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It's definitely a thing in Victoria - Co-habitation over 18 months and being unable to meaningfully distinguish between the two of you in living arrangements = defacto relationship, which is subject to asset division in the event of it going to court. Google this up, it applies different state by state.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 12:55 AM
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Yeah, you can keep your depressive nihilism right over there. By the dumpster.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 10:12 AM
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Because congruence is something you perceive non-verbally, in the same way that most communication is done in the same way. A lot of this is learned through exposure and trial and error, and someone not being congruent immediately sets off subconscious alarm bells to a person with enough experience. Women do this exceptionally well from a much earlier age than men because they are dragged through the gauntlet of puberty and teenager hell of high school at the same time, and social status can oft…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 06:34 AM
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Given that the original post is explicitly in reference to vetting your LTR, this is off-topic. Short-term relationships (wtf is this even) and one-night stands are predicated off one thing and that's your ability to get your dick wet.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 06:20 AM
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She’s not sexually eager, open, and experimental This can also be paraphrased as: You can teach a girl how to fuck, but you can't teach enthusiasm.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 10:39 AM
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Anger is a gift. Anger leads to resolve. Anger leads to motivation. Anger is the first primal way and means to express unconsciously that you are not worth treating like a disposable income and a doormat. Anger is a gift. I will use it well.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 09:27 AM
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Testing for self-control is effectively the equivalent of a male shit test, however discretion must be applied as to how often you allow them the opportunity to slip up. Reason being is that women nowadays really do have more options than you as a general rule (but not necessarily better ones - because you're trying to be the best version of yourself, right?), and the hamster is strong enough to overcome any rational thoughts. They might decide to have their cake and try and eat more too. Nobody…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 02:35 AM
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When you get a bit wiser, you'll realize "I don't know, maybe you should ask someone more qualified to answer your question" or a variation of is EXACTLY what you should be saying.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 10:03 PM
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You'll notice it was "you want others to think that you always know exactly what to say" not "always have an answer to any question that someone asks you".
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 09:03 AM
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Not true, it's usually fairly busy during tourist season in the summer - at least when the weather's nice. 100% recommend as well though, made me appreciate the country a lot more.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 06:11 AM
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Lots of average girls on dating websites who consider themselves smart often tout this as one of their "qualities". It's a huge tell of elevated narcissism. The best way to deflect it if it comes up is to ask them if they've rubbed one out to Stephen Hawking. No? Looks like you're full of shit, darling.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 12:18 PM
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Got accused of being a redpiller by a trans moderator on a gaming forum I frequented. Looked it up.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 01:23 PM
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Are you busy? Are you getting something out of it other than the repeated confirmation that she's into you? If yes to the 1st, ignore her. If no to the 2nd, ignore her.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 11:42 AM
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Well done, you've successfully managed to romanticize something by selectively ignoring all the negative things that happen and focusing only on the positive bits. Similar to putting the pussy on a pedestal. By all means, you can chase that dragon if you want - but it won't make you happy and if anything will make you realize how much of a dipshit most 20-somethings are.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 07:53 AM
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Unrelated, it's not linked in the sidebar so it's someone piggybacking off the concept and terminology.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 02:51 AM
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Thank you very much, I've spent the past hour reading up on him - incredibly interesting and a lot of my general thoughts resonate with his outlook on things.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 04:21 AM
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http://thebiggestproblemintheuniverse.com/ Slightly off-topic, but Dick's doing a podcast with Maddox here that's quite entertaining to listen to.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 10:47 PM
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Oh look, someone gets it.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 10:54 AM
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Who cares why she's with you? How do you benefit from knowing whatever the fuck makes her tick? You're overthinking this way way way too much. i'm slightly above average looking (Decent face, very fit, 6' tall). Ok.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 04:46 PM
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But every time I get deep into one of them I am 21 years old Haha ok. You're toe-dipping at best, and haven't played the long game. You're allowed to at 21 - find what you like, and be aware that you're not 21 forever.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 05:00 AM
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YOU RACK DISCIPRINE
/r/askTRP16/06/15 04:36 AM
1

It doesn't take that long, but there's an element of being able to laugh at yourself that is necessary when learning. Be willing to laugh at yourself when you do something dumb and then move on, and it dramatically eases the tension in the room. Sex isn't as big of a deal once you've had it semi-regularly. Not every time is going to be 100% perfect and magical.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 10:47 PM
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This reeks of insecurity. I'm dating a girl who will have her PhD in a field in science soon. Unreservedly, she's more intelligent than I am and she knows it. But rather than attempt to show her up or trump her to display 'superiority', I simply value her input and insight when she speaks on something she knows more about than I do. Oh, I'll test her on it. I'll ask questions to clarify things I'm unsure of. But that's part and parcel - and I expect that from her, just as she expects that from m…
/r/askTRP16/05/15 05:59 PM
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I'd suggest for him to get good at getting girls off in ways that don't involve his dick - same advice I'm giving to you. Biology doesn't lie or change - but perception does. Perception is everything to a woman, and it's about trial and error until you find one who's sufficiently impressed/enamoured by everything else about you that she doesn't care about that.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 05:39 PM
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Mostly a product of where you're looking. Sure, if you're solely going to places where people congregate for social approval - you'll get a lot more than not! That "research" you're referring to is an outdated study where they stuck pins only 4" inside a vagina to test sensitivity. All you need for a female orgasm is one finger - everything up from there is subjective to both environment and pressure, both physical and mental. I've made most girls orgasm even before taking my pants off, focus on…
/r/askTRP16/05/15 02:03 PM
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Avoid sluts probably even more so. How small are we talking? Assuming you're around 4-5" then an orgasm is an orgasm, and unless she's a massive size queen - it won't be an issue assuming you're appropriately skilled in other areas in bed. One of my current girls is a tiny thing, and she can't even have the whole length of mine in (cervix poking, gg), and I'm about an inch or two above average. Short, fit girls might be more of a realistic target for you.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 11:52 AM
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Someone's trying a little too hard to be edgy.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 11:32 AM
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I feel like you're arguing the statement in context, and I'm arguing the statement in a standalone way. The difference between helping someone because you feel it's the right thing to do/helps society/preserves the status quo AND helping someone so you can brag about it is a vast one. Helping people so you can brag about it is an exercise in vanity - which isn't endearing to most people. That's all. Nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 04:45 AM
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Which is EXACTLY what the person you replied to was saying. Helping people so you can brag about it is an exercise in vanity - which isn't endearing to most people.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 04:41 AM
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I think he does. I don't think you understand why people are disgusted with ulterior motives.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:46 AM
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It's a continuation of the idea of not being dependent on external validation from women - a trap that both the PUA stereotype and the "Nice Guy" fall into, albeit on different sides of the coin. There's nothing wrong with doing something towards a goal - but having your goal as "picking up mad pussy with some sick tatts" isn't "faking it until you make it" in the sense that that phrase is used. Faking it is used in reference to habits and behaviour, which by continually applying such you will s…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 07:17 AM
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Then like it or not, you're accountable to her. Earrings arent permanent, but still just as lame if done to look cool. I don't know any good reasons to get a tattoo, that will be someone else's field to answer.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 02:52 AM
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If you're getting tatts and an earring just to cultivate an image, you're going to be horribly disappointed in 4-5 years when you suddenly decide that tatt you got at 18 makes you look like a foolish idiot. If you're nearly 18, then you're nearly an adult and nearly responsible for your own decisions - good or bad. Unless your dad is bankrolling you, his opinion doesn't really come into it. If he IS, then you have to consider the fallout of such an action. My own personal litmus test for this is…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 02:41 AM
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Exactly this. One big steaming pile of NOPE required.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 02:31 AM
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Time to pull a Snoop: Drop it like it's hot.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 02:30 AM
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Here's a tip: don't do it.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 02:29 AM
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Time to go see a psychiatrist/therapist. You've got shit going on beneath the surface that we can't accurately assess over the internet. Go and see a professional and work through it, rather than stewing on it. Yes, it's confrontational and yes it is admitting that something is out of your immediate control to deal with. Welcome to being mature about shit.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 02:11 AM
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i cant seem to cope with it Didn't even bother reading the rest. This is the only bit that matters. Cut ties, think about it later on.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 10:07 AM
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It's possible, but that's much more of a mental conditioning - and I bet you fap to femdom porn as well, which only reinforces that. This is a case where I think /r/nofap would legitimately help you in spades in terms of how much of it is conditioned and how much is legitimate attraction. There's nothing wrong with assertive women in bed, contrary to the beliefs of some. Note that I said assertive, not aggressive or domineering or abusive. Note that I said in bed. Context is key. But there's a f…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 08:53 AM
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Consent to equal opportunity does not mean there will be equal outcomes. Women know this, and push for it as part of AF/BB.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:24 AM
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Like all good situations, they are built from the outcomes of other situations and the decisions made. and we had a blast together that night despite nothing physical happening (not for lack of trying tho, she pushed me away a few times when I tried to kiss her). This is in public, and she has a boyfriend - which is likely known to at least one other person who is there. Once is excusable, it's a demonstration of boldness. Twice shows a lack of understanding to the sensitivity of public-facing r…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:33 PM
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Her: "I was hoping for a different (or more - can't remember exact words) response from you" She wants an excuse. She wants to be led. You did not provide this, so she has plausible deniability. I'm basically grinning the whole time because she's basically telling me she wants to fuck me but can't because she's tied down. "Can't" is the key word here. She most definitely can, and wants to. But she also wants a reason to do so, and you failed to step up to the plate. Better luck next time.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:07 PM
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You choked. She won. Your last comment to her confirms it.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 12:38 PM
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You may find yourself drawn towards her even more.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 12:33 PM
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As well as scheduling, efficiency is your most important tool. Allocating study time I find is futile for myself, as my focus isn't confined to set times. Instead, I'll often bring the books that I would need to study along with me at all times - this also compounds into actually thinking about it more and often studying while I'm in transit somewhere. Obviously works best if you're taking public transport, but the same deal applies. Sometimes, you can just be trying to do too much - and have to…
/r/askTRP22/03/15 03:14 AM
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He's the stereotype of a tradie in Australia, and he'll likely make a lot of money if he applies himself - even with that neck tattoo.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 01:03 AM
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You like being liked by women, and you make that a core part of your identity. I like being liked by valuable people, and I've made that a core part of my identity. What is the difference between you and I? Your answer lies there.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:44 AM
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i hear a lot of male hamster here and not a lot of "not giving a fuck".
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:03 PM
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I think you've missed the point of why the SMV discussion is had, but sure.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 10:00 PM
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You need some lessons in "not giving a fuck".
/r/askTRP12/02/15 11:44 AM
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OP is using an old form of concern trolling, just ignore it.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 11:15 PM
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"forcing"
/r/askTRP06/02/15 09:34 PM
1

Pretty much this.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 09:33 PM
1

Dizzee Rascal - Bonkers.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 09:14 PM
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Life is pretty contextual, yes. In saying that, I like what you've posted here.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 08:20 AM
1

While as a generalization, yes - context obviously modifies this. Whether you made a pass a her or not doesn't matter in the scheme of things. I've let opportunities slide because I didn't feel like it or I thought it was more effort than it was worth - but I've never not approached a single interested woman because of the chance it might offend someone else who was interested in her. Hell, I started dating a girl my friend was actively keen on under his nose. We're still friends, even if he got…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 10:26 AM
1

No such thing as brocode.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 07:59 AM
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Having been the other guy in that situation, she's not relationship material.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 07:42 AM
1

