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I probably will. Mostly to use it to gain experience in being in an LTR. Whether I will see other women or not depends on how she acts in the relationship in the future.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 11:48 PM
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I've achieved this twice in the last month. First one I went to another city to see a mate. The second I went to a girls party with some friends, she was wasted by the time I got there and my friends basically sat talking with each other then went home. The best thing to do is see if you can get there from the start with the people you know. Then you can be introduced in a non-threatening way to a small group of people and get to know them before you're all drunk and then branch off. Solidify yo…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:37 PM
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Very similar situation to me. We are not official but she puts me over her snapchat story and I've been confident about her commitment to me. However she lied about her past and although in her head it's because she thinks I wouldn't like her if I knew the truth, I feel very disrespected by it. Am certain there is more to it as well. She buries her head in the sand when I call her out. Sadly this girl who is very submissive to me and I enjoy her company also carries some serious red flags and I'…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 06:56 PM
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Thanks for the words man.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 03:50 PM
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Puts into perspective when I'm thinking about myself and issues I'm having but it's so fucking insignificant when people are losing their lives and all their millions of thoughts with them.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 11:22 AM
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TRP isn't some tactic. It's a mindset. You just gotta accept how girls are and therefore change how you act around them to get what you want. It's not some visage you put on to get laid. Let it develop you as a person.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 11:13 AM
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Well... This is one of the most important parts of TRP. It is easy to dominate situations with just women or weaker men but when you have competition that want to beat you it gets tough. If you're single DO NOT GIVE A FUCK if you lose a girl to another guy. It happens to me and it is the single thing that can destroy a guy's self esteem - seeing a girl you've been working on get whisked away by another bloke. Even girls you've pulled before.. Honestly there is nothing you can do apart from be th…
/r/askTRP23/11/14 02:23 AM
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No idea, but their words won't change my views because I'm better with women than every single guy I've met who's bluepill.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 08:38 PM
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I look at life in different categories. In some of those I am doing well and in others, not so well. But I look at it all in a positive light... I must be making progress no matter how small it is. Socially: Far, far better. Being a dominant persona in a group conversation comes naturally to me now and I don't fear being shot down. It never happens. Being the man who draws the group together is also easy and leads to friendships and respect very quickly. Ask questions to individuals and the grou…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 11:52 AM
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Practice your best smile in the mirror and take photos of them. I look best with a toothy half smile in pictures (I should be on a Colgate advert). Once you've found it use that expression more often. Lose bodyfat. One of the most forgotten reasons for being lean is that your face leans out and becomes more defined. The one aspect of bulking I hate is that I get some moon face going at even reasonable bodyfats (15% ish) which is made even worse on camera. Some people are blessed with a strong fa…
/r/askTRP27/10/14 11:38 AM
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There's loser aggression where you try hard to be "manly" and powerful. This screams insecurity and people will call you out and humiliate you for it. Then there's the hidden aggression. The guy who says "no" when he wants to. The guy who takes no shit from anyone and is unmoved by girls and their words however hot they are. I have had my best results when you sit atop a quiet confidence, a surety in yourself and your status. A lot of it falls into place when you have a strong physique, low body…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 12:28 AM
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In the last week I've fucked two girls that I've got to know well recently who have long term boyfriends. One bf is an alpha on paper but evidently is not to her in the relationship. The other I have no idea about. If you are attractive enough you can fuck most girls depending on what the boyfriend is like to the girl. Even though there's a goalkeeper, that doesn't mean you can't score. But I'd suggest the far easier, less risky way.. just going up to the next pretty girl you see, get her number…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 12:16 AM
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Pulling and banging a girl who's dating a massive rugby player. Slightly fearful for my life.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 06:01 PM
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This was fucking beautiful man. I almost creamed myself just reading your actions. Respect.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 10:55 PM
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Pretend that you're the most experienced guy around and she'll believe it. And even better than that? So will you. You will have way more girls liking you when you seem like you know what you're doing. This is a definite fake it till you make it situation.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 11:22 AM
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I take Vit D3 5000-10,000iU a day. Don't bother with Test boosters they're a waste. If you have low T go see your Dr for TRT/HRT, or just start cruising Testosterone. The easier thing to do... is changing your diet slightly. Eat more fat. More saturated fats, foods like steak, whole milk, eggs, peanut butter. Fat supports optimal testosterone production. I take over 100g of fat a day normally. That along with heavy lifting will put you in the best natural stead for increased T-levels for very li…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 08:52 PM
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A girl I was talking to told me she was raped and as it was the first time I'd ever heard of someone who's been raped was utterly supportive of her. At the time I didn't even think about the fact that she let that information out so easily and that she was sending me nudes as well. I don't know whether or not it happened but crying rape is becoming a new way to garner attention.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:01 PM
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A good mate of mine pulled the girl I'd wanted. It was a dickish thing to do but in that moment I immediately went off her after months of pathetic chasing and desperation for her. I thought she was a 9/10 too but she was just a mid range girl who's small size and supposed cuteness made me infatuated. I fell in love quickly and out of it even quicker. Never felt that way about another girl ever since. Even if I try I cannot feel for a girl that level of emotional attachment. The only reason I be…
/r/askTRP20/09/14 07:45 PM
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You're right there is no equality among men. Men who do what you advised are the insecure, lesser men.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 07:11 PM
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Anger wastes life. You may feel powerful and aggressive but other people view you as weak and easily offended for losing your cool. Focus on blocking people out. Think about the things you say and do that would piss other people off and learn that the reverse will happen to you too. I have never suffered with a short fuse but all I can say is deal with it. Understand that people will respect you if you maintain frame and don't get aggressive or defensive but they definitely will not if they see …
/r/askTRP15/09/14 04:40 PM
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Lifting is a thing in life when progression and success is blindingly obvious. Confidence is born out of successes and the result is knowing inside that you can do anything if you set your mind to it. You will never find a confident person who spends their life in front of their computer doing nothing but playing games all day. This is simply because they have no successes - that people admire - to be proud of. So for many, training with weights is the first time in their life that they have a g…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 04:56 PM
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One's back and shoulders are the most important muscles to give that wide, strong look. And they make you feel strong too. A wide back is just as important if not more than shoulders for developing that powerful and wide look. First up, some exercises you must do, and always try to progressively add weight: Overhead Press Deadlift Rows. Be it Barbell, T-Bar or cable. Pull ups. My favourite are hammer grip pull ups. Some important isolation movements: Lateral raises Face pulls. Don't neglect the …
/r/askTRP25/08/14 11:36 AM
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That just shows you agree with her and are offended by what she said regardless if she meant it or not.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 05:40 PM
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Everyone wants positive attention and that is one way of going about it. I can do the same thing if I wish and I very well might because it's a piss easy way to look like a great guy. It may be manipulative but there's nothing wrong with doing it. However, blasting photos to social media sites endlessly is something attention seeking girls do.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 11:42 AM
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This works very well, especially if the girl has got you down for a bit of a player. I don't like boasting so instead cutely say I'm the nicest guy ever that will give everything to a girl when she knows I am not.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 11:54 AM
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The biggest hypocrisy of feminism. Adamantly priding themselves on their sexual escapades is ripe among many women but when they meet a man they're massively attracted to, suddenly they are an innocent virgin who hasn't seen a dick before.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 11:30 AM
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Your entire being is dependent on your fucking past! I absolutely detest it when people say "You can't judge me for my past". YES I FUCKING CAN. I WILL JUDGE YOUR DECISIONS AND YOU FOR MAKING THEM. If that was the case anyone could do fucking anything and people should ignore it because "it was in their past". But that doesn't happen because that is not how humans work. It's the same as allowing a child pedophile who went to prison to work in a school afterwards because "it was in his past", "he…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 11:26 AM
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I suppose it's different for a wife as that is a much more permanent situation but for any other girl it's often more trouble than it's worth. Far easier to meet other girls.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 11:03 AM
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That's the part I understand and agree with - the doctor doesn't have to worry about his washing or food and as such the partner doing those jobs well should be rewarded. However, I still cannot see that the other half deserves the same as the doctor seeing as he puts himself through massively pressured 12 hour days while the other half - although works hard to look after her husband - gets the easy end of the stick.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 11:02 AM
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A man I know is a doctor - studied for 7 years and makes however much a Dr. makes working 12 hour days. His wife is a stay-at-home mom and although works part time and is a housewife, she has not worked full time for 40 years after extensive training and exams. Both believe it to be fair that the wealth of the man should be split even though he's slaved his arse off for most of his life while she does the housework and can bum around the rest of the day. It may be cruel that I think he should ke…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:54 PM
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It happens everywhere. Whenever I meet a married woman for whatever reason she either brags about her husband or her children, as though she should be praised for other people's achievements. If your girl brags about you and/or your kids you're doing things right.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:44 PM
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I don't think he can. He is an innate loser and his resenting wife knows it. I've found it almost impossible for a girl to change her mind about finding you attractive for the right emotional reasons let alone one's wife who's spent 8 years getting to know you.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:40 PM
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I pity this man and many others like him who are in almost inescapable positions with their wife denying them the sex that should be present in a relationship as significant as marriage. It's a massively common example that shows social creations like marriage cannot trump biology. The level of sex in any relationship (excluding women trying to get you to commit) is an indicator of what your partner thinks of you. Every single girl in the entire world will be a sex nutter for the right man so ma…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:34 PM
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Often happens when the girl is extremely beautiful. And that is the reason why you have the feelz for her when you really shouldn't. Stop talking to her for any other reason apart from having sex and if she goes back to her bf simply stop talking to her. I used to see a 9. Probably a 10 - 5'3, long fair hair, cute, pretty face, slim, tiny waist with wider hips and amazing tits slightly too big for her body. I hadn't had many girls at this time and to have a girl that is leagues ahead over most g…
/r/askTRP09/08/14 08:33 PM
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as soon as their Facebooks go from “In a Relationship” to “Single,” they should sever ties from each other. Virtually all girls I know and have heard about remain "friends" with their exes and they think it is totally acceptable. But when it comes down to this girl's boyfriends, he must have absolutely no connection to his ex(es). Then she goes on to say: We have such a love-hate relationship with technology, don’t we? We love it because we can stalk our exes I thought she wanted exes out of the…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:08 AM
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Your writing style is hilarious. Love it. I can't comment on anything because I have absolutely no idea what was going on.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 10:59 AM
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And she will conveniently forget about the finances and support you put into her child when you want to do something with her child she disapproves of.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 10:52 AM
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She sounds like a pretty horrible person actually. Stop letting her get away with everything (aka stop fucking talking to her) simply because you want her. You sound similar to a guy I know - he remains in contact with a girl who bullies him just because he feels blessed to have her attention. Get out of there.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 01:17 PM
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This is a very important point. When I was a virgin and was talking to a new girl I made it seem like I had been around a lot without saying "I've fucked 20 girls" when in actual fact I'd only ever fingered a couple of girls before.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 08:33 AM
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This is terrifying. It doesn't seem that she is morally fazed at all about what she wants to do. Mistrust for women just increased tenfold.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 08:46 PM
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If she wanted to really kill herself she would have killed herself. Recently, someone I know killed them-self and they were very introverted and didn't let the world know how they were feeling. People who end up killing themselves take people by surprise because no one knew they were depressed and on the brink of suicide. People who are outwardly, extrovertly depressed normally are attention seeking more than genuinely depressed and suicidal. I've seen it before. She wants you to feel guilty so …
/r/askTRP01/07/14 08:23 PM
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One of the immediate things people need to know is that "alpha and beta" are not black and white, but they define traits in a person. I find that if someone is worrying about if they "are not alpha enough" they are expressing that they are insecure and unsure of themselves - Inherently a "beta" trait. Having self-reflection will tell that person that they are being a weak man and not displaying alpha characteristics.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 08:07 PM
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Your first paragraph is something I have barely experienced in my life. I had an upbringing with a father who despised profanity, bluntness and ruthlessness, he appeased my mother and did not carry the family through everything. I felt chained down and emasculated by my own upbringing and knew something was off but only realised it till I came across websites in the Manosphere and TRP. Men are meant to spend time with other men and say the raw nature of things instead of trying to appease everyo…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 08:00 PM
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This shows that people have a completely off perception of what TRP is. People hate what TRP isn't.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 09:51 AM
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Wordpress.com is all you need to start. It's free but in the case you want to get serious you can buy a domain. Bold & Determined has some great ideas on how to start writing, and talks about how he made money off his writing.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 08:14 AM
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This made me sick in my mouth. All of them know that they'd rather be not-so-fat and receive position male attention and this is proven simply because they're blaming "uncontrollable" external factors and making up lots of excuses as to why they don't want to be slimmer. Women are women's own worst enemy. They seem to all be sticking up for each other but in reality they're just making themselves feel better by binding together in some anti-self-improvement circlejerk. I can bet you that if one …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 04:40 PM
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Lifting Writing - Make a website/blog where you write about something you are proficient and knowledgeable about. If people read it and learn from it, that's a massive bonus. Drawing and designing. Cooking And make sure to avoid social media. It is full of people with ZERO hobbies or interests. Spending enough time reading about boring people will make you a boring person.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 11:32 AM
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Keep doing it. Developing frame and confidence doesn't just happen overnight. I had to erase the timid little boy out of me and it takes time. Get yourself into more situations like this, do it over and over again and your confidence shall rise the better you get. This is why you need to take up hobbies that require skill. The better you get the more confident you become in your abilities and this translates into real life overall self-confidence. If you have nothing about you, you've got nothin…
/r/askTRP30/06/14 11:26 AM
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Point taken and agreed with.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 11:19 AM
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I wanted to punch a wall just reading this. I can see it being said by pretty much all women I know.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:06 AM
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This made me so happy. Any feministic, self-interested comment gets absolutely torn to shreds by anti-feminists and it appears a large majority of people are really starting to hate feminism and see it for what it really is: Unnattractive women who actively hate men and can only see things from their point of view so hate those who disagree. Feminism is a sexist hate group. It makes my blood boil, I detest it and I hate people who agree with it. They are either crazy women or weak men.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:06 AM
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Stop posting statuses. Get involved in stereotypically masculine activities and be tagged in the photos of the events Meet cool people and be seen with cool, attractive people. Nothing makes you look worse than photos of you surrounded by losers. Let your actions speak for themselves. People only need to browse your pictures to see that you get up to some really cool things. Writing statuses about everything you've been doing will achieve the opposite of what you want. Appear interesting and exc…
/r/askTRP30/06/14 10:59 AM
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I have a friend who posts photos of himself with things like a bow and arrows and it just makes him look childish. Just look at those guys who post photos of them carrying their assault guns, they don't look cool or masculine, they look like bellends with a gun. (inb4 Dan Bilzerian)
/r/askTRP30/06/14 10:39 AM
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And feminists say men need to understand, "no means no".
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:25 PM
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It is crazy because it's so rare. It makes them think of all the things about themselves that you may not like: "Does he think my boobs are too small?" "Am I not skinny enough?" etc. Eventually it turns to them rationalising that you are the one with problems instead of them thinking they're not good enough.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 11:11 AM
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Women don't like being rejected. You moving away to see another girl is an example of you rejecting spending time on them. It doesn't matter if you're sleeping with a girl or not, when you go after something else instead of her she cannot stand it. Try actively rejecting a girl interested in you. I did and she went batshit INSANE. She could not comprehend why I'd reject her and over time made it her mission to get other people to hate me like she did.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 11:00 AM
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You lost your cool - you were drunk so that makes it more excusable - but I think the important thing here is that you realised you have a voice and do hold power. Every man has power, but many are too scared that they won't have the impact they want, ie: getting ignored.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 01:46 PM
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She's still somehow victimising herself the entire way through this article even though she is expressing that she has become empowered ever since doing the easiest thing it is for a young woman to do. I'd bet if a man replaced her he would be insulted that he is playing women and should not lead them on like this.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 01:43 PM
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Then you won't have a hard time reaching a good level of leanness post bulk.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 01:23 PM
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My advice to you then is to get leaner. I had some size and although people notice out and about in clothes, it is out the window when the shirt comes off. I found that when I was fatter (15-20% you're probably fatter than you think) I was horrendously unphotogenic because I had gotten a fatter face. Your face will become more defined and more attractive, and of course it is never a problem when you show a girl your body because you are lean. Being lean is more important than being big, especial…
/r/askTRP28/06/14 01:03 PM
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This is something I don't do enough. Often times I never go beyond catching her eye or her looking and I think, "I could sleep with you if I wanted to" but then of course you never will because you'll never see them again! The best thing is to go straight up to them. Pretty much anything you say they'll lap up with a massive smile on their face because a hot guy can walk up to them without a hitch. So please, make sure you aren't an unattractive man - you'll be labelled a creep and this may hurt…
/r/askTRP28/06/14 11:45 AM
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I have a friend who always got absolutely hammered. He always said he would be fine but he was smashed and out of it in 2 hours. He became a liability, pissed everyone else off for ruining their night and requiring looking after. The only benefit to having someone like this around is to laugh at them for all the stupid shit they did. This guy got in trouble with the police and there are horrendously embarrassing photos, videos of him on people's phones. He's a great guy and extremely good at mee…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 08:08 PM
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People say we are a cult and everything is ingrained in our heads and we can't escape. That we're one big circlejerk. Oh wait, every other brainless fuck on Reddit immediately follows suit behind every other redditor that says Redpill is all these terrible things without even going to learn for themselves what it is about. It's the same shit over and over and I haven't seen anything that they accuse us of here in my 6 months here, so they must be taking extremely close inspection to find the thi…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:57 PM
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I am male. No, every relationship should be Red Pill but concerning LTR's one needs to have a balance between TRP and TBP in that specific relationship. It is having a TRP mindset but then utilising stereotypically Blue Pill ideas to create a balance in that relationship.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:39 AM
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Oh of course, but in terms of the post in question the ideal is a balance between the ex making her panties wet and the other guys ability to look after her. I understand TRP wholly but then use the information to make a balance for what I want in life.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 09:20 PM
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Because men want sex - The most powerful asset of women. But men don't want to give away their commitment - The most valuable asset of a man. Relationships between men and women, regardless if they're just sexual, just commitment or both are based on an exchange between sex and commitment because they are either given out equally or not equally. But it isn't black and white. Low value men give their commitment away easily and quickly - Normally to the higher quality women they know/meet. Low val…
/r/askTRP25/06/14 09:17 PM
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This is why it is all about balance.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 08:22 PM
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Suppose so yeah, it's like you have an amog to cut down (if you know how) and ultimately making you look even better. Personally I couldn't be bothered with the effort. It's one reason I don't like clubbing. Too much effort for not much return.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 04:23 PM
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Rationalising why she wants to stay with her bf and why she shouldn't go fuck her ex. She cannot overrule emotion with brains because that is not how female love works.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:17 PM
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Man, I can't stand this shit. Yeah, the girl is being typical and we all know that but the real problem is this pathetic little fuck who is so damn ignorant he cannot grasp the reality of an obvious situation. YOU ARE GETTING FUCKED IN THE ASS BY YOUR GIRLFRIEND It's like he knows but wants to believe that she is perfect and isn't lying when he's seen the truth right in front of his very eyes! I think there is an overarching problem that results in a lot of these types of relationships where the…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:11 PM
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Don't go with guys who you know are one uppers. Don't go with people with low SMV. Or if that isn't possible, ensure the majority of your group is high SMV. Go with guys who are confident and able to have a good time. It is much better to go with a small group of confident guys than a bigger group of not-so-confident guys just for the sake of being in a group. The main thing is though, if you aren't confident don't expect other better men to do everything for you. They should be there to aid you…
/r/askTRP25/06/14 12:49 PM
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He's always been an insecure man. He's never the main man in any collab videos, but he did apologise for this video and took it down. It is definitely very weird how he would film something so private.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 10:39 AM
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It's awfully selfish advice. Just because she is in the same boat she tells her to relax and take her time - which is exactly not the thing to do - to make herself feel better but it is stupid to ignore the biological clock, it isn't something you can beat! Just shows their manipulative tendencies. Coming across caring and supportive but full well knowing that their advice is the worst they can offer.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 08:21 AM
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The only time being short is a negative is if you are insecure about it. I've lost respect for shorter guys when they try to make up for their height, but if they show that it doesn't bother them, they are treated the same as any other man. Of course it must be difficult because some insensitive or provocative people bring it up, but not giving a fuck about something uncontrollable and dealing with it is what puts you at the top ultimately.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 12:58 PM
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Alright, own up, which one of you is lynn81?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 08:33 PM
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She just did what girls do. He's a loser and if he has any brains he'll learn never to do something so pathetic ever again. It does do my head in though how she had the audacity to say they are just friends when there is no way in hell she'd ever buy her best girlfriend a $1200 purse. The same goes for the guy, he would never spend $1200 on his closest mate, so why would he do it for a female friend for anything other reason than "it might make her want to fuck me".
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 01:04 PM
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Everything in moderation. It's not going to fuck with your gains or anything but fapping 5 times a day probably isn't the best for overall quality of life. It wastes a lot of time, both the act itself and the relaxed feeling after where you don't want to do anything more than sit on your ass for a while. It will hurt your dick if you do it too much and it will reduce the feeling of pleasure that a girl can give you. Also if you've been fapping a few times a day then go sleep with a girl your sem…
/r/askTRP19/06/14 12:40 PM
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It's better off being alone than being categorised with losers.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 01:50 PM
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I think it is extremely hard to have a female friend who respects you but does not desire you. Keeping the balance of a platonic relationship but maintaining their utmost respect is a challenge I would simply not bother with. For you though, they have no respect so therefore you have the self-respective choice or the loser choice. You are much better off spending the majority of your time with men and you will quickly realise these girls are a total waste of your effort. Why on earth would you w…
/r/askTRP18/06/14 01:48 PM
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People don't like change. I had a female friend who I used to be quite generous to with food. I would give her some whenever she asked. As soon as I denied her my food she got heated and told me I used to "be so nice" as if I have somehow become not nice because I'm got giving away my food. There is always some difficulty when you fling from one end of the spectrum to the other and people find it very hard to adapt to and you will face a lot of obstruction from people who cannot accept you chang…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 07:52 PM
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Men aren't as good as women at complaining.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 07:40 PM
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Yes, because sluts typically will still have high standards (8-10/10) whereas betas will settle and throw attention at any alright looking girl that comes their way. Although betas - like sluts - give away their assets for low cost (attention and pussy respectively) it isn't that simple. A lot of men see a slut and will think she'll be easy because she gives out so much but they miss the point that even though she gives out a lot, it is only to higher quality men.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 11:22 AM
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A memorable line I know is from GTAV by Trevor (a nutcase) who whips his cock out and says: "Mine ain't nothin' special but this boy gets the job done" Unless you're 2 inches when hard you have nothing to worry about. Remember that porn cocks are unrealistically huge so don't even think about comparing yourself to those genetic freaks.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 06:58 PM
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Haha that last part is the worst. Getting messages that are barely 3 words long from girls who then complain when you stop talking to them is just awful. Fun chat is always a brilliant positive in a girl/person.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 06:45 PM
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Yes, but that is the truth, it is stupid to disagree (except for some cases like female spiders killing the male post-mating) and pathetic to be offended by.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 06:38 PM
39

