Note that this is a throwaway as I don't want to post on TRP on my main account.

I would like to start off by saying I have been thankful for find TRP and have been applying this material for my life over the past year and it has been great.

Now on to the problem...

I am an 18 year old college freshmen in my second semester at college. I have had the priveledge thanks to TRP to be able spin some plates and really improve my game but I have problems getting over a oneitis. I met this girl last semester through a program in college. Long story short, I can't date this girl because it is not socially acceptable to date one of your peers in this program. I won't/can't go into detail for sake of possibly being doxxed. Even though this girl was definitely, completely 100% into me I could never make a serious move because it would be seen unfavorable by my peers/ superiors. Plus you shouldn't "shit where you eat".

Anyway, how exactly do you get rid of oneitis? I tried hooking up/ plating other girls and it hasn't helped much. I can't possibly stop contact with this girl because she is in the same type of program as me and I will be working closely with her over the next 3 1/2ish years. Transfering is out of the question. I can't possibly be with her and I want to stop the addiction of a oneitis.