating? All you have learned is that your little snowflake isn't actually a little snowflake. Maybe if you actually paid attention to TRP you would have known that. If you like LTRs, you can maintain an LTR with a non-snowflake. Just know what you're getting.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:15 PM
-3

This is why religion, and all dogmas for that matter, are extremely anti-TRP. Those of us who still cling to religion are deluding ourselves for the specific purpose of our own emotions. We need to man the fuck up. Shedding our long-cherished childhood fairy tales is an important step. Yes, we can be generally TRP with religion, but we should always remember that that aspect of our lives is undoubtedly blue pill and irrational.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 03:34 PM
8

I was going to make up a half-truth about having to work late tonight and early tomorrow morning... but both of yours are perfect because they exhibit exactly what TRP is all about.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:35 PM
1

We've texted a bit today. She's feeling fine now, so I can't use that as a reason to avoid her. Family stuff is tricky because she specifically knows that my only family in this city is on a big vacation to Europe. Need to come up with something... I'm all ears if you have any other ideas.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:16 PM
3

If only I had that kind of skill. The reason this is a stressful situation for me is b/c potential threesomes don't usually fall into my lap like this (read: NEVER). FWB has repeatedly told me that she wants a threesome one day but never with me because she wants to keep me for herself or some shit. But for whatever reason she seems to have changed her mind. Gotta strike while the iron is hot and definitely not gonna try to suddenly mix in a 3rd girl who nobody knows and who doesn't seem to have…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:14 PM
2

I'm a similar age, and I think the reason is that much fewer mid 20s girls include our age within their age range settings. Perhaps we need to make an alternate account with a lower age. I can easily pass for upper 20s, and I imagine that being in good shape means you probably can too.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 11:21 PM
1

I see. I think your experience growing up is very different from most "short" guys. For me, despite being above average in looks, I was shy and had very limited interaction with girls while growing up. The limited interactions included girls saying "You're going to be really cute when you grow up" which I interpreted as "grow taller" rather than "grow older." As far as that Tinder shit you're talking about, i used it a couple of times and found exactly zero people asking for tall men. I know the…
/r/seduction28/02/18 03:38 PM
1

Now, what's funny about this whole thing is that i never really knew height could be a problem until the internet told me. Yes, the internet told me that. Not girls, not the people around me. The internet. I don't think i ever even thought about height before reading discussions online about how bad it is to be short. I find this absolutely surprising. From 90s songs like "Don't want no short short man" to 1 in 20 tinder profiles asking for a tall man with a beard, how could you go more than a f…
/r/seduction28/02/18 02:04 AM
4

Women actually have a #wastehistime2018 hashtag, which they've done for the past several years.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 08:54 PM
3

I want to see OP responding to this comment rather than questions about his fucking IQ. Don't be afraid, /u/Yabadababoobs, you can totally do this. Start with any of this advice, and every day you progress a little bit is a fucking win.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 04:36 PM
1

How exactly would you phrase that in a text?
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:29 AM
1

Bingo. Thanks to this community, I've been ignoring her, and so glad I am. Couldn't look myself in the mirror if I had let myself get wrangled into her frame.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 02:37 AM
1

So what kind of response is warranted? I'll wait til tomorrow morning though.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 02:36 AM
1

Is there any reason she deserves a crumb right now? Sounds like the unanimous answer is nope. I think TRP theory would say she doesn't deserve any crumbs til she's done something beneficial to/for ME.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:18 AM
2

I actually already have a date set with her this saturday. But every now and then she'll say something that makes it sound like she's subtly trying to friendzone me.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 12:20 AM
1

How do I respond if/when she eventually asks "why didn't you reply to my v-day text?" ? I think my current problem is that she has temporarily shaken my frame (good thing I'm not with her in person or it would be a failed shit test). I need to figure out what frame to hold right now to get myself back in control. EDIT: She just now sent a followup to the "Happy Galentine's" text that was a text video of her blowing a kiss with a snapchat filter. We're not yet snapchat friends, so my only assumpt…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 09:39 PM
1

She did text out of the blue with one of those bitmojis that says "Happy Galentine's!" Seems like something a girl would send to her other girl friends or a gay male friend. This might be her way of telling me that our date on Saturday is meant to be just friends. Any thoughts on what to take away and how to respond? I suspect "Thanks! Same to you" still works pretty well here because it completely ignores whatever game she might be trying to play.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 08:46 PM
1

If she texts "happy valentine's day" is there a way I should respond? (A) simply say "happy v-day" back without making a big deal (B) something like "oh, it's v-day? I should probably buy a calendar"
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:26 PM
1

Just to add, some girls get the ultrasoft next, which means they get placed on the backburner until I feel interested enough to try again at overcoming her shit. But the point remains: soft nexting is about detaching so you can transfer any and all focus on that girl completely to other girls or other things that are more worthwhile.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:13 PM
1

IMO this type of line is better in person. When it is over text, it can more easily be misconstrued or over-analyzed by her. If she starts showing the text to her girl friends to find out what it means, you have to worry about them influencing her with stuff like "WTF why is he trying to control you like a little dog? If you have any self-respect, you'll stay away from this guy, otherwise we will all consider you a slut." (Okay maybe not that extreme, but you know how good women are at slut-sham…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:04 PM
1

You're absolutely right, as I mentioned in the other comment. The danger I'm in is that I really like this girl, which is exactly why I need to trust in TRP teachings rather than screw everything up by treating her like a precious little snowflake.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:57 PM
1

This is really good for me to read. My response to another person's comment shows I may be missing the point. I'm still not sure about what it says for me to abruptly cease the intermittent texting on V-Day of all days, however I take your point sincerely and see what you mean: Not texting her will likely benefit my position with her far better than any trivial texting could ever do.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:42 PM
1

It's not like I hate the idea that it's a recognized day. I just hate any societal norms related to spending money and making a big deal about it. If it we happened to be texting on Christmas, wouldn't I wish her a Merry Christmas? My reason for texting her at some point is because we've already been texting everyday since we met on Friday. To suddenly ignore her today of all days makes me look like I'm specifically dodging her on V-Day. In this case, I think maintaining frame means not looking …
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:39 PM
1

This definitely gets better with time. And gain more and more practice/interactions with other women. Constantly. Those will completely drown out the oneitis and soon you'll wonder how you had oneitis for this girl in the first place.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 11:12 PM
1

Exactly, they don't expect anyone genuinely being interested in them, so they assume the dude is faking it for whatever reason, which is usually just for sex.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 05:57 PM
2

While I mostly agree, even a froo froo dog makes it super easy to meet women. But why get one when OP could/should get a true companion if he wants a dog.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 06:18 PM
6

Even a friend who has looked up to me for my plate spinning asked me for advice. I told him #1 to start lifting along with other tidbits and casually directed him to some TRP reading. Basically, I haven't heard from him in over a year. I highly doubt he's implemented a single piece of advice. It's just so easy to remain a snowflake and hope every damn day to find that special girl who will love you for the little bitch that you currently are while she is already hot, sweet, and successful. Grant…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 05:35 PM
35

I've noticed this pattern when seeing a guy's progress pics on r_fitness and r_progresspics... The dude's face becomes multiple times more attractive. Why? Because a chiseled face is part of the classical definition of a handsome male face. Therefore, just by being in great shape, a man's face is far more likely to be classically handsome.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 10:23 PM
31

I am too. AFAIK the study didn't show the men in person so the women didn't have the chance to feel small or large in each man's presence. The women were probably told a height, which is basically just a number to them. Plus, they knew that they wouldn't actually be dating these guys. My point is that, while this conclusion is surprising, I think there are a few explanations that caused the height factor to be somewhat discounted from reality.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 10:19 PM
2

Ideally, there's a way to put it on record with HR without it being an official complaint. You just want a record of it in case it somehow blows up in your face later.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:12 PM
1

That's the problem. I'm not even talking about hookups. I'm talking about when you get a handful of numbers while visiting a city -- most of them don't turn into a hookup. So is it worth even keeping in contact with them? Feels like it's wasted time due to a very low chance of hooking up later.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 07:00 PM
1

Seriously, OP. This is huge.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:13 PM
0

This is exactly why you don't make a big deal about it.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:10 PM
1

I get it. A few texts over the course of the year, and then text a bit more about logistics if and when I do plan another trip out there.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:08 PM
1

I've visited there once in order to get the numbers but may not return for another year or so.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:07 PM
1

Yeah I think that's fair for nearby cities. I'm pretty much talking about 500+ miles away, which means I won't be traveling to that city again anytime soon (or maybe once per year).
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:50 PM
1

Her date with you is her birthday present. However, you can bring a very small gift (like a flower) if you play it flirtatiously to your advantage. For example, you bring the flower but refuse to give it to her right away. "Yes, I know it's your birthday, but you have to earn this. For now I'm going to hold onto this until I decide that you truly deserve it ;)"
/r/askTRP28/11/17 02:03 PM
1

You've got a lot to work with. While you devour information from TRP and implement it in your life, I also advise reading and implementing stuff from PUA websites/forums as well as r_seduction. People here like to mock those places, but all that matters is they help you get onto your feet. And they will. All of these will absolutely help you, as you are a blank canvas and have nothing to lose. I started with PUA stuff many years ago, which gave me tons of practice interacting in new social setti…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 01:58 PM
4

This still raises the question as to exactly when is it okay to get married? What type of girl and relationship must it be, and has Rollo found that or succumbed to female and societal manipulation?
/r/askTRP21/11/17 03:07 PM
2

I think it's also an age thing. When I was younger, kissing was a big deal. After college, if you're not banging, you're nothing more than a friend. I've heard my younger cousins in US college refer to kissing as "hooking up."
/r/askTRP21/11/17 03:01 PM
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She uses her busy schedule to rationalize her weight gain. This will be her forever because (A) life doesn't ever get less busy and (B) this is just who she is now, in that everything is an excuse for her to not be healthy.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 03:47 AM
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40 pounds in 6 months? She's in a death spiral. No way in hell a breakup shakes her out of it. But OP will probably carry a bunch of guilt.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 03:45 AM
2

Additional good news is that by being men in today's society, we don't have to worry about aging the way women do. By sheer luck we won the very first genetic coin toss in life. It annoys me when fellow men bitch about how easy women supposedly have it. Just shows that those guys aren't paying attention and have so much to learn.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 11:55 PM
1

Just imagine how much dick you could get! But seriously, a smoking hot woman still typically has a much more difficult life than a generally successful man. There are definitely a tiny fraction of those girls who cast their ambitions and morals aside to let themselves be whisked away on private jets to private islands. However, they usually are giving up a bit of their own interests, freedom, identities to live that type of life. And as they approach 30, they start becoming extremely well aware …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 11:51 PM
1

This is why frame is so important. Women have spent years practicing their skill set for bringing men to their knees.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 11:40 PM
3

Definitely the best part of taking it is that connection with the entire universe. Since that trip/connection doesn't last forever, TRP is a nice tool to help maximize the quality and frequency of our individual perceptions.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 11:36 PM
2

This is very clever and thoroughly supported with your analysis. Excellent contribution.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 08:14 PM
1

Saved. I've begun meditating semi-consistently over the past two weeks, and this post is spot on with my experiences. I've had only 1-2 meditations that made me feel like a zen god -- most of the rest were hyperactive monkeys. So much progress to be made. Your post is a reminder that the discipline of meditation itself is already a small victory even before the benefits take effect.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 03:05 PM
1

Relax.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:59 AM
1

You are claiming to be making all this effort and can't even be bothered to look up the definition of a term you don't know? Maybe you are not making as much effort as you claim. Keep reading and practicing. Get more experience interacting socially with people in the real world.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:40 AM
1

You're coming off right now as a bit high strung. Perhaps you are giving off that vibe in your interactions as well. You may say flirtatious things that get giggles, but you may not be building comfort and attraction that produce tingles. That's fine, you're still learning and tweaking your style. No advice in here will turn you into a Chad tomorrow. Keep practicing and enjoy the interactions with fellow humans. Not everyone is a natural. I sure as hell am not. I didn't start developing game unt…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 11:40 PM
1

Chad, if you define it as a guy who fucks a lot of girls and has them scrambling to be with him, comes in all shapes and sizes and personalities. There's no telling how each one feels about himself. To the extent you are looking for the clearest path to Chad-dom, then start with confidence. As that improves, other things start falling into place.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:53 PM
3

Everything I've read defines confidence as your internal view and contentment with yourself. It should have very little to do with others, except in recognizing your strengths and weaknesses compared to others and working hard to improve yourself. The manipulative stuff is for PUAs.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:39 PM
1

It is very likely the generalizations in this sub don't apply to you nearly as much as they apply to other women. A popular acronym here is AWALT (all women are like this) as a reminder for a guy to never be surprised when a woman he thought was different actually turns out to fall perfectly into one of the main generalizations, especially to the guy's disbenefit. No woman always fits into these generalizations, and no woman never fits into these generalizations. But in order to give advice to f…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:32 PM
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Confidence (goes hand-in-hand with frame which you listed). Especially in a sexual way. All those other things you listed absolutely help get you there but nowhere near as important.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:23 PM
1

She was sad a couple weeks ago because her dad was sick, and then she brought up how I made her sad too and that she has to hear her friends saying that they saw me out. I didn't respond much and didn't ask any specific questions. She got that out of her system. When we've hung out since then, it's like normal. Every now and then she'll complain that she won't see me for a couple weeks due to me traveling, and she said "It always makes me worry when you're gone because I don't hear from you the …
/r/askTRP20/10/17 03:48 PM
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Also, keep escalating the kino. Don't wait til the awkward end of the date to go for the kiss. Try to find a moment where you both are connecting. The best thing you can do after being denied a kiss is to act like it never happened and maintain your frame. After you've been rejected as many times as me, it becomes easier and easier. But you can practice this skill right away if she denies you again. At that point, you can try various TRP tactics. But most importantly you should act unfazed and c…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:54 PM
1

My question is where do I go from here? I don't think I'm finished but next time I see her we really need to escalate or else I'm bouncing. You keep saying that nothing has happened, but I'm not seeing any mention of you even trying to escalate. Don't blame her for not taking the initiative to jump into your pants. Also the 4am text sounds kinda like a potential booty call.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:33 AM
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Not every girl is going to bang right away -- whether it's her M.O. or insufficient game on your part. So it comes down to whether you are getting a little closer each time. Get a little more flirty in your texts to see if she reciprocates. That will help you see whether you are moving in the right direction.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:17 AM
1

I think the alcohol heightened her emotions. While she was upset at me, I think she realized that it was also her fault for not talking about exclusivity before. She could only really blame herself. I was not very apologetic but, rather, matter of fact like "This is just who I am..." The alcohol probably also made her more willing to have sex afterward. Feel free to hit me up in a few days or a week to see what our status is at that time. I am possibly going to Vegas this weekend, which would de…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:09 AM
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Therein lies my problem and the reason why several other guys in here have reminded me to man the fuck up. I feel guilty for not managing her expectations. She was upset yesterday but we still banged. And then I caught an uber home because I needed to wake up early. I haven't texted her at all today. No idea whether she's going to call it quits or what. I think there is almost no situation in which you have a candid conversation about wanting to GFTOW. I think our frame has to make it a little c…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:56 PM
3

I've definitely read about explicit communication and I have tried it before, but mainly only early in the relationship. It's about 50/50 between girls saying "bye" and girls being okay with a FWB situation. The FWB girls usually only last a few months before they eject to search for someone they can have a serious relationship with. In my situation, I pretty much knew she believed we were exclusive. Although I've been hooking up with other girls over the course of the 6 months, I've almost alwa…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:22 PM
2

lol i fucking love the tough love in these TRP subreddits.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:51 PM
2

At some point it becomes the Matrix... you have to simply get into more and more social situations before you can start to recognize the nuances in yours and others' behaviors.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:27 PM
2