First mistake: Overvaluing a girl, despite knowing about TRP for a year (implies you haven't actually taken in one of the most core lessons here). I will be working closely with her over the next 3 1/2ish years Second mistake. Transfering is out of the question. I can't possibly be with her and I want to stop the addiction of a oneitis. Third mistake. You're not outcome independent and purposely placed yourself in this position, and fostered those feelings. This definitely doesn't sound like you…
/r/askTRP01/02/15 12:07 AM
1

Then put yourself in the place and position to talk to whoever the hell meets your standards. Can't work 12 hour shifts at a retirement village, then sit at home - and wonder why you don't get much contact! (it's an example)
/r/askTRP01/02/15 12:03 AM
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Not necessarily a New Year's resolution, but a post-holiday one: eat better. 14 days in, and loving the effects of it.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 10:39 AM
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"Hi, I don't think this is going to work out with you leaving to go back home soon. It is better that we end this now, rather than wait for you to make a decision about when you plan on moving back."
/r/askTRP31/01/15 10:33 AM
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This is pretty much it.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 10:31 AM
2

What would be the learned behaviours you're talking about I did say in my response: all others are learned behaviours. There's no real grey area here. Enthusiasm cannot be taught, only mimicked. You can both learn the how's of doing shit through the magic of the internet.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 10:21 AM
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You're looking for the word "tact"; there's a difference between being rude and bringing up a concern you have with the girl. Straight forward != rude.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 10:18 AM
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You're worrying about something that's superficial. That makes you a superficial human, just like the rest of us. Stop trying to be deceptive, and tell her. Maybe she's actually got medical reasons why she doesn't go on the hardcore shit, or she's already doing stuff for it that you don't know.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:40 AM
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It's easy to pursue an idealized impossibility. No concrete steps to be measured for progress, no real concept of the end goal nor the journey to be made. It's a nice delusion that distracts the thoughts, nothing more. In terms of the bonding experience, other men are good for that. Sex isn't the only bonding experience men can perform.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:37 AM
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Cut contact with her for a good 6 months. Out of sight, out of mind. Stop feeling responsible for others' happiness - if you're unhappy enough to break a 2 year relationship without any hint of reconciliation attempts to bring the girl in line with what you want in the relationship, then you need to sit on your own shit for a while and not worry about hers. Write a post-it note on the fridge saying "I deserve better than this." Look at it every day. Move towards that better every day.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:31 AM
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Poor choices, you have made. Consequences, you have to endure. Suck it up, you're 18 - there are plenty of women out there that'll make you forget about her. You just might have to put some effort into hooking up a girl on her standards.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:28 AM
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Enthusiasm is the best trait of all, all others are learned behaviours.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:26 AM
1

Usually they submit and it has become almost trivial to get them attracted/invested, making out or getting their numbers. Sooooo.... However they all flake on me. Haven't seen a connection yet? You're also in Sweden, where there's that culture of not being overly social/confrontational literally indoctrinated into most of you fuckers from a young age. Having been there recently, you need to build comfort much better and preferably tone it down when you're doing so. push/pull, building more rappo…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 01:38 AM
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This is all that needs to be said.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 01:31 AM
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Smoke a decent amount of pot. Typically, I don't have a lot to show for my daily progress in everyday life. Months can go by an I will be happily stagnant instead of growing as a person and a man. Feel like I can't take hold of my future even though I have all of the tools I need at my disposal. The first one is responsible for the next two. Being a high-functioning stoner is something rare enough that I need to point to famous examples to see them.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 01:26 AM
3

Value is not solely provided through looks. Women do not value the same shit as us.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 01:23 AM
3

Hunters hunt. Go and talk to the mirin ones.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 01:21 AM
2

I can tell you right now that's your own mindset pushing you towards a self-fulfilling prophecy. In truth, they aren't horrible to each other because they're ugly looking. They're horrible to each other because they are horrible bitter people looking for a scapegoat for why their life sucks. They have an easy one in each other - misery loves company. You, my friend, now have the self-awareness to rise above this. Not only that, you have the blessing (yes, blessing!) of being born male - where yo…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 01:18 AM
0

Hahahahahahahaha
/r/askTRP31/01/15 01:03 AM
2

Why do you care? Your answer to this question is exactly why you can't get your shit together. Be honest with yourself.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 10:53 AM
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this. you're a fucking idiot if you're this goddamn paranoid about approaching anyone. just go and ask her - but we know you won't.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 10:52 AM
0

Look at those tears flow from the bad attempt at tone policing.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 09:31 AM
1

/u/QuidulusBroQuo above gives some good ideas. For myself, I simply have a mental checklist I run through for the stuff I'm currently doing - goals, I look at myself in the mirror every morning. Thinking about the task at hand, even if just repeatedly rehashing the same stuff that I'm doing, keeps my head in.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 01:12 AM
1

Honestly, I've never found an electric shaver that didn't tear up my beard hair - wet shave on the neck and scissors work a treat for me. Not sure how you deal with that feeling.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 09:52 PM
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You don't have that burning motivation all the time - it's a simple lie that creeps its way into storytelling and regaling of accomplishments so much people take it literally. You won't be motivated 100% of the time. Where motivation falls, discipline takes over. Most people lack the latter, because they don't want what they're working towards enough. Start small - habits don't change overnight and we tend to crash hard when changing too much too quickly.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 09:48 PM
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Time to start aggressively searching for someone better.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 09:44 PM
1

You're boring socially. Be an interesting person, not just a hot socially autistic person.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 12:46 PM
1

"Hi. You like stuff, tell me about it." You're overthinking things. Have several drop topics that you can "drop" into a conversation if it looks like it's fizzling. All you need to do is a) hold a conversation with the girl and b) keep the conversation going. The magic number is 9: 3 personal (you or her), 3 social (society/activities/friends/politics), and 3 contextual (where you are/what you're doing right now).
/r/askTRP27/01/15 12:41 PM
2

The current government's heavy hitter being appointed to the Social Services portfolio means it might be coming sooner rather than later if they manage to fix their issues with implementation of a sound concept. As polarizing as the Liberal Party, they cop a LOT of undeserved hate and policies with proper sensible implementation will see Labour/Greens swinging voters hang themselves on rhetoric. Cutting down on the eligibility of people for Youth Allowance/Newstart Allowance will invariably pop …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 11:51 AM
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TRP is anti-abortion now? Someone's confusing the ideology with some of the members.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:16 AM
1

Listen first. If she is asking you questions about something other than her shit - proceed as normal. If she has a problem, then ask yourself the following: - Are you equipped to deal with this? - Are you willing to deal with this? If at any point your answer is no - stop listening and change the subject.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 02:35 AM
1

Then we're one of the better places to help you get that. Start reading up, welcome.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 12:52 AM
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I found your question in that gigantic wall of text. Is dealing with the ex a shit test or just something I should be acceptant of? Dealing with the ex is something your girlfriend does, not you. You need to be the better option, and if you're not - she will branchswing. Open and shut case here.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 07:10 AM
1

This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 11:02 PM
3

This is correct. I'd honestly go and have your T levels properly checked - and ask for the results to be given to you.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 10:55 PM
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I experience the exact opposite. There's something missing from the story here.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 10:54 PM
1

I was tempted to say this, but McD is filled with both stupid amounts of sugar and is an addiction waiting to happen. You don't want to associate positive progress with trash, because you'll fall back on that at the first sign of trouble.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 10:46 PM
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This is 100% wrong, and a product of a defeatist mindset. If a 3 is calling you fat in public, you are landwhale sized. Portion control, motherfucker. Learn it.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 10:44 PM
1

And again, what's an "old-school relationship" to you? There's a point where tropes don't cut it. Define what you want.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 10:29 PM
1

correct*
/r/askTRP17/01/15 10:28 PM
1

Life sucks. Life is not fair. Welcome. Acceptance will come soon, along with the drive to be more than you are. Your anger will give you the most powerful push towards doing so.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:33 AM
3

Tell her she's not the main one. Tell her that you're not looking for commitment from a cheating whore. On a serious note: Who the fuck knows exactly why she's getting clingy, but you didn't set terms of engagement from the very start - and now you're playing damage control. You are the reason for this, and you're letting this woman limit your activities like a bitch. Fix the problem.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:24 AM
1

This entirely depends on your goal here. Do you want to fuck the girl? Then yes, the friend zone is pretty much a bane of your interactions with this girl - but it is not your only one. So no, it's not "the most important thing" but yes, it is something you need to be aware of.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:22 AM
0

Username so relevant.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:21 AM
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I want to be a fly on the wall when this crashes and burns.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:19 AM
2

Her actual response. Keep up, fool. On that note, you care far too much. You're actually worried that her not taking some random guy's advice on what to wear might make her "defiant". I literally can't even begin to describe how far off the mark you are. Outcome independence, learn it. It should be the only thing you need to answer this entire question.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:16 AM
3

This is the correct answer. Move the fuck out of home like a grown-up and stop letting someone you know is clearly a bad influence on you poison your mind. I Love my mom, besides her dating policy, so don't tell me to move out, lol! But you won't. You're a bitch, and a captive one at that. Enjoy fucking your mother while you can't even approach women. "lol!"
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:11 AM
2

We're equal in power You're not even close to this woman in power. You're her project, her fixer-upper. You both also sound like you're either settling, or you're both fat, lazy and/or ugly.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:07 AM
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Eat. Eat more. Do more. I'm trying out Victor Pride's food advice (steak and eggs!) from boldanddetermined.net for a few months starting today, and I know for a fact that I'm going to have to start doing more in order to make the most of it. What to do: anything that gets you physical is a good start. Lifting weights is prime. Cardio is underrated - being fit enough to run away from the zombie apocalypse is a selling point! Make a point of integrating doing active stuff whenever you feel like yo…
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:03 AM
3

Tell your father. Your gut is correct. It's time for the shotgun to come out, and that boyfriend of hers to start providing. Given your choice of words, your father does not live with you. I would start considering the option of living with him, or some rapid improvement at the expense of time to your finances.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 01:42 AM
3

You're neither a fool nor unrealistic for wanting such. However, there's a lot more that you actually want behind that simplistic definition, isn't there? TRP can help you both be honest with yourself about what you want, and help you achieve it.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 01:38 AM
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No, and no I don't. I didn't keep the whole "no sex before marriage" thing, but I understand why they advocate for it - and attempt to keep the principle in mind. If you want something more specific answered, then phrase that in your question.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 01:35 AM
8

Race whining is awful, but I'm willing to hazard a guess that 9 out of 10 "issues" with race are purely attractiveness ones. That's the reason most people aren't willing to entertain that shit - because it is just bleating of sheep looking for a convenient excuse for why they're ugly/boring as fuck. At the point where you can start controlling for the effects of race - you will already be good enough that you're ticking a LOT of other basic checkboxes for the average woman today. /r/AsianMasculi…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 09:19 PM
1

Because you're still a fat nervous social wreck. Less talk, more action.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 07:50 AM
1

What.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:51 PM
1

Because we are not affected the same way by a larger partner count. There's a brilliant post on the main sub as to why this is, but pair-bonding and the ability to do so plays a large part in this. I encourage you to look into this with the material available here, and see if you feel differently about it afterwards. Good luck with it all.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:46 PM
2

This isn't stated enough. I quickly read the paper on the train to pick up useful conversation starters when I'm going out and it's a easy way to segue into other more familiar topics.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:42 PM
3

Everywhere. The best opener is "Hi." Go and try it.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:38 PM
3