Stop talking like she is a unicorn amongst zombies. Yeah she understands the problem like RPW do but that doesn't mean she deserves undue praise. She made a valid basic point and you would have left it at a simple upvote had she not mentioned she's a girl at the end.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 06:34 PM
34

This is because girls have zero need to be interesting. They're going to be hounded and lathered with attention regardless if they have passions or not. Loser men are going to continue to give them attention and feed this depressing problem. Meeting a girl that is pretty and has something about her is a very refreshing experience as it goes against the grain.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 06:27 PM
1

If two exact same men were standing next to each other but one was 6'3 and the other 5'8 the taller man would be considered more attractive by the average woman. Height does not define masculinity and as you say there are many short men who are in exceptionally masculine positions and tall guys who are very un-masculine. However, some let it get to their head (probably spend too much time on the bodybuilding.com misc) and feel inferior or less masculine because someone is taller than them to whi…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 02:36 PM
4

Women don’t care about your expensive clothes This stood out to me. I have no expensive clothes. T-shirts are all pretty cheap, as are jeans etc. When I go out at night I see guys wearing very nice dress shirts but the person wearing them isn't attractive. A very slight built man wearing a shirt looks weak and feeble regardless of the label. I am quite content wearing a cheapo T-shirt as long as it isn't cheesy, fits my arms tightly and hangs loose at the waist. I have a low SMV friend who recie…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 02:31 PM
4

Women have power in sex but men have the potential power in dating. Women can get away with having no skills, talents or interests as long as they have a pretty face and nice body. Just look at Dan Bilzerian's girls... They are there simply because they're models and that is it... They don't have an incentive to be worth anything else apart from looking good so they just stay a pretty face without much else. Fuck, if I could get through life in great comfort with just some muscles I might probab…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 01:40 PM
1

I understand what you're saying and honestly I agree because it isn't an unknown fact that height does mean something, and OP did mention his height (be it to show off or just context I don't know) but it didn't strike out to me as OP isn't even that tall. If I were going to make a post about how "alpha" I was I wouldn't put my height in except to put my weight in context. At the end of the day it is an uncontrollable factor and the best thing to do about uncontrollable things is to move on and …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 01:17 PM
2

I was waiting for the moment in that video when the girl would admit that she can be like the other girls if she starts exercising and stops eating so much. The character would look very pretty if she wasn't fat.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 01:06 PM
2

Get a sportsbike. For the sake of the question I'd buy a BMW E46 M3 simply because I like it for between £10,000-20,000 / $17,000-34,000. For me my vehicle is important not so much the girl cred but because I want something I am proud of and enjoy. I could happily drive around in a hatchback - of course it would be modified and sporty - but there are much more important and attainable things that can increase your SMV that aren't a £50,000 hit to your bank account.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 12:37 PM
2

He isn't a piece of shit. He seems pretty kickass to me. I'm 5'10, the manlet overlord and although I'm shorter than most of my friends, I don't care. There are many other things you can be better than people at. I'm the most muscular of all my friends and that gets me further than an extra couple of inches ever would. Don't hate others for getting something better than you, yeah some girls don't like it and I've lost out on some for not being a 6'4 adonis but who cares? Why would anyone want so…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 11:45 AM
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When kissing a girl always break away first. It makes her want to kiss you more and doesn't convey desperate neediness by you kissing till she wants to stop. Your title is the result of you being too needy and wanting to kiss her. Another thing is to appear comfortable at whatever stage you're at. If you've just kissed the girl and pulled away, sit back and put your arm around her. Don't stop escalating in favour of de-escalating to appease her, but also don't rush, that again makes you seem des…
/r/askTRP16/06/14 11:02 AM
1

Definitely, I too am guilty of rationalising some bad habits, and these are often far more important or than singular actions or inaction. As with most things and principles they depend on the conditions of the situation, and as you noted video games and masturbation, which are a frequent example that cannot be compared to something genuinely productive.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 06:53 PM
2

Care to explain your opinion?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 06:49 PM
1

Agreed, but as I said in another reply it depends on the context of the doubt. Rationalising a bad choice away is silly hamstering but doubting yourself ability in doing something beneficial is also bad because you will miss opportunities due to lack of self-confidence. The knock on effect is that one's confidence will be consistently down-spiralling with each hesitation and missed opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 04:19 PM
2

I should have put it in some context. When you have to make decisions about something as vast and important as military movement you of course are going to be objective of your ideas and doubting what to do because you want to make the best decision with the least foreseeable negatives. What I am referring to (but did not post) are the more trivial matters such as going up to talk to a pretty girl in the coffee shop but worry about being rejected or wanting to go to the gym but worry that you wo…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 04:15 PM
4

This is one of the more important under-lying RP ideas that a lot of guys are forgetting. Many end up being the complete opposite of what they're trying to be. It happens when guys ask: "Is this alpha?" Do whatever the fuck you want to do is alpha. Not the thing in question. Doubting yourself about doing something is never alpha. You need not ask questions but more importantly never ask permission - especially from TRP as that is the biggest irony of all. TRP is not going to hold your hand throu…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 11:13 AM
1

Alright. Stop being a little bitch and thinking someone else is the problem. You are. Problem: He is better than you, you aren't admitting it and instead wish to shame him instead - to which he does not give a fuck. Solution: Do something that makes you better. Work on yourself instead of trying to drag someone down. He's ahead of you, so get to it and catch up. Problem: You think your friends care. You think they care about something so trivial. You're a man, no one cares, suck it up and make s…
/r/askTRP15/06/14 10:43 AM
3

Twitter is terrible. I used it for following / being followed back by fit girls - so when I'm ever in their area I can hit them up and fuck etc and that has happened only a few times - worth it? Not even once. The massive downside to this is when I go on my Twitter for whatever reason it is saturated with moaning, complaining girls and whenever I need a reminder that the female gender is incredibly self-centred and lazy beyond belief I have a quick browse. 99% of the girls do nothing interesting…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 12:00 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/PussyPass12/06/14 05:21 PM
1

What are you trying to say? your phrasing is confusing. Of the men I have met many of them will give a female - regardless of their relationship - distinctly more respect and care than a male of the same relationship. For myself, I am very polar to that gender role.
/r/PussyPass12/06/14 04:04 PM
0

It's all too common but I wish it wasn't.
/r/PussyPass12/06/14 12:28 PM
9

Nearly every single girl I know posts a tweet, sends a text or a snapchat story entitled "bored" (maybe along with a selfie and a little cleavage showing). Most girls are vapid and have nothing about them.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 09:40 AM
3

I'll be living with a dashboard camera in my car to protect myself against car accidents etc. This is grotesque behaviour from the two girls and you can be damn sure that their conscience is as clear as the sky.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 09:32 AM
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It is concerning men as a whole. Most men bend over backwards for a girl they've just met in the hope she may take an interest in them.
/r/PussyPass12/06/14 09:15 AM
10

A rollercoaster of an article. Quite stereotypical but it seems all too common with young men these days. A bitter message that narrates the difficulty in being a man without masculinity. I remember the first time I came across Bold & Determined (A fucking awesome website by the way) and I thought Victor - the writer - was the biggest dick ever! As I read a few pieces I concluded that he was in fact the masculinity that I wanted to follow like I would a father. His website alone is pure testoste…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 10:48 PM
1

Thanks for reassuring me
/r/askTRP10/06/14 11:58 AM
1

I've always been worried that /r/bodybuilding is full of bluepill white knights too.... The "misogynist" accusation is pretty normal too. A friend said I was misogynistic when I said I wanted a submissive girl". I have often been called one for simply disagreeing with a girl. It's like people don't understand the strength of what it really means; that you hate women.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 10:42 AM
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Fucking disgusting. People who say men shouldn't hit women (in context of equality like this video) are pathetic. I would want to beat the fuck out of every single little bitch who swarmed the contestant calling him a coward. That is inequality if I've ever seen it. You get what you give, and the white knight reaction just enforces the entitlement of women.
/r/PussyPass09/06/14 10:23 AM
3

Rationalise that shit little hamster! Rationalise!
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 09:55 AM
2

Your body is your temple. You built it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 10:10 AM
1

Whenever I am "swolested" I give the girl a blank stare as if to say "what the fuck are you doing?" and it stops them dead. If she's more than an acquaintance (and got nice tits) I grope her back.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 11:36 PM
1

Just say "no". The more you say the more you show how scared you are of offending people which is pretty pathetic. A girl I know didn't know how to decline another girl asking for her to drive her somewhere. Her text was a massive paragraph of her apologizing for not going out of her way to drive someone around like a free chauffeur. Be blunt and decisive. It says a lot about you. Would your answer change if you are open to the possibility of sleeping with her? I'd typically be more likely to do…
/r/askTRP07/06/14 02:25 PM
1

My post needed a little something to liven it up.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 03:55 PM
6

I think it is about time we got a post to the front page of Reddit. This should be that post.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 10:59 PM
4

Ironic. TRP has recieved unlimited amounts of hate even though we're the one's supposed to be doing the hating.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 10:52 PM
1

I await the fools who want to challenge TRP in obtaining the same goals by living the opposite with brash anticipation. It's always been strange how I have not once seen someone say they can achieve confidence, pride and success with women by being the anti-RP. It is always just insults from people ad hominem instead of challenging the theory itself and achieving better by doing different.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 10:51 PM
0

If she was down to cheat she would have given her number but said "I do have a boyfriend though...". To that you say "Well he doesn't have to know then". Instead, the girl in OP put down a boundary at this point. She wasn't inciting OP to help her feel comfortable in going a stage further, she was saying "no".
/r/askTRP05/06/14 10:33 PM
6

Nothing special, she does this teasing shit with a shit tonne of guys if she's pretty, and guess what? They all fail. Stop with the sideways flirty comments. Be direct and assertive. "Hey, give me your number so we can talk". Stop the indirect flirts. She knows what you're up to and it is a huge turn off when you beat around the bush to get something as trivial as a number. The fact she has only just told you about her boyfriend tells you where she has put you. "fun guy who I can lap the attenti…
/r/askTRP05/06/14 10:27 PM
3

Your gf wants you to keep something like that secret? Tell the man. Save his dignity, and keep a close eye on your gf because if she will gladly keep something as serious as cheating behind closed doors you don't know what she may be hiding from you.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:32 PM
4

Love how it uses the idea of saying "you're not a man if you don't do this stuff", when it's painfully obvious that these are rules to learn how to be an obedient dog. Openly saying you disagree with this shit and you will be hit by some feminist plank calling you insecure.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:01 PM
1

This is what I did. I got a lot more positive female attention and many other boys noticed. Now a couple of years after I started training I know at least 20 lads who have got into the gym. Many have asked me for advice too.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 10:12 AM
2

All the time. At first I got a lot of shit because I was a small, weak kid going to the gym. Got a lot of ribbing (not all friendly) on how I'll never make progress and how I'm so massive when I barely weighed 65kg. As I progressed the jokes started to get thinner because I was actually getting somewhere, but never ceased to be annoying. The best thing I did was ignore all the remarks and kept on doing my thing. Gains respect. Now I've reached a level where people can tell I spend some time in t…
/r/askTRP01/06/14 10:10 AM
2

Good job. Keep going and turn that into 8 years.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 09:18 AM
3

That's fair. It all depends on your situation and how you choose to respond.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 07:21 PM
1

This is why you keep the work environment work oriented ONLY. You spend a lot of time near these women and when you go to hit on them you set yourself up for shit tests because you are making yourself vulnerable by getting to know them personally. I'd get on with my work and ignore them unless it's business talk. This puts you into a power position because they cannot shit test you because there is nothing to shit test about. All they can do is say you work too hard and are too serious. But once…
/r/askTRP31/05/14 10:48 AM
5

Would your girlfriend be happy with you going back to your hometown and meeting up with an ex-girlfriend? It is always a red flag when someone goes back to someone they've had intimate sexual relationships with. They're supposed to leave that person behind, not go back to see them by choice, regardless of the situation. There's not much you can do now. If she is going there with intent to see him her mind is already made up that she isn't happy with you. Therefore, next. Just let her come home, …
/r/askTRP31/05/14 10:35 AM
3

Well keep on smoking and by 40 you'll look old enough that people give up their seat on the bus for you!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 10:25 AM
1