Thank you. Solid advice.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:17 PM
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We are pretty close to the same age. Welcome to the future, my friend. My friends who have been locked into a marriage for a few years constantly kick themselves when they hear about tinder and the many other apps out there. All they can do is live vicariously through me. I just try to give them fun new stories periodically.
/r/seduction27/06/17 12:19 AM
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And nobody has ever spoken to her like that. Without a doubt she's going to spend the next few weeks fantasizing about him forcing her up against the wall and fucking her brains out. Outwardly, she'll continue to hate his guts, while inwardly she'll hate herself for wanting him so badly.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 12:22 AM
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One key reminder to OP: You don't need to be a chad across the board; you only need to be a chad with respect to her. Before TRP I was in no ways a chad. But I did have chad moments that led to intermittent dating successes. I'm still no chad, but I sure as hell have an increasing number of chad-like experiences as I continue to develop my inner and outer game.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 04:35 PM
3

Notice how that girl was single for a weekend before getting into the next relationship? That's because the 2nd relationship was starting to brew during the 1st relationship and likely was a catalyst to that breakup. Two things to remember: A relationship does not mean the girl is off the table. TRP seduction is amoral -- adjust your dating ethics and bro code principles to your level of comfort and recognize that they will change with time and many other factors. Understand that many of these g…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 02:35 PM
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This is why I consider most religious dogma to be anti-TRP. I'm not saying they are blue pill, but they suppress the type of introspection, re-evaluation, and critical thinking that make TRP so valuable to improving our lives. Not all societal brainwashing is bad, but the ability to step back and re-evaluate our own brainwashing is an invaluable skill that each of us should strive to improve upon.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 02:25 PM
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Also, a large nose tends to be a woman's greatest insecurity. In fact, even normal sized noses seem to be a major point of insecurity for a lot of girls. Consequently, you will rarely find a big nosed girl trying to lock down a small nosed man. The girl wants the man to have a large nose (preferably larger than hers) to take attention away from hers and thereby mitigate her insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 06:32 PM
2

I love posts like this. I really need that kick in the ass sometimes, especially right after the weekend.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 02:53 PM
1

With those stats, the sky is your limit. You are severely underperforming at only 1 new girl a month. I'm doing about the same while standing below 5'9", around 15% bf, and well into my 30s. Hang with the buddies that are going to challenge and inspire you.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 09:00 PM
1

How did you turn it around and finally make that decision to stay focused?
/r/askTRP08/03/17 04:44 AM
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Those stats are the reason he's fucked over 100 women by the age of 22. The advice is still solid for a short guy like me to improve from 1 new woman a month to 2-3 new women a month. It's not so much that the advice is how he got there. The advice is based on what he's learned during those experiences.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:29 AM
2

Sounds more like an open relationship than a FWB. How many of your friends do you see 3 or 4 times a week?
/r/askTRP07/03/17 01:21 AM
2

Thanks, I considered it and thought "Nahh, too specific to find that question through reddit's shitty search algorithm." I'll go ahead and delete this one.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 06:48 PM
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TRP has greatly improved my success with women. My success with women has led me to see how replaceable most of them are. I am starting to believe that I'm headed down a path of never finding a woman to marry because of this realization and because of my enjoyment of fucking different women whenever I want to. Ultimately, this detour from the traditional path in life has me wondering whether I will one day be a 80-year-old man wishing I had a big family and offspring to pleasantly sit back and w…
/r/askTRP05/03/17 06:43 PM
1

I was always in decent shape, but I made fitness a more important part of my life. I studied and practiced pickup/seduction. You'll find that experience and success with women will feed on each other, and you will improve exponentially. This means it may seem to start slowly before it gets easier and easier. As it gets easier, it really becomes fun and you have to find new ways to challenge yourself. My journey is nowhere near complete. I barely consider myself intermediate level in terms of pic…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:00 PM
2

I was almost 22 when I lost my virginity. I genuinely wondered whether I would ever find a girl that wanted to be with me. Trust the process that comes with the advice here and in the TRP subreddits. I am 30+ and I can honestly tell you it gets better every single year. Stay focused on your goals and enjoy the journey as much as you can.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 07:38 PM
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I get the feeling you and I are talking about very different experiences in terms of neediness. My recent experience has been where a girl has said she wants to see me at least once a week, and I say that I would prefer every couple of weeks because I value my independent time. It took a 3-text exchange. I imagine you're talking about a different level of neediness that was a red flag to your ex-plate not being worth keeping around.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 06:53 PM
2

I know you already responded and this is done, but in my experience, I've often had success turning friendly drinks into a hookup. The meeting up as friends gives her plausible deniability, and then when you connect and hook up she can tell you/herself "I don't normally do this" or "I guess it just happened." If you were getting IOIs at the party, then there's a decent chance you could've gotten back into that flirtatious vibe in person rather than through the awkwardness of facebook messenger. …
/r/askTRP13/02/17 06:50 PM
2

I've found each strategy effective with different girls. I don't really see how telling a girl what you like or don't like is analogous to acting like her dad.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 05:59 PM
2

It's a solid rule. If the neediness doesn't go away when I tell them it's unacceptable, then yeah I prefer to just stay away altogether.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 05:31 PM
2

Also depends on the plates. Some are needier than others. However, I'll sort of put those ones in their place and ignore for awhile to remind them that they are replaceable.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:47 PM
1

It ended up going quite well today. Thanks for your advice!
/r/askTRP13/02/17 04:06 AM
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increase the amount of fun This is a really good tidbit that I often forget. A man's attractiveness is based so much more on the experience than the physical appearance. Therefore, having a blast with a low-SMV girl could still keep your SMV high because the 8 will probably be more focused on the fun you are having (and creating for others) than assessing the SMV level of the date.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 06:01 PM
1

I'm meeting up a plate this evening who will be cooking me steak. I need to channel that abundance mentality during my date with the flake which we reset for this afternoon.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:37 PM
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Sort of my point. I lose a lot of frame by getting flaked on and still pursuing. However, that doesn't mean there's practically zero chance to bang her. I've decided to pursue and told her to meet me at a nearby bar this afternoon. She agreed. Now it's a matter of what's the best frame I can carry that will increase my chances of getting laid. My abundance mentality is relatively strong today because I have a plate cooking me steak this evening.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:08 PM
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She chose something else over her very limited knowledge of me. Jesus dude my self-respect isn't based on whether a girl chooses me as her #1 option 100% of the time, especially when she doesn't know me. Anyway, I'm asking for advice on how to pursue her while maintaining frame, and you're only telling me don't pursue her.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:44 PM
1

Yeah, but I would still like to hook up with her if possible.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:32 PM
2

She's a cute girl. I'm pretty sure she has enough options that she's not going to cry over being ignored by one of her dozens of Tinder matches.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:23 PM
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She is very likely getting turned on by the fact that she's so blatantly cheating. Completely ghost her. If you absolutely feel a desire for revenge, this is the best revenge you can have on her. For the rest of her life she will wonder whether you found out about her cheating or whether you met someone else or whether you simply lost interest in her. Her punishment is having to live with that uncertainty. Your victory is stepping up and getting out of this shitty situation. Your bonus is knowin…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:10 PM
1

Still told her "I'm not fucking you", as I put my dick in her ass. I left after--she was a bit upset at this, but I said "I have to go", and that was that. My bad. Misinterpreted this as you pressing your dick up against her ass while and then saying you had to leave. Got it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 07:11 PM
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So why not fuck her both nights instead of just that one night a few days later?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 10:54 PM
1

It's largely about having a different group of girls to start the night with for a change. I'm thinking about this from an outcome independence perspective and more about helping my boys get some ass. They're all high SMV guys, but way too often they choose to drink beers with old friends rather than look for new tail. I want to encourage them to chase tail regularly like I do.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:58 PM
3

The line makes sense if he otherwise wouldn't have been able to fuck her (or fuck her wildly in the way that he'd like) if he hadn't said the line and refused sex. I'm not so sure. I feel like OP's clever line basically ensured that he only got laid one night instead of both nights. Maybe he used the line for the long game with the girl. Or maybe he really didn't have time -- that is, it would've been such a quickie that she wouldn't have wanted a round 2 a couple days later.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 09:46 PM
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The added bonus is that he showed superiority over you. He gave you an assignment while he was gone. How did you respond to him or the girls when he said that? What did the girls say to you while he was gone -- mostly bitching about his cockiness while feigning disinterest?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 12:52 AM
1

I should have learned this a long time ago. My game improved incredibly over the last few years, which meant my experiences with women improved as well. It was so exciting. And I still felt like a little beta who hit the lottery so I expected everyone who looked at me to think I was getting nothing. So I started getting into the habit of making movies with girls. Now my close friends know very well about my collection. As some of them get into serious relationships, I'm almost positive they have…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 06:59 PM
2

For many of the same reasons you identified, I recently switched from No Fap to Porn Free. I find the latter (porn) to be a bigger deterrent to developing more robust seduction skills. Even with that, I personally do not plan to abstain from it completely. Why? Because there is always something to be learned so long as it is in a thoughtful and controlled manner. For example, there is a confidence and smoothness that you will often notice in the male stars. Seeing that every now and then provide…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 01:54 PM
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Believing in religion is very blue pill. It shows an inability or refusal to apply rationality and critical thinking on this very specific part of your life. Assuming you are an otherwise intelligent person, it shows that you are clinging to these beliefs despite better evidence due to some kind of emotional attachment. Letting your emotions override reality is exactly what women, children, and blue pillers do.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 01:02 AM
2

Teach children logic, skepticism, and critical thinking skills, and they will eventually grow out of religion even if it is shoved down their throats. Religion is a mental weakness. I'm absolutely not saying that religious people are stupid... rather, they are just mentally weak in that very specific area of their lives. Teach your children to apply those skills in all aspects of life.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 12:51 AM
1

litteraly taking out the trash for women Not sure if terrible speller or litterary genius. The pallet/palate and your/you're confusion could be a hint...
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 02:55 PM
1

I believe that very little of our brains is hard wired. We all likely have some tendencies (sort of like a hardwiring), but there is likely a set of experiences that got you interested in those fetishes. I will try to go periods of time without fapping. After just a few days, I notice how the experience of sex with my plates is excellent without having to fantasize things like threesomes during the act. Similarly, during periods of high fapping, the material I use will get increasingly taboo. Wh…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 08:03 PM
1

Foreign or westernized asians? I have a sort of an ethnic mix and small stature, which means I can't use the mighty blond western man presence to get the westernized Asian girls as easily. I definitely want to improve that area of my game. The foreigners are my specialty.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 05:33 PM
1

I have the type of SMV with my job in a well-regarded profession that makes Coffee Meets Bagel especially useful for me to make connections with girls outside of their typical ethnic comfort zones. Still it seems that over 50% of foreign asians are not willing to go outside of that (which obviously includes a non-negligible amount who simply aren't interested in ME). The best gaming for foreign asians has been in person when they happen to be alone. Politeness goes a long way and helps them let …
/r/askTRP16/11/16 05:30 PM
1

Coffee Meets Bagel has worked best for me to find asians who weren't born in the US. You could even set it to Asian only for a few days to see if you start getting matches. I also used POF to find one before. Gaming is quite a bit different. You can't be sexual through text. It scares them off quickly. Also can't move too quickly on dates. That said, my two plates each went as far as making out and upstairs groping on the first date and f-close on the second.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 03:45 AM
2

I agree, but in my days when I was a beta stuck in a one-sided relationship, I was also too naive to even think to read something like Models. It was as if my beta self would consider it cheating merely to consider reading the book. It's impressive to me that some guys could be in that same situation yet take that step to better themselves and their lives.
/r/seduction14/11/16 03:28 PM
1

Good on you to, first, attempt to view your life and the relationship from an objective perspective by giving Models a chance. And then, second, for having the open mind and courage to start making important changes.
/r/seduction14/11/16 03:25 PM
2

Just curious, why did you start reading a pickup book while you were already (presumably) in an exclusive relationship? (Or perhaps it wasn't exclusive.)
/r/seduction14/11/16 04:50 AM
2

I have always been pretty introverted and have similar examples of declining almost certain fun and immediately regretting it. Now, people are surprised when I say I'm introverted because I am quite sociable when around people. I'll still decline activities from time to time, but the feelings of regret are rare because I force myself to go to enough social activities for my taste. It took/takes effort to push myself outside of my comfort zone. And guess what, never once have I regretted going ou…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 06:26 PM
1

Definitely makes the 1 hour drive more enjoyable. Did the maneuver of inviting various girls from your past or potential future help you later on hook up with any of those other girls that you invited?
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:35 PM
1

Did the main plate try to hug on you as a way to sort of mark you as her territory? If so, how did you respond -- by ignoring it, by casually rejecting it, or something else?
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:23 PM
1

Care to expand on that?
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:29 AM
2

Yeah I guess I meant the question generally. I know the girl's personalities so I can imagine how it would play out. Was mostly interested in what other guys would do with respect to their own plates.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 07:43 PM
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Point #1 is huge where I live. There are so many goddamn fake accounts. The girls look unbelievably hot because, of course, they are not real. Some are immediately identifiable, some need a closer inspection, and some you just can't really tell. Nonetheless, out of 100 girls, about 30-50 of them are fakes.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 07:11 PM
6

Has she been offline since? Was this flow diagram created 2 years ago?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 07:08 PM
1

Believing in the accuracy of most major religions is anti-TRP. As red pill men, we strive to understand and succeed in the world through learning, rationality, and critical thinking. Proper use of those skills should reject all major religions as literally ridiculous. Think about it: A boy was once formed without a sperm cell, lived for 33 years having never had an erection, died for 3 days only to wake up among several hundred other zombies, and then disintegrated in the clouds. If you heard th…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 02:41 PM
3

I thought the vast majority of norwegians were atheist?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 02:36 PM
1

Based on everyone's responses in here, sounds like I just got really fucking lucky.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 12:29 AM
-1

You may be right in 99% of the cases, but it literally helped me fuck a stripper. I think a lot of it depends on how the girl views you. I was more Purple Pill at the time, so the awkward beta moves may have been part of what she liked about me in the first place. The hail mary move is borderline blue pill anyway, and sometimes we just want that last shot before giving up on a particular girl.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:46 PM
1

Ah okay. In that case, I like your strategy. You're still paying $25 or so for some kind of decent artist, but hey that's why it's a hail mary... you have to entice her with somebody halfway decent.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:38 PM
3

Seriously? You would give a gift valued at $200 to a girl you haven't fucked, but you draw the line at texting a cute pic?
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:24 PM
-1

My hail mary is to send a hilariously adorable animal pic/gif from /r/aww or something similar. It's a good way to gauge any remaining interest and determine whether she even has a heart. no response = cold heartless bitch "lol" or "haha" or "aww" = indeterminate, but at least you re-broke the ice in a casual way "omg that's so cute!" or anything more really = she wants to continue interacting with you Note that gifs usually require sending a link. Some girls aren't internet savvy enough to iden…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 08:40 PM
1

Ummm
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:08 PM
1

I've never tried that approach. Although I'm generally attractive, I don't think I'm at the hotness level that makes girls excited just by looking at me. My approach has usually been to fly under the radar and let my wit and connection with them steer it toward something more. My tinder hookups in the past have often turned into casual dating for a couple months until they realize I will never want anything serious. I think yesterday was my window into how your friends use Tinder. It helped me t…
/r/seduction03/10/16 04:37 PM
1

Why are you claiming to have a trademark on the phrase "Nice Guy"?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:20 PM
1

What is your age range and what are the age ranges of the girls who respond positively versus the girls who respond negatively or not at all?
/r/seduction26/09/16 07:39 PM
1

In that case, pretty much any girl in the dating scene is DTF. It's just a matter of making her tingle. While I would agree, I am specifically looking for a way to identify the quality non-diseased girls most likely to be DTF without necessarily getting into sexual innuendo or explicit conversation before the date. My dating nights are infrequent so I'd prefer to get the most quality bangs for my buck, so to speak.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 04:23 PM
2