Dude drank too much, exposed a titty, and she cried foul. This is a perfect example of why I don't watch trash TV and neither should you.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:37 PM
0

Or it's just how we communicate frustration through text, and certain people take that as a personal affront. I insult people when I want to sting them and make them take more notice of what exactly I'm saying. Anyone bothered by text insults are weak of character and are generally undeserving of attention.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:32 PM
1

Let me ask you the female version of this question: How important is it to not be ugly or a hamplanet when trying to attract guys?
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:25 PM
1

Outcome dependence. There's a ton of material from better men than myself out there at your fingertips. Rollo I think did a good piece on this somewhere, have a search.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:20 PM
2

If he has feels, he needs to keep up no contact. If and only IF those feels disappear can he reengage on more even terms. You don't offer a cigarette to an ex-smoker 2 weeks after they've quit, even though you're 'chemically free' 3 days after your last. It's a psychological association, and there needs to be hard breaks. Keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:18 PM
1

I think that's perfectly reasonable. As long as it's intimated or explicitly stated that you're not expecting the woman to be a mother figure of sorts for the kid - I think you're handling the situation honourably and charitably. Good luck with it all.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:12 PM
2

Possible != free from consequences nor a wise idea.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 07:55 PM
46

Oneitis, sunk cost fallacy, wanting your cake and eating it too, comfort zone, wanting to prove a point before moving on - plenty of reasons. Mostly ego or pride-driven ones.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 07:43 PM
2

You should probably stay away from online games altogether.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:54 PM
1

Keyword: you
/r/askTRP12/01/15 12:52 AM
1

It's not about being prepared or not, or being ok with letting people interfere with your life. Newsflash: people are interfering with your life every single waking moment, in both major and minor ways you take for granted. Giving this much gravitas to one random cunt's words hands the power of change straight to her. By not talking to your LTR, you literally convey fear and powerlessness and a level of outcome dependence. In short, don't sweat the small shit. This is small shit. You have each a…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 09:34 AM
2

Not related, but I realized in my downtime while waiting for a plane I had spent a good 4 hours of my life absorbing information from the various articles on this site. Thanks a bunch.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 09:30 PM
4

And we have a winner. Lock up lads, hit the showers.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 08:09 PM
-6

You are insecure. You are 20 years old, and acting like a control freak - and now you're out of your depth in such a laughable pathetically minor way. I'm really tempted to tell you to break up with this girl so she has the pleasure of meeting someone better than you, but in the true spirit of being honest - here's my advice: Grow a pair and harden the fuck up. IF this cunt of a friend has that much hold over your girlfriend, then your girlfriend isn't worth keeping. If she is, then she will be …
/r/askTRP09/01/15 08:08 PM
1

I don't think there's any way to pass this shit test when she's point blank called him a loser. In fact, I wouldn't even call it a shit test. He's blown it completely. Time to move on.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 08:03 PM
2

Then you already have your answer. Know them by the fruits they bear.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:59 PM
1

I've basically set the boundaries that we have sex if you're down I don't get this impression from what I've read so far. This dude sounds like he's trying to enforce some kind of covert contract (i do x, because it implies y) because he wants to have sex, but is too afraid to push through the social perimeter you've set up. He's always initiating it, because it's the best he can get - and he'll take what he can, when he can. If you like this guy, confront him about it and just fuck him already.…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 05:08 PM
2

It seems too simple, but I define 'success' in this instance as personal achievement of your own goals. If you're not setting them in the first place or if you're not realistic about them - then it'll lead to the same place. Or you have people trashing your achievements from the get-go and belittling them. Men or women. It happens - some people simply don't hold themselves in high enough esteem to bounce back as easily as you or I from that.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:33 PM
2

Imagine never tasting success all through your life. Imagine never having much of a drive to do anything that wasn't frowned upon by authority or unproductive. Then one day you're introduced to a high so visceral and so clear that everything pales in comparison. You'd spend your life living for that moment, and put everything in maintenance mode to increase the discrepancy between normal life and that high.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 09:53 PM
1

The best way I've found to process stuff in my head is to never go to sleep on it without resolving as much as possible first. Anything that I feel particularly bad about, I'll write down in a book and then not think about it while I go to sleep. All written things have a 1-3 day limit, depending on severity. The side effect of this is that by writing it down and having to think logically about it, it takes me out of my emotional mindstate and ends up helping more than the actual resolution.
/r/askTRP03/01/15 04:47 PM
2

Get your shit out of there. Pack all her stuff up at yours, call/text ahead and tell her you're going to be around to drop her stuff off and collect your own. Set a time that works for you, and do it as quickly as possible. I would only put forward the explanation of "if we are friends, then we don't leave endless stuff at each other's house". Continue with soft next after this, do not bother to field probing questions about your new options.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 05:26 PM
2

The fact that you confuse social skills with PUA tells me that you have trouble discerning the intended meaning of the shorthand labels you are reading. If you can't hold a conversation with normal people in a social setting, locking yourself away is the absolute WORST thing you can do to your little bout of "self-improvement". Good luck with being a good-looking social autistic - make sure you remind yourself that you did it for yourself every time you fail.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 05:13 PM
1

What exactly is wrong with just fucking this girl? You didn't think that you'd be constantly chasing the holy grail of women, did you? There's always someone who's ahead of the other. Enjoy being that person for once.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 09:28 AM
1

Exactly this. Why the fuck would this good woman stick around 18 months for your ass? Leave on good terms, start it back up when you next get a chance.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 09:25 AM
1

No it doesn't. You become a good-looking social spastic if you cut yourself off socially. Monk mode is a state where you put your usual non-negotiable important obligations on life support (bare minimum required to maintain) and use the rest of your time to transform unproductive behaviour into productive things to build yourself. You're not a lump of coal to be mindlessly refined, you're a social animal who needs to go back to basics and figure your shit out.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 09:22 AM
0

Why's it matter? This question should be directed towards a biologist, not here.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 09:14 AM
2

Correct action required, but the motivation for nexting her is incorrect. He should be cutting contact with her through a soft next because he cannot handle the emotional disassociation with the rejection of a girl who he still loves. It'd be completely different if he had moved on emotionally but he hasn't. Staying there as backup is setting himself up to lose, while giving this girl a perfect safety net. It has nothing to do with being selfish, which is what your last paragraph is stating.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 09:12 AM
1

Emotional availability is the ability to be receptive to emotional connections and communication. You treat it as you do for other interpersonal availability (f.e. social or financial) - be receptive to concerns but do not extend yourself into a place where you stand to lose out without gaining something of relative equal value to yourself.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 09:05 AM
1

It isn't a compliment. He's autistic to a point of being socially and emotionally crippled and invents delusional fantasies in order to cope with his unrealistic expectations of life and people around him. Anyone calling him "alpha" has a real problem with reading intent or context behind behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 08:53 AM
2

Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and use that pain to propel you to what you want then. Less self-pity, more self-motivation.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 01:56 PM
1

He's also missing a leg. Occam's Razor - why bother trying to over-analyze an incomplete picture? There is no doubt that if he acted in a more dark triad way Male hamster at work.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:46 PM
1

What's there to analyze? The dude is/was oblivious socially, and they're just giving him the nice end of "well, you misread the circumstances" in combination with "how the fuck would I remember THAT?"
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:20 PM
1

All relationships are transactional, no matter the gender of the people involved. If you add value to their lives, they will want you around.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 09:05 AM
4

This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 09:03 AM
1

Sleep. Most important thing to do. Even if all you do is 6 hours of actual sleep and then another 4 hours of rest - this is still acceptable to being tired. You've done well, now make sure it's maintainable so you don't burn out.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 08:37 AM
4

You want blunt advice? It doesn't matter what we say. You clearly don't want to change enough that you're willing to do something about it. If you did, you'd be asking us for a plan or searching any of the various ones that already exist. But no, instead you typed out 1000 words of vomit shifting blame for your own failure and lack of drive on external circumstances. We make fun of women for doing that - you're no fucking better. You're a loser. You will stay a loser. You will wallow in that mar…
/r/askTRP20/12/14 08:33 AM
2

This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 08:22 AM
3

Trial and error. Just do it.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 04:42 AM
1

How do you succeed at life? Trial-and-error. What can you improve? Everything. Start doing it. You'll find a lot of things fall into place simply by making an honest sincere attempt at improvement AND sticking to it with discipline and willpower.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 04:41 AM
10

All habits are simply motions practiced so often that they become second-nature.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 02:49 PM
1

I don't understand how the red pill can basically glorify dark triads while simultaniously preaching about ''morality'' Someone hasn't been here long.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:43 PM
1

Starts at 4min, his actual response is at 4:30 onwards.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:38 PM
31

I think there's a lot more you can pull from this clip too. Eye contact/directed responses He maintains consistent eye contact with Seth while asking his question directly TO him (not AT the audience OR the attractive women sitting beside him). This creates a direct and honest impression of interest in the subject, rather than pandering for attention. Listening to the response attentively How is this relevant? It demonstrates in a very indirect way that you do not waste time asking frivolous que…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:00 AM
1

This article was my first thought for a response to this thread.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 10:24 PM
2

False premise. Chasing women isn't making him unhappy, not being successful in doing so is. Not being successful is the root cause of dissatisfaction. Chasing women also isn't done for someone else's benefit, it's for yours. You are courting women in an attempt to have sex, whether through a relationship or other more temporary means. With all kinds of relationships being ultimately transactional in nature, success is dependent on whether you can offer the gatekeeper of sex (women) what they wan…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 03:07 PM
2

AWALT. What they find interesting is a lot different to foreign girls, and what they value will often be a product of their parental upbringing/social class and where they live, since we're so geographically disparate. Foreigners, you have an easier in because of being Australian and her romanticizing that. I find Australian girls, especially club sluts, will often have an extremely overinflated sense of worth but will give it up easy if you pass initial testing.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 02:53 PM
1

You are attracted to him because he is the best, yes?
/r/askTRP07/12/14 12:44 AM
1

Most of it is perception that we're on top of the food chain. White men are perceived to have advantage in being a powerful provider, white women are perceived to be easier and more willing to give up sex any way you like it.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 12:01 AM
2

Rinse dishes at the very least after using them BEFORE eating, especially pots and pans after cooking them. Melt any substantial food off them with scalding hot water, then I can place them in the dishwasher or wash them later that night. Other non-negotiable things include training myself to put dirty clothes in a single place - washing basket, brushing my teeth twice a day (once is easy, but i struggle with consistency with twice a day), and making my bed at least once a week. Changing sheets …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 02:45 PM
8

He's unhappy. Instead of using that unhappiness to drive himself to correct the root cause - he falls back into an easy pattern of doing something low-effort that is rewarding (masturbation and PS4 is fun) without actually correcting the root cause. This is why people advocate severely reducing porn and gaming, because it is easy to trap yourself in a never-ending circle of using a quick fix to discourage yourself from fixing why you're unhappy in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:21 AM
1

Cool. You're past it. Well done you. Now hush while the other kids figure it out as well.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 07:19 AM
-1

How cute, you think you're arguing with someone who doesn't disregard logic as soon as it is convenient for them.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 02:33 PM
-1

How cute, you think you're arguing with someone who doesn't disregard logic as soon as it is convenient for them.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 02:32 PM
2

In this case, pitching to your audience's accepted biases would likely be a smart tactic. I don't really see anything wrong with the usage here in this scenario.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 05:57 AM
7

