Just found this subreddit, still suffering withdrawals from my ex, should I take TRP?

11411181 · 2014-04-13T04:31:21+00:00

Do you WANT to change? Do you WANT to not feel like you're pathetic and undeserving of her attention?

Your first step is to read the sidebar, specifically what one-itis is and why you should be taking steps to avoid it for your own good.

newpopehere1 · 2014-04-13T07:21:43+00:00

Dont pursue her, cut all ties for the time being. Show you have moved on and dont be a sulky bitch.

You could work the jealousy game, and she'll come back 100%.

Oneitis is also biological, our brain releases all these strong neurotransmitters because our brain wants to establish a pair bond. You scumbag brain wants kids for the continuation of species. If people realize this they can get over oneitis. Otherwise it will pass in maybe 1 to 2 years. I sometimes fall into oneitis and have to catch myself. Best method is to stop stalking her. Im sure you're stalking her FB, Instagram, Twitter etc. right now.

Its hard but it takes mastery and time. I can see why this would be hard, because for amateurs its hard to spin plates. So youre brain thinks this might be the only pussy i'll ever get. You gotta have an abundance mindset.

frazzleddd · 2014-04-13T09:07:10+00:00

Read the sidebar dude. Decide yourself for fuck sake

Darvo1 · 2014-04-13T04:43:50+00:00

It's not our place to make life decisions for you.

Like /u/11411181 said, do you want to take the red pill? The sidebar is a good place to start if you're thinking about it.

In my opinion, TRP could definitely help you, but it's ultimately your choice.

Namerali · 2014-04-13T06:19:17+00:00

Read the links in the sidebar. Then read them again. And then, just for good measure, read them a third time.

If the information in those links doesn't answer your question, then post in /r/askTRP.

rporion · 2014-04-13T08:34:27+00:00

No!

You should not take it!

You will turn into a neckbeard loser who never gets laid and your dick will shrivel.

Also, you have to move into your Moms basement, it is mandatory...

Plus, all of that lifting and getting out of your comfort zone, I mean, really !?!

2014-04-13T13:57:21+00:00

Your 'feelings' are like a drug addiction. Withdrawel takes time. If you really want to better yourself you have to cut of all contact with her. I could sit here and write a list on why you need to do that but it would be irrelevant. Just don't communicate with her, delete her number from your phone.

frequentlywrong · 2014-04-13T14:10:57+00:00

The book of pook

http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/07/book-of-pook.html

Read it.

tigolbittiez · 2014-04-14T02:28:06+00:00

I like this post, because it's a call to everyone who reads TRP and agrees with it's philosophies, yet doesn't actually practice it.

Should you take TRP? Well, be sure you're ready for it. I'm echoing the chorus here, but you have to want to better yourself. You have to be ready to dedicate yourself to an entirely new way of life. That doesn't mean that tomorrow you'll be having sex with any women you want, but you'll be on your way to leading a life about you and only you.

You have oneitis. But it's not unconquerable. It's not the end of the world. The next week or so is gonna suck. But the idea of being here is that, once you move past this, you can take preventive steps to ensuring that it doesn't happen again.

Your first step should be assuming there is no chance of getting with her again. Ever. Don't tempt yourself with calling her back, or texting her one day in the near future pretending you're okay with being friends and you want her friendship or something.

Delete her number. Delete all your social media relations with her. You don't need them anymore. If she tried to come back with you can be friends or you might get back together... Just don't hear it. Ignore her. Move on. It's going to be hard due to how you treated her and your relationship before. But like I said, the idea of self-improvement like with TRP, is bettering yourself. You want to be at a place where something like this isn't crippling to the point of depression or seeking online guidance. You have to be able to take care of yourself.

All this in mind, if you agree with what I and others have said, if you agree with the way of life that is the Red Pill, you're ready to take it. Welcome to TRP.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-04-14T03:01:49+00:00

If you are taking TRP to get back an ex who dumped you then you should just stay plugged in and pretend accept that the truth is a lie, freedom is slavery, and men and women are exactly the same.

If you are taking TRP to become a better man and work yourself into a position where you can be knee deep in fresh pussy then welcome to the real world.

Insilo · 2014-04-14T00:40:13+00:00

So basically you are asking us should you improve your life and take control of it ? Can't you make that decision your self .. ? No shit shes an "ex" ..

SkorchZang · 2014-04-13T06:20:30+00:00

You obviously have nasty one-itis, are addicted to blue pill ways. Everything's probably going to be alien here for you.

But you just got dumped by a bitch and live on campus, as close to pussy heaven as it gets, and where embodying RP knowledge would instantly put you in the top 2% of available males in the eyes of women.

Decisions, decisions...

medpreddit · 2014-04-13T14:22:29+00:00

Smells like a troll to me.

Move on and focus on improving yourself.

2014-04-13T15:07:48+00:00

Go meet other women. Your brain is hardwired to let go of her once new women come into your life.

HitchSlap92 · 2014-04-13T17:43:55+00:00

Swallow the red pill, study the game, learn the theory. If you do that you'll completely understand why you guys split.

Edit: That and you'll learn why acting on how you currently feel will never get her back.

mordanus · 2014-04-13T21:52:41+00:00

Read the side bar. No one is going to drag you into happiness in life. This is all on you. If you want to be happy you have to make it happen. If you want success its all on you. Read the sidebar and take some time to truly understand it and what it all means.

yea_tht_dnt_go_there · 2014-04-14T13:18:33+00:00

The DENNIS system is a two way street, were you dennis'd?

LukeMooney · 2014-04-13T13:08:10+00:00

Forget everything you know. Read the sidebar, then read the top 3 pages of top rated posts. Approach this activity with the clean mind of a baby. Good luck.

-Tyler_Durden- · 2014-04-13T06:47:04+00:00

Most likely, the reason she broke up with you is because you are acting like a "little bitch". Next time you see her (which you shouldn't) try negging her. She broke up with you; you owe her nothing. Did she dump you for another "little bitch" or did she get herself a stud?

should I take TRP?

What do you think?
Will you be happy living your life like you are now?
*If your 35 year old self could tell you something, what do you think it would be?

Title	Just found this subreddit, still suffering withdrawals from my ex, should I take TRP?
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Date	April 13, 2014 4:23 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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