If they're on a dating app, they're DTF. I view this more as an advice for how to approach girls I meet on a dating app rather than reality. I don't think DTF holds true anymore in an age where girls are casting a wide net for a husband. I think your statement is certainly truer for dating app girls, but nowhere near 100% of the quality disease-less girls. Anyway, solid advice nonetheless to help shape my mentality going into these dates.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:59 PM
2

She will be absolutely crushed if I leave her, like more than most people. My ex was crushed at the thought of that too. So much so that we had several breakups leading to her threatening to commit suicide. When I finally ended things, I was extremely calm and rational about it. I waited until we had not had any fights within the past week or so in order to make the breakup as unemotional as possible. It sucked. I felt guilty for years later, still do a little even though it was over 7 years ago…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:28 AM
4

I've been in that situation before. It's a death spiral. She's not going to become secure enough to be confident to make you sexually attracted to her. The fact that it's necessary just makes her more self conscious and insecure. It starts with frustration that you're not trying to flirt with and fuck her, then anger when the frustration reaches a tipping point, and finally tears when she realizes the heart of the matter is that you simply aren't that into her.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 12:14 AM
8

Sucks that I usually* can't get hard when I roll. It also changes my mindset into one of genuine love rather than wanting to fuck a girl's brains out.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:27 PM
2

The gender blindness makes a lot of sense. Good analogy.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 04:52 PM
3

I think you're right, but it's super effective because it really doesn't feel like she was manipulating me. I think it was an honest statement on her part. Nonetheless my life is my life. Time to (A) not let anyone else define what success and failure mean, and (B) go balls to the wall because I'm in fucking Vegas!
/r/askTRP20/08/16 03:16 PM
3

Not only that, where I live there are sooo many spam accounts that you'll just waste all of your likes. I do quick swipes on the first picture.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 11:55 PM
1

My ex signed up for one of those free travel things after we broke up too. Pretty girls become escorts for men who would otherwise be traveling alone. Funny and clever business idea for hoes that want to collect passport stamps.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 09:09 PM
1

I don't think you owe her an explanation. Her behavior has caused you to spend so much wasted time wondering what she's been up to and then deciding what to do about it. Fuck that. Let her waste her time wondering why you ghosted on her. Neither she or her friends deserve an explanation. Let them hamster about it for as long as their little hamster feet can spin.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 09:04 PM
8

I think this is fair and worth mentioning. Now, I dispense a lot of accusations towards the harms that Islam and other religions bring to the world. However, it's simply unfair to compare small samplings of each culture with one another. Take Mexicans in the southern US for example. As a person living in the south, I can see on a daily basis how hard working these people can be. On the other hand, it doesn't surprise me that the rates of crimes like theft are higher among them compared to the re…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 09:52 AM
-3

That's not even close to what I said. You're projecting some of your own problems onto my trivial paragraph. Work through those, my friend.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 09:43 AM
0

I agree 100%. The thing is, I'm not asking for it to be illegal or criminalized or anything like that. I just want a society in which it is okay to tell a fellow human that a prevailing idea is fucking ridiculous. Once that is okay, we can truly have an honest discussion about all silly and dangerous religions. Let's be real -- the handful of Aztecs that still exist aren't cutting out the hearts of virgin women and throwing them off tall structures anymore.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 07:49 AM
4

I never claimed to know everything, but I sure as hell know enough to know that certain ideas in this world are irrational, dangerous, and socially retarding. Anyway, as I mentioned elsewhere, you are wise to avoid the beta guy's pitfall of introducing his wife to a more progressive culture.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 10:33 PM
-1

SJW sucks Islam's dick. Go join them if you like.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 08:42 PM
-6

Agreed. I take no sides in this situation. More power to any human escaping an oppressive culture and religion. Fuck those things. Let women do what they want -- whether it be becoming productive members of society or going full AWALT. Poor guy in this situation. He's a victim of crossing a 1500-year-old myth with modern society. (Nobody could've seen this coming! /s)
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 07:17 PM
15

It's like when super religious Catholic parents keep their daughters under heavy control. You're a fucking idiot if you think they're not encouraging her to become a super slut the moment she gets a taste of freedom in college. There are certain cultures and religions across the world that do the same to women. This story is the most predictable form of AWALT I could ever imagine. He probably should have better protected her from freedom by keeping her hijab'd in north Africa.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 07:15 PM
5

You can't really use the word "modern" to describe that culture.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 07:09 PM
41

Oppressed by a culture and religion that treats women worse than dogs? Yep, you probably should expect them to go full AWALT the moment they get a taste of freedom. I'm not taking her side, but I'm sure as fuck not going to defend the shitty way of life that some cultures have under the guise of "I gave her marriage and a free home."
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 07:08 PM
3

Hoes don't act right.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 06:39 PM
2

The 2nd pic makes sense. I feel like that 1st woman must be lying.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 02:54 PM
2

You've also got a good amount of height and weight on me. Totally makes sense that you'd prefer the type of girl you didn't have to worry about snapping in half.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 01:04 AM
41

This is a good reminder that we all have different perceptions of beauty. I would consider 5'6" at 130 lbs to be a little on the thick side.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 08:01 PM
3

Classic manipulative behavior by a princess who is accustomed to getting her way every time.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 03:03 PM
2

A name pun probably wouldn't provoke the question of whether the line usually works.
/r/seduction14/07/16 02:40 PM
5

The fact that he spelled it correctly speaks volumes. The fact that I knew that... well that means nothing dammit.
/r/seduction14/07/16 02:38 PM
2

Most guys in an LTR are in that LTR because they're genuinely afraid they can't get another decent girl to fuck them ever again. That attitude tends to make it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:52 PM
1

Maintain frame. Watch what she does, not what she says. You respond with "cool" and leave it at that. If she says, "well what are you looking for?" you respond with "same" and add a cocky wink if you're in person (the ;) wink won't translate so well on tinder.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 10:07 PM
1

I have to admit I agree. I consider myself a beta in recovery, and I definitely feel more confident as my n count has doubled over the past couple years.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 08:48 PM
2

Okay cool, thanks man.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:38 PM
1

In case OP doesn't realize it right away, redpillnobody is recommending No More Mr. Nice Guy. And I wholeheartedly agree.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:36 PM
4

Ripping the bandaid is excellent advice. Also, do not feel the need to breakup the "proper" way. You can breakup any damn way you want. For example, I knew the girl would go into a rage or try to manipulate my emotions if I broke up with her in person. So I called her up at a time when we were 1 hour apart. I got shit from people afterward for doing that, and I kindly told them to fuck off because I had very particular reasons for breaking up the way I did. They can call me a coward all the my w…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:25 PM
2

A little context would help.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:17 PM
7

I upvoted before knowing what a cluster B was. I would upvote another 10x if I could, now that I know what it means.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:17 PM
25

We are officially no better than the rest of reddit.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:20 PM
1

You know, my sis can be a real bitch at times. She married a chill guy who is still a man's man -- ex-marine in peak physical shape who likes to fix and build shit. Nonetheless, she wears the pants because she is smarter, more meticulous, and more in your face. When I see her nag my bro-in-law about some meaningless detail and when I see his eyes roll in annoyance, I'm so tempted to interject with, "there you go, you see how you act? That's the type of shit I'm not willing to put up with." Obvio…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 03:05 PM
2

Damn, that does make sense. And perhaps a dash of Misery Loves Company.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:59 PM
2

This is why I truly love this community. You are a true bro to a complete stranger, and your analysis and advice are immaculate.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 10:39 PM
2

Point 2 - Why do men lie about the "happiness of marriage" even while they're among a group of other men? Is it because they live in fear that saying anything negative could somehow get back to their wives?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 10:11 PM
2

I'm 33 and am truly grateful for posts like OP's. I have to hear it from my older sister at every family event because she wants me to get married and have 2 kids just like she did. It's really difficult to tell your otherwise sweet sister that women can be real bitches once married, gain a ton of weight, and that fucking different women all the time is highly preferable even during dry spells when I go weeks without sex or a bj.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 10:09 PM
1

It's the fucking internet; take everything with a grain of salt. On top of that, I hardly ever see anyone on here bragging about fucking 10s. The only guys I can recall bragging about 10s are the older men. I take their assessment with a fucking pile of salt because I know how old men were the only guys calling Sarah Palin hot.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 09:24 PM
3

I was a slob until I dated a bitch of a girl for almost 2 years. Even though the relationship was frequently shitty, I have no regret spending almost 2 years with her because, thanks to her, I emerged a tidy man. The feeling of going from a messy home to a clean and organized home is so liberating and really does make it easier to focus on the more important tasks in life.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 11:17 AM
25

Well Sue likes girls and OmLaLa likes 2 girls.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 12:42 AM
3

My suspicion: He's gearing up to have his own following. This way any search that lands on his comment will be clearly attributed to him. Everything is advertising these days especially if a person is trying to commercialize a social media persona. It just comes off weird until and if he ever becomes popular.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 02:49 PM
4

Sounds like a brilliant game to reduce approach anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 02:45 PM
29

Honest question, how exactly does one go about finding a decent lawyer on short notice over the weekend in such a high-consequences type of situation like this?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 02:32 PM
6

Ok you big stud. I wasn't disputing the accuracy of the story or whether these things actually happen. This is reddit. You're a fucking idiot if you take everything at face value. Just trying to explain to OP why a lot of people don't seem to believe the story as written.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 12:01 AM
2

I see. So you truly don't trust the guy. If so, then this is even more complex than I originally thought. Drinking will be involved, and he can look for opportunities to make a move with her essentially stuck there for the whole match.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:23 PM
3

This is a complex situation, but you can't next a girl every time she doesn't fit into the TRP methodology. No girl will because context is key. Your discomfort is worth noting, but it could simply stem from reading a lot of TRP stuff about not trusting women. It sounds like this is a rare opportunity for her to watch a sport she loves with a dude that she believes you trust not to try to fuck you over. If their evening continues for any amount of time after the event and only involves the two o…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 08:37 PM
6

It reads like an Ayn Rand novel. Every character fits squarely into their typecast. The TRP male is alpha as fuck in every way manageable. The cuck is a lowly beta who isn't even respected by his slut of a girlfriend. Every other female is a hen scrambling around with their head cut off. I have no reason not to believe your story. I just take each detail with a grain of salt and the whole story with a grain of "maybe this didn't happen but I'll try to walk away some RP truths regardless."
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 07:34 PM
1

I fail to see a meaningful distinction.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:14 PM
2

You're not married or engaged to her. This is really quite simple.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:13 PM
3

In addition to the solid advice you find on here, just know that we're here for you. There will always be somebody reading your post and somebody giving you tough-love advice. We will not coddle you. We will respect you as a fellow man who, just like each of us, is seeking to become stronger everyday.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 01:15 PM
2

I've had this sorta backfire on me. The girl was not accustomed to fwb situations so she felt really bad about having one with me. Anytime our hookup was solely sexual, she would be cold immediately after she left my place, and I could tell she was determined not to hookup with me again. I'd let her soften up for a week before contacting her again. When I realized this, I started to add a slightly more romantic facet to the fwb situation so that she wouldn't feel like such a slut. This allowed m…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 09:52 PM
1

I really need to get around to writing that primer on Smoke Signal Game.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 04:43 PM
-2

I take it that you don't check anyone's snapchat stories? Edit: I'm getting downvoted, so I'd like to point out that I don't mean this incredulously. In fact, it may be un-redpill to spend any amount of time checking others' snapchat stories rather than, as fnordsnord says, spending time on our own life and women.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:20 PM
1

Get into the fucking gym. Being a man, you naturally build muscle faster than you think. Even if you don't notice it in the mirror right away, you will wear it with improved confidence. Lifting is for inner and outer game. There is a fucking reason it is the very first piece of advice given in the TRP subreddits. Check out the before/after of guys in r/fitness. Notice how ugly their faces are before and how handsome their faces are in the after. You know why? Because so many of the characteristi…
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:19 PM
3

I used your 2nd line. She responded with "right after you do of course." Because in the past she teased me about sushi, I'm thinking of responding with "let's start with that sushi dinner you promised me and I'll take care of the dessert."
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:00 PM
1

We watched it on TV at my apartment. I'll edit to make this clearer.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 11:28 AM
1

The point is I haven't done anything for her. Just drinks, and she's bought some of the rounds. Of course that doesn't mean I should start doing more now. Just looking for the best response and course of action.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:20 AM
1

What is "nuke her hamster"?
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:18 AM
2

Got it. There's no recovery going down her path and in her frame.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 07:04 PM
1

Ha, would love to read a FR about how you pull those things off.
/r/seduction31/05/16 05:38 PM
1

What other types of crazy kino are in your set of moves?
/r/seduction31/05/16 04:34 PM
1

Do you lose all your matches when you restart the account?
/r/askTRP26/05/16 12:09 AM
5

"We should exchange numbers anyway unless he doesn't let you have male friends." The implication is that the bf is controlling, which should encourage her to respond: "No way, I can be friends with whoever I want!" Then you chime in quickly with something like: "Well perfect! Here's my phone, go ahead and type it in."
/r/askTRP10/05/16 06:29 PM
4

Practice, practice, practice. Strike up conversations with everyone everywhere. If you're shy, start with simple hello's to strangers. Do 5 of those per day for a week. The next week, 5 hello's and add a sentence. Increase each week. Within a month, a casual conversation with a stranger will be effortless. Keep building on that. In the meantime, you're bound to meet a few decent human beings that you actually connect with.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 08:38 PM
1

I don't think the men are necessarily engaging with each other in a devil's threesome. Each male may strictly interact with the female but for sporadic high-fives or head nods with the other male.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 08:33 PM
2

I think that's what it means. And I think it was mostly a joke.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 06:27 PM
1

Took your advice about SuperLiking her b/c why the hell not. Also going to reassess how creepy I may look when using the SuperLike non-ironically. Appreciate your feedback, man!
/r/askTRP27/04/16 07:52 PM
0

Meh I've banged a SuperLike before. I'm gonna go ahead and continue doing it when I feel like it. Being ethnic, I'll typically use the SuperLike to get the attention of, say, a foreign Asian girl who would probably otherwise swipe left at first glance.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 08:19 PM
0

You would waste a SuperLike on them? I don't see what you have to gain by that. You could just as easily screenshot her tinder profile and text her saying "You should use that lingerie pic you sent me yesterday instead."
/r/askTRP26/04/16 08:10 PM
13

Right before she answers, I'll go "me neither."
/r/seduction21/04/16 11:13 PM
2

Yep, exactly my point, which is why I wrote "quality."
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:04 PM
8

This is not necessarily true. Aside from finding a wife so weak that she'd be willing to look the other way and tell herself that you're faithful, there is the possibility of an open relationship. The problem with this is that she'll have a MUCH easier time fucking other people during her prime (possibly making you frustrated and jealous), and she'll have a much more difficult time fucking quality people after hitting the wall (possibly making her resentful and bitter).
/r/askTRP20/04/16 09:01 PM
2

Several months ago, this 6-month plate finally ended things with me because I wasn't willing to be monogamous. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago and she invites me out partying with her friends on her birthday night. Naturally, I end the night at her place to fuck all night and the next morning. I bounce at 9am because I have a hiking date with another girl. Midway through the hike, we go exploring off the path so I could pull down her shorts, bend her over, and fuck her brains out. That was al…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 07:57 PM
1

"Netflix and Chill" is a phrase used to represent watching a movie or show on television with the ulterior motive of fucking the girl. Some ingenious souls recognized that the maneuver can also work with non-Netflix programming. The phrase maintained its name despite being somewhat of a misnomer. To this day, no one has complained that the term "Chill" has very little to do with sex. If you truly are seriously confused, then my serious answer is that you choose slower parts during the show/movie…
/r/seduction13/04/16 11:37 PM
2

One of my go-to Netflix and Chill moves is to eventually get us lying down on the couch. I'll lay on my back with a pillow under my head. She'll squeeze cozily between me and the backrest of the couch and lay her head on my chest. My arm can then be around her upper body or playing with her hair or whatever. Tons of harmless and endearing kino. At a commercial break it is then very easy to gently lift her chin up for a quick kiss. I might say, "okay that's all you get" and lay her head back down…
/r/seduction13/04/16 08:40 PM
7

