I’m gonna get blasted for this but here goes... dating a chick who is an ex college athlete, D2 soccer at a private liberal arts college. We met at a concert in Mexico & I hooked up within 30 minutes of pulling her. Fast forward some Airbnb’s & food dates, we exclusive now. Anyway this chick revealed to me her deepest darkest secrets in hopes of me accepting her (stupid right? But she’s young). She lost her virginity thru rape & had a self proclaimed “hoe phase” her sophomore year, ran thru about 10 guys drunk at parties until one of em got her pregnant. She was absolutely shit faced couldn’t remember sex or anything, so she aborted obviously. Stopped hoeing supposedly due to the traumatizing incident.

Fast forward more I didn’t care about these things at the time since we weren’t together just fucking & stopped thinking long term about relationships so just casually jumped into a relationship with this chick. She loves me a lot but I don’t ever see myself reciprocating for obvious reasons. My question is, how many women are really that damaged & refuse to admit it? God knows after I break up with her she will never reveal these parts of her past to another man. All women lie no doubt about that, but how can we really measure fidelity in a relationship? Is admitting past mistakes a viable marker cause we’ve all made them. Would appreciate constructive feedback.