Grow some balls son. Where's your self-respect at? Leave her the fuck alone, spend the time you would sucking her dick doing something productive you enjoy. You will feel respectful of yourself and powerful. You will be a much happier person when you get on with your life and doing things you want to do. You will feel like a man.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 11:28 PM
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I'm yet to see a person flame TRP who doesn't look like a loser or lives the life of a loser. Looking after 2 kids that aren't even yours? That's the modern equivalent of slavery, but Ben, you have every power to leave that financial, esteem sapping hell. Looking 15 when you're 25 doesn't seem like it offers any benefits. Chain-Smoking? What a brilliant decision to make in your life. Bet you have to have your ID checked every time too. What unnecessary hassle. But yeah, thanks for the influx of …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 11:15 PM
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I did witness something recently as a supportive anecdote to your point. A friend of mine told me about his ex-girlfriend and how she was such a bitch because she cheated on him on holiday. I found this strange because he had been dating her for a long time before they went on holiday together and I can imagine that he thought she was definitely not a bitch during that time. It does happen with many people regardless of gender as they try to protect themselves from a crushing experience by makin…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 10:32 PM
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Something that I truly hate (just hearing the phrase makes me shiver) is Rape Culture. Women who live in the first world are in an incredibly safe and protected environment. Yet these are the same women who actively complain about being a rape target when an (unattractive) man checks them out when they're wearing a mini skirt and top that ends above the belly, even though they are wearing such revealing clothing because they want attention! Just not from the "wrong" men. They feel it is wholly j…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 10:22 PM
2

If you look good you will be treated good when people first meet you. Some people are not born looking good and strong so you are treated as lesser. Quite often good looking guys do well when they're put into situations with girls who are simply bowled over by their looks but it's often shortlived. When I was a "lesser" I got enough female attention without doing anything but it often shifted to being the cute friend instead of sex over time. Some girls that knew me didn't want sex but girls tha…
/r/askTRP29/05/14 01:08 PM
2

I've been hit by girls, even by my own mother (who hits me bloody hard). As I got bigger I've been hit more often so I believe it is a shit test - testing if I'm a weak pussy behind the muscle. My mum I think fears that I'm getting overly cocky and strong so wants to tone it down but whenever it happens with a female I simply grab their wrists and hold them still, look them in the eye and tell them to stop it. Sometimes I'm patronising and say it's childish and unkind to hit people. Very quickly…
/r/askTRP29/05/14 01:00 PM
13

If you have self-respect you would drop her outright. She lied to you. She crossed the boundaries any man would put upon her simply by talking to this dude. Even though he is unlikely to sleep with her that doesn't mean your gf has done nothing wrong. She's made the choice she wants to sleep outside of you and isn't being honest about it. She will probably soon be talking to another dude who will "mess up what you've got". I'd simply go out with other girls and act as though she is just a plate.…
/r/askTRP26/05/14 03:20 PM
5

This is how you do it.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 03:18 PM
2

Super beta maybe but you know what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 09:38 PM
0

These guys are the worst. Give them no mercy because they will not stop trying to one up over you. Supposedly your friend but will backstab you whenever new people come along to try to humilate and degrade you. I was walking with a "friend" of mine a few years back and a new girl I'd just met and out of no where he says "Hyooge have you lost your virginity yet?" and I just looked at him like he was stupid but at the same time was dumbfounded how a friend of mine was trying to kill my chances and…
/r/askTRP24/05/14 09:35 PM
6

I am right
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 09:20 PM
1

That's fine, because you made some outrageous prejudgements on the poster above me and I instantly think less of people who do shit like that. PS. You're also supposedly a married neuroscientist right? Start speaking like you are one instead of an arrogant know-it-all teenager.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 09:20 PM
3

Maybe so but I made a comparative point. So what if it's easy for men, it is always easier for a woman (if they are equal in attractiveness).
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:59 PM
0

Look at male/male and female/female friendships. Men often go days, weeks, months without contact but then get together as if there had been no hiatus. I've known a good friend all my life and we see each other a few times a year and always have a great time even though we've had time apart. Girls on the other hand need to talk to each other daily and need to constantly nurture their relationships. I noticed this with my female friends too, they were too close by all the time but I never felt as…
/r/askTRP22/05/14 08:52 PM
0

Her email was extremely telling of female behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:32 PM
0

If you're a somewhat attractive girl you are going to have 20+ horny men a day checking you out regardless. This is why there are so many girls who are barely 6/10s thinking they are hotter than they really are.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:30 PM
7

Unsure of themselves, indecisiveness, hoping you believe them. Girls and low T males are all these things. They are always doubting themselves.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:20 PM
8

You are either mad or not big.. I notice girls eyefucking me to pieces when I wear a shirt that hugs my shoulders and arms and I haven't even said hello yet. It's like they are lost in space and time simply because of my natty muscularity. Try it, get jacked and see just how easy it is to have girls full attention on you simply because you've got some lean muscle.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:17 PM
9

Are the expensive drinks at the bar that wreck your liver and give you false confidence worth the pussy?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:15 PM
3

Secondly, regarding experience a girl in a long term relationship is going to be having a lot more sex than a slut and thus gaining experience without throwing her body around to multiple men. I'd much rather date the girl that's had 3 long term boyfriends by 25 with a tonne of sexual experience and knows how to please her partner than the slut who's fucked 100 times with 30 guys and is used to laying back and getting railed. Even more than that I'd prefer a virgin who can get all the experience…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:09 PM
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You don't know what you're saying. This is one of the most fundamental sexual differences between men and women. They both value virginity differently. Every man you can ask wants a girl with a low partner count, but if you tell a girl you are a virgin at 20+ she would laugh in your face. Why is this? It is because it is easy as pie for a girl to get laid and very difficult for men to get laid and if you can get laid you are respected and valued for your ability to achieve your biological aim. W…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:03 PM
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I was describing a certain type of person where their voice is merely an attempt to draw attention to themselves but does not work. The guy who has to make an ass of themselves to get people looking. Some useful points though.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 05:56 PM
0

I'd say something loudly along the lines of calling her out on it. You should have personally humiliated her by calling her a rude girl, asking her if her parents taught her any manners. Look at this calm display by Tom Cruise where he is provoked into embarrassment but quickly turns it around and humiliates his attacker by treating him like a child. He was put in a very vulnerable position, jeopardising his reputation but he showed his dominance in the scene and told the man off. Being patronis…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 05:51 PM
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One should learn to speak less in general. This results in a few benefits. Anything you do say becomes more valuable. Your words have impact when they're meaningful but even more so when you don't assault people with constant drivel. I was in a room sat in a circle with a group of new people and while everyone was bickering I sat back and eventually opened my mouth. Instinctively everyone turned and looked at me to listen to what I had to say over the noise. Even though I said nothing mind blowi…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 03:06 PM
3

This goes for other things too. Girls that get a tonne of attention are often very lazy, boring and passive when it comes to interaction - be it texting, chatting etc - because they are used to men doing all the work and do not feel they need to give anything to get everything.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 01:20 PM
1

Very well articulated. People don't seem to understand that it requires concious effort for an attractive girl to keep her chaste, which by itself deserves respect.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 01:18 PM
6

Women would lie about partner count and make it seem less than it is because that makes them more attractive. Men would lie about partner count and make is seem more than it really is because that makes them more attractive.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 01:15 PM
0

The mechanics behind sex are very different for men and women. When you are young, relatively attractive women have the pick of the crop and getting sex from any man is extraordinarily easy. All they have to do is show sexual interest, if that. The fact men sleep down means lower quality women can have sex with a higher quality man and their "standards" raise. Men prevent those not in the top 20-30% from getting sex with attractive women by sleeping down because it means average women can get a …
/r/askTRP20/05/14 01:11 PM
1

Why should you worry? You're not looking for reasons to stay a weak, supplicating man are you?
/r/askTRP20/05/14 12:58 PM
0

Haha nice story, I knew a dude who I never thought was very nice but the sudden you show you respect yourself and won't be bullied by him he becomes very friendly and a great guy to be around. It's unnecessary for guys to bully but it won't happen in the first place if you stand up for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 10:38 PM
1

Haha I like it
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:24 AM
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If you read the end of my post you'll see I say he is unkind to people he feels he can talk down to. And I don't like that in a person. I pity his futile flirting but dislike his attitude.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 08:30 PM
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I feel genuine hate towards men that bend over backwards for a pretty woman because we all know what they are after. Quite funny really because I know a dude who messages an enormous amount of girls replying on their demand and guess what? He sleeps with none of them and his girlfriend cheated on him when she was on holiday with him. He puts every relatively attractive girl he meets first and will talk to them and make effort even when he gets bullied by them. The worst bit is he's a dickhead wh…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 06:54 PM
1

It's a conveniently forgotten TRP message. Guys must stop asking other people for opinions on things (especially to ask "is doing this alpha or beta?") and just decide. Decisive action is a clear-cut alpha quality.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 04:58 PM
2

It was like this in Vietnam. Relatively poor people walking around town in black suits looking far more powerful and wealthy than they really were.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 01:56 PM
1

You're giving the impression to her that you really really want to touch her naked. She knows it because boys touch girls they want to fuck not girls they aren't interested in. The fact you are letting her stop you shows weakness. We've all done it and my god it is fucked up, girls I've been with have done the same thing and when I didn't push on batting their hand out the way because I wasn't going to rape her she told me she wanted me to the next day. It's freaky. If you've got far enough with…
/r/askTRP12/05/14 01:50 PM
8

No such thing as a "real alpha". The word defines traits and if enough of those traits define you you are alpha regardless if you're loud or quiet.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 08:32 PM
7

When you find yourself with lots of cool male mates and girls wanting to be with you you have found the balance. If guys don't like you you've either gone too far or are a loser. Remember that the guys girls call dicks aren't really as bad as they make out them to be, they just don't give in to her demands like most boys. Best to be a massive prick than a submissive pushover. I like to jokingly tell girls I'm a really nice guy after I've shown I haven't because they normally reveal what they rea…
/r/askTRP11/05/14 08:29 PM
4

I was at a bar on the dance floor with a few friends and there was a group of girls and I just went up to one pulled her away and said "come take a photo" and held my friends camera up and took a photo of us with our faces pressed together. First interaction and she looked at me after like I was not a random who grabbed her but her boyfriend. Straight up doing something without asking isn't always guaranteed to work but it makes it incredibly easy for the girl to do what you want because she doe…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 09:45 AM
2

Lose fat. I gained 15kg at 5'10 and although I am not massive, I'm built fairly well but I looked like shit with a shirt off - my torso was just a definitionless slab. Lose fat after you've gained some size and you will appear much bigger and toned after you've lost weight.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 01:07 PM
4

Definitely. I made a mate out in a new town simply because I was nice to him. We had a chat and I joined his mates and we all benefited. There's being nice and then there's being pushover nice.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 09:52 PM
10