Overthinking things. Stick to scissors only if you're less than 24 hours out from something you're putting expectations on for the pubes.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 11:50 PM
2

You've falsely romanticized what you "missed out on" so much that nothing you do would ever live up to what you think you lost. I did the same thing, right up until I just went out and made friends with people that I met - and invested time in those that reciprocated interest in spending time with me. I have a motley collection of friends of all different ages, social prowess and walks of life - men and women - and all of them are united by the fact that they all get along with me and for the mo…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 08:58 AM
6

The hot ones use it as a tool for instant validation and little more. The average and ugly ones are just picky with enormously inflated standards and expectations.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 08:33 AM
1

http://www.consad.com/content/reports/Gender%20Wage%20Gap%20Final%20Report.pdf
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 02:29 AM
1

You fucking care too much. It's like all you do is just validate this every single time you post.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:22 AM
2

What are you scared of? Honest question. Identifying proper root cause is often a healthy first step forwards. I've experienced friends with deeply rooted feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt that caused anxiety and fear of failure, especially with women. Sometimes, a therapist can help bring that out to a point where you can verbalize it and name the fear, then address it. In other cases, trusted mates are the catalyst for this.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 10:04 AM
3

I don't need to after reading this. You don't want to be convinced.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 09:53 AM
7

You fucking care too much. You don't hate women, you hate the reasons why you're losing at the game of seduction. And the reason why you're losing is because you care so much that you've projected bitter narcissistic douchebag into a tangible aura around you and your shit stinks. Go and find the lowest price hooker that's STD-free and go fuck her. Then come revisit the tripe here and learn how repugnant an attitude really can be with a clear mind.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 08:27 AM
2

But without that chain of command identified and enforced, what would happen? That's the question she's positing here - there's no enforced structure.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 05:47 AM
1

She wants comfort and validation that it's not all her fault and that she's not ruining her husband's life. However, she's stated that she suffered from depression in the past and she's running along like a pretty textbook case of pre(soon-to-be post)-natal depression. She needs help from a support network ASAP, because post-natal depression is a killer for both her and her child. You don't really need to read into that anymore, assuming that everything is legit there. That's a desperate cry for…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:18 PM
1

Correction: it's against selling yourself out to get women. If your goal is to fuck women, why the fuck would that be a bad thing to try and move towards that goal? There was even an old sticky regarding this by redpillschool.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 11:01 PM
1

I like your explanation a lot better, pinpoints a lot better how I feel about it. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 09:49 AM
0

Anyone who identifies as MGTOW generally uses it as an excuse for being low on the social totem pole in the first place. This is especially prevalent online, where a lot of people like to talk about how much they're going their own way - to the point where they're clearly insecure and just looking to rationalize it away.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 01:35 PM
8

Pink Floyd made a great song about it.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 06:02 AM
3

I don't consider 'women' as equals any more than I consider 'men' equals - that's nobody's responsibility to give anyone a potential pass or fail based on their gender.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 11:43 AM
1

This is so laughably untrue it hurts. Even demonstratably so: http://www.returnofkings.com/22732/9-reasons-why-sydney-sucks-for-men
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:37 AM
2

Depends what's usual for you and where you are.
/r/askTRP21/06/14 04:08 AM
1

It's not detrimental in the slightest. Also works to your advantage if the girl is a bit weird about an ugly looking dick, since yours will look better by default.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 12:14 PM
1

explicitly feminist and not conservative at all TIL the opposite of feminist is conservative.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 12:08 PM
1

Have you actually asked her? I bet you haven't.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 12:03 PM
1

Given that he's just attempted to make excuses for his only friend outside his family - I'd say he's feeling trapped between trying to appease two parties and keep both in the good graces.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 10:19 AM
1

Being kind to those who need it unreservedly or deserve it != being a doormat. There is also the sensible measurement of your capacity to give. if you are a person I cared about I would put your prosperity above mine This tells me you're more of a doormat than you care to admit. Being a doormat does not help you, except when you actively seek satisfaction from a lose:win situation - masochism. There is also the disconnect of idealism vs realism - while it would be nice to give unreservedly and b…
/r/askTRP18/06/14 10:10 AM
2

Update, I'm interested in this.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 12:44 PM
2

If you're actually being harassed, then you or your sister can report her to the police with evidence. Obviously have your sister call with the report and evidence. Female advantage exists - use it to your advantage. If she's just being petty or a nuisance, then you can either ignore her or be petty back. I'm sure you can think of awesome ways to be petty but my personal favourite is something in the air ducts that will slowly decay and smell bad. Nicknames are also good fun, especially if they'…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 12:33 PM
5

This is a slight exaggeration. 10's aren't hooking up with obese whales here (Melbourne) any more than anywhere else. What you are correct about is that anything 6+ knows they are in demand, and holds out the absolute bitch shield for anything 8+. Australian women do start hitting the wall a lot earlier though and get bad cases of the lonesome bitch attitude if they try to ride the carousel and aren't slumming it constantly or completely 100% absorbed in their career. It's not all bad news thoug…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 03:29 PM
47

Trash will be trash, no matter where in the world you are. Admittedly, they are exceptionally so in Queensland.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 11:12 AM
1

I live in Australia, and don't have a driver's license. For social occasions, I would normally spend anywhere up to 90min on public transport to go and visit people on the other side of my city depending on the time of day. 30min is nothing.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 07:08 AM
5

Oversensitive.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 02:15 AM
5

You're probably going to nut early. That's ok. Don't apologize in the heat of the moment for it. You're going to laugh later on, but your first time sex isn't that big of a deal ultimately. If you like her, just bond with her in the intimacy. Lots of holding eye contact does wonders.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 02:13 AM
4

You sound like a complete narcissist, maybe there's a reason people can't tolerate you.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 06:06 AM
1

Yes. The funny thing is you're saying you wouldn't do the same in their position.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 05:44 AM
3

"Problem?"
/r/askTRP13/06/14 05:39 AM
11

That works when you have external validation and support. When you don't, you literally feel like your world is caving in one step at a time, and there's absolutely no respite for it. That document right there is probably the most clarity that man had since the entire divorce proceedings began. In death, he found clarity and liberation.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:17 PM
3

This is incredibly naive. In today's society, it's your word against hers and she is by default assumed to be the victim. There's a swathe of shit in /r/pussypass and stuff flagged under the Men's Rights flair that demonstrates this.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 02:23 PM
-1

Quick rant: Some people criticize MGTOW, saying most of them are incel. So what? If you don’t get any, then not giving any in return is the perfect response. They are following The Rule. Of course we as a community want to help out our fellow man, but let’s face it, we can’t all be alpha males. Being Mr. Alpha Fux might be better, but for those who are set in their unsexy ways, MGTOW > beta orbiter any day of the week. My main gripe at people who claim MGTOW is that most of them who post around …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 02:17 PM
1

I know red pill is all about teaching us to fish instead of handing it to us, but I have no idea what a fish even looks like. A fish is a girl you want to have sex with. Cmon, you can't be that bad at analogies.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 06:45 AM
1

Yes and no. That will cover the overt impulses, but it's much better to treat the underlying issue rather than suppress the symptoms. Chapter 7 in No More Mr. Nice Guy! pretty much covers this, although the entire short book would be really spot on for you. Without going too psychoanalytical, I'd just say there's some underlying issues that you may or may not realize exist - and you should give this book a read first and foremost. It's short and to the point as well, so easy to digest. https://7…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 06:13 AM
13

The reason you enjoy cuddling and affection more than sex itself is because you're emotionally needy. That's not a jab, I'm exactly the same. The reason why your relationships last only as long as they do is for the same reason. It all starts well, then they sniff it out on you and immediately get turned off. It IS a problem, and it WILL take work to cure. There's nothing wrong with wanting affection, but women use this as a benchmark of emotional maturity. If you're more needy than her, then it…
/r/askTRP09/06/14 07:58 AM
3

MOVE ON.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 07:01 AM
0

How do I interact with people Ok.
/r/askTRP08/06/14 02:39 PM
9

I'm not going to wake up gorgeous. There's really nothing to be done. And that attitude is why, at least on the looks end. Get your ass into gear, because dumping on yourself isn't going to get it done. /u/gabilromariz is also correct.
/r/askTRP08/06/14 12:07 PM
2

and this community-style with all their priests, servants, sheikhs I don't really like. What?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 12:02 PM
3

http://biblehub.com/colossians/3-18.htm 15 seconds to google. Try harder.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 10:09 AM
1

She can get mad all she wants to (at me or anyone else). It's her life and her dead bedroom. Being offended doesn't fix anything. Being right and kicking things into gear does.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 03:08 AM
6

I actually just squinted at the screen trying to figure out what you meant there lol. when I ignore the part of my brain that doesn't want me to take chances and wants to just play it safe my life is better Correct. Taking risks leads to emotional rewards, as well as tangible ones if they work out in your favour. what I want to know is what that experience/thing is where ignoring the part that seeks to have an ordinary life or just play it safe improves the life Now I might be slightly off on th…
/r/askTRP05/06/14 03:04 AM
2

If she's reading these, then I'll add onto this comment here: She is slightly (maybe a bit more than slightly) overweight. 5-7 depending on how strictly you judge. More than slightly overweight is fat. On a pure looks scale, she sounds to me more like a 4 - which accounting for the bias of you being her friend and not necessarily wanting to be completely harsh, is likely true. Obviously, looks aren't everything - but I think we need to be brutally honest here if we want answers that aren't meani…
/r/askTRP05/06/14 02:44 AM
14

What is that? A perfectly normal and functional relationship, where she realized she was being irrational/rude and crossed a boundary - then apologized for her wrongdoing? What did you expect it to be?
/r/askTRP05/06/14 02:06 AM
1

However, when you have these certain people spouting canned phrases in places like r/asktrp constantly - then it becomes an issue. If you're in r/asktrp asking for advice on a somewhat complex personal issue - then canned phrases don't necessarily demonstrate why that particular slice of advice is applicable. Maybe that's just my take on it though.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:04 AM
1

More specifically it refers to the person whom, usually lacking self-confidence and is chronically insecure, will attempt to overcompensate in awkwardly visible ways to gain attention and status. It's essentially attention whoring for the purpose of seeking validation from a chosen group - "trying too hard to fit in".
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:00 AM
1

?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:42 PM
8

That's a really good spot, I did not even notice that.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:36 PM
4

Be yourself and happy with who you are but try to improve yourself "you're fine, but you could always be more fine". Fucking lol.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:33 PM
1

Other than stuff like: http://www.rooshv.com/42-things-wrong-with-american-women http://www.rooshv.com/8-things-american-women-must-do-to-make-themselves-more-attractive-for-men Not a lot that I know of. His writing tends to be geared towards men, mostly - as I'm sure you've noticed.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 04:01 PM
5

aaaaaaaaaaaaand nailed it in 1.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 03:52 PM
1

Thinking that communication in a relationship will consist of only verbal means is incredibly short-sighted. Verbal communication is paramount, but only if treated like text game - action and results-oriented. If she doesn't know what you're doing in terms of actual problems, she WILL doubt your capacity to lead in an effective way and will likely invent more problems by trying to intervene in a way she thinks best (and depending on the situation, often isn't).
/r/askTRP02/06/14 03:48 PM
3

I know you should watch what a woman does and not what they say. Is this the perfect example of that? Yes.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 06:34 AM
1

The first half constitutes one of my best canned responses to half of the stuff they talk about.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 02:37 AM
2