And those Indians, who don't have the guts to go after the buffet line that is western women, will just stare and gawk at women without realizing (or caring) how obvious they look.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 10:55 PM
1

Saved as a reminder that I need often. I think a lot of people here are glossing over how important our attention really is in modern society. Even I don't fully appreciate it, however the way social media has developed gives us tremendous insight. Everybody wants more views and likes on facebook and instagram. Even snapchat has the feature to tell you who has viewed your snap story. Everybody wants attention, and the brands are using that to turn normal humans, our very own friends, into advert…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 03:51 PM
1

First, don't be so certain that everyone knows how incompetent he is professionally. Sometimes those people are the best at hiding it from anybody that they don't work with directly. Nonetheless, just because everybody may already know about his incompetence doesn't mean you can't allude to it every time he belittles you. Use it as a reminder to him that he is inferior to you, and you are well aware of it. Perhaps his jokes will be well-received in the unemployment line.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 10:53 PM
4

Your final comment was absolutely perfect. If both were married, you hit the nail on the head. If anything "less" than married from their perspective (i.e., divorced or never married), then your comment hits even harder.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 01:25 PM
1

Think of it like a conversation. You can steer the conversation, but eventually the other party is going to get bored or frustrated if they never get to talk about something that particularly interests them. Just because you let them speak a reasonable amount doesn't mean they're talking about things they want to talk about. As for the one year LTR, your guess is as good as mine. I get bored of girls after fucking them for a few days in a row. That's why I've made sure not to see my plates about…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 03:12 AM
1

That's why I asked about bondage specifically.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 04:46 PM
3

Had never heard of jelqing before your comment. Will definitely look into it.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 11:55 PM
1

This is very similar to my experience with it. I'll try to abstain for 2-3 days before a date in order to boost the libido, but any more than that either seems to lower the libido or makes me hypersensitive if I do end up banging the girl (which means less control at lasting a long time).
/r/askTRP15/03/16 11:52 PM
1

One of them straight up asked me. I wasn't doing well at that stage of the date so I felt especially comfortable telling her how I really feel. I explained why I think the feminist movement has gone too far and generally projects negativity in society, etc etc. Surprisingly, this had her nodding along, and then I changed the subject when I noticed the change in how she looked at me. For the more recent one, she saw my tinder pics -- shirtless with girls in bikinis. She made several comments abou…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:53 PM
6

Indeed, the two encounters are separate, but they should not be treated as wholly separate. That said, the main reason for the non-consensual blowjob to be used is to make sure this is clear to the public that the girl isn't a 100% innocent victim. The poor guy has several battles on his hands -- educational, legal, and publicity. He is already harmed by being involved, but losing any of the 3 would be disastrous to his future.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 12:34 AM
24

This scares the shit out of me. I've hooked up with 2 feminists over the past 2 years that I'm constantly slightly worried are going to come back after me with this kind of accusation. The sex was completely consensual and, if anything, they were the aggressors. However, I know it killed them a little bit inside knowing that I am anti-feminist. I've saved all tinder and text messages just in case I need that shit as evidence one day. I'm not all that concerned, but it's a shitty feeling to have …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 12:14 AM
11

I'm shocked that this isn't at the forefront of his counter. She should be immediately expelled having expressly admitted to raping him in his sleep.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 12:05 AM
1

make it up to me when you come over tomorrow at 8 The difference is that her mere presence doesn't make up for her flakiness. She'll still have to earn that forgiveness on OP's bed.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:57 PM
1

You're saying my face is what helped me to ultimately confirm lesson #2 with this girl? That's awfully sweet of you.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 10:07 AM
2

Being tall or not doesn't matter 100%. If you're SMV is shit across the board you won't register to women. On tinder, I've definitely had girls straight-up ask my height and then go completely silent when I tell them 5'8". Recently, I met up a feminist (whose profile specifically says "no hookups") who disappointedly told me that I looked much smaller than in my pictures. Two main lessons: (1) Confirmation that height is fucking important to even the girls who supposedly live the least superfici…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 10:08 PM
1

You said you fumbled up the ask so that may be what went wrong. Doesn't mean you can't re-visit it if given another opportunity. Now that you've had a conversation with her, talk to her like you've known her for way more than a night. Be completely unfazed by the "ask" because that's meaningless now. Ask again if you can start getting IOIs again.
/r/seduction11/03/16 03:41 AM
3

Just curious how this works logistically. As you walk up or as he lets you through the door, you tip him $__ while the cover for men is $__? Do you still tip him when you go there? And do the free drinks come when he takes a break sometime in the middle of the night?
/r/seduction11/03/16 12:51 AM
3

I really like that second one. Not instead of the other reframings, but in addition to them. That discomfort of hard work, just like lifting weights and jogging and eating healthier, is exactly what we need to endure when so much instant gratification is available at our fingertips.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 03:53 PM
16

Ctrl + F: lazy, procrastination nothing Damn. I need to reframe: "My problem is not that I'm lazy, it's how to fit in 8 solid hours of focused work every day." "My problem is not that I procrastinate with my assignments, it's how to focus my work into 20 minute increments." Would certainly appreciate better phrasing if anyone has better ideas.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 02:03 AM
1

Almost correct, but the beta should expect shit tests as she recognizes that he's not quite 100% alpha. That means OP needs to be ready to respond to the turn-downs casually, nonchalantly, and with some dread game. Like abdaba said, OP should always do what is fun to him. After a turn-down while on the couch, for example, he could adjust his position so as to lay his leg(s) across her lap while he grabs the TV remote to see what else is on TV at the time. Actually I don't know if that's a good e…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 02:18 PM
5

I have a couple 6/7s in my collection of plates, and I can confirm that there is something special about them. Granted, my dick doesn't want to see them more than once a week. But when it's ready for their variety, we have a lot of fun. I get to try out new things in the bedroom and on the balcony, which includes stuff that they normally would never do. They usually pick up food on the way over so that's pretty great too.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 12:12 AM
1

Everything about your comment assumes that women are, or should be, rational creatures. A fundamental point of TRP is recognizing that that is absolutely not the case and learning how to navigate the dating world and life accordingly.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 06:44 PM
1

I think there's something to it, not as a legitimate field of study but as a recognized pattern in western culture. I've had a few relationships that curiously went south only to later consider them from a 5 Languages perspective. For example, when giving me comfort tests, the girl genuinely cared far more about hearing nice things (probably due to her irrationality and insecurities) than my time or effort (things that a rational human would appreciate). Essentially, when I'm especially perplexe…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 01:20 PM
4

Straight A post. When the B came to tell you about the C, you gave her the D.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 08:33 PM
9

"Tell me whats wrong" This was a perfectly tuned approach. Just as you said, the obvious beta approach would have been "Baby, is everything alright?" However, the not-so-obvious beta approach could also have been "WTF was that all about?" It doesn't matter that the man feels like a man for being aggressive because it immediately signals to her that she successfully drew the guy into her emotional frame. He's no longer an anchor but rather an adversary in a game that women are far more skilled at…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 08:16 PM
2

Poor guy is typecasted. Just like Liam Neeson as an ass-kicker.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 01:10 AM
1

I'm in a similar boat. I've gotten a lot of phone numbers through Tinder and the like and had fun text conversations only for those connections to go stale because I keep pushing back when to have the date. On one hand, I want the dating practice with these girls. On the other hand, getting to the gym or getting a good night sleep so I can focus the next day at work is really nice. Ultimately, I do not regret missing out on the girls. In fact, it hasn't been that difficult to text some of them a…
/r/askTRP23/02/16 12:59 AM
2

Skiing/Snowboarding can be pretty expensive for most college students. Not that this matters to OP, but there are way fewer single girls on the mountains. The reason is because the vast vast majority will go with their boyfriend or large groups of friends that will consist mostly of guys. You rarely see a group of girls decide to go on a ski trip together as compared to beach or Vegas vacations.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 12:51 AM
2

This guy pretty much said what I was thinking. Ultimately, do what you want to do, but don't base your decision on your LTR's irrational jealousy.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 12:49 AM
1

I think you're right not to be paranoid. The fact that she's so casual about letting you access all of those accounts/devices shows that you likely have nothing to worry about. And there is no reason she should even think to delete/block this guy if she genuinely considers him completely harmless. She probably receives this kind of thing from a bunch of guys and dismisses them.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 12:45 AM
1

This is so true. My ex-girlfriend's best friend would obviously lie on her behalf when the girlfriend was cheating or doing shit I certainly wouldn't be cool with. Without proof of the cheating, I finally dumped the girlfriend because I couldn't ever trust her. That supposed best friend of hers was the first girl I fucked a week after the breakup.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 08:32 PM
8

Seduction should not stop when you get a girlfriend/fiancée/wife. That's is when it becomes more important because the comfort of a stable relationship can make it go stale very easily. I recommend that you continue flirting with your girlfriend with the whimsical exploratory fun that won her heart in the first place. Edit: words
/r/seduction22/02/16 03:43 AM
1

I've sometimes had success getting friends a little more interested in TRP by letting them hear about some of my sexual exploits. I always have sex videos and pics on my phone so it's easy to share and to get them excited about it. They get curious, and I tell them to start with the gym. If they keep inquiring then I slowly start to mention TRP concepts to see how they respond. Only if that resonates will I expressly mention TRP. And I'll do it in such a way to explain that it will sound misogyn…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 03:33 PM
1

When broken, most men aren't fortunate enough to turn to the red pill. Even in that pitiful state, TRP is so contrary to everything they know that it's highly unlikely that it resonates. But yeah, you're probably right that it would be the most effective way :/
/r/askTRP21/02/16 03:27 PM
1

This latest girl is thin and seemingly in great shape. Otherwise that would be my response if I was pissed about her question. But I'm not pissed about it. I understand girls have their own tastes, and I don't want her to waste her and my time on a date if she's not attracted to me. However, the point of my post is to find a response that will show security, confidence, and still maximize my chances at having that date in the first place.
/r/seduction21/02/16 09:09 AM
1

This latest girl is clearly thin and in great shape. Otherwise that would be my go-to response if I felt like being snarky.
/r/seduction21/02/16 09:06 AM
1

150 lb. I'm in reasonably good shape. Sometimes as the connection is building, the girl will ask this question just as we're setting up a date. It's really not that common.
/r/seduction20/02/16 03:49 PM
1

I certainly want to get back into meeting more new girls irl for pretty much those reasons, but I've overall enjoyed online dating. My job is pretty busy so apps like tinder allow me to meet and escalate romance so that less work needs to be done when we meet in person.
/r/seduction20/02/16 09:48 AM
2

She likes the 5 text messages in a row because it makes her feel validated. Very unlikely that she's fucking the orbiter.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:42 PM
2

Yep, keep it vague and nonchalant, and that'll let her hamster spin. Also, don't make comments about her texting guys while hanging with you because, after all, you don't give a fuck. (Not that you have been; just a reminder.)
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:36 PM
1

Perhaps an audio format he can listen to on his commute to better ensure your mom doesn't see him reading it.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:31 PM
6

FR requested
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:31 PM
2

This is absolutely correct. I used to soft next a girl before a date simply if she didn't agree to meeting me at the location and time I chose. Last week I learned to chill the fuck out and take a stand on the more important shit instead. It led to an f-close, and on our 2nd date she actually brought up how the fact that I was so confidently chill about the sudden change of plans really upped her attraction to me.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:30 PM
2

If you can't afford an electric guitar right away, then learning on an acoustic is far better than air guitar.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 08:24 PM
1

Very helpful advice. I would also add to include a little bit of kegel exercise whenever anyone happens to think about it.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 08:21 PM
5

I've heard others list Atlas Shrugged as well. I'm about 1/3 through it so I hope to report back in a few years when I finally finish it.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 08:16 PM
1

I like that first response as a serious answer when she keeps pressing after the multiple deflections. Said in the right tone, it gets the point across that the actual number doesn't and shouldn't matter.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 09:00 PM
1

Waaay better than POF. I live in a big city, and the options on POF are so much fewer and less frequent unless you are okay with trash. It also takes much longer to generate a date because conversations are more like email exchanges than text exchanges.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 08:56 PM
1

This makes the most sense to me. At this point I've waited too long so I won't say anything til Friday. But I generally use your approach and probably will again in the future.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 05:57 PM
2

I agree that these are great tests for attraction and compliance. Awhile back with a different girl, I mentioned something similar to the "skirt and heels" line, to which the girl balked and almost canceled the date. I recovered to the point that I could've had the date, but what's the point? I already knew that I didn't have control of the interaction, and she simply wasn't hot enough for 2 dates before fucking her.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 04:12 PM
1

Appreciate the response. I usually save that for day of as a way to ensure we're still on. Either she'll ask that morning whether we're still on, or I'll text the time and place a few hours in advance. Some flaky girls love locking a guy into a date only to flake on him last minute. With my strategy, she and I are equally semi-locked in at this point. If she flakes a few hours before the date when I give the specifics, then she doesn't know whether she truly inconvenienced me. In addition, now h…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 03:17 PM
2

Oddly enough, I hate bright red lipstick on most girls. Don't know why. I'm probably in the minority on this one.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 03:13 PM
1

What are you referring to? I never said that a ;) is sexting. Anyway, the moment has long passed so I just didn't respond.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 03:12 PM
1

Yeah it could go either way. But I've never known a dumb college girl not to melt over the shitty poems from that guy. As for most advice in this sub, frame is key.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 12:19 PM
1

Sorry, wasn't clear that I already have her number. All of this sexting was through text messages on our phones.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 02:44 AM
4

Her friends: Soooo what did he get you for V day? LTR: A box of chocolates and dinner. Her friends: Oh. Ok. LTR: He set up some pillows and blankets in a deserted corner of the school library and read me his favorite poems from R.M. Drake. Her friends: Damn girl, I hope you blew him right there and then.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 11:52 PM
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That's good advice if you start out as a skittles man. If OP isn't already a skittles man for this girl, then I doubt turning into one starts by skimping out on V day. Any guy in an LTR probably doesn't want to be a skittles man anyway.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 11:44 PM
1

Not able to watch the video in your first bullet at the moment. Can you TL;DW what is it that OP should definitely not do?
/r/askTRP10/02/16 11:42 PM
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My concern is that, if my steering the sexting into setting up a date was too abrupt of a switch, I want to leave her with the slightest response that shows that our conversation is over today but she better be ready for me in 2 days. I know emojis should typically be avoided, but I'm tempted to give her a simple ;)
/r/askTRP10/02/16 11:38 PM
2

I certainly want to keep the tingles going, but I don't want to walk myself into an hour of sexting. I've got work to finish up before meeting a plate tonight.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 11:33 PM
1

I would agree that OP should generally trust his intuition.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:05 PM
1

It could simply mean that she doesn't want to make an hour long drive without a license and risk getting pulled over. In addition, losing one's wallet is a shitty experience. If true, I wouldn't blame a girl for worrying more about recovering/replacing the lost monetary items than about driving an hour to meet a guy she met online and exchanged a handful of texts with.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 08:50 PM
2

I've repeatedly considered getting a dog just for the pussy magnetism it creates.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:43 PM
15

Perhaps you were a little too overt. Start with an innocuous excuse to go back to your place or hers. Even if you're just walking her up to her doorstep, ask her if you can run up and use the restroom. She just needs a non-slutty excuse to start the snowball effect of things just happened.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:01 PM
2

Helps explain the high suicide rates.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 06:12 PM
3

I was thinking the same thing. The blonde was completely secure in her status, which is why she had no problem sending the brunette over to OP. When the blonde decided that the group of girls would be leaving, there's no telling (from our perspective; OP may have discerned enough details to be pretty sure) whether it was due to envy of the brunette.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 03:51 PM
6

I spoke to a guy who had done a bit of reading on zen philosophy. His advice was similar to yours -- be the mountain and watch the clouds (your emotions) pass by without being affected by them. Thanks for the explanation and book recommendation.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 08:31 PM
3

