Ok so the last date I’ve been on was great. Good banter, she was laughing. I’ve straight up been like after this let’s go to my place and play some Mario kart, drink some fancy beer, etc. and I’ve always pulled it off smoothly. This girl never said no but at the end of that date she was like I’m getting an Uber... I have to wake up early. Which is fair. It’s a Tuesday night. I asked her further questions to make sure she wasn’t Bullshitting me. She wasn’t. Said she had a meeting with Japanese counterparts at 6. I didn’t push it. Said goodbye and gave her a hug and walked away.

Did I fck up by going for the pull the first date? Should you always go for the pull? I ask bc it has hurt me in the past. I’ve had girls say that I’m just trying to fuck. I’m not like autistic about it. I’m tasteful. But Girls always know what’s up...they can tell. It’s up to them whether they want to go along with it or not.

Given that I kinda got rejected when trying to pull, for the second date do I do dinner or just tell her to come over to my place? She did message me first and go out for drinks....