To add onto that, saying how you felt was fine - but you must frame the circumstances to be such that there is no room for misinterpretation. They are supportive to a point, but I would guess there's also some residual guilt on their end that you hadn't picked up on. Lesson learned, you know what to avoid next time. If it comes up again, apologize for any thoughtless tone you may have injected when explaining yourself (note: "I apologize" not "I'm sorry" is the only acceptable method here) and t…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 02:35 AM
3

and when I tried to talk to them about bettering myself and becoming a better man they freaked out and told me I was insulting their parenting job. Mom proceeded to cry all night. Your mother is emotionally manipulative and controlling. However, you also fucked up by talking to them about it in terms of "i wasn't good enough, now i'm becoming better (subtext she sees: because you fucked up in raising me)". Irrespective of how true that may or may not be, it is poor form to say that to the people…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 02:19 AM
1

Her decisions are ultimately her decisions.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 10:34 AM
1

You reek of sexual insecurity just from this very post. Given what little you've given of your situation, they most likely don't see you as a sexual entity and thus don't treat you like a potential partner.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 08:34 AM
4

She cheated on you, and the tears are those of guilt. Your gutcheck was correct, and she's now trickle-truth'ing you.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 08:31 AM
5

Why is TRP so anti-abortion? What?
/r/askTRP01/06/14 08:30 AM
2

Given that you're in Australia, I can offer you some slightly more local advice. He's absolutely correct in terms of your motivation. However, you can finish your HSC at TAFE, so if location is an issue - then that is easily worked around. BUT If you were to take that option, then you would need to be putting yourself into another path 100% (trade/apprenticeship etc.) Without a HSC, you will be pushing shit uphill if you want to be anything other than a basic grunt after doing your 5 years servi…
/r/askTRP01/06/14 08:26 AM
2

Honestly, I get fucking railed off some nice cocktails or a scotch and it opens doors for me. I become completely outcome independent and it takes my mind completely off whatever reason I had for destressing when drunk, which has an immediate and positive effect on my body language.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 08:10 AM
1

The positive parts are why it's invaluable that you stand apart from that. Having a casual part-time job (something along the lines of 1-2 shifts a week, not 20 hours) also gives you something concrete within the week to base yourself around that isn't study - and it will start to fuck you mentally and socially if you're doing the asian study thing without external events. Medicine is hard on a person (grew up around that asian community mentality of study>*, but wasn't a part of it), and having…
/r/askTRP01/06/14 08:03 AM
3

No different, but simply avoid certain topics that they are personally sensitive on - agree and amplify on rape culture topics tends to end poorly.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 07:49 AM
3

I'm pretty sure if you injure yourself and then keep doing that same action expecting a different result...that makes you a dumbass.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 06:12 AM
1

However, it would also be hard to completely cut these things out of my life. Yeah, self-improvement is hard when you're in a comfortable position. More at 11.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 12:08 PM
1

How cute.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 11:58 AM
3

It would if this guy had the stones to kick you out, like he rightly should.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 06:26 AM
1

I don't fucking see how getting her god damn input on what diner we go to is being a doormat. I don't see anywhere where RP theory says that taking guidance from the first mate of a relationship makes you a doormat. We just started talking again like a week ago. I'm supposed to "be a man" and tell her to stop riding the carousel? I don't see anywhere where I or RP theory tells you you need to tell this girl anything. That's your own projection there. Shit, I know I'm not marrying this girl. If a…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 03:26 PM
2

So far I've observed denial, oneitis, and the cognitive dissonance between the advice of "just be yourself" and the effects. I don't think you like who you are at all. I think you like the romanticized version of who you think you are, but the rock hits the hard place when you do what every single male does and you start search for qualitative reasons why they don't match up. She would prefer a beta because she would like to ride as many strange dicks as possible while she still can (living life…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 01:07 PM
1

If you're truly 100% happy with yourself (nobody is, this is shit - the moment you're satisfied with life is when you have no goals), and are in a stable fulfilling relationship where your woman is attracted to you and that is your goal with relationships - then you have no need of the advice here. But if this was the case, then why bother making a thread here and attempting to defend yourself? Why not just laugh it off like the rest of society's "losers" who are also perfectly content with wher…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 12:44 PM
1

So why aren't you being that alpha then? If you want women, be what women want.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 12:27 PM
1

I mean, there's two options right? Get good at faking being an alpha and destroying young women, pretend to be something I'm not? Someone didn't quite understand the sidebar material.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 11:36 AM
1

That's probably the most perfect way to describe it haha!
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 05:22 AM
1

Where?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:46 PM
11

to only ever work bare minimum wage jobs at best with no other contribution to society Reading is hard, yeah? I have zero issues with people who use their degree to actually springboard into a career that's worthwhile, like I have (and evidently you have as well). That's the sort of person higher education should be aiming to encourage, not people who subsist.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:14 PM
1

More likely it's because of fear of inciting their community. $10 he "accidentally tripped" over a curb and suffered some serious damage later on down the track.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:06 PM
3

I could point to a multitude of stupid laws in the U.S. that fall under the same rule that this one does. It isn't enforced with the prejudice you might think.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:03 PM
17

It's based on the fact that I live here and witness first-hand a swathe of dropkicks doing liberal arts and women's studies degrees - all the while protesting outside my place of employment and getting curbstomped by riot police when a bunch of them decide to start vandalizing property nearby. Before you ask, my politicalcompass.org test places me squarely on point with the Greens and I find the extreme left's sense of entitlement to higher education while sitting on Youth Allowance/Newstart to …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 03:51 PM
2

Some of the eastern countries, especially far east, have some of the finest and most unspoiled women. How high does the pedestal go?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:57 PM
3

This is an important distinction to make, and I think a lot of people who have no experience with children (and a lot who do, but have ideologues which conflict with this) don't really understand this.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:51 PM
3

Given that it's the SBS website and not the TV station - she'd be lucky to even have an editor, let alone one interested enough in her article to actually correct anything. All attention is good attention in media for them.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:24 PM
2

Well, it IS listed under "comedy".
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:46 AM
9

Honestly, it really depends on where you are. Melbourne is the worst for it, due to a culture of entitlement to higher education while on welfare being most prevalent there.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:36 AM
1

Either have 'the talk', or just stop having sex with her. You won't though, since you're getting exactly what you want out of it and feel guilty because you know you're leading her on with how you're acting towards her.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 11:21 AM
1

1st is a useless question. She knows the answer to this, and is not worth the time to respond. 2nd is a statement of intent that she's knowingly doing something that you disapprove of. 3rd is a classic shit-test (agree and amplify works best). 4th is a combination of the 1st and 2nd.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 10:01 AM
1

Only if they don't like it.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 09:28 AM
1

I would also nix any dude that thought it would be ok to make sexual comments about my mother or sisters in my presence. In saying that, I also hold myself to that same standard - I might think it, but it doesn't need to be said.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 09:26 AM
1

A pretty good reference to that elliott rodgers kid.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 09:23 AM
0

I do have profound social skills, but only once I get to know somebody really well. Doesn't work like that. Anyone can be "good" at holding a conversation when they have pre-established rapport. Being good socially involves opening and maintaining social relationships when there is nothing existing to lean on. EDIT: I smoke weed all the time, in fact smoking made me realize why I always feel awkward; because of me being sheltered. Yeahhhhhhhhhh, you have bigger issues than being sheltered.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 09:16 AM
6

No. You may offer advice, but if he's not in a position to be receptive - it's a waste of your effort. Your friend needs to set boundaries.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 08:43 AM
2

Why did my GF break up with me I haven't been cheating on her One of these things is not like the other...
/r/askTRP28/05/14 08:41 AM
1

Shit could, and will, go very very horribly irredeemably wrong if you shackle yourself emotionally to a crippled human being. DONT DO IT, ITS A TRAP.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 11:01 AM
4

Less caring about invisible internet points please. Not everyone who downvotes you is a supporter of this sub.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 10:03 AM
2

Go to a guy with clinical depression and tell him to be motherfucking happy. See how it works. But but, this exception to a generalization exists!
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 02:53 AM
2

Clearly?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 02:46 AM
1

Link them anyway. I'd love to see it.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 05:43 PM
1

No more concerned than before.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 05:14 PM
1

I mustn't have put it in the op, but she has spoken up. You are correct, I wrongly assumed there had been no words spoken about the matter since it wasn't explicitly mentioned. More like he starts fixing her shit for free, then continues to listen to her moan and complain about her life, and thenn slowly invests more of his emotions into her than he does his gf. He's a weak man, emotionally fragile. If I thought this arrangement was mutually beneficial I'd keep my mouth shut, but I think he's fa…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 12:35 PM
1

Care to back that statement up? I tried to give you all the relevant details and was afraid that my 5 paragraphs would be a bit much. Your mother being dead is a supremely relevant detail. How on earth is it not? Again, can you back that statement up? It has everything to do with my dad. His gf is uneasy about him spending so much time with the neighbour, but dismisses it. If your dad's gf doesn't see enough of an issue to say something about it, then that speaks volumes. Instead of prioritising…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 12:08 PM
2

That's because being 'interested' in someone isn't clear as to what exactly it means. Every single man in an LTR doesn't just magically lose the ability to appreciate a decent set of tits and ass when it walks past. The difference is whether you're actively chasing it or not. If you are or want to do so to the detriment of your agreed monogamous relationship, then you should not be in an LTR.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 11:26 AM
1

Are we going to define 'interested' as attracted to, or actively pursuing? Because one is definitely incorrect.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 11:24 AM
2

I want to tap dat, but I don't want to be her "friend" for a couple of months just so she can make up her mind. It feels like she would have done it if she would have wanted it. This right here is your gut instinct, and it is rarely wrong. In this case, it is 100% correct because: We have been dating since january but we never made out or anything in the beginning because she was even less experienced than me and said she had bad experience with one guy. I knew that she wasn't that into me but d…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 11:20 AM
7

You don't have any grasp of social cues, and they aren't actually shy. Go and do whatever, but do something - then learn from it.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 10:46 AM
7

You've made beginner gains and are expecting expert returns. Back to work with you, you've got a long way to go.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 10:43 AM
3

This is succinct and to the point. You don't have a girlfriend right now, you have a housemate friendship that you're bound to honour with not fucking around. Either bring it up with her, or end it.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 10:39 AM
3

You won't get closure. She will never give you the satisfaction.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 10:37 AM
-1

Where's your mother during all of this? This is all very disconnected because you're not telling us the whole story. The issue here isn't her making you all food. The issue here is that you feel like she's potentially setting herself up to be the matriarch of the house, and you don't want that - for whatever reason you've rationalized up. This isn't about your dad at all, and until you can conclusively prove otherwise - I'd suggest a long period of introspection before acting like a child about …
/r/askTRP25/05/14 10:36 AM
3

whoosh
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 09:54 AM
61

A woman receiving all the validation and attention she can in such a small timeframe inflates her ego to unknowable levels? It's the weirdest thing. No. It really isn't.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 09:18 AM
2

A lot of the time it's simply the difference of "would you like fries and a drink with that" repeated out over a long period of time.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 01:19 AM
1

Since apparently it's cool to link fallacies, here's yours: https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/strawman
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 12:09 AM
2

Apparently the Kindle version has been redone, iirc.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 05:03 PM
-7

And yet you proudly point to those battle scars on your imaginary points list like it somehow means something.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 10:27 AM
-3

You're no martyr.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 10:00 AM
7