Awareness. Be aware of your surroundings and your inner turmoil/happiness. This is like constant meditation. You need to develop this awareness in all situations and interactions. Are you referring to meditation or something a little more than meditation? If the latter, could you expand on what this would entail on a day-to-day basis? Great post.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 06:31 PM
3

What is stopping these women from coming back to the guy and demanding child support? Also, if he's not fucking these women, why are so many guys in this thread envious? Yes, I want to make babies one day, but that's mostly because I'm excited to see how they'll turn out. Not only will he never meet most of them, but he doesn't even get to fuck the women. Yay.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 12:52 AM
1

Another key consideration for long term potential is whether this girl is going to be willing to share in the activities that you enjoy doing. Right now, she gives you space to do your thing, but she also refuses to participate when you want her to. Down the road with kids, how much space do you think she would give you when you both have way less free time? If you can't share in the activities that you enjoy, guess whose activities get chopped off first.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 11:18 PM
1

What exactly does it mean for a guy to be multi orgasmic? Does that mean he can come twice without a recovery period? Or is it something more like where the penis is able to stay hard even through a shortened recovery period -- which is something I've managed to do a couple times in my life.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:35 PM
1

Glad to hear that it seems to work. This will help remind me to do it more often.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:29 PM
1

If those are the same as the kegel muscles, then a person should definitely flex those routinely here and there throughout the day when he happens to think about it. Strengthening those supposedly improves the ejaculation as well as the orgasm.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:22 PM
1

However, a little edging a few hours before sex helps to build up the juices. I've painted most of my best murals after that little trick. For those that don't know, edging means to jack off without orgasming/cumming.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:19 PM
3

OP, read every comment in here once and then read them again 10 more times. Your attempts at rationalizing the situation as if you're already in too far is making every single one of us scream in frustration. Most of us are single. Life does not suck. I've just had two dates cancel on me back-to-back (just received a text re tonight's date). Oh well. There will be more. You'll get yourself together and become the man you want to be. The very first fucking step is to realize that this woman is TO…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:47 PM
1

The banter is fine for a fun conversation, nobody is denying that. But it's not TRP-style seduction. But mostly, it is obvious by the conversations, and by how the girls are usually the ones messaging him first, that OP has already attracted them with his profile pictures. That's nothing against OP. More power to him! It just shows that his banter is essentially meaningless and might actually cause the girls to start viewing him as "LTR material" rather than a wild ONS.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 02:42 AM
2

Yup. It is 100% clear that OP already won the girls over with his pictures. He's a fine conversationalist, but I don't see anything special about his game, as it appears the girls were already eating out of his hand.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 02:36 AM
1

I wonder if this happened to me just today. Was texting a tinder girl throughout the day to set up a date (1st mistake was not setting it up quickly and getting back to my work). As the evening approaches and we pretty much had the details solidified, she goes on a 5-text rant about feeling sick and exhausted and apologizing profusely about canceling and asking me not to be mad. So of course I replied with the usual "k" and that was it. Wouldn't surprise me if she screenshots our conversation an…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 02:24 AM
2

OP is referring to Indians who are raised here in America. Surely the selection bias of generally having nerdy fathers who did enter the country for educational reasons may translate down into the next generation, but I think OP is looking for a few explanations rather than someone to tell him his observations are inaccurate.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 12:57 AM
6

Fuck approaching women, you've made me want to pet a dog! I mean, bungee jump!
/r/seduction03/01/16 04:02 PM
1

Are they supposed to be easier? I'm an ethnic minority who is not very tall, so the white college girls (who are typically more looks oriented) aren't initially attracted to me. Also, being in the working world, I simply have less exposure to them and therefore very little practice. Any recommended reading for them in particular?
/r/askTRP01/11/15 07:26 PM
3

Reminds me of the video of this jolly fat fuck dancing at the bank because he is sending out his very last alimony payment after 10 years.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 09:13 PM
1

The little mannerisms are most noticeable when the guy tries to be intimate with the woman -- even just playful flirting, kissing, etc. She will be different, less comfortable in that situation, and probably a tad standoffish as her initial reactions to his advances betray her.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 09:09 PM
9

Not only is it a lot of work, but doing a great job at it one week does not even save him from the consequences of a bad week. The woman's tingle-memories are so short that the man has to be on his game practically constantly.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 09:05 PM
2

I always thought "mooseknuckle" was the male analog to the woman's camel toe. Could be wrong.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 09:00 PM
2

This prompt perfectly describes me. Lost virginity barely before 21st birthday, and then jumped into a 5-year relationship with the 2nd girl. After that was a slow but steady increase -- about 2-3 new girls to bang each year. So far in this 33rd year, I've been with (sex or BJs) over a dozen. I'm not angry at the past, but I'm so anxious to make up for lost time that I can't even consider the idea of getting married. Family talks about it constantly, and I sort of humor them while reminding them…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:52 PM
14

Don't outright ask her to be a plate, just treat her as such. What I mean is, don't suggest things like "Let's just be FWBs" because it will be easy for her to say no. You simply start treating her like a plate, which means you stop spending money and time on her. Let your actions be guided by the fact that your entire purpose for her is now to fuck in all the craziest and wildest ways you've ever dreamed of.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 09:51 PM
6

Be more attractive. As a guy, it is a million times easier for us to become attractive in spite of whatever physical shortcomings. Physical ugliness has almost no bearing if the other parts of your mind, body, and lifestyle are on point. In short, don't hate women for their nature. Learn about it and their objectives, and enjoy how fucking great it is to be a man.
/r/seduction21/10/15 04:41 PM
14

P.S. All the wild and crazy sex I'm having with assholes right now? Yeah, I'm going to suddenly not want that the moment we tie the knot. Sure, we can pop out a couple kids. But the threesomes, public blowjobs, and other stuff will be the "past me" who was insecure and craved attention. Fortunately, I don't have that problem with you because you are a chump.
/r/seduction21/10/15 04:33 PM
2

Point taken brother.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:31 AM
1

Solid advice. I just told her I bought ponchos on Amazon. That's the only tip I'm giving her... until the night of the concert.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:23 AM
13

Not only that, but the part about teaching his kids to look after their belongings and plan ahead is beautifully juxtaposed with the terse reference to the wife. It very subtly makes the point that if she really needs that kind of help on a daily basis, then she has the foresight of a child but maybe be too set in her ways to learn better.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 08:43 PM
5

In my city, most of my guy friends are married or in serious LTRs. When just us guys hang out, a couple of them use me as a reason to talk to girls. But it's always anti-game bullshit like, "Hey you should meet my friend. He has a good job and makes a ton of money." Basically the worst kind of intro to have with a girl.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 11:20 PM
10

I have a different wingman where actually we encourage competition and often try to AMOG each other. It makes us step up our own game and it's fun between bros. God damn this is brilliant. There's no love lost because y'all are buds. The best part is that neither of you come off as insecure in the spirit of friendly competition. That itself probably makes you both more appealing, which means she chooses the victor based on his superior game. Competition with a stranger means that the victor migh…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 11:16 PM
4

Ironically, as this sub creates more alphas who avoid commitment, it follows suit that more alpha widows will be victimized in the process.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 06:29 PM
1

This is great. Sometimes you crossed out the stuff that was meant to be the hamsterized version, but we all got the point. Scary to think that just a year ago your comment would have made zero sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 06:05 PM
5

Still may be in the process of righting the ship. He said it's back to "tolerable" levels. Our boy will persevere and hopefully soon be one of the wise ones that poor saps in similar situations turn to for advice.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 06:02 PM
3

The key factor is for her to be open and willing to try new things sexually. There are many virgins out there who are that way because they have been programmed to think of sex as truly dirty -- e.g., certain cultures and religions.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 05:56 PM
4

If I wasn't so lazy I would message one of my exes and ask them what BS they tell their BFs. This would be very interesting to know. But if you aren't already on chatting terms with the girl, I wouldn't want to re-open that can of worms.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 06:54 PM
16

She did this really hot thing during sex where she pretended to be asleep for a few hours.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 06:50 PM
3

Must be really tough to see BPism repeatedly ruin the life of someone you're close to, especially when the only thing strong about them is their ability to reject RP truths.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 05:34 PM
3

A lot of internet tough guys around here. The funny thing is that OP clearly implied that he was physically out-matched by the dude. And starting fights in which you believe you can win simply reeks of insecurity.
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:08 PM
1

Yes, I think I know the difference because I'm realizing I've already been doing it every now and then. And it's something that can be done lightly and effectively while at the beach/pool party. I notice that a lot of girls suck in their stomachs (via lungs) when they take bikini pictures, but it looks terribly obvious to me. A very slight SV, however, would look far more natural.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 09:29 PM
1

Based on GLO's linked picture, I think I'm around the 10% range. It's hard to judge because my abs aren't as large as the 10% and 15% guys. But my obliques and sternocleidos have about that level of definition. Can't wait to try this out. I love that I can do it off and on throughout the day at the office. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 08:24 PM
2

I think cleverness is your best weapon here. But I would take much of the focus off of the guy. You make your clever joke and then immediate re-engage the girl to show how unfazed you are by the AMOG.
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:19 PM
3

you should have kicked the guy's ass I think OP was pretty clear about the size difference. He assessed the situation and quickly knew he could not win in a fight. Just as you fucking said, starting fights is a lose-lose situation. Why the fuck did you turn around and say he should do it anyway? Do you know why it's a lose-lose situation? On one hand, you get your ass kicked, humiliated, and suffer an injury that follows you for days (something to explain back at the office), years, or life. On …
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:16 PM
9

Casually walk around him and go straight up to the girl completely ignoring the AMOG and say: Why don't we continue our conversation over here... Girl: Umm, no thanks OP: Okay, bye. It will force her to make a decision. There is a good chance you lose, but that means you were going to lose out to this guy anyway because he won her over in a matter of seconds. It also means you walk away literally under your own power.
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:11 PM
3

You only do SV in preparation for a beach vacation or the summer -- i.e., for when you plan to show them off. Is that because they otherwise do not have much of a positive health effect? From the little reading I've done since you mentioned SV, it seems they could still be beneficial to core strength and power.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 07:50 PM
4

Holy shit, this is the first time I've ever heard of the stomach vacuum. In that 6 week period, do you SV every day, and how long each day?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 07:23 PM
2

Let's take the club example. Today, dancing in a club is considered pretty casual. So a guy claiming it's disrespectful for his gf to go to clubs and dance with guys without him will be told he's jealous, insecure, and controlling by any girl who gets validation at clubs. On the other hand, ugly girls who get no attention at clubs will be more likely agree with him (hoping to get a lesser form of validation). Your analogy points out how the issue is more nuanced than OP's generalization. Like in…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 06:16 PM
10

GLO didn't include the pre-workout in his guide. A solid workout is good for that bulk, and the sweating helps to temporarily dehydrate the skin for better definition. Overdoing the ab workout, however, can have a negative effect because it may be more difficult to flex those smaller muscle groups while they are fatigued.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 05:34 PM
6

Directions unclear; dick stuck in hot girl.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 05:27 PM
5

Here's what happened: her vagina dried up because he turned out to be just an okay player and not an absolute dominating expert. Notice how she even points out in a dismissive tone the fact he only won by a little bit. Women want you to be an expert at whatever you do. You had it right initially. With a dry vagina, it didn't matter how good the guy was unless he was increasing his SMV while playing (e.g., he was so good that people wanted to watch or he was entertaining). In her dry state, if th…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 02:42 PM
1

What makes him helpful is that he looks like a regular skinny little balding guy. His attitude and wit seem to be what fortify his game and overcome his looks. Too often I'll watch a video with a guy talking about technique -- but the dude is good looking and has an exotic European accent. In my head I'm thinking, okay those last two features must be playing into his successes a non-negligible amount.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 11:19 PM
1

Thanks. Definitely an unnecessary insecurity. Working to improve everything else about me, so there's no need to dwell on something that's completely out of my control.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 08:03 PM
1

Are you 5'8" in real life? Because many of the Tinder dates I went on when guys claimed to be 5'8" showed up shorter than I am. Yes, although I'll post 5'9" on Hinge which requires a height, and I can wear shoes on the first date that give me close to an inch lift. I'm tempted to change it to one of the ridiculous extremes on their list of choices, such as 4'8" or 7'0".
/r/askTRP23/09/15 06:29 PM
1

Why do you think a girl posts her height on her profile? Is she worried the 5'4" guys out there are going to be disappointed?
/r/askTRP23/09/15 06:04 PM
7

To be fair, as dating apps are almost solely looks based, most girls are not going to meet a guy unless they consider sex within the realm of possibilities. Ironically, OP began this FR by praising minimal texting, yet the long-winded 2-paragraph message is what ultimately sealed the deal.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 03:00 PM
1

When I'm trying to coach a friend a little closer to the RP mindset, that kind of line is the best signal that he's not ready to go any further. In a recent case, I backed off and let him contact me several weeks later after his nice guy approach failed miserably.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:26 PM
-2

I am absolutely counting on hypergamy this weekend when I hang in a group of friends that will contain a girl that is new to the group. I met her and her boyfriend two weeks ago, and I saw some kind of concern in his eyes when I shook his hand. In addition, I caught a few subtle IOIs from the girl when he wasn't nearby. Now the guy is out of town. This weekend I will find out (A) how real hypergamy can be, and (B) whether I've got game.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:12 PM
2

I would say that the bitter attitude towards women is indicative of a man who is hopelessly locked into the bottom 80%. By definition, would you say that that man is not RP? I think there is a good argument to say that he is indeed not RP (i.e., I agree with your comment). An RP man knows that the top 20% is attainable no matter where in the hierarchy he is starting from.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:06 PM
1

That is awesome what you do to help the community.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 07:46 PM
1

Do you have children? If not, is there any little part of you that thinks, "Dang, would be cool to have a teenage son to be teaching about life right now."? I'm not saying that desire makes you regret your life choices, but has strong is that type of familial desire and how often does it surface?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:02 PM
9

The cute, round (and accommodating ) HB 6.5 or basically most middle range hotness has sort of evaporated. I've sort of noticed this in comparing a 25-year-old to a 35-year-old woman. The 25 was not in particularly great shape and could have lost 10 or so pounds. The 35 worked out every day and almost had a 6-pack. While fucking the 35, I could see her belly relax as she laid on her side. Without tightening those muscles, the organs just sort of spilled out. The 25, on the other hand, had way mo…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 01:54 PM
1

The best way to guess the age of a wall-approaching (or post-wall) woman is to count the number of rings of eyeliner around her eyes.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 01:49 PM
1

As I mentioned in another comment, I've definitely switched places with one of these friends. His birthday passed recently so I asked how his family celebrated. He said nothing, but then again they don't do anything for the wife's birthday either. "Oh, but I got a blowjob." WTF?? That's a celebration? By remarking about it, the assumption is that it happens very rarely. It boggled my mind how somebody could live like that. I tried to hide my shock. No reason to make the guy feel worse about his …
/r/askTRP18/09/15 01:44 PM
2

Poor guy. If she's even mildly attractive, your buddy is well on his way to being cucked.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:55 PM
1

Sounds like you're doing a good job of guiding and that she's receptive to growth in the relationship. If that's the case, use AWALT as a reminder of a woman's true nature but realize that she's not anything like most women. This recent situation may merely be an opportunity for another teaching lesson. Maintain frame and recognize that some of your discontentment is grounded in fear and selfishness -- letting those feelings dictate your actions is not RP behavior.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:37 PM
1

This is good and bad. She hasn't been conditioned like most girls by previous relationships, but it also means you will have to do a lot of teaching and guiding. Her fall-back reference points will always be her parents and other family members. Obviously, that means she will know nothing about sex. All sex acts outside of producing babies will seem taboo to her. You need to make sure she understands that non-child-producing sex is an important part of a healthy relationship before you take any …
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:11 PM
3

One guy in particular definitely shows glimmers of resentment from time to time. When we are out, he will sometimes compete for a girl or just try to get attention when things are going well for me. It seems to bother him that he used to be the guy who got laid in college while I was the hopeless nerd. Now all he has are his memories and drunken conquests from his frat days.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:04 PM
1

