Basically today after 2-3 month of no contact I get call from an ex about some post I made on reddit with my old account, saying how not nice it was etc. I am not going to go into details of that, after I make sure she understands that she is in no position to question me about my posts she tryes to manipulate my emotions and here is how I handle things.

  • She mentions she is seeing one guy now: I say good maybe you can use him to marry and stay in the country you are at (With sarcasm and no bitterness at all)
  • She says something about love etc: I say that after breaking up with her I am 100% sure that I don't want to settle down because single life is amazing again (she knows I have been seeing other people now)
  • She says that she stopped loving me because some shit my family said: I reply by saying "No you stopped loving me because I was weak and that was unatractive to you, but I can't blame dog for biting me just because I did not know it is a dog"
  • She says something about how she respects me: I say i dont respect her at all since respect is something earned by actions which she did not provide.
  • She says it is not cool of me to say she cheated: I say I understand how she wants to protect her reputation but facts are facts and I dont really care about her cheating anymore.
  • I basically end up being really stoic and I felt so peaceful even now. The fact that she has a boyfriend after a month of break up the fact that she cheated on me, I feel very peaceful and they don't seem to bother me at all. I just feel I am on the right track in my life. Seeing my abs again, doing what I love, learning to fight properly, evolving as a person that seems so much more important than some attention/closure seeking bitch with new beta bux.