What's your take on women who want and desire poly relationships then?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 05:06 PM
2

it happens because he takes responsibility and rises to the occasion and stuff. Then emulate that in ways you're comfortable in doing. I have some health issues which put me in not-so-alpha positions sometimes, and I've been hiding my anxiety attacks and depression from people here. Then you need to get that shit sorted, whether through personal mindset/lifestyle changes/medication. This sounds like an excuse, and the "practice at holding frame" shit you're doing is to try and cover it up, rathe…
/r/askTRP20/05/14 11:06 AM
1

If she was seriously hitting him, you should have intervened in right that second. And keep your frame when you intervene. this
/r/askTRP20/05/14 07:03 AM
1

I haven't even read the book in question, nor have any interest in doing so. You do realize that accusing me of the same fallacy that I'm calling you out on doesn't actually do anything but confirm you're a concern troll - right? Cmon, you gotta do better than that.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 07:00 AM
1

It's perfectly possible. You're just aiming for a slightly different mix of behaviour than those looking for lots of casual flings. Be aware of your rights, and lack of them in different situations (marriage, common law) - and plan accordingly to minimize risk and potential fallout damage.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 12:02 PM
1

Setting boundaries is important - with all relationships, not just sexual ones. Telling people that they'll get better results if they try another avenue that isn't unreasonable is perfectly fine. My friends know not to call me while I'm sleeping and expect me to remember anything they've said in 30min. I WILL just roll over and go back to sleep, and forget anything they've said. Instead, they text me and wait for a response - in order to facilitate that, I always read any and all texts I get wh…
/r/askTRP19/05/14 11:48 AM
1

I disagree with the example, but the principle is sound. She wants quality time - if she's getting it, then you need to set proper boundaries.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 11:43 AM
1

Yep. Not everything small or interesting needs to cost money. Good luck with it.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 11:39 AM
3

AND PLEASE DONT quote stuff from books like The Red Queen. I have read them and neither the author nor the substance implies what you guys extrapolate from it. Concern trolling, ignore.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 11:36 AM
1

Who are you? What do you do for fun? What do you do for work? What do you find interesting? You have an identity crisis, because you based most of your entire worth on her approval and love - and now have had the carpet ripped out from underneath you. Now it's time to change that. Make a list of things you want to do that you never usually would do, or want to experience. Include about 2 small things for every 1 big thing. Do one of the small things every single day - hence your small things mus…
/r/askTRP19/05/14 11:06 AM
2

Should I let her know why I'm ignoring her? Defeats the purpose, and makes you petty. You're ignoring her because you have no time for her shitty actions - reinforced by when she does something badly, you withdraw.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 10:50 AM
1

I agree i was beta as fuck and i should man the fuck up This is not what I said at all. i didn't mean how to talk to girls, i meant how to you know, get in there Do you mean how to get them to have sex with you? Say what you mean, don't mince words. I obviously know how to communicate with people, and i kind of have to know i mean i am a Music Producer/Dj You very clearly don't, given: your complete unawareness of the other critical part of communication. highly feminized language you're operati…
/r/askTRP19/05/14 03:34 AM
9

Ask one to go to the prom with you. What the fuck kind of question is this?
/r/askTRP18/05/14 02:31 PM
1

Air Force is stable at least, if you're driven enough to make the most of it. You're graduating high school - you're in no position to understand the seriousness of an actual LTR with a woman with no clear direction in life.
/r/askTRP18/05/14 12:13 PM
1

How should i go about talking to these girls without knowing them in real life first without being a total creep, and how do i talk to girls in general? "Hi." That's usually how humans communicate - by talking to people. You're not "sort of new", you're completely new and looking for some kind of miracle to cure the fact that you're socially awkward and hopelessly passive. Why have you not attempted to talk to this girl outside of the comfort zone of your computer more than once? Because you're …
/r/askTRP18/05/14 12:10 PM
2

Dead bedrooms exist for a reason. It is time to make your intentions clear (rather than the 'covert contract' you have been labouring under to try and reignite the spark in your relationship) and force a confrontation.
/r/askTRP18/05/14 11:57 AM
29

Your failure is because you aren't even trying. You aren't taking a shot. You are standing at the three point line with the basketball in your hands thinking about how you really don't wanna miss. But you could have taken 100 shots in the last hour and even if you'd made one of them you'd be further than you are right now. <insert Wayne Gretzky quote here> The more you second-guess yourself, the more you'll drain any sort of resolve to ever do anything.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 03:15 AM
2

Nothing would really intimidate me about a woman per se. The only thing I can think that means is that you're really really unapproachable - probably because you have your bitch shield on full blast 100% of the time.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 03:29 PM
1

I think so. Writing stuff down or telling someone - rather than just skimming it and thinking 'yeah, I probably have issues there' helps actualize the problem into something I can evaluate, rather than being a nebulous thought to hamster away.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 02:28 AM
2

So above it you just keep posting. That was the quickest bitchout I've ever seen from a broke 30+ year old man who discovered his first dopamine rush from arguing on the internet. Back to playing video games and failing at shitkicker jobs you go!
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 02:30 PM
1

Address, kthx.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 12:41 PM
1

Halfway through the book, I've done most of them that were convenient to where I was at the time (either at work reading it on my phone in between doing things, or in bed). Funnily enough, the first time I read it the only thing I had to write on was a gigantic whiteboard marker and the back of an invoice for something I bought the other day. I laugh a little whenever I see it.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 09:30 AM
4

I've seen that picture before, it's definitely a satire.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 09:20 AM
2

More like you're a narcissistic asshole who refuses to take responsibility for the effects of your own actions so you rationalize it away under "having a disorder" and "oh, but I didn't really want that anyway". You're the quintessential loser, destined for mediocrity.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 09:09 AM
2

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmnope
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 09:02 AM
2

I post there occasionally, and while yes you get those usual fuckwits that kinda expect someone else to solve their problems for them - you do get a lot of people who genuinely just missed something (simple or complex) and need a bit of applied theory to help with their current situation. An example There's nothing wrong in asking for advice and we should encourage that - but don't expect other people to solve your problems for you.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 08:57 AM
3

So there's a very clear point here that you should probably trade up asap, ya know?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 08:41 AM
2

Exactly. Being perceived as 'clingy' is something separate (likely due to perceived dependence by her, about yourself and her). Obviously, there's a point where you know that "doing what you want to do" isn't in your best interests (such as hanging out with a certain chick more often than you should) - but doing what you actually want to do for your own best interests is your first step forward here. Good luck.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 05:51 AM
2

This is good advice.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 06:49 PM
1

You take orders every day from either clients or bosses, whether you realize it or not. Having someone give you non-negotiable instructions isn't BP in the slightest - that's called having a job. You sound really unemployed or teenager with that outlook on life.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 06:47 PM
1

You're overthinking everything, that's what. There's a point where you start controlling your actions - but then eventually you reach a point where you go "I'm going to do x" rather than "Should I do x to give off the impression of y?" Caring about your personal presentation isn't inherently a bad thing. Much like AWALT, "not giving a fuck" is aimed at redefining your default position towards things in life - that you are not necessarily doing yourself any favours by giving people the benefit of…
/r/askTRP12/05/14 01:02 PM
2

I can be angry, but I don't make decisions based on what I'm feeling at the time. If I can't see past my emotions, I can wait until I have calmed down and can think more rationally. Bottling your emotions is just as bad (yet opposite) to being ruled by their whims (like women). It's healthy to feel anger, sadness, and the entire gamut of human emotion. It's not healthy to make rash decisions based on them.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 12:17 PM
0

It's ok, he's going his own way.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 11:58 AM
1

It means an argument about evolution should be evaluated on its own merits, not on whether it came from a scientist or Hitler.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 11:50 AM
7

Speak for yourself. Military life teaches discipline because it is required of you to be able to take orders in high-stress situations without losing your nerve or compromising the safety of other people through needless hesitation. The rest of your post is so wildly inaccurate that it's a headache for me to really address; like this: TRP teaches independence, the military teaches subordination. Context is severely important. Try not to project your own personal opinions about your dissatisfacti…
/r/askTRP12/05/14 11:40 AM
2

You can essentially think of FWB's as plates you spend extended amounts of time with outside of your normal routine (because you like spending time with them, rather than a means to an sticky end).
/r/askTRP10/05/14 04:15 AM
3

You're neither. You're insecure or ignorant of how things work.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 04:12 AM
2

Why the fuck does it matter? If you're not grown up enough to be able to recognize good advice or bad advice, then you have another issue that is much more pressing: you don't understand the subject matter. TRP is an amalgamation of a lot of different perspectives and viewpoints, with regards to finding the shared ground between them - you're not going to get one-size-fits-all answers.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 04:11 AM
18

Because it's about power, not about commitment.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:38 PM
5

Scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 09:43 AM
4

Welp, lesson learned.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:03 PM
0

Did you just whiteknight for a dude? Damn, that's a new low.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:58 PM
27

You restart your social life the exact same way that a fat neckbeard or loser restarts his social life after isolation. Get some hobbies, put yourself out there and be interesting. This comic I feel hits the mark on the basic principle (different situation, underlying message is the same): http://www.thefrumps.com/comic/2014/04/30/nice-guys
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:39 PM
1

No, most of us who have made adulthood and don't give a fuck about people's sexual preferences couldn't give two shits.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 09:19 AM
1

It's been overblown to death as the "mancave", but you can create your own in a pinch wherever you go. Just be alone. There are two types of alone; physical (nobody around) and social (nobody you know around). I prefer the 2nd, but you'll work out your preferences. You can also zone out completely from the world around you, but that comes with other problems, and you might find it hard to do so in the heat of the moment. I generally tend to just sit down doing something mindless (eating, coffee,…
/r/askTRP03/05/14 07:10 AM
3

whooooooooooooooooosh
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 06:35 AM
3

Sounds like you need to join me in reading No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP03/05/14 04:44 AM
11

It's really sad that I recognize all the clips you're talking about - and I've never even watched the show.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 04:08 AM
1

So you need an Approved Holder Of The Truth And Justice In All Things Right™, in order to recognize that you have cognitive dissonance and only they hold the keys to your Blessed Enlightenment Of The Truth Of The World™? Enjoy mediocrity, sheep.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 03:27 AM
1

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 02:44 AM
1

And you still don't see why that's bad on your part, and not theirs?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 01:23 AM
1

You had plenty of answers, just not the ones you wanted to hear.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 01:00 AM
1

https://7chan.org/lit/src/Robert_Glover_-_No_More_Mr_Nice_Guy.pdf Read it.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 04:22 PM
1

All in the frames. Picking a pair that suit your face shape will do you the world of good, rather than picking up some cheap nasty discount things. Be prepared to shop around and splash out, and take care of them.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 04:10 PM
1

This will be my TIL, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:03 PM
1

If there's no real definitive alpha role taken on by either party, then it invariably falls the way of a hetero relationship where the male is expected to take the initiative - however fails to do so when needed. Loss of attraction occurs from there (since nobody is taking the initiative to make decisions) and eventually the relationship dissolves as each partner is submissive, yet demands dominance. In my personal experience, real 'switches' are rare and only within the framework of the bedroom…
/r/askTRP01/05/14 05:53 AM
1

Ego check, kthx.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:41 AM
2

Do you jump into a scalding hot bath, or slowly and gingerly put one foot in at a time and let yourself acclimatize to the heated temperature? She's only been in a 4 month "non-serious" relationship with a friend of hers that lives in another state far away. This is the key line here. She's testing new waters. Mild escalation is what I'd recommend here - too much too quickly and she'll rationalize to herself that the scared vibe she gets means you aren't right for her. Also, she's looking for an…
/r/askTRP29/04/14 04:13 PM
1