I don't go out clubbing very often but a few months ago I was standing in line with some mates and this late 20's / early 30's cocky bitch pushed through everyone as if she had a right to. I said what the fuck are you doing while my friends let it happen and she was unbelievably rude telling me to "fuck off". I didn't want to manhandle her and really I had no idea what to do so I just let the tatted up woman get away with it because it was pointless to intervene. Another girl on another night wh…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 09:50 PM
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Spot on. A little anecdote I've got is a 4/10 girl I know in my class. She always badmouths about a guy (who happens to be very attractive, tall and an asshole) calling him a dick and all that. I then questioned her if she would sleep with him and before she could think about what she was saying she said "yes, definitely". Don't be disheartened if a woman talks bad about you. I'm called a dick and "not very nice" by girls but these are the same girls to hang around me and are always sending me m…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 04:41 PM
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Didn't enjoy reading that. It pisses me off just how many people can compare housekeeping to a full time fucking job. An example: My dad spent 5-7 years studying for his profession and makes a good living. My mum works hard and does a very good job of the housework (and works part time) but it is not equal to my dad. He works 12 hour days. She does the housekeeping, a few hours of paid work every couple of days and the rest is free to do what she wants and spend her housekeeping money. If I was …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 09:57 AM
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That made me chuckle. It's very counter-intuitive that being stoic and commanding makes girls like you. Surely they'd want us to ask for their opinion on the decision? Nope, if you examine a girl, nearly all are very indecisive and don't like being put on the spot to make an influential decision. I'm like this with a girl I see a few days a week and I basically aim and push her to do what I want to do. She never complains, never calls me out on being overbearing, she just feels comfortable and h…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 11:29 PM
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Girls love a man who they can be submissive to. A great way to convey this in everyday life is to: Order girls. If you walking along the road and want to get to the other side tell them "cross now" instead of "we should cross now". The second expresses doubt and that you seek their validation of your choice. Everything you say and every decision should be made as if you are certain of your action and will be confident in the result.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 12:08 PM
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Love her back: "You didn't have to tell me" wink Don't love her back: "You didn't have to tell me" wink
/r/askTRP04/05/14 11:58 AM
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People are going to want to fuck or befriend the guy who they all see fucking 10's. They are not going to want to fuck or befriend the guy who loud-mouths about the 10's he's fucked that no one has seen him do. Try-hards or amog wannabes get nowhere. They try to hard to make an impact and appear powerful but they just appear weak and insecure. Be bold but not flagrant.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 09:56 PM
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Fucking hell this happened to me the other day and I didn't even register it. She said "you can choose any girl you want". I wasn't even doing anything with her, just flirting yet she took it as though I was "monogamising" myself to her.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 08:30 PM
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They all paid attention to me when we met because of my good looks, but it became clear to them that I was a needy, beta faggot This was very much me at 16-17. I got a noticeable amount of female attention but looking back I can almost see how the girls went from being sexually attracted to just wanting to sit on a pretty boy's lap. Best thing I did was start getting bigger because girls began to see me with lust more but that came more so from the fact I became selfish and stopped caring about …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 10:24 AM
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Interesting, will give it a read.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 09:39 AM
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PM
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 09:32 AM
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I found this girl on Instagram. Fat as fuck. And she says she's an aspiring alternative model. She plays Xbox, has enormous fatty tits and you guessed it, gets a shit tonne of male, loser gamer attention and her posts are as though she is a gorgeous girl not a 250lb fatty with wonky eyes. She no doubt gets zero attention in the real world but acts as though she should. She posted lots of fitness models tagging them as though her repulsive, lazy lifestyle and body are good enough for someone who …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 11:30 PM
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There is no such thing as unconditional love however the author has a sincere logic wheel going on and isn't acting or writing on pure emotional drivel. She seems remarkable compared to most other women.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 11:19 PM
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Marriage is a huge risk for men: when they put those rings on our fingers they are giving us enormous power over their emotional and financial well-being because the courts love us and would let us walk away with the kids and the goods if we schemed to do it. We should remember what our men have given up in life when they married us (independence, time, finances), and do our best to help them believe and feel that they’ve actually gained something instead. We need to bring something to the marri…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 11:17 PM
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I know some lads who are all nice and chill but they're a mix of Indians, Asians and sub 5's out of 10. Every time I check my Facebook feed they are booked in to the guestlist on another clubbing night. At least once a week. They've been tens of times more than me but never pull. Not one of them, and that is what they're going out to do, but they wouldn't admit that because they're continuously failing. I pity them because they're throwing money on the ground and getting nothing what they'd hope…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 09:48 PM
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When I was mid bulk - I had got a little fat I sent a girl a photo of my sizeable body at that point. She went from interested to completely uninterested in under a second, simply because I didn't have abs. And this was me with developed traps, shoulders and chest. Don't just get big. Get lean. All this stuff about girls telling you what to do to get girls is garbage. Girls are liars and they aren't about to tell you that they'd fuck you simply because you have a nice body because they have far …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:20 PM
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I think it's blind arrogance that they honestly think they can challenge biology and the history of the human race. I call absolute bitterness. The women believing this tripe are the ones who fail to attract men.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 05:28 PM
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My parents have been married for 20 years and been with each other for 26. They live by this where my father works 12 hour days and my mother does the housework and cooking. Yes, she sometimes complains about having too much to do but it has worked near seamlessly for this entire time. If both people are full time you'd expect housework to be split as is fair but for entitled girls to expect a top tier man even though they can be a shit woman is awful. They have got to realise that they can go a…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 10:14 AM
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Anyone can notice that all of Reddit's insecurities and sexual failure come out in the massive /r/AskReddit threads. I find it hard to believe the people who disclose awkward female encounters, self-doubts and how they are always depressed are the same people who slander those who not only look good but feel proud and confident of themselves.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 08:14 PM
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We really are that straightforward. Women will never understand that they don't need to do loads of "thinking about you" shit to please their man. To keep him forever just suck him off and make sure a steak is on the table for him every evening.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 07:15 PM
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We really are that straightforward. Women will never understand that they don't need to do loads of "thinking about you" shit to please their man. To keep him forever just suck him off and make sure a steak is on the table for him every evening.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 07:14 PM
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Someone make an equally critical, outrageous article that written by men about women. Can guarantee that women will accuse it of being wrong because "men can't write about women because they aren't one". This article is revolting. I would be shunned and abused if I spoke of ways to keep men happy and condescend women like this. I would be classed as sexist and misogynistic. So men are made to selflessly devote themselves to female happiness with zero return? This vitriolic bitch offers nothing b…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 12:51 PM
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Blue as fuck. I am the polar opposite of him. I am very similar in some mannerisms but our opinions are contrastive. I had to take it upon myself to learn about what the fuck goes on. I've never had a true father-son relationship with him which I've put down to him being a more meek father. He has given me great opportunity however because he worked hard to get where he is.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:11 PM
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This drives me mad. In "discussions" with girls about feminism/gender divide I am presumed wrong if I state logical fact just because it can be offensive (to easily offended people...). Emotional opinions are almost always garbage and is pretty much the counter-argument I always receive. Emotional outburst =/= Biological fact.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:16 PM
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Get muscular and say whatever the fuck you want and you will score. It is a fucking amazing feeling when you first start saying what you really want to say and getting away with it. Never back down when a girl pretends to stop you, ie: Doesn't want to appear she gives in too early. Assume every girl wants to fuck you
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:11 PM
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Say it without looking up at her in as disinterested voice as you can. You don't have much else to demonstrate as high value as you can with her, but as with many of us, the gym has made our value so much higher than it would be normally (I owe practically everything to the visual attraction it gives and the confidence it develops). I do the uninterested act frequently to girls who expect you to want to talk to them and it makes them crave your attention. Stand out from the crowd in how you inte…
/r/askTRP23/04/14 06:42 PM
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The only thing it does it make guys in shape appear even more high value. It's a very good way to distinguish women you don't want anything to do with.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:01 PM
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Why wasn't the girl punished? If the man was convicted of rape his life would be ruined, all because of her. Why the fuck wasn't she given a harsh, life changing punishment in that attempt to ruin his life. Where's the fucking equality? Crying and lying about rape should be treated the same as rape itself. Shows total disregard for the disastrous impact she can cause and utterly disgraceful solipsism. The poster was laughing about it but he completely forgets that she could have fucked him up an…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:22 AM
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Girls in the late teens now and who are active on social media are the absolute worst. Tonnes of beta boys liking, commenting favouriting photos give the girl an enormous feeling of superiority, where she can upload anything when in need of validation because she knows many desperate boys will support her.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:11 AM
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Depends on the girl. The higher up she is on the narcissitic scale the less likely she messaged you (and half her male contacts) for something other than validation. Too often I reply to a girl after she sent me this and don't get one back (even though she messaged first...) They FEED off attention and they suck it out of guys silly enough to give it away for free.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:07 AM
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It's an unwinnable battle a lot of the time. You either continue onwards and get nothing back or you call them out and they then just start talking to the next fit guy who messaged/approaches them. It's unbelievably prevalent in girls who are big on social media and get a lot of attention there, because they don't have to do anything to get everything. Just last night a girl started going extremely cold on me, saying "haha ok" and I just said "You're being really blunt". Next message that comes …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:03 AM
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Do as others say. I had a beanpole shape where my shoulders, sides and hips are rectangular. I built my lats and shoulders from pull-ups and overhead press / lateral raises and I now get told I look like an upside down triangle. Also try losing some fat.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 08:54 AM
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Vitamin D3. I was taking about 2000IU a day and I felt great. This was because D3 supports testosterone production and being in the miserable UK I don't get much from the sun. Test alone makes you feel better and look better, causing you to gain muscle and lose fat. Drink water too. Edit: I'm planning on taking 5000Iu D3 soon. The regular cheapo multivitamins have poverty amounts of the vitamins.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 07:39 PM
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Do things that are selfishly productive. Metaphorically build something that you can be proud of. Focus on the things that benefit you and only you. If you sit and dwell in a pit of misery you will only make things worse, so get up and go do that exact thing you've wanted to do for 2 years. Put yourself at the forefront of things because this builds self-respect. If you experience those emotions, you likely do not respect yourself.
/r/askTRP21/04/14 07:31 PM
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Look at the massive increase in subscribers in r/TRP. I first started reading around 6 months ago and started posting 4 months ago, and this was after a year reading blogs in the manosphere. I am not where I want to be and I wasn't even that bad when I began so you can only imagine the quality of the newbies commenting, submitting and diluting the messages of the main sub. The majority of people on TRP (especially after the recent blowups) are your average Reddit subscriber, - a "socially awkwar…
/r/AlreadyRed21/04/14 02:51 PM
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I'm at college/school. I could pay £70 for a gym membership for 3 months but instead I built my own dip bars and homemade barbell and get the best workouts lifting in my barn. I do not have the money. Look at bodyweight work, it is very fulfilling and extremely cheap. My pull up bar was £20 and has given me at least a hundred hours of use. You're ahead of many guys your age because you can cook and look after yourself. Do as others have suggested and buy a cheap bike. My family gardener travels …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 11:08 AM
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Accustom yourself to these environments. I hadn't been clubbing for months but then went to a Uni club when I went to see a friend. I had nothing to indicate high status apart from my physique because my friend was low status and he had no mates there. That was all I needed. It is all about testing the boundaries of your confidence and your social standing. When was clubbing I tested my boundaries and saw how fucking easy it is to do what you want and get away with it if you express supreme conf…
/r/askTRP20/04/14 10:52 AM
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> your vibe, body language and boldness will determine your success. Spot on.
/r/askTRP20/04/14 10:50 AM
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At the very core of this is the message that you have got to lead and decide. The problem is not that you sent her a dickpic and got nothing good back. It is that you did as she said. Always lead, always decide and you'll always win.
/r/askTRP20/04/14 10:28 AM
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He's got a shit load of work to do and a lifetime of failure to put right.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 08:15 PM
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Just watch how that girl in the boardgame club absolutely shits on him. She is supposed to be "just friends" but she bullies him. That is what happens with every single girl if you let it. You don't exist to a girl who isn't interested in you and she will feel superior to you because she feels too good for you. Even geek girls are girls at heart, and likely have some of the biggest egos (if over a 5/10) of all time because they get so much desperate male attention.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 12:14 PM
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Saying it with confidence shows you have god mode game.
/r/askTRP19/04/14 11:56 AM
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Fun.
/r/askTRP19/04/14 11:55 AM
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I know. About half a year ago when I found this sub I tried to nudge my friends into checking it out but its just a silly endeavour. I want to show people how they too can honestly flip their lives around, but you have to let people find the way (if ever) in their own time. Help guys on here with things you learn and you're doing a much more worthwhile service.
/r/askTRP18/04/14 05:43 PM
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Give her a long friendly asexual hug and console her for 4 hours telling her everything will be alright.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 05:39 PM
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Don't let it slide. You have the plain truth in front of you - she wants to see a sexual partner of hers. I'd soft next her personally because you're about to enter a big shit test. If she agrees not to meet him and does as you wish, keep her but don't reward her. Let her know what she did wrong = Best scenario If you let her see him she will think you're weak and will take more leniences from you. You must either continue seeing each other but she won't see him or she'll see him and you must le…
/r/askTRP18/04/14 05:07 PM
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Don't even bother. The only thing that will make them go "TRP actually makes a whole lot of sense" is when they sit down and reflect on the reasons they fucking suck with women. Please don't even bring it up, especially as a newbie with people outside. Unless worded well (such as through comedy) no one will agree with you and you can seriously ostracise yourself if you make a firm standpoint. Those fucks out there pick on any misworded sentence and tear it apart making you sound like as much of …
/r/askTRP18/04/14 05:01 PM
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It's the same reason when a girl cheats on her partner. A friend of mine told me about his ex and that she cheated on him on holiday, "the bitch!". She cheated on him because he failed to maintain attraction so she swung onto another branch. Yes, at the end of the day it's the girl's decision on whether she cheats, but the reasons for her cheating are always caused by her partner. "She takes her cues from you"
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 01:55 PM
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Don't bother with stuff like Tinder unless you have facial aesthetics or a good body. It is entirely based on first impressions and no matter your game if you look like a shit male you aren't getting any. Remember that even the mid range girls (5-7) are going for the top males. There is no 5s going for 5s and 10s going for 10s.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 09:23 AM
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Well this makes me glad I don't have a sister. You can always tell her the best, good guys won't like her if she sleeps around but really it's down to who she associated with and if she's a cocky bitch.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 11:31 PM
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This is the one correct point. He shows-off on social media New ride? New booty call? Yep, you'll know about it - they're always on top of your feed. Some lads are massive attention seekers and their worth doesn't count unless it's broadcasted. If you can appear high value without the need to aggressively brandish your latest success you've won.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 11:28 PM
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It can be quite tough but I habitually and boldy said no to my own father after he asked me to do something. People feel respect for you more than they feel offended.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 11:10 PM
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This has got to be satire, it's just too much of a goldmine. I want to know what it’s like to be desired for more than my body. Nice guys want your body. Otherwise they'd be happy with "just friends". I want to know what it’s like to have someone who will always show up, who will always make time for me and who will always respect me Queue the endless line of her lifetime orbiters. This article is unreal. She's had the cock till other younger girls are getting picked instead of her and so now go…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 11:07 PM
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All the chumps soaking up the girl Redditors words probably think they have lots of secret weapons from behind enemy lines and they're going to deploy them in the next female interaction they have (if they're lucky) hoping, hoping to god they will get their willy touched. Depressing excuses for men.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 10:45 PM
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It's strange how the people who give you the most shit are the people closest to you. My parents call me unhealthy, fat and that I need to diet. The only friends of mine who support my lifting are the ones who also lift. It all changes when you meet new people because they compliment you and how you look and the more alpha men take much better to you because you seem like one of them. I don't know how my mum thinks her words will stop me lifting when I get female attention focussed entirely on h…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 10:41 PM
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RM1 is a whipped bitch who's doing as his mistress orders. Tell RM1 what you really think about his pathetic actions. Tell him what you thought of his gf as bluntly as you can. Don't argue, just make him feel as emasculated as he acted.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 10:32 PM
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If your girl initiated the idea of an open relationship (I guess she did?) she doesn't want to fuck you alone. She wants other big boys cocks but you for the relationshippy part. She is going to fuck a lot of guys. You are not going to fuck many if any girls. This open relationship is not as friendly as it sound. She will prosper and you won't. If you can by chance pick up numerous gorgeous girls and fuck them so she can see, I guarantee your gf will want to close the relationship. That tells yo…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 10:28 PM
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you'll start to love it. I'm addicted to it. It is the simplest way to make you the most powerful man in the room. Watch people's reactions and you can literally see their eyes fill with respect when you are blunt and not wishy washy. Also "no" should be your goto response to everything you're asked that you don't want to do or have no benefit from. No = Power.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 05:48 PM
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You don't want to go near her boyfriend because just breathing the same air as him will make you 15 times more beta. Seriously, if he knows you're fucking his gf and hasn't thrown her out the door he is a massive wankstain.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 05:39 PM
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Get into more encounters. Same thing happens here but over time I've gotten better and better at throwing out witty retorts that shut the girl down. Your wit is usually the best armour you have against a girl.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 05:36 PM
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I didn't say it was about sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 03:52 PM
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Don't use words like gorgeous or stunning to try to get in her pants. Give a compliment after you have. If you throw words at her and you haven't kissed yet you are giving praise for nothing and she'll expect it for nothing. Complimenting her after you've had your hand down her pants expresses your approval and that in order to get your sparsely used and well deserved praise she must earn it, be it through sex, dressing well for you or doing something thoughtful.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 09:08 AM
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Attraction is based on age. A young girl in her twenties, no matter what she looks like (unless she is fat and grotesque) is in her prime and is biologically attractive compared to a 70 year old women who went through the menopause 30 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 08:38 AM
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"my number"... doesn't really say much of anything about my actual sex life. And, it definitely has no bearing on me as a person. Yet it makes her feel accomplished? There is a lot of "wanting the cake and to eat it too" where women want to get fucked by a lot of top tier men but then they don't want men to view them as lower value when they come to settling down because of it. It's a biological factor of attraction that neither women nor men can control and so ignoring it because you want dick …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 08:27 AM
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It also keeps her thinking about you when she sends a message. She has NO idea if you've read it or not, which will cause her to be over-thinking about if you're ignoring her, genuinely away from your phone or busy (always good to be busy). All these factors incite attraction and will make her work harder for you. Also you can always get away with, "I didn't catch your text".
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 10:50 PM
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Rape is often more about power than because the female is attractive. It's why so many elderly women are raped.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 10:37 PM
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Then the conversation turns into why I'm such a bastard who is playing with a few girls' feelings When she's the one starting it all by getting off with other guys. Hilarious. Strong frame is exactly this. Showing zero reaction or care (even if deep down you do somewhat) is unbelievably sexy and the girl will try so hard for you. The longer you express little care of trivial matters, the easier it is to adopt a frame where nothing unimportant bothers you.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 10:11 PM
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Because that's all they think about. Themselves.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 10:02 PM
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I gauge the "chemistry" between me and a girl purely based on if she gets my jokes. It's a bummer when you come across a girl and your sarcastic wit goes straight through them, if anything I think it lowers your attraction to them because it widens the gap between you two. There is very little else I talk to girls about except flirting or teasing and making them laugh.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 10:01 PM
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I think anyone in their right mind would rather be anything that what he described himself. Honestly, I can almost feel him saying those terrible qualities about himself with disgust. He most likely hates himself and his life but oh no the Redpill is full of rubbish men that are worse than him and shouldn't say mean things! I also hate the term "socially awkward" as though it's some kind of illness or unmanageable problem. You're awkward in social situations because you're a pussy with nothing i…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 09:53 PM
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Yes. To even talk to someone both persons must have said to the app that they find that person attractive. So basically from the outlet people are talking to people they already know are interested. It obviously only works if you are physically attractive, and there's none of the endless "about me" sections.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 03:02 PM
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I don't care if I'm simply fucking the girl but new age technology makes it the easiest thing in the world for any girl to get fucked numerous times a week. Because of this I don't want to date a girl monogamously.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 12:52 PM
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So standing up for women as a whole but attacking any individual that disagree with them? No change there.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:20 PM
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they use it as community therapy and a way of striking back at the very same men who they secretly wish were plowing them. Fat, ugly, shy girl I know fits perfectly into this. She always moaned about a certain boy back at college (who happens to be very good looking, cool and obviously never paid her any attention) by saying how much of a dickhead he was. I then asked her if that guy came up to her and asked her for sex would she say yes. Her answer came out before she even realised what she sai…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:15 PM
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This is spot on. high risk individuals are women constantly flirting with anyone and everyone, always dropping innuendo anecdotes about sexual tension I know a girl from a family party - who is about 17 and a 4/10 and she did something slightly annoying to which I jokingly shouted, "fuck you!" and then she said "maybe later" in a half-assed seductive tone. It was as if she felt some sense of power and self-satisfaction just saying something "edgy" and "brave" like that. She later said that "wome…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:08 PM
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There's something aggressive, haughty and unapproachable in most feminist women I've met. For all the misogynistic chatter feminists believe about men, I think they are comparatively more misandric.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:00 PM
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This actually saddens me. The number of girls who went from low partner count to fucking 3 new guys a week is insane and it's making it that much harder to find an attractive girl who hasn't had more cocks than I have fingers. Just a girl having Tinder on their phone is a red flag for wanting anything more than a plate. Young guys who are after LTRs better change what they're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 05:47 PM
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We all help each other on here so why wouldn't you help him out there? He is getting himself into some serious shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 05:37 PM
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Depends on: Quality of her friends and number. A bigger group would typically mean a load of single girls wanting some dick. What clothes she wears out. She'll want to wear something attractive of course, but if she's showing her cleavage, tummy and upper thighs she isn't just there for the dancing. What she drinks. If she is prepped to get absolutely hammered on spirits, that's a big red flag. If she's taking two WKDs or Smirnoff Ice's and comes back early and sober then she is out for the musi…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 05:35 PM
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I think that the most attractive women have the least insecurities because they have an underlying confidence that they are the most attractive girls. Average and just above girls are always trying far too hard to reach that level but just know they can't. I know a bunch of 6-7's and they all talk to as many boys as possible and are loud, bratty and desperate to be considered "really hot" and fit in with the calmer, most beautiful girls.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 05:24 PM
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Partly. Often when you see an arrogant person called out as arrogant you see them whimper away as their veneer has been scraped off. If you don't let it phase you, you will appear confident, which is the ultimate attraction factor. I've been called arrogant more times than I can imagine and I normally pretend not to hear, but I never react/justify myself. The moment you react, your appear extremely insecure and any attraction for you is vaporised.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 05:03 PM
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It seems a lot are in denial. They want to get girls and they want it now! I imagine seddit has a fair few posers and mockeries of men who don't want to accept where they fail or try to develop themselves.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 10:35 PM
1

This makes me think of what I want when (not if) I have a son. I want to do exactly the opposite of what my father did and make my son a kickass confident kid from the get go. I want him well rounded, physically and mentally strong and a pleasure to be with and talk to. My dad simply wanted me to do well in school, get a respectable degree and play an instrument.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 10:40 PM
1

Was in scouts from the age of 14 to 18. The term was more "Exploration" because we did badass hikes, camping and survival. I made my closest friends there because we actually did things and pushed through hardship together. We cooked, climbed, bantered and built serious friendship after spending 24/7 with each other. I learnt how to make fires, canoe for 6 hours on end and climbed the tallest mountain in Indochina. You aren't going to make an unbreakable friendship comfortably sitting on your as…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 10:37 PM
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Either tell her to come alone or not at all or straight up cancel seeing her. If she's attracted enough she'll want another date asap.
/r/askTRP03/04/14 08:18 PM
6

From repulsive to hot.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 07:18 PM
9

Very interesting but depressingly this is probably true. The only time I talk about gym with other people is if: They lift They bring it up because they can tell I lift. The people who chatter about going to the gym in my experience are either girls (the more muscular I get the more they tell me they go to the gym) or guys who've been in there for less than 6 months and want everyone to know they're going to be looking like Rob Riches by summer. The common denominator between these is attention …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 07:11 PM
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For all the self-improvement I see here, such as guys telling each other to take up hobbies and skills, I never read of feminists talking about what women can do to become a better person through something that requires genuine persistence and effort. It is all "want, want, want", "men must do this", "men must do that so we feel equal". There is nothing I see apart from complaining, and yes sometimes TRP has complaining threads but guys are doing something about it. There is a whole lot of "be h…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:55 PM
2

I don't like how she compares the acts between what she did and what her boyfriend did, as though that justifies her going to meet an ex. The fact she made the concious decision to go see someone she'd been sleeping with while in a relationship shows a total lack of empathy, respect and forethought. Most people in that thread are over analysing the itty-bitty details and missing the bigger, more important picture.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:36 PM
1

