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OP, the helpless victim.

Anyway at one point on the dance floor she comes up to me and a friend of mine (we both have girlfriends and she knows this, they weren't out with us at the time). We're dancing and my friend just moves away from her and closer to me. I didn't know what was going on but then I realised she must have been groping him because then she started groping me.

At first I didn't know it was her but when I realised I asked her to stop. She did it again. I told her to stop and moved away. She left me alone for a time but she came back around again (I'm assuming someone else got sick of dancing with her or whatever) and started groping me again. I told her to stop. She did it again. I told her stop and moved away. I was that close to leaving the bar when she vanished somewhere, frankly at that point I didn't give to shits where she went.

'Best answer' offers no help for the actual situation. I guess still somehow useful. +190

I'd let your SO know just in case, because if this girl is as unstable as you say she is, there's no telling what she might make up. She's already sexually assaulted you.

Second best is a 'female answer' Wow just wow Ask a strong man for help. Get support of more victims. +130

Wow.

I'm sorry. Honestly, I would've told security that she's too drunk and harassing people.

Make your feelings clear. Tell them you feel uncomfortable around her, and would prefer to be informed of her presence at potential future outings. It was her bad behaviour, not yours, I mean you told her to stop and she wouldnt. But if she was doing this to multiple guys in your group, I would bet you're not the only one who feels uncomfortable.

Next answer +327 is a MRM victim whining about a double standard.


I haven't found a decent answer yet. How hard is it to instill the fear of god into her with a glance or your voice to make her stop? Apparently too hard for AskMen to even consider it.