It's not all doom and gloom - if you're looking for LTR material, they are it. But trying to plate super religious girls is like trying to make a BP neckbeard dark triad overnight. There's no magic trick to make the impossible possible.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 04:02 PM
1

There are two types: those willing to break conventions for the Disney dream they have hamstered up in their head, and those who aren't. Those who aren't - are not worth your time in any kind of sense perceived as short-term. These are the ones who play long-term with very few IOI's, and you will need some serious DHV as well as social proof to get anywhere near anything with them. Those who are - also require some serious DHV and social proof, but are much easier to bring out of their shell. Su…
/r/askTRP29/04/14 04:51 AM
2

There's always a dominant and submissive partner in a relationship. Adjust strategy accordingly.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 03:19 AM
14

I would hate to have been living a lie all this time. Pretty sure this isn't about you at all.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 03:14 AM
2

My social skills arent THAT bad with co workers and women at my work. I can notice the bitchy ones vs the nice friendly ones. But that's not the context we're talking here. We're talking about distinguishing 'woman being nice to you' vs 'woman making a pass at you'. But this one there is kind of that gut feeling. This is not the gut feeling of intuition I am talking about. This is your subconscious trying to rationalize something that you want being there when it is not. Women are very good at t…
/r/askTRP28/04/14 04:29 PM
3

but for some reason, I keep coming back Scarcity mentality right here. This is why you keep coming back. Does it ever get better? Nope, you can't change people who can't or won't change themselves. Sorry.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 08:38 AM
1

Nobody's offended here. I'm just not bothering to couch my advice to you in flowery terms. I want you to really look at what you just posted here, take yourself out of the situation and examine it from an outside perspective: this lady came and dropped some stuff off Nothing much, she came back the next day...Now shes sticking in my mind Next day...I just walked over to see if she'd notice me now im crying I said oh you dont wanna see me?? now my minds going crazyy, Wondering if I should have ga…
/r/askTRP28/04/14 08:26 AM
1

Find out what love language she's most receptive to (physical touch, acts of service, words of affirmation, gift-giving, quality time) and plan something accordingly.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 02:21 AM
2

I know its a childish question but I dont know why she wont leave my mind, everyday when she comes its like yay!! Standard one-itis. You've put this girl on a pedestal, and she knows it. Sorry to say it, but it's time to get some self-respect.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 02:18 AM
13

Don't look at them in the first place; eyes on the prize (where you're going). The idea behind not breaking eye contact is not be apologetic or supplicating to what other people might think of you if they catch you staring. The only person that eyeballs every single person they meet on the street is the person looking for a fight.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 02:14 AM
10

Dread game is the simple application of "not giving a fuck". You are your own person, with your own shit going on. You do not need her, and if she wants back in on the gravy train - she needs to pony up much more of the effort.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 02:09 AM
1

Having visual contact with minor chatter != quality time. Plate maintenance, from my experiences, involves more initial quality time to get them hooked. Admittedly, it's harder for you since you don't really have an excuse to avoid seeing her.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 01:55 AM
5

Fuck 5 weeks and only 1 date. That's just shit. She wants more of your time. You're also not being entirely honest and forthright about circumstances with us (there's clearly a lot more to this than what you've said). Personally, I would ditch you as well if 5 weeks went by and you could only ever see me once.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 06:00 PM
13

If she doesn't come to the table, she gets the scraps. It's how the room negotiation works.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 01:51 PM
3

You're looking for logic on a site that was relevant to 15-year olds 10 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:48 PM
3

Don't use excuses when you're out of your comfort zone. Women have no empathy or sympathy for men under duress.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 10:27 AM
23

Because they don't want sex with every man, they want sex with the best man.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 07:16 PM
4

Exactly. This is cherrypicking at its best.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 07:05 PM
0

That awkward moment when I'm* the 3rd-highest in that thread.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 05:37 PM
47

What I lack socially I make up for with substance. Nope. Different qualities, and cannot be weighed against each other equally. You can't substitute a lack of flour in a cake with more egg. This is a rationalization to deflect away from an obvious lacking area that you know is there, but don't want to address directly as a serious flaw with yourself. I'll give you an example: when was the last time you unconsciously held someone's gaze who you weren't involved with socially until they broke eye …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 05:16 AM
3

There's the difference. Mild "depression" is merely sadness that you've post-rationalized into inaction. Try the heavier stuff where not only can you not foster the thought or energy for self-improvement - but you cannot muster the energy or emotion for anything other than a great sigh about the gigantic grey hell you live in. Try waking up every day and holding a knife against your skin every morning and not being able to feel any kind of emotion about ending your life - positive or negative. T…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 11:06 PM
3

Like that term called "shell shock"?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 09:09 AM
1

Don't think it went to waste. I got something out of it, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 10:56 AM
-1

TRP itself does not care. This is already known By you. There are potentially 46,183 other people who don't. If it bothers you so much, don't open the thread.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 10:21 AM
1

Some kids might be innately cunts, but it is a parent's responsibility to ensure discipline for their kids so they learn a healthy respect for boundaries. Honestly, raising kids requires a very similar parallel to controlling your frame. Parents with weak frame, and no ability to enforce discipline or boundaries (read: say no and follow through) with their kids inevitably have them run roughshod over everyone they can. Until a child shows the ability to reason their circumstances and explain thi…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 06:36 AM
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It's not a repost here, but there was an exact copy of the same situation in a talesfromtechsupport thread a month or two ago. On my phone, else I'd have a search. Either way, it's just bait for your 'righteous' indignation to flare up and breed resentment. Pull what resolve you can from it and move on.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:38 PM
4

This is a complete repost, and right now - it's just bait for the more gullible of you to salivate over.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 12:55 PM
14

This is the only answer that needs to be said. If they are constantly treating you poorly, it is because you allow them to do so with no repercussions. They do not respect you. Examine why.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 02:26 PM
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Do you WANT to change? Do you WANT to not feel like you're pathetic and undeserving of her attention? Your first step is to read the sidebar, specifically what one-itis is and why you should be taking steps to avoid it for your own good.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 04:31 AM
1

The most important principle I've learned through TRP and these proxy fathers is that success isn't the opposite of failure, it's the opposite of inaction. I'm determined to succeed, and You accidentally a word. Proxy fathers threw me off for a bit, but then I realized you're basically referring to male role models. As someone raised in a single mother household with no strong positive male role models around daily, it also took me a long while before I started looking to other men to provide ex…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 04:12 AM
8

I agree with #10. As their father, you are not babysitting by any stretch of the definition - you are being a parent.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 12:37 AM
7

Why do you continue to wake up every morning? Nobody else can give you that reason but you.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 12:31 AM
0

Clearly the Patriarchy is responsible for the suppression of the superior female gene. Pitchforks and torches at the ready to defend m'lady from the misogyny gene! tips fedora
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 04:29 PM
8

You said it yourself. It's a university hotbed and (rad)feminist activities get funded.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 10:58 AM
2

They are in LTRs because they believe it offers the most steady access to sex; they view the above drawbacks as "necessary economic expenses". Key word bolded, since you missed it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 10:47 AM
13

Boredom is cured by doing fun things. I personally would send exactly what I wrote before and then apply the freeze out unless she gives you something concrete to work with. No use in pretending like your seconds of every day are so precious that you don't waste them on things like some girl messaging you - unlike some people here. Contrary to popular opinion, if you freeze her out completely and then have to see her socially again - you're actually more likely to give her hamster something to c…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 10:39 AM
39

If you're into stirring the pot, you can always text her something along the lines of "Well, if you were more fun to be around..." She'll likely just rationalize it away, but there's a small chance she might buck the trend and make more of an effort. Depends on the relationship dynamics of your shared friends though.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 08:38 AM
3

There's a lot of anger, a hell of a lot of it. Women and many high smv men do not understand or respect this anger and seek to condemn it because it offends them, they do not like how it makes them feel and this is why they condemn it, this is selfish and overlooks the cause of the problem, which is a dysfunctional society, neurotic single mothers raising sons without fathers, the rampant poverty that causes, the lack of male role models etc etc. The anger is not random or irrational, it is a re…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 04:29 AM
2

The mindset is "They don't matter." Repeat it to yourself. Act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 10:53 AM
7

Consider as well that a lot of adolescents and university-age students are indulging more and more in online gaming, and the socially disaffected among them especially use this as their primary form of social interaction over having friends and relationships in person. This also means that it is a lot easier for them to rub one out of a night to some porn than make the effort to attract someone by putting yourself out there.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:57 AM
1

"Red Pill is feminism!" hahahahahahahahahaha
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:01 AM
3

I don't get this attitude. We regularly tout Bill Burr as someone who embodies RP principles on this sub - and he's more than aware of the potential pitfalls of marriage. If he wants to do it, then good on him - because I think it's safe to say with his judgment and experience with life, that he would cotton on pretty quickly whether or not he's getting the raw end of the deal. We don't need to project our displeasure with the idea of marriage onto people that do choose to go for it - we only ne…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 07:40 AM
1

Aaaaaaaaand I accidentally did this with the last girl I dated for a while. I rated my housemate as a 6/10 (composite rating of personality and looks) who looks nice - and then the girl I'm dating asks me straight out if she rates the same as her. I mumble "yes" due to being preoccupied with scooping some ramen out of my bowl and followed up with "I find you attractive, absolutely!" Shit hit the fan real quick, and her friends never let her forget it once even after explaining it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 10:29 AM
2

Relates perfectly. You're saying that /r/mensrights attracts all of the angry whiners. /u/alcockell identifies that they are all going through stage 2 of the grieving process: anger. Anger is blind. And they have a lot of it. Hell, I was once one of them before I heard of TRP. I actually considered doing some IRL activism for the cause when I actually sat down and thought about wth I could do - and WHY I was doing it. A bit of soul-searching for the next month or so (and a link from another foru…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 02:00 AM
3

~#teamswiperight gets you more than 2 matches.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:57 AM
2

I think we have a fundamental misunderstanding on what "teaching" actually entails. I'm not advocating dumbing down the message or the harsh experiences that go with realization of it - only the unnecessary crap that really only serves to detract from actually getting there. You don't need to be stabbed to figure out why gang violence is bad, likewise you don't need to be rejected countless times by women before you finally wise up that your issues lie with yourself when attracting women. I thin…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:43 AM
1

"I suffered, therefore everyone else who comes after us should suffer"
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:03 AM
3

Take note how almost none of that has anything to do with her. Realistically, it doesn't matter whether you're in a relationship or not. In fact, it would actually be better if you weren't, so you don't use it as a crutch to puss out at the first sign of positive reinforcement to the improvement to yourself. http://www.reddit.com/r/becomeaman/
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 03:29 PM
2

They seek outrage, I suspect, just so that they can either a) actually feel something in their otherwise dull and uneventful lives Also known as drama queens! Spot on analysis.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 09:27 AM
1

She's a beast.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 07:54 AM
3

Admittedly, I can't relate to that disinterest because I experienced a renewal of interest in things that better me and things that I like - whereas I feel a lot of people really only came to TRP because seddit/PUA (the seduction front without the core value behind it) can't properly transform someone into the man people desire or respect. 'Fake it until you make it' only works if you're actually progressing forward towards 'making it'. Every time I see a post like this, it just makes me think o…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:50 PM
1

If you're in Melbourne, you're looking in all the wrong places then.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:56 PM
-2