Is that what happens?? I'm certain that my lower back muscles force my ass outwards.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:24 PM
2

Who would want to date a girl who spends time with multiple boys who all want to fuck her? It shows a cruel selfishness of the girl and that she has self-esteem issues requiring other people to attend to making her feel good. It's like she consumes other peoples' qualities but doesn't give much/anything back.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:02 PM
1

Haha Victor Pride, been a big fan of him for ages.
/r/askTRP01/04/14 02:57 PM
6

Become more selfish. Start demanding everything on your terms and develop the confidence to say "no". Watch this short video. I'm sure you'd much rather have told that girl that you will only spend time with her if you're sleeping with her too. And this is what you need to start doing. Live by your rules instead of letting others dictate theirs over you.
/r/askTRP01/04/14 08:48 AM
1

Aggression and frustration can be recognised as insecurity. Beware if you try to out-alpha people with brash dominance because if you get called out on it, regaining frame for some can be very difficult and your rep can be trashed and you dubbed a phoney. Do as RPS says. Balance yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 07:41 PM
1

Honestly, confidence cannot be truly faked. I had done so for months on end but I always still felt insecure inside. It takes a lot of effort and you can be very vulnerable because if people poke at you for being fake you will get eaten alive because your veneer frame is very likely to shatter. The good that comes actively appearing confident is that the more you get put into situations outside your comfort zone - like the art show - you will become more comfortable and confident in that environ…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 08:34 AM
7

I always get shat on by other guys for treating girls as if they're just a person and nothing special. It's like I'm expected to treat them as princesses. For no reason whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 08:23 AM
28

Basically if a girl is clingy and does whatever you say she likes you a lot. If you're unsure of whether a girl likes you (always assume she does otherwise self-doubt can build up) just ask her to do something relatively minor for you. She WILL do it if she likes, respects and looks up to you.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 08:19 AM
7

I get a fair few nudes from girls on Snapchat. Bit of fun and it sets you up extremely nicely for if you're going to meet them. Girls have serious power on it. As you say mass snaps. I have like 60 girls on it and I get too many snaps from random girls which are extremely vague and easy to spot that they've sent it to a tonne of boys. It's a very good method of understanding female attention seeking. At any one point my story list is chock-a-block with girls posting utter crap - Selfies / a phot…
/r/askTRP31/03/14 08:15 AM
1

Cheers man! Definitely gonna get involved in a team at Uni, because the camaraderie alone is amazing.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 09:45 AM
1

Rugby is the sole reason I started lifting, loved the sport but was never big or strong enough. Rugby > American Football
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 12:10 AM
2

I am certain that lifting boosted my T-levels. I was a wimpy little turd with no confidence. I literally felt renewed vigour, aggression, power and indestructibility when I sorted my health out. I know for a fact I had low T in my early teenage years - I ate little and terribly, I slept 5-6 hours a night and I did no real sport. I felt pathetic, emotional and I wanted to please people so they didn't hate me. I am interested in physiology and hormones and I am certain small, weak kids feel like t…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 09:57 PM
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Goes to show girls don't need to "find themselves" by shagging loads of randoms just so they fit in to the feminist idealism. It lowers their SMV over time, they find it harder to emotionally connect to one man and they often ditch a solid man so they can do what all their girlfriends do. They regret it because they become less attractive as they age and men don't want them for anything more than a fuckhole. Take responsibility. For once.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 08:34 PM
1

You've got to be kidding! I'm 165 now (albeit a little fat) and 180 lean would be a nice target for me.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 10:51 AM
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Lol I thought that. 130lb 5'10 when I started. THAT was scrawny.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 11:03 PM
8

I get swolested fairly frequently. Girls reach out to feel my pecs and in response I give their boob(s) a squeeze. Hasn't ended badly once.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 10:59 PM
6

You completely remove her from your life by doing making sure everything you do is for yourself. This is prime time for you to be selfish.
/r/askTRP28/03/14 10:36 PM
1

Gotcha. Loved playing, mostly chatting with a couple mates about random shit in the nightime. Sometimes we sat for a couple hours chatting and laughing without even playing. There's a definite camaraderie that is born through playing together, much like sport.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 04:39 PM
3

If you can't get taller, get wider. I'm 5'10/11 but am shorter compared to a large majority of guys around me (at least 6'0) The thing I have they don't is that I look strong and the confidence that comes with it gets me a lot more female attention and respect than their extra couple inches of height gives.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 11:38 AM
2

This is the reason guys shouldn't waste time trying to get a girl who's always rejected them. Find new people who haven't known you before and after your change. They won't try to smack you down because that's just who you are in the time they've known you.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 11:16 AM
1

Over time your instinct will be typical Redpill, asshole, sarcastic/cocky comments, these are honestly the best because they leave no vulnerability and display your own sense of confidence. Literally every single encounter with a girl I speak through my gut BUT I control it with my mind to make sure I don't slip up or get too comfortable. Once you get comfortable you may start saying BP cutesy shit and you wipe out your own frame.
/r/askTRP28/03/14 11:05 AM
1

Used to hop on the Xbox every Friday-Sunday at 6-11/12 for a good few years. Even though I occasionally turn it on and lose myself in Skyrim or something I often forget I even have an Xbox. I used to want to maximise my time playing because I was only allowed on the weekends. Now I limit myself purely because I want to do other things. Don't feel you have to give something you have fun doing up for the sake of "being more RP", just learn to balance your time between productive and playful things…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 10:47 AM
1

Hmm, that's strange, I had the idea that women typically become tied to one man at a time, or they are just slutbombs not tied to any man.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:20 PM
4

Don't chatter your opinions. Your friends seem like they just want to agree with each other so a combined view that they disapprove of your alpha friend's actions. There is NO POINT arguing. So instead act. When you show them the success and happiness you make for yourself they will ask you what you've been up to. Arguing is stupid, it makes you enemies from friends and people gang up on you. It crushes your reputation. Just lead by example.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 07:28 PM
1

Women control sex, men control commitment. when did girls become sluts, or teases, or skanks for going out to dinner with one boy on Friday night, and then to a movie with another on Saturday? you didn’t have to completely commit to one guy until he asked you to “go steady.” Now this is fucking stupid. We all know how bad girls are at stopping talking to guys. If the girl you took out has another date lined up the next day, I'm thinking to myself; "why on earth would I want to date this girl whe…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:04 PM
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They're similar contrasts but plates require something other than being pretty with a vagina. Orbiters give themselves to a girl simply for the hope of sexual acceptance whereas plates are earned.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:38 PM
1

Agree to an extent. Self-control definitely comes into play.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 07:45 PM
2

I actually find it hard not to hate this guy. I don't like pushovers regardless but he is a stupid doormat who takes everything literally and that his girlfriend's words are made of gold. No hope for him.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:31 AM
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Could be that as soon as you got with her you felt that something beautiful is about to bloom and portrayed it to her. A friend of mine did this with a fit girl right after he'd got with her - talking about all the things they'd do together and that she was going to be a big part of his life. It creeped her out and she hurriedly got away from him.
/r/askTRP25/03/14 10:23 AM
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It's always disturbed me somewhat when a guy whose girlfriend cheated on him calls her a "bitch" for doing so. If there was any introspection he would realise it boils down to him losing her attraction rather than her being a bitch. It's biochemical. If a girl has any thoughts on talking to or going to meet another man you have already lost her. It's why marriage is so terrible because a woman can still be bound to you and everything you own by law even though her internalised bond with you is n…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:18 AM
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How some guys can say he is overreacting to a blatant breach of boundaries and sexual exhibition is hilarious, it's as if they are used to being run over by women and are submissive to all her outrageous demands.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:09 AM
1

It's funny how you can make friends with lads easily if you speak with confidence, are fun and open but if you snap up girls they hound over before you talk, they will hate you for being better than them.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 09:56 AM
1

No problem man.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 10:40 PM
0

Dependent on the man and the degree of the make-up. Lots of variable factors in play.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 10:36 PM
2

Don't give out information like you did so easily: "I was talking about setting out to find a relationship" As other posters have said, TRP is open ended and it's not a set of rules or lines you should say/do. I'll talk about that quote of yours and how it is inherently NOT RP. You basically tell her you're desperate. It says you don't have pick of the crop and that you aren't very good with girls because you have to wait a while till you meet one that actually likes you. Don't be so open to som…
/r/askTRP24/03/14 10:32 PM
6

Spend an evening (day preferably) reading through the sidebar. But here are some basic ideas: The main idea is the truth behind sex and the balance between men and women. Accepting their differences and understanding what you really need to do to have success with them which you can maintain indefinitely. Building a rounded, unbreakable persona that makes you attractive. Growing a set of balls - Independence, Confidence, High Self-Esteem. Do what you want. Increasing your Social Market Value (SM…
/r/askTRP24/03/14 10:18 PM
9

Ignore them. Make their efforts seem in vain and that no matter how hard they try to be visible they are insignificant to you.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 09:57 PM
3

This genuinely upsets me. I cannot fathom how something can reach this futile and pathetic a state. He's going to need a lot of selfishness and drive to sort himself out and find more women.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 09:52 PM
2

At least he serves some purpose to keep you in check then haha
/r/askTRP24/03/14 03:10 PM
2

100%. This guy is far too self-concious and I would never befriend him. It appears his self-esteem is rock bottom and entirely dependent on other people's opinion. It would drive me mad spending time with him, especially as he drags you down with him by speaking for the both of you. If you want to talk to him, don't be angry or anything because he would call out insecurity (covering up his own), but ask him why he acts like such a supplicating servant to girls. Subtle insults that push him for t…
/r/askTRP24/03/14 01:40 PM
1

If I had girls constantly hitting on me I wouldn't be doing anything but having sex. That would be bad because I'd get nothing important done like moan about being hit on too much.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 01:21 PM
1

Lol, a woman who thinks she can exchange her looks for your hard earned wallet and resources is all too common nowadays.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 12:35 PM
5

I'd personally rather be treated as an object that gets a ton of attention than be treated as an outcast. This is exactly what girls want. Why else would they continue to dress provocatively? The "Stop looking pervert" line is a logic-less defence for the real reasons they show they goods off.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 12:30 PM
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Having career success like this ultimately contributes to a stronger sexual strategy and a higher SMV. Take a look at Bold & Determined. It is an epitome of entrepreneurship, self-discipline, confidence, and building oneself. Tell me that doesn't form a positive identity for men.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 02:27 PM
1

Agreed, but there is a difference between good looking and bad looking girls. Typical higher confidence in hotter girls (not necessarily self-esteem) can be quite standoffish because they know another attractive man could approach them in 20 minutes. This means you have to have some mandatory attributes before you even get talking to the girl, but you're right that the principles don't change.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 11:16 AM
2

Definitely. Being bored as a man is unattractive, as I've noticed when I've told girls I'm bored. It says you don't have enough enjoyable things in your life and that you're not bored but you're a boring person. Curiously this doesn't have the same meaning for when girls are bored... You're right because when a girl says they're bored it's supposed to to be your cue to do something about it. 50% of girls I have on Snapchat have sent at least one photo titled "bored" as though it's up to the rece…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 10:49 AM
1

My thoughts as well...
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 10:44 AM
2

The whole masculinity sphere is what has made me genuinely happy and content with myself. It helped me stop caring what other people think and I was able to do what I want on my terms. My self-respect has soared and it's all made possible by the Manosphere and TRP. I've ironed out weaknesses and it's helping me develop unbreakable self-esteem. Still have weaknesses and insecurities here and there but the more I actively live by RP principles the more I feel like a man and not a shy, meek child.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 12:13 AM
2

Always assume a girl wants to sleep with you until she shows you otherwise.
/r/askTRP23/03/14 12:03 AM
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This can't be real...... It's like: Her requirements 10/10 man no exceptions Herself Fat fuck No discipline You're gonna pay for my 5 kids Entitled beyond belief
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 11:59 PM
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Great post. Some prerequisites for a wingman: He must be a confident, attractive person. Your SMV feeds off each other when you both meet new people. If you're hanging around with someone unconfident, uncool and poorly dressed/groomed that blows over onto you, because if you hang out with a loser, surely you must be a loser too? Like you said, Never tool a wing. In many social situations you see lads slashing down on each other trying to get to the top, and all this does is make your tandem look…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 11:51 PM
1

No problem my man
/r/askTRP22/03/14 11:34 PM
1

Balance. No one wants to be a mindless brute, but then again you're a man and thinking with your dick/gut is what you're born to do.
/r/askTRP22/03/14 08:19 PM
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Why are you on TRP if you're allowing yourself to have your emotions controlled by someone else and refusing to deal with them? Move on bro, and ask on /r/relationships instead of here if you're not going to apply RP principles to your life. They'll tell you what you want to hear but not what you need.
/r/askTRP22/03/14 08:13 PM
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TRP aren't your parents. It's not that black and white either. Independence is important to be RP and asking silly questions isn't. But to answer your question, apologising (in this context) is BP because it shows you hold guilt and regret. Focus on creating your own direction instead of asking for instructions.
/r/askTRP22/03/14 08:03 PM
1

Brilliant, and that is the curse of weight-training, if you don't have good hormonal balance it can all be for nothing.
/r/askTRP21/03/14 09:57 PM
1

You looking into TRT then?
/r/askTRP21/03/14 09:28 PM
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And she gets away with it. Because of desperate pussy-boys wanting the epitome of "perfect girl gamer with massive boobs". Revolting person.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 09:22 PM
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Agree wholeheartedly. When I think about how girls are in real life (the relatively pretty ones) they get good treatment - Invited to parties, people talk to them, teachers / co-workers / bosses often treat them with more respect and amicability than other people simply for being born a girl. This results in entitlement and not having to do anything actually beneficial because they're already given everything. Take this privilege away and these images are the result. As a boy, to get invited to …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 09:16 PM
1

Don't you worry about that, I've made my choice
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 11:42 PM
2

She didn't really think it through...
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 11:41 PM
1

Forgetting about the lives of the 12 lost and all the many lives of those devastated by the loss just because they can't control their urges for the murderer. It's absolutely revolting but it shows just how fucking unstoppable our hard-wired biology is.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 04:59 PM
2

Came across this on Twitter..... A prime example of the lack of accountability. She didn't want to take responsibility and negative judgement for doing what she did so insults those who look at her negatively.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 04:46 PM
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This is hilarious, surprisingly believable and it does bring to the front the idea of differences between the genders and sex. It boggles my mind how people can think women and men who have lots of sex can be valued the same. For a man to go backstage with a girl band and sleep with them is unheard of and the amount of respect he'd bag by doing it would be huge. But it is very easy, if you are an above average looks girl to get laid and as such you do not deserve the respect of a man who does th…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 11:57 AM
1

Try it out in real life. When you're talking to someone fold your arms or cross your legs. If someone is genuinely interested in you and respects you then often follow suite and do what you do. This is why if you are in a small group walking somewhere and you are held in the highest regard you can simply walk where you want and the group will follow all unconsciously. It's a very good indicator that a person is attracted to you, holds high respect for you and wants you to like them. Typically yo…
/r/askTRP16/03/14 11:47 AM
2

Just never answer directly. Make a joke, people only ask boring questions because it's polite not because they care.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 11:48 PM
1

I'd want to join the army simply for the training and character building. I wouldn't want to go to war but after my time in an exploration and survival society I know it would be the best thing to kicking you in the butt and toughen you up. Do what you want to do. Don't dismiss uni so quickly though.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 11:46 PM
2

Girls say men are all the same but when I get girls who give me the same probey shit tests, laugh at the same things but fail to make me laugh and have this overwhelming entitled attitude that the fact they have boobs and a vagina is enough for men to want to do anything for them makes me feel that all women are the same (the 6/10s and above at least).
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 11:26 PM
2

Don't think that you are low SMV, tell yourself you have more value than you have yesterday. Everything is a journey and you aren't this or that. If you're working on yourself in some form or another you are increasing the value you have as a person.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 11:18 PM
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48 Laws of Power Law 19 Know Who You’re Dealing with – Do Not Offend the Wrong Person Law 38 Think as you like but Behave like others Don't try playing the stand out hero here. Write as you need to write and maintain positive relationships. I myself have gone all lone wolf on things before because I felt I had the righteous high ground but it ended up with me being shot down. Don't shatter your potential success by breaking the mould and ostracising yourself. Sometimes you've got to do things yo…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 11:14 PM
1

I've done this all too often. I once pretended I hadn't spent the night with a girl who really liked me and I said I didn't want anything more. I wasn't exact about what I wanted and she took the rejection extremely badly, chatting shit about me to everyone saying that she hated me and everything. The crazy thing is that my best friend took her side with it (wtf?) and said I need to stop being a dick. However it was at this point that her feelings for me peaked. Yes, they got stronger when I did…
/r/askTRP15/03/14 10:45 PM
7

Definitely. A lot of girls are drawn to guys that take drugs because there's a "don't give a fuck" attitude to it. I have a friend who was addicted to all kinds of drugs and a girl wanted to know all about him and he is a very meek, passive guy with few alpha male qualities, yet gets female attention because of his decisions. She then asked me why I didn't get involved with it. I see it as weakness and succumbing to peer pressure but in her eyes it is that I'm being a goody goody and not taking …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 10:39 PM
5

He's a beast and a man worthy of looking up to, even with his brash rudeness some would describe as childish.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 08:38 PM
2

Very good way of putting it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 04:37 PM
6

A man I know used to tell me that he hated Gordan Ramsey how he's too loud and cocky and unkind. It's silly though because he is the one who does a lot of good for other people. No one would love a quiet, reserved and kind little man, because quite often they wouldn't have the charisma and the confidence to do something on the scale as men like Ramsey. It's a miserable view where they say they hate him for being great and only see the "asshole" in him not his results. Then again jealousy of his …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 12:51 PM
2