Knowing a little bit about Asian and South Asian cultures, this is a pretty complex situation. Also, Indian chicks are far more complex than western girls because you never know exactly how they prioritize family and career. (Of course, once they have a family, then that takes priority.) On the other hand, western girls may act like career is #1, but getting happily married is ultimately their goal. While it's not cool that she didn't discuss the idea with you, she may have made that decision as…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:51 PM
9

OP described his outline as a superficial numbers game for sex. That means her quality must meet the simple threshold of looking sexy and clean enough for the guy's standards. The rest of her could be anything. If you either aren't merely looking for a bunch of sex or if other characteristics of a woman are more important to how you rate her overall quality in regard to sex, then you should tinker with or disregard his outline. For example, if your goal is to acquire plates, then this guide won'…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 05:26 PM
2

I am very interested to hear the discussion of #s 1 and 2. As for 3, one point of distinction is texting before she considers us a real person versus when she has met us and knows we exist. The vagueness and flakiness is perhaps better for the former in order to spin the hamster wheel and force her to think about us as real people and wonder what we're thinking about.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 11:05 PM
8

He explained it with: Seems overly short and uninterested, right? That’s the point. We want her to feel as though you’ve got better people to message with. Too preoccupied to pay her any attention. She’ll say “good”, you say “What’re you looking for" and move forward. I don't think he ever mentioned omitting apostrophes (besides, most phones will automatically put those in). Anyway, most non-punctuation bothers me too. However, I'm starting to understand why we must initially abandon even simple…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 11:00 PM
1

Beautiful post. It's hitting right at where along the way I've been screwing up lately. Quick question. Is this the actual statement for setting up a meetup supposed to be “You free any this week” or is that a typo in your post? Is it supposed to be "You free any day this week" or "You free anytime this week" ...I ask because you normally point out when you are purposely excluding punctuation.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 10:46 PM
2

Maybe it's because I am short with a smaller build, but I still like thin girls with just a little bit of curve (although most girls I date seem to have fake tits anyway, which definitely isn't bad either). I'm cool with RR's approach and advice to women, but I just don't find that beefy look sexually appealing.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 10:00 PM
3

I'm with you on being annoyed at the guys on here who have to win every battle against women. There are general differences between the genders, and becoming more aware of them is how we can become better men and more successful in career and sex. Regarding Rhousey v. Mayweather, I don't know much about either sport, but I understand that Mayweather doesn't punch worth shit in his sport. He's fantastic defensively and taps his opponents periodically in order to score points. We saw that in the M…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 11:08 PM
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The guy was a decent professional who was coasting nonchalantly through the tennis world in his low 30s, while the girls were teenagers and brand new to professional tennis. The comparison is ridiculous and useless.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 10:58 PM
1

Short, but I do okay in the other two categories.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 09:38 PM
6

It's quite a science (ok fine it's an art), where even women often confuse, alphas, with autistics, with betas. Hence shit-tests, comfort-tests, empathy-tests, fitness tests, et al. In an unrelated subreddit, I recently read a conversation in which people couldn't agree whether the character Archer is alpha, autistic, or sociopathic.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:25 PM
1

It amazes me that I get any girls in spite of having so many beta tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:22 PM
6

You don't accept her apology by saying "okay." You accept it by letting her climb back onto your dick. However, I get the impression you haven't banged her yet, have you?
/r/askTRP26/08/15 11:35 PM
1

Who are some of the best RP examples on instagram and snapchat?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:24 AM
1

Because there is only a risk twice a year, dread game could be beneficial in the short-term. However, the ex-fiance holds an elevated place in her memory. You'll always have to be on your game during those visits, and that doesn't take into consideration the possibility that they communicate with each other privately, including the ex-fiance coming to your town.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 01:47 AM
2

Not only should the LTR not be meeting up with her exes... she shouldn't want to. We essentially lose the girl the moment she expresses a desire to meet up with her ex.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 08:03 PM
1

It's difficult to successfully demote an LTR to a plate. First, she's used to you spending time and money on her in addition to the sex -- therefore, she will not readily accept her demoted position. Second, because of the high comfort level, you'll very easily fall right back into the LTR. These points are based on what I've heard from others. I've never tried demoting an LTR to a plate.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 08:00 PM
1

I try to get video footage of most of the girls I hook up with. It's fun to watch later and surely discourages her from trying to accuse me of anything later (and of course, serves as key evidence if she does).
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:42 PM
3

Something seems different this time around. For one thing, to me it was huge that, at the GOP debate, he planted his feet in regard to not supporting any other candidate and, instead, said he would likely run as an independent. He basically told the entire GOP that he would poison pill the party if they don't choose him as the nominee. As much as any individual GOPer might hate Trump, they would hate the democratic nominee far more. He's said so many "outlandish" things so far that he may soon s…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 02:43 PM
1

As long as you're not talking about "Support the troops!" type of nationalism. That shit is for the simple-minded folk to rally around. True nationalism/patriotism is a person who sees the problems in America and loves the country so much they want to improve them. Obviously, all of the GOP will take that stance because it is their job to bitch about 8 years of Obama. On the left, only Bernie Sanders is standing up against the status quo.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 11:52 PM
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As much as I loathed the guy before coming to this thread, those clips have given me far more respect for the guy. It'll take more observation to discern whether he's just saying things for ratings/attention, or if he genuinely believes them. Of course, I still disagree with him on a lot of stuff, but the same goes for every legitimate candidate out there.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 11:46 PM
1

In the second part of that last clip, Trump actually brings up Hillary's email problem. He talked about how she is leading, but that the email thing could really cause her trouble. He then showed respect to Bernie Sanders as being another dark horse (from the opposite side of the spectrum) who is also gathering large crowds and showing potential.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 11:40 PM
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Moreover, because OP's cousin is educated and financially comfortable, her future suitor must also be at least one of those. She may hookup with any poor/unintelligent alpha, but she will never take him seriously. She basically needs the alphas who have good futures, which makes it that much more difficult for her to find one.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 10:13 PM
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The #1 piece of evidence that women have completely fucked up logic is how every single one of them KNOWS that being in good shape is 90% of what is important for them to attract (and keep) a decent man, YET most of them are still fat and spend all their energy whining about it. The pathway to their happiness couldn't be simpler or more straightforward. Yes, personality, success, and a cute face are important, but changing their physical shape is the most effective and most alterable of the elem…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 01:18 AM
2

Yes I lift. Own it like Jason Statham. Do you think Michael Jordan has kept his head shaved because it has been his favorite hairstyle for 30 straight years?
/r/askTRP10/08/15 01:31 AM
2

You need to actually practice your social skills to get them back again. Despite being attractive, you probably give off a subtle creeper vibe. Check out Real Social Dynamics and other seduction or PUA types of resources. As much as many people loathe those things, they can be very helpful, especially to beginners like you and me.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 01:28 AM
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It only gets laughs because she's one of the few women out there willing to say that shit and embarrass herself, her family (poor father), and any men who are unfortunate enough to date her.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:15 PM
8

Two good RP friends got married a few years ago. One is still RP, and they're doing great. The other just makes me sad. He was grateful to receive a blowjob last month for his birthday. The interesting thing is that the wife is hot in the RP relationship; in the BP relationship, straight up homely.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:24 PM
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Also, being anything less than nice will create tension, confrontation, and/or hostility. Nice guys shy away from that because they find it incredibly uncomfortable. Assholes revel in it. I, too, am a reforming nice guy. The amount of success I've had in adopting the attitude of giving fewer fucks is the fuel that is driving me in the right direction. Fuck, can it be uncomfortable at times.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 08:37 PM
1

Reddit is anonymous, so it wouldn't surprise me if it's real. That said, I take just about every interesting story on Reddit with a heaping tablespoon of salt.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 07:44 PM
2

That would certainly make her way more interesting. Of course, that would make anyone way more interesting.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:32 PM
6

One of the girls I'm dating was the valedictorian of her high school class, yet simple movies confuse her, and she's got nothing interesting to talk about. How does that happen?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 08:11 PM
1

Exactly. The mods will take action against this kind of crap if it is actually occurring. Despite the numerous demands that TRP makes against brigading, our livelihood is at stake.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 03:38 PM
7

Audio of the book No More Mr. Nice Guy -- This will probably resonate as well.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 03:30 PM
1

I don't count girls who gave head but who I didn't have intercourse with. Are we supposed to?
/r/askTRP20/07/15 09:27 PM
3

Thank you for an honest response.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 01:04 AM
9

It's not permanent. Just think of it like a video game reset button. This time you'll start your current level over with a wealth of knowledge. When you get back to the stages of dealing with women, you'll approach them from a perspective closer to calm wisdom than furious confusion.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 12:31 PM
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I was in the Radio Silent camp until I read your post. OP failed to strike while the iron is hot, but the iron is still a little warm. Your suggestion is a great text to find out whether the iron is warm enough for pliability. Abundance mentality means nothing to lose by going after what you want.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 08:54 PM
2

Very similar thing happened to me a couple months ago. Great interaction with a girl who rarely hangs in my circle. I got her number but failed to strike. Flirty texting followed for a few days after, but I was too busy to set up a date. By the time I started putting together some dates, she had excuses. Live and learn.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 08:51 PM
3

I see what you're saying, but "no worries" builds nothing for OP's interaction with this girl. He still has her number. He can text her something else to resume that interaction days/weeks/months down the road. As others mentioned, silence gets the hamster wheel spinning, and she will never really be sure whether OP even received her text unless she reaches out again to find out.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 08:49 PM
2

Saved for later. Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 11:39 PM
8

Sex was every single day. Am I one of the few guys in here that get easily bored by having sex with the same woman several times in a row? This is the main reason I can't see myself ever getting married (and staying faithful). I crave something different, even if it means rotating through the same 3-4 girls. Naturally, I haven't had that type of rotation for any extended period of time because plates tend to drop left and right.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 05:44 PM
1

Those aren't terribly expensive if a few years old. What are some other moderately priced sports cars that you wager would induce a similar reaction?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 07:46 PM
0

I'd send a simple "Hey man, what's up?" text.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:04 PM
2

WTF so he had already let his wife get railed on one or more occasions before this conversation occurred? Damn, poor fella.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:02 PM
1

That last point is something I hadn't considered. I'm on the fence regarding the issue and always looking for more information and perspectives.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 03:58 PM
3

I'm glad you are getting upvoted for this comment. When I've brought up how being devoutly religious is contradictory to swallowing the red pill, I've been showered in downvotes and religious-hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 03:55 PM
1

I'd be fucking shocked to find a single phrase that is pro-woman in the Quran.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 03:51 PM
1

I'm curious why you say that OP's gf going to Vegas automatically means the relationship needs to end. I'm not agreeing or disagreeing with you. Is it a foregone conclusion that she will cheat in Vegas?
/r/askTRP05/07/15 03:41 PM
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That's a hamster ball. The hamster wheel is the deeply engrained repetitive pattern of thinking that women use in spite of countervailing evidence or logic. The hamster ball is when a woman realizes she's been caught in that loop of failure and, therefore, shoots off in every different direction in a futile attempt to justify her irrationality.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 05:47 PM
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I very likely would have reacted the same as you. In fact, I have. Fortunately, I have also used a similar situation to practice my videotaping skills so I have some lasting memories of the good times.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 04:02 PM
12

Having abundance mentality when he is too busy to spin plates requires zen-like mastery. I've been spinning for well over a year, and my stomach still hurts when I lose one on her circumstances rather than mine. Reminds me I still have a long way to go.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:57 PM
1

OP's air of grandiosity throughout this thread does not instill much confidence. Add that to the mountain of salt I take with almost anyone's unverifiable internet field report.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:52 PM
1

The fact that OP was her choice after 3am depends on how desirable the girl is. If she's an 8+, then she probably had her choice of Chads and still chose OP in the end. If she's 7 or below, she very likely didn't get the attention from the Chads she desired and merely settled for reliable OP. The latter is supported by the fact that OP says she has never asked for sex like that before. I'm not asking OP this question because I wouldn't trust his answer. I would expect his answer to be that she's…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 12:23 AM
1

This is exactly right. When I lost my job a long time ago, my gf at the time didn't dump me even when I told her I wanted to start spending money more conservatively. My frame was that I knew I would find another job, and I was going to enjoy the comfort of funemployment (granted, in a fiscally responsible manner) in the meantime. Because she was a bitchy human being who didn't get along well with my friends, I dumped her anyway. Interestingly, her best friend, who surely heard about how I was a…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 11:58 PM
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Relationships advice: Hold out for someone who will love you for who you are :) TheRedPill advice: Man the fuck up and strive to become the man that she and other women will want to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 08:14 PM
2

Yes, essentially that. If the BB is her age, however, he would probably still be in photos with her and other people their age. That is, it's more likely they would have some common friends. The older BB is less likely to make it into her social media.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:14 AM
2

I'm 33 and prefer dating girls between 21 and 27. I haven't figured out the 18-20 range yet. I'm short, but it helps me to look younger (most girls are surprised to find that I'm in my 30s). I stay in pretty good shape. And I have a good job, which allows me to live in a nice apartment within a fun part of town. One reason why you never saw this in college or right after college is because we older guys don't try to hang out with all her young friends. We bring them to our favorite spots instead…
/r/askTRP11/06/15 03:33 AM
3

We're not the only people on reddit upset about the censorship. This is a great idea to state in comments that a person is deserving of gold but that you do not want to support reddit based on its censorship policies.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 11:21 PM
1

I stand my statement that believing in something essentially because it feels good is contradictory to red pill theory. We are the logical gender. We can be emotional, but our important life decisions are made with intelligence and critical thinking. To believe something based on weak evidence is a rejection of those God-given gifts.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:54 PM
1

All of that requires faith as well as a rejection of critical thinking in light of credible evidence. You have to admit that, if you heard that God created another version of himself to die and go back to live with himself a few days ago in Budapest, you would find it farfetched. Perhaps you would demand evidence before believing it. Why then do you accept weak evidence to believe in Jesus Christ? It is because you have an emotional attachment to the story. You are not applying your God-given in…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:51 PM
1

That is exactly the nature of the scientific field. Nothing is a perfectly accurate theory, and much of it is wrong. However, the prevailing theories provide the best approximations and models for our world that we (the collective "we") have put together thus far. I may be proven to be mistaken, but the miracles described in the Bible violate so many established theories and laws of science that I can confidently assert that the miracles probably did not occur as described in the Bible. I would …
/r/askTRP02/06/15 08:42 PM
1

It's not that doubt is part of your faith. Doubt is the reason you do not have faith. Faith is believing in something without sufficient evidence. If you are doubting, you are not believing. (I realize I'm restating the same thing. Just trying to show you what I mean.) The moment you tell me that you believe Jesus violated the law of conservation of mass and energy to change H2O molecules into the various molecules that comprise wine, I would say you have faith.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 08:00 PM
1

Doubt is part of my faith. I wrestle with myself all the time. Well there you go. You do not 100% believe in every miracle described in the Bible. Your knowledge from science and life experiences make those miracles described in the Bible pretty difficult to believe. You sort of believe them for deeply ingrained reasons, however, when you use logic and critical thinking, they are extremely farfetched.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:30 PM
1

Look up the word "opinion." Regardless, others' observations are not equally credible or incredible. Are you supposed to weigh equally the recounting by a trusted adult versus a trusted child in all scenarios? Of course not. Depending on the situation and subject matter and a multitude of other factors, you are going to give their stories, at least to the extent they contradict, differing weights.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:21 PM
1

Correct. I wanted to essentially breakdown an example of what it means to believe in miracles. It requires a tremendous leap of faith that flies in the face of almost everything you've ever learned in every science class you've ever attended. If a very honest friend walked up to you and described a miracle that occurred a few minutes ago, you are still rightfully going to demand a lot of credible evidence before you go around telling everybody else what just happened.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:04 PM
1

