If there's one thing i've learned, it's that you should judge a girl on her actions not on her words.

For example: My gf and me live in a relative small town. There's an America guy in town, working here and exploring the world. If I would be in my blue pill days, i would've been threatened by him, he's social, he has seen the world, good looking, he banged some of my gf friends, while still having a girlfriend in another country.

Me and my gf where out on some drinks, slow night, not much people out, except for the American guy. I give him credit towards my gf; he seems like a nice guy, great that he travels the world, fun dude. (I do this to raise my own value, if i would bring him down, it would actually tell my gf that i'm insecure about him, and that he must have something special.)

She breaks him down, he's not interesting, has nothing to say, he cheats on his gf. Not a good word.

He comes over to say hi, gf goes in full attraction mode, flinging her hair, giggling. I'm not fazed and don't lose my frame, and am generally intrested in what he has to say.

Funny thing, weren't you just talking down on this guy? Why would she do this?

Dude leaves, I take my girlfriend home and bang her, end of story.