Outrageous. Only after her son won £45 million has she had "anxiety and depression". You don't even need to read the insisting drivel, she has her eyes on his fortune and no amount of pleading for pity will reverse her poor parenting. If I moved away from my mum she would be texting, calling and emailing me numerous times a week consistently even if I didn't reply.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 09:44 PM
3

I see too many dudes who have to be macho and externally loud and deliberately deep voiced to think they're being manly, when they miss the genuine, deeper points about frame and security in oneself. So many fellas are a big exterior hiding a little mouse. It really doesn't matter what's on the outside - yes you may be judged and treated small if you are small and weak physically - but if you are an immovable decisive guy who never lets any opinion change his view of himself and his goals you ar…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 09:19 PM
1

I make a point of saying how it's really easy to talk to her This tells her that you find it hard to talk to most other girls. 3 hours is also far too long, I spent 4 hours with a girl but we were hooking up on a park bench the entire time. Secondly, you say she's LTR material yet you found her on Tinder... where people are on it simply to hook up. Remember that she may be seeing other boys, just because she hasn't been on a date doesn't mean she hasn't been sleeping around. A friend of mine get…
/r/askTRP14/03/14 08:53 PM
1

This is too funny and typical to be true, but if so it has RP theory in every corner.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:56 PM
1

You too mate!
/r/askTRP11/03/14 10:52 PM
2

My mum is very like this. This does her dues and is up with my dad, always makes good food, cleans and does what is required. Yes, she may spend a little too much money sometimes and I find her playing Candy Crush or chatting to her friends, but she's a damn site better than other mothers who do jack shit. She works part time too and I respect my mum a lot even though she can be childish.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:16 PM
13

[Related pic lol] (https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BiACmZXIQAA9LHo.jpg:large)
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:07 PM
1

I need to get doing this. Too many times I see a girl I like the look of, sometimes she looks at me and to be honest that's enough, to get the feeling that you know the girl would fuck you. In the end only a few times have I actually gone up to a girl randomly and the others are all wasted opportunities that I just get an ego boost from. Need to take the jump more and more often.
/r/askTRP11/03/14 09:55 PM
10

Get this all the time too. Anything that remotely suggests a difference in the sexes is met with hostility, namely by boys who don't get any...
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 09:49 PM
3

Lol, if he has any brains he should be doing exactly what you do... When I was in a club a couple months back a couple girls I knew from school were there and they were not even 5's, yet had the audacity to push through a bunch of lads to get to the bar. I was very close to pushing her to the ground. If that were a pair of boys they'd be beaten up.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 09:46 PM
1

I haven't been able to afford a gym membership because I am in education and I have been doing basic calisthenics for months. I have grown better in doing so because: I eat I train with more intensity and volume Yes pull-ups and dips are great and I have only gained size training each push/pull twice a week. However, lifting weights is by the superior choice because you can develop uniform, exact strength all over your body easily. Lifting won't stunt your growth, if anything I'd start now and g…
/r/askTRP11/03/14 08:57 PM
1

I remember back when I was an emotional, weak kid that I had a bigger ego than I do now. I was arrogant about the fact that I could see things from an effeminate point of view and as such relate to women better than the "jerks". My dad cemented this view in me saying it was a rare, and good quality to have. What I didn't realise or accept was that I was a pussy because it would have wounded me if I accepted that I was such. I hated "alpha" males and men with strength because I thought they will …
/r/askTRP11/03/14 08:50 PM
1

Agreed, but I believe that OP means don't supplicate to doing what other people want if you don't want to do it. Go and do what you enjoy. Nevertheless a good point that new fellas should take in.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 10:45 PM
1

Raises their perceived value and attractive too, a kind of cheerleader effect.
/r/askTRP10/03/14 10:32 PM
6

This is exactly what TRP's about. Take what you want from it and do what you want with it.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 09:16 AM
1

Well I am only in college and I was talking about men past education but yes, you are correct.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 07:19 PM
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And it is why I can't stand it when people say men and women are equal. The differences between are totally contrastive and always will be.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 12:52 PM
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Same here. When you realise just how much girls overvalue themselves, when they really have nothing that benefits you apart from their temporary bodies and nice looks you become so disconnected to them. I could not care less if a girl moves away and we never contact each other again. I couldn't care less if she's going to the same college as me. I just feel let down by girls because in order to get them you have to have everything but in order for them to get boys they just have to have somewhat…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 12:41 PM
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I love this
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:17 PM
2

There should be no notion of worry or care if she rejects you in your mind. As it appears there still is, if you get into a relationship with her, it would likely turn rotten because I can see you developing oneitis for her. I would say work on really not giving a shit about the outcome. Once you know you can deal with rejection as though it is just a raindrop on your shoulder you wouldn't even need to ask this question.
/r/askTRP07/03/14 05:16 PM
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bigging me up with some stories This is the reason you need strong friends. If you hang around with a bunch of insecure, weak males this treatment will never come your way because they're too feeble to stand up for themselves let alone you. I have bigged up some of my weaker friends in the past so they are seen in a better light by girls and my mates and they have thought I'm being patronising. If anything I never get staunch support from them and it's just shit talking about me to try make them…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:09 PM
1

It should be quite nice and easy to do so at your height because people naturally believe that tall people have high confidence too.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:33 AM
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I'm 5'10 but nearly all my friends are taller than me. I'm more confident, more muscular and get more girls than my mates and those successes definitely go beyond negating the height difference. If I let it bother me, I appear and feel inferior. Disregard something so uncontrollable because people will hate you if you show Small Man's Syndrome (there was a dude I used to go to school with, about 5'6-7 and he was the loudest, attention seeking little turd ever, and everyone hated him because he t…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 10:34 PM
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I hate reading this sub as much as I do because it just makes me mad at the irrationality and downright solipsistic mind tunnel that feminists are in and refuse to turn out of. What they're really saying is: "Feminism holds that men can be more than that, to do what we want"
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 10:06 PM
1

Sometimes I think they try to miss the point, but really they're probably just blind oblivious to any opinion but their own emotional reaction.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 10:02 PM
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The same can be said for men, I agree, however a muscular physique often requires months and years of hard work and dieting. Do you ever see women post on predominantly female fitness forums for critique and giving helpful motivation for other women? Quite often the answer is no and instead they post on Instagram because it is a way to snap up attention from men. Quite often these are girls who have had to do nothing for their body and are simply born with good boobs and nice legs. They aren't f…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 09:58 PM
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The feminazi fatty is missing the point. Women can do whatever the fuck they want to. But if they display their entire body across the internet they are going to have to accept that men will only want to talk to them because they appear easy. The vast amount of boys liking and commenting their photos tells me that I would never want to date that girl who does it all for the attention. I get numbers and snapchats off these girls who show as much skin as possible on their photos because I think sh…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 09:49 PM
2

Haha something similar happened to me a few days ago. A girl in my class tries very hard to make it seem she doesn't like me, but when our lesson finished and I went into a spare classroom with another girl alone in there (they've known each other for years) she comes in and I could see a mixture of envy, dislike for the girl and the need to come off happy and friendly. Girls don't want other girls to have you even if they don't want you.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 08:59 PM
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It's why there's occasionally chat about a male/female relationship is very like a father/daughter relationship. There is respect and mutual love. There is strength and a guiding hand on the father's side, but not a treatment of immaturity towards the girl. Subtle leadership ignites comfort, and I have found that the more I appear in control and stress free around girls I know, the more satisfied and safe the girl feels in my company. It isn't sexist to say men are naturally physically stronger …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 10:55 PM
2

No other comments are needed. This nailed it and told you everything you need to know.
/r/askTRP04/03/14 10:31 PM
2

I fear this is the case for my father... Even if he has a low libido, the case isn't made any better, because that means he's got rock bottom testosterone which will make him feel like shit all over. Anyway, he focusses on his own hobbies more than her so I hope she still feels attracted to him.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:29 PM
2

You really do feel consistently bewildered by situations when you don't have the basic RP framework. Now I have the backbone ingrained in me I can spot the reasons behind problems. The reasons why my mate's girl doesn't want to hang with him. I can spot the subtle jealousy of a girl when I'm talking to another. And the best bit is that you know the route to take to deal with these situations. The worse part about the fantasy between men in women is that it is wholly destructive of a man's self-e…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:26 PM
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Getting a DNA test is the same as a prenup. Never take her word for it that she will love you forever and stay by your side. Get official protection and that part of your life can be lived in absolute peace of mind.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:22 PM
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I see where you're coming from, but because I personally was able to push away the fact that everyone was stronger than me, everyone was bigger than me, I got a lot stronger and bigger than those guys who originally could have put me off. The problem there is people are comparing themselves to each other all the time. I'm still weaker than some dudes I know and unless they think that fact makes them better than me, I don't get bothered. It's insecurity and all men need to do something about it.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 08:17 AM
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Compared to themselves who sit at the TV all day. I used to think people just didn't see the value of training in the gym, but then I realised people are pussies and don't want to try to be as good as other people.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 10:45 PM
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I honestly used to hate dudes that were better than me. All the assholes at school I hated but I was in denial that deep down I wanted their power and I respected them. Being a weak man is the equivalent to what it feels like to be a little bitch. Horribly self-destructive. When you respect men for their achievements and work hard to equal if not better them, you've made leaps and bounds into being a respectable, likeable guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 10:42 PM
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Yes, they will band together if they directly benefit from it.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 10:38 PM
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I am planning other small things for his birthday. Sounds like she's infatuated by him. Who buys their friend small gifts as well as fuck them?? Girls gotta rationalise somehow.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 10:35 PM
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Another reason to not be the guy that listens to a girl about her asshole boyfriend. He's probably not even an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 10:19 PM
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It's must be a validation place for girls like that... I'm certain there was a post on here about the difference in men and women, especially in the gym. It was about how women simply do not put in the level of exertion into their training that men do and only a very tiny proportion of girls actually contort their faces when lifting. The main thing that pisses me off is when girls have to tell everyone they go to the gym but I can bet I put more work into one session than they do throughout thei…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 10:03 PM
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Attack every challenge with enthusiasm and postivity. The more risks you take and challenges you win, the more confident and powerful you become. Stand back and observe. Watch those who are strong and successful and understand how their frame is good and genuine. Watch those who appear weak and small and understand what they do that makes them this way. Internalise the strong traits, discard the weak ones. Read. Read here, read blogs, read books and learn the theory of how to be self-sufficient,…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:06 PM
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I'm still hunting bro. The only hot girls I see in the gym are cardio bunnies that are there simply to show off.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 02:56 PM
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Her tone was meant to be funny but it just came off butthurt and childish.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 02:54 PM
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The sad thing is, she gets lots of attention from pussy hungry dudes who slot into the "average/fit" category. Not for me thank you, I'll go for the girl who actually lifts.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 02:47 PM
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Force yourself to understand the reason she liked you from the start. Was it because you were a soppy cunt saying you love her? No. Tell yourself that unless you regain that form and strength, she will lose attraction for you and you'll be even more upset. If you are in control she won't leave. She's likely seeing other boys dude. Couple years back I thought a girl and I were becoming exclusive but she was not only chatting to at least 3 boys but sending photos and most likely fucking. All throu…
/r/askTRP03/03/14 02:43 PM
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It's always intrigued me how "Feminism", which sounds in good faith, urges women to become less feminine. I annoys me when I get called misogynistic because I say I find certain things attractive (hair, skin, eyes, voice) on a woman but not others such as her job or the company she keeps. It's just what I like. Strange, because I'd much rather go for a pretty hair dresser than I would a pretty lawyer, even if the achievements are the only difference. There's just something innocent and well mean…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 02:20 PM
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No problem brother, every little bit of experience helps. Just remember that if a girl shoots you down like this, it's only because of how you were to her in that short period of time, it's isn't representative of her rejecting you as a whole. If you learn from it and are able not to feel wounded by the rejection you are only benefiting yourself and moving forward.
/r/askTRP01/03/14 09:59 PM
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Messed it bro, shit happens to all of us. Learn from it, make physical escalation very early on, but I'd say just move on to the next one. If you can handle being friends with her - I never bother - you can see what she can give you, such as advice, links and friendship with her wealthy dad, without having to spend much time with her. She might have some hot friends but don't push that with her. I think you made it seem a little needy so don't just hop to her friends because they'd rip you apart…
/r/askTRP01/03/14 09:36 PM
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Aware
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 09:16 PM
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Bunch of fucking pussy dudes. Speaking up when their words mean nothing, and won't sort the situation out. It's like watching teenage girls bitch behind people's backs. Effeminate dudes, masculine women.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 07:34 PM
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UK here. As soon as I began implementing a tougher presence and and all around, don't supplicate or take shit from people I had a lot more wanted attention from girls. I used to receive lots of unwanted attention, being lots of girls feeling safe that I wouldn't try anything on them. I was their pretty boy who "didn't have the heart" to crusade through girls. But now I'm like this I get respect instead of platonic attention, and girls that would never give out before suddenly are much more forth…
/r/askTRP01/03/14 07:15 PM
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Then you better not be a psycho bru
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 06:53 PM
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Yes, Rural England haha! Have college in a city but they're an even more close minded bunch
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 06:46 PM
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I know I am cocky and mildly narcissistic, but the reason for that is my successes. Even in failure, the blind nescience of that guy is laughable.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 05:48 PM
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/r/funny unsurprisingly. The majority are just Redditors letting everyone know that they don't get any and are sad about it, but feeling better because they're in the same boat as every other guy with zero confidence. If I wasn't super broke or super scared of catching something, because come on I am 34 yr old virgin, my luck is shit, it will definitely be..."yes I did it I had sex!, congrats you have HIV" It's posts like this, which are defeatist, weak and are a refusal to accept that it's his …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 05:42 PM
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It still is naive as I haven't met a broad enough range of people to understand that some really are insecure enough to feel they have to have an opinion on everything. And I'm not about to take myself away from the reality of the situation and make it a "feel good" misunderstanding. But cheers for the pointers bro
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 05:34 PM
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Interesting, I hadn't thought about it from that point of view. I'm still too naive to understand that some people will chat utter shit on stuff they have no idea about. I say nothing if I don't know what I'm talking about and instead listen.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 05:24 PM
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I like how simple this is and how it's very applicable to what I like in a girl.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 05:17 PM
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Other people aren't as self conscious or get as offended as easily as you might do. Not everyone is out to crush you.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 05:06 PM
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Because she's really good at sex from all those cocks she rode in her 20's
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 04:44 PM
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She's a despicable, poor mannered, loud mouthed bitch. She speaks as though her words are golden even though she barely thinks through what she is saying and she ends up getting roasted in that glorious last 10 seconds. Live what you preach and this kind of hypocrisy won't happen.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 04:43 PM
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Same. I staunchly refuse to take drugs like coke etc because my friends was an addict and he was incessantly weak as a man, following what everyone else did. However, I can see people thinking I must be afraid to do drugs. When I spoke to a girl and she asked if I did drugs with my friend, I said I didn't waste my time and money on that shit. And I could see that she was confused, because she liked how I did what I wanted but I could also tell she didn't think I was as cool as my friend because …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 02:45 PM
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Well it does seem that is the circlejerk quote of people who haven't even taken the time to trawl this sub.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 01:44 PM
1

19, discovered the way forward at a very fortunate 17 after my one and only beta fuck up.
/r/askTRP01/03/14 01:42 PM
1

Have just started reading Phillip Pullman's "His Dark Materials" for the third time, and as such I am on the lookout for RPisms and typical character distinctions. The uncle of the main character Lyra, called Lord Asriel is an extreme example of an alpha male. Within the first chapter you already can feel how intimidated other characters are by the man because he is so powerful. He is direct, he leads, he chooses without remorse and does not give a fuck about anything unless it is on the path to…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 01:31 PM
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People are expected to hate the RedPill ("It's a misogynistic thread for deluded neck-beards"), but if you give them the raw, untagged theory they love how truthful and direct it is.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 12:36 PM
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They applaud him now but I can be certain that if you tell the people what his actions represent and that is what makes women desire you, they will shrug it off as blind luck.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 10:08 AM
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This is why I like alcohol, because it alleviates the social boundaries and people can really open up and be themselves without being judged. Unless the person is off their head, the real representation of their underlying persona comes out when everyone is drinking.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 10:06 AM
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So men aren't allowed to develop and change themselves to have a happier life because that "isn't being themselves"? That's an echo of "just be yourself" which is a pathetic quote. Settling for being not great is weak and no girl wants a weak man. No one is born great, we have to work and work at it. Ironic too how women paste themselves in make-up, because that often makes them at least 2 points more attractive - EXAMPLE, which if anything is a con. You can talk to a girl who appears beautiful …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 10:52 PM
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I've done this all too often. Being the one guy who doesn't seek approval from her which makes her interest in you become tunnel vision. But I think that because I'm such an aloof bad boy I continue to do this and whallah! she eventually loses interest. I definitely let my ego get in the way because I feel that I'm so damn good she'll never move on from me, even though she's known me for 20 minutes. Find an opening, change tack and go for it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 07:30 PM
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Same here bro. I understand that's just what girls are like but I can't fathom how anyone, disregarding gender can genuinely think with this level of entitlement. If it was a dude, he'd get bullied.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 07:24 PM
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"Never settle for less than you deserve" Blinded by her own arrogance this one. She's had to do NOTHING to get attention, validation and sex and her naivety makes her feel like it will last forever. Our 20′s are meant to be our selfish years. So what are you going to give back in your 30's? A beef jerky vagina and the inability to be emotionally attached to your man? It's like an offering from the gods!
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:38 PM
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This is really good. I think guys flock to main Reddit is because they're surrounded by dudes just like them... Shy, unconfident, self-conscious and they like to gang up on people because they haven't got the balls to be oppose the majority. I would bet my left nut that if the bulk of true RPer's went to a Reddit convention we'd stick out like a sore thumb because we would be the only ones there who can bring hot girlfriends along. When guys post pictures on Reddit - I don't want to seem judgeme…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:12 PM
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Guys who get no girls will never understand this. They will think they're all perfect, but once someone understands the true nature that they WILL cheat - which can only be learnt from fucking lots of girls, this is the result. He must be feeling so let down by girls. He has slept with loads of women with responsibility (kids/boyfriends/husbands) whom they have left for a quick fuck, whereas he's probably never cheated in his life! Women are shooting themselves in the foot and proving that they …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 01:10 PM
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Interesting. A way I nudged my friend (who is no where near the pit your friend is) toward RP was on a night out when we were both a bit drunk and making our way back to our beds. I pointed out the flaws in his relationship with his girl best friend and asked if she treats him with the respect he deserves to which he said no. She likes to feeling of owning him and keeping him in line while she has her boyfriend as well. If you can get a drunk conversation bending over to the stuff here and maybe…
/r/askTRP27/02/14 09:44 AM
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2 birds, one stone
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 11:00 PM
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"I want to be accepted and treated well without doing anything"
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:58 PM
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There's just zero logical rationalisation... She spouts her reactive feelings and declares them publicly as though they're useful insight. Just avoid feminists, they're troubled people with a major case of tunnel vision.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:52 PM
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BOLD & DETERMINED Victor has many top quality articles here and has begun a series of podcasts which are just built on testosterone, masculinity and self value. It's the first blog I read which built the platform for me to embrace this sub.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:32 PM
1

