Basically, I went on a date last night with a chick I knew had a BF. I met her on St. Patty's and we had a blast together that night despite nothing physical happening (not for lack of trying tho, she pushed me away a few times when I tried to kiss her). We had a fun time joking around and getting to know each other. The sexual tension was there throughout. I threw in kino here and there, but there was always a little resistance/hesitancy on her part. I could tell she wanted it, but was trying to restrain herself. She's definitely no Unicorn, but I would say she's definitely one of those "rare breeds" that is hot while also being cool/intelligent/funny.

So at the end of the date I'm dropping her off because it's late and we both have work. As much sexual tension as there was, I'm not really "pushy" about it because I don't feel that I should have to be. My intentions are clear, but I'm not going to force myself on anyone. Right before she steps out of the car the following conversation takes place:

Her: "Can I be awkward for a minute?"

Me: "how about you just be honest?"

Her: "we can't hang out again. I have a boyfriend and I'm trying to be an adult and do the right thing. You are hot/sexy and really funny and I like you, so I know we can't just be friends."

...(then proceeds to talk about how horny she is because she hasn't had sex in a long time due to her relationship being long-distance)...

Me: (we are tipsy and high at this point and my game/thoughts always turn to shit when I'm stoned) "well just do you"

Her: "I was hoping for a different (or more - can't remember exact words) response from you"

I'm basically grinning the whole time because she's basically telling me she wants to fuck me but can't because she's tied down. I simply hugged her and told her I understand and then she got out of the car (after talking about more about how much she liked me and how attracted to me she was). She got out, and went inside.

My feelings on the night: I had fun regardless of the fact that nothing happened. We drank and laughed and enjoyed each other's company so what is not to like? Her problems are not mine to deal with, and I do not feel I should have to convince her of anything. There is an overall feeling that if had been tighter on my game (more aggressive kino and flirting) I could have gotten further with it. Full disclosure though, I'm not at all effected by this because I know that I have a lot going for me (in the past I would have been deeply effected by this) and more opportunities will come. I'm very quick the hit the next button, because I don't feel I need to put much effort into women. If it's not easy, it's probably not worth it (obviously this doesn't apply to actually important parts of life).

I get a text a couple hours later (2 hours after her "bed time") saying "I had fun with you. If only I was not caught up with someone. You are really funny and sexy. thanks for the fun night"

Me: "Welcome. No hard feelings, well maybe a little ;). Got to do what makes you happy"

Thoughts? Suggestions?

All is appreciated.

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