This fall I [29] was at a bar and met a solid 9 [23] on her worst day. I've never had any issues picking up women, but this one looked like dark skinned Megan Fox without the fucked up thumbs. I played my cards well as she was getting hit on by and onslaught of dudes. Sat next to her a the bar top and had a long conversation. I asked her to buy me a drink, she gave me a look of disgust, yet proceeded to pull out her wallet and do just that. I tried to get her back to my place, but she had a trifecta of cock blocking warriors. We exchanged numbers and I called another plate.

We texted back and forth over the next few days, and I got her to come over to my place the following Tuesday. We proceeded to finish off a 5th of Jack and banged like rabbits. I had her exactly where I wanted her, after this night I subconsciously went full beta. I was unaware of TRP at this point and was naive to the science behind women.

We continued to bang roughly 2 nights a week over the next few months. I had other plates, but they just couldn't match up to her. I started giving her the upper hand in situations. I would let her choose where we ate, what we drank, when we would fuck, the exact opposite of what attracted her to me in the first place. She drove the mini relationship, and I gave her the keys to do so.

I'm sure you all can see what happened next. She phased me out. Quit responding to my texts etc. She had lost her attraction to me and there was no way to turn back. I sent her 3 texts without response, and that was that. i walked away with what dignity I had left. We have hooked up once more since (she booty called me one random night), but I already put the nail in the coffin. The tingles were gone. After that night she was gone. She is why I discovered TRP. Randomly searching the internets for the science behind beautiful women.

Here is my question to you fine internet strangers. Has anyone had any success regaining Alpha status? Is there anything I can now do to get her back as a plate? I am currently spinning 3, but I can't get this one out of my head. This stems from her ultimately "winning" and the fact I really want to fuck her again. We haven't spoke in a few months. I have made no attempt to contact her. She holds a piece of my dignity, and I want it back. I know this may be a lost cause, but any advice would be greatly appreciated.

TL:DR Met a dime, went full beta. Anyway to turn this around?