It's why in films and TV shows nearly everyone loves the main bad-ass character, such as Tony Soprano. Everyone wants to have that "don't give a fuck" attitude and strength to stand up to anyone, with humour and confidence. But when it comes to real life people men don't like people like this because they are often on the receiving end. What I find very amusing is that most of the guys I know who are at the bottom end of the food chain idolise these ultra-alpha characters the most.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:28 PM
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I live by Arnold's; "break the rules". Rules are everywhere, they are in interactions with people, teachers and in most environments you go. Even breaking tiny rules brings a feeling of empowerment and they are often in place to fence off the sheep and only those with the confidence in themselves step out of line and go their own way. I used to make sure I followed the rules because I didn't want to appear rebellious or troublemaking. However when I break them I feel free.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:21 PM
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You leave before he depresses us all that some men can be this pussyfied
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 09:53 PM
2

I play Sudoku on my phone Absolutely glorious. If I can be as unbreakable as this by this time next year I know I have won at life.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 09:50 PM
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Would still slay her
/r/askTRP26/02/14 09:38 PM
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Never listen to a girl when she proclaims her chaste. A few years ago a girl I used to see gave out very early to me, and through my own ignorance and arrogance I believed every word she said about her virginity and I just thought I was the king when it came to getting cute 9/10s. A couple months in she let slip that she loved being eaten out and wanted me to do it "more than anything" but a few months earlier she had told me she'd never had a boy go down on her. She goes out a lot, went on a gi…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 09:28 PM
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You will be slain by everyone in your class, everyone in your year, and everyone in your school. Never bring labelled RP on your public image. It will ruin you.
/r/askTRP26/02/14 09:13 PM
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This isn't ideal RP man. You're "using" it so you can try to turn the tide of a relationship into sex. I think you're likely spinning your wheels and just trying to use any methods to bed her. Develop and live your life and integrate RP into yourself, find new girls. It is unbelievably hard and draining trying to mould a girl into wanting sex with you when she already has built an emotional opinion of you. Stop applying techniques and start assimilating the knowledge into your life. Too many fel…
/r/askTRP26/02/14 09:09 PM
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Haha I'm lamenting it now but will be thankful when I'm older!
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 09:47 PM
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High metabolism young adult. No change in weight after a month when at 3500
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 03:25 PM
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Doubling your caloric intake to 4000 is quite hard at the start!
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:33 AM
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Remember, you aren't the one cheating.
/r/askTRP24/02/14 11:40 PM
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No. I mean she does not have the entitled attitude that all remotely attractive girls have nowadays. Ie: Her self esteem must have soared after her makeover but she doesn't think every boy wants to sleep with her and that she can say whatever she wants just because she's attractive.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 11:13 PM
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I don't buy supplemented protein because of that very reason. It is expensive. I like to make my own shakes which cost a fraction less. All the ingredients are clean and healthy, try blending this up... 2-3 eggs Cup of oats cup of milk Olive oil (don't worry you can't taste it) Peanut butter A banana Extras: double cream, nutella, protein powder
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 11:11 PM
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jack3d
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 07:32 PM
2

This is why I wish fat people would lift weights alongside eating so much because then they'd be big and muscular, not big and fat.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 07:31 PM
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I'd hope she's still got that fat, ugly girl mentality
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 07:29 PM
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If a girl doesn't want a man it is entirely his fault. Always. Sometimes he's not good enough looking but everything else is always in his control. It's why relationships and marriages that fail typically involve a weak man. It isn't normally because his wife sucks, it's because he failed to maintain attraction to her. Then again, if you do find yourself "in the friendzone", once you accept it was your fault why you're there you can regain a lot of power by walking away and refusing to be friend…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 07:24 PM
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Good stuff man! I would go along with using my main account too but a new profile spares me the potential social outcasting if anyone I know found my account. I think I am a lot more blunt and uncensored as this account because of the anonymity which I think is exactly what TRP should be about. Zero bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 05:46 PM
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You only have to look at the vast amounts of men who appease women to know that generalisation is true.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 05:40 PM
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I had absolutely no idea, but I can hardly represent everyone here.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 05:38 PM
2