So you're switched from craving women's approval, to craving men's approval? What's the difference? The very fact that you made this post just confirms that you were looking for validation because you're riding a trend. MGTOW isn't "men going to only whine".
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:40 PM
5

Overanalyzing your solution only leads to hamstering one way or another to assuage your guilt about feeling attracted to someone who is genuinely into you. Contrary to what it seems like, men can hamster with the best of them too. Right now, you need to realize women are not born a good catch - they are made that way by someone. Let's be honest - if you could, you'd fuck every single woman you found attractive as often as you could and shamelessly if you thought there would never be any negative…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 09:02 AM
9

Sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 09:59 AM
1

That story just reads as a refutation of a really poorly-constructed strawman. Cracked is sensationalist clickbait by design. Of course this woman gets all bunched up about it because she's taking absurdity at face value. The best bit here is that there is a stickied link that explains this exact phenomenon right here in this very sub!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 09:50 AM
0

Well, yes.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 09:39 AM
1

Increasing confidence for the night only is as simple as doing an hour of research or brush up on the pertinent topic/activity at hand and then lying to yourself about it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 08:59 AM
3

Absolutely. I tend to make it an impromptu game of "guess what they'll do next" where we'll be at the bar or somewhere off to the side people-watching in between conversations. Watching what doesn't work for desperate women and drunk men in their respective approaches is some of the best comedy you'll ever see if you know what's happening and can explain it, even if you can't hear them. He has serious approach anxiety but functions very logically and rationally, in a sense that he needs to be ab…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 08:55 AM
4

Amen. I'm slowly introducing a friend of mine who has incredibly high SMV (6'7; decent looking and fit; plays basketball; earns 150k+/year) to the idea that women aren't exactly the unicorns he's ever wanted them to be. The most critical component of this is actually going out and observing pickup in different environments with him, and then giving a running commentary of it so he can make those associations himself. Which is point #1 - the most important.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 08:02 AM
1

Not poor, money still can't buy happiness. It's a resource, and you can't buy friends with it - only leeches and hookers (who are simply another form of leech, only more business-oriented).
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 01:54 AM
1

My point is, I don't think you can make that kind of generalization because it's a lot easier to point to kids that are plugged in than ones that aren't.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 01:37 AM
4

Kids of rich or educated people are rarely plugged. That's why so many women from rich families walk around like the world owes them a favor because they exist and manage to win the genetic lottery of plopping out of the right vagina. See: Paris Hilton.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 03:59 PM
0

I know the woman at 0:45.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 03:44 PM
7

Yes. Most women dabble in faux-bisexuality as a way of conforming to a trend they see in society at large. Most of them don't stick with it as soon as any kind of decent man they feel is worth the effort shows interest.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 03:30 PM
3

I have no issue with the whole concept of MGTOW, but you sound like you're hamstering hard enough to put Dworkin to shame. If you didn't want or need his validation, you wouldn't bother responding to him endlessly.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 03:19 PM
1

I'd give you a thought-out analogy of someone not heeding well-intended advice because of a lack of foresight, but you can literally click on any number of subreddits and see the effects of that in action. Rationalization is a very powerful mental tool for humans, and it hinders us from making good decisions just as much as it helps us stay sane.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 01:47 AM
22

The Red Pill emphasizes not giving a fuck About things that are important. Your friends are important, a random pussy is not. Abundance mentality, there are plenty more just like her.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 04:46 PM
3

The correct choice is a consequence of meeting 2 prerequisites: right place, and right time. The moment he really searches for the answer - he'll find us.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 07:29 AM
1

It's more about being able to fit in other social activities around your non-negotiable commitments. The trap with video games is that it's a very easy outlet for social interaction with people, yet not in such a way that it requires you to go out of your way to do so. It's not the same as actually having friends to go out and do stuff with, but it's incredibly easy in terms of effort exerted.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 06:17 AM
1

No, I understood it completely. You're referring to supply and demand relationships of sex between men and women - which emcompasses FAR more than biological drive to have sex. Again, you don't get to discard the many and varied exceptions to your view because you're unwilling to see the bigger picture.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 05:49 AM
1

Did you want sex as much at 7yo as at 15yo? We are not arguing children, we are arguing full-grown adults and: That is not to say that is the only factor. So you KNOW your argument is bullshit because you willingly admit that there is more to it than just hormones, but still persist with it? Hypergamy ensures that women want sex just as much as men are biologically driven to - just not for the same reasons as men. Stop falling into the same trap as feminists do: we aren't inherently the same, th…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 11:25 PM
2

Naivety at its finest.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 07:01 AM
1

You really think women don't want sex as much as men?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:10 AM
2

Make friends. Be socially available while holding frame. Body language control for yourself is a must. If women can sense it, then you're giving off a vibe due to the way you present yourself.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:19 AM
2

You're awesome, I finally know where that soundbyte at the start of Benefit's Warp to World 6-9 rap came from.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 12:50 PM
2

Not giving a fuck. The fact that you state you're hung up on being perceived as 'unpopular' means you're too concerned about what people think of you. By the sounds of it, you're physically fit but lack actual friends for whatever reason. There's your point of self-improvement to work on: social proof.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 06:46 AM
4

Humans have a proclivity to want to believe in a false idol, even if people reject the ones set up for them by society.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 02:07 AM
21

You don't know she didn't fuck another guy. You don't know, and neither does he, what fully transpired there. As soon as his wife decided to trespass boundaries there, she stopped being worthy of his 'protection'. Quite frankly, he should have left her to the hyenas as a punitive lesson of what "consequences" are. Leave the shaming language at home - he is in no way obligated to "man up" and become her battering shield from poor decisions just because he's her husband. EDIT: and without making a…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:03 PM
3

Landfill. Where rubbish belongs.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 05:46 AM
14

It's amusing watching them squabble over wage gap fallacies, and then your wall of references just destroyed all of their noise.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 05:03 AM
1

Happiness is relative and subjective. If you wish to voluntarily labor under a delusional mindset, more power to you.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 07:37 AM
4

I think it's really easy to forget that while we accuse women of being slaves to hypergamy, that they are still human and able to rise above it if given the imperative to do so. Men can be (and sometimes are) slaves to their biological imperative of fucking every single woman in sight - but given the right imperative, can and will rise above that. I'd say it's easier for men to do so, but that does not mean that women cannot.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:17 AM
1

Swearing off women is an extreme overreaction to a moment of disappointment that the world does not function the way you hoped it would.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:16 AM
1

Way to miss the point of the sub.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:15 AM
2

I don't think any feminist is under any real delusion that they can't dangle the pussy out and attract beta men upon their whim.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:56 AM
72

The negative half of me looks at this story and thinks "she probably did this in order to try and trade up - hypergamy". The positive half of me then looks at this story and hopes that it isn't true. I need to get off the internet, it's starting to poison my thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:36 AM
3

If your shit was broadcast to the entire world in person, would you be embarassed by it or stand convicted and defend what you did? in a nutshell.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 05:45 AM
3

Powertalk.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 05:38 AM
1

It's just that your own kind are causing problems again whistles
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 05:15 AM
1

I don't belong to a religion per se, but I'd probably fit the stereotype of "religious" you're inquiring about. TRP sits alongside my beliefs well, since TRP is mostly about managing interpersonal relationships between yourself and the opposite gender. Goals may differ and some of the means for internalizing the core principles I would not personally do (spinning plates to rid yourself of the delusion of one-itis and holding women as no-fault beings), but the core principles are in harmony with …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:40 AM
40

The more women I sleep with, the less likely I am to get married.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 05:25 AM
1

Nerves exist when you think (see: fear) something could go wrong.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 04:55 AM
1

Have you had your opinion censored by an MRA?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 04:09 AM
1

Reminds me of this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_uRIMUBnvw
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 04:51 PM
2

You're not working with the full picture of what happened here (hell, nobody except him is). Body language as well as the smaller level interactions would play a key here.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 08:21 AM
5

Beta-mode, right? Who likes that? (Granted he benches 380 lbs and drives a motorcycle...) Translation: He has high SMV - you do not.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 06:09 AM
2

Why do you care? You're stringing together two awfully separated events right there, and it sounds like jealousy - especially if you're treating it as a foregone conclusion that he will rub it in your face. My suggestion would be to let it go, and if he does bring it up - just ignore it and change the subject gracefully to something else. If he persists, then you have your answer - and you have a platform to ask him why he feels the need to show off (aka you insecure, bro?)
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:56 AM
-1

I wouldn't say this is strictly true. A woman in touch with herself and her her own bullshit can give you a perspective to look into - which, given the right tools, you can process into advice to follow.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 07:34 AM
1

I needed to hear this tonight. I'm stopping by at a girl's place that I want to LTR, unplanned. Time to take a step out of my comfort zone.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 09:29 AM
4

Mostly because they're all off doing work in the mines for good money. Meanwhile, the ones left here in the eastern side are either corporate or retail chumps - or just serial university degree students. Despite that, Melbourne women are still ultra-picky for the most part.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 07:10 AM
2

Not at all strange, just amused you allude to it being a shackle or prison of sorts with your wording, when it is self-imposed.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 04:37 AM
1

Lessons learned: Keep it simple - every single time I've been on a first date that didn't involve something relatively low-value but verbally interactive - it has gone poorly. First dates are interviews on some level, whether you realize it or not.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 09:28 AM
1

liberated from social constructs of exchanging sex lol
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 08:47 AM
2

Good luck saving any money if you're earning that little. Cost of living differences.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 08:48 AM
10

And I live in Australia, come from a line of 2 generations of broken homes on both sides and don't have this. Congratulations, you're an outlier.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 08:32 AM
2

Should I still try to approach the Plain Janes at least? I've never done it before in my life and honestly think they're going to be fantasizing about more attractive guys if they consider anything with me. Is it still worth it until I become more attractive? YES. Right now, you probably have no idea of how to hold a conversation (not have, HOLD) with someone who isn't necessarily on the same page as you and being fed easy topics of conversation. Absolutely you should, and this will also cause y…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 09:07 AM
13

This is critical. A negative mindset will hurt you much more than the benefits of being harshly realistic about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 09:05 AM
1

I'd say this highly depends on the girl and what her background is. She could easily be willing to accept his fucking around because she's playing the long-term game, or that she doesn't feel like she wants to commit to a relationship for whatever reason (career, holding out for better options etc.)
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 08:48 AM
0

We fear the repercussions of a night gone wrong by other people's reactions to our actions. Sure, if me being a 6'1 tank of a male had no repercussions for actually defending myself verbally in a way that I felt was justified - then I'd do it. But you live in a fucking fantasy land if you think that there aren't an abundance of people willing to play the ever-willing white knight.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 08:39 AM
2

Anyone with half a quick thought in their head would just point out you're terrible in bed, thus ruining that element of "revenge".
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 08:24 AM
2

Depends on whether they can dress to flatter themselves or not. If they can't, THAT is the line.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 08:04 AM
1

I am going to watch this again tonight, just because I got reminded here.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 06:57 AM
5

He sounds like he's amusing himself because he is. He's very well aware of where his position is with her, and they dance the dance not only to amuse themselves (she does this for her own amusement as well, since she enjoys the affirmation of dating a man who doesn't bend over backwards for her) but to amuse you, the listener.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 06:08 AM
3

This is a pretty common phenomenon in Melbourne as well, especially amongst the large segments of socialist left uni students that populate areas like Fitzroy and Brunswick.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 05:43 AM
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