Naturally, we do have to trust scientists because we can't derive all of that information on our own. It is conceivable that they are collaborating to trick us. The problem is that the one scientist who rejects the conspiracy and proves a well-accepted theory to be false will suddenly become rich and famous beyond imagination. Because of that, we have a landscape in which scientists are constantly trying to refute or change theories and other scientists' conclusions. It's a question of weighing …
/r/askTRP02/06/15 06:10 PM
1

That occurs everyday. We have to weigh evidence based on the credibility of the source and how that new information can be incorporated into our current understanding of the world. We trust scientific studies because the object of other scientists is to refute theories. They don't get famous by creating a study that supports a well-accepted theory; they get famous by proving it false. Now, we are in no position to critically examine whether the miracles described in the Bible actually occurred. …
/r/askTRP02/06/15 06:01 PM
1

EDIT: First, thank you for your thoughtful response. Making conclusions involves weighing various pieces of evidence based on credibility. Of course I cannot prove most facets of mathematics and sciences, yet I will stand by them as generally accurate approximations of our world. What I trust is the landscape of science in which growth happens, not with consensus, but with refutation of others' theories. The most beautiful thing to be uttered in a scientific lab is not, "Eureka!" but rather, "Hm…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 05:47 PM
15

Break up with her and tell her why. OP, don't bother telling her why. Let her hamster spin while she tries to figure it out. You owe nothing to her.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:02 PM
8

That's all there is to it. OP can check her texts if he wants to potentially put himself through the pain -- in fact, maybe it's a good idea so that he'll get a good dose of reality. Regardless, she should be nexted the moment she gave out her phone number, probably even before that.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:00 PM
1

Are you stuck on a subject like a higher being creating 'the one' for you? Because quiet frankly I heavily believed in this for a long time. If you really break it down, it's your mind tricking you. This is a great example of why religion is antagonistic to TRP. Allowing yourself to believe one thing for emotional reasons (religion) keeps the door open for you to believe other things for emotional reasons (she's the one for me). Manning up and facing truth based on the evidence is what often sep…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 07:57 PM
1

There is no doubt it emphasizes becoming a better person, but at its core TRP analyzes the differences and dynamics between men and women in order to promote men's success in society and life. As indicated in my title, we quickly point out when women are being illogical and emotional, and then we discuss how to respond in like. Likewise, we call each other out when we are behaving similarly. Devoutly religious people are basing a strong set of beliefs on bad evidence. For us to let them cling to…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 07:51 PM
1

Conversations with feminists should be handled like conversations with religious people. That is, they always need to occur in front of others who can see the feminist's ridiculous logic and cognitive dissonance. The feminist will never admit to being wrong so the best you can hope to do is educate or open the minds of others.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 07:11 PM
0

And it's exactly what they wanted to do anyway. No one drags stay-at-home mommies and wives into the lifestyle, they campaign for it because it's exactly what they want. She was a television producer for a small local channel and absolutely loved her career. It's not my style, but I have to admit it was a cool ass job especially for someone as charismatic and intelligent as her. I generally agree with you in most situations, but it's short-sighted to think a person who follows their spouse's car…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 12:34 AM
-1

Alimony makes sense to me for a specific reason. When people get married, almost inevitably one of them compromises their career. 10 years of marriage and minimal-to-zero development of the career leaves that person economically stranded after the divorce. Alimony at least buys them time to try to improve their job prospects. Yes, this is often bullshit, but I have seen honest and hard-working family members run into this problem. My aunt is 50+ but extremely energetic. After 10 years of working…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 08:09 PM
7

Before bailing, take a quick look at yourself to assess whether you've lost the ability to make her tingle and whether you're capable/willing to get that back. An abrupt change in the wife's interest in sex, however, usually means she's fantasizing about Chad -- and that means bail.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:47 PM
1

I thought that was Ludacris.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:44 PM
9

I would agree. And he's just one of many sources of insight and education. We don't have to subscribe to 100% of his teachings for them to have some use to us. I'm not going to hate on his clever way to make more money -- I sure as hell am going to be more skeptical of everything he says as he begins posturing himself for more mainstream acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:11 PM
15

Well at least you didn't say "ex-wife" I guess...
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:06 PM
7

In college, my buddy's LTR would touch and rub my chest while he was right there in the same room. I would just sort of awkwardly move away without causing much of a stir.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 11:46 PM
2

The crossed eyes are relatively common in the asian demographic. I've referred to them as the Asian Cross-Eyes, and my asian friends have no idea what I'm talking about. They're so accustomed to it that they don't even notice.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 11:43 PM
4

The best part is that she's not even engaged or married yet. I sincerely hope the poor sap wises up and drops her before crossing those bridges.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 11:41 PM
1

The fuck? I never said to respond when a girl explicitly or implicitly shows that a guy is in the friendzone.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 09:21 PM
1

For a little context, what are your respective ages?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 04:49 PM
3

The thrill of the hunt has gotten more exciting to me than some of my plates who will fuck at a moment's notice. Is that the case for you as well?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 04:47 PM
-5

That said, I always try to remind myself that currently being in the friendzone just means that the girl isn't sexually attracted to me... yet.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 03:20 PM
1

I hope OP re-reads this post several times and internalizes it. Way to go, man. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 09:02 PM
1

The fat bitch is able to trick a low-SMV nice guy into thinking she is better than she really is, which may result in a relationship. The nice fat girl (or even normal fat girl) doesn't have the power of manipulation to overcome her physical appearance.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 07:37 PM
1

I agree with this completely. But, what does A&A mean?
/r/askTRP07/05/15 06:20 PM
1

Thanks, I definitely need this. Probably explains why my results with women are so much worse in a loud or big group setting.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:29 AM
3

The trade-off is that they are destinations that everyone would want to live at. This means finding jobs and living comfortably are much more difficult.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:12 PM
4

I am actually hornier when I am feeling swole. It's not so much about elevated levels of testosterone and the biochemistry of a fit man... it's more about feeling sexy as fuck and knowing that my body is directly adding to the woman's horniness.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 03:59 PM
13

Being on the short side, I actually do not want to get huge. To me, the short and wide muscly guy just looks like he's trying to compensate for other things, such as a lack of personality or intelligence. When I'm clothed, girls assume I'm just normal and skinny. I enjoy seeing or feeling the surprise rush over their faces and bodies when they find out there are muscles under there.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 03:50 PM
1

No worries. Perhaps I've lost touch with how most men think. TRP is certainly a minority in western countries, so it would not be surprising to find even most men confused by this general way of thinking.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 07:59 PM
6

Mixing analogies is not tolerated here! Take your science elsewhere and please stick to Matrix lingo here. :D
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 06:53 PM
1

If she'd blown a dude 1 week...1 day....an hour before meeting current husband, would he be ok with that? That would be slightly more okay. It would be okay in that she didn't lie to him or cheat on him. It would still be troubling, however, if she was sexually adventurous (eg, blew an alpha asshole that she loathed on multiple occasions) and then suddenly became very vanilla sexually once she got into a relationship with the beta guy. We don't put all the blame on the woman in this situation --…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 06:51 PM
3

Indeed, my favorite LTRs of the past were the ones in which I had to work for the sex and blowjobs. I got bored when it all happened too easily.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:58 PM
2

I'm not sure I understand your realization at the end. However, the issue in the story is that the girl willingly did sexual things with the alpha badass that she rarely does for her supposedly beloved husband. Sex is an important part of relationships, especially for most men. Whether good or bad, it is also an important part of our masculinity. This guy feels emasculated realizing that his wife has never really lusted for him the way she did for the alpha asshole. To make matters worse, she's …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:21 PM
2

It's such a case-by-case calculation -- sometimes multiple times and sometimes they're merely omitting one or two experiences. What's important is knowing that they lie to themselves (e.g., we were drunk; it was only one time; I regret it so much that it pretty much didn't happen...) and therefore feel absolutely zero guilt translating that lie to their boyfriend/fiance/husband.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:12 PM
6

Most of us who have been red-shifted for a reasonable amount of time have been that alpha once or twice. Nothing quite like this story, but I have had a handful of experiences with women that I know would crush their current partners if they ever found out. These are typically the girls who unfriend you on social media either right after the interaction or the moment her LTR starts to get more serious.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:05 PM
4

True. I know it's arrogant, but I believe it would be a disservice to the world if I didn't share my genetics. Of course, impregnating a bunch of random faceless women is not what I'm referring to. Nature and nurture most certainly go hand in hand to create a human that is actually useful to this world.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:59 PM
3

Do you crave fresh new pussy every now and then? I've had fun and fulfilling relationships, and yet never lost those cravings for something different.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:56 PM
1

Don't get married, there are no worthwhile benefits. I agree with the no marriage thing 99.99%. However, I do want to have kids someday. Our society still makes child-rearing more difficult when the parents aren't together. I hope this is not as much the reality when I'm ready for kids in 5 or so years. Ninja Edit: An open marriage would be the "best" solution for me, but that really doesn't avoid the AWALT that inevitably comes to fruition, especially when the woman's body starts to degrade.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:52 PM
10

5 minutes later you're sticking your hard in the cookie jar Best freudian slip I've seen in awhile. (Not in terms of anything with your parents; rather, in terms of the analogy for sex.)
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:43 PM
13

Ironically, as those of us in the community become even more red-shifted, we are creating more of these marital situations. Women pass in and out of our lives without much thought. However, these women go on to boring marriages and never forget the dirty sexual things we did to them.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:35 PM
1

TRP knowledge allowed me to preempt a SJW's soapbox monologue. She was already not quite vibing with me, and she finally said something about being a feminist and asked whether I was one too (probably in order for her to put the nail in the coffin as a guy she would never fuck). I quickly said that I cannot support what modern feminism has become. I laid out some of the hypocrisy, and I did it in a way that I assumed that this girl was not one of the hypocritical feminists. For example, I said s…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 09:08 PM
1

Posting that shit on your snap story goes without saying.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 03:02 AM
2

Perfect explanation.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 04:45 PM
9

I think it's harsher (read: better) to not give her a reason. Her hamster brain will spin in circles and never truly be sure what the reason was.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 02:52 PM
41

There's more to this story. Not only is she not feeling attracted to you at the moment... if the change was sudden, there is probably also another dick in the picture.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 06:31 PM
8

Damn, you got me too with your jokes. Another thing: remove what she wants until you get what you want. You don't get bjs? She doesn't get your attention, time, and love. Just gonna add money/gifts to the list. Obviously OP doesn't remove everything until he gets head. He'll choose a cocktail of benefits to remove and/or reduce.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 06:29 PM
1

I have had the early conversation a couple times in the past, and it went well. However, living in the bible belt, I feel that most girls will not accept the FWB situation if confronted with it directly. Therefore, I think I'll follow your advice. The difficulty is that one of my plates (less than 2 months) is already showing signs of attachment even though she bragged about being a noncommittal type of girl when we first started dating. She makes comments that imply that she's the only girl I'm…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 11:19 PM
1

If she flaked via text, don't respond so quickly. I like the "k" or "np" responses. I know the curtness of it increases the likelihood that she perceives that you are disappointed or upset. I don't think that's a bad thing. There is nothing beta about being upset with somebody who flaked on plans that she committed to with you. The beta puts on a "nice guy" appearance even when the girl treats him like shit. Flaking doesn't deserve a tongue-lashing, but there's no reason you have to hide the fac…
/r/askTRP06/04/15 09:19 PM
3

I've also done a "np" and waited for the girl to bring it up again the following week. It worked quite well.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 09:15 PM
1

She started to leave, I slapped her ass and that was it. What does this mean? Did the slap persuade her to come home with you or piss her off -- what was her reaction to it?
/r/askTRP06/04/15 06:06 PM
2

Best case scenario is I would get to check a stripper off my bucket list. And it will be one whose cleanliness I trust. I've definitely pedestalized her, but I have not invested that much time on her. We'll go weeks without contact, and she'll suddenly text or facetime me out of the blue. As I type this, I'm watching myself rationalize my beta behavior. I'm going to re-read your words again when I'm in a stronger frame because I think your objective perspective deserves far more weight. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 07:17 PM
1

It's so easy to slip back into BP mentality with certain girls that we make the mistake of worshiping, even if only subconsciously. The other day I was facetiming a stripper that I like a lot. She mentions how I would be a perfect match for her friend who is maybe a 7 at best. Shit test or not, I fucking failed and went into beta mode -- I got cold and basically stumbled over my words due to my poorly concealed disappointment. Fortunately, I noticed this and cut off the conversation before screw…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:57 PM
1

The flirtation was weakening for a couple weeks leading up to the night. This was via text. We had periods like that before when she's had various life changes, but she'd always be right back on me when we were in person. I kind of expected the same and didn't account for the possibility that there is potentially a fresh new dick in her life. My game on that study night was stale and expectant rather than fun and teasing. If I had instead utilized the playful nature that we usually had in partyi…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:48 PM
1

The flirtatious reciprocation was definitely starting to weaken before my beta-night. However, there were moments like that before due to various changes in her life -- e.g., going back to college. But she would always be her usual self in person. During the "unsuccessful" study night (it's not really that unsuccessful because I helped her in calculus and I fucking love calculus), I could tell something was different. Perhaps another guy in the scenario. My beta game that night did not utilize t…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:43 PM
3

That's absolutely worth remembering. I've tested the waters a little bit with light teasing and light flirting. She'll respond positively like a friend but stops just short of flirting back. She may or may not become a plate again, but I certainly enjoyed our time and totally understand if she needs to move on in her own pursuit of happiness.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 07:58 PM
4

However, even if you are the most alpha of alphas, your wife may one day decide that she doesn't sexually need you anymore... On Steak and Blowjobs weekend, one of my plates was basically telling me she loves me at night, and blew me about 6 times over the course of 12 hours (she was on her period and made up for that by letting me film everything). Last week, I helped her with her calculus take-home quiz without demanding ass beforehand. Sure enough, when we were finished, she suddenly had a st…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 05:27 PM
3

It's painful to see some of my most alpha buddies throwing it down the drain. It pains me that they spend half their day on instagram liking photoshopped pics of women in bikinis. Sucks that they can't go exploring for new chicks anymore. I'm starting to see the envy in their eyes.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 10:20 PM
16

I consider that it was she who dumped me by making me move out, while she considers that it was I who dumped her by obeying her demand that I move out, and by declining to move back in. The use of present tense worries me because it implies that you still interact with this woman. Unless you have children together, you need to cut those ties to her ASAP. She is toxic.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 04:03 PM
1

Certainly did not intend it to come off as a slight. It's more of a reminder that almost none of us are the men we hope to be. And that applies in every realm of our lives. You've made great gains in a short period of time. I just wouldn't want you to give it up because you don't find it instantly fulfilling.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:16 AM
0

Ha, there is a distinction between AF and Alpha. Because AF = Alpha Fucks, I assume OP was referring to sex when using the term. Other than that, I would agree that sex probably shouldn't be our sole objectives in life.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 11:39 PM
0

My cousin has been playing with tinder during his free time in Hong Kong. He's had the most success with yoga-loving lower 30s chicks who want NSA sex. I'm pretty sure he always wears a condom because he scolds me when I don't mention wearing one in my hookup stories.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:34 PM
7

I've heard Chinese women are pretty loyal, but does that go out the door once they're infected with American Feminism? I would've thought so before last night. Recently met a 21-year-old girl who came to the US 3 years ago for college. Pretty much the whole time she's been dating a "very nice" 28-year-old asian-american software engineer BB who lives a few hours away. Well, last night she definitely didn't act very committed to that relationship.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:31 PM
2

...but all of those encounters were ONSs. You are not AF just yet. You are currently a night of fun / drunken mistake. You are AF when they are daydreaming about going back to you for seconds and thirds and so on. Great job turning your life around. While your current situation isn't 100% fulfilling, I'd be shocked if you told us you were equally happy as an orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:15 PM
2

Even if she does feel bad, why should OP?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 08:15 PM
1

1:52 exhibited beta behavior. His mannerisms showed that he was extremely uncomfortable in the situation. All he could do was make jokes about it because he was too afraid to step up to the alpha. The prankster in this video outweighs me by a good 50 pounds. I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't do the exact same thing as the beta guy in order to keep the situation light. I suppose I better hit the gym tonight.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:48 PM
2