No way
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 05:24 PM
2

And this would stop people from outside the sub downvoting comments and threads, which are typically on particularly RP posts.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 05:00 PM
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It just shows that women like to follow the female crowd. If their friends are sleeping around before finding some chump to settle with, they want to do it too. They don't want to miss out on sex they don't want to miss out on being different from every other damn girl in the world. Men don't care about this shit. If I somehow found a gorgeous, virgin, RedPill girl I would more than happy to just fuck her. This is why women will typically vary in morals throughout different cultures. They follow…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 04:03 PM
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I laughed my ass off when one of my best friends bought a girl a nice gift for her birthday after knowing her for only a few months, but me? His 8 year best friend? Nope. Not even a card. Go for some beauty creams (like at the Bodyshop if UK) because they don't cost much and the only thing she can possibly dislike is the smell. I don't think I'd ever buy a girl jewellery or a watch because you can easily choose "the wrong one". Don't fork out on one thing that can go wrong, multiple smaller gift…
/r/askTRP24/02/14 03:55 PM
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Definitely. It'll be my goto in Uni next year because who really wants to spend money going clubbing with the off-chance that the girl you may or may not pull is actually a 10/10 without beer goggles on? Far simpler, far easier.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 03:16 PM
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I think it's because this subreddit has constant and consistently interesting material so people could sit and read it all day. Whereas most other subs have a lot of subscribers but they're only there for a quick laugh or to read an eye-catching thread.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 03:13 PM
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Haha true, that's a good analogy, but like I said, from a purely biological standpoint, marriage is not good for the primitive advancement of our race. But without it we wouldn't have everything we have today.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 03:10 PM
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What on earth are you on about? She's an example of a more RedPill woman. I think you have the wrong idea of what white knighting actually is.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 03:10 PM
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Marriage has ruined this. It enables men who otherwise are not strong or good enough to pass on their genes to have children and teach their children the weak man's way through life. Yes, I do think it should be like this because it gives most people a choice to have children if they want to but from a biological standpoint it does interrupt natural selection.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 11:23 AM
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This isn't manipulation by an older man. This is your acceptance of how your relationship works because you truly enjoy it and feel safe. This is how it should be. Don't ever feel pressured into needing to have a quick blast on some nameless cocks because immature, slutty girls tell you too.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 11:19 AM
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You know what you're doing then and obviously have a good core understanding without being too pliant. I agree with your point on "not caring" but there is potential for doxxing or attacking those who post on reddit but frequent TRP. I did it for safety and because this account has no linkage to any other community I may be a part of, people can only find it if they come searching. But you have a generally great outlook.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 11:10 AM
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I don't get depressed as in sad. I might become clinically depressed at one point or another but I don't let myself become depressed because I prove to myself I am worth something by doing something useful. If you let yourself feel sorry for yourself that is being a little bitch, but of course there are reasons why people may develop the illness. Elliott Hulse has an opinion on this
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 10:30 AM
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If you look good and are attractive you can get away with anything.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 10:16 AM
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If you're going to be a part of TRP you can at least try to have some basic understanding of the theory. You should be able to see for yourself that you are not as important to her as she is to you. Move the fuck on, friends who are girls are never as good as male friends and they will never have your back. If you know deep down that you're "in love" with her or whatever, read the sidebar and stop trying to be in her life. You will get no benefit.
/r/askTRP24/02/14 09:22 AM
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Good job bro, the bar will now likely become your best friend.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 09:11 AM
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4-5 sets of regular grip pull ups. Don't worry about reps, just go to failure, by the 3rd set I can barely make 8. I have a 1-3 mins rest between sets. Then I take 3-4 sets of neutral grip chins (the hammer grips in the middle) with the same rest period. Then I will literally do however many sets I wish after I've hit these 7-9 sets (which will be around 100 reps) until either I can't make any reps without needing a long rest period or until my pump starts to disappear. And for me, I get a much …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 09:09 AM
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It's why so many guys utilise PUA methods to get a girl but because they are still intrinsically Blue Pill and only act "alpha", they cannot maintain their frame and power in the relationship and so it ends quickly and makes the guy feel like a failure.
/r/askTRP23/02/14 11:49 PM
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I just had mine now! 1000 calories of high protein, high fat goodness.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 11:45 PM
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Wanting the benefits of porn - making money easily and being validated as sexy. But not wanting the repercussions of porn because she doesn't have accountability. But she's a woman so we don't expect her to.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 11:44 PM
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That's the most serious point in my comment.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 11:41 PM
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Definitely. I got asked by a girl in my class why I wasn't going out while she was. I said I'd rather sit back and chill, chatting to my mates, than having to prepare for endless shit tests of her and girls in the club. But then again I didn't pull that night because I was cooped up staring at my TV in the dark.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 11:33 PM
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From here perhaps? It's a fantastic website by the way. People think "Do unto others as you would have them" But people are far more likely to side with you and do more for you when you get them to invest in you. It also requires a degree of confidence to ask or tell someone to do something. The great advice from that article is to get someone you've just met to do you a favour as soon as possible, however small it is.
/r/askTRP23/02/14 11:28 PM
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A girl I know with horses: Leads along a LOT of boys. Cheated on her boyfriend (who rides horses with her) with me. A girl I have on Facebook with a horse: Always makes depressing, obscure statues as though people care. Posts daily pictures of her riding her horse, feeding her horse, cleaning her horse, shifting the horse's shit. It's insane.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 11:22 PM
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Actively stop yourself giving out of doing favours for people who don't deserve it. Instead start asking for favours.
/r/askTRP23/02/14 11:08 PM
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The greatest thing about training is that you don't need any form of genetic gift. Sometimes we aren't gifted enough to be very good at football, or naturally built enough to play rugby, but lifting caters to any size and you can always get better, stronger, bigger than you were yesterday, last week or last year. I'm a naturally small framed guy and after my time lifting I have gained 30lbs, look like I lift when I wear a fitted T-shirt and have developed an overwhelming sense of confidence and …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 11:00 PM
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Hahah very true, it's all a big excuse for them to capitalise on being the most desirable demographic, and it's all about them! "Discovering themselves" my ass!! when I went to Greece it was about finding and pulling the hottest girls I could reach, and nothing about "finding out about my inner fire and romance". I suppose girls have to guard their chaste... by appearing as virgin as possible but being a slut underneath.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 10:44 PM
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It's as if everything a girl says or does is entirely in selfish, hedonistic interest. It is all one big pit of self denial where the only thing considered is the girl's happiness.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 08:37 PM
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Phwoar! That kicked her back right in the face! This is one of the most egotistical bits of shit I have ever read about a girl. if it happens it happens. Id insist on using protection Some good reasoning right here........... lol I used to see a girl, and she was one of the most beautiful I had ever met with a gorgeous face, 5'3 and boobs too big for her. She told me she was going on holiday to Zante or somewhere with her girlfriends and that was that. I stopped talking to her because the health…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 08:34 PM
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Then become MGTOW because you're gonna get immature shit like this in nearly every girl/woman you come across.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 07:24 PM
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It's just something I have experienced when I don't do what girls expect me too. The more attractive you become to her and the more you play by your own rules, she will try to make you jealous in a variety of ways. Mentioning other dudes is an attempt at that, and you will get it from most girls. When you genuinely start to do well with women you'll realise pretty much all of them are teenage girls in a grown woman's body.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 02:36 PM
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About 5 minutes and zero effort. Right after a club closed, I spotted a fit, blonde cutie and said to my friend what I thought of her. 2 seconds later he marches over to her and says what I thought. She comes over and I walk her to a bar, unnecessarily buying us drinks (SHOULD NOT HAVE DONE THAT) then go hook up on a park bench until the morning. She was a middle class girl, but the entire thing felt very teenagery. I would not say it was good game, I was just fortunate she was attracted to me a…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 11:15 AM
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The girls you sleep with typically are attractive enough to get their emotional needs from other men. Therefore they get sex from you and care from other guys, so she gets everything she wants. Guys who don't get laid get nothing. They get no real care from girls. You can't compare them to girls you fuck because the guys give everything and get nothing whereas the girls do give, but they will also receive.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 11:02 AM
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Might be a placebo, but I'll continue to do it simply because it makes me feel alive.
/r/askTRP23/02/14 10:21 AM
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When women mention other dudes it is often a shit test. I have gotten it a lot, and the tone of their voice is usually airy and in the clouds like they're pretending to be in heaven thinking about this guy. They want to make you jealous, they want to see if you get defensive and the most straightforward, best way to deal with it is to say: "I don't care" Don't mention a girl because that looks like you're competing with her. Just make her know that you have no interest in her talking about other…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 12:13 AM
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Yeah, always trying to feel my arms and back dammit! Those do nothing for me!
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 11:58 PM
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No, no, no. You will achieve the total opposite of what you want. You need to think about some pressing matters here... You want to "be more alpha" but you are doing it by trying to tick certain boxes. You're acting in an entirely self-conscious way. A good way to get started into developing actual power in yourself is by doing what you want and not what others want. It seems you want female (and male) acceptance, and no matter how "alpha" you act, you will be very transparent and people will mo…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 10:59 PM
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I can bet that she had her chances to date an older, financially secure man, but because he didn't have the same fire as the young athletic men around her she threw the opportunity away in order to sleep with them. Now she classes herself as wise because she knows what she did wrong. She has to glorify herself even after her bad decisions. Reminds me of this revolting picture that girls use to rationalise their actions.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 10:37 PM
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So what makes her think men value hers? Oops, entitlement.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 10:18 PM
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You see beauty as a commodity that women can trade for cash at the poker table, except women aren't even players; they are the chips men use to play their own game. This ONLY applies in prostitution between a pimp and a customer. Even then, they still are in for payment. In the real world, it is women making the choice to gamble their looks and chaste for the security of a man. Most women will be players in their youth but the only male players will be those who have worked for their assets. soc…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 10:16 PM
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The alternative male version. Written in utmost sincerity. Points are parallel to original article. Links are NSFW. Edited: Added the extra 4 points from original article 25 Things Men Wish Women Knew Listen to me because I make logical sense and you don't. Men speak a lot less than women. But we actually say what we mean. I have a lot of testosterone, so let me check out other girls, fuck you often and eat your pussy like it's the Last Supper. It's hormonal not personal. The gym is a man's gift…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 09:56 PM
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See further in the comments: u/rebuildingMyself "Women are experts at spending other people's money." But I understand what you're saying, she is still giving away something that is in her possession.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 12:53 PM
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I thought my mum was different because she often drops money in beggars guitar cases / hats but then I realised.... It's my dad's money.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 11:00 AM
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What about self-deprecating humour? I often take the piss out of myself and girls often take really well to me when I do. However I expect that's because I already have relatively high status with the girl(s) in question. Aka, don't use it if you're already low status.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 10:48 AM
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I think this is because women perceive comedians as insecure men requiring validation from other people. I'm quite funny but it's more in the teasing and flirty sense and I can't tell a written joke for my life. As long as the girl is attracted to you - be it looks, way you handle yourself or status, she will laugh at practically anything you say but that's because she wants your cock in her mouth not because she understood your humour. Why do you think girls can't tell jokes? Because they don't…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 10:41 AM
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It is why at a young age, you should be trying to appear as powerful as possible because you likely don't have real power. Us young guys have little money and you've got to make it out like you have power in other forms. It is why guys with good physiques get laid, it's about their appearance of strength. It will die out though because attractive men are expected to have a modicum of wealth as they approach their 30's, which is why you should be preparing your financial resources underneath the …
/r/askTRP22/02/14 10:33 AM
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Then I would seriously not waste your time or gamble your self-esteem by trying to get a girl who already has you worked out. You are at a disadvantage when trying to game a girl you already know platonically. A huge disadvantage. If you want a chance with this girl, you're gonna have to take the heat off her and try to be attractive to girls as a whole. Get talking to other girls, if she sees you doing well with other girls she will likely want a part of you too. Try to distance yourself from h…
/r/askTRP22/02/14 10:25 AM
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Do not communicate or reply to this girl again. Go to the gym, get jacked, absorb all the deep, dark corners of TRP, apply them to your life in every single encounter with every single person. Don't worry about girls at the moment, put all your focus on you and you only (except for your good male friends, but don't go whining to them). You have given yourself twice as much free time to be with yourself now, and this is where you can grow without having a girl questioning every single thing you d…
/r/askTRP21/02/14 10:15 PM
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You benefit from small talk in preventing dead silence but never use it on potential new friends or girls because no one enjoys it. It is often just wasted calories.
/r/askTRP21/02/14 10:06 PM
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I know a girl who works for a little racing bike company surrounded by engineering guys. She uses the word "lads" all the time and her self-regard is in orbit due to the slave-like way the pussy starved boys there treat her. ^<sup>I</sup> ^<sup>am</sup> ^<sup>going</sup> ^<sup>to</sup> ^<sup>rail</sup> ^<sup>her</sup> ^<sup>when</sup> ^<sup>she</sup> ^<sup>breaks</sup> ^<sup>up</sup> ^<sup>with</sup> ^<sup>her</sup> ^<sup>little</sup> ^<sup>wimpy</sup> ^<sup>beta</sup> ^<sup>boyfriend</sup>
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 09:39 PM
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I'd completely stop talking to her, she's probably making you dumber every single text you read.
/r/askTRP21/02/14 09:11 PM
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You're wasting your time here. You simply want a set of instructions so you can lay one girl, it does not work like that. We are here because we want to be able to have solid form and confidence with all girls (and people) we meet after working on it for a long period of time I have no idea how to cultivate her feelings for me further. I suggest leaving this sub if you just want ammo to manipulate this girl into liking you. She is invested in your friend, don't hate him for it, don't hate her fo…
/r/askTRP21/02/14 09:07 PM
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It's just a checklist of what this woman wants compared to what's available. There is nothing helpful, just her shouting of her wants as though you are expected to oblige to them to be worthy enough to date her. Does she not understand that if a guy holds different views to her she will hate his misogynistic ways and blame the "patriarchy" for making this man not do what she wants? There is zero acceptance with this girl. It's either on her terms or not at all. She's definitely used to being opp…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:16 PM
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Very similar to me: boyish features, small bones, average height, I am pretty good looking (albeit in a young boy Justin Bieber type of way) but I still get a lot of attention because I learnt to carry myself in high regard. Just flat out stop looking at your weaknesses. At this point hype yourself up about everything you do and are. Seriously get to the gym too. I am by no means big. I am naturally smaller than a lot of my friends but in a fitted T-shirt I am much more aesthetically pleasing an…
/r/askTRP21/02/14 06:31 PM
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Exactly. I have been friends with one or two guys like this before and it is the most draining, depressive relationship I have ever had. You get nothing back from people like this yet they try to get in on every bit of social status or girls you meet. I was flirting with a girl once and my supposed best friend walked over, jumped into a seat as though he could get involved with some vagina too! It was even as if he did not want me to get her if he couldn't. I have never more wanted to punch some…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 12:18 PM
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This is either a man being a satirical troll or an imbecile of a feminist. I hope to god it's the first.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 09:22 PM
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Agreed, very well put. The entire thing is a multitude of circlejerks. Even RP, but to our defence it is not a simple downvote but a recognition of being "still plugged in" which I quite like. But the majority of our "downvotes" are from TBP of guys who waste their time clicking down arrows on our subreddit as though it will do anything.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 09:20 PM
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A strong intellect won't be at a bar. In the minds of these guys, a strong intellect will be sat behind a computer monitor in their mum's basement. Confidence — or a more refined ability to manipulate a weak intellect? He must be autistic? Surely? This woman is doing these planks a favour; she is telling them what they need to have in order to lay down and secure a girl. None of them have what she (girls as a whole) is after and they all get so damn butthurt about it that they try to warp what s…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 07:19 PM
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r/Gonewild is everything that is wrong with the people who use Reddit. Losers sucking the virtual cocks of often ugly girls who will never in a million years sleep with them. (But of course show them their bodies, for entirely selfish reasons)
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 07:05 PM
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I actively work on making her attracted to me in every single interaction. I never let myself seem too into her, I make little jokes about something she's wearing without undermining her confidence. Everything you say should be backed by your confidence in it and any responses should never make you withdraw what you just said. Never small talk. No one finds that fun and she will get that from dudes who want any excuse to talk to her. Look straight at her. This shouldn't be a fucking bertstare in…
/r/askTRP20/02/14 02:13 PM
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I met this girl who had mutual friends on the train once and I am maybe 2 points above her. She used to go out with a dude I used to know - He seemed an arrogant but insecure guy. Anyway she was very up for progressing our first meeting, by adding me on Facebook and somehow finding my number and texting me as soon as possible. I know I could have taken extreme advantage of this girl who was quite pretty and had a sexy body. But I didn't and after a few weeks of her futile texts she met a boy at …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 01:35 PM
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Same with girls on Twitter. The relatively attractive ones have massively inflated egos compared with attractive girls I know who are not online. It's all a massive attention whoring network with attention whores shunning other attention whores. I'd meet up and fuck many but never never ever date any of them.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 01:10 PM
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And this is always what happens when girls talk to losers about their problems. The guy makes it so clear to the girl that she's dating an "asshole" but she just can't let go of him.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 06:31 PM
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Don't wonder if girls may or may not be interested. Assume all of them are, because you're working on yourself and you know you're a great guy to be around. You only reason you fail is because you accumulate a mentality of failure. Get beefy and strong, (amongst reading the fuck out of this subreddit) and I assure you, that mentality will disintegrate.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 11:46 PM
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You'll also create some tingles in your gf too. Can be damn sure she won't care if you crush one of her "boy best friends"
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 11:34 PM
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I think we can all agree it is good news you are not friends with this nutter anymore
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 11:14 PM
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I don't condone cheating but I think it is much more reasonable for a dude to cheat on a girl than a girl to cheat on a dude. Boys biologically want to spread their seed, whereas girls are naturally more monogamous, so if she cheats it is because she has lost all respect for you. As you can tell with this girl she doesn't even consider cheating or seeing other men, she just wants to control the guy whom she evidently respects and loves.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 11:12 PM
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It's more the the change he did that is impressive. He was far, far worse off than most of us here but turned his life around. Getting more notches in the bed post is far easier than going from being a bottom of the pile fat fuck to getting a girl through developing your self esteem and confidence. The start is hard but to do it again becomes easier and easier.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 04:24 PM
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Every thing I do I always try and go out of my comfort zone into doing something risky. I have messed up these risks more than I care to count but the benefit to failure is that you can learn to reduce your self-consciousness. If I ever mess up I never let it bother me, I never let a slip up break me or embarrass me, I stride forward unperturbed. This active risk taking benefits me if I mess up or succeed and has done wonders to my confidence and self esteem. I find it hard to deal with people w…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 07:35 PM
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Get this on the front page and 50% of Reddit will be subbed within a day. The other 50% will sub to RedPillWomen. Fantastic job buddy, this is a great example to us all here.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 07:20 PM
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Ironic huh?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 11:13 AM
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It's a way of introducing and teaching people TRP through a medium they accept and enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 01:47 AM
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If you're young being fat will kill your chance of getting laid. If you're older and you have other successes, your weight is of less importance. I'm 19, I'm in education, I won't have lots of money, but I can have an awesome physique. That doesn't mean I'll let it go when I'm older and wealthy, it's just a sign of success that people are attracted to.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 01:44 AM
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Publicly I call my associates "friends." Privately, I think of them as associates. Everyone here do this. I used to get all high grounded on things like this and actively say people aren't my friend because I don't think they deserve the title. You can guess that it never did me any favours.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 01:36 AM
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A girl at my college actively tells me: "I don't think you're hot" "I would never sleep with you" but then can't stop herself from putting down any girl I associate with, and trying to make them look less attractive to me. I am a tiny percentage of the dudes she knows that does not put up with her attention seeking shit and am never intimidated or cripple under her shit tests, and my god they are bad. I never believe the stuff girls say and instead listen to their behaviour. It usually gives a d…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 01:30 AM
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Well what a surprise!
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 01:21 AM
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You need to spend more time lurking and absorbing. You're being a very needy dude here - the first being the length of time spent talking to a completely random girl (she is going to think you have nothing better to do) and then you proceed to throw yourself at her by wanting to meet as soon as possible and bombarding her with messages. Take a chill pill, you're at university, get a girls number, forget about it and then after a few days hit her up. A girl will always see your messages, if she d…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 01:20 AM
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This reminds me of a summer party last year. This girl - who always thought she was the queen bee - was doing the typical stumbling and falling into guys shit, and she came over to me and full on cupped her hand round my dick and started rubbing and groping it. I pushed her hand off and make a comment about being fair as I grabbed and felt her tits (they were fucking jooocy) and she looked at me shocked, as if she can't believe I just touched her like that. It's like the concept of you get what …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 12:45 AM
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Strange, how the majority of guys on Reddit are nerdy losers from the posts I've seen. Middle aged men showing pictures of their cats, which are so different and interesting compared to every other cat in the world. They always say exactly the same thing about this sub as though they don't even bother to read it and just repeat comments about it for karma. Load of fucking losers.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 12:37 AM
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A lot, based on personal experience, but 100% it is down to whether you have the humility to accept your imperfections and the willpower to actually take the time to develop something that brings no direct material benefit. I have an omega friend, been it for years, everything he does is pathetic and the likelihood of him changing is nearly zero. He knows he sucks but does nothing about it. He's at a good uni with amazing sports facilities and chooses to fuck about in his room instead of train/m…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 02:27 PM
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I imagine that because you have that intrinsic desire to find a unicorn, you will give every attractive girl you meet the chance to prove to you whether they are or not, and it is this alone that you feel you can be BP to these girls in the hope they love you for it. Don't think that a "unicorn" is a girl that loves low value males, which gives you an excuse to stay low value. They are just like every other girl. You might be sabotaging your own development. Stop thinking about or doing this for…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 12:22 PM
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Agreed. Once I understood what the reasons really were, I knew it wasn't my interaction with the girl but the lack thereof. It wasn't often she had a man come out of nowhere, get her wet on a park bench at 2am and then disappear. Hilarious blunder about the piss though hahah.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 04:47 PM
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I met and got with a girl (7/10) in a bar (who turned out to have a boyfriend) a long time ago. I asked for her number when we parted and she said she wanted me to text her when I wake up. I didn't text her for 2 months, until I met her in the same bar and she told me she was finding it so hard to get over me. I was astounded and thought how the fuck could she like me that much when I only spent a few hours with her yet somehow had strong feelings for me. Got with her a second time that night an…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 02:20 PM
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So she can't be bothered to spend a little willpower on not eating as much shit or spending some time in the gym? It's like she feels women who look great get in shape to spite women who don't look great. Self-absorption at it's finest.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:58 AM
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I am in a class with a girl like this. I converse the way I do with girls I want to sleep with and I believe in myself that I can bed her but I don't lose sleep over it. Plenty more girls that are more straightforward are out there.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 09:55 PM
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I started out 130lbs. Absolutely god damn tiny. I'm stronger and bigger and people can tell that I've spent some time in the gym, BUT I still feel small compared to some guys, typically dudes over 6'1 and that comes down to your mindset and not letting your physique define your confidence and who you are. I can only train bodyweight at the moment as I'm saving for a squat rack, and my weight has stayed the same for far too long. The answer to our troubles is the same for both of us - Eat more. A…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 09:50 PM
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This guy is about as RP as it gets though....
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 09:10 PM
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I got fucking pissed when my entire family, especially my father, of all people, spoke to me about my lifting and said "can't you just be happy with the body you were born with". That's just the same as wondering why someone does anything. "Why can't you just be happy being shit at piano like you were when you were born". I would have to spend a day thinking just to come up with half the reasons why I lift. It's like any hobby - you want to become better at it, and you get confidence, dedication…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 05:56 PM
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There's no logic behind them is there... I have a female friend on Facebook, met her at a gathering a while back and she is ugly, her pictures and statuses are depressing/emo types and I guarantee this is because she receives no validation or attention from boys. She declared that "women are stronger than men" during a discussion and I believe this is because she has had to deal with not having the most important thing for a young girl; good looks. However the strangest part was that she sexuali…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 10:03 PM
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A few years ago in the beta boy days, I would call you an asshole for speaking like this to someone, especially as he seems emotionally vulnerable. But this is a proper kick in the ass and this kid needs to realise everything is up to him and that no one should or will feel sorry for him.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 12:29 PM
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Remember that she is your plate but she is not yours. If you have the mindset that she can go fuck any number of guys as well as you, but you don't care that is a good set up for a successful plate. If you have all these caring, jealous thoughts about her, letting her be a plate is a bad idea because you'll get sad when she does fuck someone else. Work on not giving a fuck before you decide to have strictly sexual relationships with girls, otherwise that pesky oneitis will snap at you just when …
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Personally I would work on making yourself more than a 5 first. Ideally the situation is where she doesn't ignore you simply because you're attractive enough. I would take absolutely zero interest in her. A lot of other guys probably fawn over her so make it known that you are not impacted the same way. If she talks to you or says hi just ignore her. Then if she shouts to get your attention to say hello just say an uninterested "hi" as though she is no big deal. Sometimes girls want to feel abov…
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Likely Test levels, if I haven't lifted for a while or eaten well I feel shit and pathetic. At the end of your showers in the morning, jack it right down to freezing and have a quick full body blast under it. You feel invigorated and I'm certain there are positive (albeit temporary) impacts on your T levels.
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I stopped with a girl who I was making out with in bed before she was about to give me head. She didn't understand how I could say no to her and even though we only made out she grew massively more attracted to me after that night. The mistake I made was not sleeping with or spending time with her shortly after. She started to hate me very very quickly under the guise that I "used her" when I was the one who denied us doing more! Denying a woman sex is unheard of to them (especially the attracti…
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You are correct. My friend is hopeless with girls (for obvious reasons) but has slept with a vast amount from gay dating apps. The reason I made that point is because he is a very flirtatious person and myself being an attractive man also, in comparison to the men he meets on dating apps does leave me on edge. Because of his flirty attitude he often makes suggestive comments or gets a little too physically close for whatever reason. Maybe this is just him and I'm overreacting, but I have never e…
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This is why you don't befriend girls. You either develop emotional attachment to the girl (if BP) or you start to want to fuck her. That is not grounds for a friendship. With nearly every girl I meet I wonder what they look like naked and how they fuck, I never think; "She's nice, she'll make a good friend". With men, I want to befriend them if they're confident, attractive and will provide a mutually beneficial friendship. And of course there's no way sexuality comes into play, unless you're ga…
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Do what you want to do.
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Likely as the pussification of men rose in the 19th century but TRP and the Manosphere is likely recent in the last 10 years or so but that's simply because of the internet. It's not an ideology by one man, it's a gathering of biological truths. It isn't a club with rules or commandments. However, men's clubs and gatherings have been around for hundreds of years so it's no modern phenomenon, and TRP is just another newer model of the same kind of stuff.
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At the start I had to actively and viciously control my frame so that it was "alpha" and that I didn't stoop into submissiveness. The longer you are at it - for me it's been nearly 2 years of being in the manosphere - everything becomes more natural and a habit. Try to immerse yourself in all aspects of alpha traits. Every conversation, meeting, introduction with people you must try and direct the conversation to create comfort with the other person. The more you lead your encounters and cement …
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Personally, you are wasting your time. It is often hard to inject RP knowledge into conversations with guys. Even the guys I expect to be better at taking it do not like how controversial and discrepant the theory is with regular social norms. However it is most successful with dudes who have humility and will recognise and accept their mistakes. I wouldn't even try with this guy. If he's stupid enough to let failure happen to him time and time again he's not worth the effort and will only despi…
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This is exactly what my English teacher was. Aged, ex-slut married numerous times to weak men and has some very misandric views which she took out on the more masculine boys in her classes, aka me out of 3 boys.
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Keep everything subtle. You want her to be thinking and feeling "wow /u/bradyo2 is unlike all the other guys who supplicate me all the time! He's really grown up. I can't believe that I'd sleep with him even though I've known him, like, forever!" I made a big mistake of completely toning down my normal attitude with a girl who was in my class, because I didn't want her to be attracted to me and thus bother me. She is very unattractive, built like a brick, dumpy and she always stinks of fishy vag…
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Definitely. That'll get you the furthest in the long run.
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Very good. I have a friend who girls say is "too intense" He is very attractive and mysterious and got with practically all the hot girls at college a couple of years ago, but they were all intimidated by him. He never really connected with girls and it was his Armani model appearance that got him girls.
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Then good job, keep that up, but then again there are other areas that would be good to work on and expand your boundaries - making friends, extracurricular activities outside school work.
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Stop looking, thinking and talking about the hot girls at your school. If you are with a bunch of loser mates, who do nothing and don't benefit you, find an interest that'll involve you with new boys, and spend time with guys who don't necessarily share your views, but are on a similar road. My lunchtimes were spent in the gym with a load of new good lads in the year below me. That year of befriending them was the happiest year of my 7 at the school. Girls stared and talked about me, boys began …
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Just lifting and doing martial arts will be enough to make some serious changes. Honestly, I had a similar mindset to you, but when I started acting like a man I felt the best I have ever felt. When you dissolve all self-consciousness and insecurity you feel powerful, free and often this leads to you being loved. Once you get the ball rolling a positive feedback loop will occur and you won't want to stop.
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This may be a bit of a chancy opinion but I think you may have low testosterone, even if you're younger (16-25). I was beta-minded a couple years ago. But more than that I had beta-feelings. I was an overthinker, I got emotional, I could connect with girls on an effeminate basis. I was built like K'nex (skinnyfat) and I was certain I was a girl in a boy's body (albeit a weedy one) which is exactly what girls want right? I got into weightlifting because I wanted to play rugby, I started eating pr…
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