Had a similar situation with my ex-girlfriend while we were still dating. She and her best friend had stories about this low-life drug dealer who sometimes partied in their outer circle. He would say almost the exact same things to her and her friend. Finally, one day I was partying with them and the guy was there with his chubby girlfriend. When introduced to him at the loud bar, I pulled him closer and said, "So I hear you want to fuck my girlfriend." He backed away immediately and was complet…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:39 PM
1

I had an almost identical situation last night with a girl whose boyfriend lives in another city. When she was rejecting one of my many advances for kissing and started giving me reasons, I just put my finger up to her lips. She stopped talking immediately and clearly enjoyed having a phallic-shaped object pressed against her lips. The makeout happened right after that. In the end she ended up blowing me on my balcony. I was feeling guilty, but it is way better than feeling regret if I had not k…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:56 PM
1

The word "exclusive" still means the same thing. But I would agree that getting into a more serious relationship no longer implies that it must be exclusive.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:33 PM
2

It's true. There is absolutely no need to try to spare her feelings. An explicit "We're breaking up" is also completely unnecessary.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:31 PM
1

Thanks for the comment. You also implicitly confirmed that there is exactly zero reason for me to try to contact her. Her deletion of all the evidence and contact is her attempt at writing this off as nothing more than a forgettable drunken dream. It's not my problem. Now that I feel less guilt, ironically, I am starting to enjoy the memory much more.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:20 PM
1

She did cry a little after making out. Nonetheless, your reminder that I am not so fucking amazing that I've destroyed a girl's life really is helpful. Cheers.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:15 PM
1

Come to think about it, I don't either. But the reason is because our number correlates with our SMV. Counting the ones we pay for would fuck up the metrics.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 02:21 PM
8

I've heard girl friends say, "Well this guy and that guy were one night stands that were drunken mistakes, so I don't really count them."
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:05 PM
4

On and off for 6 months... it's very likely the plate sort of knows OP's financial situation. Not only that, $20k salary in the US still looks like a fortune to someone from a third world country. No idea what that would be in Swedish currency. Besides, it sounds like she just wants free immigration without waiting in line.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 06:30 PM
3

I am a little afraid and extremely curious to know generally what this is.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 06:27 PM
2

My takeaway was that if your life is seemingly too busy that you cannot take just 20 minutes for your own personal meditation time, then you're in such a bad situation psychologically that you probably need 1 hour of meditation time ASAP.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 04:26 PM
1

I'm now inspired to make meditation a frequent practice as well. I remember reading an interesting comment on reddit a couple years ago about meditation. It went something like: Everyone should meditate for 20 minutes every day. If you don't have time for that, then you need an hour.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 11:20 PM
1

I've also used, "Let's go on an adventure this week..."
/r/askTRP06/03/15 11:39 PM
2

I start with: "We should hang out this week." If she responds agreeably, then: "Let's grab a drink either Wed or Thurs.. you pick." I don't bother implying that sex might happen. I think it should be understood, especially if drinks are involved. By conspicuously implying it, you might prematurely trigger her anti-slut shield.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 11:37 PM
4

Even when you start to feel sick, working out is a bad idea. Muscle building requires protein. Where does some of that come from? Your immune system. That weakening makes just that much easier for the illness to take hold. I fully agree -- don't get back into the gym until you're at full health.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:05 AM
3

We can get pissed at women for a lot of things, but in the end John had more control over his life than anyone else. This defeatist attitude is the only thing I dislike about this subreddit. We can be aware of the many AWALT-isms without loathing their existence. "A smart man learns from his mistakes. A wise man also learns from others'."
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:54 PM
3

Women are the way they are. Although the game of life is stacked in their favor during their younger years (so long as they're thin and pretty), we men still hold most of the power. I don't hate modern feminists for trying to take some of that power. Of course, I dislike it when they cross the line and vilify us men. They have a long road ahead, and their path essentially only knocks out the weaker men, thereby decimating my competition. In the meantime, continued learning and bettering ourselve…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 12:51 AM
3

I haven't even changed the zip code since moving out of state. That's not how Tinder works.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 11:48 PM
9

It's true. I met up a "no-hookups" feminist (didn't realize she was a feminist until the date), and the first thing she did when we got back to my apartment was start pouring more drinks. This enabled her to get her brains fucked out that night and morning. Only in follow-up texts did she start rationalizing her behavior as a product of her high level of inebriation.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 11:46 PM
3

Women who like their jobs will make it very clear because they'll either talk about it or ask you questions about yours. If she doesn't bring up occupation herself, then I think it's an area to generally stay away from unless you've got something cool to share about your own.
/r/seduction16/01/15 01:36 AM
1

Don't get me wrong, I have various contingencies planned out for styles of bars or places to grab quick bites along the way. There's just so much more to learn about a girl than what her tinder profile says.
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:31 PM
2

Weekend lunches are great because they can always escalate into more fun when the mimosas start flowing.
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:29 PM
2

Aside from the dinner atmosphere on a first date, I agree with your style. Those dates that are ripped straight out of a dating show (hiking, gun range, bowling, etc.) can be awkward unless the guy actually knows what he is doing. Much better reserved for dates down the line when the guy has a better feel for the girl's personality and interests.
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:28 PM
2

That's why I tell girls to dress light and wear comfortable shoes. Even when they go really far into the casual direction and I'm dressed up a little bit more, no harm is done. I hate very purposeful dates that are centered around one main event. Because I've dated too many high maintenance girls, the first date is good way to see whether she is cool with being whisked away on random adventures. Only after a couple dates will I truly start planning things out -- by that point, I know her better …
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:24 PM
-2

What's wrong with an open relationship? I suppose if GITRP had been living with the girl and/or acting as boyfriend-girlfriend with her, then the open relationship makes him look bad in two ways: (1) he looks like an asshole when he's seen with other girls; (2) he looks like a beta bitch when she's seen with other guys.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:55 PM
9

This sounds incredibly depressing for women. When the truth begins to set in around a woman who refused to swallow the pill, who in the world would want to be around? As OP says, it must be a very empty and depressing time for her. I read many posts in this subreddit bitching about how privileged women are, and I always think, "WTF dude, I'm fucking glad I'm a man. How could you not be?" Let those women have their youthful fun while we strive to become the men that get to enjoy them during their…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 08:20 PM
40

Tinder is a game of numbers, not quality necessarily.
/r/seduction22/12/14 11:31 PM
4

And not a minority.
/r/seduction22/12/14 11:21 PM
1

That simply sounds like hypergamy. It's not that TRP ridicules women for hypergamy. We ridicule women and white knights who refuse to acknowledge it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:27 PM
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She will trickle truth the boyfriend afterward. "I'm so sorry. There was a night where I drank way too much, and he tried to kiss me. I kept pushing him away. I think he finally was able to kiss me when I started blacking out..."
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 10:57 PM
2

Great response. Thanks. I have left that sort of stuff off simply because I don't want to be seen as the typical douchebag. Your reasoning is much better.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 07:04 PM
2

If you have a good job, do you brag about it on your profile? If so, are you subtle or frank about it?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 06:31 PM
5

No, she wanted a big expensive trip to feel like a fancy princess and take pictures throughout to make the girls back home seethe with jealousy.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 12:35 AM
1

I feel like I'm taking crazy pills!
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 03:16 PM
1

How do you discuss your lifestyle with female family members in your life? I am always hanging around my aunt (born in the motherland so she is still mostly RPW) and female cousin (17-year-old quasi-feminist) because they live in the same city as me. My aunt laughs and otherwise doesn't care about my proactive dating style. She just wishes I would find a girl of the same ethnicity of the family rather than every other beautiful color of the human rainbow. The younger cousin, however, says a 32-y…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:44 PM
4

Being 32, I've had a pretty similar experience. The girls aren't as young because I live in the US, and I certainly have a long way to go developing my game. My married friends nonetheless hang onto every word of my latest sexual exploits. It certainly helps that I collect pics and cell phone videos to go with them. What a great time to be single! Edit: And I completely agree about staying in shape. 18-year-olds see me in well-lit places and still assume I'm about 22.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 11:36 PM
1

Found it: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Uxg5tPBWOmI
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 12:57 PM
3

Based on the title, I was expecting the recent SNL skit where the guy and girl living at the same apartment complex are always fumbling over their words due to their awkward attraction to each other. Not able to search for the video right now, and I don't want to ruin the punchline for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:32 PM
3

Subtlety is key here. Because OP has likely been asking and asking, she's going to notice when he uses dread game, and she will try to break his frame by calling him out on it. Results may not be immediate, so OP should stay firm and trust that it will eventually start to pay off.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 11:43 PM
1

Agreed. We men like a girl who knows how to dress conservatively and comfortably... as long as she is capable of dressing and looking fuckin hot too.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 04:11 PM
10

Now, funny thing, women used to know the drill, they used to work to get backstage. What was the typical drill back in the day?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:59 PM
9

Usually the VIP rooms in the U.S. require buying a bottle or two of liquor/champagne. Are you suggesting we do that?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:55 PM
1

Just make sure you ask before the bill comes in case she says no. In which case, I assume you advise to suggest splitting the bill down the middle. This could have a similar effect as walking away (discussed above) because no beta (or any guy interested in her) would risk looking like a cheap ass in front of her.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 02:14 AM
5

Whether true or not, a STEM degree makes that less likely than a go-nowhere degree. Unless OP's daughter sucks at STEM -- in which case, she'll need to manipulate the boys for help...
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:20 PM
-1

This isn't a good thing. "Nice guys" can turn into maniacs when their niceness is not enough. Your daughter will eventually get bored because her major male role model all of these years has been an alpha. These guys are just as likely to turn vindictive as the typical alpha college guy, except that the nice guys will be far less predictable if/when they turn.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:18 PM
8

AU and NZ too?? I thought the fact that everyone lives near the beach would be enough to keep people in shape. That's a damn shame...
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 02:02 AM
1

Also, stay as gender neutral as possible in the comment. Once you identify inherent differences between the typical man and woman, it alerts the radars of anti-TRPers.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 02:12 PM
5

Yes. I try to ignore those posts complaining about women or the new feministic society. It's good to be aware of the tendencies of women and the playing field at large, but ceaselessly complaining about it in TRP is ironically beta. Posts like this are what I like to read. Beta males stepping it up. Inspiring me to improve any of my beta tendencies. Not only that, OP gives me hope that marriage one day could actually be happy and fulfilling.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 07:10 PM
5

We're not talking about attraction in this thread unless you're implying OP was ogling his boys instead focusing on the fight.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:50 AM
1

Wait what? He banged KD's girlfriend? What's the story behind this?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:48 AM
1

I'd be curious what story the snapchatter is telling the guy now, if anything. Sounds like only one of the girl friends is responding to the poor guy, and I highly doubt it is the snapchatter.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 09:42 PM
8

Deny Deny Deny. That is the advice that the other girls gave the gf, and she will follow it to her grave. She has absolutely no reason to be truthful about this. None. If the BB musters up the balls to dump her, the gf still has this picture following her wherever she goes.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 09:38 PM
18

...and that was at a public event. Imagine these women in a more private setting just with their closest friends.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 09:33 PM
3

Which link on the sidebar is to Sneak's stuff?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 01:10 AM
1

What was her response to your alpha text about fucking her til she forgets her own name?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:17 PM
6

And now I'm thinking about fucking a pink elephant until she forgets her own name.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:12 PM
3

You probably messed up by not trying again. That said, not every girl would cheat and not in every situation. Tons of factors at play here, but a surprising percentage of girls in "happy" relationships would cheat with a random guy.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:10 PM
10

I disagree. He is mostly beta. But overall his response shows promise. He was already asking for more spice in the bedroom, and she was denying him from it. Beta. Ignoring her during the car ride home is far from alpha, especially when he approached the subject again the next day to ask if it was true. Beta. Now that he is upfront about questioning their relationship and demanding some of that same action, he has started to take on the alpha mentality. He's not quite there until he straight-up s…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 07:10 PM
2

Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing. I fuckin love this.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 02:37 AM
0

Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:27 PM
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The facetime'ing is as she gets ready for work and then afterward at like 5am when she's comfortable in bed. I agree that it's a pretty good sign, but I also think the 5am facetime'ing is largely to do with the fact that I'm waking up getting ready for work while she's still awake bored watching TV (she has mild insomnia).
/r/seduction13/04/14 09:25 PM
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I appreciate your opinion. I really don't see the big deal about the age difference. Does it help that I look young for my age and she looks a bit older than hers? Does it help that I sometimes have the maturity level of a 15-year-old boy and sometimes of an 80-year-old man? Why is my specific year on this earth such a determinative factor for who is right for me to date? I honestly am not trying to have sex with this girl just so I'll be perceived as "the man." My responses in other posts inclu…
/r/seduction13/04/14 09:23 PM
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I blame myself for the title of this post. I thought everybody knew the T-Pain song from several years ago "I'm in love with a stripper" but I guess not. Anyway, I'm not in love with this girl. I think she's great, but I am talking to a few other girls at the moment. A couple in my town and a couple in my hometown. I have no intention of moving back to my hometown just for this girl.
/r/seduction13/04/14 09:13 PM
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Fantastic advice, man. Thank you.
/r/seduction13/04/14 06:07 PM
1

The hot prostitute idea doesn't create a fun story to tell others. Plus, it's illegal where I live in the US. The challenge makes this stripper more exciting.
/r/seduction13/04/14 06:05 PM
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Thanks. I need to be reminded of this.
/r/seduction13/04/14 06:03 PM
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This presumes she wants to fuck me. If I'm the safe, stable, nice guy from her perspective, she doesn't really want to fuck me. She just wants to chat playfully on FaceTime throughout the week because I'm the only one awake at the time.
/r/seduction13/04/14 06:02 PM
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I'm not thinking about settling down anytime soon whatsoever. Maybe in a few years. Career and fun with no responsibilities must come first. Admittedly, there is a not-so-insignificant part of me that wants to have a "So did I tell you about the time I banged a stripper...?" story. I don't consider this a reason for not having sex with someone I'm attracted to physically and mentally.
/r/seduction13/04/14 03:28 PM
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In short, I would like to have sex with her. She's easily the hottest girl I've ever made out with. Reasons I actually like her: she's hot; sort of awkward and dorky in person and on FaceTime; she genuinely seems like a good girl (yes, I'm aware that there's a very good chance she's a whore); she's not a gold digger (she kept trying to pay -- and succeeded a couple times -- when we grabbed food and drinks); she's fun without trying to get attention; and she's fuckin hot. Quick edit: Oh yeah, 200…
/r/seduction13/04/14 03:16 PM
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My ex-gf was often trying to plan an international girls holiday with a couple of her friends. I knew what her friends were like, so I always told her that we would be done if she went on the vacation. She said she didn't understand my logic, but she never went on the vacation. Dumped her several months later anyway because I was tired of getting into fights with her while she was drunk. Started banging her best friend and found out the ex-gf had cheated on me at least a couple times during the …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 03:52 PM
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Your latter point reminds me of Cast Away. (SPOILER ALERT) The hope of seeing his woman again lifted him out of the most impossible situation. When he finally faced her and realized she would never be his again, he was already in a better place and able to move on. Likewise, if OP was rejected, he had a much better chance of moving on with girls that were already chasing him than if he was rejected while out of shape, poorly dressed, and poorly manicured.
/r/seduction07/04/14 12:54 AM
1

Can you ballpark the statistics regarding the ratings of these girls you hooked up with? Maybe just split them up between two groups: 6-7 rating and 8-10 rating.
/r/seduction07/01/14 02:59 PM
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OkCupid probably allows you to see who is online at the time. If so, it's closer to an online chat conversation than a text conversation.
/r/seduction07/01/14 02:53 PM
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"np"
/r/seduction19/12/13 04:33 PM
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Bottomless appletinis.
/r/seduction18/12/13 06:49 PM
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